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Blessing One: Not Associating with Fools 1 a manual of peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living 2 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living A Dhammakaya Foundation Paperback First Edition 2005 Published by the Dhammakaya Foundation EFTA01160176 Department of International Relations 23/2 Moo 7., Khlong Sam, Khlong Luang Patumthani 12120 Thailand Tel. (+66 02) 524 0257-63 Copyright © 2005 by the Dhammakaya Foundation All Rights Reserved. No portion of this book may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system or transmitted, in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording or otherwise, without the prior and express EFTA01160177 written consent of the publisher National Library of Thailand Cataloging in Publication Data Dhammakaya Foundation A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Bangkok: Dhammakaya Foundation, 2005 466p. 1. Buddhism I. Title 294.315 ISBN 974-93135-5-0 Printed in Thailand by : Craftsman Press Co.,Ltd 487/42 Soi Wattanasilp, EFTA01160178 Rajprarop Road, Makkasan, Rajthevee, Bangkok, Thailand Tel: +66-2-2533009, 2533298 Blessing One: Not Associating with Fools 3 May the meritorious fruits accruing from the study of this book be dedicatedfor the benefit of George, Annie, Alice, Lilian, Richard, Harry, Alfred George, Arthur, Norman, Ivan (nee Lee) & Evelyn Ayre, Ellen Mary Stokell, Hannah Carr, George EFTA01160179 & Charles F. Lee, Elizabeth, John & Margaret Curry, Anne Fenwick, Annie Jarman, Dennis George, Dennis Arthur & Malcolm Woods, Emily Mary Casbon, William Jabez & Ethel Dawes, Moses Edmund, Gladys, Hilda, Cecil, Reginald and Marie Heaton wherever they have been reborn. 4 Contents Contents 5 Preface to the First Edition 7 EFTA01160180 The Manual of Peace in Action 10 Abbreviations 18 Orientation 19 BLESSING GROUP I.: TURNING YOUR BACK ON UNWHOLESOMENESS 25 1. Not Associating with Fools EFTA01160181 2 7 2. Associating with the Wise 37 3. Expressing Respect to those worth of respect 51 BLESSING GROUP II.: TURNING TOWARDS WHOLESOMENESS 65 4. Living in an Amenable Location EFTA01160182 67 5. Having done Good Deeds in one's past 77 6. Setting Oneself up properly in life 91 BLESSING GROUP III.: SETTING ONESELF UP IN LIFE 101 7. Artfulness in Knowledge 1 EFTA01160183 03 8. Artfulness in Application 113 9. Artfulness in Usage 119 10. Artfulness in Speech 131 BLESSING GROUP IV.: HARMONY IN THE FAMILY LIFE EFTA01160184 139 11. Cherishing our parents ..141 12. Raising our children 153 13. Cherishing our husband or wife 165 14. Not Leaving one's work undone 177 BLESSING GROUP V.: EFTA01160185 BECOMING A PILLAR OF SOCIETY 183 15. Generosity 185 16. Dhamma Practice 197 17. Looking after one's extended family 205 18. Blameless Work EFTA01160186 213 Contents 6 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living BLESSING GROUP VI.: PREPARATION OF MIND 223 19. Abstaining from Unwholesomeness 225 20. Restraint from Drinking Intoxicants EFTA01160187 233 21. Non-recklessness in the Dhamma 2 43 BLESSING GROUP VII.: INSTILLING ONESELF WITH BASIC VIRTUES 251 22. Respect 253 23. Humility EFTA01160188 261 24. Contentment 269 25. Gratitude 281 26. Listening Regularly to Dhamma Teachings 291 BLESSING GROUP VIII.: INSTILLING ONESELF WITH HIGHER EFTA01160189 VIRTUES 301 27. Patience 303 28. Openness to Criticism .... 311 29. The Sight of a True Monk 3 21 30. Regular Discussion of the Dhamma 331 EFTA01160190 BLESSING GROUP IX.: PRACTICE FOR THE ERADICATION OF DEFILEMENTS 34 5 31. The Practice of Austerities 34 7 32. Practising the Brahma-Faring 357 33. Seeing the Four Noble Truths 371 34. The Attainment of Nirvana EFTA01160191 38 5 BLESSING GROUP X : THE FRUITS OF HAVING PRACTISED UNTIL REACHING AN END OF DEFILEMENTS 393 35. A Mind Invulnerable to Worldly Vicissitudes 395 36. Sorrowlessness 403 37. Freedom from Subtle Defilements EFTA01160192 411 38. The Blissful Mind 421 INDICES I. General Index 425 II. Pali Index 449 III. Index of Similes EFTA01160193 454 IV. Index of Illustrated Examples 456 Preface 7 Preface to the First Edition How this book should be used Most problems in the world can be traced back to the habits of the people inhabiting the world the things we do, say and think until having become used to it. These habits can either be good or EFTA01160194 bad. Supposing you have good habits, the sort of things which you do, say and think again and again will be the things that bring you happiness in life — especially the habit of being responsible for human dignity on a personal level, human dignity of others in society and responsibility for fair economics. All the thirty-eight virtues discussed in this Manual of Peace need to become our habits if they are to be of any use to us — EFTA01160195 simply to know `about' the virtues is of no use to us. The aim in studying this Manual for students of all levels should be to incorporate the virtues as their habits following the following four stage plan: 1. in the short term to learn rules and regulations that protect us from behaviours contrary to the virtues of the blessings; 2. in the medium term to educate ourselves according to the information on each blessing in EFTA01160196 the text to get answers to three questions about the virtue, namely: • `what' they are (concept and definition); • `why' the Buddha taught them (why a particular behaviour was either prohibited or advocated) and; • `how' they can be put into practice in everyday life. 3. Doing that virtue so regularly that it becomes our habit 4. train up the people around you EFTA01160197 to practise the thirty-eight blessings as their habits. The important conclusion we get from this threestage process of acquiring the thirty-eight blessings of life is that we need to look deeply at ourselves to see how many of the virtues we have accrued for ourselves first. We should regard ourselves as still in our infancy as far as the spiritual teachings go, and make the appropriate adjustments. Only when EFTA01160198 we've mastered ourselves can we have something to offer to the world, to reach out to others as a good friend to build up a network of virtue in society. Sources used for this book This book draws primarily on translated transcripts of eighty hours of lectures entitled Monkol Jivit given by the Most Ven. Phrabhavanaviriyakhun (Luang Phaw Dattajeevo), acting abbot of Dhammakaya Temple in Thailand in the mid-seventies to those EFTA01160199 of undergraduate age. The beauty of this lecture series was abundant use of examples from the Buddhist scriptures and also from his own life experiences. A second major source used for this book, which was supposed to summarize materials from the first source into a short book designated for schoolchildren to do revision for their Path of Progress Ethics Quiz Contest was Ven. Maha Dr. Somchai Thanavuddho's Monkol EFTA01160200 Jivit: Path of Progress edition (1982). This latter gives no exam8 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living pies, but offers a more structured version of the Mangala Sutta materials, simplified in a way Asian people can understand. This text misses nothing of the core content of either these two sources. However, after teaching these materials to a group of western Buddhist newcomers in Belgium, there were still many EFTA01160201 questions in the audience's minds left unresolved. Things like respect and gratitude don't come as second nature to westerners. Not drinking alcohol requires more than a fleeting explanation in a western culture. The long lists of meritorious fruits of various virtues had to be replaced as far as possible by `why' rationale and where possible examples of the damage which can happen when certain virtues are neglected. The EFTA01160202 Most Ven. Phrabhavanaviriyakhun's Kainphi Gu Wikrit Chart (2000) helped to illustrate many social ills from the neglect of the Six Directions in this respect. Ven. Maha Dr. Somchai Thanavuddho's Nippan ben atta reu anatta (1999) almost completely replaces the explanation of Nirvana originally given in Blessing Thirty-four. Also some of the illustrative examples have been replaced if repeated. Some have EFTA01160203 been supplemented by western anecdotes. Where sets of Dhamma headings are repeated, they are usually described in full at the first appearance and crossreferenced in subsequent appearances. Finally, wherever possible, illustrative examples and Dhamma headings have been traced back to their scriptural reference in the PTS Pali Buddhist Scriptures to allow students to cross-reference to other mainstream and academic Buddhist works. In EFTA01160204 finding the references and fuller illustrative examples, heavy use was made of Ven. Paiboon Dhammavipulo's Dachanee Thamm Chabab Monkola Soot (1997, 2000, 2002). The resulting version of the Manual of Peace, dubbed the Theatsheet version' in its homepage form has been better received by western audiences, has had a good web readership and is currently being translated into other western languages Who should use this book EFTA01160205 This book discusses key practical virtues in a sequential path of Buddhist practice. As such it offers more than just a dry, theoretical approach to Buddhist study, but can actually form the basis of subjective practice by students. The level of difficulty of this book is designed for: • students of Buddhist studies in the upper secondary. In the U.K. curriculum this book would be suitable for students studying at Key Stages 4 EFTA01160206 + 5. In Scotland, for Scottish Levels SG + HS. Although study of Buddhism at Key Stage 4 is timelimited, use of the index can help students to look in depth on selected aspects of the agreed syllabus. At Key Stage 5, the text can be used for research on project work. • students of Buddhist Studies or Comparative Religion at Bachelors' or Masters' level of university. • This book is useful EFTA01160207 supplementary reading for the GB102 course of the Dhammakaya Open University. • overseas students of the Path of Progress Ethics Quiz Contest • Buddhists or those interested in Buddhism wishing to supplement or consolidate their knowledge of lifestyle-related Buddhist teachings What does it offer to lecturers teaching these courses? Lecturers will find this book has a EFTA01160208 good range of illustrative examples and metaphors to support their teachings or assemblies. Scriptural references are given for nearly every example. Student learning features In each chapter: • Definitions • Links to other chapters • References At the end of each chapter: • Metaphors • Illustrative Examples At the end of the book: • general index EFTA01160209 • Pali index • index of similes • index of illustrative examples Preface 9 Acknowledgements The publication of this book was made possible only by the special efforts of many staff and volunteers at the Dhammakaya Foundation in Thailand. This includes most importantly the source works in the Thai language already mentioned by the Most Ven. Phrabhavanaviriyakhun, Phra EFTA01160210 Maha Dr. Somchai Thanavuddho and Phra Paiboon Dhammavipulo. Thanks also to Phra Nicholas Thanissaro who has translated, compiled and field tested this version of the text in English. Thanks to Phra Jessadah Kittithano for help in tracking down references, to Lalita Prasertnopakhun, Peungpit Poopornanake & Chalom Srijarus (administrative assistance), Anant Kittitawesin (cover EFTA01160211 design), the Dhammakaya Foundation's still photography volunteers (colour photography), Tassin- Sipang-Pangbaramee-Pangboon Boontang, Manop-Vararat-Dhitinand Kawmark, Suwachara S.-Thanachaporn Nishiyama & Sukultra-Sabrina Catts (cover shoot). 10 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Education on inner peace in the style laid before us in this Manual of Peace, is a must for humanity today. EFTA01160212 Modern day education has many shortcomings as illustrated ironically by the fact that the majority of today's disasters, come from supposedly the best educated being on this planet — namely the human being. The trouble with much of the curriculum materials taught in schools nowadays is that they ignore the concept of peace completely. The higher one goes in education, the narrower one's knowledge becomes and the EFTA01160213 further it becomes estranged from the concepts fundemental to peace. Many of the violent acts committed in the world are perpetrated by highly educated persons and often the victims are those who have received little education. Education for peace needs to start by imparting awareness of the consequences of one's own actions to young people — because every action, whether good or bad, has an effect on the EFTA01160214 doer's life and others' lives as well. One cannot afford to be complacent or irresponsible about one's actions. This is why any form of education which advocates certain actions by a student has to have considerations of the peacefulness of those actions built into it, in order to prevent the sort of misdeeds done intentionally or unintentionally that upset society. The sort of education that provides EFTA01160215 awareness of peace issues is known as `Inner Peace Education' (IPE). It is a form of education that helps us know ourselves better and know how to manage life properly. As a result, it is the key success factor behind the world peace that we are striving for. Provision of IPE is not as straightforward as conventional curriculum content. However, as compared with usual spiritual provisions in school, EFTA01160216 it has the advantage of not being based on belief or faith — but rather experience and evidence. It is based on practical knowledge. It's applied knowledge that offers each person an individual approach to true happiness regardless of race, nationality, religion, culture or occupation. It is knowledge that can form a firm foundation to any other form of academic knowledge to guarantee that the applications of that EFTA01160217 knowledge are for peace. It is self-education that you can start upon anytime, anywhere (for as long as you are still a human being!) — and can be practised throughout the day alongside our regular daily activities in order to increase our efficiency and effectiveness. It maximises the efficiency of our time management, rather than being a burden on our time — if a certain period of time each day is allocated to it. It needs EFTA01160218 no formal classroom, and demands no tuition fees either! However, more than conventional education, it demands time, concentration, perseverance, tolerance and goodwill. These are qualities which are too easily eroded away by materialism. It is only students who are determined and motivated who can succeed in their studies of IPE. IPE is not yet The Manual of Peace EFTA01160219 in Action The Manual of Peace in Action 11 widespread because the value and benefits of it are not yet widely known. Furthermore, because it is evaluated on the basis of inner experience, it is difficult to measure success in empirical terms. Nonetheless, great opportunities exist for pioneering work in IPE. There's already a great deal of expertise in this field, with an emerging group EFTA01160220 of people who realize their lack of knowledge concerning peace and who are willing to learn. If we can overcome the obstacles that prevent us from realizing the real nature of peace and avoid the influences of segregation and bias which are so easily instilled by race, nationality and religion — through interactive communication we can really start to understand peace from the inside out. Thus although IPE is derived from EFTA01160221 Buddhist values, it emphasizes key human qualities that transcend cultural differences. It is something that should be a part of every child's education from their earliest years.The idea of IPE is that the attitudes it instils, will not be erased by circumstances. It will remain in a child's character, shaping him to be reasonable rather than emotional when making decisions, instilling a sense of responsibility toward himself, EFTA01160222 his nearest and dearest, his economy, society and the environment. To be studied, IPE concepts need to be translated into learning activities by teachers or parents. By intensive study of advanced IPE, young people can understand themselves better and have a clearer sense of purpose in life. Youngsters, parents and teachers alike like to participate actively in peace education projects as participants and organizers and EFTA01160223 also form an active network of peace volunteers throughout Thailand down to the present day, generation by generation through word-of-mouth. It is important that before becoming organizers and teachers of such programs that they first understand peace and means of nonviolent conflict resolution themselves — under this proviso, the organizers can even be older children organizing activities for their younger fellows. EFTA01160224 During the history of the `Path of Progress' Ethics Quiz Contest, the scale of participation has grown from one person to a small team then a larger and larger one. Over the last thirty years, the lives of total of over twenty million young people in Thailand have been touched by the IPE curriculum — and this can have made no small contribution to peace in the world community — helping children to open up their hearts to listen to EFTA01160225 the teacher inside and understand the reality of life and the world — healing differences, celebrating similarities and promoting world peace through inner peace. PATH OF PROGRESS ETHICS QUIZ CONTEST The main learning activity for implementing IPE amongst young people is the so-called `Path of Progress' Ethics Quiz Contest which has been held nationwide every year in Thailand since 1982. The EFTA01160226 aim of the project is to bring children's ethical development to higher levels resulting in positive behavioral changes in a way that is relevant to those Teachers' round of the `Path of Progress'. Teachers must become familiar with IPE materials & issues before being able to communicate peace values before being able to communicate them effectively to their students. 12 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living of all nationalities, races and EFTA01160227 religions. The `Path of Progress' shares the same curriculum of the Thirty- Eight Blessings of Life described in this Manual of Peace. The number of participants started with 382 in 1982 and rose in 2002 to four million from 13,000 educational institutes — ranging from kindergartens, universities, police and military colleges — students and teachers alike from all over Thailand. The winners of the contest receive plaques EFTA01160228 of distinction from H.M. the King of Thailand and representatives of many international organizations. Besides honorary plaques, winners are granted scholarships and certificates for their success in each category. Case Histories of Schools Participating in the Path of Progress IPE Scheme Suteetorn Kindergarten, Nakorn Prathom, Thailand. "We find that the teachings of the `Path of Progress' programme eminently EFTA01160229 suitable to the curriculum at our school. The `Path of Progress' program helps students realize the value of morality. Students can also adapt these morals to practice in their daily lives. The Home of Peace program (see p.16) focuses more on the practices of the learners, so students can really practice what they have learned. This is the reason why both programs are so beneficial for our school. EFTA01160230 At the beginning, we taught the Manual of Peace to small groups of students. As years went by, more students got interested, so we had to change the workshop format into assemblies. We had such an assembly each day for the students from first to sixth grade. Furthermore, our school has many activities that are involved with morals and ethics. For example, the school will let the students meditate along EFTA01160231 to an audio cassette of meditation instruction. The students usually attend Buddhist services and practise meditation afterwards. Later, the students have their own group discussions to analyze and comment about how they can improve their virtues. Kindergarten infants, do not join the assembly, but they will have a homeroom teacher. Most of the time, the teacher focuses on EFTA01160232 meditation practice. The teaching for them makes heavier use of illustrations to overcome their reading difficulties. Also, they seem to enjoy looking at the pictures too. We once had a boy named Pruchya. He had received an `Olympic' gold medal for winning a math contest. In all his interviews, Pruchya said that he always wishes to be a virtuous person rather than being merely a smart EFTA01160233 one. From listening to his interview, it made us really proud to see that he had lived up to our ideals of a good student. In my opinion too, to be a virtuous child is more important than to be an intelligent one because at least virtuous people can co-exist peacefully in the world. If a person is endowed with self-discipline, they have the potential to develop intelligence and have a EFTA01160234 successful future. When the youth have morality in their hearts, they can differentiate what is right or wrong. They have awareness of the consequences of every action they do. Therefore they perform good deeds for the benefit of themselves, society and the world." Headmistress Interreligious participation in the `Path of Progress'. Christians, Buddhists & Moslems take the teachers' round of EFTA01160235 the `Path of Progress' so that they can accurately pass on the IPE concepts to their schoolchildren. The Manual of Peace in Action 13 School Track Record: • 2,600 students from kindergarten to Grade 6 have joined the `Path of Progress' Ethics Quiz Contest every year from 1990 to present; • first prize winner in the primary school category for 1998; • first prize in the primary school team category for 2000, 2001 and 2002; EFTA01160236 • recognized by the Thai Ministry of Education as `best school for cultivation of virtue in students' Singha Samutra High School, Chonburi, Thailand "The intention of our school in joining the `Path of Progress' scheme was originally only to evaluate the level of knowledge of our students concerning the Buddha's teachings and also to see where our students stood as compared to other schools. EFTA01160237 However, when I saw the students' enthusiasm in joining the competition, I too started to read the book, the Manual of Peace. I started to be involved gradually with tutoring the students for competitions. After teaching for a while, I became fascinated by the Buddha's teachings. I felt that I had become a better person morally as well as spiritually. ' I think one of the reasons has to do with the EFTA01160238 fact that I am teaching Manual of Peace to the students. I mean, can you imagine a person managing to teach Manual of Peace without understanding moral or ethics themselves? I couldn't be like that. So I felt like my attitude towards life has completely changed because of this book. The most rewarding thing I have witnessed is to be able to transfer my knowledge about how EFTA01160239 to conduct good deeds to my students. I try to put the basic teaching from Manual of Peace into all of my mainstream lessons." One single teacher's effort, inspired senior students to organize a tutorial activity of peace for their juniors. Finally it became the most popular club amongst our students." Sompong Hunsadee: Coordinating Teacher School Track Record: • 3,800 high school students from EFTA01160240 Grade 7-12 joining the `Path of Progress' Ethics Quiz Contest every year from 1983 to present; • first prize in the team category for seven years running from 1993-9; • first prize in the individual and team categories for the 19th contest. • first prize in the secondary school team category in 2002. Recovery of a former drug-addict "Ever since I was born, the person I remembered seeing the most is my EFTA01160241 mother. She always taught me to be a good person and to do good things to others as well. Well, you may think I would probably turn out to be just like Qualified teachers instruct their students. Teachers need to be role models of IPE and knowledgable of its concepts to instil virtuous habits in their students. 14 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living other kids but it's not so. It started when I was in high EFTA01160242 school. I had a big argument with my teacher and therefore, I decided to drop-out. I thought school was not necessary any more. Instead of helping my mother, I started to go out every night with my friends. I knew my mother worried about me but I thought I could take care of myself. One night when I went to a friend 's house, one night, he showed me a small pill that looked EFTA01160243 like a painkiller. Curious and ignorant as I was, I decided to have my first contact with drugs. After that, I became addicted to drugs and had to steal money in order to buy them daily. At last, I became the drug dealer myself. At that time, I had no choice. However, I was caught by police and was sent to a juvenile court. My mother then bailed me out from the juvenile prison. The first thing I EFTA01160244 asked her was, "Why did you help me, Mom?" My mother did not say much. Just the sight of tears in her eyes had already killed me. All she said was, "I love you. I can forgive and will always do so, son." After that day, I decided to stop doing all the bad things and avoided getting back into the vicious circle again. I decided to go back to school in order to avoid probation. Though I knew EFTA01160245 that I didn't want to hurt my mother's feelings any more, my subconscious still tempted me to sell drugs to my classmates. There was a big fight in my mind between the good and bad sides. I did not know what to do. Fortunately, when I was at the point of relapse, my teacher persuaded me to join ethics quiz contest called `The Path of Progress'. At first, I saw no point in participating EFTA01160246 in such a program. Then she gave me a reference book Student `Path of Progress' Examinations take place throughout Thailand. Each year more than four million students throughout Thailand participate in the qualifying round of the `Path of Progress' Ethics Quiz Contest at countless provincial centres supervised by IBS volunteers. The Manual of Peace in Action 15 called A Manual of Peace to prepare myself for a contest. I did not know why I went EFTA01160247 through it. Surprisingly, I was very touched by the content the book offered. This book was the turning point of my life. I learned to love myself, my parents, my teachers, my friends and others in a more productive way. I was taught to think wisely before acting, to choose eloquent and useful words to express myself in and to do good deeds towards myself and other people. EFTA01160248 From then on, I avoided people who attempted to poison me with drugs or any other bad things. I stopped coming home late. I tried to help my mother in every way I could. Right now, my mother and I understand each other more. I do well at school and my friends now welcome me to join class activities with them. All I would like to say is a big `thank you' to the Path of Progress. They have EFTA01160249 changed my life. They helped me find the way out of the dark. I will try to help spread the project to more people in my community. There are many young people who are still stuck in vicious circles. They do not know how to go out of them. Please show them the light at the end of the tunnel. And please try to reach us before the mistakes we make in our lives are too grave. EFTA01160250 Mr. Visarut Komkaew Bang Luang Vithaya High School Nakorn Pathom, Thailand This is the true testimony written by one participant of the Path of Progress Ethics Quiz Contest. After receiving this letter in 2000, the IBS interviewed him when he was in Grade 12 and had been elected as president of the student committee. THE INTERNATIONAL BUDDHIST SOCIETY The main coordinator of IPE in Thailand is the International Buddhist Society EFTA01160251 (IBS). IBS was established by a 1960 Alumni of Kasetsart University, Bangkok. After graduation, he took ordination as a Buddhist monk. At present, he is the Most Venerable Phrarajabhavanavisudh (Chaiboon Dhammajayo), President of the Dhammakaya Foundation — a United Nationsaccredited Non-Governmental Organization (NGO) associated with the Department of Public Information (DPI). The founder's EFTA01160252 compassionate mission in setting up the IBS was to further public awareness of ethical issues, particularly in the youth. In the present day, the IBS is an umbrella organization of university students all over Thailand who sacrifice their time to organize ethical activities primarily for youth. Their success is a result of the dedication, hard work and devotion of an all-volunteer staff, many of EFTA01160253 whom are former participants in IBS activities. This is a new wave of student activity boasting nearly 5,000 active members in 2003. Most IBS activities are based on the concept of promoting peace through education. Interreligious participation in the `Path of Progress'. Christians, Buddhists & Moslems take the teachers' round of the `Path of Progress' so that they can accurately pass on the IPE concepts to their schoolchildren. EFTA01160254 16 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living IBS has become a major player in Thai youth development an active role in promoting peace through a variety of peace education programs in Thai society. IBS ACTIVITIES IBS activities are divided into two major levels — the elementary and the advanced. On the elementary level, it aims to instill the normal inner peace core values in a child's mind. EFTA01160255 In order to prepare them for more advanced levels of study when they grow up. Such standards will translate into a child's behaviours and become his own second nature. It's a self- generated rather than an imposed discipline. That's why IPE has long term beneficial effects on its students. On the advanced level, meditation by students consolidates the process of IPE in the long run. Meditation is a good catalyst, EFTA01160256 because it helps youth see and understand themselves better, know their own needs and serve those needs in a more productive way. The IBS see IPE as lifelong education. The main learning activities at the elementary level, used by the IBS is the `Path of Progress' Ethics Quiz Contest' and `the Home of Peace' (HOP). These two projects have about 4 million students participating annually throughout EFTA01160257 Thailand and receive cooperation from 13,000 schools and educational institutions. The `Path of Progress' provides students with a peace manual for students to study as an extracurricular activity and an annual contest to compete in. Winners in each category receive honorific plaques, certificates and scholarships to motivate and stimulate their interest. By reading the Manual of Peace different topics will capture EFTA01160258 each student's imagination according to their disposition. It will guide them to see the good and bad sides of their own character and motivate them to want to improve themselves become more productive. They transform by means of internally derived discipline, rather than discipline needing to be imposed from outside. They change by their own willingness to become a more responsible person. EFTA01160259 The `Path of Progress' is complemented by a second project called the `Home of Peace' — especially to supplement younger childrens' understanding of peace — to see if they differentiate peace and non-peace in their daily lives. The project provides a `diary of peace' for the children to write down their own good deeds and good deeds done toward their parents, teachers and extended family. EFTA01160260 Since any deeds done every day can become habits, the IBS seeks to value to overlook a child's seemingly insignificant good deeds because these might be the root cause of their success in the future. Every child tends to have his or her own hero. If their hero is a worthy role model, it will inspire them to become a virtuous global citizen. On the contrary, with a negative role model, they can become public EFTA01160261 enemy no.1. In this respect, adults play an important role in presenting a model of peace to the young people around them. By reading, writing and practising peace every day, with the co-operation of parents and school, IPE will eventually become a child's second nature allowing them to respond to every situation by peaceful means. For young people who show their readiness to EFTA01160262 Thai royalty & international organizations award plaques. Winners of `Path of Progress' championships in the various categories receive plaques and scholarships from H.M. the King of Thailand and numerous international organizations. The Manual of Peace in Action 17 learn at the advanced level, there are a futher three projects: • Leadership Training Program: this scheme attracts young people by providing advanced EFTA01160263 IPE training in personality enhancement, public speaking, meditation and social affirmation — and it is these young people who go on to become `supervisor' volunteers who organize the `Path of Progress' throughout Thailand annually. • Dhammadayada Ordination Scheme: During the Ordination Scheme, the IPE used includes Buddhist teachings made relevant to the EFTA01160264 needs of young men in Thai society. This activity is rooted in the Thai tradition that when a man reaches the age of twenty he should take temporary ordination as a Buddhist monk for a period to learn spiritual values first hand. This course comprises two months of intense study of IPE. Participants study and practice spiritual values incorporated into their daily routine to make EFTA01160265 sure that improved habits are properly instilled and that those habits will survive the transfer back to daily life when they return to their everyday life. • Ladies' Dhammadayada Training Scheme: the Ladies version of the Dhammadayada training is as intensive in IPE concepts as that of the gentlement, but participants are not required to ordain as nuns. At the advanced level, IPE projects EFTA01160266 seek to train university students who can act as organizers of IPE project managers themselves. It is because of the trainees of these sort of courses that the IBS has managed to run activities such as the `Path of Progress' continuously now for more than twenty years. The unifying feature of the advanced projects for IPE is an increased emphasis on meditation. 18 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps EFTA01160267 towards Enlightened Living A. Aiguttara NikAya (PTS Edition) AA. ManorathapEraAE - AIguttara NikAya Commentary (PTS Edition) Ap. ApadAna (PTS Edition) D. DEgha NikAya (PTS Edition) DA. SumaIgala VilAsinE - DEgha NikAya Commentary (PTS Edition) Dh. Dhammapada (PTS Edition) DhA. Dhammapada Commentary (PTS Edition) DhSA. AtthasAlinE - DhammasaigaAE Commentary (PTS Edition) EFTA01160268 It. Itivuttaka (PTS Edition) J. JAtaka (PTS Edition) KhpA. KhuddakapAEha Commentary (PTS Edition) M. Majjhima NikAya (PTS Edition) MA. Paparica SEdanE - Majjhima NikAya Commentary (PTS Edition) MT. MahAvaOsa-TEkA Mil. Milindapariha (PTS Edition) MNidA. MahA Niddesa Commentary (PTS Edition) Ndl MahA Niddesa (PTS Edition) Nd2 CEla Niddesa (PTS Edition) Nd2A. CEla Niddesa Commentary (PTS Edition) EFTA01160269 PsA. PaEisambhidAmagga Commentary (PTS Edition) PTS Pali Text Society of London S. SaOyutta NikAya (PTS Edition) SA. SAratthappakAsinE - SaOyutta NikAya Commentary (PTS Edition) SadS. SaddhammasaIgaha (P.T.S. Journal 1890) SN. Sutta NipAta (PTS Edition) SNA. Sutta NipAta Commentary (PTS Edition) ThagA. TherAgathA Commentary (PTS Edition) Ud. UdAna (PTS Edition) Vbh. Vibhanga (PTS Edition) Vin. Vinaya (PTS Edition) EFTA01160270 Vism. Visuddhimagga (PTS Edition) Vv. VimAnavatthu (PTS Edition) VvA. VimAriavatthu Commentary (PTS Edition) Abbreviations Orientation 19 A. INTRODUCTION Welcome to the Manual of Peace. This orientation deals with the principles of ethical study and the value of the Thirty-Eight Blessings contained in this manual. The Manual of Peace EFTA01160271 contains subject matter which is not difficult indeed it is very popular in Thailand especially amongst school children where over 4,000,000 annually take examinations in it. In schools where vocational subjects rob the curriculum of more and more time previously dedicated for spiritual studies, the Thirty-Eight Blessings have been forming an extra-curricular recompense in spiritual studies for children in Thailand EFTA01160272 since 1982. A.1 Why study spiritual knowledge ? The first question that comes to mind for many people studying this book is to ask why academic or material knowledge is not sufficient to get by in the world. If a full stomach and a place to sleep were enough to keep the human happy then we wouldn't have to go to the trouble of studying about ethics or about spirituality. However, for every human EFTA01160273 being, there is something deeper inside us which is always searching for the answers to questions on a deeper level — something which seeks for purpose and meaning in the life we live and the world around us. If supporting yourself were all there was to life then certainly millionnaires would be the happiest people on earth. Unfortunately wealth can only buy physical comfort — money cannot buy the means to nurtur e or nourish EFTA01160274 the mind. For all our qualifications and diplomas we might have, none of them can guarantee us against hunger of the mind. On the contrary, the irresponsible people may use their cunning to do more heinous crimes than they would do if they weren't educated. Thus worldly education cannot guarantee us a happy life or guarantee that we will not end up in jail. This is why we make the distinction between worldly and EFTA01160275 spiritual knowledge because spiritual knowledge properly studied can guarantee that we will not be put in jail — it is not only something to fill up our brains — it has transformative power to upgrade the way we think, speak and act. In the ideal world, our system of education would give us the answers we need to the questions inside ourselves, but in practice, the secular education doesn't manage to fill this gap — EFTA01160276 and maybe, even if it were to try, it could not — because in some way the personal quest is part of the process of acquiring knowledge.Thus we are forced to look for the answers from alternative sources. A.2 Fashion and Universal Values Many things can affect our spiritual progress. Sometimes it can be people, objects, attitudes, situations or experiences we come across in the world. However, EFTA01160277 for most things, the worth or uselessness of an experience is just a matter of opinion. Are there things then that have a universally uplifting effect on people's lives that are more than just a mat- Orientation 20 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living ter of opinion? Take present day trademarks which are accepted as status symbols by everyone as an example — EFTA01160278 Mercedes, Adidas — really such companies should pay us to advertise their products, but on the contrary we pay more for a T-shirt with the trademark for the privilege of associating ourselves with the trademark. Why should this be? We feel that associating ourselves with such a symbol somehow improves our own worth. Sometimes we feel that the worth of these things is unchanging, but in fact from age to age these values EFTA01160279 change according to fashion. In times gone by, people thought in the same way, but they didn't call these things `brand marketing', or `trademarks', they called them `lucky charms' — but again they liked to associate with them as a way of improving their worth or fostering progress in their lives. We still have lucky charms in the present day — things like lucky horseshoes or four-leaf clovers, but their role is diminished EFTA01160280 if compared to olden times. In olden times the role of charms was much more significant. Systems of spiritual knowledge are attempts by men to model the values of the world in a way according to unchanging universal values — ways to recognize the things that improve our worth in ways that are eternal and don't differ from person to person. Many bodies of knowledge exist in the world to help us in this respect. EFTA01160281 They differ in their degree of comprehensiveness. The ideal body of knowledge for us to learn from would perhaps be one with the following characteristics: • Progressive & Sequential something which leads you step by step from simple to more complex; • Self-Catalysing creating its own motivation and enthusiasm to pursue it as you go along; • Exhaustive being applicable to all aspects of life; EFTA01160282 • Holistic perhaps dealing with problems not just by symptoms but in their entirety; • Multi-level working on personal, interpersonal, family, social and global levels equally well; • Non-discriminatory being equally applicable to those of all cultures; • Multi-Factorial being able to deal not just with simple problems but with those with many contributing factors; • Facilitating Practical Outlook giving a clear EFTA01160283 EFTA01160284 ou s9np A aIE 'pup& sj0Haq I0TO JO 0SOLp 1SUIU8e &IBM LI0AO puB XlIATSttpX0 fen1Inds 1 pi o1 stualsics 01nos .epa1!JD oSo1.11 JO VOITS palm s0np A tempIds jo stuoisXs Xu1 0 010qI .JOJ 1111U 01 SaLIT141 aAT)-Nod su II0A箋 SB moke " s0sino„ II 0p sn &TEA8 safisoddo 胃uyti砌tp）H • tsanp A 0d pue out puntu 0AOCIU OSIJ 0. sn 8tumoTiu sanivA .gugmadsumi • 伏qdosoI JO X.10otpu 1ou stuomaid tium 1S 01 o01 id longer suitable for an age of globalization and tolerance. Some systems lead their practitioner to shut themselves away from the world and to ignore social problems. Some systems confine themselves to their own culture or language. B. THE MANUAL OF PEACE B.1 Historical Origins of the Manual of Peace The Blessings of Life which make up the Manual of Peace are interesting because they seem to answer EFTA01160285 to all the characteristics specified above. They grew up in response to just the same type of debate over universal values mentioned in the introduction. In fact, even from ancient times, men had values — but at a certain time in the past 2,500 years ago in India a group of people started to wonder whether there was anything deeper behind the fashions — were there symbols of worth that transcended fashion? What sort of charms could EFTA01160286 possibly allow one to live without obstacles'. Supposing one wanted wealth, honour, praise and happiness, how could one ensure that one received just that? There was such a debate ensuing from this question, over which everybody seemed to have a different point of view. To generalize the debators divided themselves into three main camps: 1. The first group believed that the thing to make one's life a blessing was to see EFTA01160287 something that was `pleasing'. 2. The second group believed that the thing to make one's life a blessing was to hear something that was `pleasing'. 3. The third group believed that the thing to make one's life a blessing was the mood in the mind Orientation 21 which arose whenever you saw or heard something that was `pleasing'. Each group disagreed with the others because it EFTA01160288 was obvious that an image pleasant to one person may not be pleasant to another. A sound pleasant to one person might not be pleasant to another. Something that creates a pleasant mood today might cause an unpleasant mood tomorrow. Thus there is nothing to make anything discussed a `blessing' without doubt. The debate went on and on without any sign of coming to an end. It is just like people in the present day can EFTA01160289 still not agree as to what is truly a `lucky charm'. Eventually the problem was only resolved by taking audience with the Buddha. A representative asked the Buddha the nature of blessings and his reply is what is now know as the Mangala Sutta — thirty-eight blessings divided into ten groupings. B.2 Definitions: The Word `Blessings' Some may still wonder about the meaning of the word `blessing' [maIgala]. Some EFTA01160290 people think a blessing must be an object or an action — but by our technical understanding of the word, we translate it as `a cause of prosperity, progress and happiness'. If you want to know the definition, you could say that the progress towards happiness that a `maIgala' will bring is four-fold: 1. progress through acquired wealth (worldly treasure, heavenly treasure and the treasure of Nirvana). 2. progress through wisdom, which EFTA01160291 is the means by which obstacles in life and evil are abated. 3. progress through virtue through the channels of body, speech and mind, at the basic, intermediate and advanced levels 4. progress through the three benefits: benefit in this lifetime, the next lifetime and in the hereafter. A blessing is a sign that positive development is about to take place (to a person, society or the world). Unlike such principles as EFTA01160292 that of deserved fate, the logic of blessings is forward looking, signifying that something good is about to happen. B.3 Principles of Ethical Learning A working computer has two important parts: hardware and software. The hardware of the computer is the wiring and the circuitry. The software is the programming that we install on the computer. The hardware of a computer is neutral, but what makes EFTA01160293 the difference between a beneficial and a degrading computer is the type of software installed. If you install working programs, the computer can be useful. However if you install violent games, viruses or pornography then the computer becomes a source of degradation. The worth of the computer thus depends on the software. A drinking glass is also neutral. What makes the difference between a beneficial and a degrading EFTA01160294 glass is the sort of drink you put in it. If you put a nourishing drink in the glass such as milk then the glass will be an uplifting one welcomed by everyone. However, if you put alcohol or poison in the glass, then the glass is immediately eyed with suspicion. The worth of a drinking glass thus depends on its content. In the same way, a human being has two important parts: body and mind. By body we mean all EFTA01160295 22 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living the blood, bones, muscles and organs associated with the physical body — even the brain, which is a physical organ. By mind, we mean the knowledge and attitudes that constitute our consciousness. The mind is like "the ghost in the machine". The physical components of the human being are also neutral. The difference between a human who is uplifting and one who is degrading depends EFTA01160296 not on the body, but on the mental component. Unfortunately, the software of the human mind is not preinstalled from the factory! When we are born we are born along with an ignorance about all aspects of life. From the time we are children, we spend our life learning in order to fill the gap in our knowledge — to provide ourselves with the knowledge we need for life. The path of our subsequent destiny EFTA01160297 depends on the sort of knowledge we fill ourselves with. We can fill ourselves with either: • accurate knowledge: positive knowledge which is creative and uplifting for ourselves and others, or; • inaccurate knowledge: negative knowledge (comparable to lies to the soul) which is harmful to ourselves and others. Our knowledge increases as a result of influences in our surroundings. The first and EFTA01160298 most fundamental influence on our learning is the sort of people that make up our environment. The second most important influence is the environment in general. Together, these two influences have the potential to instil us with Right View about the world (effectively our core values and assumptions about the world and our attitude to it). The first group (see p.25) which concerns the acquisition of discretion concerns our EFTA01160299 understanding of what is wrong and what is right. Even if someone is knowledgable,if their discretion is faulty, their future is unlikely to be bright. On the contrary those with good discretion but who lack education, at least they will not become a burden on society. It is the basis of Right View [samrnA diEEhi]. Simply avoiding associating with fools will bring us wealth, because we have no risk of spoiling our reputation, our wisdom is also EFTA01160300 not at risk and may be improved — virtue of all sorts will start to flow in our direction. This is the result even of following the first blessing — what more will be the benefit of practising all of the blessings in their entirety. The benefits will be not only to ourself, but to society and to the world as well. The second group (see p.65) concerns consolidating upon the goodness of the discretion you already have through the environment which we inhabit, from the EFTA01160301 habits we have built up for ourselves in the past and by setting a proper aim in life. This style of teaching is characteristic of the Buddha who taught virtue in a way that becomes successively more complex. The third group (p.139) concerns how we can make a contribution to society by our skilfulness, so that we ourself do not become a burden on society and can at the same time be a refuge to ourself in terms of earning our living. EFTA01160302 The fourth group (p.139) progresses from being able to help ourselves to being able to help other people as well. The first people who we must help are those to whom we are indebted: our parents. If we have new people to whom we owe our efforts towards virtue, such as our children and our spouse. Furthermore, we have to be able to divide our time so that neither our responsibilities in the work and in the home are neglected. EFTA01160303 The fifth group (p.183) builds on the strength of virtue we have built up for ourselves in the home, expanding the scope of our virtue wider into societywith generosity, public works. If you have already got your life under control, you will be able to do something for the benefit of society with some sort of efficiency. Those who try to help social works when they have not yet got their own personal affairs under control, may create disasters rather than EFTA01160304 helping others. Those who want to give advice to others but who are unable to speak politely, may make enemies instead of improving the quality of society. Higher groups of blessings deal with the more subtle aspects of training the qualities of the mind in purity. B.4 38 Blessings as an ethical system We find that the Manual of Peace lives up to the demands of an ethical system as follows: 1 Progressive & Sequential: The EFTA01160305 thirty-eight blessings are arranged according to the degree of difOrientation 23 ficulty in practice: the easier ones come before the harder ones. The sequence of blessings begins with external practices, i.e., dealing with gross social behaviours but gradually leading up to the more internal and subtle ones. Following these sets of virtues gives one an impression of climbing up a flight of stairs EFTA01160306 leading to salvation. If you don't associate with the society of the fools, then you enhance the process of associating with the wise. When you are dealing with the first Blessing, you are creating conditions to fulfill the second one. One can say that at the same time you respect those who are worthy of respect. It starts with number one. While you are working to develop number one, it is already EFTA01160307 doing the groundwork for number two and number three — it's progressive. One blessing conditions the next progressively. By doing the first Blessing, you are committing yourself to many subsequent Blessings thereby. By associating with the wise, it is opening you up to many good things; you learn from the wise, you progress — all good things come from associating with other people. So, by EFTA01160308 practicing one Blessing, it will eventually lead to practicing all of the Blessings. And by doing one, you prepare for the other; they are inter-related. This logic is very beautiful, it leads you ownwards step-bystep. It allows you to improve, socially and spiritually, hand in hand with each other. It is like a self-catalysing process in chemistry or a positive feedback process in physics. This makes salvation EFTA01160309 via the thirty-eight blessings a kind of upward spiral, where you move upwards to Nirvana, the highest goal in Buddhist spiritual cultivation, starting from the simplest blessings, and gradually perfecting yourself. 2 Self-Catalysing: When one kind of living blessing comes into existence or is practiced, it will support other kinds of virtues to manifest themselves, and the manifestation of any one blessing EFTA01160310 will lead to development of the next higher blessing in the sequence. 3 Exhaustive: Other mechanisms of spiritual values can easily be accommodated within it. 4 Holistic: Blessings assume the presence of a deeper unseen network of causes and effects which interact together in cycles of positive feedback for the ethical development of society. Blessings can be used as a non-subjective socio-ethical EFTA01160311 checklist, that cuts through self-centred ness that might otherwise lead to superficial social changes (an individual's prosperity, for example, being misunderstood as a sign of social development) because social development that is unethical is by this philosophy, a contradiction in terms. It also provides a holistic mirror to view one's own personality and development. 5 Multi-level: It covers the full spectrum of human EFTA01160312 relations from the interpersonal, through the familial, occupational and communal levels to the social. It offers a holistic perspective of a world governed by interrelating conditions. 6 Non-discriminatory: This philosophy makes no distinction between men and women, lay practice and monastic practice. The set of virtues is not restricted to a particular sort of person or society, but it can be treated as the common EFTA01160313 good that is shared in a particular community or even by the whole of mankind. 7 Multi-Factorial: The Thirty-Eight blessings are a means-ends model of ethics. The ethics of the Blessings escapes the rigid linear dimension of `means' and 'ends' in favour of a multi-factorial causality model. The weakness of consideration in terms of `means' and ends' is seen when trying to establish definitions in a EFTA01160314 complex multifactorial situation. With the lighting of a match, for example, can we say that the match is the means to the production of fire? Are not oxygen, friction and a striking surface also means to the production of fire? If the friction is not sufficient to cause ignition, can it still be considered a means? Is a match struck in a vacuum still a means? Is not Oxygen also an end for the process EFTA01160315 of photosynthesis too? . . . but simultaneously the means for ignition? How would linear ethics tackle the problem of `auto-catalytic' phenomena (better known as vicious circles). If definitions of means and end are so difficult to pindown in such a simple scientific situation, it is hardly surprising that ethics based on `means' 24 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living and `ends' are virtually impossible EFTA01160316 to apply in multi-factorial social scenarios. Unfortunately, the problems found in society are almost always the vicious circles that make application of ethics so difficult. To the question of whether blessings are `means' or `ends', it must be answered that they are both. Putting any one of the thirtyeight blessings into action will contribute towards social development. At the same time, the EFTA01160317 existence (or coming into existence) of any of the thirty-eight blessings is itself an indicator of social progress. Blessings also help to avoid the dilemma of justifying unwholesome means by wholesome ends. 8 Facilitating Practical Outlook: The practice of blessings are effective through reversal of positive feedback loops of decay through the setting in motion of positive feedback loops of development: EFTA01160318 firstly, to check the downward spiral and, secondly, to turn the spiral upwards. Action for social problem solving can start by the effort to replace any one of the thirty-eight counterparts of the blessings by a blessing. Problem solving can start with the local application of any blessing. The blessings encourage personal commitment instead of passing the buck. Once the first blessing comes into being, then it EFTA01160319 will cause an upturn in society, which will ease the accumulation of the next blessing in the sequence. The end-point, said to be the biggest blessing of them all, is to bring all thirty-eight blessings into being in society. 9 Transcending Values: The Manual of Peace does not focus merely on the values of action based on moral principles or intention for the actions, but rather on the modes of our EFTA01160320 relationships in society, environment, family relations, education, communication and spirituality. Yet, the scope of application of blessings can even expand to cover the whole of the human race, with all lives sharing their part in the single commonwealth of morality—the Global Community. 10 Highlighting Opposites: Blessings also reveal the flipside of blessings — the `Bad Omen' or `social curse', which are the sign that EFTA01160321 something bad is about to happen (omens of forthcoming decay). Where there is no development, there must be decay, and to this end the opposites of the thirtyeight blessings are representedby a set of thirtyeight identifiers, like tips-of-the-iceberg, which signal thepresence of a nest of much deeperrooted but invisible social problems. The nature of such problems is, again, that of negative feedback EFTA01160322 loops or `vicious cycles' which lead toward decay. Unsolved, such curse will spread, into ever broadening circles of repercussions with their own vicious cycles. A comparable example in science might be the thermodynamic model of loss of entropy through the dissipation of heat. These are characteristics of the Manual of Peace. In the chapters that follow, each of the thirty-eight Blessings of Life will be explained EFTA01160323 in turn. Orientation 25 The First Group of Blessings "Turning your back on unwholesomeness" Goodness doesn't come unpackaged. It comes as part and parcel of the person who does good deeds and and who exemplifies those good deeds. Goodness is transmitted between people by the example EFTA01160324 a good person sets for others and by a good person's teaching and criticism of the behaviour of a person whose level of goodness is lesser. Goodness is like the food which we eat. It strongly influences of our view and understanding of life and the world.To begin with we have no idea what goodness is. Some people tell us that such and such a thing is good. Others tell us that something EFTA01160325 completely different is good. Who should we believe? And when we ask them why they consider such and such a thing to be good, noone seems to know the answer. Thus if we want to learn how to do good deeds, we have to start making decisions about our lives even from the time we are still unable to tell the difference between good and evil. Although we cannot EFTA01160326 tell the difference between good and evil, there are certain indicators that allow us to tell the difference between people who habitually do good and people who habitually do evil. The first step on this path is the identification of the people who habitually do evil and we make our first step towards goodness by avoiding such people. Our next step towards EFTA01160327 goodness is to associate with people who are habitually good. The third step is to honour those who are habitually good so that we can start to observe the faults in ourselves, by comparison with the higher virtue of those who are worthy of respect. Thus, the first group of blessings is thus almost entirely concerned with being selective about our friends. EFTA01160328 Blessing One: Not Associating with Fools 27 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 First Step on Journey the Most Important For the Manual of Peace, although all of the blessings are important, all of the latter thirty-seven hinge on the first. Thus you could say that of all the blessings the first is the most important. It is like the first tread of the steps leading into a house. If EFTA01160329 you cannot climb this first step, you will spend the rest of your life at the foot of the staircase with no way of getting into the house. You can also think of this blessing "Not Associating with Fools" as being like the first step on a long journey, without which the voyage can never begin. B. DISCRETION: THE IMPORTANCE & FORMATION B.1 The importance of calibrating discretion No-one wants to make a mess of EFTA01160330 their lives. Everyone wants to feel that they are profiting from the years that pass them by to give them a sense of success and achievement in their lives. However, the way each person defines "success", "profit" or achievement in their life will dictate what they channel their efforts into. A businessman defines profit in life in monetary terms so he devotes his time and effort into earning as much as he can. A criminal EFTA01160331 might define achievement in life by "cracking the most impenetrable safe in the world" or "cutting the most corners possible" to maximise the amount of stolen goods he can a mass — so he spends all his waking hours planning his next robbery. A criminal doesn't particularly want to live his life dishonestly, but he thinks that being a criminal is good enough. Although everyone seeks success (in their various ways), in the long run EFTA01160332 they may be left with regrets in their mind. If you ask why a difference of definition of success in life can make such a difference to one's destiny, it is because this "common sense" about the world dictates the decisions we make about the world — and these decisions drive all that we say and do. In the Manual of Peace we call such common sense "discretion" — it is the basic understanding by which we judge EFTA01160333 each experience and situation in the world to know whether it is likely to be beneficial for us or harmful. B.2 Discretion doesn't come unpackaged Discretion is a personal quality we acquire, test and calibrate as a result of the experiences we meet in life. It is not a quality we can get by reading about it, buying it, downloading it or memorizing it. It can only come as the result of our transactions with real people. It is a quality often EFTA01160334 unspoken, but easily learned by example. Thus discretion doesn't come loose, but is part and parcel of the exemplary people who possess it. B.3 Two Formative Influences on our discretion There are two major influences on the formation of discretion in a person. The first major influence is Blessing One: Not Associating with Fools EFTA01160335 28 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living the example of those people we are closest to, such as our family and friends. The second major influence on our formation of discretion is ourselves. Sometimes we call it the ability to be a good teacher to ourselves [yonisomanasikAra]. Even if you have been listening to advice for good or bad friends, you always have to consider advice and justify it to yourself before getting down to EFTA01160336 following the advice. If you have accurate discretion when you consider things, even given faulty data, you will have the common sense to see through the discrepancies and come out with the right decision required by the situation — unlike the man with unreliable discretion, who even when given reliable data, will come to the wrong conclusion. Usually we have to learn discretion from the example of other people by transactions EFTA01160337 with them first, before we can calibrate our "auto-didactic" discretion and come to accurate conclusions independently — because in the beginning we have no idea what constitutes a sensible decision and what constitutes neglect. Thus when we are learning discretion, at first we are very vulnerable to the example set by others. The example they set us may calibrate the way we think for the rest of our life. Thus EFTA01160338 a correct example has the power to correctly calibrate our thinking for the rest of our lives — but conversely, a faulty example may damage the way we think for the rest of our life. C. PROCESS OF ACQUIRING DISCRETION C.1 Benefittingfrom others without catching their bad habits Every time we have a transaction with a person it is like a negotiation or tug-of-war between us to see whose discretion will brush EFTA01160339 off who. In a situation where people are unable to recognize good or bad examples of discretion, then the exchange of "discretion" will be like osmosis flowing from a point of high concentration to a point of low concentration. If Person A has a lot of good discretion and Person B less, then Person A's good discretion will tend to brush off on Person B. If Person C has a lot of bad discretion and EFTA01160340 Person D less, then Person C's bad discretion will tend to brush off on Person D. In practice though, as adults with a degree of life experience, we don't passively let others' habits brush off on us. If we are able to recognize good habits and good discretion then we will open ourselves up especially to absorb them. However, if we recognize bad habits and bad discretion, then we will try to protect ourselves from picking those EFTA01160341 habits up. Thus, normally we are selective— and try (to the best of our ability and discretion) to pick up good habits while avoiding the bad ones. In this way, we can have transactions with others without losing our own virtues under their influence. You can compare it to visiting someone in hospital who has a fever. You can visit them, talk to them and console them — you can do all these things without EFTA01160342 catching their fever, but you would try to avoid having them sneeze over you. There are some sorts of patients and some sorts of illness, however, that are so dangerous that we cannot afford to have any transaction with that person. Such diseases like the plague are so contagious, that it is not safe for healthy people to transact (specifically come into physical contact) with them. Such patients, by the EFTA01160343 nature of their disease need to be nursed in an isolation ward with no visitors. If they were animals, they would be put in quarantine. When considering the transmission of discretion, there are some cases of those so contagiously infected with faulty discretion that despite our immunity or our efforts to be selective, we will nonetheless be infected by their faulty discretion. Even if we EFTA01160344 started with healthy discretion, it would be undermined by the strength of negative discretion of those people — what more the danger if we are still inexperienced and impressionable (perhaps still children or lacking world experience) and don't even know what it means to be selective? These quarantine victims of faulty discretion, whether intentionally so or not, are the first and most fundemental obstacle we EFTA01160345 will meet as we try to acquire blessings in the Manual of Peace we call such people by the technical name of "fools". Blessing One: Not Associating with Fools 29 D. FOOLS: BEARERS OF CONTAGIOUS MISAPPREHENSION D.1 Definition of a Fool A fool is someone wicked, or weak, or feeble. They are made feeble by the fact they habitually think, say and do things that are EFTA01160346 unwholesome. The root of the lack in common sense by which they can justify such unwholesome behaviour is the fact that they don't have their mind centred or under their control. To call such a dangerous person a "fool" might seem like an understatement — because some fools might look like a proverbial giant punching sandbags, a frightening prospect for a rhinocerii, let alone a fragile human being. Thus, how come we EFTA01160347 use the term "feeble" for a fool? A fool is made weak like a person made weak by a serious disease — we do not fear him on the basis of his strength or knowledge or ability to think but because his disease is dangerous. D.2 Four Human Strengths Human beings have four different sources of power: I. Physical Strength: different people are endowed with different degrees of physical strength. Anyone with plenty of muscles and no EFTA01160348 disabilities is endowed with the first storehouse of power. 2. Strength of Knowledge: derived from one's background of education and the experience of passing years. Having the ability to apply educated reasoning in useful subjects is the second storehouse of power. 3. Strength of Thought: Some people go through the same number of classes together. They have an equal amount of knowledge, but EFTA01160349 their ability to think through things using their knowledge may not be equal. Some people know so much, but it is of no use to them when they come to think things through. Someone may know how to mend an engine but sits idle all day long. Why don't they offer their services as a mechanic? Or earn their living in the engine business? Sitting around all day long, waiting for someone to come EFTA01160350 along and find work for them...? We can blame this on their having knowledge but not using the knowledge as part of their thinking. Thus, if anyone uses both their strength of knowledge and their strength of thought, they are at great advantage because they are endowed with the third storehouse of power. 4. Strength of virtue: When one has both the strength of thought and mindfulness of what one EFTA01160351 is doing, when one is using one's knowledge and thought to perform good service to oneself and others, one is endowed with the fourth storehouse of power: strength of virtue. The human being has the potential to be endowed with all four storehouses of power: physical strength, strength of knowledge, strength of thought and strength of virtue. Even if someone is endowed with (some of) these storehouses of power, if their EFTA01160352 judgment is faulty, they will not be able to put their power to full use. If, for example, a foolish guy is physically strong, and may be qualified as a professor with a Ph.D., with plenty of knowledge, but without the ability to think properly, he will be want to apply his mastery of chemistry for dishonest purposes (e.g. distilling heroine). Thus even if you are endowed with only some of the four powers, you can still be classified EFTA01160353 with the fools and those powers are not used to their full potential. At the most a fool can use only three of the storehouses of power. They can use only three of the four. Like a four-cylinder car in which only three of the spark plugs fire — it is of no use to anybody. If you have a four-cylinder car, all four need to work in order to get benefit from any one of the four. Thus, if you know your `cylinders' are damaged, you EFTA01160354 don't need to wait until none of them are left firing before you go for mending! In conclusion, when we define the meaning of a fool as someone weak or feeble, we can see more clearly now that it means that they are weak or feeble in doing good deeds. Now that we know about the risk they present to our discretion and know a little about the reason for a fool's weakness, the next challenge that faces us is EFTA01160355 how to protect ourselves from them. As we shall see, we first need to be able to recognize fools - if we can recognize them, we can more easily protect ourselves from their influence. 30 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living E. RECOGNIZING FOOLS E.1 You cannot tell a fool by external appearances When identifying whether someone is a fool or not, we cannot base our judgement on external appearances EFTA01160356 we must base our judgement on internal features. The things we should avoid basing our judgement on include gender, age, lineage, nationality, connections, knowledge, job or wealth. Although fools are characterized by their habitually evil actions of their body, speech and mind, because all of these three come from within they might not be obvious to us, especially if we are still at a stage in our spiritual maturation when EFTA01160357 our discretion is still inaccurate. Appearances, gender, age, lineage, nationality, connections, knowledge, job and wealth are only indirectly connected with the quality of the mind. When we want to identify a fool, we need to look for behaviours that betray their underlying quality of mind. The sort of behaviours that are most clearly identifiable are those that come out in the context of our interaction and friendship with them. EFTA01160358 E.2 How to Tell a Fool We are not mind readers who can observe how others think. All we can observe are the things which others express openly — that is others' words and actions. Even fools have chinks in their armour which will be revealed as we interact with them — in fact there are five in all: I. They like to persuade others to do evil things: Not only does a fool persuade others to do evil. He will also exemplify those evil EFTA01160359 deeds for others to follow. He might skip work on the slightest trivial pretext and persuade his colleagues to do the same. 2. They like to inteifere with things that are none of their business: A cleaner has the duty simply to keep the office clean, but if instead of doing her duty, she leaves her work undone and spends her time rummaging in the wastepaper baskets for trade secrets, already you EFTA01160360 should be suspicious that she is a fool. A student has the duty to study, but if instead of studying their subject they waste their time on protests against the government — then again they might be a fool masquerading as intelligentia. 3. They like anything that is improper: Fools have a dislike for anything that is right and proper. They like playing with fire. They like taking drugs. They like gambling. They EFTA01160361 like fighting fish. They like the opportunity to put a spanner in the works. You can be sure that anything they like has someone on the receiving end of their suffering. Even if they take the chance to ordain as a monk, they will end up being the one to cause a schism in the order. Their predicament is the same as the one illustrated in the ancient tale of the angel and the worm. (See §G.1 below) EFTA01160362 4. They get angry even when spoken to decently: Suppose a mother warns her daughter to dress modestly before leaving the house in case the neighbours gossip. The daughter might reply angrily that this is how modern people dress. Her mother gave her a perfectly reasonable piece of advice but her own daughter answers back with the verbal equivalent of a slap in the face. Suppose a father advises his son that he EFTA01160363 should be revising instead of going on outings so close to his examinations. "How can you say that?" might shouts the boy. "Didn't you go for outings when you were younger?" Often the other person knows that they are in the wrong, but when they are found out and their fault is discovered, they lose their temper — the mark of a fool. A fool is like a person covered in open EFTA01160364 wounds. If he bumps into something even only lightly, it hurts. For a fool, his mind is covered in wounds, and when confronted with the truth, it hurts. Sometimes even just a glance is enough to provoke him to aggression. 5. They refuse to comply with rules and regulations: Fools heeds neither the laws of the country nor the local customs. If you meet someone who refuses to comply with the regulations, you EFTA01160365 can be 99% sure that you are dealing with a fool. If it wasn't for the law, there would be a lot more opportunity for fools to express themselves through the performing of evil deeds. The law forces fools to have to express themselves less freely or in secret. The law will thus obscure from the public eye the real nature of a fool's mind. It is for this reason that we have to notice the marks Blessing One: Not Associating EFTA01160366 with Fools 31 of a fool from the first four sorts of behaviour mentioned above. If you come across any of these five features, then it should already be ringing warning bells in your head. E.3 The sixteen ways a fool might treat you Some people who may appear on the surface to be friendly, might be fools masqueradingas friends. The Lord Buddha called such people false friends EFTA01160367 [mittapatirEpaka] and categorized them into four types each with four characteristics — giving a total of sixteen forms of behavioural characteristics to look for. With friends like these, who needs enemies? 1. The Mercenary [afilladatthuhara] 2. The Man of Empty Promises [vacEparama] 3. The Flatterer [anuppiyabhAAE] 4. The One who Leads you down the Road to Ruin [apAyasahAya] 1. a mercenary is one who: 1. tries to appropriate your EFTA01160368 possessions; 2. sacrifices little in the hope of gaining much; 3. helps others only when threatened by the same danger; 4. only makes friends to serve his own interest; 2. a man of empty promises who: 1. tells you how sad he is not to have been able to share with you something that has already run out; 2. promises to share with you things they don't yet have; EFTA01160369 3. tries to win your favour with empty promises; 4. has excuses every time called upon to help; 3. a flatterer who: 1. toadies to your evil-doing, 2. toadies to your doing of good; 3. sings praises to your face; 4. gossips about you behind your back. 4. leads you down the road to ruin by: 1. being your loyal drinking companion; 2. being at your side when you roam the streets at unseemly hours; EFTA01160370 3. frequenting games and shows with you; 4. joining you at the gambling table. Such behaviours illustrate sixteen ways in which a fool will unwittingly reveal his lack of responsibility. Besides leading us to ruin, such people lead society unfalteringly in the direction of deterioration in a way which is hard to remedy. If you come across any of these sixteen features, then it should already be ringing warning bells in your EFTA01160371 head. F. AVOIDING THE INFLUENCE OF FOOLS F.1 Puttingfools in quarantine In the words of the old Thai proverb: "Always keep a safe distance give a hound an armslength, give a monkey six feet but for a fool a hundred thousand miles may not be enough." Just as mentioned earlier, when a person has such a dangerously contagious disease as faulty discretion, EFTA01160372 we have no alternative but to isolate them. However, as we shall see it is not physical distance which we use to isolate a fool — it is more on the level of interaction. We have to be careful getting to familiar with them — that is effectively how we keep "psychological distance". F.2 Association Defined When we talk of associating with others, what are the limits of our definition? In fact there are seven different ways in which it is EFTA01160373 possible to associate with others: I. Meeting up with fools. This can be called associating with fools but it is only association in its most rudimentary form. Of course such association might not lead to anything. After all it is just our visiting them and their visiting us. We may not even particularly enjoy each others company. 2. Getting closer. This is once you start getting more familiar with the fools you meet up EFTA01160374 with, start lending things to one another, talking on subjects of common interest, and following common pastimes. 3. Feeling a likingfor one another. This is once you 32 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living start to get more familiar, you start to believe that you have common tastes. You start to believe that you yourself like anything that they like. 4. Respecting them. After a while, EFTA01160375 you start to find that you respect that fool for his particular skills: (e.g. his skill in gambling) and you start to think what good luck it is to have this fool as your acquaintance and an example to follow. 5. Moral Support. After having admired the fool for a long time from a distance, you start to believe anything they think. 6. Joining in. After sharing the same opinions for a long time, you start to join in with their activities EFTA01160376 and follow the same way of life. 7. Influencing and instilling behaviour to one another. In the final stages of association, it is impossible to tell the difference between the fool and his associates. It has also come to the stage when it is impossible to reverse the effects of the fool on his associate. Thus for any reader who realizes that they are under the influence of a fool they should realize too the danger of even casual contact EFTA01160377 with the personality of someone who is a fool. There will be an unavoidable escalation of intimacy even without realizing it. F.3 Practising non-association in everyday life If you want to avoid associating with fools in your everyday life, apart from avoiding social contact with fools as already mentioned, it will be necessary to give special attention to the following issues: I. Prohibit yourselffrom every EFTA01160378 sort of evil andfrom all of the roads to ruin: Don't go thinking that the odd game of poker amongst close friends, or just to keep your hand in, can surely be of no harm to anybody. Prohibit yourself right from the start. This way you will save yourself from tears in the long run. Even if you are someone with weak tendencies in the direction of being a fool, such as liking to get up late and ignoring EFTA01160379 the alarm clock you have set for yourself, you should get tough with yourself right from the start. Prohibit yourself from doing even the most minor unwholesome deeds. 2. Make the break from any evils you may have committed in the past: It doesn't matter what sort of bad habits you might have had in the past — don't give yourself even the smallest chance to relapse. Don't even speak of those things any EFTA01160380 more. 3. Make Your performance of good deeds continuous. There is no need to think over your past failures or entangle ourselves in the guilt of your past bad deeds. Starting from today, you must practise generosity, keep the Precepts, meditate and do the daily chanting — continuously. In this way the scars left by our old way of life will gradually heal leaving only good behavior in its EFTA01160381 place. 4. In the case you have to associate with a fool be especially careful. Sometimes we are put in the situation where we have to associate with fools, even though we don't want to Sometimes, for example, we find out that even our own boss is involved in corruption. If we refuse to have any part in his dealings, we might get sacked. What should we do in such a situation? If we do everything EFTA01160382 he orders, in the end we will pick up his bad habits. Our ancestors had a simile for warning us in such a situation. They said you should be as careful `as if you were warming yourself before the fire. If you stay too close to the fire for too long, you will get burned. If you keep too much distance, then you will be left shivering in the cold'. Thus, just as with the fire, you need to keep the appropriate distance from EFTA01160383 the fool — not too near and not too far. 5. You can associate with a fool only in the case that you are sure you have the capability and steadfastness to help them. Jumping into the water to save a drowning person is only sensible if you are able to swim — otherwise you get two drowning people! Whether you can really help a fool or not depends whether your own virtue is sufficiently steadfast to EFTA01160384 allow you to help them unscathed. If you are not yet sufficiently steadfast then keep your distance — even Blessing One: Not Associating with Fools 33 if they are your own relatives! If you come across a friend who takes no heed of your warnings, however many times you might tell him, you have to resign yourself to helping him out instead when the suffering from their own mistakes EFTA01160385 starts to sink in when the circumstances make him a little more ready to listen. However, if he is not such a bad guy, and you are able to make some impression on him, then try to help him — try to keep him from going under. It's not that you should be hard hearted, but you have to know our own limits and if helping a fool is beyond your capability, you have to withdraw our help and keep our distance in EFTA01160386 order to survive. F.4 Interaction without Transaction Some texts summarize the functions of association as two fold. Others summarize association as a pathway as follows: joining, receiving, and giving. • Joining means eating, sleeping and investing together. • Receiving means taking someone on as one's spouse, one's child, one's employee or as one's extended family. The point where EFTA01160387 we start to associate with them is the point when we take them on. • Giving means that after joining them and taking them on, we give something to them. Such giving includes giving them consideration, praise, encouragement, lodging, food or payment. All of these are included in the definition of association. If you are associating with fools on any of these three levels you should be warned EFTA01160388 to withdraw yourself before sustaining any further damage. F.5 The Varieties of Fools Some people think that they already have enough discretion to choose their friends and thus overlook the importance ofthe first blessing. In fact, even though we may be experienced and adult there is a fool with whom we have to associate cautiously throughout our life — that is our "inner fool". In conclusion, there are two different EFTA01160389 types of fool in the world the fool in the outside world and the inner fool. The inner fool is the little"devil" that seems all too ready to justify your doing the things for which you should know better. They are the erroneous discretion that creep into our heads, and it is our task to put an end to the arising of such fools in the mind. Further to the temptation to be complacent about our ability to recognize fools, it EFTA01160390 should be added that parents have a special responsibility to their exemplar-sensitive children to be cautious about the sort of friends they associate with — and even to choose a school and teacher for their children to help them to avoid associating with fools. This subject is dealt with in more detail in Blessing Thirteen — nevertheless a little extra attention on this front right from the beginning of our study of the blessings EFTA01160391 can help to ensure a bright future for them — preventing tears when it's too late to reverse the problems (like drug-addiction). G.ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES G.1 The Angel and the Worm (traditional) Once upon a time there were two young men who were friends. How they came to be friends no-one knew, because one was found of doing meritorious deeds, while the other did only evil deeds all his EFTA01160392 life — like cockfighting, fish fighting, taking drugs and alcohol. When he was working as a merchant, he would sell only fake goods and stolen goods.When he was a teacher, he wouldn't teach normal subjects to his pupils — he would teach all the shortcuts and loopholes in the law. Even with such different tastes, the two friends managed to maintain both their identity and their friendship until they both passed EFTA01160393 away. When the good guy died, he was reborn as an angel in heaven. The bad guy was reborn as a worm in a lavatory. One day the angel was wondering what had become of his friend. The angel checked every level of heaven but could not find his friend. He checked the human realm, but again his friend was no where to be found.The angel made a further check and was surprised to see that his friend had been born EFTA01160394 as a worm in a lavatory. The angel wondered what 34 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living he could do to help his friend, and tolerated the revolting smell of the lavatory out of compassion in order to stand at the edge of the toilet bowl and make himself known to his friend. Standing at the rim of the toilet bowl, he changed himself into his old human form. "Old friend do you remember me?"asked the EFTA01160395 angel. "Of course," said the worm."We used to be friends a long time ago." "0! Worm! Now I am an angel. Today I have come to do you the biggest favour of your life. I have come to invite you to join the heavenly host. However, there is one condition. If you want to be an angel you have to keep all the precepts without breaking any of them from this day onwards. You must think only meritorious thoughts and do EFTA01160396 meritorious deeds and before long we'll be able to abide in the same heavenly host." "What's so great about being an angel?" asked the worm. "You can get whatever you wish instantly simply by thinking of it. As soon as you think of angelic sustenance, ambrosia manifests itself. If you think of clothing then instantly you are clothed in angelic apparel. If you think of a heavenly mansion, EFTA01160397 then a heavenly mansion arises instantaneously. All you have to do is have the intention and hundreds of good things will come your way. "In that case I don't want to be an angel. I'm better off as a worm thank you." "What do you mean?" asked the angel. "If you are an angel you have to make the wish before you get what you want. As a worm I don't even have to make the effort to think. Excrement in EFTA01160398 the toilet just keeps on flowing into my mouth. Just leave me alone because I'm better off as a worm." In such a case it is obvious that he is so used to his foolish ways that in the end he is beyond help. G.2 Metaphor: Leaves wrapping a stinkingfish Another parable used by the Lord Buddha is that of the leaves wrapping a putrid fish taking on the same putrescant smell of the fish itself. G.3 Metaphor: Burning hovel EFTA01160399 next to a palace Our ancestors had a parable. They said that to associate with a fool, no matter how good we might originally be, is like building a palace next door to a hovel. Whenever the hovel catches fire, no matter how safe the palace is from fire, as soon as the hovel goes up in flames the palace burns down as well, just like the virtuous person destroyed by association with fools. G.4 MahAkassapa's Kuti Burned EFTA01160400 Down by Foolish Student (KuEidEssaka JAtaka J.iiL71) In the time of the Lord Buddha, there was an elder monk of unblemished virtue named Kassapa. He was respected by all of the enlightened monks and other members of the monastic community. Even the Lord Buddha's closest disciple /nanda, had great respect for Ven. Kassapa. It was the norm for the elder monks of the community to accept newly-ordained monks as EFTA01160401 their disciples, in order that those new monks could receive training. Some of the elders accepted more than others in keeping with their ability as teachers. Ven. Kassapa accepted three or four disciples but it turned out that among their number was a stubborn monk, UluIkasaddaka who would listen tono-one's advice. On winter evenings it was the duty of the disciples to boil water for the elder EFTA01160402 monks for them to take a bath in comfort. The stubborn disciple would never boil water for Ven. Kassapa in accordance with his duty. He would always leave the chore of boiling the water to his fellows while going himself to invite Ven. Kassapa to wash as if he had boiled the water himself. Everything else the stubborn disciple did was in the same vain. Instead of going on alms round, if he fancied something special to eat EFTA01160403 the stubborn monk would claim to temple supporters that Ven. Kassapa wanted such-and-such to eat and when they brought such-and-such a food to offer, he would eat it himself. Ven. Kassapa knew what was going on and warned the stubborn monk,"to be so lacking in respect is not in keeping with having ordained as a monk. You must train yourself better than this in Blessing One: Not Associating EFTA01160404 with Fools 35 future."Kassapa warned the stubborn monk continuously, but the only effect of the criticism was to make him feel as if his master was singling him out unfairly for criticism.The more advice he received from his master, the more victimized he felt. Instead of feeling grateful for all the special attention his master had given him, he planned on getting his revenge. He planned the following day instead of EFTA01160405 going out on almsround with the rest of the disciples for the master's breakfast, he'd stay behind, let the master go for almsround himself and burn down the master's kuti while he was gone. In this case it is clear to see the behaviour of a fool who repays a master's advice given with the best of intentions, by burning down his master's house. Ven. Kassapa came back from his almsround to find only ashes where his kuti had stood. EFTA01160406 The disciple had run away. The Lord Buddha heard the story and disclosed to Ven. Kassapa that the stubborn disciple had been a fool causing damage not only in this lifetime, but in previous lifetimes as well: In that previous lifetime, Kassapa had been born as an oriole while the stubborn monk had been born as a monkey. The two inhabited the same tree. The oriole wanted to waste no time in building a nest EFTA01160407 to protect itself from sun, rain and dust but at the same time the oriole warned the monkey, he ought to build himself a nest against wind and rain, sun and dust, because he had perfect gripping hands like a man, and could build a nest even more easily than the bird with her beak. The oriole told the monkey to build its own nest again and again. but the monkey never took any notice. When it came to the monsoon, the oriole EFTA01160408 ducked into the shelter of its nest whenever it rained, while the monkey sat out in the rain sobbing. The oriole felt sorry for the monkey and thought the time had come to tell the monkey to build a nest. Perhaps now that he'd had a good soaking he'd see the value of the advice. Thus the oriole poked its head out of its nest and told the monkey ,"you ought to build yourself a nest against wind and rain, sun and dust, EFTA01160409 because you have perfect gripping hands like a man, you can build a nest even more easily than I can with my beak. As soon as the rain stops build yourself a nest !" The monkey replied,"If I wanted to build a nest I could build one easily but even though my body is like that of a man, my intelligence is the lesser." "You're a strange case," said the oriole. "Some days you go around destroying the nests of others EFTA01160410 but when it comes to the monsoon, you're the only one without a roof over your head. This is the destiny of one ungrateful for the generosity of others. You had better start improving yourself!" The monkey was stirred to anger by the criticism. Soaked to the skin by rain and only insulted further by a bird from inside the comfort of a dry nest, the monkey climbed up the tree to the oriole's nest and pulled the nest to pieces. EFTA01160411 As a monkey he had pulled the oriole's nest to pieces. As a human, he put his own master's kuti to the flame, even though his master had spoken only kind words.These are the identifying features of a fool and are the reason why we have to beware of this type of person. 36 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Blessing Two: Associating with the Wise 37 A. INTRODUCTION EFTA01160412 The second Blessing of the Thirty-Eight, concerns how in our self-cultivation we can successfully close the door on unwholesomeness in our lives, to prevent ourselves from slipping any further back on the slippery slope of spiritual entropy. At this point, when our discretion and sense of conscience is still not very accurate, we are not yet sufficiently versed in spiritual ways to become a Wise One ourselves. However, what we can start by EFTA01160413 doing is to learn how to recognize others who are, and to associate with them so that some of their discretion may brush off on us. A.1 Difference between knowledge and wisdom A wise one is distinguished by his or her wisdom. Before starting this blessing it is important to define this wisdom clearly because being `wise' is not the same as being `educated'. `Wisdom' as intended in this blessing is the discretion as to EFTA01160414 what is real `profit' in our lives as outlined by omission in our description of fools in Blessing One. In fact, being educated is also a blessing, but its details can be found in Blessing Seven. The word "wise one" of this Blessing comes from the Pali word "paAlita" better known in our language as "pundit". Some people believe that you can become a "pundit" simply by getting yourself a graduation certificate from EFTA01160415 a reputable university. In fact if you get yourself a good degree and set yourself up in business and make a success of it, you will earn praise and respect from many other people. However, there are no small number of the more unscrupulous amongst these who find themselves behind prison bars inspite of all their academic knowledge. Thus in spite of all their good intentions it is reasonable to assume that such graduates are EFTA01160416 not truly wise but are only wise in the ways of the world. The sort of wisdom we are interested in, in this section, is the sort of wisdom that will, at the very least, keep you out of jail and ensure wholesome profit for the owner both this lifetime and in the here after. This sort of wisdom is called spiritual wisdom. The best example of the wise man in the present day must have both wisdom of the ways of the world and EFTA01160417 spiritual wisdom to a true example of a wise man. B. THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A FOOL & A WISE ONE We are all people alike, equipped with a body and a mind, so what can be blamed for the different amounts of success people meet with as they go through their lives? Why is it advantageous to associate with one sort of person and not another? If you look at people just on the surface, the reason is EFTA01160418 not obvious. You have to look deeper. B.1 People distinguished by quality of mind In these days of human rights, we do all we can to make people equal, but it is not always so easy. Blessing Two: Associating with the Wise 38 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living When it comes to differences of wealth or access to EFTA01160419 education, it makes sense to give people the maximum of opportunities to help themselves. But where the system of rights breaks down is when people no longer want to help themselves any more — or when people don't even want to live their lives by the rules of decency that bind society together. Of course there are some people who claim that even criminals should be given full human rights and who spend their time feeling EFTA01160420 sorry for sentenced murderers. However, for the most part we accept that when a person's behaviour deviates into violence or vengefulness or cruelty so far as that of a wrong-doer, no matter whether the police catch him or not, that they are no longer dealing with a person like you or me any more. There is a "screw loose" somewhere in the thinking of such people. Even though they might have two arms, two legs EFTA01160421 and a head just like you or me, but there is a difference of mind so great that it makes that person dangerous. Whats more the deviation of thinking of such people is (as discussed in Blessing One) so contagious that it brushes off on the people who associate with them. B.2 Effect of differences in the quality of mind It is differences of mindi that distinguish such people from the rest of the world whose lives are governed EFTA01160422 by discretion.To pinpoint why a fool suffers from faulty discretion, is hard to explain to a person who has never tried meditation. The difference between the mind of a fool and the mind of a wise one is a difference of quality. The mind of a fool is one where the thoughts are confused — a mind which is unyielding and blind. Such a mind is dull and cannot think constructively about any subject. Such a mind is blind to reality. If you EFTA01160423 were to compare such a mind to glass, you could compare it to opaque or frosted glass.Whatever you look at through glass of this type will appear distorted, dark and formless. By contrast, the mind of a wise man is like crystal clear glass. Everything viewed through the glass is crystal clear. Like a clear mirror, you can even see yourself as you really are. You might doubt that the mind, as an abstract phenomenon, could have such a powerful EFTA01160424 influence on our destiny — but the mind is in fact of utmost importance because every dealing we have with the world must pass through the channel of our mind. Consider looking at the world in the mirror. What ever is situated in front of the mirror will show its reflection instantly. Furthermore, a mirror only the size of the palm of your hand is large enough to show the reflection of an entire mountain! All it needs is EFTA01160425 for the mirror to be really clear, that's all, in order to be able to show instantly the reflection of any object, indiscriminable from the real object itself. In the same way, all it takes is for the mind to be really clear and it too can instantly hold, examine and understand anything and everything as it really is. All of this is by contrast with the man who has a clouded mind (who we have compared to a dull or frosted mirror) which can do nothing to facilitate EFTA01160426 clear understanding, who cannot comprehend clearly because his own mind is clouded. Because the mind of a fool is distorted, he sees the world in a distorted way. When everything he sees is distorted, how does he interact with the world? The answer to this question is, "in the way he thinks is appropriate" — namely, according to thought, speech and action which are distorted from the norm. On the contrary, because a wise man EFTA01160427 has a mind that is crystal clear like a diamond he sees the world clearly as it really is. Thus, he can deal with the world in a way that is appropriate on a more cosmic level than the fool who is locked up in his own selfish view of the world. Meditation is the main means by which we can upgrade the quality of our mind. Once we realize the peril of having a mind which is dull, clouded and of generally low quality, we can start to appreciate EFTA01160428 why meditation is so important in the prevention and cure of problems in our lives. B.3 The Ups and Downs of the Mindfrom Day-to-Day Very few people are out and out murderers and plunderers. At the same time very few people are completely pure in mind. The ones who are already "arahants" have no need to waste time reading a book like this. 1. The terms `mind' or `mental' are used in the Asian sense meaning the abstract phenomena of EFTA01160429 `spirit' or `awareness' rather than the western concept of `brain' or `nervous system'. Blessing Two: Associating with the Wise 39 An example of ups and downs in the quality of mind of someone like you or me, who lies between the extremes, is the man who gets up in the morning with the best of intentions and enthusiastically prepares almsfood to offer to the monks. At the time he is preparing the food his mind is as clear as that EFTA01160430 of a wise man. However, even before the monks have arrived on almsround, he has lost his temper, shouting at his children and his state of mind has been reduced to that of a fool. When the monks arrive, his mind is back to a state of clarity as he gives the alms and pours water from the vessel to transfer the merit — he has recovered for himself the clear mind of a wise man. But as he is leaving for work he spoils his state of mind EFTA01160431 again, shouting at his kids for being late for school. As soon as he leaves the house, he gets his temper back. In the best of moods he makes the intention to do the very best he can at work that day — to make every penny of the wage he receives from his employer worthwhile. The black clouds in his mind go over the horizon and he's back in the frame of mind fitting for a wise man. But alas, another car cuts in in front EFTA01160432 of him, someone overtakes him on the inside and thoughts of revenge stir up a storm of road rage in his mind spoiling his quality of his mind and the rest of his day. Don't worry this man is not something special. When talking about such imperfection of mind it is not the same as mental illness — merely inefficiency in our quality of mind. Most of us have the same ups and downs in the course of making our way through life in the EFTA01160433 real world. B.4 Varieties ofpeople If we were to divide people according to the quality of their minds, being very simplistic we can divide people into a minimum of three different types: 1. Those whose mind is usually clouded — the fools; 2. Those whose mind is usually clear — the wise; 3. Those half way in between whose mind is not entirely clear, but at the same time EFTA01160434 their mind is not completely obscured by clouds. This third category represents the majority of good intentioned people in the world. We're not yet free of mental defilements and for this reason we earn the special name of kalyAAabAla. "KalyAAa" means beautiful or good. "BAla" means the fool. Together the two words mean the good-intentioned fool. Sometimes a fool, sometimes a wise man — but not EFTA01160435 a 100% accomplished example of either of the two. Another term often used in Buddhism for this sort of person is puthujana'. The root meaning of "puthu " is `thick'. The root of "jana" means person. Such a thick person doesn't mean that he lacks intelligence, but conveys instead that he has a thick rind or peel — and the thing that makes it thick is the defilements in the mind. In the case of those whose layer of defilements is not EFTA01160436 so thick that they can still listen to reason, they can be referred to as kalyAAaputhujana, because they still have some hope of scrubbing through those defilements to reach the innate wisdom that lies within. The first step for a kalyAAaputhujana in working his way towards his own inner wisdom is to be able to recognize the wise men amongst his acquaintances so that he can pick up on the good character possessed EFTA01160437 by a wise man as his standard in elevating the quality of his own mind. C. DEFINING THE WISE ONE We can define the Wise One in any one of four ways. In effect, the definitions overlap they differ only in emphasis: C.1 Defined in terms of discretion A Wise One is one who has the discretion to discriminate what behaviour is wholesome and what behaviour is unwholesome, specifically: • knowing what constitutes good EFTA01160438 and what constitutes evil; • knowing what constitutes right and what constitutes wrong; • knowing what constitutes merit [puilfia] and what constitutes demerit [pApa] C.2 Defined in terms of behaviour A Wise One is someone who habitually thinks, speaks and acts in a good way. All of the features of 40 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living a wise man discussed so far have all been his external EFTA01160439 characteristics but on closer inspection it turns out that the wise man has several spiritual features that distinguish him from the ordinary fool: 1. The wise one is wont to think habitually in a good way: His habitual way of thinking comprises at minimum: non-greed, non-hatred and right view. Going beyond this, his thoughts are downright wholesome and include loving kindness (in place of non-hatred), generosity (in place EFTA01160440 of non-greed) and right view (in place of wrong view). 2. The wise one is wont to speak habitually in a good way: The wise man is apt to be well spoken in diametric opposition to the fool who has only a babble of insults to decorate his intelligence. There are four ways in which the wise speak good words: 1. He avoids telling lies. The wise one will always speak the truth. He is always a man EFTA01160441 of his word. 2. He avoids divisive speech. The wise man by contrast will always be the one to mend the differences between others by his words. He will be the one to forge harmony within a group. 3. He avoids the use of swear words and harsh words. No matter how angry the wise man is, he will not even consider insulting others. EFTA01160442 The wise man gives careful thought to the every word that escape his lips. 4. He avoids idle chatter. If the wise man knows what he has to say is without use, he will keep it to himself— he will maintain `noble silence'. 3. The Wise One is wont to do only good deeds: The wise one likes to perform physical good deeds with an emphasis on being compassionate [mettA/karunA], getting down to earning an EFTA01160443 honest living [sammA AjEva] and marital fidelity. The fool by contrast is continually killing, stealing and committing adultery. C.3 Defined in terms of virtues A Wise One is wont to demonstrate the following four virtues: 1. Gratitude [katalifiE]: He recognizes the debt of gratitude he may have to others 2. Self-Purifying [attasuddhi]: He purifies himself of all evil 3. Purity [parisuddhi]: He purifies others of all evil EFTA01160444 4. Endearing [saigaha]: makes himself useful to society C.4 Defined in terms of the profit soughtfrom life In Blessing One we have already seen that the discretion concerning the nature of profit in life for a fool is different from that of a Wise One. In Buddhism we have two definitions of profit in life: profit in the short-term and profit in the hereafter. C.4.1 Material profit defined EFTA01160445 (A.iv.281) The Lord Buddha taught four ways in which the wise one accrues benefits in the present lifetime (in Pali the ditthadhammikatthapayojana). In Thai culture they are colloquially referred to as the `four chambers of the millionaire's heart' or more simply, the way to set yourself up in life. As we have said, sitting idle will do nothing to ensure your comfort in life. Comfort doesn't come EFTA01160446 unearned.Thus comfort in one's old age must come from hard work in one's youth, when one is still physically strong enough to be productive in one's work. The wise will, while they are young, store up the means to live comfortably in their old age when they are no longer able to earn. There are four virtues for accruing benefit in the present life. These are: 1. Diligent Acquisition [uEEAnasampadA] i.e. not EFTA01160447 being too lazy to go out and earn a living. Wise is the man who applies himself to the task in hand (not sitting around all day and waiting for money to appear magically) 2. Stewardship [ArakkhasampadA] means both saving and protecting what you have earned 3. Associating with Good Friends [kalyAAamittatA] means the same as associating with the wise — that is the title of this Blessing and to EFTA01160448 avoid associating with the evil especially the sort that are always trying to persuade you to go and gamble or go down to the pub. Blessing Two: Associating with the Wise 41 4. Appropriate Spending: [samajEvittA]. This means being thrifty in spending your earnings. Anyone who has already expended so much effort in earning a day's wage should get full benefit from their own earnings without being EFTA01160449 extravagant and also without being so stingy they don't allow themselves to use their money for any material comfort. C.4.2 Spiritual profit defined (A.iv.284) The wise man recognizes that he cannot live by bread alone and that for all the material wealth he might earn, it cannot buy him spiritual fulfilment. Thus a second important form of profit in life is spiritual profit better known as profit in EFTA01160450 life for the hereafter. This again consists of four virtues to be cultivated during one's lifetime [sampAyikattha-payojana]. I. Faith or Confidence means faith that doing good deeds will lead to good outcomes (for the doer) and that doing evil will lead to bad retribution and giving rise to the commitment to perform the maximum of good deeds throughout one's life. Faith is the first step upon the road to striving EFTA01160451 to do so many good deeds. Sometimes the clarity of peoples' minds is insufficient for their mind to be faithful continuously. They may be faithful when they wake up but later on in the morning the inspiration fades away. The Lord Buddha referred to such faith as `turtle-head faith' because sometimes the faith shows itself like the head of a turtle, but just as often it will disappear out of sight inside its EFTA01160452 shell! This is not the nature of the faith of a wise man whose faith is steadfast and commitment continuous. 'Turtle- head faith' is not so hard to find like the man who takes the Precept in the morning not to kill any living being but as soon as the tiniest of mosquitos tries to bite him he is slapping it as if his good intentions are all forgotten — but the mosquito disposed of he thinks, "Oh! I'm taking EFTA01160453 the Precepts today, all you mosquitos had better get out of my way before I change my mind!" Such `turtle-head faith' is no use to a wise man. With a mind that is crystal clear, a promise even to oneself, is a promise to be kept. 2. The Precepts. You must keep the minimum of Five Precepts as the baseline of one's virtue because the Precepts measure the degree to which you are a person as opposed to being a savage. EFTA01160454 Any time you want to find out to what extent you are human, you can use the Five Precepts as your benchmark. If all five of the Precepts have been perfectly kept, you can conclude that you are 100% human that day. If only four of your Precepts remain intact, you can conclude that you are only 80% human. If only three remain you are only 60% human, your fangs are beginning to show. If only two remain you EFTA01160455 are only 40% human, your fangs are longer and traces of a tail are visible. If only one remains you are only 20% human and the remainder of you is 80% savage. If none of your Precepts remain intact, nothing human remains about you. Try swapping yourself for a dog in anyone's house but no-one will accept the trade in. The dog is worth more than you are. You can fairly say that keeping EFTA01160456 the Five Precepts is the thing that closes the doors of hell. Because Five Precepts are the only thing that underpin our status in the human realm. Thus for the wise man, there is no doubt as to maintaining the Five Precepts and his humanness for the whole time, throughout his life. 3. Generosity: That we are still alive and well today on the long path since our birth is only because we have relied upon the generosity EFTA01160457 of others all along the way. If on the day we were born, our mother had refused us her milk, our first day of our life would have been our last. If all throughout our childhood, our mother, father and relatives had refused us their care and attention, where would we be today? The fact that we have managed to learn to read and write and master knowledge of the world is only because EFTA01160458 our teachers have given their time and energy to educate us all through our schooldays [vidhayadAnaJ. Whenever we have made mistakes, in our childhood and maybe only been punished for it and then forgiven (rather than being put to death for our errors) is because others have been prepared to forgive us our tres42 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living passes [abhayadAna]. When you EFTA01160459 grow up and marry, again you can only get by as a result of the time and energy your spouse gives to support you, sharing mutual earnings. Without such giving the marriage would certainly be on the rocks within the space of seven days. Ultimately, even the pavilion where you go to listen to sermons and the chairs you sit on to listen to it, all originate from the charity of others and that there EFTA01160460 is a monk with the time and energy to give you the sermon is another sort of giving [dhammadAna]. Thus, in addition to faith and keeping the Precepts, it is necessary to be generous too if you are to number amongst the wise. 4. Wisdom [pafifiA]: To be specific, anyone who is diligent in studying the teachings of the Lord Buddha will attain wisdom — the mark of a wise man. Anyone who lies around in EFTA01160461 bed all day has no chance of accruing wisdom. For the wise man, simply developing the four chambers of the millionaires' heart is not enough. He must seek out wisdom too. When it comes to a holiday instead of lying around in front of the TV or going to the cinema, he is already on his way to the temple in the early morning to study what the Buddha taught. This is what we call seeking out wisdom. EFTA01160462 The fool is one whose understanding of profit in life conforms neither to material nor spiritual profit in life. Thus we can say that the wise man is one who understands and works towards profit both in this lifetime and the here after — i.e. both material and spiritual profit in life. C.5 Defined in terms of quality of mind The wise man is one whose mind is habitually pure. A person could be completely unqualified. He could EFTA01160463 even be completely illiterate but if his mind is habitually pure, he is a wise man. The reason for this is that just the fact that the mind is pure has a snowball effect because it sets his standards of judgement and discretion and this alone will ensure that wisdom is invested in everything he does — whether it may be thought, speech or action. D. RECOGNIZING A WISE ONE D.1 Tell-tale Behaviours (5) EFTA01160464 Many of the characteristics of a Wise One mentioned above may not be immediately apparent to us because they are not external features. Thus we may have to look at the following five characteristics which will betray the wholesome inward qualities of someone who is wise: 1. The wise like to shepherd others to live their lives in a proper way. Asked where one can go on a Sunday, he will reply, "to the temple of course EFTA01160465 — don't waste your time going to the cinema." Or passing him in the street, "it looks like rain, you ought to get the harvest in before it spoils." If you were to meet a fool in the same circumstances, he'd give you altogether different advice "it looks like rain, if you're feeling aches & pains you'd be better off down at the bar with a stiff whisky down your throat!" Both the fool and the wise man are persuaders EFTA01160466 but their persuasion leads to different results indeed. 2. The wise takefull responsibility for the things that are their own business. Apart from being responsible, they will influence those around them to be responsible in the same way. What the wise won't do is interfere with other peoples' business. They know where to draw the line in order to avoid nosing into others' affairs. The fool by contrast is often more EFTA01160467 interested in interfering in other peoples' business than he is about taking responsibility for what he's meant to be doing. 3. The wise favour the honest and the decent. Its no use trying to persuade him to be dishonest or unscrupulous, because he is above those sort of things. The fool by contrast is proud of the fact that he can get away with anything. Nothing is too low for him. EFTA01160468 4. The wise man is not easily angered. He is grateful for criticism from others. The fool, by contrast, even if criticized in the politest of ways will lose his temper. Even if someone offers him criticism with the best of possible intentions, he'll turn round with a scowl and answer back, "you've been constantly picking on my faults". Blessing Two: Associating with the Wise 43 If you smile at him, he'll interpret EFTA01160469 your smile as teasing and turn his back on you. Even just speaking to a fool can make him lose his temper. Sometimes you don't even need to say anything. Just seeing you look at him can upset him — "What are you looking at me like that for?" The fool is constantly on the lookout for a fight. The wise man by contrast is hard to stir to anger. Thus if you recognize yourself as hot-tempered, you EFTA01160470 ought to associate with the wise and this will gradually cool down your fiery temper. However, you shouldn't confuse the cool-tempered wise man with the inert and irresponsive character of the sort of guy who sleeps all day and seems to do everything in slow-motion. These dopey sorts are irresponsive to nearly everything around them, but don't think they're free of all defilements. They are another EFTA01160471 breed of person altogether from the wise men we aim to associate with. 5. The wise favour self discipline and orderliness. When we live together in society with a huge number of other people, if we don't comply with the laws laid down in society, we end up as misanthropes. The regulations say that when you are at the temple, at the appropriate time you must come to sit in the main pavilion and sit in EFTA01160472 neat lines, without encroaching on the people sitting next to you, that way there is enough space for everyone and everyone has an equal area to sit in. The fool, however, doesn't respect the rules. He doesn't like obeying anyone or anything. He'll be the only one to sit out of line, sticking out like a sore thumb. He's like a spanner in the works. For temples in general, people go to the temple with the best of EFTA01160473 intention to accrue as much merit as possible but when it comes to mealtimes, they end up fighting to get to the front of the queue like vultures. In the morning they are like angels walking on the Earth, but when lunchtime comes, they are like hungry ghosts! In conclusion, the good thing about associating with the wise is that it will develop our discretion to be that of the wise with whom we associate — or to EFTA01160474 come to the real point — it will allow our mind to become bright and clear like that of the wise man. D.2 Qualities of a Wise One's Friendship Alternatively, the Wise One can also be noticed by his characteristics of being a true friend who exhibits all three sorts of responsibility: • responsibility for his own personal dignity • responsibility for the human dignity of others • responsibility for a fair economic system EFTA01160475 In our association with such Wise Ones, we will be able to recognize their level of responsibility from the quality of their friendship. If we are a good friend to them, then we should see the following characteristics in the friendship which is returned. However, even amongst True Friends, the responsibility can be manifested in different ways. The Buddha subdivided True Friends into four groups. He identified each group by four EFTA01160476 examples of behaviours — giving a total of sixteen characteristics to look for in a good friend. 1. The Helpful Friend [upakaraka] 2. The Constant Friend [samanasukhadukkha] 3. The Friend of Wise Counsel [atthakkhayi] 4. The Sympathetic Friend [anukampaka] 1. a helpful friend is one who: 1. protects you even when you are off your guard; 2. helps protect your property even when you EFTA01160477 neglect it; 3. is your refuge in times of danger; 4. always provides you with twice as much as you asked for; 2. a constant friend is constant in bad times and good: 1. they confide in you; 2. they don't go spreading your secrets around; 3. they don't abandon you when you fall on hard times; 4. they would even die in your place; EFTA01160478 3. they give you good counsel: 1. they warn you against unwholesome behaviour 2. encourage you towards wholesome behaviour; 3. save up new things to tell you; 44 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living 4. point you in the direction of heaven. 4. they empathize with you: 1. they don't laugh at your misfortunes; 2. they congratulate you on your good fortune, 3. they speak out against anyone who maligns EFTA01160479 you, 4. they stand up for those who speak well of you As you can see, all sixteen characteristics of the True Friend are characteristics that lead to the creation of positivity. E. ASSOCIATION E.1 How to associate with the wise (7) The Lord Buddha taught seven features of behaviour which counts as association with the wise. If your association misses out on any of these seven EFTA01160480 factors, it cannot be counted as fruitful association. The seven features are as follows: I. Frequently meeting up with them. If you know that someone has the characteristics of a wise man, you ought to seek him out and visit him regularly. If you hear that such and such a temple has wise people going to it, then that should be the temple you are visiting regularly. This is the first step to true association. Without it no EFTA01160481 association can come about. 2. Make yourself known to them. What this means is that when you have gone out of your way to seek out a wise man, you should make yourself known to them, not sit just out of their line of vision round the corner. Whenever they go to the boxing or the fashion show they are right at the ringside or up against the catwalk, but when they go to the temple and see one of the monks EFTA01160482 coming, they will disappear to the back row of the pavilion. In such a case, even though they have come as far as the temple where the wise are to be found, they cannot be said to have associated with the wise. 3. Sincerety towards them. If there is any affection in your association, you must be sincere to one another — with nothing behind your back. There is no secret which your other half can't ask about EFTA01160483 and get a straight answer. Loyalty means that there is no hidden agenda concerning your association. But even this is not enough. 4. Loyalty towards them. Where in sincerety, your association is bound through affection, in loyalty the association is bound through respect. Thus to make for the best of possible associations you should do nothing to diminish either the love or respect that bonds the relationship. Also EFTA01160484 you should do nothing to interrupt the train of thought of the wise man with whom you have chosen to associate whether it be through careless speech or otherwise. This is what we call loyalty. 5. Help them in times of need. Whenever we notice that our associate (the wise one) is busy with something we could help with, we should offer our help without reluctance. However, if we EFTA01160485 know that our associate has something that we could help with and we keep our silence instead of offering our assistance, we can hardly call our association a friendship. Just imagine if a group of so-called friends all come together at meal time but cannot be found when it comes to time for work. Such a group could hardly be called friends. 6. When free joining up to talk and eat together. EFTA01160486 When the wise have free time they come together to discuss the Dhamma and to clear up their doubts (not to gossip about the neighbours). 7. Reflection on Dhamma and Getting Down to Earnest Practice. This is one of the most important headings. Even if you have diligently followed the previous six steps but omit this seventh step, you cannot call it true association. Also, if you do none of the first six but EFTA01160487 do the seventh one, it is as good as true association, because Dhamma always has the same flavour — it always gives rise to self discipline [stla]: it always gives rise to concentration [samAdhi]: and it always gives rise to wisdom [pafifiA]. Thus even if you have never met your wise associate before, even on your first meeting you will feel as if you have been friends for a thousand years, or EFTA01160488 for many lifetimes because both of you have Dhamma in your hearts — it is Dhamma that binds your association. Blessing Two: Associating with the Wise 45 The behaviour that we refer to as association means that that whatever happens you will do things in togetherness. If there is work you will work together. Accept each others' help, accept the same identity, accept the same place of abode, accept EFTA01160489 work in the same place. If you possess anything, you will be willing to lend it to them or give it to them, giving them possessions or respect. In conclusion the operant parts of the process of association with the wise are sharing, accepting and giving. If you expand upon these three then you arrive at the seven steps described at the beginning of this section. E.2 Principles of Association Like all the groups of people EFTA01160490 closest to us in the world, the best way we can get the virtues of the wise to brush off on us is associate with them as `good friends'. The Buddhist teaching most relevant to the cultivation of a fruitful friendship is the `northern quarter' of the SilgalovAda Sutta which gives us the following practical advice about how good friends should treat each other: The Buddha laid down five examples of duties EFTA01160491 we ought to practice in order to express our responsibility towards our friends: 1. generosity: anyone possessed of Right View [sammA diEEhi] is bound to moved to compassion when seeing others experiencing hardship or suffering — and generosity is the way in which he can ameliorate the lot of friends caught in such a situation, while at the same time strengthening his bond of friendship to that person; EFTA01160492 2. kind words: if a person is able to relinquish the Four Defilements of Action, and has the altruism of a Good Friend [kalyAAamitta] he will be of the habit of speaking only words that are polite and true; 3. helping and actingfor their welfare: endowed with the characteristics of a True Friend, one will have the altruism to want to do things for the benefit of one's friends; 4. being consistent: however well EFTA01160493 one has treated one's friends in the past, one will not suddenly change to treat them better or worse because of force of circumstances. Just because one gets a promotion in rank which is better than that of one's old friend, one will not subsequently look down on him; 5. never telling them lies: as good friend what one says will never deviate from the truth. It is only possible to fulfil the EFTA01160494 demands of these five duties if one has already had the qualities of a true friend instilled by effective upbringing at the hands of one's parents, teachers and employers. In turn those wise friends should practice the following five duties towards us in order to express their sense of responsibility towards us: I. protect us when we are off our guard: learning that we are in the midst of problems as a result EFTA01160495 of our own recklessness, if it happens that such recklessness is not in our nature, if a friend is true, they will intervene and help — if they leave us to our recklessness you can know that they are an enemy in a friend's guise; 2. help protect our property even when we neglect it: such is the behaviour of a true friend; 3. be our refuge in times of danger: willingness to let us rely on them is the sign of a true friend; EFTA01160496 4. not abandoning us in times of trouble: this is the sign of a Good Friend [kalyAAamitta]; 5. show due respect to other members of our family: friends who not only show us respect, but also respect those to whom we have debts of gratitude, our children and grandchildren as if they were part of their own family — are indeed true friends. All five duties of a friend are identifying features EFTA01160497 of a truly Good Friend — if we ever have the luck to come across such a genuine friend, we must take care to associate closely with them, treating them with respect, in keeping with the Buddha's advice: "associate with them respectfully, like a mother to her sons" It is pertinent to observe that such a genuine friend could only arise in the world as the result of an amenable environment (see forthcoming Blessing EFTA01160498 Four), especially those in whose company they grew up, in order for the good habits of those people to 46 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living have brushed off on him and been preserved in his own personality. It is such people that society and nation alike are crying out for — because such a person has tremendous power of virtue stored up inside them — sufficient power to channel the tide of society and economics around EFTA01160499 him down the same virtuous path. E.3 What are the consequences when there are no Wise Ones to befound? If there are no genuinely wise ones to be found in society or if those posing as 'wise' fail to cherish others according to the advice of the Buddha, many sorts of harm arise on individual, interpersonal and social levels. Many of the potential problems can be extrapolated to the relationship between government EFTA01160500 and the citizens it is supposed to be a refuge too. If the government fails to be a Wise Friend toits citizens, it the false friendship brings serious problems on a national level. In conclusion, the harm that arises when there is lack of association with the wise manifests itself on three levels: I. Losing a sense of responsibility for their own human dignity: If friends lack self-discipline and don't fulfil their duties towards EFTA01160501 one another as prescribed by the Lord Buddha, the first level of disaster which will happen to them is that they will lose their sense of responsibility for their own human dignity — this loss giving rise (at the minimum) to the following three undesirable symptoms: 1. Breaking the Five Precepts: Because there is an atmosphere of mutual suspicion, former friends will deceive and lie to each EFTA01160502 other. The pledges of allegiance they formerly kept to one another will be nullified in the way often seen in political circles; 2. Chronic False View: Lacking discretion as to right and wrong, virtue and misdeed, appropriate and inappropriate and the Law of Karma, there is nothing they will not do as a means to procure power, money and personal profit; 3. Mistreats Friends: They might EFTA01160503 resort to back stabbing of former friends in order to procure personal ends; 2. Losing a sense of responsibility for the human dignity of others: If friends lack self-discipline and don't fulfil the duties towards one another prescribed by the Lord Buddha, the second level of disaster which will happen to them is that they will lose their sense of responsibility for the human dignity of others this loss giving EFTA01160504 rise (at the minimum) to the following three undesirable symptoms: 1. Harbours bias: They will lose their sense of fairness and will be continually biased in favour of their own cronies — not with altruistic thoughts for even their own people, but in order to pave the way to personal profit; 2. Disloyalty to homeland: Out of selfishness and False View, they will become EFTA01160505 narrow-minded and unrefined in their thinking. All they will think about is how to maximize the profits they can procure for themselves and their cronies — to the point they will no longer have any sense of loyalty to their own country, religion or nationality — they wouldn't feel any scruples about making a profit, even if they have to destroy the national heritage to do so; EFTA01160506 3. Misuse of rank or position: When they lack any accurate sense of justice, they will attempt to make illegal dealings look legal or outlaw legal things, if it suits them to do so. 3. Losing a sense of responsibility for economic fairness in society at large: If friends lack selfdiscipline and don't fulfil the duties towards one another prescribed by the Lord Buddha, the third level of disaster which will happen to them is EFTA01160507 that they will lose their sense of responsibility for economic fairness in society at large — this loss giving rise (at the minimum) to the following three undesirable symptoms: 1. Corruption: When false view and selfishness get the better of their thinking, they will worship money alone — because they understand that the more money they have, the more power they can gain. Money will be the means EFTA01160508 that they can secure the any position of authority they hold (through bribery). Blessing Two: Associating with the Wise 47 2. Implicated in dealings with the Six Roads to Ruin: When money becomes important above all else, they will have no scruples about taking shortcuts to find it. Of course the most profitable forms of trading are dealing in drugs, forgeries, arms smuggling or casinos — the fact EFTA01160509 that they are illegal or exploit the poorest sectors of society — considerations which mean nothing to those so far alienated from thoughts of fairness in economics; 3. Betrays homeland: if such people find themselves in positions of legislation, because of selfishness and False View, if they can make a `quick buck' from foreign investors, they will not think twice about waiving laws which formerly EFTA01160510 protected their country from foreign exploitation. The problems of lack of association with the Wise can be summarized down to two main points: I. Obvious social problems: In countries such as Thailand, social problems which are out of hand are high-level corruption, partiality of the legal system, degeneration into vice and widespread prostitution; 2. Covert social problems: The EFTA01160511 covert social problems exist in the form of False Friends in positions of influence — whether it be positions in politics, the civil service, government utilities who have less than scrupulous behaviour. Unfortunately what the people see of such public figures — an image of respectability and chivalry — often belies illicit dealings behind the scenes. Such false friendship has its origins in undisciplined parental upbringing, EFTA01160512 undisciplined schooling and eventually, having become a fool, seeking the company of other fools is the final nail in the coffin of true friendship. Possible solutions to these problems are: 1. In the short term are to avoid voting those with the character traits of `false friends' into positions of authority; 2. In the long term are to use the nets of `sixteen characteristics of true friends' and EFTA01160513 `sixteen characteristics of false friends' to identify and replacing the weaknesses in yourself with virtues starting with yourself associating with the wise so that their good virtues can brush off on you too. F. VARIETIES OF WISE ONES F.1 Inner teacher, outer teacher Broadly speaking, there are two categories of the wise — the outer wise ones and the inner wise ones. The outer wise ones can be subdivided into the wise EFTA01160514 who are truly wise and those who are not truly wise. The truly wise are start with the Lord Buddha, the arahants and those who have attained the various levels of Buddhist sainthood. The wise who are not truly wise are those who are as wise as or wiser than us. Examples of these are monks who truly train themselves in meditation. Even though such monks may not be arahants, they come up to the standard of a wise man. You EFTA01160515 should seek him out for association and familiarize yourself with his virtues. You can only gain from such association. As for your own parents, given that we are their children, we ought to do our best to associate with them. Sometimes we encounter difficulties however. Sometimes our parents have the character of fools. If this should be the case then we have the duty to live in the same household, but with the EFTA01160516 utmost care not to let those foolish habits rub off on ourselves. If your parents drink alcohol, don't go prohibiting them from such behaviour. It is not your place to do so. However, at the same time you shouldn't go joining them in their drinking. If your mother loves playing poker, it's no good telling her to give up. Let her carry on with her gambling — but don't go joining in with her. Even though we know these are the habits of a fool, EFTA01160517 they are our own mother and father. We can't just ditch them. We must carry on living in the same household while taking care not to be infected by their foolish habits. The wise also extend to our friends and relatives who are a good example to us by their behaviour. Even if they might not be right all the time, or they may not be as wise as an arahant, to associate with them is still to our benefit. EFTA01160518 In the case of associating with the wise who are not yet perfect, the Buddha taught that we should 48 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living concentrate on observing only their good points and mimic only these good behaviours. If that person has his faults, don't waste your time criticising them for these, because for as long as one hasn't come to an end of all defilements, faults and weaknesses will always remain. Don't go EFTA01160519 looking for peoples' faults. Look for their strengths and make the effort to instil these strengths in ourself. In the end we will be like an ocean full of all types of virtue. Don't go letting someone's minor fault blind you to all their virtues. If you are only interested in peoples' faults, by the time you have picked out everyone's weaknesses, there will be only one good person left in the world — yourself. Thus the wise in the outside world EFTA01160520 are of two types: the permanently wise who have rid themselves of all defilements and the sporadically wise who still have defilements remaining. Both types of wise ones are beneficial to associate with. You may have noticed that sometimes when we think of doing something evil there will be a little voice inside that warns us not to do it. Have you wondered where that little voice inside comes from? EFTA01160521 Usually we cannot see whose voice it is, but if we meditate until our mind is much clearer, we will be able to see the wise one inside who is the owner of the voice. Information, whether it be in the form of knowledge as a voice or the content of a dream or sixth sense, is transferred down the line from deep inside ourselves, like a baton between the runners of a relay race. G. THE PRACTICALITY OF CULTIVATING EFTA01160522 ASSOCIATION WITH THE WISE It is for this reason that we must do two things— try to find the wise in the outside world and find the best ways to associate with them. If we know that anyone is a good example then we should make sure we get to know that person. That way the good character that makes that person a wise one will begin to brush of on us as well. Secondly, once we have seen the nature of those who EFTA01160523 are a good example to follow, we should start to cultivate an inner self which has the same good qualities so that the self which is wise will manifest itself inside ourselves. If we already have an inner self that is wise, even if we don't meet any more wise people ever again, it will not matter to us, because we have our inner source of wisdom from which we can draw the knowledge of our inner teacher. EFTA01160524 H. ILLUSTRATIVE MATERIALS H.1 Metaphor: Leaves wrapping a perfumed fish A parable used by the Lord Buddha is that of the leaves wrapping a perfumed fish taking on the same perfume as the fish itself H.2 Red-Bearded Executioner saved by Association with the Wise (DhA.11.203) TambadAEhika who was a former thief had served the king as the public executioner EFTA01160525 for fifty-five years; and had just retired from that post. One day, he went to the river for a bath, intending to take some specially prepared food on his return home. As he was about to take the food, Venerable SAriputta, who had just arisen from sustained absorption in concentration [jhAna samApatti], stood at his door for almsfood. Seeing the monk, TambadAEhika thought to himself, "Throughout EFTA01160526 my life, I have been executing thieves; now I should offer this food to the monk." So, he invited SAriputta to come in and respectfully offered the food. After the meal, SAriputta taught him the Dhamma, but TambadAEhika could not pay attention, because he was extremely disturbed as he recollected his past career as an executioner. This mental disturbance did not allow him to concentrate EFTA01160527 properly. SAriputta knew this, and in order to put him in a proper frame of mind, he asked TambadAEhika tactfully whether he killed the thieves because he wished to kill them out of anger or hate, or simply because he was ordered to do so. TambadAEhika answered that he was ordered to kill them by the king and that he had no ill will or wish to kill. `If that is the case,' SAriputta asked, `What wrong did you do?' Thus EFTA01160528 re-assured, his mind became calmer and he requested SAriputta to continue his sermon. As he listened to the Blessing Two: Associating with the Wise 49 Dhamma attentively, his mind became tranquil and he developed the virtues of patience and understanding. After the discourse, TambadAEhika accompanied SAriputta for some distance and then returned home. On his way home he died due EFTA01160529 to an accident. When the Buddha came to the congregation of the bhikkhus in the evening, they informed him about the death of TambadAEhika. When asked where TambadAEhika was reborn, the Buddha told them that although TambadAEhika had committed evil deeds throughout his life, because he comprehended the Dhamma, he was reborn in the Tusita deva world. The bhikkhus wondered how EFTA01160530 such an evil-doer could have such great benefit after listening to the Dhamma just once. To them the Buddha said that the length of a discourse is of no consequence, for one single sentence of the Dhamma, correctly understood can produce much benefit. 50 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Blessing Three: Expressing Respect to Those Worthy of Respect 51 EFTA01160531 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 People Differentiated by their discretion As seen in the previous blessings, the brightness of a person's future relies on his ability to judge the difference between good and evil. If his judgement is faulty, there is no way he can make a success out of his life. Even though people may look superficially similar, their standards of judgement can be so different. As human beings we are born equal — EFTA01160532 we all have a pair of hands and ten fingers — but some people use their hands to perform works that are useful to society while others think that their hands will become more famous as fists and go around punching up the neighbours for a living. In this Blessing we look at the third of three major influences on our development of sound discretion — having the right sort of "role model" in our hearts. This blessing doesn't imply EFTA01160533 that we model ourselves on anyone or anything at all —but if we want to develop sound discretion we need to model ourselves (recognize and pay respect to) only those worthy of our respect. A.2 Effect of one's "hero" on one's discretion Hearing such terms as "paying respect", "expressing respect" or "people worthy of respect", the casual reader might come to the premature conclusion that this blessing is irrelevant to EFTA01160534 our day and age. However, if we rephrase what we mean in modern terms, asking "Who is the hero of your heart — which celebrity do you model yourself on or dream of emulating?", the pertinence of this blessing will become much more immediate. When we are children and the horizons of our experience do not extend beyond the walls of our house, maybe our own parents represent all that EFTA01160535 we want to achieve in our lives. We try to play at being "grown-up" like our parents, imitating them in our play. If we are exposed to a good parental example, our idea of what we perceive as normal or ethical will develop quite accurately from an early age. However, if, for example, parents lie to their children often or beat them out of anger, then that comes to be what the child perceives to be the standard of "justice" in life. EFTA01160536 During one's teen years, when one's horizons extend beyond the home, the influence of constructive or destructive role models becomes stronger and stronger. These role models are over and above the influence of good or bad friends as studied in the previous two blessings. Look at some of the role models celebrities set for the youth of today and you can imagine some of the problems facing our impressionable youth of EFTA01160537 today. Supposing you plan to model yourself on Vincent Van Gogh, Kurt Cobain, Marilyn Monroe, Janis Joplin, Dylan Thomas, Jimi Hendrix, Elvis Presley, Jim Morrison, Keith Moon, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Ernest Hemingway or Brian Jones all of whom killed themselves at an early age, you might come to the conclusion that truly creative people are "too beautiful for this world". You might come EFTA01160538 Blessing Three: Expressing Respect to Those Worthy of Respect 52 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living to the conclusion that creative writers drank because they had to or it was the "pressure of fame". Or that killing yourself is how to earn fame or emotionally blackmail others. We can overlook the insecure, grotesquely boring EFTA01160539 reality of these peoples' lives. We can rationalize away the brutal and banal nature of their addictions. We can forgive our heroes and we come to be able to forgive ourselves as well. It gives us an instant excuse to be irresponsible and indecent. We can say we're too beautiful for this world too. We can act like drugged children, crash our lives and drop out. The truth about someone like Vincent Van Gogh EFTA01160540 is that when he painted he was beautiful, but in other matters he was not. He was always encouraging his emotions to work their dark magic. It's true that he ought to be admired while he had his paintbrush in his hand, but to be admired for his whole sorrowful life and to make a legend out of it is to confuse oneself. The problem for us as beginners on the initial steps of the Manual of Peace, as debutants only just beginning to EFTA01160541 pick up an inkling of what is good for our spiritual development and what is not, we don't yet have the ability to distinguish between the creative and destructive aspects of someone's behaviour — therefore, when you are starting out on your sojourn of spiritual discovery, it's better to choose a role model who you can rely upon as an exemplar in all aspects of life. If you can choose a reliable role model for yourself: EFTA01160542 EFTA01160543 J 。 luou.idoJoAop 呷0龔）III0粵TIIM1t ● .son篡IATJA簋。LLfl0人2fl0qeW180J.JEJ。 poiwoo-jps &umoooq UIOJJ flOA1U0A0JdIIIM1I. .pJJOM 0琅pu1 魚ojoos Ui On篡IA Jo ptaids 叫1a〕御III3粵IIIA撞no1c ● sI。粵琅IM 8UI1I30SSRpIOAL 。1。IqeDq 御ISB0 010111IIIA撞no人． sI。餌J。 00U0flUUI0q2 碉 ③iq℃J③up" SS3I omoooq Ti!M noA ● .UJOpS!'籃pUl M0IA )q8I蛆J。UoI1IsInbot Jno人01c1010301 Ti!M no人● mindfulness that is the precursor of wisdom. • it will add to your enthusiasm for self-development B. EXPRESSING RESPECT AND ITS PURPOSE If you ask yourself what you automatically do, when you have a "hero" in your heart, on analysis, you find that you devote all your waking thoughts to them. We put their picture on the wall. When we speak about them, we only speak praise of them. we take every opportunity to learn EFTA01160544 their opinions and share them. Given the opportunity we try to meet with them and imitate what they do in their lives. Some people even go to the lengths of dress like them. All these are random components of an attitude we call "respect". Many of the behaviours are ways of "paying respect" or "expressing respect". B.1 What do we mean by "respect"? Respect means the attitude of looking for the positive EFTA01160545 aspects of a person or an object and the effort to instill oneself with those same virtues. Such respect, in context of the Manual of Peace is for the aim of furthering one's spiritual development — it must not have any ulterior motive. It mustn't be like a judo player who raises someone up (in his own self esteem by flattering them) only to drop him onto the floor more easily. Some bosses blindly believe their subordinates' flattery is EFTA01160546 respect to the extent that they overlook the real state of affairs and end up getting fired. This latter case of expressing respect does not come from a mind of pure innocence which expects or demands nothing material in return. True respect arises in response to someone's virtues. Something else which may look like respect but which is in fact an imposter is the intention to help someone in the expectation of gaining something EFTA01160547 material in return. First comes the flattery, then comes the unrefusable request for this or that favour. Boyfriend praises girlfriend, saying how pretty she is, because he wants her to love him. He has an ulterior motive to get something in return. He's not interested per se in either her goodness or her prettiness. B.2 What do we mean by "expressing respect"? Expressing Respect means any polite and intenBlessing EFTA01160548 Three: Expressing Respect to Those Worthy of Respect 53 tional action towards someone or something, both in their presence or behind their back, that is the device that demonstrates that one is really recollecting the virtues of that person or thing. B.3 Purpose of Respect The reason behind paying homage to those worthy of homage is an extension of the reason for associating with the wise. We have already said that we associate with the wise in the hope EFTA01160549 that they will help us to develop accurate discretion in things concerning virtue. It is to help us overcome the weakness in our make-up, that we tend too easily to forget all the good and valuable things taught to us by our teachers and masters and parents or the monastic community, the Lord Buddha, or from books we read. When you are taught how to meditate for half-an-hour per day (or to do any other good EFTA01160550 deeds), however, your memory doesn't seem to be so reliable. The first day, you sit for meditation for exactly half-an-hour — no more, no less. On the second day, you sit for only fifteen minutes — well, that's better than nothing. On the third day, you think that while you are chanting is actually a sort of meditation, so five minutes of true meditation is enough. On the fourth day it is especially humid, so you think that chanting is EFTA01160551 enough, no meditation today — after all, thousands of other people don't meditate, and they seem no worse off for it. By the fifth day you have entirely forgotten how to meditate for half an hour. It is for the reason that doing good deeds is so easy to forget that is the real reason for the need to pay homage. On the contrary, when it comes to being devious, or doing mischievous things, we remember the EFTA01160552 from the first time we're taught and never need to be taught again for the rest of our lives! We never forget how to play poker. We never forget how to shuffle a deck of cards. The real reasons behind paying homage areas follows: 1. To give us a firm connection with the virtues of that person. Connecting up our thoughts with a person of virtue will elevate our own minds to the higher level of virtue of that person. EFTA01160553 2. To practice expressing virtues so that in the future we might have the chance to gain a real appreciation of the virtues of that person. Whether we are an adult or a child, if our appreciation of the real depth of virtue of a does not really do justice to the depth of their virtue, expressing homage can help us to appreciate it. When we were only five or six years old and our parents took us to the temple they would EFTA01160554 make sure that we paid respect to the Buddha images. For the child, he cannot see beyond the clay or the brass of the image and might wonder what all the fuss is about. A child that is so young can have no appreciation of the real depth of the virtues of the Lord Buddha. Taken to the home of their old uncle, they are told to pay respect to their uncle. The child cannot distinguish the goodness of EFTA01160555 their uncle's character, but pays respect because he has been told to. At school, the child is told to pay respect to their teachers. The child might not be able to tell the real virtue of the teacher, because the child's ability to comprehend is only limited. However, sometime in the future when we become so used to expressing our respect that we become used to it, the thought will eventually occur to us to look for the reason. EFTA01160556 B.4 Three Types of Bowing Sometimes people confuse respect with expressing respect. However, if you express respect when your attitude is wrong you will not succeed in furthering your spiritual progress. Consider the following examples: 1. Bowing out of obsequiousness: Some people bow just because everyone else does. Usually they bow reluctantly. They have no attitude of respect in their mind. Therefore, all they EFTA01160557 get for their efforts is a stiff feeling in their muscles. 2. Bowing out ofpeerpressure: Some people only show respect in order to please the person they pay respect to, so that they can ask favours from that person, often for things which are not entirely honest or noble. 3. Bowing in search of wisdom: This refers to those who have an attitude of respect and who also 54 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living EFTA01160558 express their respect with the determination to practice themselves all the virtues exemplified by the object of their respect. An example of the sort of attitude in mind of someone who benefits from expressing respect is — supposing we bow three times to express respect towards the Buddha: I. When we bow thefirst time: to reflect on the supreme wisdom of the Buddha which allowed EFTA01160559 him to see the existence of suffering, know the origin and the cessation of suffering and find a Path to the Cessation of Suffering — wisdom arising from the Buddha's extended meditation mind until his mind had become sufficiently clear and bright to eradicate all defilements of the mind. Following his example, we should also determinedly meditate until we can achieve the same EFTA01160560 wisdom as that of the Buddha. 2. When we bow the second time: to reflect on the supreme compassion of the Lord Buddha that instead of just keeping his wisdom to himself, he spent all his life teaching Dhamma to others so that they could become enlightened in his footsteps. Following his example, we should also find ways of being generous as a way of expressing our EFTA01160561 compassion to others. 3. When we bow the third time: to reflect on the supreme purity of the body, speech and mind of the Lord Buddha cultivated through his extended practice of self-discipline. Following his example, we should also find ways of finding better ways to extend our own self-discipline so that we too can attain full purity of mind. B.5 Two sorts of Respect EFTA01160562 However, all four of these can be summarized under just two headings, that is: I. Homage through gifts: [AmisapEjA]: this refers to all material forms of paying homage — whether it be putting your palms together in a gesture of respect or even speaking words of praise about a person. 2. Homage through practice: [paEipatipEjA] this means paying homage by doing as one is taught — for example, we pay respect to EFTA01160563 the Lord Buddha by doing as he taught. Thus, in practice, expressing respect has two major components. B.5.1 Relative importance When we pay respect to the Lord Buddha, we should emphasise homage through practice, while homage through gifts should play only a supporting role. As for paying respect to teachers who are still concerned with worldly matters (ie. king, parents, teachers, elders and boss, we have EFTA01160564 to emphasise homage through gifts) while homage though practice plays only a supporting role. To give an example, if we are to meet up with our teacher and when we meet up with them all we have for them is the words,"I have put into practice everything you have taught me". This would hardly impress the teacher. It would have been appropriate to have some sort of gift to give the teacher EFTA01160565 as well. Others go abroad and on the way back thinkof their teacher. They don't know what to get as a present for the teacher and so they get a bottle of liquor. In the end the result is that the teacher and the pupil sit down and drink liquor together. The more they drink, the more irritated they feel and end up fighting one another. When it gets to this point, that gift can hardly be counted as a token of EFTA01160566 respect any more. It is an unwelcome gift resulting from false view. C. PERSONAGES WORTHY OF RESPECT The person worthy of respect, in its simplest terms is the wise one (as defined in the previous Blessing). The wise one in this context is someone whose status or position or level of existence is so high that it would be completely inappropriate for us to associate with them on equal terms or as peers. Examples EFTA01160567 of such people include: C.1 Buddha The Lord Buddha (who is truly wise), Blessing Three: Expressing Respect to Those Worthy of Respect 55 C.1.1 Three worthy qualities of the Buddha For example, why we consider the Lord Buddha to be worthy of respect, and we find that it is because: 1. His wisdom is so great that he could singlehandedly attain enlightenment. 2. His Compassion is so great that EFTA01160568 He sacrificed the rest of his life to teach the way for others to reach enlightenment as he had done. 3. His body, speech and mind were so pure (because of the immaculateness with which he had kept the Precepts) that no one else in the world can compare and for that reason we hold him in the highest of respect. To begin with we might not be able to appreciate the degree of his virtue, but after paying respect EFTA01160569 more and more, it makes our own mind more refined, gives us the ability to consider things in a constructive way and in the end, opening to us the innate wisdom that will allow us to appreciate that virtue. In any place, there are many things that are worthy of respect and many more things that are not worthy of respect. Thus, when deciding about the type of people who are worthy of respect, the subject of this Blessing, it is EFTA01160570 important to be able to distinguish one thing from the other. C.2 The monastic community and other clergy The monastic community [Salgha] (who can be divided into those who are devoid of all defilement [ariyasaIgha] such as the arahants, the non-returners [anagAmi], the once-returners [sakatagAmi] and the stream-enterers [sotApana]; and the general monastic community EFTA01160571 who are striving to train themselves towards an end of all defilements [sammutisaigha]. Although the latter may not yet have purged themselves of all defilements, they are abundant in virtue to a degree that it is innappropriate to associate with them as if they were our equals. If we associate with them, we should treat them as our superiors — i.e. with respect - at all times. Monks or EFTA01160572 clergy worthy of respect are those who exemplify, teach and discern virtue for us by fulfilling the following six duties: 1. restrain their congregation from evil; 2. encourage them to establish themselves in virtue: these two responsibilities are also the domain of parents and teachers; 3. minister to them in kindness: this means spreading loving-kindness towards the congregation EFTA01160573 without exception for their happiness. They might also visit their supporters, together with their monastic fellows, in order to give those congregation members the chance to hear Dhamma teachings and have the opportunity to practice to practice generosity; 4. teach them new or beneficial things: One of the most important functions of the clergy is to encourage study of the spiritual teachings amongst EFTA01160574 their congregation. Monks should have a large repertoire of teachings to give to the congregation, teaching without repeating themselves, so that the congregation can have a broad knowledge of Dhamma knowledge, reinforcing their Right View and ability to be a teacher to themselves [yonisomanasikAra] in relation to finding the highest happiness in their lives; 5. clarify things they already know: if monks give EFTA01160575 Dhamma teachings they have already give to a particular group from the congregation, they should enlarge the subject in more detail than before, giving additional meaning to materials or explaining in further detail how the Dhamma can be applied for problem solving in everyday life; 6. show them the way to heaven: this monastic duty is particularly special in the system of the `Six EFTA01160576 Directions' because no-one in any of the other social groups can do it in the monks' place. Those who are able to enter heaven must be those who live their lives in accordance with the noble code of Self-Discipline. This group consists of all forms of clergy who have an exclusively spiritual (rather than material) aim in life — namely monks in Buddhism, or priests, pastors or ministers for other religions. We hold EFTA01160577 them in respect, because they maintain their status through their high level of virtue. In conclusion, the responsibility of the clergy consists of training the 56 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living lay congregation to become Wise Ones or virtuous people a noble duty indeed! Monks who are able to practice all six of these duties to their completion are of inestimable value to society and the world they are worthy of EFTA01160578 respect both by men and angels alike. C.3 Virtuous monarchs Monarchs worthy of respect are those established in the Tenfold Virtues of a Monarch; C.4 Our Parents Our Parents and upstanding members of society. Our parents are wise ones. We should treat them with respect. Anything less would be inappropriate. C.5 Our Teachers Teachers and masters established in right view. In EFTA01160579 this context we should mention the two identifying features of a teacher's duties, both of which he needs to fulfil in order to qualify for the respect of his students. These two duties are: 1. The duty to explain (i.e. teach a subject in theory) 2. The duty to exemplify (especially the moral usage of the subject he teaches) If he fails to perform either of these duties his teaching is no more than daylight robbery of his pupils. If he gives good explanations but EFTA01160580 his personal behaviour is no example for his students to follow (for example he teaches `do as I say not what I do' and tells the class that liquor is evil while spending all his spare time inebriated at the bar, he is nothing more than a mercenery teacher. If he both explains the theory well and is a good example to his students, he is a person worthy of respect. C.6 Virtuous employer Virtuous employers are also EFTA01160581 worthy of respect. It is hard to find bosses with virtue, so when we find one, we should not hesitate to pay them respect. We may still be unable to be as virtuous as them, so we ought to pay them respect, in order that their virtues might never be far from our minds — instead of being tempted to do something devious, we will be less tempted because we feel ashamed after the seeing the good example set by our boss. EFTA01160582 Also we will be more ashamed that anything we do wrong might reflect badly on our boss's good reputation. This is the value of having a virtuous boss. It keeps us on the straight and narrow until such time that we have reliable discretion for ourselves. D. OBJECTS WORTHY OF RESPECT There are certain classes of objects identified by the Lord Buddha as worthy of respect, and these are objects associated with people EFTA01160583 worthy of respect i.e. the Lord Buddha, the SaIgha, monarchs, parents, teachers and bosses. There are two categories of such objects, pagodas (and their contents) and teachings: D.1 Pagodas D.1.1 Four Types of Pagoda The Buddha enumerated four types of pagoda worthy of respect: I. A relic pagoda: this is a pagoda containing the relics of a Buddha, a paccekabuddha, an arahant EFTA01160584 or a universal monarch. After the cremation of a truly virtuous person there are pearl-like relics left behind in the ashes. In keeping with the teaching of the Buddha, these are collected by the faithful and are paid homage to, by Buddhists, not only with candles and incense, but by enshrining them in small pagodas. 2. Paribhoga Cetiya: These include the Four Holy Sites connected with the life of the EFTA01160585 Lord Buddha: the place where He was born, enlightened, where He gave His first sermon and where He passed away into Parinirvana. The Lord Buddha called these four places His Paribhoga Cetiya and taught that all Buddhists of following generations should visit these holy sites if they had the chance because it would awaken them to the urgent need to get down to practice. Many people EFTA01160586 who have been to visit the Holy Sites have discovered that their inspiration to practice has Blessing Three: Expressing Respect to Those Worthy of Respect 57 is strengthened from the feeling of going back to a time when they were in the presence of the Lord Buddha himself. This is the reason why these four sites are worthy of worship. 3. Dhamma Cetiya: This is a Cetiya that contains Dhamma teachings such as books EFTA01160587 of the Tipitaka or other Scriptures. 4. Uddesika Cetiya: This is a Cetiya that contains Buddha Images or images of His Noble Disciples. Objects worthy of respect in this category also include the requisites belonging to monks — whether it be robes or bowl, all of the monks' requisites are worthy of respect. D.2 Dhamma Teachings A fifth sort of object worthy of respect are spiritual teachings and their sources. These EFTA01160588 may include the Teachings of the Lord Buddha, of members of the monastic community, of kings, of our parents and elders, of our teachers and masters, of our boss and the teachings of the wise with whom we associate. The teachings of all six categories of the wise mentioned above are the manifestation of the virtue of those people and should never be taken in vain. Making a mockery of such teachings will undermine EFTA01160589 our earnestness in putting those teachings into practice. If we lack earnestness in putting the teachings into practice, we reduce our chance of ever understanding those teachings. In the absence of understanding, there remains only ignorance and false view. Thus any of the objects mentioned above should not be used for mockery or for fun. To treat these things without reverence robs them of their sanctity EFTA01160590 and when we come to study them we will overlook their depth or subtlety. An example of this might be the man who goes to receive Five Precepts from the monk at the temple and keeps the Precepts so well for the first few days. Later he joins in with one of his friends makes fun of the Precepts and says,"Oh the Precepts? Aren't they for keeping one for each day of the week and weekends off?" Even if he still keeps his EFTA01160591 Precepts, the effect of these words is to gradually undermine the man's inspiration to keep them. The same principle goes for photographs or pictures of the Buddha, of monks, of the king, of our parents or teachers. Such photographs should not be left lying about or used without reverence. Chanting books shouldn't be left lying about either or folded up and shoved in the back pocket of one's trousers. They shouldn't be put down on a dusty EFTA01160592 surface and other things should not be placed on top of them. In conclusion, those worthy of respect are the wise who are established in virtue, or those who by their social standing are too high up for us to be able to associate with personally or as peers. Apart from these six categories of person, objects which should be treated with respect include the requisites they use as a way of recollecting the virtues of that person. EFTA01160593 Even though that person may already have passed away, treating their belongings with respect will help us to maintain high-mindedness and Right View concerning that person. D.3 Educational Objects Also we shouldn't forget that all books which contain Dhamma should be treated with respect. The ancients would be very particular even about the notebooks in which we have taken note of Dhamma sermons. They forbade us from EFTA01160594 throwing such notebooks, stepping over them, putting them in low down places or tearing out pages — because all of these things would constitute disrespect to the teachings themselves. If we were to lack respect towards the Dhamma, then when we come to consider Dhamma Teachings for which the meaning is very subtle, we will be unable to fathom the meaning and our understanding of the Dhamma will be EFTA01160595 destroyed and we will be left with nothing more than our own ignorance. D.4 Objects not worthy of respect Correspondingly, we must be careful not to pay respect to things not worthy of respect. In brief, there are four categories of things we should avoid idolising or paying respect to: I. People not worthy of Respect: This means not idolizing fools, and not supporting them or praising them — no matter how high in rank they EFTA01160596 might be. 58 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living 2. Objects not worthy of respect: This means not idolizing pictures, sculptures, works, possessions or tools of fools. 3. Objects which lead to foolishness: This means not idolizing things like pictures of models, singers or sportsmen who lack virtue or advertising for "roads to ruin" such as alcohol. We shouldn't use these sort of things to decorate EFTA01160597 our homes. 4. Objects which lead to gullability: This means not idolizing things which promote superstition such as "holy trees", "holy mountains", "spirit houses" etc. E. THE PRACTICALITY OF PAYING RESPECT E.1 Expressing respect with body, speech and mind Respect can be paid through the channels of body, speech or mind. 1. Physical Respect: Physically paying respect EFTA01160598 means the various polite manners that we demonstrate towards someone in their presence, such as standing up when they come into the room, or sitting politely when in front of them. Even if you are not in their presence, you should still show physical respect towards those worthy of virtue even if you are not in their presence but are in the presence of their photograph, their sculpted image — such as a EFTA01160599 Buddha Image or a photograph of your teaching master. We should show our respect by not pointing our feet towards such an image, and even if we are lying down to sleep — pointing our head towards the image instead of our feet; 2. Verbal Respect: Homage through the channel of speech includes the speaking, chanting or singing of praises of one worthy of homage, rather than gossipping maliciously about EFTA01160600 them; 3. Mental Respect: Homage through the channel of the mind means recollecting the teachings of one worthy of homage to the degree that they inspire us. We might recollect what that person has taught us in the way of good deeds. We might also consider the good character and virtues exemplified (but not taught) by that person. Both of these are homage through the channel of the EFTA01160601 mind; E.2 How to Express Respect Many people misunderstand paying respect as bundling together a lotus, candles and incense, laying it before the object of respect and bowing down three times. Paying respect in this way is not incorrect, but it is not the whole story. Paying respect that is complete in all respects must exhibit four factors: I. Physical token of respect [sakkAra]: This refers EFTA01160602 to a gift which is an expression of respect. It is something we must prepare in advance and which is presented during the act of paying respect. Such a token of respect differs for different situations and different categories of persons worthy of respect — for example, flowers, incense and candles are worthy tokens of respect for paying respect to the Buddha, monks or teachers. Clothes or bedclothes EFTA01160603 might be more worthy tokens of respect for your parents. Neither of these tokens of respect are suitable as the sort of gift you might take with you when visiting distinguished persons of social standing. Nor would they be suitable as the sort of gift you bring back with you for your friends when you have been away on holiday. Even money can be a token of respect. If your teacher has been EFTA01160604 putting in extra hours out of the kindness of his heart, giving up his time to give you tutorials at home, giving him money as a gift would not be out of place, and in this respect would be considered a token of respect, not a payment. Another consideration for tokens of respect is that they should be prepared in advance. To leave a bucket of cut flowers, no matter how big the bucket is, in the middle of the main EFTA01160605 temple pavillion would hardly be considered an act of respect. Any token of respect should be prepared with care and precision and be both clean and well organized. 2. Gesture of respect [vandanA]: this refers to gestures which express respect such as bowing or prostration or praise or chanting praise. Morning and evening chanting can be counted as vandanA. Even recollection of EFTA01160606 what one has been taught by the wise or one's teacher can be Blessing Three: Expressing Respect to Those Worthy of Respect 59 counted as vandanA. 3. Attitude of respect [mAnanA]: This refers to an attitude of respect. Respect consists of the stems `re' which means again and `spece which means to re-examine a person (for their good points). Given that all people except the Buddha are EFTA01160607 made up of a mixture of both good and bad then we have to look for the good points in people. Taking these good points, apart from noticing these good points, part of respect is to praise them for these good points and use them as a good example to model ourselves upon. 4. Concern for the object of respect [garulcAra]: this refers to an attitude of concern about the wellbeing of the person who is worthy of EFTA01160608 respect and recollection of the good deeds and virtues of that person. All of these four components comprise the way of paying respect. E.3 Consequences of Not Paying Respect to those worthy of homage If those held in high respect do not behave in a fitting way, many sorts of harm are brought on the individual, interpersonal and social levels. To take the clergy as an example, if EFTA01160609 members of the monastic community are undisciplined and do not cherish their congregation according to the advice of the Buddha, the harm that will come to the congregation can be concluded on three levels: I. Losing a sense of responsibility for their own human dignity: If clergy lack self-discipline and don't fulfil their duties towards their congregation as prescribed by the Lord Buddha, the first level of disaster which will happen EFTA01160610 to them is that the congregation will lose their sense of responsibility for their own human dignity — this loss giving rise (at the minimum) to the following three undesirable symptoms: 1. Breakdown of self-discipline: Society will degenerate to the point where the majority of people do not keep the Five Precepts and do not even understand what keeping the Precepts means. This will increase the EFTA01160611 incidence of society of people taking advantage of each other. When taking advantage of each other becomes the the norm, especially for those in positions of authority, the effects will have repurcussions on a national scale — therefore, citizens must unite in preventing those who don't respect the Five Precepts from being put in positions of power; 2. Those seeking ordination are of low quality: Lowquality EFTA01160612 ordinands burden their preceptors with problems — it is hard to train them at all. If clergy are unable to develop purity of body, speech and mind, they will undermine the existing faith of the congregation — ultimately destroying the religion; 3. Transcendental attainment becomes becomes increasingly inaccessible: The highest aim of those who ordain is to attain Nirvana. However, if those who ordain are of low EFTA01160613 quality and are difficult to train, there will be a continuous deterioration in the capability of the monastic community to the point where they will no longer be able to reach any sort of transcendental attainment. When there are no religious exemplars to look up to, the congregation will become more and more firmly entrenched in False View — more and more ignorant of Dhamma teachings, EFTA01160614 self-discipline — with some of the most serious repurcussions for social chaos; 2. Losing a sense of responsibility for the human dignity of others: If clergy lack self-discipline and don't fulfil the duties towards their congregation as prescribed by the Lord Buddha, the second level of disaster which will happen to them is that the congregation will lose their sense of responsibility for the human dignity of others EFTA01160615 - this loss giving rise (at the minimum) to the following three undesirable symptoms: 1. Verbal abuse of clergy and monks: Once the congregation no longer realize the value to society of clergy and monks, misunderstanding the duty and lifestyle of the clergy, the public will abuse the clergy shamelessly (as is happening currently in Thailand); 60 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living EFTA01160616 2. Lack offinancial supportfor clergy and monks: Swayed by the often unjustified abuse of clergy in the media, the faith of the public deteriorates, and with it the support with which they should provide the clergy — religions such as Buddhism can only survive through the voluntary support of the congregation, and without it, there will soon be no clergy left, and consequently no-one to perpetuate EFTA01160617 the religion; 3. Congregation is left without any true refuge: Having dismantled their religion by their own neglect, when the public find themselves in dire straits, they will be without a refuge, lacking the ability to be a teacher to themselves, they will resort to superstition or animism. 3. Losing a sense of responsibility for economic fairness in society at large: If clergy lack selfdiscipline EFTA01160618 and don't fulfil the duties towards their congregation as prescribed by the Lord Buddha, the third level of disaster which will happen to them is that the congregation will lose their sense of responsibility for economic fairness in society at large — this loss giving rise (at the minimum) to the following three undesirable symptoms: 1. Total enfatuation with the Six Roads to Ruin: In a society of deteriorating morals, it EFTA01160619 will become more and more common for people either to eke out their living via, or be enslaved by the consequences (such as debt and disease) of Roads to Ruin such as drugs, gambling, prostitution, entertainment and underground lotteries. 2. Desecration of religious property and establishments: The Roads to Ruin are part of the vicious circle of poverty. Some people try to alleviate EFTA01160620 their poverty by theft and religious property is an easy target of plunder. Some encroach on temple grounds in pursuit of their livelihood. In Thailand this practice is becoming more and more widespread, especially because it has been legally condoned by biased legislators; 3. Embezzlement of religious donations: Some people like to extract some sort of `commission' EFTA01160621 from the funds they manage to raise for the temple (in accordance with the phrase "half for the temple, half for the temple committee' !) In the present day, however, some legislators try to go further than this by giving the government the right to control temple funds directly! Problems concerning not paying respect to those worthy of respect can be summarized down to two EFTA01160622 main points: I. Obvious social problems: Easily seen is public deterioration in morality as a result of ignorance of virtue. Such people like to say they have lost interest in virtue because they see so many examples of hypocrisy. For the same reasons they withhold financial support for spiritual causes and some go further, overtly making legislative changes necessary for the dismantling of the religious EFTA01160623 establishment; 2. Covert social problems: The covert social problems mostly originate from the hypocrisy amongst those who should be behaving as exemplars of virtue. Considered with wise reflection, the problems might be analyzed as such: 1. Good exemplars are sometimes unable to pass on their knowledge to others because 1. the public are not interested to learn from EFTA01160624 the clergy— all they want are the material trappings of spirituality and virtue such as holy water and amulets; 2. the public undervalue the teachings on virtue they receive because they think they are already highly qualified in academic subjects - so thinking, they consider their ability in vocational subjects makes earning money more important than knowing spiritual EFTA01160625 teachings. F. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES In order to illustrate the results of paying respect to those worthy of respect here are five examples, the second of which is an example of homage through gifts: Blessing Three: Expressing Respect to Those Worthy of Respect 61 F.1 Metaphor: Small sapling with supporting stake When a new-grown tree is still a flimsy sapling, it EFTA01160626 needs a supporting stake to protect it against strong winds — otherwise it will be blown down or torn up by its roots. Similarly, one who hopes for spiritual progress in one's life needs to express respect to those worthy of respect — to keep a place for those people in one's heart so that those people can be a guiding light and an example, and a protection against False View and unwholesomeness which might otherwise reappear in EFTA01160627 one's life. F.2 Ex. Sumana the Garland-Maker In the time of the Lord Buddha, within the walls of the palace the workers divided themselves up into different sections and one of the sections was specifically for flower arranging. The section head was called Sumana and his duty was to arrange flowers to decorate the palace, to decorate the throne and even decorate the royal bed chamber of the EFTA01160628 king, to give all of these places a delightful fragrance. Sumana fulfilled his duty to the satisfaction of all in the palace every day, year in year out without ever slipping up. One day, in the season where flowers were the hardest to find, Sumana travelled to every part of the city and wherever there were flowers to be bought, he would buy them all. No-one else in the city had any flowers left to use for themselves. EFTA01160629 Every last flower in the city had to be used for the decoration of the palace. Even though Sumana had exclusive rights to all the flowers in the city, because the dry season had caused a drought, he could hardly find any flower — even food was scarce let alone flowers. One day the flowers were so scarce that in the whole of the city all Sumana could find were eight (coconut shell) measures of jasmine flowers. Really, this wasn't EFTA01160630 enough to decorate the palace, but it was better than nothing. That day, as Sumana was bringing the eight measures of jasmine flowers to the palace, he met with the Lord Buddha along the way. The Lord Buddha was on almsround. Sumana regularly attended the Buddha's sermons but he had never really had the chance to make a decent offering to the Buddha, partly because of his poverty and partly because EFTA01160631 his faith was not very profound. That day, as Sumana saw the Lord Buddha he felt that the Buddha looked particularly resplendent and worthy of faith. The deportment of the Buddha seemed so perfect in every respect that he felt that it was only fitting to bow down before Him. Sumana's next thought was that all he had was eight measures of flowers. If he used them to honour the king, all the king could give him was income, food EFTA01160632 and clothing to see him through the present lifetime. However, that day he was going to pay respect to the Lord Buddha to create for himself the positive karma that would bring him benefits not just in this lifetime but in many lifetimes to come. Even if the king were to execute him, it wouldn't affect the good results of these deeds. Sumana raised the flowers to his forehead and when he had made his resolution, EFTA01160633 sprinkled the jasmine flowers on the path ahead of the Lord Buddha with the intention that the Buddha would walk upon his fragrant offering. The Lord Buddha saw the strength of Sumana' s faith — to the degree that he was prepared to lay down his life in order to make this offering. Thus the Lord Buddha created a miracle in order to bring Sumana real joy, to allow him to gain the full merit of his generous deed and lead him EFTA01160634 to attain enlightenment in the future. Thus as soon as the flowers were released from Sumana's hand, the flowers floated up as a net of flowers above where the Lord Buddha stood and this net would follow the Lord Buddha wherever He went. At both sides of the path all of the householders came out of their houses to see the miraculous sight and were inspired by the sight of the flowers which seemed to have a life of EFTA01160635 their own in honour of the Lord Buddha. Through Sumana's faith together with the power of the perfections of the Lord Buddha, the jasmine flowers sent their scent throughout the whole of the city. The scent followed the Lord Buddha wherever he went and this attracted everyone out of their houses to see the sight of the Lord Buddha. 62 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Many of the householders had seen EFTA01160636 the Lord Buddha before, but they had never been inspired by Him. But that day the sight of the Lord Buddha was so impressive that many of the householders were inspired to faith. Those who were only slightly faithful put their hands together in a gesture of prayer. Those who were more inspired raised their hands in a gesture of prayer and offered words in praise of the Lord Buddha. Those whose faith was even EFTA01160637 greater prepared food to offer into the Buddha's bowl and followed him around to see what would happen to the flowers. The Buddha's almsround took him all over the city and eventually brought Him to the front of the palace. The king heard the news and came to give alms himself. Then the king invited the Buddha to take his breakfast in the palace. As the Buddha was taking his meal, the ceiling of flowers remained above Him EFTA01160638 while the Buddha gave His blessing and until he returned to Jetavana Temple. As He entered the temple the flowers fell down in a pile at the temple gate. This only added to the faith of the followers and even Sumana thought,"If the king is to execute me for failing in my duty, it has certainly been worth it!" By contrast, Sumana's wife thought the opposite. She wondered how her husband could have been EFTA01160639 so incredibly stupid. If he had given the flowers to the king at least he would have got money in return. By giving the flowers to the Buddha, he got no money in return. All he got was faith and how was that going to feed his hungry children? And if the king were disatisfied about not getting his flowers and decides to execute Sumana and decide to execute his wife and children too, they'd all suffer because of his stupidity. And if the EFTA01160640 king seized Sumana's belongings, he would just take Sumana's possessions — he would take the possessions of everybody in the household. She didn't want that to happen. The wife went straight to the king and disowned all responsibility for her husband's actions. She demanded divorce from her husband there and then, and swore before the king that if her husband was to suffer for his actions let him EFTA01160641 suffer alone. The king asked her if she was sure of what she was doing. The wife asserted that she was quite sure of her actions. Instead of being angry with Sumana, the king felt intrigued and inspired by the flower-man's example and decided to give Sumana a prize for his virtues. In the end Sumana received the prize alone because his former wife had already disowned him. When the story reached the ears of the Lord Buddha, EFTA01160642 the Venerable/nanda asked the Lord Buddha about the fruits of Sumana's faith on that occasion. The Lord Buddha taught that with a strength of faith that someone is prepared to lay down his life, such as that of Sumana, faith is very deeply rooted in someone's mind, making the mind of Sumana very radiant and that for at least a hundred- thousand aeons [kappa]. However many rebirths Sumana took, he would be EFTA01160643 born in only the human and the heaven realms. He would never be born in the neither realms of hell, animals, hungry- ghosts or asEras. After the appropriate length of time, Sumana would become enlightened as a paccekabuddha. Thus from the power of faith in the Buddha,the resulting brightness and clarity of mind will stay with one throughout the course of many lifetimes. One's discretion will be EFTA01160644 impeccable and because one's judgement is sound, one will be a wise one in every lifetime. This is the fruit of paying respect to those worthy of respect — radiance of mind, which ultimately will lead to Right View in every lifetime. DhA.ii.40ff. F.3 Ex. SudhApiAIaya helps build pagoda Another illustratory tale is that of Ven. SudApiAliya Thera. When he became enlightened as an arahant he recollected his previous lives to EFTA01160645 see how he had come to attain arahantship and meditating to recollect his previous lives he discovered that he had made an offering of only a handful of lime. SudApiAliya Thera was born in the era of one of the previous Buddhas, at the time when that Buddha had already entered Parinirvana. The people of the country were building a cetiya in which to inter the relics of that Buddha. SudApiAliya Thera EFTA01160646 was a man of faith despite his poverty, he thought, Blessing Three: Expressing Respect to Those Worthy of Respect 63 "I have relied on the Teachings and virtue of the Lord Buddha all along. Now that the people are all building a cetiya as a memorial to the generations of the future to take the same opportunity as the Lord Buddha to do good deeds all their life. It is only fitting that I should make some contribution EFTA01160647 to the building of the cetiya on this occasion." With this thought in mind, SudApiAIiyaThera felt strong faith in the Buddha and wanted to take a part in paying homage to the Lord Buddha along with the other people. As a pauper, he had no possessions to give as an offering. He went and bought a handful of lime and took this lime as his contribution to the building of the cetiya. But on this occasion, although the contribution was EFTA01160648 small, but his faith profound. The fruit of SudApiAliya Thera's faith made his mind so radiant that from that lifetime onwards to his final rebirth, he was born only in the human and the heaven realms. He never descended into hell throughout 94 aeons and attained arahantship in his final lifetime. In the opposite respect if we cultivate anger or vengefulness for 94 aeons this will lead us to do no EFTA01160649 end of hateful acts and the resulting extra interest of bad karma will ensure that you never get born in the human realm again. Ap.i.133 F.4 Ex. KosAtakE pays homage at pagoda Another example is that of KosAtakE. Her name means `loofah'. There are many species of loofah. Some can be eaten. Some are inedible and have to be thrown away. At the time when the Lord Buddha had already passed away and his EFTA01160650 disciples were organizing a grand cremation, King AjAtasattu enshrined the relics of the Lord Buddha in a cetiya and when the ceremony was over, there was a festival. At that time there was a woman who was pitifully poor who had had faith in the Lord Buddha since the time when he was alive. When the people of the country were holding their festival to celebrate the completion of the new cetiya, this woman EFTA01160651 wanted to join in the celebration by honouring the cetiya with flowers.The woman wasn't discerning enough to buy beautiful flowers like the rest of the people. She went and collected four loofahs from the edge of the forest — golden yellow in colour. These loofahs were priceless because no-one would pay good money for something inedible. She took the four such fruits and set off in the direction of the cetiya with the full intention EFTA01160652 to offer them in homage to the Lord Buddha. She was in such a rush that she didn't look where she was going, so fixed was her mind on making her offering at the cetiya. In her path were a cow and calf. The cow saw the determination of the woman and misunderstood that she wanted to harm her calf and responded by goring the woman to death, before she could reach the cetiya. Even so, even though the woman never EFTA01160653 reached the cetiya, her mind had such a determination to accomplish her good deed that with the collected potential of a mind with shame and fear of evil, virtue and the wisdom to appreciate the good deeds of the Lord Buddha, meant that as she was gored to death she was reborn immediately as an angel — her clothes became immediately refined as angelic raiment of the same golden colour as the loofah and the angelic EFTA01160654 mansion that arose as the result of her merit was also the colour of the loofah. Indra, the king of heaven saw the new arrival in heaven and asked what merit she had performed to cause the arising of a golden coloured mansion. The angel smiled shyly and replied that she had done only something very insignificant — just taking four loofahs to pay respect to the cetiya containing the relics of the Lord Buddha but she had been EFTA01160655 gored to death by a cow on the way and regretted not having reached her goal or else the golden colour of her raiment and the mansion would surely have been even more striking than this! On hearing this, Indra exclaimed,"Paying respect to the Lord Buddha with a mind of faith, even though He has already entered parinibbAna in no way lessens the fruits of good karma. Whether the Lord Buddha is alive or passed EFTA01160656 away gives fruits of merits equally." For this reason, even though we have been born in a time after the Lord Buddha has already passed 64 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living away, it should in no way lessen our diligence in paying respect to the Lord Buddha. PEtavimAnavatthu, Vv.iv.9, VvA.200ff. F.5 Ex. ParicapApA pays homage with resentment There is one more illustratory example — that of EFTA01160657 ParicapApA. This name means `five types of evil' and is the name give to this particular woman by her father. The reason for such an inauspicious name was that the child was born defective with knarled hands, lame feet, a squint mouth, squint eyes and a crooked nose. None of her bodily organs were in symettry. Her hands went one way and her feet went another. Although the child was repulsively ugly, she had one attractive point her skin was EFTA01160658 soft like that of an angel. Because of her one good point, ParicapApA was to become the queen of the country late life. When she was in the royal palace as one of the royal consorts, her skin was so soft that the king forgot all the other women the palace. The other consorts were so jealous that they framed her so that the king had to float her away on a raft downstream. But as soon as she reached the next kingdom, all it took was one EFTA01160659 touch for the king there to take her as his queen. Everybody was so astonished that a woman so physically deformed could come to be the queen of two kingdoms that someone asked the Lord Buddha how this could come to be. The Lord Buddha looked back at her previous lifetimes and discovered that the woman had made an offering to a paccekabuddha but the offering was made out of anger. On that day, the woman was EFTA01160660 shoring up the wall of her house with mud. A paccekabuddha also needed mud to build his kuti and seeing that the woman had more than enough mud came bowl in hand to ask for some of the mud. The woman was reluctant to give away any of her mud, but gave the paccekabuddha some anyway. Out of anger, she threw a clod of mud into the paccekabuddha's bowl. At the time she was scowling, with her eyebrows knitted EFTA01160661 together, her feet stamping the ground and shaking a fist at the paccekabuddha. The result of her reluctant gooddeed in future rebirths was that her stamping feet were lame, the hand which threw the mud was knarled and her scowling face was deformed beyond recognition. The good part of her deed, the generosity, still gave its fruit — because the mud which built the kuti which helped shelter the paccekabuddha from EFTA01160662 the rain gave her angelic complexion. But this could not diminish the bad part of the deed that was not being polite to those worthy of respect. J.v.440ff., KuAala JAtaka (J.536) Thus in conclusion, not paying respect to those worthy of respect, or not having faith in those who ought to inspire faith clouds the mind and the extension of this ultimately to become a fool. Blessing One: Not Associating with Fools 65 EFTA01160663 The Second Group of Blessings "Turning towards wholesomeness" It is rare to find a system of spiritual wisdom that has environmental considerations built into its metaphysics. The possible exception is the Chinese "Feng Shui" system which probably has its roots in Buddhism anyway. In science by contrast, there is EFTA01160664 always a great debate in developmental biology about the relative influence of the genetic component and the formative experience — the socalled `nature v. nurture' debate. For science, of course it is mostly considerations of the development of physical features like a colour, or a size which might have an influence in the `survival of the fittest', but for spiritual wisdom, EFTA01160665 we are more interested in the development of spiritual maturity. However, no less than with science the Blessings of Life recognize that there is influence both by our internal dispositions (nature) and our environmental influences (nurture). The fourth blessing on "amenable location" is the first blessing of the second grouping of blessings which deals with "turning EFTA01160666 towards wholesome discretion". If we have practised the first three blessings successfully, we will already have" turned our back on negative discretion". In this set of three blessings, the first (Blessing Four) deals with "nurture" influences of the environment on the development of our discretion. The second (Blessing Five) deals with the "nature" influences on EFTA01160667 the development of our discretion and the sixth deals with having a clear aim or purpose in one's life. All three together are necessary if we want to set ourselves on the path of development of spiritual maturity. Thus, in Buddhism, it iS acknowledged that the environment must be good if people are to become good. If the EFTA01160668 EFTA01160669 aIqeuauIV sinoqq盎pN aIqeu3uIV pooJ aIqeuauIV uoDtjo1 aIqeu3wV IaA ③1 PAa'1 I3A③I FAa1NOLIV〕orI PI0tIaSfl0H pooqinoqq幂Iaj Wj0'I Ieu0!眼NFliIVMqI舡V 8u1A?7pauaI1/8?lu∥sp*mi/WI sda智mc :awac1户lflflUflJ/V V99 ’琅M0J8 Iefl1!JdS 即idood J0PUTIT TIIM1I 'aflJJTAS艽D1T 1UaUJUOJTAUa Dhamma Teachings Unextreme Climate, not too rugged, accessible from other countries Self-sufficient in food Righteous monarch or government, population honest, no terrorists or anarchists who threaten solidarity Just law and customs Ease of earning an honest living, good social infrastructure, EFTA01160670 no infectious diseases. Supply of good all year round Lack of criminals, outlaws and mafia Good educational system in worldly and spiritual matters Good water & electricity supplies, good roads, no traffic jams, good communications, no natural disasters Proximity of market EFTA01160671 Access to doctors, patrons/benefactors, wise men, no dens of vice nearby Monks pass on almsround, temples and schools in area Well planned house, sufficient spaces, good ventilation, trees for shade, parks nearby, no disturbance from noise A cottage garden, a good cook in the EFTA01160672 house Heads of the household must be virtuous and not engage in roads to ruin Atmosphere of learning and teaching Dhamma in the home, having at least one communal meal daily TABLE 4.1 AMENABLE LOCATION ON DIFFERENT LEVELS OF DESCRIPTION Blessing Four: Living in an EFTA01160673 Amenable Location 67 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 Amenability of Location in general Generally speaking, an appropriate or amenable location is one which facilitates success in what we set out to do. If we are a fisherman then it might be a place on the coast closest to the fish breeding grounds. If we are in business then it might be a place with all the hustle and bustle of the crowds where our business will prosper. EFTA01160674 And what if we are monks? Monks need a place with special characteristics — a place that is both peaceful and quiet but not too far from the homesteads of the village. For soldiers, an amenable location is a strategic one. In conclusion, each and every profession and activity has its own appropriate location for facilitating success. The word `location' can equally well be applied to the microcosm the setting of a particular EFTA01160675 activity as it can to the macrocosm. Even if you are sitting at a dining table, sitting at one side of the table might be more or less amenable than sitting at the other. The location that most concerns a person or his activities is his immediate environment or neighbourhood- but the more distant environments of his locality or country also have a part to play. A.2 Amenability in Dhamma practice EFTA01160676 The sort of location to be examined in this Blessing is the location amenable to refining the mind or put another way, the location that facilitates the depth by which we can understand the Teachings of the Lord Buddha. In such an amenable location, even though a person may initially lack wisdom, he can make a success of his life. On the contrary, in an unamenable location, even though he may have a high IQ and be capable, given no EFTA01160677 support, there is no way for him to achieve his full potential. Even though someone might get a Ph.D., if he is marooned on a desert island, all his knowledge goes to waste. You might be the world's greatest tactician, but if you are forced to live in the forest with primitive tribal people, all you knowledge will go to waste. The factors that mark an amenable location also apply to appropriate areas to live. EFTA01160678 The Lord Buddha highlighted four factors which make a location amenable — these are: 1. Amenable location 2. Amenable food 3. Amenable neighbours 4. Amenable Dhamma teachings A.3 Amenable is not the same as materially prosperous In many materially prosperous countries, life can be physically convenient. Often the infrastructure is well developed. Employment is easy to find and EFTA01160679 it is easy for residents to save up their wealth. On the surface, such a country might look attractive to live in, but one is wont to forget that although ma- Blessing Four: Living in an Amenable Location 68 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living terial poverty might be hard to find, spiritual poverty might be rife (see §.B.4 below). In such a country, EFTA01160680 the opportunity and the means to develop spiritual maturity might be very hard to find. The chance to accrue merit might be almost nonexistant. Residents in such countries think only of work from the time they get up in the morning to the time they go to sleep at night. Thoughts of generosity, self-discipline or meditation might be the last thing on their minds. Even for those who have some spiritual calling, often they EFTA01160681 can find no-one to give them useful advice. To live in such a country might be life wasted from the point of view of spiritual development. It would be better to make some sacrifices of material convenience in choosing the place you want to live, in order to live in an environment of spiritual richness — which is truly an amenable environment for one's spiritual progress. B. Components EFTA01160682 The components of amenable location cannot be defined globally because they mean different things at different levels of explanation (see diagram p.66): B.1 Amenable Location B.1.1 National Level At the geographical level, it may mean an amenable climate that is not too hot and not too cold. It might mean that the landscape is not too rugged or liable to flooding — but at the same time with convenient communications towards the rest EFTA01160683 of the world. B.1.2 Local Level At a more local level, an amenable climate means ease for the populace in earning a decent living, good communications, proper social infrastructure and a plentiful supply of clean drinking water. B.1.3 Neighbourhood Level On the level of the neighbourhood, the things that make the environment amenable are a proper water and electricity supply, a good road EFTA01160684 system to avoid traffic jams, good communications and no flooding in the wet season. B.1.4 Household Level On the level of the household, the things that count for making the environment amenable are a properly planned house with sufficient space, good ventilation, enough trees round and about to give shade, nearby open areas or parks and no disturbance from noise. Applying the same principles to EFTA01160685 a temple, amenable temple grounds is sufficiently spacious for the number of templegoers, with enough shade to allow the congregation to meditate in comfort and without disturbance from the hustle and bustle of urban life. B.2 Amenable Food B.2.1 National Level On a national level, amenable food means being self-sufficient in one's food supply, not having to rely on neighbouring countries for one's food supply, EFTA01160686 or drinking water. B.2.2 Local Level On local level, amenable food might mean the proximity of a market for foodstuffs. It might also mean being able to grow home-produce. In any case, anyone who lives in an area liable to flooding should try to be self sufficient with their own cottage garden. It doesn't matter how you go about growing the vegetables. For some villages, when the floods come, if the government doesn't EFTA01160687 send in supplies by helicopter for two or three days, the whole village will starve. These are always the villages which are too lazy to grow their own vegetables. If they had grown their own vegetables, even though the floods come, it doesn't particularly bother them. By contrast, those places that plant only cash crops like maize, lose everything they have as soon as the floods arrive. Just having a few vegetables like onions EFTA01160688 in the garden allows one to survive for over a month even when the floods come. B.2.3 Neighbourhood Level Amenability of food at the neighbour hood level might mean the proximity of the market. B.2.4 Household Level An amenable food supply at the household level Blessing Four: Living in an Amenable Location 69 can be summarized with just a few brief hints: 1. You should have a supply of vegetables used EFTA01160689 around the kitchen in reserve in your cottage garden in case of times of need. 2. Your house should be located close to the market. If it is too far from the market, this will become an obstacle to obtaining food. 3. Your house ought to have a good cook. A good cook is the heart of a successful kitchen. There was once an army general who commented in front of his wife (whether he meant to praise her or criticize her is uncertain) EFTA01160690 saying, "the only reason that I've been able to put up with her all these years, is her only single good point — apart from this point there is nothing good about her. She neglects the children. She is useless at receiving guests. She takes little care of the household finances — I have to do the accounts myself. The only reason that I've been able to put up with her all these years, is that she EFTA01160691 makes a tasty meal. If it wasn't for her being a good cook, we would have gone our separate ways years ago." Anybody who thinks they can rely on instant foods, convenience foods and take-aways should think again. Everybody should attempt to learn how to cook. If ever you have to take care of someone who is ill or lonely or anxious, who have lost their appetite, and you can't get out to the market that EFTA01160692 will be the time when your ability to make a proper meal will really make a difference. For as long as we still have defilements in the mind, we still have an appetite and we still have our favourite foods. Were not all like crocodiles which can survive on gravel. For as long as we're still human, we are still choosy about the food we eat. Too sweet or sour, salty or oily and the food loses its attraction. Thus if the food we eat EFTA01160693 is to be amenable there is no harm in food being tasty. B.3 Amenable Neighbours B.3.1 Definitions The various characteristics of a location or a neighbourhood, whether good or bad, are only general characteristics. Even if the general characteristics of a location are abysmal, but the place is inhabited by virtuous people, then the drawbacks of the location can be overcome. On the other hand, in a EFTA01160694 good location with good housing and employment prospects, if the inhabitants are dishonest, however beautiful the buildings, it can be no better than a den of thieves. If the inhabitants are peaceful and well mannered, like monks, then the buildings are a refuge as good as a temple. B.3.2 National Level At the national level, amenable personnel means a population who eke out their existence by honest means. It means a population that EFTA01160695 lacks criminals, terrorists or anarchists who threaten the solidarity of the country. B.3.3 Local Level At the local level, if the populace are interested in nothing more than earning their living, society will not be a happy one. B.3.4 Neighbourhood Level At the neighbourhood level, in addition to a hardworking populace there must be those who make a direct contribution to the well-being of the EFTA01160696 society. I. Doctors are necessary in any society. Without them, every illness will entail death. Even if a location is the most profitable of marketplaces, without doctors in the background, it can never become an amenable society. 2. Patrons and benefactors. Patrons and benefactors arise in a society where there is trading. Those who live in a mercantile society reap the benefits of having capital and such EFTA01160697 a society breeds rich benefactors and millionaires. Compare a society of people where there are only paupers and beggars and you will see how hard it is for such a society to become amenable to the study of Dhamma. In the time of the Lord Buddha, if a king decided to establish a new city, even if he had sufficient labour, craftsmen, without being granted a benefactor or patron from a EFTA01160698 neighbouring city, to be the patron of the new city, the king wouldn't dare to build a new town. 70 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living (see §.D.2 below) The reason that having a patron was so important, apart from being a capitalist who would stimulate trade and growth, he would act as the economist who would help the king with his financial policy-making so that the new city would be able to keep its EFTA01160699 financial head above water. 3. Wise men. Many of the reasons for the importance of the wise have already been covered in Blessing Two. In brief, the wise have a special discretion which allows them to distinguish between what is right and what is wrong, what's appropriate and what's inappropriate, what is meritorious and what is downright evil. Even if you're illiterate, but you can tell EFTA01160700 the difference between right and wrong, you can still be considered a wise one. Thus if you are choosing a place to live, avoid choosing a place where no wise ones live, because in such a place society is not amenable to the study of Dhamma. 4. Righteous Monarch who is established in the Ten Virtues of a Monarch. Without going into detail, it can be said that a qualifying monarch must be EFTA01160701 just and moral. Of course the country's leader doesn't have to be a king to make it an amenable place to live. The same virtues in a president will make his country as amenable as a country governed by a virtuous king. B.3.5 Household Level Amenable personnel at the level of the household means the leader of the household must be virtuous. The husband should abstain from drinking alcohol, the wife from gambling. Both EFTA01160702 should be earnest in earning an honest living. Their children should be earnest in their studies and should be obedient to their parents' command. In this way the household will be united as the smallest unit of an amenable society. B.4 Amenable Dhamma B.4.1 Definitions Dhamma is the culture or principles which governs the lifestyle of a society that lives in an amenable location. At the most basic level EFTA01160703 amenable Dhamma in a society means the governing principles of law and order that the society abides by. Amenable Dhamma is lacking from countries where outlaws run amok. At a deeper level, amenable Dhamma equates with culture and tradition that is one of virtue. The law protects society only from acts of violation through the channels of body and speech, but has no effect on the quality of peoples' minds.The EFTA01160704 minds of a nation can be shaped for the better only by culture or traditions that raise the quality of mind. Examples of this might be the attitude of respect that a child should have towards his parents or a student towards his master. For as long as such traditions are still perpetuated and passed down from one generation to the next in a particular society, that society is still an amenable place to live. By contrast, you should avoid EFTA01160705 going to live in a barbaric society where man has no respect for his fellow man. An example of this would be the primitive society which idolize the man who is able to kill his own father — seeing him as the epitomy of hard-heartedness and fit to be the leader of the tribe. At a yet deeper level, amenable Dhamma in a society means a good educational system which allows the citizens to make a thorough EFTA01160706 study of both worldly and spiritual matters — where both schools and temples form the educational infrastructure of society and all citizens are equipped with sufficient rationale not to be credulous. Deeper still, Buddhism should be well rooted in that country. The Lord Buddha taught that some people are born empty-handed and die empty handed — because they cannot distinguish between good and bad deeds. They just do EFTA01160707 whatever they feel like doing. When they are young, their parents bring them up. When they are full-grown, they get married and have a family — and their children get married and have their own children and the family name is perpetuated for another generation. In the end they pass away and they have no merit or demerit to take with them when they go. It is this sort of person that Buddhism recognizes as EFTA01160708 being born empty-handed and dying emptyhanded. Put another way, life has been fruitless for them. Blessing Four: Living in an Amenable Location 71 Even though some people are born on the doorstep of Buddhism, they still leave the world emptyhanded — so what chance do people who have never even come across Buddhism stand? The Lord Buddha thus laid down guidelines for life, teaching EFTA01160709 that having taken human birth, you must seek benefit both for this lifetime and the next. Benefit can only accrue if you use your body and mind for positive good deeds that will give worthwhile returns on our having been born human. The Lord Buddha taught that at the very least, you ought to be able to set yourself up in life. If you are in debt or still have to rely on others for the roof over your head, you have not yet suceeded in EFTA01160710 even the most rudimentary of human duties. If you are a man (and not a mouse) you must be able to stand on your own two feet. This is what we call benefit for the present lifetime. From our description so far of the features of an amenable location, whether the inhabitants know Buddhism or not, they will manage to succeed in fulfilling benefit for the present lifetime. Where those who don't know Buddhism EFTA01160711 miss out, is through not knowing how to fulfil benefits for the next lifetime. Without a knowledge of Buddhism, you can do no better than use up the merits accrued from previous lifetimes. No additional merits are accrued this lifetime and at the end of this life, your after-life destination will be one of suffering. Those who accrue benefit for future lifetimes, when they die will not go to hell or be born as animals. EFTA01160712 Whatever the proportion of good and bad deeds they may have done, at the very least they will take human birth again — even though they may be handicapped in one way or another. B.4.2 National Level Amenable Dhamma Teachings at National Level means having just laws and customs as the national identity. B.4.3 Local Level Dhamma for the children means having a good EFTA01160713 school. If our children have the chance to study at a decent school, it will give them a head start in life because there is such a great variety of quality in the teaching given at different schools. Dhamma for the adults means having a good temple near at hand. At the very least, if there is a temple near to our house there will be monks who pass near to our house on their almsround and we will have the opportunity to make merit every EFTA01160714 morning. If we want to listen to a sermon, we won't have to go far. If a site is close to both the school and the temple it will earn plenty of points for amenable Dhamma. B.4.4 Neighbourhood Level Amenable Dhamma Teachings at the Neighbourhood Level means that monks pass on almsround and having temples and schools in the vicinity. B.4.5 Household Level This means an atmosphere of enthusiasm for EFTA01160715 Dhamma learning and teaching in the home. B.4.6 Profit in for next life (A.iv.284) The special characteristic of Dhamma teaching that prevents a person from "leaving the world emptyhanded" are the sort of teachings that lead to "profit in the hereafter". The Lord Buddha taught that the minimum of virtue required is the four virtues for benefit in the hereafter as follows [sampAyikatthapayojanal (see detailfrom B1.2 §C4.2). EFTA01160716 I. Faith [saddha]: means confidence in things you ought to have faith in — being a person of discretion especially in the operation of the laws of karma — that doing good deeds will lead to good outcomes and that doing evil will lead to bad retribution. Without such well-founded faith you have little chance of well-being in your future. 2. The Precepts [stla]: You must keep the minimum of Five Precepts as the baseline of one's virtue because the Precepts measure the EFTA01160717 degree to which you are a person as opposed to being a savage. 3. Self-sacrifice [cAga]: Self-sacrifice has many levels of meaning from the superficial to the deep. At its simplest, it means avoiding being so stingy that you cannot bear to see anyone else sharing your possessions or getting any benefit from them. It means the habit of liking to share with 72 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps EFTA01160718 towards Enlightened Living others. At its deepest level it means giving up even the destructive feelings we might feel towards other people or more generally, letting go of anything that encroaches on our quality of mind — i.e. all thoughts of evil and unseemly habits until none remain. 4. Wisdom [pain A]. To be specific, diligence in studying both worldly and spiritual knowledge — so that we can earn a decent EFTA01160719 living efficiently and at the same time know the difference between good and evil — in order to win the path to heaven. Once people are able to identify what is merit and what is demerit, they will gain the inspiration to do only good deeds. Thus knowledge paves the pathway to heaven. C. PRACTICAL CONSIDERATIONS C.1 Choosing the location of a new home Having studied the four main EFTA01160720 principles of a location which is amenable to the spreading of the Dhamma, we have at the same time discovered a recipe for success in choosing the location of a new house. In the olden days, no-one would dare to build a new house without first seeking the advice of a teaching monk or at the very least of a fortune teller. They would always advise the oracle in question to look at the lie of the land. In fact, the most EFTA01160721 successful oracles were not interested in the lie of the land at all, but were interested in how many of the four principles of amenable location were present at the proposed site of the new house. If you want to tell as much about the potential site of a new house as the oracles of old did, start by drawing up a grid with five rows as follows: Site 1 Site 2 Site 3 Site 4 Once you have drawn up the grid, supposing you EFTA01160722 wanted to build a house and you have a choice of four or five locations, but cannot decide which to choose, then award points to each of the different locations according to the four principles of an amenable location: location, food, neigbours and Dhamma. Give each principle points out of twentyfive. When we add up the total points for each different location, we will be able to choose the most amenable location by choosing the EFTA01160723 site with the highest point rating. Use the following guidelines for giving points: I. Amenable location: We should look at the neighbourhood and give points if the place has good facilities including access, running water, electricity and a telephone line. If there is already a house on the site, the more spacious the better. The quality of the construction work will also guide you as to your awarding of EFTA01160724 points. Look at the subdivision of rooms to see whether it is habitable or not. Give the location points accordingly. 2. Amenablefood supply: Consider that if you should choose a particular site for your home, you will be living there for a long time and therefore should give adequate thought to the availability of food. Make sure that the location isn't too far from the market or from a shop selling EFTA01160725 food and various other `perishables'. If any of these sources of food are close at hand, you can award that site plenty of points for the food supply. 3. Amenable neighbours: Inspect the location to see whether it is near to or part of a slum. Do people gamble there or nearby? Is it close to a liquor factory? Is it a den of thieves? If it is any of these things, then keep your distance. Choose somewhere else. If on the contrary, all the EFTA01160726 neighbours are respectable, socially distinguished and of Right View (such as doctors or teachers) of good social standing and of good conduct, then this should attract us to live nearby. At the very least, those good neighbours will give us peaceful surroundings and in times of need they will be able to help us. Give the neighbours the appropriate point rating. 4. Amenable Dhamma: In order to EFTA01160727 give points for this particular factor, it is necessary to divide the 1. Location 2. Food 3. Neighbours 4.Dhamma Blessing Four: Living in an Amenable Location 73 factor into two contributing parts: Dhamma for the children and Dhamma for the adults. When you add up the total points for each site, you should choose the location with the maximum EFTA01160728 points as the site for your new house. Next time you move house there is no need to call in the fortune teller — or a monk either, because armed with an understanding of the factors that make a site amenable for habitation, you can choose the site for new house without anyone else's help. This is certainly a good example of Dhamma that is immediately applicable to everyday life. C.2 Making your present home amenable EFTA01160729 For those who do not ordain and leave the home life, usually, the home and family form the hub of life. In this connection, what should be done to the home to make it amenable to the prospering of the Dhamma? According to Thai tradition, even though we might have three meals a day, there should be at least one of those meals when the whole of the family is together (See Blessing 12, §B.3.1 heading 3.2). Some people claim that they are EFTA01160730 overburdened with work. However if you consider that the only reason that you spend so much time at work is to be a breadwinner for your family to send your child to a private school — then think again. If you are left with no time to bring up your children properly and your child gets addicted to heroin because of your negligence, a million dollars would be insufficient to rectify the problem. If on the contrary, EFTA01160731 you can get by while still finding sufficient time to give full attention to your child's upbringing, then you will be rewarded when your child grows up into a virtuous example of a human being. Many parents have been reduced to tears by disappointment. They're upset that their child cannot go to university because of becoming a junkie. They cry about their awful child — but it would be more fitting to cry about having been EFTA01160732 such an awful parent who didn't take the trouble to bring up their own child properly! Therefore, remember that bringing up a child means more than just seeing that there is food on their plate. You need to instil your child with virtue and to this end, both children and parents should see each others' faces across the dining table at least once a day, and discuss Dhamma, instruct one another and comment on the EFTA01160733 habits which each should be improving upon. If you can't manage to meet at mealtimes, you should make sure that the family come together before bedtime, perhaps for Evening Chanting — but even bedtime cannot beat mealtimes. A child will never miss a meal, and a good telling off before dinner will stay in his mind for a long time. Thus if you are to give a good example of Dhamma which is amenable to the EFTA01160734 household, then a family being together at mealtimes will certainly fit the bill. C.3 Relative importance of the Four Amenable Location Factors In conclusion, an amenable location has four characteristics: an amenable location, amenable food supply, amenable personnel and amenable Dhamma. If you put these four characteristics in order of importance, you will find the following: EFTA01160735 Amenable Dhamma is the most important, followed by amenable personnel, followed by amenable food supply and an amenable location is the least important of the four. Even though the location may not be ideal, but the food is plentiful or neither the location or the food supply are ideal, but the inhabitants are amenable, they can soon improve the quality of the location and the food. However, the thing that makes EFTA01160736 the inhabitants amenable is having Amenable Dhamma it that location. This is the reason why Amenable Dhamma is the most important attribute of the four. C.4 Amenable Location outside, Amenable Location inside There are two different types of amenable location: I. Amenable Surroundings: the quality of location which is determined by the four factors already discussed. 2. Amenable Location within: EFTA01160737 This is the most important influence on the quality of our well being — i.e. a healthy body and mind — a body 74 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living and mind that are in no way disabled or infected by disease. Some people are born with a silver spoon in their mouths. They are brought up properly by their parents, but when they grow up, instead of feeling grateful for all the efforts made by EFTA01160738 their parents, they inflict illness upon themselves by turning alcaholic. There are a myriad diseases that come as a result of drinking alcohol. Even lying can be the source of disease (see Blessing Nine, §C.1.4) causing your memory to become blurred and eventually leading to senile dementure as the result of the bad karma you have accumulated throughout the course of your life. Thus as we have seen from the EFTA01160739 examples of breaking the Precepts of lying or drinking alcahol, all of the Precepts, if broken, will be the source of illness. Thus you need to protect your internal environment. If you pollute the quality of your internal environment, success will elude you for the rest of your life and your future lifetimes will be even worse. Take care of your Precepts and they will take care of you. Now that you know the four EFTA01160740 factors of an amenable location if you are still a child you should look for a location that is going to be amenable to your own education. If you are an adult then you should try to make your location into an amenable location, wherever you go. As an adult, it isn't good enough simply to go looking for amenable locations, you should be working actively to improve the quality of the environment. D. ILLUSTRATIVE EFTA01160741 EXAMPLES D.1 Metaphor: Bonsai Bodhi Tree It is said that if you plant a tree in fertile soil, it will grow until it is many metres in diameter. If you take the same tree and plant it in a flower pot or a barrel, it will end up as a root-bound bonsai tree instead. Even if it is watered and carefully tended for several generations it will never grow higher than a few inches. Asked why a thousand-year old tree reaches only a few inches in EFTA01160742 height, we come back to the conclusion that it has been planted in an unamenable location. Even though it doesn't grow tall, it doesn't die. D.2 Ex. Establishing Saketu (DhA.i.386) When King Pasenadi built the new city of Saketu in the time of the Lord Buddha, he sent a letter to King BimbAsara to ask for permission to move one of the patrons from that kingdom to live in the new city. King BimbasAra sent EFTA01160743 VisAkhA's father as patron to the new city. Before long, the patron got all the finances of the city properly organized and Saketu became one of the most prosperous citystates in India at that time. This goes to show that an amenable city doesn't just consist of buildings but it needs the presence of amenable neighbours such as benefactors and patrons. D.3 Ex. Ariya thefisherman (DhA.iii.396ff) Even though some people in the EFTA01160744 time of the Lord Buddha had no worldly knowledge — they were completely illiterate and were of the lowest trades but they had the good fortune to be born in an amenable location (i.e. in the same time and place as the Buddha) and because of this fact alone, were able to attain enlightenment to level of a stream enterer [sotApana]. There was a fisherman called"Ariya" (lit. "noble one") who lived during the time of EFTA01160745 the Buddha. As a fisherman, he caught and killed fish every day. One day in meditation, the Buddha saw Ariya's potential to attain the fruit of stream-entry [sotApattiphala] and went, with a number of other monks to where Ariya was fishing. Seeing the Buddha approaching, Ariya became ashamed of his action and hid his fishing line. When the Buddha arrived, while standing in front of the man, he asked EFTA01160746 SAriputta his name. "SAriputta", replied SAriputta. The Buddha then proceeded to ask the name of each of the monks and overhearing, the man wondered whether after asking all the monks' names, the Buddha would ask his. The Buddha knew what he was thinking and asked the man his name. "Ariya" replied the man. In fact, the Buddha didn't need to be told the man's name. The Buddha gave Ariya a teaching that anyone EFTA01160747 who still harmed other living beings could not be called `noble' on account of his actions. He said that one's nobility comes from not harming other living beBlessing Four: Living in an Amenable Location 75 ings. Hearing the Buddha's teaching, Ariya attained stream-entry and from that day onwards never killed a living being again, having transcended the very intention to kill — in spite of the fact that he EFTA01160748 was illiterate. He lived in the depths of poverty, but he had one auspicious advantage in his life, and that was to live in a time and place where there was the opportunity to come face-to-face with the Lord Buddha — and this alone allowed him to become enlightened to the level of a stream-enterer. D.4 Ex. Ghosaka's lifetime as a dog (DhA.i.169, PsA.504ff) Another example of a similar phenomenon happened EFTA01160749 in a time before the Lord Buddha. At that time, the only Buddhas in existence were paccekabuddhas who although enlightened, were unable to teach for the benefit of the manyfolk. These paccekabuddhas came on almsround in the city. Having collected alms, they would return to the forest to take their meal. This would be his normal daily routine. Seeing that the paccekabuddha had to walk such a long way each day, EFTA01160750 one of the more faithful supporters invited the paccekabuddha to dwell nearby his own house and would bring food for the paccekabuddha every for every morning and midday meal. Any day when the householder was not free to make the offering himself, he would send his welltrained dog to carry a tiffin set of food to offer to the paccekabuddha at his place. As the dog grew more familiar with the paccekabuddha it EFTA01160751 took a liking to Him because the deportment and manner of the paccekabuddha was so gentle. If the dog was at home and failed to mind firewood for its master it would be beaten. However, in the dwelling of the paccekabuddha it was a different story. When the dog came close he could listen to the chanting of the paccekabuddha. There was no risk of being beaten and the paccekabuddha would even divide part of EFTA01160752 the food to give to the dog as well. The dog became more and more familiar with the gentle manner of the paccekabuddha. At the end of the rainy season, the paccekabuddha bid the householder farewell and returned to the forest. The paccekabuddha made his journey by floating through the air. The dog watched the paccekabuddha go with regret and howled as loudly as it could because there was nothing else for it to EFTA01160753 do. It was a sad farewell for the dog who still had the paccekabuddha on its mind. The dog was so sad that as it came to the end of its howling, it dropped dead. However, as the result of the faith of this dog in the paccekabuddha and from howling at the departure of the paccekabuddha, the dog was reborn immediately as an angel called Ghosaka — whose duty was to be a spokesman for the rest of the angels. In the time of the Lord Buddha, EFTA01160754 Ghosaka was reborn in the human realm as Ghosaka the Millionnaire and was one of the greatest patrons of Buddhism. The result of living in an amenable location and taking the chance to be an attendant to a paccekabuddha led him to become an angel on dying from rebirth as a dog and from his rebirth as an angel to be reborn as an important patron of Buddhism. D.5 Ex. Monk and Five-Hundred Bats (Vagguli Vatthu SadS. 81ff.) EFTA01160755 Another example comes from the time of a previous Buddha. There was a monk who had retired to a cave in order to train himself. The monk would rise early each morning and chant the Abhidhamma. The monk shared the cave with five-hundred bats. During the day the bats would return to the cave but at night they would fly outside to feed. Thus the bats would hear the chanting of the Abhidhamma every day. Even EFTA01160756 though the bats had no way of knowing the meaning of the chanting, they became familiar with the sound of the monk's chanting and became inspired with faith. When it came to time for the bats to pass away, they died with faith in their hearts and were all reborn as angels. Passing away from their existence as angels, they were reborn as men in the time of the present Buddha. All five hundred men became EFTA01160757 ordained as monks and hearing the chanting of the Abhidhamma only once, unlike normal people who might remain indifferent to the chanting, could re76 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living member the words of the Abhidhamma which were still impressed in their minds from that previous lifetime, and recollecting the words of the Abhidhamma were soon able to become enlightened as arahants. EFTA01160758 Thus, it is easy to see that simply living in an amenable location is not just advantageous for people — even lowly animals can experience the benefits! Blessing Five: Having Done Good Deeds in One's Past 77 A. INTRODUCTION With Blessing Five we are still exploring the virtues which comprise "turning towards wholesomeness" as exemplified by the second grouping. Last blessing we have already mentioned the "naturenurture" EFTA01160759 dichotomy of scientifically understood development. Last blessing already covered the "nurture"aspect of the environment — and so this Blessing we come to the factor of "nature" — the aspects of our character and personality which we bring with us into the world. In this Blessing we attempt to explain the variety of material and spiritual success between different people in the world — differences which are not accountable in terms EFTA01160760 of the Blessings we have already studied up to this point. How for example can we explain the differences in disposition and life success of identical twins (with the same genetic components), brought up by the same parents in the same environment? How about newborn children, who far from being a clean slate have different personalities, different potentials and different speeds of learning. Science would attribute these things to EFTA01160761 genetic differences between their grandparents. This might work out for some things such as how people look or their physical strength, but I think you would agree that there are many other things that genetics cannot explain. No scientist has ever found a gene for intelligence for example. All that are found are the abberations that make people handicapped — and these are in spite of the fact that neither their parents EFTA01160762 or their grandparents were handicapped in such away. Thus it must be something about the child himself brings with him into the world. This Blessing attempts to account for the disparity in terms of the residue of life experience picked up by individuals in their past particularly the positive life experiences. In order to understand the rather lengthy matter of having done good deeds in one's past, it is necessary EFTA01160763 to study the subject of merit in general and to touch also upon the subjects of retribution and mind quality. Some people study the Manual of Peace from Blessing One (Not Associating with Fools) through Blessing Two (Associating with the Wise), Blessing Three (Paying Respect to those worthy of Respect). They are able to accept all the reasoning of these first three Blessings, and are able to follow them in their everyday life. They EFTA01160764 even find that Blessing Four (Living in an Amenable Location), makes sense in their everyday lives — because in any case they have to choose the location for their home and the place where they go to school, college and university. However, they may have difficulty with the claim that the sort of deeds we have done in the past can affect our quality of life and even the quality of society. It is obvious that with EFTA01160765 with this Blessing we are starting to deal with more subtle phenomena than before. Al. Success and Failure in Life Success and failure might appear on many different levels — on the level of society, the level of lifestyle, the level of personality or the level of the mind itself — but basically it comes down to quality of mind on four levels A person blessed with success on the level of the mind will have a quality mind — that is a mind that EFTA01160766 Blessing Five: Having done good deeds in one's past 78 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living is stable and unwavering, hard to distract, pure and radiant, spacious and light, adaptable to any sort of task and implicitly happy and peaceful. Those who are less lucky might have a mind that is dull, inert and easily distracted. EFTA01160767 A person blessed with success on the level of the personality might may find that people believe every word of what they say. Those who are less lucky might find that even if they tell the truth solidly for a month, no-one will believe them. A person blessed with success on the level of the lifestyle might seem to be born smart. Their discretion is reliable. Those who are less lucky might have such bad judgement that they become too afraid to EFTA01160768 make any decisions, always hesitating or provaricating instead — and they miss life's opportunities as a result. Even though they might do their best at work and take painstaking care never to make any error — they may be disliked and discriminated against by their boss. A society blessed with success can muster all its human and natural resources to become a world leader. Less lucky countries, even those with educated EFTA01160769 citizens and abundant natural resources can be reduced to deserts by corruption and civil strife. B. DEFINITIONS Bl. "Merit": Definitions and Characteristics This residue of positivity or strength of mind which we have built up for ourselves in their past, is called by the technical term, `merit'. The Pali word `purifiA' from which we derive the word `merit', can be translated in different ways according to context EFTA01160770 just like the word `well' can mean `healthy' or `properly' depending on the context. Thus, the word `puririA' has many meanings — it can mean goodness, purification, cleansing, happiness or full. This spectrum of definitions, tell us not only the characteristics of merit, but also something of the function of merit too. The word `merit' in English [pufifiA] can sometimes be confusing because it makes us think of being honoured EFTA01160771 or praised or approved of by another person. However, all that is intended in this case is that it is `deserved'. It occurs spontaneously without needing a third party to award it to us. A general definition of merit is: 'the result of doing a good deed'. It has the following characteristics: 1. It is distilled in the mind as soon as we perform a good deed; 2. Is the agent by which the quality of the mind is EFTA01160772 improved; 3. It can be accumulated; 4. Merit belongs to the one who performed its originating deed; 5. As we use it, normally it will become exhausted; 6. The amount of merit depends on strength of intention, amount of effort and amount of gratitude and ingratitude of the producing action. 7. Gives effects attracting favourable circumstances at four levels: mind, personality, lifestyle and EFTA01160773 society. If you are an advanced meditator you can use your meditation to see what merit is like. However, the most that a normal meditator can see of the merit is like its shadow. We see its effects and so deduce that it must be present. We can compare merit to electricity (i.e. something which we cannot see or feel because it is nothing more than a source of power which cannot be observed with the naked EFTA01160774 eye). Normally, we cannot see electricity, only the effects it causes such as the heat from an iron when electricity is connected, or the electric shock which ensues if one grasps a live wire; it enters a light bulb and gives us the light by which we can read in the evening; it goes into a radiator and brings us warmth; it enters a refrigerator and stops our food from decaying and it enters a motor and makes it to spin. In the same way that we EFTA01160775 can use electricity without really ever having seen it, most of us have to be able to content with accruing merit without seeing it for ourselves. Merit cannot be observed with the naked eye, nevertheless we have the feeling that when we perform a meritorious deed, that the mind is refreshed and loses any sense of irritation or crampedness leaving the mind spacious, light and content. Most people in the world have EFTA01160776 never seen the real nature of merit itself, and thus have their doubts as to whether doing good deeds Blessing Five: Having Done Good Deeds in One's Past 79 really creates merit or not. However, those with more experience of meditation, who have seen the real nature of the merit for themselves, will see the merit as clearly as others see the rain falling from the heavens. B.2 "In the past": Defined At this point we have to examine EFTA01160777 the meaning of the merits that we have performed in the past — and this may apply to anything in your past whether it means yesterday or many years ago. In fact our past can be divided into two periods: I. Our Recent Past: which means the time from which we were born from our mother's womb, and opened our eyes for the first time to look at the world right up to yesterday. 2. Our Distant Past: which means EFTA01160778 all of our existences and experiences up to the time when we entered the womb in the most recent lifetime. To describe both of these periods of our past in a simpler way we can say that the merit in our recent past is all the good deeds we have done this lifetime since our childhood onwards. Examples of such good deeds might include helping our parents wash the dishes EFTA01160779 when we were young. We might have helped with the family business as we became older. Eventually, when we completed our education, and got down to a steady career, we have divided our time between earning a living and accruing good deeds for ourselves. All these good deeds right from the time when we were born can be referred to as merit in our recent past. EFTA01160780 As for the merit in our distant past, this refers to the merits that we have accrued in our previous lives, whether it may be last lifetime or a hundred lifetimes ago. B3. Quality of Merit Apart from categorizing merit according towhen it was accrued merit can be categorized according to its quality: mundane merit [lokiyapufiriA] and transcendental merit [lokuttarapuliriA]. 1. Mundane merit is the merit that people are generally EFTA01160781 familiar with that is to say for people for whose mind is not completely pure at the time they do the good deed. Such merit can run out. When the merit is used up, it will no longer give its benefits — just like a tank full of petrol which has a limited range. 2. Transcendental Merit is the merit that arises in the pure mind. Such merit is steadfast and will never diminish or be exhausted. Thus the purity of the mind also EFTA01160782 has an important role to play in dictating the quality of the merit we are able to accrue for ourselves. C. ACCRUING MERIT Cl. Three Major ways to Accrue Merit There are Ten Major Ways to Accrue Merit. As mentioned in the preceding sections, merit arises as the result of doing good deeds. Unfortunately, simply knowing that "good" is "meritorious" doesn't explain how to go about doing good deeds. EFTA01160783 "Goodness" or "merit" can become meaningless and cliched if they are not defined in the context of practice, and for this reason that Buddhism summarizes the different ways of practice of good deeds into a collection of ten types of practice in three categories through which merit canbe accrued. For the benefit of such people, the three categories of ways to accrue merit [puririAkiriyavatthu] are — generosity, keeping EFTA01160784 the precepts and meditation. I. Generosity includes merit generated through generosity, merit generated through service, merit generated through the transfer of merit to others and merit generated through rejoicing in the merit of others. 2. Keeping the Precepts includes merit generated through keeping the Precepts. 3. Meditation includes merit generated through meditation, merit generated through humility EFTA01160785 towards those of high virtue, merit generated through listening to Dhamma sermons, merit generated through giving a discourse on the Dhamma and merit generated through correcting our assumptions about the world. 80 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living C2. Ten Major Ways to accrue merit If you expand these three categories into their ten types of practice we get the following: EFTA01160786 1. Generosity: this means merit generated through generosity [dAnamaya]. Some may wonder why merit can be accrued as the result of giving. Merit arises in the mind as explained above. The mind in its natural state takes the form of a clear sphere of diamond brightness, however, when polluted by defilements, these reduce the sparkling mind to dullness and weakness, lowering the potential of the mind. If a person does EFTA01160787 something generous, giving away some part of that wealth which is the source of their anxiety, the mind becomes more at ease. Merit arises and this merit lights up the mind for a while. The radiance gradually accrues in the mind. The brightness, or the merit accumulates in the mind as generous deeds are performed regularly. The merit that arises from generosity is generated by two EFTA01160788 actions of the mind: firstly, the removal of the defilement of greed from the mind — something which immediately upgrades the quality of the mind and of our character too; secondly, as a result of the benefit obtained from the gift by the recipient — the more benefit is obtained by the recipient, especially from a gift that is hard-wearing, the more merit will be accrued by the giver.There are many different EFTA01160789 forms of generosity. I. Giving useful material objects to others, whether it is food, clothing, shelter or medicine, will generate merit for the giver. The most basic act of generosity is the gift of something that is beneficial to the recipient [vatthudAna]. 2. Giving worldly knowledge [vidhayadAna] Merit is also generated if you give the gift of knowledge that is beneficial to the recipient. EFTA01160790 of benefit to any recipient. Knowledge may be vocational skills — such as how to set oneself up as a tailor. 3. Giving spiritual knowledge [dhammadAna] of benefit to the recipient is knowledge of the Dhamma such as the advice contained in this book. 4. Forgiving: There is also a way of giving where you don't have to make any physical effort at all — when you are angry with Mr. EFTA01160791 A, Mr. B and Mr. C. All of them have at some time or other contributed trouble to your life. Suppose that one day, you decide to put an end to all the anger and forgive them for all the upsets they have caused you in the past — and start afresh. In such a case, as soon as the thought crosses you mind to forgive them, merit will arise in your mind. Even though you haven't EFTA01160792 expended even the slightest physical effort, you have managed to earn yourself merit though giving `forgiveness' [abhAyadAna]. Even giving others a smile instead of a scowl will bring you merit according to the same principle of forgiveness! 2. Humility: This means merit generated through Humility towards those of High Virtue [apacAyanamaya]. You may be surprised that EFTA01160793 even without expending any physical effort, simply possessing the attitude of humility can cause one to accrue merit. The person who, instead of finding fault with others is both humble and respectful, has a virtue that will allow him to find the good in each and every person he meets. He will put others' faults to one side. Such humility will lead the owner to accrue merit, because at the very least, they will always see EFTA01160794 the world in a positive light, allowing them to remain in a pleasant mood the whole day long. If they are perceptive they will have the wisdom to see the virtues in the hearts of others and instil themselves with those virtues which they see in others — accruing even greater merit for themselves. 3. Service: This means merit generated through Service [veyyAvaccamaya]. This is the domain EFTA01160795 of those who immediately rush to assist others who they see doing good deeds. For example, if they find out that their neighbour is preparing a meal to offer the monks, they will prepare all the seasoning needed for the meal and and give that to the neighbour making the meal. 4. Transfer of Merit: Merit generated through the transfer of merit to others [pattidAnamaya]. Blessing Five: Having Done Good Deeds in One's Past 81 EFTA01160796 Whenever someone does a good deed and his mind is full of merit as the result of his goodness, and he transfers some part of his merit to another person, or to his deceased relatives, these are all counted as ways of generating merit through the transfer of merit. 5. Rejoicing in the Merit of others: Merit generated through rejoicing in the merit of others [pattAnumodanAmaya]. This sort of merit is accrued EFTA01160797 by those who, whenever they see that someone else has done a good deed, is pleased for them and rejoices with them in the merit that they have made. Even if they are unable to contribute anything more to that person's merit making, by rejoicing with them or congratulating them on doing their good deed, they will earn a part of the merit for themselves too. It is in this connection that you often hear the EFTA01160798 word ' Sadhu!' in Buddhist circles. 6. Keeping the Precepts: Merit generated through keeping the Precepts [sEla]. Keeping the Precepts ensures that we never take advantage of others through our physical or verbal actions — and at the same time we bring no harm to ourselves. You might wonder how keeping the Precepts can possibly give rise to merit. When we abandon all thoughts of taking advantage of EFTA01160799 others, in their place arises the radiance of merit that has accrued in the mind. This will have the effect of quenching heart-felt troubles. 7. Meditation: This means merit generated through meditation [bhAvanAmaya]. Meditation is a way of training the mind to become wiser. There are many different subdivisions to what can be considered as mind training and these include reading books on Dhamma, chanting and EFTA01160800 meditation itself. Meditation has the effect on the mind of causing the arising of radiance and distancing the mind from disturbance by anxiety, limiting its habitual wandering, bringing peace. Whenever the covering of defilements is banished from the mind, especially the defilement of ignorance which usually imprisons the mind in darkness and undermines its true potential, wisdom will EFTA01160801 arise in the mind as the brightness of merit. 8. Listening to Dhamma Sermons: This means merit generated through listening to Dhamma sermons [dhammassavanamaya]. Listening to Dhamma lectures or sermons on the Dhamma will enhance our wisdom. Before, we might have had only a rudimentary understanding of the real nature of the world, but now as a result of hearing Dhamma Teachings, we EFTA01160802 know how to tell the difference between good and evil. Such an improvement in the level of our wisdom will result in our accruing merit for ourselves. 9. Giving a discourse on the Dhamma: This means merit generated through giving a Discourse on the Dhamma [dhammadesanArnaya] Teaching the Dhamma by giving a sermon will bring merit to the preacher in the following ways: EFTA01160803 EFTA01160804 noc 'qDI0Jd no人SV .sUUIwvl//)4。 sdno窿1ua1創J!Paq1 a鯽a.i。7n04 咖q8u？卯Va磋＜:1．乙 .JI0s0uo 。1 o8poIMou轧 ojq℃njiA8uidoo'jjo 2IU20琅 2ooldn。）dI0qIIIA鬈‘人Isnon篡IAS0AII J!0琅p10I ou noqtsJ唧。8uionisui'uouuos R8U1A1D .sJ呷。琅IA\D8p0JMOU艽1I0琅0JtqS 。）)u笆1D啊01 0J1 Sb3琅0 .sJa琅。琅IM q2Je0M JI0q2 011qS 碉 lui1onjoJ 0II ojdood ouios.s.ia簍。 幼dfl刀仞ad犁VP銜a~ 扣p紐？UI d紉7p?z 刀？4几821？犁dVa磋＜I .I are able to revise the different groups of dhammas, increasing your mastery of them. As you recollect those dhammas, you will be inspired by them and this will bring radiance to the mind. Mastery also comes through the necessity to revise from the Dhamma texts, sometimes two to three weeks in advance of actually giving the sermon, in order to obtain a profound EFTA01160805 understanding of the Dhamma topic in hand before having to teach it to others. 10. Straightening One's Views: This means merit generated through Straightening out one's A A views: [diEEhujukammamaya]. As the result of listening to a good sermon, the listener will have the discretion to tell good from evil, right from wrong. They will no longer doubt that doing good deeds gives good results or that doing evil EFTA01160806 will bring bad results. Before long the mind is steadfast in the pursuit of good deeds and in the avoidance of evil. This process is what we mean 82 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living by correcting our understanding of the world. Once our understanding is proper, then the deeds of mind, speech and body will be good and proper too. The determination will arise in the mind that you will pursue good EFTA01160807 deeds for evermore — no longer being sidetracked into evil or unproductive ways. Thus if you it hard to remember all ten categories of meritorious deeds, you can summarize them down to three major categories: generosity, keeping the Precepts and meditation. D. FUNCTIONS OF MERIT Dl. Level of mind The first benefits that merit will bring when it arises are benefits at the level of the mind. This is one of EFTA01160808 the most important benefits because there is no need for one to wait for the after-life in order to see the results. Whenever we perform a good or meritorious deed, merit will arise immediately. If you do a good deed at night, merit will arise at night. If you do a good deed by day, merit will arise by day. If you do a good deed on an aircraft in mid-air, then the merit will arise in our mind there in mid-air. Wherever you are, if you perform EFTA01160809 a meritorious deed, the effect will arise in the mind instantaneously — it doesn't need much expenditure of energy for such merit to arise — even just thinking to do a meritorious deed will cause merit to arise and will put the mind at ease. There is no need to wait a long time in order to see the results at the level of the mind of your meritorious deeds. You don't even need to wait for someone to admire you for doing EFTA01160810 such a good deed. The results of merit will arise automatically in the mind without you having to do anything more than good deeds — and the benefits that arise are as follows: 1. Merit cleanses the mind: When the mind is clean it is ready to pursue even greater degrees of good deeds. In the days before we started accruing merit, we considered that our mind was already pure. However, as soon as we start doing meritorious EFTA01160811 deeds, we realize that our mind has become purer than we ever expected. Before our mind was as bright as the morning star but now our mind is even brighter, with the radiance of the full moon. No matter how clouded and dull the mind might be beforehand, when merit arises in the mind will clarify the mind just like soap or detergent cleans the dirt out of a cloth leaving it pristine and white. EFTA01160812 2. Merit raises the quality of the mind: Merit that arises in the mind helps to filter out defilements which might otherwise operate in the mind. Merit will neutralize such negativity in the mind, not allowing them to affect the spaciousness and lightness or to slow down the operation of the mind — and having filtered the mind in this way, the mind is left ready to serve us in all types of task. The meritorious deeds we do EFTA01160813 therefore upgrade the quality of our minds. 3. Merit brings us happiness: When the mind is purified and filtered by the arising of merit, it gives rise to radiance and refreshedness of mind which is the precursor of happiness. Such happiness is not fleeting, superficial happiness. It is an overflowing of happiness like on the days we make an offering or a donation at the temple and we feel refreshed by the goodness EFTA01160814 of our action, as if our heart was so big that it filled the whole of our being. 4. Merit will make the mind more stable: Merit will make our mind more stable in the face of the worldly vicissitudes such as being praised or insulted. 5. Merit will make the mind more flexible: The mind will have increased potential for success with the task in hand, whether the task be large EFTA01160815 or small, gross or refined — whatever the nature of the task, the mind made flexible will be ready for all eventualities. 6. Merit will make the mind more radiant: It will increase the potential of the mind to gain insight to overcome all manner of obstacles that arise in the course of performing any task. 7. Merit will increase the potential of the mind: You will begin to notice the difference whenever you apply your mind to any task. You EFTA01160816 might overcome the tendency to lose your temper easily. The mind that is free from anxiety and Blessing Five: Having Done Good Deeds in One's Past 83 cloudedness, that is spacious and pure and steadfast will be the mind of the highest potential. 8. Merit will allow better decisions to be taken: Decisions can be made quickly and accurately without hesitation. 9. Merit will allow a more EFTA01160817 insightful analysis of any situation: Thoughts will be `on the ball' and a correct analysis of the situation every time.The mind dwells only on subjects that are skilful. You find yourself unable to think over anything potentially damaging to your high state of mind. 10.Merit will make your thinking thorough and comprehensive: You will not allow your thought to be dragged down into shoddiness. EFTA01160818 11. Merit will help to make your thought both noble and deep: Merit will incline your mind towards the higher things of life and away from the baser side of life. All of these features illustrate the general beneficial effects of merit at the level of the mind. They are effects that take place equally no matter which of the ten ways you use to generate merit. However, the benefits of merit go further than this. They EFTA01160819 are more than just a feeling in the heart — leading to rebirth in more fortunate realms live to come. D2. Level of Personality This level of the effects of merit is easier to observe than the effects on the mind. As we accrue more and more merit, the general benefits, no matter which way in which we accumulate merit, will spread to the level of our personality and will gradually change it for the better. The changes in our character EFTA01160820 originate from the changes mentioned above in the quality of the mind. I. Merit will bring you physical grace: from your complexion to your voice and even your physical proportions — all are attractive and appropriate to the task of pursuing perfection. 2. Merit will bring knowledge, wisdom and mastery: because the illumination whch merit brings will awaken us to the nature of the world as it really is. Anyone who has set their EFTA01160821 heart on being smart should start by cultivating merit. 3. Merit will help to upgrade our tastes and values: As the mind dwells on matters that are only virtuous and leaves aside evil thought, thinking things through thoroughly and in depth, our tastes and values will change in favour of virtue and morality. 4. Merit will develop our character and personality: These changes of attitude and and EFTA01160822 discretion will express themselves in changes of character and personality. 5. Merit causes our speech to become skilful: skilful thought becomes habitual and this causes our speech to be skilful too. 6. Merit causes our behaviour to improve: Good speech has its effect on our physical actions and we find that our behaviour gradually changes for the better. The way that we express ourselves, EFTA01160823 our deportment when in company, no matter where we mix socially, will be impeccable instead of being vulnerable to all forms of temptation. 7. Merit strengthens our patience: We no longer drool over others' possessions. In the olden days, others might have been suspicious even at the sight of us, worrying about when we were going to rob them of their beloved possessions — but now that there is no more EFTA01160824 drooling, they can enjoy their wealth in peace. 8. Merit causes us to have more control over our temper: You certainly wouldn't let yourself be drawn into a conflict any more. This is another way in which one's personality changes as the result of upgrading the quality and potential of the mind. 9. Merit improves our personal appearance: Personality includes your personal appearance. Merit accrued will cause our EFTA01160825 complexion to be soft and radiant so much more refreshing than before when you weren't interested in merit. 10.Merit will reduce our anxieties: All your misgivings and bones you had to pick with others, which before used to keep you awake at night, will now be forgiven. D3. Level of Lifestyle Merit will take its effect on our mind and our personality immediately whenever we perform a meritorious EFTA01160826 deed. At the third level, that of the lifestyle, 84 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living however, we cannot be sure how quickly the benefits will be manifested because our quality of lifetime arises as the result of both present and past deeds. The effects of good and bad deeds are mixed together inseparably. When there are so many contributing factors, it becomes very complex to determine the exact source of the merit that EFTA01160827 has given particular benefit in a particular lifetime. It is just the same as looking at a particular cell in our body and not knowing which item of food we ate has nourished that cell. This is part of the reason why we are often hesitant to believe that doing good deeds brings good results or that doing bad deeds brings bad results. Some of the general results of our merit are as follows: I. Merit will attract success: We EFTA01160828 will be successful whatever we turn our hand to. 2. Merit will bring us praise: You will be praised (at least by the wise); 3. Merit is like a protective armour: which protects us from dangers and misfortunes like a guardian angel. 4. Merit can lead us to attainment: allow you to make continuous progress in your meditation. 5. Merit brings us the things that we wish for: Merit acts like a wish-fulfilling gem. EFTA01160829 Another thing which makes the results of merit difficult to understand at the level of the personality is that apart from the general benefits, there are also differences in the way the outcome of merit manifests itself, rather like different `flavours' associated with the ways by which merit has been performed. D.3.1 Examples of Merit Outcomes D.3.1.1 Generosity and KAlyanamittata The benefits that merit brings to EFTA01160830 different people differs according to the differences the merits they have performed. To take a good example — that of generosity, the likely results of the merits they have done are as follows: 1. Those who make lonely donations without encouraging their friends will be born rich in future lives, but won't have many friends. They will have to look hard to find anyone to give them their friendship or even EFTA01160831 understand them; 2. Those who make donations themselves and encourage others to join them in making merit too will be born rich in future lifetimes and will have plenty of friends; 3. Those who don't make donations, but they encourage their friends to make donations will have plenty of rich friends, but they will be poor themselves. If any of your friends are EFTA01160832 in need, you will be able to tell them how to solve their problems instantly — but if you are in need you can do nothing to help yourself; 4. Those who don't make donations and don't encourage others to make donations either have a begging bowl waiting for them in their next life. They will have no friends either. D.3.1.2 Long life: Long life versus short life Some people are long-lived EFTA01160833 because in previous lives they avoided killing or harming animals. Long life is useful because it allows one plenty of time to perform good deeds. D.3.I.3 Illness: Freedom from illness versus sickliness Some people are always in good health. They seem invulnerable to disease and hardly even know their doctor. Again good health is the result of having not been cruel to animals in previous EFTA01160834 lifetimes. D.3.1.4 Complexion: Radiant versus dull complexion Some people never seem to lose their temper. They seem to be happy the whole of the time. Such people have a radiant complexion. By contrast, those who are moody and whose faces are always in a frown will have a dull and rough complexion like that of a frog, however many lifetimes they are born. Thus if you know EFTA01160835 yourself to be moody by nature, then try to improve your character as soon as you can — try doing the chanting and meditation before you go to bed each day. If you are angry with anybody in particular, try to find a way to forgive them and spread lovingBlessing Five: Having Done Good Deeds in One's Past 85 kindness towards them. If you are angry with anybody, don't let the anger last overnight. It's EFTA01160836 bad enough to be angry all day don't let it last to the next morning. D.3.1.5 Power: Powerful versus powerless Some people are born to rule. Wherever they go others treat them with the utmost respect because in the past they have always been quick to express their congratulations [muditA] whenever they have seen anyone else achieving success andgiven them their support. As for those who EFTA01160837 are born powerless and cowering, the real reason for this is because of their jealous habits in previous lifetimes. Even if they are born king, they will be king of a mere vassal state or if they are born queen, they will be no more than a secondary consort. If you have the luck to receive a gift it will be second hand! D.3.1.6 Riches: Rich versus poor Some are born with a silver spoon in their mouth. Some are born into a wealthy EFTA01160838 family. Others families are poor but start to prosper as soon as they are conceived so that by the time they are born, their family is already rich. Others' families are poor but they start to prosper as soon as the baby is born. Such occurrences can only happen to someone who has been generous in his previous lifetimes. Whatever one chooses to do, it will make one rich. By contrast, if one has lived by EFTA01160839 robbery in previous lifetimes then this lifetime, they will have a begging bowl waiting for them. D.3.1.7 Social Standing: High v. low social standing Some people are born with high social standing — such as being born king or a member of the royal family or as member of a house of high standing. By contrast, some are born a beggar's son. They are on the lowest rung of the social ladder. The Lord Buddha taught that those EFTA01160840 who are humble and respectful of the virtuous will be born in a family of high social standing. If in this lifetime you pay respect of high virtue and listen to their teachings, you will be born in a family of high social standing next lifetime and others will have the chance to pay respect to you. The reason why some people are born with low social standing is that they have lacked humility and EFTA01160841 reverence in their dealings with the virtuous in their previous lifetimes and have been stubborn and unyielding instead. D.3.1.8 Intelligence: Intelligent v.s ignorant Some people are born clever. As soon as they have the chance to study, all it takes is a single lesson and they are able to stand up and teach in the teacher's place. For others, the teacher teaches them the same thing two or three times and still EFTA01160842 they can make no sense of it. They have to rely on their friends to explain it to them outside lesson time. Even after so much trouble, they have only a superficial grasp of what they have learned. They will have to read through the lesson another ten times if they are to understand it as well as their peers. D.4 Level of Society This is the next level at which merit takes its effect. The result of having done only EFTA01160843 good deeds all our life together with the good deeds or merit accumulated over course of a long time will certainly bring peace, happiness, harmony, justice, progress and prosperity to themselves and the people around them. This happens especially as the result of the collective merit accrued by the majority of people in society. Merit takes its effect instantly at the level of the mind (if we are observant enough to notice EFTA01160844 it), however the time the effects take to filter successively though to the levels of personality, lifestyle and society take proportionally longer. E. CONSIDERATIONS El. Speed of Merit Taking Effect All we have talked about are basically the principal forces. In fact, as with the dynamics of the karma which we studied in the previous lesson, all are to some extent modified by supplementary factors or concomitants, especially with EFTA01160845 reference to the speed with which they give their fruits. The degree to which meritorious deeds will give their benefits in our lifestyle depends on four factors which wecall the Four Accomplishments or Catalysts [samapatti]. 86 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living The Accomplishments are the factors favourable to the ripening of good karma just like catalysts which facilitate a chemical reaction — there are four EFTA01160846 of these in all: 1. Catalytic Circumstances [gatisampatti] and means that you are born in favourable circumstances or amenable surroundings in terms of a place to live, a birthplace or a neighbourhood which will affect us for the better. To give an example suppose you are born as someone who is not particularly clever, but fortunately for you, you are born amidst catalytic circumstances - EFTA01160847 born in a prospering community with a good standard of education available to everyone. Thus with the application of a little effort in your studies, you can make up for your lack of innate cleverness with cleverness learned from your surroundings — the clear result of the catalytic circumstances.Those in possession of such circumstancses make it easier for themselves to further their good deeds during EFTA01160848 their life — and this is one way by which merit is self-catalytic. 2. Catalytic Gift of Wellbeing [upadhisampatti] These refer to the characteristics of one's physical and personal makeup that facilitate the arising of good karma. Examples of such "gifts" might be a golden voice which makes everybody want to listen to what you have to say (no matter whether it be good or bad!), a good singing EFTA01160849 voice (that sounds good even if you cry!), a beautiful or handsome physique (which can make you Miss Universe without having to do anything more than be born and grow up!) Someone who is gifted in this way, but who instead of sitting on his laurels, continues to do good deeds all his life will find that good deeds give their results instantly, before their very eyes. 3. Catalytic Timing EFTA01160850 [kAlasampatti] To be at the right place at the right time in the same way that we talked about the era of a world cycle when people are born. In an era where people value virtue manifest themselves right from the time you are born. You will associate with the wise right from your childhood. You need never come under the influence of fools. Throughout your life, no matter whether you are generous, keep EFTA01160851 the Precepts, meditate or do chanting, you will hear only words of encouragement from the people around you, making it easy for us to excel at any of these practices. Thus the results of one's meritorious action will be much quicker to see. 4. Catalytic Discretion [payogasampatti]. To be born with good discretion and more importantly, the moral fibre to keep to one's principles and apply one's discretion to one's EFTA01160852 lifestyle will facilitate the ripening of good karma. This catalyst is centred on the ability to teach yourself to improve in all aspects will make you a born leader never having to wait for others to persuade you or force you to do beneficial things. Besides being able to discriminate between right and wrong, good and bad you will be able to put your ethics into practice. Such a personal EFTA01160853 endowment will quicken the speed with which you see the fruits of your meritorious actions at the level of the lifestyle. In conclusion, performing merits will give the fruition of good deeds instantly at the level of the mind and the personality. There is no need to waitfor the afterlife for these things. However, at the level of the lifestyle, you may have to wait much longer if you have accrued only a small amount of merit in EFTA01160854 your past. However, for those who have a lot of merit in their past lives, they will see the fruition of merits very quickly in the present lifetime. Thus those who are still skeptical about whether doing good deeds will really bring benefits to us at the level of our lifestyle, should study the mechanism of catalysts and inhibitors to the fruition of good karma as outlined in this section. E2. Why is care needed in the study of merit? EFTA01160855 Merit is difficult to understand because the effects of merit thatwe can see are the result of compounded causes. Some of the good luck or good coincidences that we see come from the merit we have stored up for ourselves from long ago. Some of the good luck will come from the acts of merit which we have done recently and which remain in mind. Thus we need to have an understanding of Blessing Five: Having Done Good EFTA01160856 Deeds in One's Past 87 merit otherwise, looking at the outcomes we might come to the misunderstood conclusion that good deeds don't give rise to merit and might give up too easily. The other aspect is to understand correctly how to do the sort of good deeds that accrue merit otherwise, again, we might come to the conclusion that our efforts to do good deeds have nothing but a disastrous effect on our future. EFTA01160857 Some people have such a strong conviction in merit that they think that merit and demerit is the only valuable way of evaluating actions in the world. However, such a narrow view can lead to some shortcomings of understanding. To take merit seriously, can inspire you to do good deeds, avoid evil and purify the mind. However, as one of the main characteristics of merit is that it accrues exclusively to the doer of a good deed, it tends EFTA01160858 to make Buddhists disinterested in what the people around them are doing. They may become interested only in their own personal destiny without thinking to try and upgrade the state of society or show concern for the destinies of those around them. Thus, the benefit of understanding merit is to make the best of our present to ensure a bright future. E3. Overcoming shyness to accrue Merit EFTA01160859 It is obvious from the examination of our present circumstances that we are living in a time when the circumstances of society are not very catalytic anymore. Because of the difficulty in discerning the fruits of meritorious action, the majority of people in the world today: 1. don't know the importance of merit; 2. know the importance of merit but don't know how to go about accruing it; 3. know how to accrue merit, but EFTA01160860 because they have not made merit making an implicit part of their lives, they are not particularly motivated to accumulate merit. Some people want to do meritorious deeds, but are too shy. Some people know that it is good to bow down in respect to one's parents, but because they didn't make bowing to their parents part of their everyday life since they were children, by the time they are old enough to realize they EFTA01160861 are too shy to start something new. The important thing to overcome the shyness we might feel in accruing the merit in our lives is to make it a part of our daily routine so that we don't lose touch with merit or become unfamiliar. In this respect there are three important pieces of advice for the practitioner coined as mottos for those attending Wat Phra Dhammakaya: 1. Any morning when you have not given alms, you EFTA01160862 shouldn't allow yourself to take breakfast: You should get up in time to give alms to the monks on their almsround at dawn every day. If there is no monk on almsround you can always collect up small donations on a daily basis in a piggy-bank and offer them at the temple the next time you go. If you can manage to achieve this, you will avoid poverty in the long-term. Even if you are not particulary well off in EFTA01160863 the present lifetime, you can be assured that if you give alms every day, eventually you will put an end to the hardship of financial insecurity. 2. Any day when you don't intend to keep the Precepts you shouldn't dare to leave the house: Once you have taken the precepts, you should revise the intention to keep them every day for the Five Precepts. 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There's no need to wait for next lifetime before starting your good deeds because whether you will have the chance to do good deeds or not in your next life is dictated by the amount of good deeds you do in this lifetime. Thus start doing good deeds today, this very hour, at this very second. In addition to the merit you cultivate as a matter of course in your everyday life, EFTA01160867 you should look for opportunities to increase your store of merit on special occasions such as offering saIghadAna (offering a meal to the monastic community), go for a longer meditation retreat, ordain temporarily for the course of the rainy season. Don't go thinking that you already have plenty of merit stored up from your past. You may be wrong. If you really had a lot of merit in your past, you would be able to sit EFTA01160868 comfortably for the whole of the hour long meditation session. If you still feel uncomfortable when you meditate or feel that you have to change posture, that is the sign that you still have room for improvement in the merit you have stored up for yourself. You need to use the precious life of yours to rectify your faults and weaknesses — and the best way to do this is to do as many good deeds as you can. Otherwise the hunger of EFTA01160869 the mind will go on unabated F. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES Fl. Metaphor: Merit in the Past - Pedigree The nature of the differences is not the same as the pot-bound bonsai of the previous Blessing. It is not caused by the environment— the difference lies within the person himself it is a personal attribute which differs in strength from one person to another. Compare a wild strawberry with a EFTA01160870 domestic breed of strawberry. You can water and fertilize a wild strawberry all you like, but in the end it will only produce a lot of leaves and a few tiny bitter fruits. By contrast, a domestic strain, even if neglected will produce numerous and succulent fruits. The difference is factor which belongs to the plant itself. With plants it is the pedigree, but with people it is the residue of the behaviours they have built EFTA01160871 up for themselves in the past not a reputation because that needs a third party to remember it — it is something they build up inside them whether they have witnesses for their behaviour or not. F2. Metaphor: Merit - Foodfor the Mind All dynamic things in the world have fuel on which they feed. Fire burns on brushwood. A tree needs food, but the food that nourishes it is sucked up through the roots. The body burns EFTA01160872 on physical food. To get the food we need for our body we must find ourselves a job or a career. A light bulb burns on electric current. Sometimes the energy is stored up in the object itself at a previous time (like the bulb of a daffodil or a car battery), sometimes the energy is used as it is obtained. All of these things must be provided with the fuel they need or else one day if the energy they have stored is exhausted, EFTA01160873 they will become useless or even die. All of these objects have their own food or fuel to nourish them, but as meditators, the object we are most interested in is the mind. The mind too, must have a food which can fuel its efficient activity, but what could possibly function as a sort of energy which the mind could store or use? Indeed, the personal residue we are talking about has the special quality of being like food which EFTA01160874 nourishes the mind — so that the mind can, to itsfull potential attract good opportunities and things on all four levels of success mentioned above. If mind is well fed it has repurcussions for all the other levels too — sooner or later. F3. Ex. Sini JAtaka(J.284) The bodhisattva was once an ascetic and had an elephant trainer as a patron. A stick-gatherer, sleeping at night in the hermitage, heard two roosting cocks abusing each other. EFTA01160875 In the course of the quarrel, one cock boasted that whoever ate his flesh would be king, his skin commander in chief or chief queen and his bones, royal treasurer or king's chaplain. The man killed the cock and his wife cooked it, then taking it with them, they went to the river to bathe. They left the meat and rice on the bank, but as they bathed, the pot holding the food was blown into the river. It EFTA01160876 Blessing Five: Having Done Good Deeds in One's Past 89 floated downstream where it was picked up by the elephant-trainer. The bodhisattva saw everything with his divine-eye and visited the trainer at meal-time. There he was offered the meat and divided it, giving the flesh to the trainer, the skin to his wife and keeping the bones to himself. Three days later, the city was beseiged by enemies. The king asked the trainer to don EFTA01160877 royal robes and mount the elephant, while he himself fought in the ranks. There the king was killed by an arrow and the trainer, having won the battle, was made king, his wife being queen and the ascetic his chaplain. The story was told in reference to a brahmin who tried to steal AnAthapiAlika's good fortune [ski]. He perceived that the good fortune was embodied in a white cock for which EFTA01160878 he begged. AnAthapiAlika gave it to him, but the good fortune left the cock and settled in a jewel. He asked for that also, but the good fortune went into a club. The club was also asked for, and AnAthapiAlika giving it, asked the brahmin to take it and be gone. However, the good fortune now settled on AnAthapiAiika' s wife. The brahmin thereby admitted defeat and confessed his intentions to EFTA01160879 AnAthapiAIika who told the story to the Buddha. 90 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Blessing Six: Setting Oneself up Properly in Life 91 A. INTRODUCTION Al. Place of Blessing Six in the order of things This sixth blessing is the last of the second grouping of blessings concerned with "turning towards virtue". It builds upon what has gone before with the "nurture" of Blessing Four and EFTA01160880 the "nature" of Blessing Five bringing spiritual development to a point where the third grouping "making oneself useful" can start to become meaningful. A2. Objectives of the Sixth Blessing Studying this Blessing can be considered to have fulfilled its true purpose if after reading it, the reader feels: 1. inspired to stand on their own two feet: that is, to promise themselves that this EFTA01160881 lifetime they will never again lower themselves to relying on anyone else as their refuge — no longer using others as crutches for their own weaknesses. The people of old used to say `Even a bird builds its own nest — even a mouse digs its own hole — so who is a man not to stand on his own two feet? It is not fitting always to be leaning on others, borrowing from them or living in someone EFTA01160882 else's house. Otherwise one is no better than a sparrow living in the rafters of someone else's house. If you are the sort of person who is not ashamed of being dependent but who is on the other hand proud that there are always others who wants to help them, it will probably be a long time before you realize the reality of the world. It's no problem if you happen to live in your big sister's house, but what EFTA01160883 happens if one day her husband has a disagreement with you and wants you out of the house? You will find it hard to speak up in your own defense. Even if you have a disagreement with their children or grandchildren or friends, you would never dare to say anything to contradict them because you depend on their parents or grandparents for the roof over our head. You end up being someone EFTA01160884 who will not even dare to stand up for yourself — therefore, if at all possible, try to avoid depending on others — try to be self-sufficient. No matter whether you are male or female, you have to try to be independent. If you are put in the position where you are abused as a dependent, you have no choice but to put up with it. When you have put up with it until such abuse becomes engrained in your mind, you can EFTA01160885 no longer think of anything meritorious any more. All you can think of is getting your revenge. Better then, to build up your own standard of living by becoming self-sufficient in your earnings. 2. inspired never to provaricate about accruing merit henceforth. If after studying this Blessing the reader gains anything more in addition to these two advantages, it can be considered as a profit. For anyone to understand EFTA01160886 about the importance of being your own ref- Blessing Six: Setting oneself up properly in life 92 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living uge and to see the value of accruing merit, you need a foundation of experience, and that foundation is specifically one's aim in life. A3. Definition: Setting oneself up properly in life Setting yourself up in the proper EFTA01160887 way refers to setting up both of the inseparable parts of our being — setting up our body and setting up our mind. As the mind governs the setting up of the body, to set ourselves up in life means setting up our mind correctly. Setting up yourself means setting up your mind. If your mind can be properly set up, then the body will follow suit. For example if your mind is overcome with laziness, the body will be overcome EFTA01160888 by laziness too, lying around in a post-prandial sleaze. If the mind has a clear idea about what it is aiming for in spiritual development, then the body will comply with the mind's ambitions. Thus to set yourself up properly in life, you must set up your mind properly, and that means specifically making up your mind to pursue a pathway of self-perfection. A4. Aim in life helps us set priorities, overcome obstacles Did you ever feel that you would EFTA01160889 like to achieve more from life but you never seem to have to the time or you never seem to get round to doing them? Sometimes you have so many great plans in mind, but when you come round to doing them, there is always something else to help others with. There is always something else more urgent or seemingly more important? Do you find yourself exhausted at the end of the day with no strength EFTA01160890 left to do your meditation? All of us know that meditation makes a significant difference to the quality of our minds, but even though we know it, it is sometimes difficult to find the time to meditate each day. Part of the reason for this is that our priorities and aims in life are not clear. Sometimes there are urgent things in life which are urgent but not important, like a ringing telephone or interruptions EFTA01160891 and they can upset the whole pace of our lives. They can be the things that make us unable to organize our time as we would like to. Sometimes these interruptions are really unavoidable, but usually, it is because we give them too much importance and put them too high on our list of priorities that they rob us of our time — the reason in turn, why we are unable to set our priorities as we mean to, is because we lack a clear EFTA01160892 perspective of our own priorities. With meditation, we are dealing with a practice and a tradition, which has lifelong consequences for us. Therefore, for the practice of meditation and for the setting of complimentary priorities in life, we cannot afford to overlook a clear perspective of our own lives. We call such an overview our `aim in life'. If as meditators, we have a clear aim in life, as intelligent human beings, we will be EFTA01160893 EFTA01160894 0lUOS ..I01 atuud otuoooq ）poltrRM SABMI1 0A1 0LUOS .0 U otuoooq Tootios kll tuud ootqs uo!)Rum o琅 p℃q OAE14 0000d 0111OS .UOSI0d O1 UOSiodtuoJJ am℃A pOATO ).10d 111 X.IBA O）SLU00S opri afi/ II! WM WI SIM dUO Clang sv isn a' O1 p110i S0ATI "no 'song .1 O 8 rnp1o[ Jo p℃o1stu `lou uutp ualjo 3.1OU1 `uo!)oaqp ou pug soichouud ou q om J1 .sopthouud o1 81.11111O0m s0 UMO ino pro' O2 tuops!Ak osn 1 oTqu want to be a soccer champion. Aim in life seems to be different for different people, however, if you look at the deeper nature of all people, ultimately all people aim improve themselves. Some people want to improve themselves to the utmost by purifying their mind within the space of their lifetime to a point where they can enter upon Nirvana. Others might not be in so much of a hurry — but it doesn't mean that their spiritual EFTA01160895 path will not pass the same way some day. A6. Virtuesfor creating purpose in everyday life Anyone who wishes to create and maintain focus and purpose in their life needs to train themselves in the following five virtues called `core virtues' [sAradhamma] by the Lord Buddha: I. Faith or Confidence [saddha]: This means believing in the appropriate things. It means training yourself to be reasonable not to EFTA01160896 be gullible. The difference between being faithful and being gullible is that the latter has no reason for their confidence. Thus wisdom is always an imBlessing Six: Setting Oneself up Properly in Life 93 portant component of faith. From the Buddhist point of view, the basis of faith is: 1. the existence of the Buddha 2. the working of the Law of Karma — that doing good deeds really gives rise to good results EFTA01160897 (with the proviso of doing those good deeds properly, sufficiently and not in excess) 3. that the result of one's good or bad karma will follow one until it gives its retribution. 2. The Precepts [sEla]: You must keep the minimum of Five Precepts (for more explanation see Blessing Nine). 3. Having heard much [bahEsEta]: be specific, this means being diligent in the acquisition of knowledge EFTA01160898 both spiritual and worldly by listening to many teachings. 4. Being a person of self-sacrifice [cAga]: This means being able to sacrifice and let go both of material possessions (given to others) and also to let go of our grudges and bad temper by forgiving others 5. Training Oneself in Meditation [samAdhi]: We need to train ourselves in meditation if we are to have any chance of attaining EFTA01160899 wisdom. Wisdom is the most essential element in having a wellplanned aim in life and being able to keep ourselves to it. If the mind is trained in meditation it will have the determination to remain unscathed in the face of temptations to "lower our sights" and settle for less ambitious aims in life. B. THREE LEVELS OF AIM IN LIFE 1. Exclusively Materialistic Aim In Life: Everybody EFTA01160900 comes into the world with nothing, but everyone has the same basic needs for survival whether it be the food on their plates, the clothes on their backs, the roof over their head or the medicine they need to keep them healthy in times of illness. If any one of these things are lacking from people's lives, they cannot survive. Man can only go for a single day without water. He can only go for seven days without EFTA01160901 food. Thus it is only natural that the very least that people should aim for in their lives is to fulfill these basic physical needs. If their aim in life is any lower that this they cannot survive. Of course some people want more that this. Some people are not satisfied with the basics of survival. They want to be millionaires, they want luxury, they want the freedom in life to choose what they buy. In EFTA01160902 fact however much you want, whether it is just to fulfill their physical needs or to satisfy their physical wants, their aim in life is only quite short term. It is based on immediate rewards. They think of no further requirement of life beyond death. In their youth they seek experience, in their middle age they amass wealth. Towards the end of their lives they try to find an heir for their wealth. Thus we call such aims in EFTA01160903 life "earthly" because they extend no further than this world and this existence. Those who entertain only such an aim in life will usually (but not always — some people cut corners) want to earn their living in an honest way, by earning, saving, using their earnings in a responsible way and entrusting honest people to look after common wealth. 2. Spiritual/Material Aim In Life: At the same time EFTA01160904 in the world, there are those who recognize that they must fulfill the physical needs of the body, but their aim in life runs deeper than that. They recognize that they need to earn their living, but earning that living is only a means to an end. They recognize that there exists not only a physical hunger, but the hunger of the spirit or the mind too. They realize that if the mind is left hungry it will tempt them to do EFTA01160905 things they don't want them to do. They need to find time in their lives to reach for a higher spiritual dimension. 3. Exclusively Spiritual Aim In Life: Last of all in the world there are those who realize the hunger of the body and the mind — the body for physical needs and the mind in its hunger for a higher spiritual dimension to life. For such a group of people the sensitivity towards the hunger EFTA01160906 in the mind is so great that they find that they have the vocation to deal with source of the hunger at its root. So great is the intensity of their calling that they will see the need to devote themselves full time to the pursuit of spirituality. To purify themselves completely so that hunger may be completely extinguished. They have the 94 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living time to devote to spiritual study EFTA01160907 without having to compromise their time in order to earn a living. They will spend their time learning the spiritual way and teaching it to the best of their ability so intensively that the life of the householder and the family no longer holds any attraction for them. We call such an aim in life ultimate because is seeks to come to an end of all further suffering and to help others to do the same. EFTA01160908 Bl. Exclusively Materialistic Setting yourself up in a proper way for those with an exclusively materialistic aim in life consists of two components: 1. avoiding evil 2. standing on your own two feet The Buddha's short teaching of the way to set yourself up in the proper way is probably too short for the reader to know how to practice it so we have to expand a little further on the subject matter B1.1 Avoiding Evil Avoiding evil means specifically EFTA01160909 to avoid the six `roads to ruin' [apAyamukha]. We must avoid them in order to avoid falling into any of the unfortunate realms in future existences. `Ruin' [apAya] here means `lowdown', `dirty', `decaying' and `lacking prosperity'. The word `road' [mukha] means 'path', `front' or `face'. There are six different types of `roads to ruin': I. Drinking alcohol or taking intoxicating drugs: like opium or heroin; 2. Nightlife: such as frequenting EFTA01160910 brothels; 3. Frequenting shows: that have content that is romantic or frivolous; 4. Gambling: and lotteries 5. Associating with evil companions 6. Being too lazy to work We will not go into further detail of these'roads to ruin' here. In some places only four `roads to ruin' are referred to instead of six as mentioned already in Blessing One (srE.3) as the sort of thing that fools like to persuade you to do. EFTA01160911 B1.2 Standing on you own two feet In the time of the Buddha, there was someone who asked the way to set himself up in life. The four practices he taught are sometimes called the four chambers of the millionaire's heart. They are the prerequisite virtues for accruing benefit in the present life (in Pali the diEEhadhammikatthapayojana). For revision take a look back at Blessing Two (sCC4.1). In conclusion, EFTA01160912 anyone who is diligent in acquisition of wealth, in stewardship of their earnings, who associates only with good friends and who uses their earnings to support themselves in a modest way will before long achieve riches. All of this hard work will only be of benefit to us in the present lifetime however. If you also want benefits in future lifetime, you need to know how to accrue merit too. B2. Material/SpiritualAim EFTA01160913 Setting yourself up in a proper way for those with a spiritual/material aim in life consists of three components: 1. avoiding evil 2. standing on your own two feet 3. cultivating virtuous speech and action Avoiding evil and standing on your own two feet are the same as for those with the exclusively materialistic aim in life. However, on this level we have the addition of virtuous speech and action. This means immersing our mind fully in EFTA01160914 meritorious speech and action. The way this is achieved is to practice the Ten or the Three Major Ways to Accrue Merit [pufniakiriyavatthu] already discussed in Blessing Five (K2). The guiding principles for accruing merit are the prerequisite virtues to accruing benefit in future lives [sampayikatthapayojana]. For revision take a look back at Blessing Two (K4.2) and Blessing Four (84.6). EFTA01160915 B2.1 Warnings about prevarication On the subject of setting oneself up in life, there are several common misconceptions which you ought to avoid: I. Don't wait until you are old before getting spiritual: You should devote yourself to spiritual practice starting from the time when you are still young and healthy. In fact even to start templegoing from the time you are twenty is still too EFTA01160916 late. If you start temple-going from the age of Blessing Six: Setting Oneself up Properly in Life 95 five or six, like RAhula in the time of the Buddha, it is your advantage. You should start studying the spiritual side of yourself early in life so that you don't make grave moral errors. How many of us spend many years drinking alcohol and damaging our minds before we realize what we are doing to ourselves? You EFTA01160917 can bypass the problem completely if you attend the temple from your youth. 2. Don't prevaricate about setting yourself up in life: You should work hard to make yourself selfsufficient in life at the earliest possible opportunity — anyone who is still a parasite living in someone else's house should be quick to make yourself independent. 3. Don't prevaricate about paying offyour debts: EFTA01160918 Don't let your debts be something you carry with you to your next life! The interest on loans that span into the afterlife are too high to be worth risking slow repayment. Thus pay off your debts and make sure that you don't put yourself in debt any more. You should build up your own financial reserves before making an investment, not rely on borrowing from others or from the bank. If you die before you have paid EFTA01160919 back your loan, next lifetime you will have that debt hanging round your neck like a dead albatross. Suppose you borrow a dollar but die before you can pay it back — supposing you are an angel for a thousand years — just think what the compound interest will add up to during that time! You might never manage to pay it back. 4. Don't prevaricate about improving on your bad habits: If you know anything EFTA01160920 about yourself is a bad habit, give up doing it immediately. Check your own behaviour as a regular part of your practice and improve on yourself instead of wasting time finding fault with others. 5. Be careful of bad deeds in the guise ofgood ones: When you have done a good deed, don't go wishing for things that are irresponsible. B3. Exclusively spiritual Even the Bodhisattva himself needed an aim in life when pursuing perfections in EFTA01160921 preparation for Buddhahood. Thus it comes as no surprise that on the exclusively spiritual level of aim in life, it is still important to have an aim in life, in order to waste no time in pursuing the goal of purifying the mind to a point where it can enter upon Nirvana. On this level, even material convenience is sacrificed in order fully to cultivate spiritual development. B3.1 Human Realm as the crossroads of existence EFTA01160922 The clearer one's aim in life, the more clearly one will understand the preciousness of human life — and that we cannot afford to waste a moment. Even if you look around your house, of which you pride yourself as being the owner, if you count the number of fleas, mosquitos, ants and mice, you will realize that you are in the minority — even though it's your house! This is intended to give you an inkling of how rare it is to be born human EFTA01160923 and what a precious opportunity our human lifespan is in forging our destiny. In our human company there are basically four sorts of pathway of human destiny forged during a lifespan (A.ii.85): I. Out of the darkness into the darkness: Born with all the disadvantages of nature and nurture, they did what came naturally and made a worse mess out of their lives; 2. Out of the darkness into the light: In spite of EFTA01160924 ample disadvantages of nature and nurture, they struggled against hardship until being able to make some sort of success out of their lives; 3. Out of the light into the darkness: In spite of all the advantages of nature and nurture, they became complacent and made a mess out of their lives. 4. Out of the light into the light: Avoiding the trap of complacency, they built on the advantages of EFTA01160925 nature and nurture they brought into the world, storing up a yet brighter future for themselves. The human realm is like a crossroads where destiny can be transformed for the better or for the worse. For sure, transforming one's destiny for the better means going against the tide. Spiritual cultivation is often hard in the beginning, but pays off in the long-term — something that may not be immediately obvious to someone who sees EFTA01160926 everything 96 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living in the short-term. Therefore a proper aim in life is vital for anyone navigating the human crossroads who wants to make a success in forging a brighter destiny. B3.2 Prerequisitesfor fulfilling the Highest Aim in Life In a Buddhist context, fulfilment of Highest Aim in Life, the fruition of all levels of cultivation is to purify the mind completely or to EFTA01160927 enter upon Nirvana. In order to fulfil this goal six conditions must be fulfilled— without these six prerequisites, all our effort in setting an aim in life will be in vain. These six prerequisites are: 1. You have to have been born in an amenable location i.e. Blessing Four 2. You must have done good deeds until used to them i.e. Blessing Five 4 - 6. The Four Accomplishments already met as catalysts determining the speed EFTA01160928 with which merit can take its effect as described in Blessing Five These six factors go together as a set of conditions known as the Six Catalysts or Accomplishments: 1. Catalytic Circumstances [gatisamapati] 2. Catalytic Timing [kAlasampatti] 3. Catalytic Location [padesasampatti] 4. Catalytic Family [kulasampatti] 5. Catalytic State of Well-being [upadhisampatti] 6. Catalytic View [diEEhisampatti] If you find that you are hampered EFTA01160929 in setting yourself up in life in the way you would wish, perhaps you have to consolidate Blessing Four and Blessing Five to contribute sufficient Accomplishments to your spiritual quest to give you the `escape velocity' you need to forge your destiny to the full! C. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES C.1 Metaphor: Boat must have a rudder If the ship that must struggle to make way in EFTA01160930 the ocean waves is to reach the far shore, its captain must have a clear destination in mind and keep the ship firmly on course, not allowing the ship to drift no less important is an aim in life to those wishing to achieve success and profit in their lives. C2 Metaphor: The one-eyed sea turtle (S.v.455) The Lord Buddha taught that the birth of someone as a human is as rare as the chance EFTA01160931 of a blind turtle in the ocean which surfaces for air once a century popping its head through the middle of the only flower garland which happens to be floating in the sea. The chance of a being which is a denizen of hell, an animal, a ghost or a demon attaining human birth is even slighter still.Therefore having obtained yourself a human birth make sure you make the best of your EFTA01160932 life. C.3 Metaphor: Saving for the Future Just as a wise merchant must keep aside someof his money for investment in the future, the wise man must keep aside some of his time for the practices that will allow him to renew his merit for future lifetimes. Just as the wise farmer keeps aside some of his rice crop for next year's sowing, the wise man will take the opportunity EFTA01160933 while his old merit is still giving its fruit, to accrue new merit for use in future existences. C.4 Ex.: The Retribution of Kapila Bhikkhu DhA.iv.37ff In the time of the Lord Buddha named Kassapa, there was a gang of five hundred thieves who were bringing misery to the whole of the kingdom. The householders, together with the police and the army thus hunted down the gang EFTA01160934 and when the thieves saw that they could no longer defend themselves, they escaped into the forest. The vengeful householders did not give up chase and so the thieves went deeper and deeper into the forest until they came to a clearing in the heart of the forest. There they met a monk, and seeing the monk, they started to see the error of their ways. They were receptive to what the monk had to say, and the EFTA01160935 monk taught them that they must keep the Precepts even if it cost them their lives. In any case, if they were to be caught, no-one would spare their lives beBlessing Six: Setting Oneself up Properly in Life 97 cause they had already murdered so many people. The thieves took the Five Precepts and didn't try to escape any more. They concentrated all their attention on keeping the Precepts pure. EFTA01160936 They would not hurt even a mosquito or a leech. Even if the soldiers were to catch up with them and attack them with swords and knives, they swore not to put up a fight. Before long, the soldiers discovered the thieves and attacked. The thieves kept their word and put up no resistance they were so devoted to keeping their Precepts pure. All five hundred thieves were executed, but through the power EFTA01160937 of keeping the Precepts to the degree they would sacrifice their lives, their bad deeds didn't have the chance to catch up with them. They were born instantly as angels. The evil of their past did not disappear, however, but was waiting for the opportunity to give its retribution. When they were reborn from the celestial world into the human realm, the influence of the killing they had done in the past EFTA01160938 still affected them. All five hundred were born as fishermen in the same village. However, even though their livelihood was to kill fish, through the power of their good deeds in the past, they all still had faith in Buddhism. Even so, the fishermen continued to collect demerit as a result of their habitual killing. One day a group of fishermen caught a giant, golden-coloured fish as big as a EFTA01160939 boat. No-one had ever seen such a fish in their lives. They captured the fish and took it to offer to King Pasenadi of Kosala — who in turn took the fish to the Buddha. As soon as the fish opened its mouth, a foul smell spread all around the Jetavana monastery. The king then asked the Buddha why such a beautiful fish should have such a foul smell. The Enlightened One then revealed that in one EFTA01160940 of his past existences, the fish had been a learned bhikkhu named Kapila during the time of Kassapa Buddha. Because of his deep knowledge of the Dhamma, he had gained much fame and honour. He also became very conceited and looked down upon the other bhikkhus. When the other bhikkhus pointed out to him what was proper or not proper, he invariably retorted, `How much do you know?' EFTA01160941 implying that he knew much more than those bhikkhus. In the course of time, most of the bhikkhus avoided him. On one occasion,the bhikkhus did not join him when he was reciting the Fundamental Precepts for the bhikkhus (i.e., the PAEimokkha). Observing that the bhikkhus remained silent, Kapila said, `There is no such thing as Sutta, Abhidhamma or Vinaya. It makes no difference EFTA01160942 whether you listen to the PAEimokkha or not' and left the congregation. He had taught the Dhamma to others in a way that was biased in the monk's self interest in a way that made his teaching deviate from the truth. His misrepresentation of the Dhamma was thus perpetuated amongst his followers. There were many others including his teacher and arahants who had warned that monk of the EFTA01160943 danger of his misrepresentation of the Dhamma — however he would not listen. He insulted them in return for their advice. As a result he developed False View and when he passed away, these False Views dragged him down into the Unfortunate Realms for a long time. Only then could he be born as a fish. The Precepts of a monk gave their fruit as the beautiful golden appearance of the fish but the EFTA01160944 retribution from insulting arahants and his teacher gave him his stinking mouth. Hearing the previous karma of the fish, the five-hundred fishermen considered all the evil deeds they had done as a result of their livelihood since their youth. They realized that their time in hell would certainly be no less than the fate of the fish they had caught — so they decided collectively all to become monks EFTA01160945 and to devote themselves to Dhamma practice. From the power of having sacrificed their lives for their Precepts in a previous existence — i.e. having set themselves up properly in life — before long they could all become arahants and were no longer subject to the retribution of the evil karma of their past. 98 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living C.5 Ex. Akkosaka BhAradvAj a Vatthu EFTA01160946 DhA.iv.161ff In the time of the Buddha there was a Brahmin couple. The husband called BhAradavAja was very strict in his Brahmin observances. He had never shown any interest in Buddhism. By contrast, his wife was a person with no further doubt in Buddhism because she had heard one of the teaching of the Buddha and had become enlightened as a stream-enterer as the result. EFTA01160947 One day the husband wanted to hold a feast for all the most high standing Brahmins — worshipped as ' arahants' in their religion. Thus the husband and wife started their elaborate preparations for the feast, but when it came close to the `big day', because it was the habit of the wife always to exclaim Tuddho!' whenever something surprised her, her husband appealed to her on the day of the feast not to EFTA01160948 mention anything about Buddhism or to say anything in praise of the Triple Gem. The wife said, "My mind is unified with the Dhamma, therefore whatever I say will also be Dhamma there is nothing you can do to stop my mind from being that way!" "And what about if I take a sword and cut you into small pieces — will that help you to educate your mind?" "Even if you were to make EFTA01160949 mincemeat of me," said the wife, "I could not help myself from having the Dhamma as my refuge!" The husband didn't know what more to say — so they got on with the work of providing the feast. Everything went well until the wife slipped over on a pile of spilled rice. She exclaimed, "Namo tassabhagavato arahato sammA sambuddh-assa!" Everyone present heard the wife's exclamation. The assembled Brahmins were EFTA01160950 angered by what they heard. When they had received the invitation, they understood that the wife had respect for them. Now they had found out that she respected not them but the Buddha. They were specially angry because they were opposed to everything the Buddha did. Those who had finished their meal immediately stood up and shouted insults at the couple. Those who had EFTA01160951 not finished eating overturned every plate of food on the table. They stamped their feet and walked out on the couple. The husband was so angry he didn't know what to say. He couldn't do anything to punish his wife — so he thought to take out his anger on his wife's teacher — the Buddha himself. He buckled on his sword and turned in the direction of Jetavana monastery with the intention to EFTA01160952 put an end to the Buddha and his teachings. The husband walked straight up to the Buddha without paying respect and in his anger shouted the rhetorical question at the Buddha, "Do you know what a man has to kill in order to get a good night's sleep...?" The Brahmin thought that putting an end to the Buddha was the only way he could save face and sleep soundly that night. Without waiting EFTA01160953 for an answer, the Brahmin continued, "... and what a man has to kill to cure his sorrow? . .". And still without waiting for an answer, the Brahmin asked the Buddha, ". . . and so what form of killing would you support?" The Buddha knew what was on the mind of the Brahmin and coolly answered the first question with the words, "A man must kill his anger in order to get a good night's sleep. EFTA01160954 If you don't kill your anger, you will do things that you regret later, being put in prison or punished — but if you kill your anger, you don't need to undergo the sorrowful consequences of your angry deeds. The Noble Ones praise the killing of anger — whose root is poison and whose crown is sweet." When the Buddha said that the root of anger is poisonous, he meant that anger EFTA01160955 has suffering as its result. When he said that the crown is sweet, he meant that we get a strange, twisted satisfaction out of expressing our anger to others or losing our temper. After hearing only these few words, BhAradavAja was impressed. He was impressed that the Buddha was not angry in response to his anger. He had prepared his sword to chop the Buddha to pieces at the first EFTA01160956 unwelcome Blessing Six: Setting Oneself up Properly in Life 99 word, but instead of hearing anything to irritate him further, the Brahmin had been impressed by every one of the Buddha's reasoning. He threw away his sword and invited the Buddha to teach him further. In the end, he was motivated to practise the Dhamma further and ended up ordaining as a monk. Killing your anger is one way of EFTA01160957 setting yourself up in life. To ordain as the result of a teaching is to set yourself up in faith, in the Precepts, in Wisdom or in Meditation. It was in this intense way that BhAradavAj a set himself up in life, and before long could practice until attaining arahantship 100 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living The Third Group of Blessings EFTA01160958 "Setting Oneself up in Life" The third group of the blessings of life is often referred to as "making yourself useful". This doesn't just refer to making oneself a citizen who can contribute something positive to society, it means being able to be of independent means — to earn one's own living without having to rely on outsiders for help. The principle of "being EFTA01160959 a refuge to yourself' is one very important to Buddhism not just a virtue to oneself in spiritual ways but in worldly ways as well. Not burdening oneself on society is seen not only as the basis of self-confidence, but also as a positive virtue to be encouraged. Earning one's living requires both knowledge and skills (found in Blessings Seven and Eight EFTA01160960 respectively) but as usual to earn one's living in an unscrupulous way to the detriment of others is not acceptable. Sociable application of our knowledge and skills is taught in action and word respectively in Blessings Nine and Ten respectively to make sure that we don't make ourselves self-sufficient at society's expense. This foundation of lack of worry concerning one's EFTA01160961 daily bread will serve as a foundation for a harmonious family life and public works to be found in subsequent Groups of the Blessings. All of the previous six Blessings we have studied, have concerned the adjustment of our quality of mind. The first few Blessings have concerned protecting our mind from damage and finding the most basic virtue of discretion with which to instil EFTA01160962 the mind. In the sixth blessing we already set our sights on the aim in life we require — now in the third grouping we start to walk toward that goal. 102 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living The Learned The Wise much knowledge maybe not much knowledge maybe not much virtue much virtue maybe do not apply knowledge to do good deeds use what knowledge EFTA01160963 they have to do good deeds must have good memory not necessary to have good memory must be educated irrespective of literacy or education no guarantee that they will not will not make a mess of his life make a mess out of their life TABLE 7.1 COMPARISON OF QUALITIES FOR THE LEARNED & THE WISE Blessing Seven: Artfulness in Knowledge 103 A. INTRODUCTION In fact the subject matter of the seventh Blessing also concerns our mind but it deals EFTA01160964 with the way we can find knowledge to instil in the mind. Knowledge has many implications both for our own life and for the quality of life in society. Without worldly knowledge we could not set ourselves up in life by earning our own living. Without spiritual knowledge, we would leave the thirst of the unanswered spiritual questions in life unquenched. For society, knowledgeable people contribute to EFTA01160965 the quality and standard of living in general. If students are demotivated or inefficient in their efforts to study, the repurcussions can bring damage to the whole educational sector and the youth in particular. Incidence of gang-fighting between schools, student drug-addiction and `hanging out' on the street in search of trouble are all signs of social problems originating in an incapacity to study properly. Even the EFTA01160966 depreciation of the credability of the teaching profession has something to do with an inability to inspire children to enjoy learning. The problem is not entirely to be blamed on schools however as we have seen in preceding blessings, a negative parental role model or a bad home environment can damage a child's character so severely, even before starting school — to an extent that the best of teachers can EFTA01160967 do nothing to rectify the situation. A.1 Problems & risksfacing students in general The ideal student is someone who never tires of learning new things either about worldly or spiritual matters. It is not enough just to be curious — to learn in depth, a student needs to have a real respect for the knowledge they are learning. The reality of student life is that there are many things to interfere with the students' enthusiasm EFTA01160968 to learn. The student's disillusionment can be summarized into three different groups: loss of sense of responsibility towards their own sense of human dignity; loss of sense of responsibility towards the sense human dignity of others, and; loss of sense of responsibility towards a fair economy: I. Loss of responsibility towards own sense of human dignity may lead to: 1. Early Signs of False View: Not bothering to EFTA01160969 keep the Five Precepts, ignorance of the Five Precepts or even going so far as to protest against the keeping of the Five Precepts — as a result of the example or persuasion of teachers; 2. Expression of the Defilements of Action: Taking the lives or being cruel to people or animals, stealing, committing adultery or sexual intercourse outside marriage and telling lies. 3. Loss of `aim in life': leading to a EFTA01160970 general lack of motivation to study or develop oneself and consequent lack of preparation to learn new skills, fit into society or work for a living. Blessing Seven: Artfulness in Knowledge 104 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living 2. Loss of responsibility towards the sense of human dignity of others: if teachers or EFTA01160971 lecturers fail to inspire the students by their example of ethical living, students will have no feeling of responsibility towards the human dignity of others or of society in general. Consequently they may: 1. Profitfrom natural resources at the expense of the environment: if the students are only interested in the short-term gains of a particular item of knowledge, but fail to consider or be taught EFTA01160972 about the long-term consequences (e.g They may pull up trees to facilitate access by profitable farm machinery, but in so doing cause erosion of the top soil) 2. Always put the blame on others: This is a very basic form of bias often arising as a result of never having been praised by their teacher or lecturer. Never having seen their teacher praise the good points of others, they assume EFTA01160973 that picking on others' faults is normal and they are the only infallible person in the world. 3. Persuades friends to be delinquent: For the convenience of keeping company with those of similar habits as themselves, disillusioned students persuade their friends to participate in various forms of delinquent behaviour such as truancy or "doing drugs". 3. Loss of responsibility towards the sense of economic EFTA01160974 fairness: If teachers fail to instil self-discipline in their students, the students will have no sense of responsibility towards a fair economy, specifically by: 1. Unwholesome Livelihood: like selling drugs, petty theft, telephone prostitution or gambling; 2. Addiction to the Six `Roads to Ruin '; 3. Worshipping Money: When money becomes the most important thing, it is unlikely that a person EFTA01160975 will have any concern for the state of their family, of the nation or the religion. It is like the aphorism often heard on the lips of modem youth that "ideals don't keep the wolf from the door". A.2 Definition: Artfulness in Knowledge The word `bahEsEta' in the Pali means literally `one who has heard much'. It refers to being learned by having heard much both in spiritual and worldly EFTA01160976 ways. A `bahEsEta' is someone who is: "artful in knowledge" — choosing to study only the things appropriate for study — being a person learned in those subjects and observant — personal qualities that lie at the trailhead of the path to wisdom. Such knowledge allows one to be independent in earning one's living and will be the key which unlocks the door to worldly EFTA01160977 success. B. The Nature of Knowledge B.1 The Three Levels of Knowledge If we want to identify the features of learning that will give rise to wisdom we have to distinguish wisdom from other sorts of knowledge. All sorts of knowledge help to illuminate the mind. When we don't understand something it is as if we are left in the dark about that thing. When we understand something it is as if light has been EFTA01160978 thrown on that matter. Knowledge in its most basic form, like the ability to do arithmetic or knowing where to catch the bus sometimes will feel as if it creates some illumination in the mind but it is just a feeling because such an ability is restricted to the higher sort of knowledge we call "wisdom". In all we can differentiate three levels of knowledge: I. Theoretical knowledge [sutamaya-pafulA] The EFTA01160979 most basic sort of knowledge arises via the five senses, that is through the things we see with our eyes, hear with our ears, smell with our nose, taste with our tongue or feel by our sense of touch. You could call this sort of knowledge raw data. Touching fire tells us that it is hot. A child might want to know what fire is like. Their mother tells them not to touch it because it is hot and will burn them. The child will EFTA01160980 not believe their mother so easily. The mother might tell them not to touch it twice, but on the third time she will have to give in to the child's curiosity and let him touch the flame so that the child will know for next time that heat goes together with Blessing Seven: Artfulness in Knowledge 105 brightness. This sort of knowledge also includes the knowledge we receive by listening to information EFTA01160981 and what you can remember from what you have heard in lectures and read from textbooks. If you have never had the chance to apply the knowledge that you have learned then it may still be of limited use; 2. Hands-on Knowledge [cintamayapaririA]: The second sort of knowledge which is slightly more advanced is hands-on knowledge, the knowledge that has been reflected on, tested and applied. EFTA01160982 However, even if you are the world's best professor, your knowledge will not exceed this level. With this sort of knowledge you are like someone stands on the water's edge and sees ripples on the surface of the water. From knowledge or experience they would be able to assume that the ripples are caused by fish under the surface of the water. Whether the fish are large or small or whether there are shrimps EFTA01160983 or crabs or shellfish moving under the water, you could probably notice from the size of the ripples. But because you cannot see the fish directly you are able only to make an educated guess; 3. Insight [bhAvanAmayapaririA]: A third and higher sort of knowledge is insight into deeper truths or more challenging truths. However if we study meditation further we will discover EFTA01160984 that even finding the solutions to simple problems in this way is actually causing there to be illumination arising in the mind. The characteristics of wisdom when it arises in the mind: 1. It will give rise to brightness in the mind. Wisdom is the light which will chase away the darkness of ignorance. This is not just a metaphor for the knowledge but when we train ourselves further in meditation, we EFTA01160985 will see that brightness really is the operant feature of wisdom. The illumination of the more advanced sorts of knowledge is so bright that is is like compressing the brightness of a hundred suns into a single spot. It is by virtue of such brightness that we can identify and uproot the defilements usually hidden in the mind. For those who are new to meditation, EFTA01160986 the brightness is not yet continuous and is dim like a glowworm. Such brightness is not yet sufficient to identify defilements, but it is a good start; 2. It allows us to transcend defilements: When wisdom arises, it allows us to transcend defilements previously active in the mind. Problems which used to exist will be overcome once and for all. Evil in the mind is uprooted. EFTA01160987 It allows us to probe deeper into problems and cut off problems at their roots. It allows us to overcome our own faults and weaknesses. It allows us to change our bad habits. Such knowledge is able to overcome suffering and to change our own habits. It allows us to get to the root of problems. Such knowledge can actually kill negativity in the mind once and for all. Such knowledge no longer EFTA01160988 comes via the five senses but will come instead directly via the mind that is still. It is not knowledge that comes from thinking. It is knowledge that arises in the still mind together with brightness. It is a sort of knowledge we sometimes call wisdom or insight. If we go back to the scenario with the man standing on the edge of the water, where through conventional EFTA01160989 knowledge the man could do no better than make an educated guess, if we were to use insight to assess the same situation, it would be as if the water was clear and the man could see the fish, the crabs, the shrimps or the shellfish without having to think about it. The ability to harness the knowledge that arises from the still mind is an ability for which you have to train in meditation. B.2 Contrast between the Learned EFTA01160990 and the Wise There are several important differences between the learned who know only the theory of how to do good deeds (but may not practice it) and the wise who may not know much but use everything they know to boost their opportunity to do good deeds. Unfortunately, knowledge in the hands of a fool (or even a learned person) can be a dangerous thing. If your only knowledge is academic knowledge, no EFTA01160991 matter how clever you might be, there is always a 106 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living risk of making a mess of your life. For example, if you have a knowledge of nuclear physics, you can use it for peaceful applications as an energy source — on the other hand you can use your knowledge to produce atomic bombs and the resulting holocaust towards human life. Thus ethical considerations need to go hand in hand with our EFTA01160992 academic knowledge, like a guiding light to give us clarity as to whether the application of our knowledge is good or bad, appropriate or inappropriate. Those who are inter ested only in academic learning, no matter how clever, rich or powerful they may be, can never manage to make themselves endearing or worthy of the respect of others and in the end they cannot make a success out of their lives. EFTA01160993 C. THE NATURE OF THE STUDENT C.1 Sense of Responsibilityfor own Human Dignity In order for a student to protect their own sense of human dignity, they must refrain from the Four Defilements of Action: 1. taking the lives or being cruel to people or animals; 2. stealing; 3. committing adultery or have sexual intercourse outside marriage; 4. telling lies. Also concerning a person's EFTA01160994 responsibility to their own sense of human dignity, a person should: • avoid sentimentality about learning: those who are not strong-minded in their pursuit of learning will not manage to succeed in becoming learned; • avoid obsession with appearances: if you want to try to be a learned person in the future — you should model yourself on the stereotype of academics or monastics who emphasise only EFTA01160995 two things about their dress — modesty and cleanliness. • avoid childishness: those who play around, never take responsibility for anything and never taking anything seriously, will never succeed in becoming learned. C.2 Sense of Responsibilityfor others' Human Dignity Bias gives us negative attitudes which may reduce our chances of success in study. If we are able to EFTA01160996 overcome these items of unfairness in the mind from the outset then the mind will be a much more fertile receptacle for knowledge: I. Learning based on Desire [chandAgati]: Desire doesn't need to be so strong that you are a Casanova. Such a person would have no chance of being a good student anyway. However, to a lesser degree even someone who is excessively fussy about what they do and what they wear EFTA01160997 would be unlikely to succeed in their studies. Those who study simply because they would like to become famous will find it hard to succeed in study. If you see possessions as an end in themselves then we will have no incentive to study. 2. Learning based on Hatred [dosAgati]: If you want to study successfully then you mustn't be someone who loses their temper easily. You must be able to accept criticism without EFTA01160998 being scared of appearing foolish. Some people are angry only for an instant and then they recover quickly. Others are angry and it takes them a long time to get over it. They find it hard to forgive. Even later on, although they can't remember why they were angry with someone, they still feel angry with that person. They forget their respect for others. They think that they are superior to everyone EFTA01160999 else. Thus they can never learn anything from anyone else. By meditating, such people can train themselves to be less impatient. If they also keep a baseline of morality such as avoiding killing animals and insulting then they will find it much easier to acquire wisdom. 3. Learning based on Ignorance [mohAgati]: If you are still acting on your own ignorance instead of giving things careful consideration before you EFTA01161000 do them, then you will find it hard acquire new knowledge. If your old ways of looking at the world are faulty then you need to let go of them before you can expect to acquire new ones. 4. Learning based on Fear [bhayAgati]: Some people lack confidence in themselves and their own Blessing Seven: Artfulness in Knowledge 107 knowledge. They are always afraid of the criticism of others. If you are afraid of EFTA01161001 taking decisions yourself, then you will be destined to always be led by other people instead of standing on your own feet. You will have no creative or original thinking of your own. If even you don't trust your own knowledge then how can you expect to make anyone else confident. C.3 Sense of Responsibilityfor Economic Fairness In order for a student to protect society's sense of EFTA01161002 human dignity, they must refrain from the Six Roads to Ruin: 1. Drinking alcohol; 2. Roaming the streets at unseemly hours; 3. Frequenting shows; 4. Gambling; 5. Association with bad company; 6. Laziness to work for a living. Furthermore a person who is obsessed with personal financial gain will find it hard to make progress in their studies. A person should not "worship money". Those who see that EFTA01161003 material rewards are more valuable than wisdom will never go very far in acquiring wisdom. We don't overlook the importance of wealth — but on the way that it is best to apply one's wealth that will be the subject of Blessing Fifteen. D. THE LEARNING PROCESS D.1 Coming into contact with someone knowledgeable One of the hardest things is to find a teacher who will give the necessary encouragement to bring EFTA01161004 one's studies to fruition. The Buddha taught in the SilgalovAda Sutta that successful studies are established on the base of reciprocal duties that a student practices towards his teacher and that a teacher practises towards their student (duties collectively referred to as duties to the Southern Quarter). If a student finds a teacher that they think they can learn something from, they should start to learn from them. The teacher EFTA01161005 should practice the following five duties towards their pupil, by making sure: 1. the student is well trained; 2. that the student is taught in such a way that he understands and remembers well what he has learned; 3. that the student is thoroughly instructed in the lore of every art without holding knowledge back; 4. to give praise to the student which raises his esteem EFTA01161006 amongst his peers; 5. that the student's security and safety in every quarter (i.e. towards parents, wife, children, employees, friends and spiritual mentors) is ensured, while pointing out the loopholes and weaknesses present in any body of knowledge. Meanwhile the student should minister to his teacher by: 1. rising to receive them; 2. by serving them (in things which facilitate the EFTA01161007 teacher's convenience) 3. by obedience to the teachings or an eagerness to learn; 4. by personal service 5. by attentively and respectfully learning the arts and sciences If a student fails to fulfil their duties but the teacher does their part, the student is unworthy of the teacher — and it will be no surprise if the student can never become "skilled in knowledge" catastrophe will EFTA01161008 await the student. If the teacher fails to fulfil their duties but the pupil does their part, then the teacher is unworthy of the student — and perhaps the student should look elsewhere for a better teacher — and catastrophe awaits the teacher. If neither the student nor the teacher fulfil their duties, catastrophe will await both student and teacher and their failing will have EFTA01161009 EFTA01161010 air n証`.10龔1 S01OU 0141. saidoo pm sam4oaI sch is oqn \ UOSI0d JO 1JOS ol) ITI)s 0M noX ji vvai day; ;mit inaq O1 角unmoddo aw gumuu ra 8u？Aripaualtt8nu[ spiv鼽cy Sda7Sg,:aovadfo ivnuppv V got .D8JpI To klapos .1OJ saouanbosuoo antusod 0AN Illnk moInt qaq italp pm °mum 1i2pq t ant q 'pm sapsed tpoq 餉qiouu otTo O1 S0T lnp ..qatp. MIT 1°T-Pv°1 puu mapms q4out `..10A0MOH .o8JtT 靶 Xi0mos ..To‘i so3t"onbosuoo omw8au unlikely ever to make a success of your career as a student. This applies both to the contact with your teacher and reading from the textbooks. It means questioning in order to further your knowledge.Whatever knowledge you learn, try to divide it up into these four aspects and study all four. Only then can you say that you have mastered that knowledge. Such an assessment of your own knowledge will prevent EFTA01161011 you from slipping into the premature overestimation of the amount you know and give you the encouragement to keep listening to people of knowledge. 1. Knowledge in Depth: You need to make sure that you understand deeply what you have learned. You need to know the roots and origins of everything you study (its past). If you are a doctor and you see a patient ill with certain symptoms by looking at their face EFTA01161012 you can tell immediately about the prognosis of their illness right from ten or twenty years ago. Don't go believing things simply because they are traditional or customary without understanding the reasons for such belief. 2. Knowledge in Breadth: You need to have a broad knowledge (the present) not only of your own narrow specialism but also about all the things that concern your everyday EFTA01161013 life. Even if you study the arts, you still need to know the elements of electricity because you use electricity in your everyday life from the time you get up in the morning to the time you go to bed. If you have studied science, you still need to know about the arts otherwise you will not understand how to communicate emotions, feelings and ideas from one person to another in different EFTA01161014 forms whether it may be written or visual. If you don't study then you can be the best engineer in the world but if you have no gift for communicating with people you will just be digging holes for the rest of your life. 3. Thorough Knowledge: Not only will you know your own narrow subject but you will know the connections which it has with other issues as if you know the influences of that knowledge all EFTA01161015 the way from the mainstream up to the edges. 4. Long-sighted Knowledge: You need to have a long-sighted knowledge. You need to know how things will turn out in the future. You need to know how one thing leads to another. D.3 Listening attentively You need to listen to remember — not just sit in the lecture picking your fingernails and chatting to your friends, with no idea what the lecture was about at EFTA01161016 the end; D.4 Memorizing knowledge learned [vAcAsa-paricitta] If you make no effort to memorize what you have learned, you will never become a person `who has heard much' (A.v.26). Memorization is an implicit part of the duty of a monk and it is expectedof monks by the lay congregation. If the knowledge stays in the books, it is like having money, but having lent it all to someone else. If you want it back EFTA01161017 instantly, even though it is yours you cannot get it back instantly. Even though you know which textbook you can find a certain piece of knowledge in, you will go reaching for the book one day and find that worms have eaten just the page you needed. D.5 Reflecting on knowledge memorized [manasAnupekkhitA] You have to digest new knowledge in your mind and look for causes and effects Meditating is the mostefficient way of `digesting' EFTA01161018 new knowledge. D.6 Applying knowledgefor one's own benefit (see Blessing Eight) D. 7 Applying knowledgefor the benefit of oneself and others (See Blessing Eight) E. PRACTICAL TIPS FOR BECOMING LEARNED Here are some practical suggestions for budding scholars: 1. Choose only appropriate subjects to study which will not have negative implications for the huBlessing EFTA01161019 Seven: Artfulness in Knowledge 109 man dignity of yourself, others or society at large; 2. Dedicate yourself studying your chosen subject to the utmost of your ability; 3. Always be enthusiastic to learn new things; 4. Study spiritual knowledge hand-in-hand with worldly knowledge; 5. Remember what you have learned so that it is always at your immediate disposal F. ILLUSTRATIVE EFTA01161020 EXAMPLES F.1 Metaphor: Lamp lighting the path for a long journey ahead Just as illumination is necessary to light the path ahead on a long journey, artfulness in knowledge is the pioneering virtue leading to prosperity in life. F.2 Ex. Buddha advises a brahmin to pay respect to Ananda (1.296) There was once a brahmin who sought the advice of the Buddha. He said that it was obvious how EFTA01161021 one could pay respect to the Buddha and the Salgha, because they were already a sort of personality. However, the Brahmin didn't know how to pay respect to the Dhamma which seemed more abstract.The Buddha replied that if you want to pay respect to the Dhamma, you should pay respect to those who are learned in the Dhamma. The Brahmin asked around to find which of the monks was the most learned and everyone EFTA01161022 agreed that/nanda was the most learned because more than any other monk, he had heard the teachings of the Lord Buddha. Thus the Brahmin went to pay respect to /nanda above the other monks, many of whom had more advanced spiritual attainments. F.3 Ex. MahAsutasoma JAtaka (J.537) There was a certain Buddha who while pursuing Perfections as the bodhisattva, was born as a king EFTA01161023 called MahAsutasoma. The king was so keen to learn new teachings of the Dhamma that he would invite anyone who had knowledge of the Dhamma to come and teach him in the palace. On one occasion, MahAsutasoma was captured by an ogre. The ogre was going to put him to death. On just the day the ogre was going to collect him, it was also the day when he had made an appointment with a knowledgable Brahmin Nanda to EFTA01161024 teach some teachings left over from the Kassapa Buddha. In that day and age, there were no living teachings to be followed any more. There were no monks left any more. Later even if the king offered the prize of a heap of gold as tall as the person to give the teaching, there would still be no-one who had any teaching to give the king. Even if the king offered the prize of a heap of diamonds as tall as an elephant, EFTA01161025 still nobody could be found to give a teaching to the teacher. However, in the time of king MahAsutasoma, the decay of Buddhism was not so much that there were no teachings left any more. The day when the king was to be captured, someone had accepted an invitation to come and give a teaching in the palace. On that day, out of respect for the Dhamma, the king had first gone to freshen up and change into a new set of EFTA01161026 clothes in preparation for hearing the Dhamma. It was as he was washing that he was captured. The king made a deal with the ogre that it could do with him as it liked, but it should first let him listen to the teaching of the Dhamma, because he had already made an appointment with the teacher who was coming. The king promised the ogre that after hearing the teaching he would allow it to take him away for EFTA01161027 sacrifice. Even though the people of that time didn't know about the Precepts, they still knew about the importance of truthfulness. The king was allowed to return to the palace where the Brahmin was waiting. The Brahmin didn't even know how to explain the Dhamma, all he could do was to read out a piece of the scriptures. The Brahmin also had to wash himself before giving the teaching. He rinsed his hands with perfume before picking EFTA01161028 up the scriptures. He bowed three times to the scriptures and only then did he open up the scriptures in the most careful possible way. The subject matter of the scriptures were the words of a previous Buddha. The Brahmin could read the words and translate them, but he didn't know the meaning: Associating with the noble ones just once, One can be protected by that contact for the rest of one's life. EFTA01161029 110 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living However, associating with fools even many times, Will fail to protect you for the rest of your life. If you associate with the noble ones, You should associate with them closely, Because anyone who can learn the virtues of a noble one, Will know only prosperity and never EFTA01161030 know decay. Even a royal chariot that is beautifully decorated, Must eventually deteriorate and decay, In the same way the body that we possess Must eventually decay and die. However, the Virtue of the Noble Ones Never goes out of date and never decays. It is only the Noble Ones together Who can know each others' minds. The earth and sky are far apart. The two sides of the ocean are far EFTA01161031 apart. But they are not so far apart, As the behaviour of the nobles and that of fools. Before putting the scriptures away, the brahmin bowed to them again. Hearing just these teachings, the king was so moved that he cried tears of joy. The king asked the brahmin, "Usually when you read this scripture to other kings, how much do they give you?" The brahmin replied, "They give EFTA01161032 me a hundred for each verse." "These verses are not a `hundred a verse' but are a `thousand a verse" said the king, and presented the brahmin with five thousand. The king remembered the appointment he had made with the ogre and thought to himself, "If I were to break my promise, it would only make my mind dull and guilty and I would certainly have an unfortunate afterlife destination — better that I EFTA01161033 go to my death with that ogre while my mind is still radiant from having heard the Dhamma." The king gave himself up to the ogre. The ogre was surprised that the king didn't show any sign of fearing death. It asked the king why he had no fear of death. When the king told them the Dhamma he had learned, the ogre was so impressed that it asked to take refuge in the king as its teacher and had no more thought about sacrificing EFTA01161034 him. F.4 Ex. Tuccha-Pothila (The Blank Scripture Monk)(DhA.iiL417-21) In the time of the Buddha there was an elder monk who was so learned in the Dhamma teachings that he had many disciples of his own. Many of his disciples had become arahants as the result of what he had taught but he, himself, had not achieved anything. He had heard a lot of teachings but he had never showed any interest in EFTA01161035 practising for himself all the theory thathe had taught. All he had was knowledge — he had no attainments. Out of compassion,the Buddha wanted the elder monk to realize that he must practice for himself, so he always called the elder by the name `Blank Scripture'. If the elder came to see the Buddha, the only thing the Buddha would say to him was "'Blank Scripture'— so you're here again?" For EFTA01161036 other disciples the Buddha would ask questions or give encouragement, but instead of giving encouragement to this elder for having so many students he just said `Blank scripture'. Apart from this he would ignore the elder completely until everyone else was taking their leave. Again, the only thing the Buddha would say to him was "'Blank Scripture' — so it's time for you to go?" One day, the elder saw through his feeling of being EFTA01161037 slighted bythe Buddha and thought to himself, "What the Buddha says is really true — I really am a `blank scripture' — because I know all the scriptures by heart, but I have never used any of it in practice for my own benefit." He thought to himself,"I have spent all my life teaching others, but I have never taught anything to the stubbornest person in the world — myself." (Sometimes, even though you know what is good EFTA01161038 and what is bad, you still don't make any effort to change your behaviour. When the alarm clock rings in the morning, instead of getting up, you switch it Blessing Seven: Artfulness in Knowledge 111 off and go back to sleep. This is the reason why it is necessary to teach yourself regularly). Thus the blank scripture elder went to the most senior arahant he knew and asked for his help in teaching the practice of Buddhism. EFTA01161039 The arahant, knew what was in the mind the elder and knew if he made life too easy for him, he would never give up the arrogance he needed to shed in order to learn anything. Thus the arahant did not agree to teach him, but sent him to a more junior arahant saying, "That monk is still young and healthy — he will have the strength to teach you what you want to know." The `blank scripture' elder went to EFTA01161040 the younger arahant, but the younger arahant knew the character of the elder again. He knew with his seniority, the elder would not pay much attention to anything taught to him by someone half his age. Thus the young arahant sent the elder to study with a novice who was an arahant. The elder was tempted to give up his search for knowledge because of the humiliation of having to be taught by a young novice! EFTA01161041 However, the warning of the Buddha still rang in his ear and he gritted his teeth and went to see the novice. The novice knew the arrogant character of the elder so he told him that to get a good result from the teaching, the elder must be up to his neck in river water to get any benefit. The elder thought, "I am really at my last resort — if I don't do as this novice tells me, I will maybe never have the chance EFTA01161042 to learn any more."When the elder was up to his waist in water, he had completely given up his dignity and hence his arrogance. The novice said, "Up to your waist is enough!" The novice taught, "There is a termite mound with six entrances. A water monitor is inside the termite mound. The way to catch the water monitor is to block five entrances and to put your hand through the sixth and you will be able to catch the EFTA01161043 water monitor as you wish." The novice didn't need to say any more. Because the elder was an experienced teacher he immediately knew that the water monitor in the teaching is the mind itself which is constantly thinking of things that are of no benefit, losing its energy via the six sense doors. If we want to train the mind we have to control the five outer senses (eyes, ears, nose, tongue and body) and purify the sixth sense which is the object EFTA01161044 of the mind. As soon as the elder understood, he immediately trained himself in sensual restraint and purification of the mind. By the end of the novice's teaching, the elder was an arahant, even standing there up to his waist in water. Because the elder had been artful in knowledge for so long, to become artful in practice was no difficulty. All he needed was to have a little reminder to make him think a little. Thus we EFTA01161045 can see that to be artful in knowledge is essential for one's personal development. 112 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Blessing Eight: Artfulness in Application 113 A. INTRODUCTION Since Blessing Seven, we have already discovered the value of being artful in knowledge — but it is not good enough — it is also necessary to be artful in the application of what we know EFTA01161046 — the subject of this Blessing. A.1 People confuse knowledge with ability Many people confuse knowledge with ability. Artfulness in the application of knowledge means that if you have learned an occupational subject, if you have learned all the necessary theory, you have to transform that theory into practice allowing you to earn your living. If you have learned Dhamma theory, you have to transform that EFTA01161047 knowledge into Dhamma practice. It is like someone who reads a manual of swimming who can memorize every page of the manual. He knows how many types of swimming styles exist and what all the differences are. When he has read the book, he puts it at the side of the swimming pool and jumps in — sinking without a trace! A.2 Why no-one wantsfresh graduates This is one reason why many EFTA01161048 graduates are unemployed — they have only knowledge from examinations or from copying their friends. They have no practical knowledge. They expect to get a prestigious job in keeping with their prestigious degree and look down on almost every type of work. When they have only academic knowledge, no practical knowledge and they expect to choose where they want to work, who can they expect to want to take EFTA01161049 them on? If you don't want to be an unemployed graduate, you should take on any work you can find, to get the practical experience ever since you have not yet graduated. If you can transform your academic knowledge into practical skills even before you graduate, you will make an very attractive prospect for employers. There will be employers asking after you even before you graduate. Some people get themselves a EFTA01161050 prestigious degree in accounting. They take a job as a lecturer in university and because they can teach accounting in a way that allows their students to become successful accountants, they think that they are also a capable accountant. The lecturer sees that his students are richer than he is, so he gives up his job to start a business himself. Before long, his business is bankrupt and he has to go back to teaching! Only then EFTA01161051 would such a person find out the reality that knowledge and application of knowledge are completely different attributes. B. DEFINITIONS B.1 Definition: Artfulness in Application The Pali word `sippaO', meaning `one endowed with artistry' means someone who is skilled in application of their knowledge. The `bahEsEta' of Blessing Seven is one who is skilled in knowledge, EFTA01161052 Blessing Eight: Artfulness in Application 114 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living but the person who has mastered this Eighth Blessing is one who can apply that knowledge fruitfully too. B.2 Six Components of Artful Application Not all performances or displays of application of knowledge qualify as `artfulness in EFTA01161053 application'. You can learn skills, but it doesn't guarantee that using the skill will bring you merit — therefore, before committing yourself to a skill you want to learn, you have to consider the merits of it first, for the harmony of society: If you are a sculptor, then why not use your skill to sculpt Buddha images that can bring inspiration to others? If you can draw then why not draw the sort of pictures that will inspire EFTA01161054 others to do good deeds? Even little skills like being able to make toys for one's children can help to stop wastage of family income on imported dolls and cartoon characters — as a guideline, bear in mind the following six qualities of applied work that demonstrates artistry: 1. Must be refined 2. Adds to the value of the raw materials 3. Product of the work leads to creative thinking, not aggressive or destructive EFTA01161055 thinking: A motor engineer should use his skill to build engines to help people in their everyday lives rather than to build weapons to wage war. 4. Product of the work doesn't lead to sensual obsession: Don't go studying the sort of arts that will stir up the passion of others like cabaret dancing or strip-tease. 5. Product of the work doesn't lead to illwill or vengefulness 6. Product of the work doesn't EFTA01161056 lead to aggression: Don't engage in arts that will cause people to seek vengeance such as inventing war slogans. B.3 Three Categories of Artful Application Don't think that only artistic applications you can `see and touch' qualify for fulfilment of the Eighth Blessing. Such skilfulness can be applied to body, speech and mind: I. Artistic Application in Body: This applies to various sorts of specialism or EFTA01161057 applied expertise, whether it be plumbing, mechanics, painting, design, sculpture, photography, printing or other vocational skills such as gardener, farmer, author or nurse — and further than that, having the manners to walk, stand, sit and lie down politely, dressing appropriately, being hospitable, expressing respect and behaving in a `cultivated' way; 2. Artistic Application in Speech: EFTA01161058 This applies to communication skills, knowing what to say and how to say it in a way to inspire the hearer towards virtue (more in Blessing Ten) 3. Artistic Application in Mind: This applies to skillfulness in thinking, having one's wits about one and creative thinking. In a nutshell, Artfulness in Application is artfulness in body, speech and mind. C. CULTIVATING ARTFUL APPLICATION C.1 Transforming Knowledge into EFTA01161059 Skills If you want to transform your academic knowledge into applied ability, you have to possess the following qualities (PatthanA Sutta A.iii.154): 1. Believe in what you do [saddha]: You have to believe that you what you are doing is really beneficial and virtuous. You should be enthusiastic about doing it and have the confidence that you can make a success out of it. Some doctors graduate EFTA01161060 in medical science, but have no confidence in their ability to heal people. Some are more confident in their own ability to construct buildings. In the end, they become building contractors! They can achieve more success that way than they ever could by being a doctor! You need to have to believe in what you are doing if you are to be able to dedicate yourself to it. 2. Safeguard your health: Don't be the sort of person EFTA01161061 who bursts into coughs and sneezes when exposed to the merest cold draught. If you let your efforts destroy your health, it will be hard for you to succeed in learning a trade. A practical way to safeguard your health from all the possible risks is very simple keep the Five Precepts strictly. If you neglect your health and go looking for things to destroy yourself by doing Blessing Eight: Artfulness in EFTA01161062 Application 115 unhealthy things, you will find it hard ever to achieve success in learning a trade. 3. You must avoid arrogance and boastfulness: Those who spend all day speaking about what they will do, but never getting round to doing it, will never manage to master a trade. No-one wants to accept someone who is boastful as an apprentice. The only skill which boastful people manage to develop is the ability to EFTA01161063 find fault with other people in order to let other people know how wonderful they are themselves. By pushing others down they are able to hoist themselves up in the estimation of others. The habit of a boastful person is to take a very minor virtue or ability and magnify it beyond all proportion. 4. You must avoid laziness: If you have only knowledge but you are too lazy to do anything with it, EFTA01161064 then you will be no more than knowledgeable for the rest of your life. 5. Cultivate wisdom: Wisdom is cultivated by being observant and reflecting on new skills and techniques. C.2 Instilling yourself with "Artfulness in Application" You cannot acquire wisdom just by eating and sleeping. You have to be active in your search for wisdom according to the following steps: I. Be observant ofyourself and EFTA01161065 EFTA01161066 `oTkisojIT ino C jo s2oodse 8moilou 人q )J珍）S moils no入’)soiduns XffeopoJoolp sinosino人 o 9sqo 1osneooq - lugfiasdnof 8uhuosqo Act 1.11 i,s o1 q nox0mosqo O s2upp °quo sonsuo)o℃J Injosn pue poo8 °T1n°loos O1 pluone ski Ay molls uomAlosqo S.10mod mo 'Hogs1nu e joniosqo 1 letTAk mom!ol 2 Joduu s! 2I `20ej UT lnq ') Alosqo oq，kes )1I0A鳘ki0A He s!:1.1 :no f punont slum;alp (for example our habits of eating or sleeping) to try to define what is appropriate or inappropriate and where the point of equilibrium lies for various factors. If you eat too much it will make you sleepy. If you eat too little, your stomach will rumble at night. You have to notice what happens to us if we go to bed late. You have to notice what happens to you if you get up late. What is better for you — to go to bed at EFTA01161067 ten at night and wake up at dawn, or to go to bed at midnight and to wake up at seven in the morning? Once you know how to be observant of yourself, you can gradually extend your observation to the things around you. We notice our clothes. How our clothes get dirty at the collar or around the cuffs. Notice what sort of clothes are suitable for what sort of situation. We gradually extend EFTA01161068 our mindfulness to the things more distant from us — noticing how to speak to people in an appropriate way, how to speak to people to inspire them instead of making them lazy. Notice the characteristics of the things around you. If you train yourself to be observant even of yourself, the skill will soon be developed and wisdom will follow. 2. Train yourself to do everything better than best: EFTA01161069 Never look down on any work that comes your way. Never think any task you do is unimportant. Even simple things like your handwriting should be done with care. From the time when a child is young, they should be trained to write neatly whatever they do so that `being careful' about whatever work they are to do in the future will be ingrained from the earliest age. Some people write with such messy EFTA01161070 handwriting that others can only barely decipher what has been written. Someone who writes like that since their youth until adulthood will soon get themselves in the habit of doing everything in a shoddy way — never achieving anything better than `passable' quality. If you do everything to the best of your ability, skills and abilities will soon come your way without you even having to spend time EFTA01161071 looking for them. Even if you don't study the specific qualities of a particular art, if you are always observant of quality, and do things cleanly and in a detailed way, even though you cannot produce artwork for yourself, you will be able to tell quality in the work of others. Once you have trained your mind to be refined and to notice details, even the way you speak will start to be of higher quality — more EFTA01161072 based on reason and more confident (because your train of thought will be more systematic). 116 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living 3. Be refined in all you do: Some might accuse you of `nit-picking' but if you insist on high quality in your work, even in the details, before long, you will start to pick up artfulness in application. 4. Always look for better ways to do the same thing: Sometimes you can already EFTA01161073 do a task, but if you always look for quicker, more efficient, more cost-effective ways of doing the same thing, it will force you always to improve on your skills, never sitting on your laurels. 5. Apprentice yourself to a craftsman: Seek out craftsmen in the field which you want to master and become apprentice to them. Be respectful and helpful to him so that he will have the compassion to push you further in the direction EFTA01161074 of craftsmanship. 6. Meditate regularly: The art of training our capabilities of action and speech is rooted in our capability to train the mind. Systematic thinking and observation can only be developed when the mind is well-trained. Training the mind through meditation will make the acquisition of other capabilities easy, because to be able to meditate is the ultimate skill because it EFTA01161075 deals with refinement at its root. C.3 Applying knowledge for your own benefit and the benefit of others In continuation of the "Learning Process already described in Blessing Seven", Blessing Eight concerns the last two steps of the knowledge acquisition process which involve the application of that knowledge for the good of ourselves and others. Some people use their knowledge and skills only EFTA01161076 for their own selfish benefits. Sometimes they are afraid that if they teach all they know to anyone else then they will be giving away their trade secrets or that that other person may overtake them and make more progress than they have done. The attitude which is the most healthy for rounding off a body of knowledge that you have learned is to use your knowledge both for your own benefit and the benefit of others too. Like EFTA01161077 the example of the College of Surgery with the policy "See One - Do One - Teach One" where capable students were not only those who could witness and perform surgery — they were also able to teach surgery to others too! In that way, all your mastery of the knowledge will not be limited to overcoming your own shortcomings — the application of knowledge can also be used to overcome the shortcomings of others. EFTA01161078 C.4 How not to instil yourself with "Artfulness in Application" If you want to learn artfulness in application quickly, you have to make sure that you are not the sort of person who can do nothing better than find fault with the work of others — unless you are training yourself to be a professional critic! If you have done nothing but criticise others, when it comes to your turn to show off your craftsmanship, you will EFTA01161079 not have the confidence to let others see what you have made or done — for fear they will criticize you in the same way as you have done them. In such a case, you will end up as someone who never achieves anything. D. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES D.1 Proverb: He who knows but a single skill... He who knows but a single skill can eke out his livelihood with ease. D.2 Metaphor: Just as twigs... EFTA01161080 If you plant a mango tree, the benefit you get from it depends entirely on the amount of fruit. Even though the tree might grow a trunk, branches and leaves — these are no more than precursors for any benefit which may come later. In the same way, even though a person may be learned, this knowledge is no more than a precursor for the benefit that can accrue if the knowledge is applied. D.3 Ex. Swimology (traditional) Once a young professor was EFTA01161081 making a sea voyage. He was a highly educated man with a long tail of letters after his name, but he had little experience of life. In the crew of the ship on which he was traveling was an illiterate old sailor. Every evening the sailor would visit the cabin of the young proBlessing Eight: Artfulness in Application 117 fessor to listen to him hold forth on many different subjects. He was very impressed with the learning EFTA01161082 of the young man. One evening as the sailor was about to leave the cabin after several hours of conversation, the professor asked,"Old man, have you studied geology?" "What is that,sir?" "The science of the earth." "No sir, I have never been to any school or college. I have never studied anything." "Old man, you have wasted a quarter of your life." With a long face the old sailor went away. "If such EFTA01161083 a learned person says so, certainly it must be true," he thought. "I have wasted a quarter of my life." Next evening again, as the sailor was about to leave the cabin, the professor asked him, "Old man, have you studied oceanography?" "What is that, sir?" "The science of the sea." "No, sir, I have never studied anything." "Old man, you have wasted half your life." With a still longer face the sailor went away: "I EFTA01161084 have wasted half my life; this learned man says so." Next evening again as the sailor was about to leave the cabin, "Old man, have you studied meteorology?" "What is that, sir? I have never heard of it." "The science of the wind, the rain, the weather." "No sir. As I told you, I have never been to any school. I have never studied anything." "You have not studied the science of the earth on which you live; you have not EFTA01161085 studied the science of the sea on which you earn your livelihood; you have not studied the science of the weather which you encounter every day? Old man, you have wasted three-quarters of your life." The old sailor was very unhappy: "This learned man says that I have wasted three-quarters of my life! Certainly I must have wasted three-quarters of my life. The next day it was the turn of the old sailor. He EFTA01161086 came running to the cabin of the young man and cried, "Professor! Have you studied swimology?" "Swimology? What do you mean?" "Can you swim, sir?" "No, I don't know how to swim." "Professor! You have wasted the whole of your life! The ship has struck a rock and is sinking. Those who can swim may reach the nearby shore, but those who cannot swim will drown. I am sorry, professor sir, you have surely lost your life." EFTA01161087 You may study all the "-ologies" of the world, but if you don't learn swimology, all your studies are useless. You may read and write books on swimming, you may debate on its subtle theoretical aspects, but how will that help if you refuse to enter the water yourself? You must learn how to swim. D.4 Ex. SAlittaka JAtaka(J.10 7) In ancient times, there was a child with polio. His legs were so weak that he couldn't walk anywhere EFTA01161088 unaided. He had to stay wherever his friends put him. He couldn't even get up. Although his body was deformed, his intelligence was bright. He didn't look down on any subject. The child would practice flicking sand until he could flick sand a long distance very precisely. The boy used his skills to earn favours from others. The boy could flick sand so accurately that he could shoot holes in the leaves of trees above. Not only EFTA01161089 holes — but he could shoot holes in the shapes of anything he wanted — whether they be the shape of rabbits or tigers or deer. The boy would shoot holes in leaves to the order of the other children in return for sweets. The boy with polio had never studied in school, but through his skill, he had more sweets to eat than the other children every day. One day the boy was flicking sand on the sand heap for the other children when EFTA01161090 the king passed by. All the other children ran away, and the boy with polio was left alone. The king came to rest in the shade of the tree by the sandheap and when he looked up, he was surprised to see that almost every leaf of the tree had been perforated in the shape of different animals. The king asked how the tree had come to be that way, and found out that it was due to the skills of the boy with polio. The king thought, EFTA01161091 "the skills of such a boy should not be wasted at the sandpit." The king happened to have a something on his mind — every time he had a meeting 118 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living of his counsellors, there was a particular counsellor who would interrupt and dominate the discussion regularly wasting the time of everyone in the meeting. The king asked the boy, "if someone were to open their mouth, would you be EFTA01161092 able to shoot goat dung into their mouth in the same way you shoot sand through leaves?" The boy said, "It would be a piece of cake." The king had the boy taken into the palace. Those with all health and strength never got the chance to go to the palace, but this poor crippled boy did. Every time there was a meeting, the boy was put behind a curtain in the room. Every time the counsellor in question opened his mouth to EFTA01161093 speak, the boy flicked goat dung into his mouth. The boy was so fast, that the counsellor didn't even know where the taste in his mouth had come from. The counsellor would want to speak but change his mind as a result every time, because he would have to swallow what was in his mouth. One day, the counsellor had opened his mouth so many times that the boy had used up a whole litre of goat dung. The king felt sorry for EFTA01161094 the counsellor and was afraid he would get dysentery. He ordered the counsellor to go and wash his mouth out immediately and told him to reduce the amount he said or else in future he would get two litres of goat dung in his mouth! On future occasions, the counsellor had to consider carefully before saying anything in case he fell prey to flying goat dung. As the result of having more effective meetings, the economics of the EFTA01161095 kingdom improved considerably. The king rewarded the crippled boy by allocated all the money earned in taxes from a certain province to him as pin-money. The cripple became a rich man as the result of a single skill — because he put his mind to perfecting his skill. Blessing Nine: Artfulness in Usage 119 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 Place of Blessing Nine in the order of things The Seventh Blessing concerned EFTA01161096 artfulness in knowledge. We should be enthusiastic about finding any new knowledge either in spiritual or worldly ways as long as it doesn't have any negative implications for the human dignity of ourselves, others or society in general. Once you can avail yourself of such knowledge, then it is a blessing in itself. The Eighth Blessing concerned artfulness in the application of knowledge or EFTA01161097 "artfulness in learning skills". We should be enthusiastic about learning any new skills either in spiritual or worldly ways as long as they don't have any negative implications for the human dignity of ourselves, others or society in general. Once you can avail yourself of such skills, then it is also a blessing in itself. Already mooted in the previous two Blessings has been the difficulty of knowing whether the EFTA01161098 knowledge or skill we are learning has any negative implications for the human dignity of ourselves, others or society in general. The purpose of the Ninth Blessing is to give us the guidelines we need — to allow us to judge our own behaviour in action and word, so that the way we use our intellectual resources and craftsmanship bring no detriment to society around us or to our spiritual furtherment. EFTA01161099 A.2 Objectives of studying `Artfulness in Usage' In our consideration of the value of artfulness in usage towards human dignity, we must always consider three levels of description: our own personal human dignity, the human dignity of others and the dignity of the whole economic system in society. Being disciplined or being "artful in usage" has benefits on three levels: I. Personal Level: Being disciplined protects and EFTA01161100 furthers one's own human dignity by protecting our health from self-induced illness, reducing possible obstacles in our spiritual vocation (especially those arising from unintentional blunders with the "defilements of action" [kammakilesa] and allowing us to develop our level of virtue from mere "discipline" [vinaya] to "selfdiscipline" [sEla] which is the foundation for the subsequent development of EFTA01161101 meditation [samAdhi] and wisdom [parinA]. It is said that being disciplined is the one major difference between humans and savages - thus by preserving our level of discipline we protect ourselves from decline into savagery; 2. Interpersonal Level: Being disciplined protects and furthers others' human dignity by stopping people taking advantage of each other. 3. Social Level: Being disciplined EFTA01161102 protects and furthers the humanity of the fair economics in our society by promoting compliance with the law and general harmony for society. Blessing Nine: Artfulness in Usage 120 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Of course it is an advantage for the reader to know about artfulness in usage (or more briefly "discipline") EFTA01161103 and how to acquire it but it is not until you become a disciplined person that you will really start to gain benefit from this Blessing. A.3 Knowing where to draw the line From person to person the intellectual resources and the level of craftsmanship may not be the same — however, the more the knowledge and skills a person has, the more potential damage they can do to themselves, others and society if EFTA01161104 they have no ethical discretion about how to use that knowledge and skill. Thus it is vitally important that everyone has "virtue" to go hand-in-hand with their knowledge — specifically the virtue to know the negative implications of any deeds they may do or words they may say. In society in general, we tend tothink that if what we do or say is not illegal then it is acceptable to our human dignity — however, the Law is EFTA01161105 really only a very loose guideline for what should or should not be done in society. To give a firm example, if a person can perpetrate a murder, but has no witnesses, he cannot be prosecuted in a court of law. Furthermore, the Law from country to country is different — does this mean that the ethics can also be localized? In some countries, the Law might even be undemocratic — so the Law alone doesn't give us sufficient guidelines for the EFTA01161106 preservation of human dignity at any of the levels of description. More detailed guidelines were provided by the Buddha in the form of a checklist of four items to be considered in order from the first to the last: I. The Five Precepts: Does the action or speech contradict break the Five Precepts 1. killing; 2. stealing; 3. adultery; 4. telling lies, and; 5. drinking alcohol (see below) — i.e. the baseline of humane EFTA01161107 behaviour? This form of discipline is spiritual discipline, concerning our quality of mind and the quality of mind of those who share society with us. We find that these Five Precepts are at the heart of codes of discipline of many different religions, whether it be the Christian Ten Commandments, Islamic law, the 16 rules of Hindu conduct. 2. The Five Virtues: Does the action or speech contradict EFTA01161108 the Five Virtues [paiicadhamma] of 1. compassion; 2. right-livelihood; 3. sexual-restraint; 4. truthfulness, and; 5. awareness? — see Blessing Sixteen. This form of discipline is spiritual discipline, concerning our quality of mind and the quality of mind of those who share society with us. 3. Local Law: Does the action or speech contradict the local law? This form of discipline is worldly EFTA01161109 or material discipline, concerning our quality of life and the quality of life of those who share society with us. 4. Local Custom: Does the action or speech contradict the local custom? This form of discipline is worldly or material discipline and concerns social harmony and solidarity. Thus if an action goes against the Five Precepts, even if it doesn't break the Law, it should not be done. Also, even if it doesn't break EFTA01161110 the law notto do something, but omitting to do something goes against the local custom, perhaps this is a good reason to comply, at least for harmony on the local level (but of course, it should not break the Five Precepts). B. DEFINITIONS B.1 Definition: Artfulness in Usage The root of the Pali word for `artfulness in usage' or `discipline' is `vinaya' comes from two stems `vi' and ney' Wey' means something EFTA01161111 that leads you. `Vi' can mean any of three things: `good', `revealed' or 'different'. Thus in compound the definition of the word ' vinaya' means `leads you to good' or `leads you to brightness' or `leads you to something different'. Leading one to goodness, means that it takes you away from evil. Leading one to revelation means that it allows us to see a person as they really are. Leading one to be different means that it EFTA01161112 raises one above people in general. The actual meaning of the word is `rulesor regulations to restrain ourselves in body and word to avoid causing suffering to ourselves or others'. Notice that `vinaya' doesn't restrain the mind directly, but in effect, it has a positive effect on the mind too because bodily action and speech originate in the Blessing Nine: Artfulness in Usage 121 mind. When we can avoid causing suffering to ourselves EFTA01161113 or others, we set ourselves on the path to goodness, revelation and difference from others in general. Vinaya' will be the virtue that tells us what is appropriate and inappropriate to do or say or look at or eat. B.2 Definition: Self-Discipline When people think of Precepts, they often mistakenly think that Precepts are nothing more than prohibitions. In fact the meaning of the Pali word for `Precepts' i.e. `stla' means `the EFTA01161114 norm' or `cooling'. Precepts mean the level of virtue that is normal for human beings to have. It is a norm that distinguishes men from savages or from animals. It is for this reason that we differentiate `vinaya' from `sEla' by calling the latter "self-discipline". As we shall see "self-discipline" is the result of training yourself in "discipline". It is a state of mind rather than a set of rules to follow. B.3 The Difference between EFTA01161115 Discipline & Self-Discipline Discipline is the means by which we restrain (the manifesting of) unwholesome actions and speech. When one is new to discipline, the mind is usually still reluctant. Many thoughts will go through the mind to protest at the inconvenience of behaving in a disciplined way. Such thoughts do not constitutea breach of discipline because they are not manifest. Apart from protecting the practitioner EFTA01161116 from degradation of behaviour into any of the Four Defilements of Action [kammakilesa], discipline will gradually channel the mind into the development of "self-discipline". Self-discipline is the attainment of restraint of unwholesome thought as well as unwholesome action and speech. At this point there is no further reluctance in the mind any more. One has managed to be "a teacher to oneself' sufficiently well to be able to EFTA01161117 police one's body, speech and mind without the need for any further rules or regulations to force such behaviours. B.4 Different Types of Discipline There are different sets of codes of conduct which can be used for training in discipline. Some are suitable for laypeople. Others are suitable for monks. They work on the principle of the "principle of limitation" because as Kierkegaard wrote in Either/Or: A Fragment of Life: Part One EFTA01161118 (1843): "The more a person limits themselves,the more resourceful he becomes" (p.289-91) In Buddhism, it is not by arbitrary rules that we limit ourselves — we choose rules that also ensure protection of the human dignity of ourselves, others and society — but it is true that the more intensive the level of practice, the more rules of training we tend to keep. B.4.1 Discipline for Householders EFTA01161119 B.4.1.1 Five Precepts The Five Precepts [parica-stla] are the basic set of discipline advocated for every Buddhist. The Five Precepts are much older than Buddhism, but were adopted by Buddhism amongst many other religions as the core practice for moral conduct. Elements of the same principles are found in the Ten Commandments, Islamic Law and even Hindu practices. This is because the Five Precepts protect EFTA01161120 against a person taking advantage of the weaknesses of himself and others. There is nothing that people love more than their own life, their possessions, their spouse and trust. There is nothing that disables people more than the loss of their own clear conscience. These five weaknesses in human relationships are guarded by the Five Precepts. Such weaknesses are not exclusive to Buddhists, but apply for all people in the world, EFTA01161121 therefore the Five Precepts are the fundemental bedrock of all morality. The Precepts themselves consist of five rules of training: 1. Not to kill living beings 2. Not to steal 3. Not to commit adultery 4. Not to tell lies 5. Not knowingly to drink alcohol or consume intoxicants. By keeping the Five Precepts people can ensure harmony for society and also prevent many of the roots of suffering. The Precepts EFTA01161122 bring coolness to the mind and body — there is no burning caused by suffering in body and mind as the result. 122 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living The Five Precepts share the same Pali word "paricasEla" as the five principles upon which Sukarno founded the Indonesian Constitution — but don't go thinking that Indonesian Law is founded on Buddhist Principles because on closer examination, EFTA01161123 the five basic principles of the Indonesian Constitution turn out to be something else completely. The Five Precepts are intended to be kept by Buddhist householders on a daily basis. B.4.1.2 Eight Precepts The Eight Precepts are a set of rules of training which expand on the Five Precepts with adjustment of the third and fifth precepts and addition of the sixth, seventh and eighth. The Precepts themselves consist of eight rules of training: EFTA01161124 1. Not to kill living beings 2. Not to steal 3. Not to be uncelibate 4. Not to tell lies 5. Not to drink alcohol or consume intoxicants 6. Not to take meals between midday and dawn 7. Not to indulge in romantic entertainment or immodesty 8. Not to be indulgent in one's sleeping habits They are intended to be kept by Buddhist householders during times of intensified training, especially on meditation retreats or for EFTA01161125 self-purification on a periodic basis, such as one or twice a week. Eight precepts is sometimes called `uposatha-sEla' where the Eight Precepts are kept for three days before, during and after one of the quarter moon days. The only real difference is the length of time one expects to keep them. The content is the same but for uposatha-sEla, usually, one will only keep them on the full moon days with the possibility of EFTA01161126 one day before for preparation and one day after for debriefing. For Eight Precepts the length of time the precepts are kept has no special duration. B.4.2 Disciplinefor Monastics B.4.2.1 Ten Precepts The Ten Precepts are a set of rules of training which expand on the Eight Precepts with adjustment of the seventh precept and addition of the tenth. The Precepts themselves consist of ten rules of training: 1. Not to kill living beings EFTA01161127 2. Not to steal 3. Not to be uncelibate 4. Not to tell lies 5. Not to drink alcohol or consume intoxicants 6. Not to take meals between midday and dawn 7. Not to indulge in romantic entertainment 8. Not to indulge in immodesty 9. Not to be indulgent in one's sleeping habits 10. Not to handle gold or silver They are intended to be kept by Buddhist novices on a daily basis B.4.2.2 TwoHundred & EFTA01161128 Twenty-Seven Precepts As Buddhists train themselves as laypeopleand as monks, Buddhist spiritual discipline can be divided into two parts accordingly: discipline for the homeless [anagAriyavinaya] and discipline for the householder [agAriyavinaya]. The monks have special discipline in keeping with their aim to reach an end of defilements within the shortest possible time. For the monastic community, eradication of defilements EFTA01161129 in the mind is intensive, so the self-discipline of monastics is intensive accordingly. The 227 Precepts are a set of rules of training which expand on the Ten Precepts. They are intended to be kept by fully-ordained Buddhist monks on a daily basis. C. DISCIPLINE: PRACTICAL CONSIDERATIONS C.1 Components of Five Precepts In the keeping of Five Precepts, householders often feel guilty when they mistakenly do unwholesome EFTA01161130 things — they don't know whether it means they have broken their Precepts. Some people accidentally run over a stray dog while they are driving because they happen to be in a hurry and wonder whether it breaks the Precepts. Some women know that they have never taken the possession of others without asking (i.e. they have never stolen) but they wonder if taking money from their husband without asking is breaking the EFTA01161131 Precepts. The Components of Five Precepts explained below are an attempt to answer this genre of questions.Below you will find descriptions of the factors involved Blessing Nine: Artfulness in Usage 123 in breaking each of the Precepts. All factors must be present in order for the Precept to be broken.: C.1.1 First Precept: Not Killing In order to break the Precept of not killing, your action has to consist of five EFTA01161132 components: 1. The victim must really he alive: Suppose there is a certain dog we have hated for a long time. Every time we see it it has barked us, chased us and bitten us. We think that the dog is alive, but in fact it has already died. Someone else had just shot the dog dead that very morning. It is lying dead in the road, but we were not to know that. Seeing it lying in the road we think to ourselves, EFTA01161133 "This time we can get our own back on the dog," and we reverse the car over the dog. In this case we have not managed to break the Precepts because it had already died long ago of other causes. 2. We are aware that the victim is alive: Sometimes we misunderstand that an animal is already dead, so you think that a cremation is in order. You throw the body of the animal into the flames EFTA01161134 — but it is not really dead. However we were not to know that. This time the animal does really die! Again, such an action does not break the Precepts. 3. We have the intention to kill the victim: Supposing you run over an animal killing it accidentally, because there is no intention to kill (you could not avoid it), again the Precepts are not broken. 4. We put in the effort to kill the victim: You have to EFTA01161135 put in the effort to kill, if you are to break the Precepts. You have to really aim the gun and pull the trigger if you are to create the necessary conditions to break the Precepts. 5. The victim dies in the way intended: As the result of our efforts, the animal must really die if the Precepts are to be broken. If you shoot to kill, but the result is only to break an arm or leg, the Precepts are not yet broken. C.1.2 Second Precept: Not EFTA01161136 EFTA01161137 LIOST 31 °MOS ji .8 0lunoAcj B JO 3AISS0SSOd aq Imo o °Flood : 7! 扣 an？ssassod auoawos svy pa絢o smoUγ仞7？淫laddad .l .TU0tJ 0)J1 。1 跏 SI 1I TIE IMMO IB0I0 31.0 311O-O11 goItim Jo s 1oalqo 311 010琅onqm 1,801蝕3琅III alt noA ji :palqo mtp moqv an!ssassod si mitt datill4O UV Si a 0211 1 :s1uotiodwoo oAtj Jo 2sIsuoo O1 s ℃q uopor Jno C Tou Jo lcloooid am At axi ol nip Jo 》mina's you cannot find the rag you usually use, often you feel irritated or angry. In the past there was an agreement between market gardeners as follows whatever they plant, whether it may be bananas or sugar cane or aubergines or chillis, if anyone walks through the field and feels they want to eat some of the crop, they are allowed to help themselves to as much as they can eat, but it is prohibited to EFTA01161138 take any in your pockets or in a bag to eat in the home. It is said that there is only one eater of stolen food who steals food and takes it home to eat and that is a stray dog. 3. The perpetrator has the intention to steal: Even the intention to steal starts to cloud the mind. 4. The perpetrator makes the effort to steal the object: This means trying to find devious strategies and actually putting those strategies into practice. EFTA01161139 5. The perpetrator obtains the object in keeping with his intention. C.1.3 Third Precept: Not Committing Adultery In order to break the Precept of not committing adultery, your action has to consist of four components: 1. The object of the affection must be a man or woman who is prohibited: So what do we mean by a partner who is prohibited? There are four sorts of women who are prohibited to men • married women; EFTA01161140 • women who are still in the care of their parents; • women who lifestyle prohibits sexual intercourse, such as nuns or female prisoners. • women related to us such as our mother or our sister or our daughter and three types of men prohibited to women: • any man who is not your own husband; • men whose lifestyle prohibits sexual intercourse such as monks. 124 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living EFTA01161141 • men who are related to us 2. The perpetrator has the intention to have sexual intercourse with that person; 3. The perpetrator makes the effort to have sexual intercourse (e.g. removes his clothes) 4. There is a joining of the sexual organs. In fact there is no man or women born in the world who has no connections except for the one who is already married to you. No-one else is the legitimate subject for sexual intercourse — EFTA01161142 not in the bar nor the night club even prostitutes are prohibited (consider respect for human dignity and fair economics and you will understand why) — there are no such things as `wayside flowers' free to be picked by anyone. C.1.4 Fourth Precept: Not Telling Lies In order to break the Precept of not telling lies, your speech has to consist of four components: 1. Saying something that is not EFTA01161143 true 2. Having the intention to misrepresent the truth 3. Making the effort to misrepresent the truth. 4. The listener understands what you have said. The damage of lying comes from the chain reaction it causes: inorder to lie to someone once, you have to lie to yourself first three times. The first time you lie to yourself is in order to prepare yourself to tell a lie. You have to make up the story and EFTA01161144 convince yourself first. The second time you have to lie to yourself is when you meet the person who you are going to lie to. Thirdly, you have to remember what lies you have told to who, because next time you meet them you have to tell them things consistent with that first lie, or else your dishonesty will be discovered. If the lie is an important one, sometimes you will have to remember it for years. The result of being a EFTA01161145 liar is that eventually you will lose your self-confidence because you have lied to yourself until you have become used to it. At the end of your life, your memory becomes so blurred to the truth that you end up suffering from senile dementure as the result of the mental hypocrisy you have accumulated throughout the course of your life. C.1.5 Fifth Precept: Not Drinking Alcohol In order to break the Precept of not EFTA01161146 drinkingalcohol, your action has to consist of five components: 1. The liquid drunk must be alcohol 2. The person must know that it is alcohol. 3. The person must have the intention to drink it 4. The person must make the effort to drink it 5. The alcohol must be swallowed. For the purposes of the fifth Precept, not only alcohol and heedlessness-inducing intoxicants are prohibited, but also such drugs EFTA01161147 such as heroine, opium, maruana etc.. If you consider tobacco from the point of view of this Precept in an objective way, you will find that smoking tobacco must be avoided too. Those who become addicted to anything like tobacco will find themselves in difficulty when they come to practice meditation on a retreat where there is no opportunityto smoke. Some people say that they smoke without being addicted — and they EFTA01161148 have been smoking without addiction continuously for the last ten years! C.1.6 Seriousness of Breaking Precepts In addition, breaking a Precept may be more or less serious dependent on an additional three factors: I. the amount of effort invested in breaking the Precept: the more the effort invested in a deed, the more serious is the breaking of that Precept. To kill a large animal is more serious than to kill EFTA01161149 a small animal because it takes more effort. 2. the gratitude or ingratitude in breaking the Precept: the more an action expresses ingratitude, the greater will be the seriousness of breaking the Precept. Wringing the neck of the cock which crowed to wake you up every morning at dawn to go to school until you got yourself a university degree is worse than wringing the neck of another cock you have never EFTA01161150 known before. Thus one should be very careful not to disregard the debt of gratitude owed to others. If that person or animal is one that is useful — especially if it has been helpful to us personally in the past. 3. The strength of the intention behind breaking the Precept: if you kill an ant by pulling each leg out Blessing Nine: Artfulness in Usage 125 one by one and then killing it, it is worse than EFTA01161151 killing the ant outright in one fell swoop. To kill a mosquito by slapping it is not as bad as putting a candle flame to the wings of the mosquito and leaving it in pain to wriggle to death for the next three days. If a person kills with vengeance and cruelty, it is more serious than for killing out of vengeance in cold blood. If someone kills someone with a single shot, it is not so bad as someone who tortures someone to death. EFTA01161152 Thus even in the past, they would try to find quick ways of execution so that they could reduce the evil accrued by the executioner. (Best of all is not to have to kill the prisoner at all). C.2 Components of Eight Precepts C.2.1 Differences between Five and Eight Precepts The following differences are found between the components of Precepts shared between the Five EFTA01161153 and Eight Precepts: The Third Precept: Unchastity : The first difference between the Five Precepts and the Eight Precepts concerns the Third Precept. Immoral sexual relations [kAmesu micchAchAra] are replaced by abstention from any sexual relations (brahmacariyA — lit. Brahma-faring). For the Third Precept of the Eight Precepts there are only two components: 1. You have the intention of EFTA01161154 having sexual relations. 2. There is a joining of the sexual organs. In this case it makes no difference whether your partner is your husband or wife. It will cause your Precepts to be broken. If either or both husband and wife are training themselves in the Eight Precepts it is usual for them to sleep apart. This form of training is important because for most people in the world who lack control over EFTA01161155 their own minds, for most of the time, their thoughts and action are dictated by the defilements of sensual indulgence. The five precepts already teaches you to be contented with your spouse. The Eight Precepts goes further with this training by offering sixth, seventh and eighth Precepts to help play a supporting role in the reduction of attachment to sensual stimuli. The Fifth Precept: Not Drinking EFTA01161156 Alcohol : Another difference between Five Precepts and Eight Precepts concerns the fifth Precept. For Five Precepts the fifth Precept has five components, but for the Eight Precepts, there are only four components as follows: 1. The liquid drunk must be alcohol 2. The person must have the intention to drink it 3. The person must make the effort to drink it 4. The alcohol must be swallowed. EFTA01161157 You will see that for the Eight Precepts it is no longer necessary to know that the drink is alcohol in order to cause the fifth Precept to be broken. C.2.2 Sixth Precept: Refraining from Untimely Eating It is commonly asked by housewives who keep the Eight Precepts whether they are allowed to taste the food they are preparing for their husbands in the evening. Sometimes to taste and to eat food are EFTA01161158 not the same (except for the person who tastes half a plate of food and still doesn't know the flavour!) 1. It must be midday of one day to the dawn of the next: The dawn signals the changing of the day for Buddhists — technically the earliest time that if you go out into the open, and stretch out your arm, you can see the lines on your hand clearly without having to use a torch or the time at dawn when you can first distinguish the EFTA01161159 leaves of trees as being of different shades of green. 2. The substance eaten is solid food (chewable): This second component has some exceptions i.e. chewable food that is allowed. Exceptions include refined sugar, sugar cane juice, tamarinds, embolic myrobalan, nutgall or pickled ginger. For those who might have dietary problems if their stomach is completely empty, cheese or EFTA01161160 butter is allowed (but not cheese sandwiches!) 3. The effort is made to eat the food 4. Thefood is swallowed. If all four of these components are present then the 126 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living sixth Precept will be broken.The point of keeping the sixth precept is to remove another possible risk of sleepiness as a hindrance to one's meditation practice by avoiding a heavy evening meal. If we EFTA01161161 eat too much, it will give us more energy than we can use and this contributes to ease of sexual arousal. If you were to miss a meal once a week by forgoing an evening meal, you will find that the excess food will be burned up. C.2.3 Seventh Precept: Not indulging in entertainment or immodesty Indulging in entertainment means specifically: singing, dancing or playing musical instruments yourself, watching others doing the same EFTA01161162 (excepting the national anthem or music in honour of the monarch). Immodesty means wearing perfume, jewelry, flowers or makeup (except talcum powder for medicinal purposes). Some people ask if they can watch the television when keeping the eight precepts — the answer is that you have to be selective about what you watch. You can watch news but don't go watching a cabaret or certain sorts of advertising. EFTA01161163 You have to avoid contact with cosmetics that are meant for beautification instead of for health. You shouldn't wear perfume, make-up, flowers, hair dye. Wearing talcum powder should just be to prevent athlete's foot or abrasion — not for beautification. The components of this seventh precept are any of the following: 1. Playing musical instruments, dancing or singing romantic songs yourself 2. Watching entertainment EFTA01161164 consisting of singing, dancing or romantic music. or all of the following: 1. There are cosmetics or perfume 2. The reason is not because of poor health 3. You wear the cosmetics or perfume C.2.4 Eighth Precept: Not engaging in Indolent Sleeping Habits The following are the components of the eighth precept: 1. The sleeping place is large or high 2. You know that the sleeping EFTA01161165 place is large or high 3. Sitting or lying down on that place You will notice that not only lying on a soft mattress is forbidden but also sitting on such a mattress, because they contribute to making the mind wander.The softer the mattress on which you sleep, the less you feel like getting up in the morning. As you sleep without mindfulness, it will start to undermine the purity of your third precept. However, EFTA01161166 nowadays houses commonly have sofas which are soft. If you were to be strict, sitting on a sofa would be forbidden, but for the sake of manners, it is better to accept others hospitality than to take all the cushions off the sofa and throw them away. At the same time we should take good care of our presence of mind. We have to think of both our Precepts and the appropriateness in any situation. Sometimes hotels have nowhere EFTA01161167 but beds upon which to sleep. In other places it may be too cold to sleep on the floor without anything under you in the way of insulation. Thus consider appropriateness in each situation. C.3 Monastic Discipline C.3.1 The Objectives behind Monastic Discipline (Vin.iii.20, A.v.70) The Buddha created the monastic discipline for ten reasons: 1. To maintain peace in the monastic community; EFTA01161168 2. To restrain stubborn and shameless disciples; 3. To maintain the happiness of the monastic community; 4. To maintain the happiness of monks who love discipline; 5. To give protection from defilements that might increase in the present time (for example if monks are allowed to speak one-to-one with females, there may be many new problems resulting); 6. To give protection from defilements that might EFTA01161169 increase in the future (for example if monks are allowed to speak one-to-one with females, later it may lead the monk to spend all their time thinking of that female.); Blessing Nine: Artfulness in Usage 127 7. To instil faith in the public who are not yet faithful; 8. To increase the faith of the public who are already faithful; 9. To maintain the Teaching of the Buddha steadfast; 10. To maintain discipline itself; EFTA01161170 C.3.2 Components of Monastic Discipline Although it would be possible to give the components for each of the 227 monastic Precepts (same principles apply as for those of the Five and Eight Precepts) there is insufficient space to do so. However, to demonstrate that monastic discipline is more than just the code of conduct, the four components of monastic practice are described below: C.3.2.1 Restraint according to EFTA01161171 monastic code of conduct [pAEimokkhasaOvara]: The `pAEimokkha' is the set of rules of training which the Buddha gave to monks for the restraint of their bodily actions and speech. As soon a monk ordains, whether he knew the rules or not previously, it is immediately his duty to make sure he knows and abides by the 227 rules of conduct. The 227 Rules therein can be divided into three degrees of seriousness: EFTA01161172 I. Rules entailing defeat [pArAjika]: There are four rules in this category: killing people, stealing, sexual intercourse and claims of mental attainments. Any monk who infringes the rules of this category immediately in no longer a monk any more. Whether he is disrobed or not, he is no longer a monk any more. It is the heaviest infringement of monastic conduct possible. EFTA01161173 2. Rules entailing an initial and subsequent meeting of the order [saIghAdisesa]: This category of rules of training is less serious than the previous, but can still be considered evil and coarse. When a monk breaks one of these rules, they must confess their transgression to the rest of the monastic community. If a monk who has infringed such a rule still has not admitted his fault to the rest of the monastic EFTA01161174 community, then he is still not returned to purity. The reason for this is to show that you are aware of your fault and will not do it again. Only then can the monk be re-admitted to the monastic community. 3. Rules entailing confession: These include "Rules entailing confession" [pAcittiya], "Rules entailing forfeiture and confession " [nissaggiya-pAcittiya]; "Rules EFTA01161175 entailing acknowledgment" [pAEidesanEya]; "Minor Transgressions" [dukkaEa], and;"Wrong Speech" [dubbhAsita]. For these infringements of the monastic conduct there is no need for monks to confess in front of the monastic assembly. By confessing to another monk the offending monk can be returned to purity again. In fact, confession doesn't wash away the evil caused by infringement of EFTA01161176 the discipline, but it helps to give the monk the mindfulness not to infringe the same rule of conduct again. Confession is like the healing of an open wound — but the scar still remains. Best of all is never to break the rules of monastic conduct. C.3.2.2 Restraint of the senses [indriyasaOvara] This means specifically the restraint of the eyes, ears, nose, tongue, skin contact and mind. Monks should EFTA01161177 not look at inappropriate things: if a monk sees a couple petting at the side of the road, he shouldn't stay and watch them but should quickly go somewhere else. Monks should not listen to inappropriate things — there is no need to go listening to gossip that doesn't concern him. Monks should not smell things that are inappropriate or taste things that are inappropriate: mostly this concerns food and not just eating things for the EFTA01161178 taste. Monks should not touch or have skin contact with things that are inappropriate: not using rubbing creams just for the smoothness of the skin or to take pleasure in touching soft and comfortable things. Monks should not use their mind to think of inappropriate things. In other words monks should not find pleasure or displeasure from the use of the senses. C.3.2.3 Purity of livelihood [Ajtvaparisuddhi] EFTA01161179 Monks have to make their living, but not by cultivating fields or earning a wage. The proper way of making a living for a monk is to go on almsround. 128 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living All monks know this but some think that almsround is inconvenient because sometimes alms are donated, sometimes not. To set oneself up as a fortune teller or a seller of lottery tickets somehow seems more convenient! but it EFTA01161180 is not pure livelihood for monks. Lotteries are a form of gambling and gambling is one of the roads to ruin. Thus if monks encourage and make their living out of lotteries or lottery numbers, don't go supporting them — they are in breach of monastic discipline. Fortune telling by monks is no better than lottery tips. Fortune telling is a pseudo-science of statistics and is not grounded on truth. Thus fortune telling is a EFTA01161181 sort of guesswork which is not much better than lying. C.3.2.4 Reflection on the Requisites [paccayapaccavekkhaAa]: This is the practice by monks of recollection or reflection on the four different sorts of requisites before use. The requisites of clothing, food, shelter and medicine are the basic needs of life. Monks must reflect that the requisites are nothing more than needs to keep the body going, in EFTA01161182 the same way as fuel keeps a car mobile. Most people use the requisites of life without distinguishing between need and want — but for monks the proper practice is to use the requisites to train oneself in the consideration of moderation. D. ATTAINMENT OF SELF-DISCIPLINE D.1 Levels of Avoidance Properly practised, discipline will give rise to selfdiscipline. Where discipline is the avoidance of unwholesomeness EFTA01161183 by external means, self-discipline is the avoidance of unwholesomeness by internal means. To distinguish between the two, we identify three different ways in which unwholesomeness can be avoided [virati]: I. Avoidance on the spur of the moment [sampattavirati]: this is a form of discipline whereby one refrains from unwholesome action or speech spontaneously without having requested any Precepts in advance. If you see EFTA01161184 a fish washed up on the beach and you decide on the spur of the moment to throw it back into the water out of compassion, rather than killing — this is the sort of avoidance which we call `avoidance on the spur of the moment'. Perhaps you would turn in a lost wallet with all of the money instead of keeping it for yourself, for fear of being accused of stealing. Such avoidance of evil EFTA01161185 occurs as the result of fear and shame of evil or the consequences of evil [hiri-ottappa]; 2. Avoidance having requested the Precepts [samadAnavirati]: this is a form of discipline whereby one refrains from unwholesome action or speech for fear of breaking Precepts one has previously requested from a monk. Some people simply make a vow to keep the Precepts each day in front of the shrine. Even if EFTA01161186 someone were to give you a bottle of beer, because you have taken the five precepts that day, you will turn down the offer for fear of breaking your vow; 3. Avoidance through transcending [samuccedavirati]: this is a form of self-discipline whereby one no longer has any temptation to do evil, because the mind has reached a stage of purity and transcendental attainment whereby no unwholesome EFTA01161187 intention can arise in the mind any more to drive unwholesome speech or action. This is absolute avoidance of evil of the type achieved by those who have attained the stages of Buddhist sainthood. D.2 Refrainingfrom the Tenfold Path of Unwholesomeness The result of practising discipline until attainingselfdiscipline is to remove oneself from the influence of the Tenfold Path of EFTA01161188 Unwholesomeness [akusaladhammapatha], the first four of which can be recognized as the Four Defilements of Action [kammakilesa]: I. Killing: e.g. killing people, fishing, hunting and cruelty to animals 2. Stealing: e.g Thieving, mugging, shoplifting, corruption and deceit 3. Committing adultery: unfaithfulness to one's spouse, rape, pre-marital sex 4. Lying: eg. telling lies, exaggeration, forgery EFTA01161189 5. Malicious or divisive gossip: e.g. gossip in a Blessing Nine: Artfulness in Usage 129 way to turn one person against another, mudslinging 6. Harsh or insulting speech: e.g. name calling, swearing 7. Idle chatter: e.g. purposeless babble, raving, boasting 8. Covetousness: e.g. considering to get something one wants in a dishonest way, coveting others' possessions EFTA01161190 9. Vengeful Thought: e.g. wanting to get revenge or get your own back 10. False View: e.g. thinking good and evil to be nonexistent, thinking you have no debt of gratitude to your parents, thinking death to be the end of the story, not believing in the Law of Karma and to establish oneself in the Tenfold Path of Wholesomeness [kusaladhammapatha]: 1. absolutely not killing. 2. absolutely not stealing EFTA01161191 3. absolutely not committing adultery 4. absolutely not lying 5. absolutely not gossiping 6. absolutely not speaking harshly. 7. absolutely not idle chatter 8. absolutely not thinking to take the possession of others 9. absolutely remove yourself from vengefulness. 10. absolutely possession of Right View E. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES E.1 Metaphor: Vinaya to knowledge is as a EFTA01161192 scabbard to a sword Even if you have theoretical knowledge and experience, you need to have an extra virtue to protect you from using that knowledge in the wrong way — that virtue is self-discipline. Without self-discipline, you will apply your knowledge to do immoral things. The people of old had sayings that: "If a sharp sword lacks a scabbard, it can harm even the owner. If a hand-grenade lacks a firing EFTA01161193 pin it can kill even the owner. A person of knowledge and experience can come to an unfortunate end, if he lacks self-discipline" E.2 Metaphor: Value of clay is in the value of the mold The people of old remarked that a humble lump of clay in the middle of a field is a strange thing. Unshaped, in the middle of that field it is without worth. However, if you put it into moulds of various sorts, it acquires worth EFTA01161194 depending on the nature of the mould. If you put the clay in the mould for a plate or a cup, when it comes out of the mould, it has acquired some value — it is something you can use on the table. If you put it into the mould for a doll, then the resulting doll is of value and can be used to decorate the house. If you put the clay into the mould for a Buddha image, the clay is suddenly transformed EFTA01161195 into something superior to household use, but something to be the object of respect for all who see it. Thus you can see that the better the mould you subject the clay to, the more value it acquires. When we come to talk about people instead of clay, we find that in the same way, the thing that gives people their value is the self-discipline they abide by. The greater the degree of self-discipline, the EFTA01161196 ewmore they are worth. 130 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Blessing Ten: Artfulness in Speech 131 A.INTRODUCTION Some might think the words coming from our mouths are relatively unimportant when compared to the artfulness in "knowledge", "application" and "usage" discussed in the previous blessings of this grouping. However, when it comes EFTA01161197 to "making oneself useful to society"one cannot avoid communicative skills for team-building and for passing one's knowledge on to others. A.1 Buddhism founded on the tenet of correct speech Furthermore, it is only due to the care taken in "communicative skills" that the Buddha's Teaching can have been passed down across the space of 2,500 years to the present day and still inspire people. EFTA01161198 Words can be true but they may not be pleasant to listen to. If words are both true and polite, the ancients said that they were both worth listening to and also worth hearing. If words, apart from being both true and polite were also useful, the ancients said that such words apart from being worth believing and worth hearing are also worthy of respect — it is hard to find any religion which analyses speech to such depth. EFTA01161199 A.2 Verbal karma easier to produce than Physical karma If you compare the possibilities for doing and saying good things, you find that the possibilities for good speech are almost unlimited, more than what we can do with the body. You can really do many more good deeds with your speech than your actions or if you make the mistake of doing evil, you can do much more evil with your speech than with EFTA01161200 your body. This is the reason why the Buddha had to give the art of speaking its own separate blessing, because of all there is to be studied. A.3 Why one mouth is ample Without understanding the principles of artful speech, we are wont to say too much. The people of old would teach small children the way to look at yourself in the mirror. They would say, don't go looking at how beautiful or handsome you are — EFTA01161201 because before long old age will rob you of all these things. Take a good look at your own face. You will notice that even though your eyes have only one function, to look, nature has given you two. You will notice that even though your ears have only one function, to hear, nature has also given you two. You will notice that even though your nostrils have only one function, to breathe, nature has given you two. However, your mouth has two EFTA01161202 functions, to eat and to talk, but nature has given you only one mouth. It is as if nature is telling us to use our mouth in moderation — not to eat too much and not to say too much! B. UNWHOLESOME SPEECH From our study of self-discipline in Blessing Nine, we already know to avoid the different sorts of unwholesome speech described in the Tenfold Path of Unwholesomeness [akusaladhammapatha] — EFTA01161203 Blessing Ten: Artfulness in Speech 132 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living these go beyond lying to enumerate no less than four different sorts of unwholesome speech which should be avoided: 1. Telling lies 2. Divisive Speech 3. Harsh Speech 4. Idle Chatter B.1 Telling Lies EFTA01161204 EFTA01161205 :dawouv auo lsuplgv las OUOMIOS ala111 1 :disso8 snotoqvul 1s1uouodwoo moj °Jou ' )oug 1 um8℃ uosJad auo los o1 icianisimp 8upp ads si dIsso8 snoTow LU JO LI0oods 0msTma tpaadsa4 锣 zsg- 'wog pay odoi aci 1IInn Hupp Jog Jnj ou `ouIN 8tussoig m tp.!盘1伟op uoaq Ap aJre salloofqns sup sy •osia ouoatuos jo aRelu Ave alt1 JopJO tu artuun on w 琅spiom 8umirn JO 8 UIti US Sill atu soil 8 WH0I EFTA01161206 lsur8℃ sJagat a)ino c Jo auo dn )as O1 JO dn Ai awl o1 afmnetu 'swan d umo ino/C asni 0 c1 se ki e lions In 歼 ads noic ji :tuyo.z4 aip puv.low,gaddad atp todevyaq apn7?7alpfo 7arjau 7- :SJO1MARIDAOS UO spuadap A-tams-EAT 8UT II 9ds u! p0AIOAUI HA° JO WWI= OT41 :powlapun .fiasdno f artu o) Abu瑰Ino又’夕 ：仰a^？锣＾孕 )ivads 叨1谑offa d111 d)/DUI noA ' watp' o alp isum2v ams dUO 1aS 0) uo羿饪刃饪？aip del_112/ no又’乙 another or to set one monk against another, the evil will be very heavy.The degree to which the victims are divided: If the victims are completely unable ever to get back together again, the evil will be very heavy. 2. The Strength of the Intention behind wanting to cause a division: The stronger the divisive intention, the heavier will be the evil. 3. The amount of effort put in to making a division. The EFTA01161207 more the effort the heavier the evil B.3 Idle Chatter Idle chatter is speaking purposelessly just to pass the time. There are two components to idle chatter: 1. To have the intention to talk about something meaningless: Meaningless words are the sort of words that don't lead a conversation anywhere. 2. Speaking those meaningless words The seriousness of retribution of idle chatter depends on the importance of the EFTA01161208 meaningfulness that you impede be speaking. Even those who always speak in a joking way that lacks seriousness don't have to wait for next life to see the results of their misdeeds — no-one will take them seriously. The amount of evil involved in idle chatter depends on several factors: 1. Amount of chatter: The heaviness of the retribution depends on whether you chatter a lot or a little. EFTA01161209 2. How much the speaker is believed: The more others are taken in by what we say, the worse will be the retribution. 3. The strength of the intention: The stronger the intention the worse the retribution. B.4 Harsh Speech Harsh speech includes swearing or insultingothers to the degree that it upsets them. Harsh speech even includes sarcasm and sarcastic comparisons.There are three components to harsh EFTA01161210 EFTA01161211 OS[t ST JTA0 0qficA0q 愈oAoq IIIMIIAO 3q1 'sr~qoi31io s1uand UMO in証 )jnSuT 碉 sp1<pA t qons UT 殲℃ods noAjj:WZPZA a簍 put .iojaija云a<Ia簍 犁da4'vaq apn7?7v 着）戶7qajal/LI .I :sio1o粵IgJDA。s uo spuodop Ajqsiq8uip9ds uIp0AJOAUIIIA0J。2UflOUU 0qI 犁osacJw簍8紐？玎ns紐？ 01 U140 鐸a.& .iayvacIs aqj 犁。sad w 71nsu？仞犁。？7飪a7飪？ a182ma簍Si？幼.13γ力ac∼aqj 1/ns犁？仞a犁oawos 鑼aaq1 .1 :qooods heavy if the victim is of high mental attainment. 2. Whether the insult is to their face or behind their back. An insult to someone's face is worse in its retribution than an insult behind their back. 3. The strength of bad intention behind the insult. The stronger the bad intention, the worse will be the retribution. 4. The amount of effort behind the insult Blessing Ten: Artfulness in Speech 133 EFTA01161212 B.5 Retribution of insulting those of virtue There are eleven forms of disasters befalling monks who (unfoundedly) verbally abuse others who have already attained the stages of sainthood: 1. failing to attain the due mental attainments; 2. falling away from the previous mental attainments; 3. their Sadhamma will become clouded; 4. will delude themselves into thinking they have already attained Sadhamma; EFTA01161213 5. will become discontented with pursuing the Brahma-faring; 6. will commit monastic transgressions; 7. will give up the training and fall back into the low (household) life: 8. will be struck down by grave illness; 9. will be struck down by madness or mental distraction; 10. will commit mortal blunders, and; 11. has the hell realms as an afterlife destination. AN.XI.6 EFTA01161214 Thus if at all possible, whether concerning a monk or not, never be someone to find fault in others. Always try to look for the good in others. You may notice the weaknesses of others. Observe them, remember them but don't use them as the subject of conversation. If you are always immersed in the good deeds of others then even if you try to think of evil things you will be unable to. You won't be tempted to find fault with that EFTA01161215 person or that person to the degree that you end up finding fault with people who have no fault. B.6 Disadvantage of saying too much Most people in the world believe that they are men of principle. However, when it comes to speaking, many find that they just say what they feel like. If people do have a governing principle about the things they say, then usually they just try to say the things that are pleasing for the EFTA01161216 other person to hear. The trouble with such a principle is that people will always say what is easiest to say instead of saying the things that need to be said. Such a principle, when you come to speech at the level of politicians or those in power will impede the progress of the country because politicians are always saying what is easiest to say instead of speaking out about the things in society which ought to be changed. EFTA01161217 If one has no clear principles then the more you speak, the more damage you do. The people of old had the saying that, "The more you say the more trouble you create." The reason is that when we have already said all that is beneficial and necessary to say and we keep on speaking then the next things to come out of our mouth are worthless or harmful speech such as gossip, slander, abuse, chatter and lies. Thus the people of old EFTA01161218 said, "keep what you have to say to mimimum and you will mimimize your problems. However if you refuse to speak at all then no-one understands you!" Thus we all have to say something, but for our own benefit we should clearly understand the nature of speech and the principles of artful speech that is beneficial so say so that we can be confident in selecting the things we say or keep to ourselves. EFTA01161219 C. ARTFUL SPEECH C.1 Definition By artful speech we mean speech that has been carefully filtered and distilled by the mind as good, before it is allowed to pass our lips. It is not only speech that is better than nothing. It is speech that has been carefully selected by many criteria. It must be good from every viewpoint — so good that it cannot have any fault found in it. The reason why we must be careful with our speech EFTA01161220 is that however good our intentions if we say something in the wrong way we can still upset the people around us because they cannot see what we are thinking. All they can pick up is the words by which we express those intentions. C.2 Components of speech From the meaning communicated by the things people say we can identify three major components: 1. The Intention behind the Words: You can see EFTA01161221 whether the intention behind the things someone is saying is based on greed (e.g. they would like to get something from someone), hatred (e.g. in order to try to harm someone) or delusion (e.g. out of the envy of someone). These are all dam/34 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living aging forms of speech. If speech is used in a good way then the intention must be good. Good speech may be said out of EFTA01161222 compassion. 2. The Sort of Words Chosen: The more true they are the less false they are. The more polite speech is the less rude it is and vice versa. If the usefulness of words is reduced then they become more superfluous. Thus you can classify the speech of anyone in the world in terms of these three variables no matter what language it is spoken in: 1. True or Untrue 2. Polite or Rude EFTA01161223 3. Useful or SuperfluousWords are either true or false. 3. The Occasion Chosen to say them: Sometimes this means whether what is said is appropriate to the time available and the place where it is said. C.3 Qualities of artful speech Applying the general components of speech toartful speech, we find that there are five components. If speech is truly good it must be good to five levels. EFTA01161224 It is not like a one-star hotel which is better than a hotel with no stars. If we are truly principled in the things we say, then every word we say must be `five star'. If it is any less, we will not let it pass our lips.: I. Speech must always be based on the intention of compassion: If the intention behind our speech is not compassion for the hearer then those words are better not said. Think for example of the sort of things you say when you are EFTA01161225 angry with someone and you will see that if you are angry its better to keep your mouth closed. 2. Speech must be true: (sort of words spoken) Supposing we would like someone to do a good deed (i.e. we have compassion for them) but to get them to do so we tell a white lie then it is no longer artful speech. Some people would like to cheer up a child so they say "Oh! Here comes the most precious boy in the EFTA01161226 world!" This could not yet be counted as artful speech — it is no more than words to fool children. The same thing even goes for telling "white lies" to fool people into doing beneficial things or the meaningless words exchanged between people in love. 3. Speech must be polite (sort of words spoken): If it is not polite it can never be artful speech. It is speech which ought to stay in the market place. EFTA01161227 4. Speech must be useful (sort of words spoken): It should not something be said just to float on the breeze. Does it create benefit by making the mind of the speaker and the listener brighter? Does it create benefit both in this lifetime and the next? This doesn't mean that we tell lies for our own benefit but by doing so we take advantage of others. Both speaker and listener must benefit as the result of the words spoken. Why EFTA01161228 bother telling someone that Mr. So-and-so is involved in corruption when everyone throughout the town already knows it to be a fact. 5. Speech must be at the appropriate time and occasion (the occasion chosen to say them): Even if you say the right thing but it is at the wrong time then you cannot consider it to be artful speech. You might want to give your husband or wife or friend a useful piece of EFTA01161229 criticism but if you do it in front of their boss it turns advice into a disgrace for that person. If you want to give your boss a warning you have to choose the appropriate time or else it might be seen as insult. C.4 Special Considerations when giving criticism The subject of appropriate occasion is something that is very hard to judge. In societies where there must be quality control and there does need to be EFTA01161230 evaluation and criticism of sloppy practices, then often one cannot wait for the right opportunity to come along by accident. In such a case you have to do your best to create the opportunity. Apart from keeping to all the five principles already mentioned, there are two extra considerations which you should bear in mind which can help to create favourable circumstances for giving criticism: 1. Praise them before you criticise them: A piece of EFTA01161231 criticism may take three pieces of praise to balance up the good feeling lost. The praise should always come first. Don't forget that others have feelings too and even if someone has made a lot of faults you shouldn't criticise them for any Blessing Ten: Artfulness in Speech 135 more than two faults per day or else you may have a resignation on your hands. 2. Smile when you give the criticism: Don't criticise EFTA01161232 out of anger. If you ever say something to someone and you are surprised that it makes them angry, try checking the words that you said using the `five-star' measure of artful speech mentioned above. If you do not filter your use of words carefully, then your wordsmay cause harm to others. On other occasions, like a cup and a saucer must be of a matching quality, sometimes situations require words of EFTA01161233 a matching quality too. Sometimes it is good to speak in a way that is polite, but sometimes a situation doesn't require it because in some exceptional circumstances, five star language is not appreciated. C.5 Those who don't appreciate artful speech It is not as if you should speak in the most polite possible way to every person you meet. Some people cannot stand to hear polite language and may even criticize you because of it. EFTA01161234 They hear someone speaking clearly and accuse that person of being `affected'. In such cases you might need to lower the grade of politeness of the language you use to make your language more direct, to shock the person into awareness. However, the rest of the four components of good speech must remain intact. The following sort of people might need to hear direct speech: I. Those who have a superiority EFTA01161235 complex or like to pretend that everyone is equal: Those who think they are God's gift to the world. Such people will not profit from flowery speech. Sometimes they need to be shocked by the words they hear in order to change themselves for the better. 2. Those whose mind is blinded to the virtues of the speaker by their lack offaith for that person: This is especially true if someone's mind is EFTA01161236 still attached to practices that are diametrically opposed to the ones you are advocating. Thus you can speak flowery words until you are red in the face and they will still not be inspired by your words. Even so you must not give up trying to help such people! 3. Those who are in the midst of depression: For such people, flowery words are of no more use than flute music to a buffalo. C.6 Praiseworthy Talk EFTA01161237 In Buddhism, the most useful sort of talk istalk of virtue by one who exemplifies the virtue they are talking about. The Buddha taught that ten types of conversation which are praiseworthy are: 1. one who wants little and talks on wanting little [appiccha]; 2. one who is contented and talks on contentment [santuEEhi]; 3. one who is loves seclusion and talks on seclusion [paviveka]; EFTA01161238 4. one who loves solitude and talks on solitude [asaOsagga]; 5. one who strives energetically and talks on energetic striving [viriya]; 6. one who is self-disciplined and talks on selfdiscipline [sEla]; 7. one who has attained concentration and talks on concentration [samAdhi]; 8. one who has attained wisdom and talks on wisdom [pafifiA]; 9. one who is has attained liberation and talks on EFTA01161239 liberation [vimutti], and; 10.one who is has attained seeing and knowing of liberation and talks on seeing and knowing of liberation [vimuttinAAadassana]. C. 7 Characteristics of a peace envoy One of the most useful applications of artful speech is to make the world a more peaceful place. Whenever there is conflict in society the reasons for people to do evil things are multiplied manyfold. If we ever have the opportunity to EFTA01161240 encourage people to live together in peace and harmony it is something very meritorious for us to do. Anyone who is fitting to be an envoy of this sort should have eight characteristics which we should learn and train ourselves in so that we may be ready if ever we have the opportunity to take on this duty. In the future, no matter how many lifetimes we are born for we will always have friends and relatives who EFTA01161241 are peaceful and harmonious: 136 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living I. You must be able to listen to others opinions and not refuse their point of view: Some people like to hear only the sound of their own voice. They don't let others get a word in edgeways. Of course they can never find anyone to listen to them. Before becoming a good speaker you must train yourself to listen to other people first. EFTA01161242 Whether what another person is saying is right or wrong, at least give them the chance to say what they have to say and in that way you will be able to pick up the jist of what they have to say. 2. When you do speak, you must be able to capture your listener's attention and hold it: That doesn't mean just spending all your time listening to what others have to say but when it comes to EFTA01161243 your turn to speak then you should see to it that what you are saying is listened to. Don"t go speaking in a way that is irritating so that no one can listen to you for long. 3. Know how to set the boundaries for what you have to say to the minimum: If you are not able to limit the scope of what you have to say then it is like driving a cart along to chase a rabbit. This is what it is always like if the objective of what EFTA01161244 you have to say is not clear. There will be no end to what you have to say. Political negotiations will go on for seven days and seven nights and still reach no conclusion. 4. You must be able to remember what you have to say: Never use a forgetful person as your emissary. 5. Understand the detail of everything you have to say: It is not enough simply to be able to memorize the details. 6. Having the ability to make EFTA01161245 others understand what you have to say: This really takes a lot of ability. You must be artful in the use of metaphor and artful speech. 7. You must be skilled in selecting to say only useful things and cutting out the rest. 8. By habit you must be someone who is not fond of starting arguments: Never send anyone with a short temper as your ambassador unless you are planning to start a war. Finally, in the words of the EFTA01161246 Buddha "An ambassador is one who even in the company of the harsh-spoken, can remain unscathed and unruffled, makes no mistake in his use of words, doesn't conceal information, has the ability to alleviate the doubts of others and who is not angered by questioning." (Vin. Culavagga 7/201) C.8 Buddhist Principles of Public Speaking There are many different recipes EFTA01161247 for success for public speaking in the world — including those of the Toastmasters or Carnegie, but in general, they do not have principles which deviate far from the principals already outlined above — except for aspects of the delivery. Buddhist principlesof public speaking emphasize the following components: I. Sound body: This includes all aspects of non-verbal communication 2. Sound speech: This means EFTA01161248 speech that is pleasant to the ears, eyes and mind of the listener: 1. Being pleasant to the ear means possessing "Five Star" speech and includes the use of words, use of intonation and the rhythm of what is said. 2. Being pleasant to the eye means the speaker having a pleasant personality and use of expression. 3. Being pleasant to the mind includes appropriate choice of subject, being prepared, EFTA01161249 having one's thoughts organized and structuring the speech into three parts: an introduction, main body and conclusion. 3. Sound mind: Exemplifying the virtues which you talk about. Buddhist public speaking is not just talking to be understood or believed, but for the enjoyment and the inspiration of the listener to do good deeds. D. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES EFTA01161250 D.1 Metaphor: A fish lives & dies because of its mouth A fish can have long life dependant on its mouth which it uses to feed. However, because the selfsame mouth and its greed for bait, it swallows the hook which brings its life to an end. In the same Blessing Ten: Artfulness in Speech 137 way, if we use our mouth for artful speech, it can bring us success and prosperity in life, but sometimes even a word of unwholesome EFTA01161251 speech from the same mouth can cost us our lives. D.2 Metaphor: It is not just knowing the right thing to say A smart person is not a person who knows when to say the right thing they must also know when to keep their silence. A knowledge of the things not to be said is more important for an artful speaker, even more than a knowledge of the things to be said. D.3 Ex.: Condemned manwho said too much EFTA01161252 The less you say, the less risk you run of saying something foolish, even dangerous. In 1825 a new czar, Nicholas I, ascended the throne of Russia. A rebellion immediately broke out, led by liberals demanding that the country modernize — that its industries and civil structures catch up with the rest of Europe. Brutally crushing the rebellion (the Decembrist Uprising), Nicholas I sentenced one of its leaders, Kondraty Ryleyev, to EFTA01161253 death. On the day of the execution. Ryleyev stood on the gallows, the noose round his neck. The trap-door opened — but as Ryleyev dangled, the rope broke, dashing him to the ground. At the time, events like this were considered signs of providence or heavenly will, and a man saved from execution this way was usually pardoned. As Ryleyev got to his feet, bruised and dirtied but believing his neck had been saved, he EFTA01161254 called out to the crowd, "You see, in Russia they don't know how to do anything properly, not even how to make a rope!" A messenger immediately went to the Winter Palace with news of the failed hanging. Vexed by this disappointing turnabout, Nicholas I nevertheless began to sign the pardon. But then: "Did Ryleyev say anything after this miracle?"the czar asked the messenger. "Sire," the messenger replied,"he said that in EFTA01161255 Russia they don't even know how to make a rope!" "In that case,"said the Czar, "let us prove the contrary," and he tore up the pardon. The next day Ryleyev was hanged again. This time the rope did not break. Morale: Once the words are out, you cannot take them back. Keep them under control. Be particularly careful with sarcasm: The momentary satisfaction you gain with biting words will be outweighed by the price EFTA01161256 you pay. D.4 Ex. NandivisAla JAtaka (J.28) A tale which has become most famous as one of ;Bops' Tales, in fact originates from the JAtaka Tale of NantivisAla, the ox which pulled 100 carts for a wager. This young ox was miraculously strong ever since it was born and so the owner had the ox pull 100 carts. When he found that the ox could pull the carts, the owner made the ox's ability subject to a EFTA01161257 wager to a millionnaire who didn't believe it. However, when it came to the time to prove the bet, the master said, `Go ahead and pull the carts, ox!'. Because the ox didn't like the direct language it refused to move. Even oxen have feelings. Thus the owner lost the bet. Later the owner made a second bet, spoke politely to the ox and won the wager making a profit. D.5 Ex. MaOsa JAtaka (J.315) There were once four sons of a EFTA01161258 millionnaire who wanted to compare their skills of persuasion and competed with each other in asking for meat from the cart of a butcher. When the four brothers saw the butcher's cart they thought to themself that they would like to eat some meat and they decided to see who could persuade the butcher to give them some meat. The first son shouted out to the butcher,"Hey butcher! Bring me some meat!" EFTA01161259 The butcher was a kindly man and he said "Of course but because your words are not sweet to my ears" he threw the boy some trotters. Everybody asked him why he gave the boy trotters and he replied that trotters are tough and have no taste just like the words of the one who had requested them. The second son said, "My brother! Please give me some of your meat to eat." Because the second son had had the respect to call him his EFTA01161260 brother then he cut off some choice meat to give to him. The third son said, "Oh my father! Please give me some of your meat to eat." Because the third son had had the respect to call him his father he cut the heart out of an ox to give to him. The fourth son said, "My friend! Please give me 138 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living some of your meat to eat." The butcher heard his EFTA01161261 words and felt pleased. He said that when our ages are so similar like this, it is closest to the truth to say that we are friends. To call me `father' is too much. To call me `friend' is the most appropriate. So with those words he gave the whole of his cart to the fourth son. The fourth son was true to his word and took the butcher to his house. He said if you have this much generosity to me then I will be generous to EFTA01161262 you too — come and live here if you like I have a reasonable amount of wealth to my name therefore if any of your friends are in distress just tell me and I will help. Well, it turned out that the butcher had a few unpaid debts so he was able to pay all those off. The fourth son was a friend to the butcher for the rest of his life. This is the benefit accrued to the fourth son who didn't speak harshly, or EFTA01161263 patronizingly but appropriately to the truth of the situation. Blessing Ten: Artfulness in Speech 139 The Fourth Group of Blessings "Harmony in the Family Life" The fourth group of blessings contains Blessings Eleven to Fourteen. Nearly all of these concern how we take care of our close family and therefore the grouping is EFTA01161264 sometimes referred to as "Harmony in the Family Life". Nested between Group III concerning "Setting Oneself up in life" and Group V concerning "Becoming a pillar of society", it is obvious that harmony at home is something we have to get right if we are truly to be of use to society at large. It is many an important businessman who has not EFTA01161265 managed to go as far as he ought in his career because of being upset or unfulfilled in his family life. This does not mean that it is necessary to have a husband or wife and children to make a success in one's life — but if one does have one's own family, than one has to fulfil one's duty to them properly. In any case one must fulfil one's duty to EFTA01161266 one's parents. 140 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Blessing Eleven: Cherishing our Parents 141 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 Introduction to Blessing Eleven As we shall see for this blessing on cherishing our parents, much more than for cherishing husband, wife or children, the factor of "gratitude" is very important. According to Buddhist EFTA01161267 definition, "gratitude" is an active virtue and to be fulfilled, should be practised in all of the following stages: 1. Appreciating our Debt of Gratitude to Our Parents [kataliriE] 2. Repayment of our Debt of Gratitude to Our Parents [katavedE] by: 1. repaying our debt of gratitude to our parents: physically and spiritually both before they pass away and after death too 2. Announcing the Goodness of EFTA01161268 Our Parents Only when we have done all of these components of gratitude can we be said to have fulfilled this eleventh Blessing — and the remainder of the discussion in this blessing describes the practicality of putting all three components in practice. In some Buddhist literature, practising such duties is known as `filial piety'. B. WHY SHOULD WE WANT TO CHERISH OUR PARENTS? EFTA01161269 B.1 Rationale When we start out in our career of self-development, it is not obvious what goodness is. In the initial blessings, we have had to orientate ourselves to virtue without really knowing what virtue is — let alone being able to identify virtue in ourselves. In the beginning, even to be able to associate with good people is a blessing, because some of their virtues might brush off on us too. In the beginning we EFTA01161270 might not be aware of the virtues in ourselves — it being much easier to perceive the virtues of others. The Buddha intended us to take a hard look at our own parents who have done so much for us — because everyone has parents and everyone has received benefit at their hands. Thus, for our parents more than for others, virtue will be easy for us to identify. If we are able to recognize, repay and announce the goodness of our parents, our EFTA01161271 familiarity with such virtue will become all the stronger. Later when we are able to see the good in our parents, we will be able to see the good in others. When we are able to see the good in others we will be able to see the good in ourselves and develop it further — according to the techniques found in the higher blessings. Unless we are sensative to a greater or lesser extent to the goodness other people express to us, we have EFTA01161272 little chance of increasing the sensitivity to the goodness that lies within ourselves. There is no-one in the world who has done as much for one as one's parents, so if one is unable to respond to the good they have done one, then it is unlikely that one will be able to perceive good in anything else at all. If our debt of gratitude to our parents is as large as this and we are unable to see it, that shows that we must be severely blinded to the EFTA01161273 good of others. Blessing Eleven: Cherishing our parents 142 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living B.2 Taking care of our parents is the most fundamental of virtues Repaying the debt of gratitude to our parents is such a fundemental virtue, that the people of old used it as a benchmark for judging strangers. Sometimes EFTA01161274 one has to know someone for a long, long time before one can really say we know such a person in depth. However, if you meet someone for the first time and you find out that they neglect their parents, you can be sure that they are unlikely to have any interest in helping anyone less closely related. B.3 We will be caredfor by our children If you recognize and repay the debt of gratitude you have to your parents, apart EFTA01161275 from gaining personal virtue, you will also set a good example for your own children — and they in turn will want to take care of you when you become feeble in your old age. B.4 Richness of heart helps meditation progress Many people meditate for many years without being able to make any progress sometimes their mind has a continuous feeling of "dryness". However, if upon learning about the debt of EFTA01161276 gratitude they have to their parents, they take steps to repay it, it often creates a "richness" of mind which allows them to progress again in their meditation. C. APPRECIATING OUR DEBT OF GRATITUDE C.1 Why must we have gratitude in our lives? We didn't get where we are today entirely by our own efforts. We are the result of considerable investment of food, care, protection, training and EFTA01161277 teaching by others. All these resources have come to us through the pure intentions of others in society— intentions without which our civilization would soon collapse. It is not that people have helped us because they want something from us in return, but if we, who have been on the receiving end of such altruism, are able to appreciate, return or praise the favours they have done us, it will help to create an atmosphere of "give EFTA01161278 and take" in society instead of deterioration into "every man to himself'.The appreciation of good deeds is very important to Buddhist culture and cherishing our parents is our first and most fundamental opportunity to express gratitude. C.2 Theories of nongratitude to parents Where sons and daughters neglect their parents, often it is not intentional, but because of having received influence from some of the EFTA01161279 theories rife in our society, none of which are entirely true: I. Selfish Genes: Some people think that the only reason that parents are kind to their children is that they want to see their character and genes passed down to the next generation. This theory has even led to a genetic theory called `The Selfish Gene' (Dawkins) by which it is proposed that man is nothing more than a mechanism by which genes replicate themselves! In such a case, parents EFTA01161280 don't show kindness to their children out of compassion but out of the selfish desire to propagate their own genes. If such a theory were really true, if you were walking down the street with four brothers who were all identical twins with at least half of the same genes as you have then you would rather that yourself were eaten by a monster in order to protect the greater part of your genes depending on the safety EFTA01161281 of your three brothers. Such theories have their limitations because they cannot explain why such traits as homosexuality which hamper the replication of genes might grow and spread in the population. The practical outcome of this theory is that instead of thinking to repay their parents for all the good things they have received, they think that they are bringing their parents fulfilment by bringing up grandchildren for their parents! EFTA01161282 This is logic equivalent to borrowing money from a bank to open a new business and paying back the loan to your customers! Instead of thinking how best to look after their poor parents, most children spend their time thinking how best to get themselves a boyfriend or girlfriend to look after for the rest of their lives instead. 2. Hereditary Sin: Some philosophies of life such as those advocated by the Unification EFTA01161283 Church (Moonism) go further to suggest that all the bad things in our life are passed down to us by our parents and therefore only be abandoning your parents and marrying into their religion can you escape from sin. Such thinking has led to many broken families and accusations of kidnapping and brainwashing. Blessing Eleven: Cherishing our Parents 143 3. Patricide Cults: Some EFTA01161284 philosophies of life such as those found in some African tribes are even more destructive for the family. Only a boy who is brave enough to kill his own father is eligable to become the chief of the tribe because it is taken that only such a person is cruel and brave enough to lead a tribe. Although our thoughts about our parents might not be so serious as some of the theories described above sometimes we find it hard to EFTA01161285 really comprehend how much our parents have done for us. Superficially we think that the good our parents have done for us is easy to describe but in fact we don't usually don't look very deep. Many people are confused as to how the debt of gratitude to our parents could possibly be as large. Just thinking of how they have brought us up and how they have fed and schooled us surely could EFTA01161286 not add up to such a large debt. However we should try our best to look for that goodness, because if you can't see the good in other people who have done so much for you, don't expect to be able to see any of the good or positive things that arise in yourself as a result of your meditation. C.3 How a Child is indebted to his parents Of all the people in the world there is no-one closer to us than our own mother EFTA01161287 and father. Why should we choose our parents as subject to our own good deeds before thinking of others? Our parents are those to whom wehave one of the largest debts of gratitude. We can choose whether or not we have a spouse or children, but all of us have parents of whom we must take care. All through our childhood we have been in debt to them and even when adult that debt is no less EFTA01161288 than it was when we were young. But how many children go to school thinking to study their hardest, do their best to pick up skills so that they can get a job to pay their parents back for their kindness as soon as they complete their education? As soon as they get their first job how many think of using thier first wage to buy a present as a token of gratitude for thier parents and how many buy lipstick instead? EFTA01161289 C.3.1 Before conception If we look at the root meaning of the word `parent' it means `one who brings forth their offspring'. Thus our parents are responsible for having given us the gift of life. Some parents are a mother or a father to their children. Even if they wait until their child is born and then abandon it — i.e they give rise to children but don't bring them up — they have still given the child the most valuable thing it has — its EFTA01161290 own life. Parents serve as physical mold. A mold increases a material's value (see Blessing Nine §E.2). In a similar sense, the birth of all animals in the world depends on the parents as their physical mold. We are overwhelmingly indebted to our parents for their genes that give us our healthy physical shape. If our parents were those who didn't take good care of their own health then we might have EFTA01161291 been born handicapped physically. But as many of us are in good health, today, with strong physical bodies, if we were to have no gratitude to our parents for the things they have given us, it would show that we are blind to the good things that people do for us. Even if our parents had abandoned us at birth and did nothing else to bring us up, we should already be overwhelmed with the gift of life that they have given us. EFTA01161292 Thus don't go thinking that to be born human is an automatic entitlement. Even in your own house, the number of people living in the house is still small compared to the number of worms, mosquitos, ants, geckos, birds etc. There are maybe a hundred or a thousand more non-human living beings even in our own house than there are humans for whom the house was actually built. This tells us that to be born human is a difficult EFTA01161293 thing but to be born as an animal is easy. And if you were to be born as an animal — what use do you think you would be to the world? C.3.2 From conception to birth For the period we spent in the womb, we must mostly thank our mother but also our father who may have taken extra care of mother during pregnancy. Throughout the forty weeks of pregnancy, the mother needed to take regular medical check/44 EFTA01161294 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living ups. Even though she may not have liked to eat certain sorts of nutricious diet suitable for her baby's health, she had to eat those things, nonetheless. Even though she might have wanted to eat certain sorts of food but knowing that these things may have been damaging to her baby, she had to go without them (e.g. avoiding the temptation of spicy (etc.) foods, drink and EFTA01161295 cigarettes) during the pregnancy, wearing loose clothes and having to leave strenuous work to others. Not only physically must the mother protect the child in her womb, but even the serenity of state of mind of the child in the womb must be protected by avoiding quarrels, conflict and anxiety. C.3.3 From Birth to adulthood A second word used for parents is `father' or `mother' which means `the one who brings up their EFTA01161296 offspring'. Thus there are three types of parents — the ones we have already mentioned who bring forth children but don't bring them up, those who are step-parents who bring up the children of others and lastly, those who both give rise to children and bring them up too. Most of us find it is easier to comprehend their debt of gratitude to their parents for the care they have received from the time they are born to the time they are EFTA01161297 old enough to take care of themselves. What do you think is the time of your life when you are the most vulnerable and you can do nothing to help yourself? It is not when you have no money as a student. It is not during a war or when you are ill. None of these can compare to the risk which you underwent on the day you were born. Normally in the face of danger we would use the powers we have (physical EFTA01161298 strength, connections, wealth or wisdom) to overcome the danger — you are able to help yourself. However, on the day you were born, if your parents didn't decide to take you as their child to bring them up do you think you could survive? Could you put up a struggle when you don't even have the strength to open your eyes? Would you have had connections enough to get you out of trouble when even your own parents EFTA01161299 hadn't wanted you? Would you have had any wealth to buy yourself out of the situation at a time when you didn't even have a scrap of cloth to wear? Would you have had the wisdom to work out solutions to your problems? The reality of the situation is that we could only survive because our parents were kind enough to accept us. Normally if someone is to adopt a child they would have to take a long, long EFTA01161300 time to make that decision. If you were going to lend some money to someone, you have to have your conditions and your contracts — but for us there was only unconditional acceptance. Thus even that moment of acceptance at the most vulnerable time of our life is more than we can easily reimburse. Even when the child is in the womb, even though they don't know how the child would turn out, they would lay down their life to protect EFTA01161301 the child in their womb. C.3.4 Physical Care If you compare man with the animals, there is no comparable animal which takes so long or expends so much effort in the care of its young. Usually the larger the animal, the longer it must stay in the womb (gestation period) and the longer it must rely on the care of its parents after its birth. Even an elephant with its huge size and a gestation period of EFTA01161302 three years will only look after a baby elephant for two years. Man although much smaller in size than any elephant often looks after his children for twenty years. They have done the job of protecting us like a guardian angel ever since we were born. Even after that we expect our parents to organize our marriages and pass their legacy on to us. Parents provide food, shelter, clothing, education and medical care for their children, EFTA01161303 supporting us in every way. Parents often have to put themselves at risk or in debt in order to look after their children. If you find a woman catching fish or shoplifting, 99 times out of 100 she is doing it only to feed her child — if it was for herself she would never take such a risk. C.3.5 Spiritual Care Keeping us healthy and educated was not the only responsibility which our parents had to shoulder. EFTA01161304 Even our own basis of moral understanding had to come from our parents. If our parents had relied Blessing Eleven: Cherishing our Parents 145 always on the saying "do what I say not what I do", by now we would surely have grown up into hypocrites. Our parents were an example for us to follow as well as scolding and punishing us for doing unacceptable things, keeping an eye on our friends and choosing only the best books EFTA01161305 for us to read. Who taught us to speak and walk? Who taught us all the basic virtues of life and had the patience to remind us when we were lazy or forgetful? Parents are a child's first teacher because they are the first to teach a child his manners and how to behave. Even when we are grown up and supposedly responsible and independent, the generosity and care of our parents doesn't come to an end but we find EFTA01161306 that they are always there to help when we have important questions like that of marriage and the last thing our parents do for us before they die is to pass on their accumulated wealth for us. These are just a very brief summary of some of the ways in which we have been helped by our parents. Even the most tough and insensitive man or woman, when they become parents manages to find in the deepest part of their EFTA01161307 hearts the most tender and unlimited love for their own children and because of the purity of parental intention which fathers and mothers manage to find, ther people of old used to say you don't need to go any further than your own house in order to find an object of worship. C.4 Practical recollections to appreciate your debt ofgratitude According to the SilgalovAda Sutta (D.iii.180), the EFTA01161308 practicality of realizing one's debt of gratitude to one's parents can be effected by habitually reflecting: 1. "I have been supported by my parents - I will support them in turn" (such a recollection helps the cultivation of Right View) 2. "I will do their work for them" (such a recollection helps the cultivation of patience, responsibility, knowledge and ability) 3. "I will keep up the honour and traditions of the family" EFTA01161309 4. "I will make myself worthy of the family legacy" (such a recollection helps one to extricate oneself from the Six Roads to Ruin) 5. "I will make offerings, dedicating merit to them after their death" (such a recollection helps the cultivation of Right View and responsibility) Such recollections will not come naturally to any child who has not been raised with self-discipline, responsibility and Right View. Thus the gratitude a EFTA01161310 child has is part of a reciprocal relationship a parent has with their children — a subject explored in more depth in Blessing Twelve (0.3). D. REPAYING THE DEBT OF GRATITUDE TO OUR PARENTS D.1 Expectations of Parents Poor parents would rather put themselves in debt than to see their own children suffer. Considering seemingly little things like carefully and rationally will allow us to see through to the EFTA01161311 magnitude of the debt of gratitude we own our parents. Realizing how good one's parents are is a simple but necessary precursor to the repayment of gratitude to our parents — because it is not immediately obvious or easy to understand for every person. There was once a man who, together with his brothers and sisters, had been looking after their mother throughout a constant period of two years EFTA01161312 nursing her and paying for her kidney transfusions at a cost of 20,000 per month. Such a cost was certainly quite difficult for all the brothers and sisters to bear, but if they could not pay then surely their mother would die. Because the mother was also suffering from mental-disease, as soon as she was stronger after the transfusion, she would complain continuously disturbing the sons and daughters looking after her in the middle of EFTA01161313 the night. Looking after the mother was an ordeal for everyone concerned and at the end of two years, the thought occurred to all the brothers and sisters that two years was enough. They thought that all their efforts were surely enough to repay their debt of gratitude to their mother. In actual fact, if their mother had thought the same thing of her sick sons and daughters early on in life then surely none of them EFTA01161314 would have survived to the present day. Their mother would have used the last of her earnings to 146 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living see her children well again and even have gone into debt rather than seeing her children suffer. All parents have only five expectations of their children (in keeping with the five recollections of the SilgalovAda Sutta mentioned in the previous paragraph) — all of which point to EFTA01161315 ways in which children can handle the debt of gratitude they owe to their parents: 1. that their children will look after them in their old age; 2. that their children will perpetuate the good work for society they have already started; 3. that their children will carry on the good name of the family; 4. that their children will use the family wealth in a responsible way EFTA01161316 5. when they pass away their children will perform funeral rites and continue to dedicate the positivity of good deeds for their parents . The extent to which a child manages to do all five of these things varies from person to person — but in general you can categorize children into three types: 1. The child whose virtue exceeds that of his parents and who brings more prosperity to the family EFTA01161317 as during the time of his parents [abhijAtaputta] 2. The child whose virtue equals that of his parents and who brings the same degree of prosperity to the family as was brought during the time of his parents [anujAtaputta] 3. The child whose virtue is less than that of his parents and who brings less prosperity to the family than during the time of his parent [avajAtaputta] D.2 Service Repaying to our parents' goodness EFTA01161318 through service is divided into two parts: I. Service when they are still alive: When they are still alive help them in their daily chores. look after them when they are old, make sure that they are well fed, and care for them when they are not well. If they still have debts when they are in their old age then try to pay these debts off before they die. Serve them by making life more convenient (e.g. building an extra EFTA01161319 toilet for aged parent) 2. Service after their death: When they pass away host their funeral and habitually offer the positivity you generate as the result of your meditation for their benefit: (even if we transfer merit to them and they are unable to accept it we have still done our duty to the best of our ability like giving a car to someone who cannot use it or cannot use it immediately) EFTA01161320 D.2.1 While parents alive D.2.1.1 Honour In order to show your respect for the pure intention which our parents have always shown us it is fitting to offer clothing, housing or medicine. Sometimes we might give a gift to our parents, not out of necessity, but in order to honour our parents. Sometimes out of their goodwill for us aged parents or old people will seem to be very fussy or critical because they have a lot of life experience EFTA01161321 (more than us). Sometimes they are really too fussy, but you need to be able to tolerate what they are saying and think that they still have that goodwill for you. If we are patient, we can learn a lot from their experiences. Also there may be some things we should keep to ourselves instead of burdening old parents. Old people are weak and cannot do much for themselves. Only their mouth is in good working order EFTA01161322 - so be patient when old people talk a lot. D.2.1.2 Protection Protect your parents from things that you know annoy them or tire them. If you can alleviate stressful duties which might fall upon your parents, you can help them to enjoy the last years of their life more and preserve their dignity. D.2.1.3 Spiritual Ways of Repayment All the above we are not enough to repay our debt of gratitude in all the ways above EFTA01161323 EFTA01161324 OJ UaJ锣/仞wa篓apvns.iad '' 仰？/v.1Ow户 au /as'vq v claayp犁V S'flOJd纽a aq .z' 纫.Ia篓.1薄Wa竿 az玄.,lnup复力waD 刀碡1LL a篓 罅篓？殍仞wa篓勘wcfs'uz .[ L 力I 锣ua磋z?<I .Ino8u？纫即dq3：纽a叼旦8锂？ssa1g .uoJ隼U!IJS0P 蚀IJ10篡ILlI0琅SI U0AI0q uJoip &TjA!8 Aq j.ioddns JBTJ.T0)T.U, q8flO甲Si)qop mo Aidom o1 0I琅SsodsI1Iq0IqM ipA鳘0琅）0粤UI 云apm联J8 Jno8U~笆dom Jo 人iA撞Oh 0Aqoi ＼隼琅Ut0aT 筚琅soop ho琅 spiritual teachings: Some old parents are unable to go to a place where they can hear spiritual teachings for themselves but you can help the situation by reading them spiritual books to them or record a cassette of teaching for them to hear 4. teach them how to meditate 5. ordaining to pay debt of gratitude: In Thai culture especially, there is a tradition for sons to ordain temporarily at the age of twenty in order that EFTA01161325 the parents may gain merit from organizing their ordination. It is said that the sponsor of an ordination ceremony will gain half of the merit of the ordinand himself, therefore, as a dutiful son, finding the opportunity to ordain in order to repay one's debt of gratitude to one's parents, is an important part of cultivating the eleventh blessing. D.2.2 When parents have already passed away EFTA01161326 Even if your parents have already passed away, your duty as a grateful son or daughter is not finished. Apart from taking responsibility for organizing a fitting funeral, Buddhist sons and daughters will do meritorious deeds regularly and transfer the merit from the deeds for the benefit of their deceased parents. E. ANNOUNCING THE GOODNESS OF OUR PARENTS Some people mistakenly think that EFTA01161327 a large family is interchangeable with a family of good repute. Thus they have many, many children thinking that in this way they will bring happiness to their own parents. However, whether one has an heir or not is not something that will make your parents or anyone else in the world laugh or cry. What is better — to have a hundred sons and daughters who do nothing to better the family reputation, or to work yourself EFTA01161328 bringing fame and fortune to the family yourself by the good and beneficial things you do for the rest of society — a person who is so good that their love is not limited to just a few sons and daughters but to the whole of the world (a parent to the whole of the world). Whether you have an heir or will not make the earth will not laugh or cry. Thus if you want to announce to the world the goodness of your parents, you EFTA01161329 don't need to shout about it. The goodness of your parents will shine through your own behaviour, manners, the way you speak without you even having to mention your parents. We represent our parents and the way they have brought us up. We are their flesh and blood. Our mannerisms also come from our upbringing. That is why our behaviour is the most vivid way of announcing their goodness. It is not in their biography EFTA01161330 that we hand out at their funeral, but rather by our own behaviour which matters. Everyone loves their parents. Having this love one should announce their goodness through our good behaviour starting while they are still alive. In doing so, we will make them very happy. This is more important than writing their goodness in their biography which is of minute importance. It doesn't matter whether we intentionally EFTA01161331 want to announce our parents, goodness through our behaviour or not. Our actions speakfor themselves. It is up to us to create a good name for them through our behaviour. In doing so we make ourselves worthy to receive our parents' legacy. F. RECIPROCAL RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN PARENT & CHILD From the SiIgalovAda Sutta we learn that a child has duties towards his parents and parents have EFTA01161332 duties towards their children (see detail Blessing Twelve §B.3). In the ideal world, both the parents and the children will fulfil their side of the bargain and in doing so, no danger will grow up in the relationship or for society at large — there will be happiness and prosperity both for parent, child and society at large. If the child fulfils their duty according to Blessing Eleven but the parent doesn't fulfil their duty EFTA01161333 according to Blessing Twelve, harm will come to the parents and eventually to the child and society as well. There are some exceptional cases where a child has been so mistreated at the hands of his own parents that he or she finds it near impossible to imagine anything good about their parents. In such a case, we must remind ourselves that even if our parents abandon us at birth, we still have a huge 148 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps EFTA01161334 towards Enlightened Living debt of gratitude to them for giving us our physical form as a human. In a case where one has been beaten or abused by one's parents, it is important to make a separation between the good things they have done to you and the bad. We must repay our debt of gratitude for the good things and do our best to forgive the bad things, without mixing them up or thinking that one cancels out the other. Sometimes EFTA01161335 a dutiful son or daughter knows that giving their parents money will only fuel them into doing irresponsible things (like gambling) — in such cases, they should still be supported, but the support should be in the form of food or clothing that they cannot change into money. Such parents should be treated like a patient who is ill and sometimes can not be given what they crave for — but our parents should never be insulted by us EFTA01161336 because of their weaknesses. If the parents fulfil their duty according to Blessing Twelve, but the child does not fulfil their duty according to Blessing Eleven, harm will come to the child and eventually to the parents and society as well. If the child doesn't do their duty according to Blessing Eleven and the parents don't fulfil their duty according to Blessing Twelve, immediate harm EFTA01161337 EFTA01161338 SOATOSM O111. °ACHIM.' molls uoipllqo iloql 转q1 14sIm ssai1nuq al1 OA II s1T.I0J1 d :[yuow]ss nipupi-.8umo'i :[angrqueunpiq] saimiqy ammo mg'a琅‘a'I 'pop u XI po1ITtpco sonuin 8upCpopun 0琅ire sn sPit mo1 1Tqupco 人a琅osm oaq“℃Im1℃JH,, J0 "poD„ mo o1 pail(Imo°uoaq om q s1I10.11 d .1 O [nummig] poj9 sw swap,":/oydnianr 1 9 S IldIAIVX aAIIVIILLSill'II '9 'oo1 /CT0MOS oi pur q)oq ol moo wm from suffering in every respect. 2. compassion [karunA]: the parents make every effort to diminish the suffering of their children, never neglecting their child 3. sympathetic joy [muditA]: whenever the child experiences success or happiness, the parents are sincerely happy on their child's part 4. equanimity [upekkhA]: when the child has their own family and is able to look after its own affairs, the parents no longer interfere. If EFTA01161339 the children make mistakes, the parents refrain from saying "I told you so", but give their opinion when asked for it. G.2 Metaphor: Parents as one's first Guardian Angel The parents are the first people known to the child to offer their protection to the child in every way G.3 Metaphor: Parents as First Teacher The parents are the first people known to the child EFTA01161340 to teach and train the child, whether it be how to walk or talk or how to cultivate good manners. G.4 Metaphor: Parents as Arahant The parents are as the child's arahant because they have four qualities: 1. They bring the child great benefit: The parents fulfil the challenging duty of caring for the child in every way — something it would be hard to find anyone else to do in their place. 2. They command respect but are EFTA01161341 endearing: protecting the child from all dangers, they also manage to bring gentle warmth to the child's life. 3. They are the child'sfield of merit: They have completely pure intentions towards their children, making them a worthy object for the child's merit-making 4. They are worthy of being bowed to: a child should express his respect for his parents by bowing or saluting them. EFTA01161342 G.5 Metaphor: Gold plate v.s Solid Gold Just as you can tell the difference between a goldplated object and one that is solid gold by passing it through a flame, you can tell whether someone is truly virtuous by whether or not he cherishes his parents. G.6 Proverb: Carrying one's parents on one's shouldersfor 100 years The Buddha taught that even if we were to carry our parents, one on each shoulder, EFTA01161343 for one hundred years, spoon-feeding them and allowing them to urinate and defecate on us, it would still be insufficient fully to repay our debt of gratitude to our parents. Blessing Eleven: Cherishing our Parents 149 G. 7 Proverb: A skyful ofparental praise If we were to use Mount Sumeru as our pen and all the water of the ocean as our ink, even if we were to write the virtues of our parents in the sky until EFTA01161344 there were no place left to write, the mountain were worn down and the seawater dry, we would still not have reached an end of our parents virtues. G.8 Ex. The monk who went on almsroundfor his parents(MAtuposaka Sutta S.i.181) Normally when a monk has gathered food on his almsround, he must take his meal from that food first before passing the remainder on to any lay supporters. In the time of the EFTA01161345 Buddha there was a monk whose parents were so poor they had nothing to eat. The monk went on almsround and gave the parents first choice of the food he managed to gather. Later, he was criticized by other monks who reported his behaviour to the Buddha. The Buddha said that what the monk had done was correct and that in the case a monk's parents needed food from his almsround, they may be served first and EFTA01161346 the monk himself take the remainder — an exception to the rule in keeping with the debt of gratitude even a monk should repay to his parents. G.9 Ex. KaccAni JAtaka (J.417) After his father's death, a young man devoted himself entirely to his mother, until the latter, much against his will, brought him a wife. The wife plotted to estrange mother and son, and the old woman eventually had to leave the house. Having given EFTA01161347 birth to a son, the wife, went about saying that if the mother-in-law had been with her, such a blessing would have been impossible. When the old woman heard of this, she felt that such words showed that Dhamma must be dead. The woman went to a ceremony and started to perform a rite in the memory of the dead `Dhamma'. Sakka's throne became heated and hearing her story used his powers to reconcile the old woman with EFTA01161348 her son and daughter-in-law. The story was related to a young man of SAvatthE who looked after his aged mother until his wife came. The wife helped to look after her mother-inlaw at first, but later grew jealous of her husband's love for his mother and contrived to make the son angry with his mother. Finally she asked the man to choose between herself and his mother. The young man, without hesitation EFTA01161349 stood up for his mother and the wife, realizing her folly, mended her ways. J.iii.422ff. G.10 Ex. The Begging Bowl (traditional) Once upon a time, there was a family where the mother and father were already old. The only son loved his father and mother and took good care of them running errands and helping in the house throughout his childhood. Then the son came of age EFTA01161350 got married and had his own children. Unfortunately, as soon as he got married he found that his wife's love for his old parents was far less than his own. His wife chided him,"Don't you love your own children? Looking after your parents wastes time that could be better spent earning a good wage — let your parents look after themselves."At first he took no notice of his wife, but since his wife would complain and insist on this EFTA01161351 matter every day, eventually he forgot his debt of gratitude to his parents. He purchased a pair of clay bowls for his parents and instructed them, "Mother and father, from now on you must beg for a living," and went about earning his own living as best he could. The son's own children grew up to the age of five or six. One day their father came home from work to find his children decorating a EFTA01161352 coconut shell with the finest of ornaments. He asked, "What do you think you're doing with that coconut shell?" The children said said, "We're getting a begging bowl ready for you to help you when you get too old to work!" Seeing his own children with the coconut shell, the father realized his own ingratitude and from that day forth invited his old parents to stay in his own home and looked after them in the EFTA01161353 best of comfort until the end of their days. This illustrates how powerful the parent's influence on his child and shows that the child's standard of good deeds comes directly from his parent's example. The Lord Buddha taught that the debt of gratitude we owe to our parents is so great that it would 150 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living be hard to repay that debt of gratitude within a single life-time. Thus it is one of the EFTA01161354 duties outlined inthe SilgalovAda Sutta and the Malgala Sutta to cherish our own parents especially in old age. By doing this we not only repay our endebtedness to our parents for giving us life but we strengthen the structure of society to make it free from alienation especially for the senior citizens in society some of whom receive more comfort from their pet cats and dogs these days, than they do from their own EFTA01161355 sons and daughters. G.11 Ex. Even Buddha must care for his parents Even the Buddha himself devoted considerable time and effort to repaying the debt of gratitude he had to his parents. The Buddha spent the whole of one rainy-season retreat in TavatiOsa Heaven, through the might of his mental powers, in order to teach his late mother the whole of the Abhidhamma. His mother Queen MAyA had passed EFTA01161356 away only seven days after the birth of Prince Siddhartha. G.12 Ex. The Abandoned Brahmin Once, there lived in SAvatthE an old brahmin who was extremely rich. He had four sons and when each of the sons got married, he gave him a share of his wealth. Then, he gave away half of his remaining property to them. Later, his wife died. His sons came to him and looked after him very EFTA01161357 well and they were very loving and affectionate to him. During the course of time, somehow they influenced him to give them the other half of the remaining property. Thus, he was left penniless. First he went to stay with his eldest son. After a few days, the daughter-in-law said to him, `Did you give any extra wealth to your eldest son? Don't you know the way to the house of your other sons?' Hearing this, the old EFTA01161358 brahmin got very angry and left the eldest son's house for the house of his second son. The same remarks were made by the wife of his second son and the old man went to the house of his third son and finally to the house of the fourth and youngest. Thus, the old man was left destitute and taking a staff and a bowl he went to the Buddha for protection and advice. At the monastery, the brahmin EFTA01161359 told the Buddha how his sons had mistreated him. The Enlightened One taught him some verses and advised him to recite them wherever there was a large gathering of people. The gist of the verses was as follows: `My four foolish sons are like ogres. They call me `father, father' but the words come only out of their mouths and not from their hearts. They are deceitful and scheming. Taking the EFTA01161360 advice of their wives they have driven me out of their houses. So, now I have been reduced to begging. Those sons are of less service to me than this staff of mine.' When the appointed day came for the brahmins of SAvatthE to hold their meeting and knowing that his sons would be there, the old brahmin also attended the meeting. Now at that time, the prevailing law dictated that "whoever ill-treats his EFTA01161361 mother or father and does not support or look after them shall be punished". Many people in the crowd, on hearing the verses recited by the old brahmin, went wild with rage at the ungrateful sons and threatened them for neglecting their father. Then the sons realised their mistakes and knelt down at the feet of their father and asked for pardon. They also promised that from that day forth, they would look after him EFTA01161362 properly and would respect, love and honour him. They also warned their wives to look after their father well. Each of the sons gave him proper food and clothing. Thus the brahmin became healthier. So, he went to the Buddha and humbly requested him to accept two food-trays out of the four he was receiving every day from his sons. One day, the eldest son invited the Buddha to his house for EFTA01161363 almsfood. After the meal, the Buddha gave a discourse on the benefits to be gained by looking after one's parents. The Buddha related to themthe story of the elephant called Dhanapala, who looked after his parents. Dhanapala when captured pined for the parents who were left in the forest. DhammapadaEEhakathA, XXIII: 3 Blessing Eleven: Cherishing our Parents 151 G.13 Orphan with a Debt to Pay (traditional) EFTA01161364 There was once a woman of the streets who was with child. By profession she knew that if the child was born a boy, she would be unable to keep him. Her anxiety only increased day-by-day until at the end of nine months, her fears were realized. The newborn babe was a boy. Many times she took the baby to the river's edge with the full intention to drown him and finish the whole business, but with tears in her eyes from having borne him in EFTA01161365 her womb for so long, she could not bring herself todo it. At the same time, she could not keep the child or else she would destroy her livelihood. She left him in a bundle by the roadside with the thought that there might be some chance of a compassionate passer-by seeing the child and adopting him. The first passer-by that morning was the abbot from the local temple on his almsround. He spotted the baby and afraid that he EFTA01161366 starve, took him back to the temple. The abbot guessed how the baby had come to be there but in the absence of anyone coming to claim him back, provided all the food, shelter, clothing and education the child needed to grow-up to teenage. The boy could run and play with the other children and do everything expected of him but he had a chip on his shoulder and would run and hide if any of the others teased him for not having a mother EFTA01161367 and father. The boy would blame his unseen parents for the predicament in which he found himself. One day the abbot heard the boy complaining out loud about the parents who had abandoned him. The abbot thought, "the time has come to talk to this boy about his life." "If someone were to give you a dollar, would you curse him?" the abbot asked the boy. "Of course not," replied the boy, "I EFTA01161368 should bow to that person, or at least thank him and I would not forget my gratitude to him!" "And if someone were to come along and offer you a dollar for your life would you take it?" "Of course I wouldn't," replied the boy indignantly."Do you think that's all my life is worth?" "Ten dollars then?" "You must be joking!" The abbot raised the sum to a hundred, a thousand, EFTA01161369 ten-thousand, a hundred-thousand and a million dollars, but the boy would not part with his life. Asked why, the boy replied, "even a million dollars is useless if you have no life left to spend it." "Well, what about if someone were to come along and offer you a dollar to cut off your right arm? Would you take it?" "Of course I wouldn't," replied the boy indignantly."Do you think that's all the integrity of EFTA01161370 my body is worth?" "Ten dollars then?" "Daylight robbery!" The abbot raised the sum to a hundred, a thousand, ten-thousand, a hundred-thousand and a million dollars, but the boy would not part with his right arm. "Don't you want to be a millionaire?" asked the abbot. The boy said,"even a million dollars is no substitute for the loss of one's physical integrity." "And if someone were to come along and offer you EFTA01161371 a dollar to cut off your little finger? Would you take it?" "Of course I wouldn't," replied the boy indignantly." Do you think you can put a price on part of the human body?" "Ten dollars then?" "Forget it!" The abbot raised the sum to a hundred, a thousand, ten-thousand, a hundred-thousand and a million dollars, but the boy would not part with his little finger. Asked why, the boy said EFTA01161372 that even a million dollars could not replace the thing most precious to him — a healthy, human body. "Just now you said that if someone gave you a dollar, you would thank him, bow to him and never forget your gratitude to him — yet your parents have given you your healthy, human body free, even the little finger of which you would not part with for a million dollars — how come you sit here cursing them for not having given you EFTA01161373 more?" 152 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Blessing Twelve: Raising our Children 153 A. Introduction A.1 The Harm of Bad Parental Upbringing The SilgalovAda Sutta teaches us to develop respect for human dignity towards ourselves, towards others and towards a fair economic system in general. Sometimes we have to work on ourselves EFTA01161374 throughout our lives to develop these qualities, but for sure, the seeds of these qualities for every "global being" need to be planted by the parents during childhood as part of that child's upbringing. If the child is neglected when growing up, they will grow up to lack any sense of responsibility for: 1. their own human dignity 2. the human dignity of others 3. the human dignity underlying the economics of society at large EFTA01161375 The catastrophe brought to society by such parental neglect can be enlarged asfollows: 1. lacking responsibilityfor their own human dignity means: if the parents lack self-discipline and don't fulfil the minimal duties laid down by the Buddha, the first signs of harm will be that their children lack any sense of responsibility for their own human dignity — this being expressed in four different ways by the child's behaviour: EFTA01161376 1. False View: the child will not know the difference between virtue and evil, good and bad, appropriate and inappropriate and therefore will have no shame of evil [hiri] or fear of the consequences of evil; 2. Lack of aim in life: the child will have no spiritual aim in life, and therefore will tend to material extravagence and selfishness. Such a person will take every opportunity to do evil EFTA01161377 deeds that their circumstances and needs demand; 3. Lack of health and hygene: the child will be incompetent in looking after their own health, perhaps being promiscuous, thereby destroying their own health and human endowments; 4. Lack of interest in self-development: Because of having no clear aim in life or perhaps because of bad health, the child will be discouraged from any efforts to study either worldly or EFTA01161378 spiritual knowledge. As a result they become even more entrenched in False View and may bring catastrophe to society — perhaps going even so far as to betray their own country. 2. lacking responsibilityfor the human dignity of others: if the parents lack self-discipline and don't fulfil their own duties, the second sign of harm will be that their children lack any sense of responsibility for the human dignity of others EFTA01161379 sharing society— this being expressed in three different ways by the child's behaviour: 1. Bias: Having perhaps been on the receiving end of parental bias, when older and finding themselves in positions of responsibility, the Blessing Twelve: Raising our children 154 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living child's tendency to bias in decision-making, EFTA01161380 because of greed, hatred, delusion or fear, may do important damage to others in society; 2. Narrow-minded and selfish: If the child grows up into someone narrow-minded and selfish, they might be alienated in society for the rest of their life because no-one wants to associate with them. 3. Lacks any signs of altruism: Having perhaps not had any parental training in altruism, when EFTA01161381 coming in contact with a wider society, when the child's patience is tried, they might lose control of themselves, expressing themselves in a rude or violent way. 3. lacking responsibilityfor self-discipline (economic fairness): if the parents lack self-discipline and don't fulfil their own duties, the second sign of harm will be that their children lack any sense of responsibility for self-discipline (economicfairness) EFTA01161382 - this being expressed in three different ways by the child's behaviour: 1. Frivolous with money: not seeing the value of money, and lacking restraint in expenditure, when a child is no longer able to ask money from their parents, they look for new sources of income, the easiest of which are usually those concerned with the Six Roads to Ruin. 2. Addicted to the Six Roads to Ruin EFTA01161383 3. Unable to uphold the.family name: Even while still young, the badly-raised child can destroy the family name and when older, they will be unable to act as a steward for the family fortune. In conclusion it can be said that two major problems stem from bad upbringingof children: 1. Problems of Juvenile Delinquency: Problems concerning young people in every country are becoming increasingly serious and aggressive EFTA01161384 with every year that passes. In the olden days, the problems of young people would affect only those of age fifteen upwards, but now the problems are evident from primary school upwards. 2. Parental Problems: Neglect of parental duties would appear to hold a large stake in the problems of young people — when parents lack the self-discipline to fulfil their own duties, it is no EFTA01161385 surprise that their children have no self-discipline either and lack any sense of responsibility for human dignity. Juvenile delinquency starts in the home and goes on to exacerbate all other sorts of social problems. Most people fail to see the connection between the problems, but the Lord Buddha recognized the importance of the parental duty in bringing up their children properly - and in the SilgalovAda Sutta, EFTA01161386 accordingly put the parents in the most prestigious Eastern Quarter (where the sun rises) as a reminder of the importance of this relationship. The implication of the Buddha's teaching is that anyone unwilling or unable to fulfil the duties of a good parent according to the Buddha's teaching, should consider themselves too immature to marry or have a family — because if they go EFTA01161387 ahead and have a family while still unable to be a good parent, they are sowing the seeds of immediate social catastrophe. Realizing the seriousness of the duties upon the shoulders of any parent, it is obvious that we must take care in studying exactly how the Buddha taught parents to raise their children and the means by which these can be achieved. In doing so,we can guard against becoming the sort of parents who EFTA01161388 look back on what they have achieved during their life and feel nothing but regret — because there is nothing more heartbreaking than having brought up a child who makes a mess out of their own life, life of others or of society at large. A.2 The True Meaning of the Word `Child' The Pali word for `child' is `putto'. This word is still found in some European languages and usually means a sort of `cherub'. However, if you look a EFTA01161389 the root of the word, it doesn't just mean `child' but also 'unstained', `pure' or `fulfilling'. Thus the real meaning of a child is to be the one who purifies the family name. The word also means the one who brings joy to the heart of his parents. The child we bring up may be of our own flesh or blood, or the child may be adopted — the Buddha categorized children according to their origins: Blessing Twelve: Raising our EFTA01161390 Children 155 1. ones born of our own flesh [atraja] 2. ones born on our property [khettaja] 3. adopted children given to us by others [dinnaka] 4. our students [antevAsika] KaEEhahAri JAtaka (J.i.135) — but it makes no difference to the thoroughness with which we must practice our parental duties towards them. It is implied that no matter how the child in our care comes to us, we EFTA01161391 must still practice and fulfil our parental duties towards them. Some people who still have a lot of defilements want to have a lot of children. Luang Phaw Wat Paknam said that if you want to have a lot of children who are full of virtue you should ordain as a monk because you will have many students as your children. If you have children of your own flesh and blood who turn out troublesome they you have EFTA01161392 to put up with looking after them the whole of your life. However, if they are your students and they are troublesome at least you can make your selection.You can say goodbye to the troublemakers and choose the good ones. Look at the Buddha's example — even after 2,500 years after his ParinibbAna there are still children of the Buddha being born today. B. THE COMPONENTS OF GOOD UPBRINGING EFTA01161393 'Would be' parents must prepare themselves, both inworldly and spiritual ways so they are ready to bring a good child into the world and bring him up to be a good person. The parent needs to prepare themselves for three different stages bringing a good child into the world: 1. before conception 2. from conception to birth 3. from birth to adulthood The task is not easy — really it can be considered a full-time job but the benefits of EFTA01161394 success will be the lifelong pride of the parents. As already mentioned, `good child' from the parents' point of view, covers abroad range of meanings: in brief, possessing all sorts of virtues, good physique and sound mind. However, it is hard to find a person perfect in every sense of the word. Generally, a child held to be good, will have three qualities; they will be brainy; well-behaved (i.e. be able to follow the Precepts), and EFTA01161395 good hearted (i.e. generous and compassionate). These are the basis of a child's virtue. Any other goodness in which the parent can train their child, are all well and good and will add to the parents' pride in their child. B.1 Before Conception The parent must be both physically and mentally prepared to bring a good child into the world. For Buddhists, physical preparation alone is not sufficient because our human being consists EFTA01161396 not only of a body, but also of a mind: necessitating careful spiritual preparation for parents. The knowledge which Buddhism gives to `would be' parents goes far beyond the frontiers of even modern medical science. According to Buddhist Teachings, each and every creature has their own individual kamma (i.e. storehouse of potential results of good and bad deeds performed in the past). According to the Buddhist EFTA01161397 proverb (S.i.227): YAdisaO vappate bEjaO TAdisaO harate phalaO KalykkalcArt kalyAAaO PApakArE ca pApakaO One reaps the fruit from the (type of) seed one sows: lovely out comes from lovely actions, ugly outcomes from ugly actions. Buddhist teachings also show that those who have done good deeds will be reborn in heaven after dying from the human realm, and when he is reborn in the human realm, he will be EFTA01161398 born to wealthy and morally proper parents. A person who has performed a lesser amount of merit, when being reborn into the human realm, will be born to a less wealthy or even poor family, according to the degree of his merit. The being always carries its past merits with it, even between births, and this merit has a determining effect on who its next parents will be. A being awaiting rebirth into the human EFTA01161399 realm will be born to parents with a level of merit equal to its own. It cannot be born to parents whose merit is greater or less than its own. Therefore, in order to bring a child into the world that is good, a 156 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living 'would be ' parent must perform as many meritorious deeds as possible, by making donations, keeping the Five Precepts and, most importantly, by meditating regularly. The result of such EFTA01161400 meritorious action will be to attract a being with a good level of merit to be born into their family. By these very actions, a `would be' parent prepares themself spiritually, ready to be a good father or mother — pure in body, speech and mind, beautified by the wisdom of meditation and ready to welcome the birth of a child perfect in personality and Dhamma. In the time of Luang Phaw Wat Paknam there was EFTA01161401 a merchant who came to Luang Phaw Wat Paknam complaining that for many years he had being trying to have a child without success. Luang Phaw Wat Paknam asked him what sort of child he wanted. He said he wanted a good and virtuous child who was rich. He wanted a handsome child too. Luang Phaw Wat Paknam said that whatever you want your child to turn out like you have to make yourself as good as you want EFTA01161402 your child to be first — like a blueprint. Then he meditated to see which angel was about to run out of subtle merit (and die from heaven) who had those sort of characteristics and would suggest which mother and father had a matching level of merit to be their new parents. If soldiers wanted a brave child then Luang Phaw Wat Paknam would give them the same advice to make themselves brave first of all. EFTA01161403 Some people might wonder why in some cases good children seem to be born to parents who are horrible and cruel and why good parents sometimes have horrible children or idiots. Such cases don't mean that the Law of Karma has its exceptions, but first we must understand all of the causes and effects coming into play. It is like breaking through the net. Supposing there is the case that a certain mother EFTA01161404 and father are good but they have an awful child. The circumstances for the birth might go something like this . . . supposing on the father's birthday all his friends assemble at his house to wish him a happy birthday. He thinks, "when in Rome you must do as do the Romans". Usually he never touches alcohol but on this occasion he makes an exception and opens a bottle of wine for all his friends. As the host he feels EFTA01161405 compelled to take the first sip of wine before passing the bottle on to his friends. A second sip follows the first and before long he feels slightly drunk (because he is not used to it). It happens that that very night is the night that he conceives a child. At the time both parents happen to be drunk, a being seeking to be born, a being with the karma of drunkeness in the past, finds just the right pair. Into the womb it goes and EFTA01161406 the (usually) good couple get themselves a baby that is going to grow up with the habits of a drunkard. The moral of the story is, if you do good deeds, do good deeds consistently and don't open the opportunity to mistakes. Thus for a couple who have been good the whole of their lives but slip up for a single day, they might have to spend the rest of their lives bringing up a mentally handicapped child or a child that is mute. EFTA01161407 On the other hand there may be really terrible parents that have a good child. In Thailand of course there are some of the worst robbers and murderers. However, before they go out to do their duty they will always ask for the blessing from the Triple Gem so that they can do their duty in safety. When they have accomplished their crime, again they ask the blessing of theTriple Gem to protect them from the police. In their EFTA01161408 wicked heart, there is still a glimmer of goodness. Sometimes, especially in a Buddhist country, although they are thinking of evil almost the whole of the time, because the environment is an amenable one, there will be things to remind them of virtue from time to time (e.g. when they see a monk passing by, or there are sermons broadcast on the radio and TV). Thus sometimes when there is something to kindle the EFTA01161409 glimmer of goodness to a glow in heart of a mother and father who are usually never interested in such things then there is a slight possibility that they may conceive a virtuous child. However the chance is really remote — not enough to pin your hopes on. B.2 From Conception to Birth Even two thousand five hundred years ago, the Lord Buddha's own mother, Queen MahAmAyA knew how to take painstaking care of both her EFTA01161410 Blessing Twelve: Raising our Children 157 physical and spiritual well-being while she was with child. The queen ate only agreeable foods and frequented the harmony of the natural environment as she came close to the time of childbirth. Queen MAyA also maintained purity and stillness of mind throughout pregnancy by keeping the Eight Precepts and meditating. It seems that for Buddhists, care of the child since conception EFTA01161411 is an implicit part of the `art of motherhood', re-iterated anew in the present day when medical science is catching up with ancient knowhow...and seemingly coming to the same conclusions... The mother who keeps the fifth of the five precepts will need not worry that her child be under weight or handicapped at birth because refraining from alcohol, intoxicating drugs and cigarettes cuts out a significant proportion of the EFTA01161412 risk in this respect. Even medicine taken by the mother, may have side effects for the unborn child, and medicines taken should therefore only be those prescribed by the family doctor. Consideration of physical health alone is not sufficient — the mother needs to be spiritually healthy too, so that the child to be born is perfect in mind as well as body. Modern medical science has shown that the embryo is sensitive to its EFTA01161413 mother's moods and emotions. Indeed, during the time of being carried in the womb, the child is in the process of character formation. The art of having a good child is acknowledged these days, not to be merely a matter of genetic engineering, but of the suitability of the intra-uterine environment created by the mother during pregnancy; it is the key to raising one's children from the time of conception. For this reason, the pregnant EFTA01161414 mother, the mother should attempt to keep her mind calm, undisturbed, stable and cheerful during the time of pregnancy. There is no end to the practical ways in which the mother can help the character of the child in the womb. While she is carrying the child, the mother should imagine pictures of how she would like her child to turn out. She should speak and sing lullabies to the child in her womb. She shouldn't worry EFTA01161415 whether the child can hear or not, but bear in mind that if the child is at ease when he hears the mother's voice, this influence will carry across to the time when the child is born. If the pregnant mother is at ease when she hears the word 'SammA-arahaO', the baby, when it is born, will immediately be at ease whenever it hears the words `SammAarahaO'. The mother should be a teacher to the baby she is carrying: a teacher of EFTA01161416 meditation. Just by creating, the mood of centredness and peace for the child, when he closes his eyes inside the mother's womb, he will see not darkness but a brightness inside himself — the brightness of the virtue of his own two parents. There are certain things which the pregnant mother should avoid too. Just as good experiences by the mother can have a good effect on the child, during pregnancy, if there is any EFTA01161417 adverse influence on the mother's mind, the embryo will be adversely affected. If a child is born into the womb of a mother who often quarrels, the child which is born is likely to be morose and uncheerful by nature. Thus, if the mother finds stressful conditions at work, or has other traumatic experiences, the child will be highly strung. Better then, for the mother to take maternal leave from work during her pregnancy EFTA01161418 Very negative thoughts by the mother, especially by those mothers who have contemplated abortion, are picked up by the child and may cause the child to have an instinctive distrust or fear of his mother throughout their life. Better then, that the mother meditate every day, perform chanting, give alms and listen to sermons. The child whose mother is positive thinking and cheerful during pregnancy, is likely to be cheerful EFTA01161419 and positive thinking like her. Parents who make great self sacrifices, careful and wise in the support of their child during pregnancy, will gain a child who is an altruist, thorough and wise. The care taken by the mother during pregnancy will be transformed by the child into love and respect for his parents, a readiness to go on to the next stage of his development that will come after his delivery. Even the attitude of the father has EFTA01161420 an influence on the well-being of the baby in the womb of his wife. The father will have to work harder when his wife is pregnant, helping her with the heavy work 158 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living she would normally do herself and being careful not to create situations that are going to irritate or upset the serenity of the mother. Even if normally he might bring the tensions and stresses of his work EFTA01161421 back home with him, now he must start to be more careful to leave his work in the office and not bring the chaos of his work home with him. B.3 From Birth to Adulthood There are five duties for the parent in bringing up their children from the time the child is born to the time he is old enough to look after himself (D.iii.180): 1. Not allowing your child to do anything evil 2. Teach your child to be EFTA01161422 established in virtue 3. See that your child is educated 4. Arrange your child's marriage 5. Pass on your legacy to your child For all five of these parental duties (especially establishing the child in virtue) it is absolutely necessary that the parents have the following four qualities: 1. the ability to distinguish themselves between good and evil — i.e. they should be established in Right View. 2. patience EFTA01161423 3. ability to recognize the characteristics of False Friends and Good Friends 4. self-discipline If potential parents lack these prerequisites, perhaps they should wait until they manage to develop them before considering to have children. B.3.1 Not allowing their child to succumb to wickedness Not allowing your child to succumb to wickedness means to prevent your child exhibiting any of the sixteen traits already mentioned in EFTA01161424 the first blessing for "false friends". Whether a child grows up into a fool or a wise one depends on their teacher and their environment. The first and most immediate environment to the child are the parents themselves. So here are some practical tips for how to prevent you child from doing evil: 1. Set a good example: Thus the first thing you must do to teach your child to do no evil is not to say or do anything evil in front of your EFTA01161425 children. Hypocritical behaviour in front of your children will ruin their upbringing. Parents drink alcohol and smoke in front of their children and even send their children to buy liquor and cigarettes. They explain to the child "don't drink or smoke when you grow up — its bad for you!", but they think they themselves are too old to change and therefore don't even attempt to set an example. EFTA01161426 Such a lesson is of no value to the child. Even parents who teach their children to lie will suffer in the end because the parent will become a victim of their own insincerity. 2. Keep devicesfor evil-doing out of the house: You need to make sure the environment in the house is one which doesn't encourage evil, you should make sure that you don't allow equipment for doing evil into the house right from the time your first EFTA01161427 child is born objects such liquor bottles, wine brewing kits, gambling tables or pornographic materials should be cleared out of the house and no further such things allowed to enter into the house any more. 3. Help choose your child's friends: Parents need to have a close relationship with both their child and his friends. This is to make sure that your child is not associating with friends who are going EFTA01161428 to influence him in a damaging way. Here are two suggestions which may be useful in this respect: 1. Regular tea partiesfor a child and theirfriends: child and his friends to come to play once a week. It may be extra work to prepare cakes for all those friends but while the friends are tucking in to their tea, the parents will learn enough about the character of the friends from EFTA01161429 the things they say to advise their child which friends to associate with. 2. At least one communalfamily meal per day: There should be at least one meal a day when all the family come together — maybe the evening meal — to give the chance for the parents to notice any signs of guilt on a child's face. The first time the child does something wrong (such as lying, smoking or shoplifting), the EFTA01161430 guilt will be very noticeable, the second and Blessing Twelve: Raising our Children 159 subsequent times, less and less noticeable, until in the end there is no guilt. If the family are all together once day each day, then the parent can correct a child's behaviour while it is still fresh in the child's mind If your child plays with friends who are evil, then he will absorb those habits as his own EFTA01161431 such as swearwords or unattractive slang. On a wider scale, bad friends may bring ruin to the family, as illustrated by the story of a chameleon playmate betraying an iguana tribe in the Godha JAtaka (see §C.4 below). 4. Dare to discipline: For children who have done a lot of good deeds in the past, you will not have to give very many suggestions or spend too much time correcting their EFTA01161432 behaviour. Some children seem to know instinctively what is right and what is wrong and always keep themselves on the straight and narrow. For some children, being told off a single time will be enough to keep them from doing something evil all their life. However, there are some children who, take no notice however many times they are warned. If after sufficient criticism and reasoning the child EFTA01161433 is still stubborn or unresponsive or tries to see how far they can "try it on" with their parents' authority, they may need to be beaten. If they are not beaten they may be spoiled for the rest of their lives. Parents who need to punish their children must give serious consideration to what long term effects the punishment will have on the child. The long term aim in educating a child to avoid evil is to build up shame EFTA01161434 of doing evil [hiri] and fear of the consequences of evil [ottappa]. Many cultures think that beating a child is a necessary part of a child's education (viz. the English proverb "Spare the rod and spoil the child" — see §C.2 TilamuEEhi JAtaka below), however, to beat a child, especially out of anger, teaches a child only to fear the parent or fear the stick, rather than fearing evil. Besides EFTA01161435 undermining parent child relationships, as the child grows bigger and stronger, the parent will be less and less able to control the child's behaviour by force. The objective parents should have in punishing a child is to shame the child from doing such an evil thing again. B.3.2 Teach your Child to be Established in Virtue The first "good friends" to each and every one of usin the world are our parents or guardians they EFTA01161436 are the ones to instill the virtue of "being a teacher to yourself' [yonisomanasikAra] in a child — and each parent must take responsibility for such a duty — from the time their child first opens their eyes to the world onwards. There is ample medical and psychological evidence to suggest that every individual is impressionable right from the time of being a baby — for example a baby whose nappy is left unchanged regularly and soiled EFTA01161437 for long period of time is liable later in life to unhygienic and messy habits. Thus parents should not be neglectful in settingup the sort of habits they would like to see in their children — as for higher virtues— the importance is proportionally greater you cannot just wait for teachers or schools to do the job for you they will never be able to give full attention to the task because their students are many EFTA01161438 and the time for each is limited and what's more a children's time spent at school is still less than the time spent at home. For all of these reasons the instilling of virtue in children is an important duty for the parents — right from the time the child is still a baby. It is a duty which requires perseverance and consistency and requires an understanding or sequencing and graduation in virtues taught to EFTA01161439 know what to teach a child first and what to keep until they are older. Just as mentioned for "preventing your child from doing evil", the parents can influence the child in a positive ways by: 1. Setting a good example to your child: parents should show their generosity, do chanting etc. in front of their child and be seen by their children to take an interest in reading books on beneficial subjects. EFTA01161440 2. Choosing goodfriendsfor your child It may seem trivial or overzealous to worry about so many aspects of a child'senvironment and de160 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living velopment. However, it should be pointed out that a child left to his own devices has a very slim chance of developing into a well-balanced adult. Just as a child left alone will choose junk food or convenience food rather than nutritious food EFTA01161441 and grows up physically weak, a child left to choose its own sources of knowledge with out any guidelines will develop a flawed character. Thus, every child who grows up with a genuine respect for the Precepts and meditation together with a generous heart, does so only as the result of unflagging enthusiasm by his parents for instilling the value of Dhamma practice. Of course the possible virtues you can teach to a EFTA01161442 child are many, but the most important in the development of "being a teacher to yourself' are: 1. Knowledge of the highest aim of Buddhism (the highest aim in life of humankind). Buddhism teaches us to pursue perfection — when our perfections are fulfilled we will be able to overcome the last of the defilements in our minds — and we will be able to break free from the cycle of rebirth. 2. Knowledge of how to practice in EFTA01161443 order to achieve our highest aim in life: normally the threefold practice of self-discipline [sEla], meditation [samAdhi] and wisdom [pafifiA]. 3. The four virtuesfor a householder: [gharavAsadhamma]: 1. truthfulness [sacca]; 2. training oneself [dama]; 3. patience [khanti], and; 4. selfsacrifice [cAga]. 4. Supporting their religion: That Buddhists have the job of supporting their religion: Because man's highest refuge is the Triple Gem, it EFTA01161444 means that care should be taken to support the SaIgha or monastic community who perpetuate and spread Buddhism. If any monastic member is deprived of the support of householders — before long he will be unable to continue in his duties -- and in turn that is the end of the life of Buddhism — in other words it is the job of Buddhists to support their religion. 5. The Malgala Sutta: Principles in EFTA01161445 keeping with (especially the first six) blessings of the MaIgala Sutta: 1. not associating with fools: mother and father must teach children how to choose appropriate friends and spouse; 2. associating with the wise: i.e. those who are adept in self-discipline [sEla], meditation [samAdhi] and wisdom [pafulA]; 3. honouring those worthy of respect: especially the Buddha, monks who practice EFTA01161446 well, monarchs established in the Ten Virtues of a Monarch, parents and elder relatives and various teachers — even ones boss if he is honest. Having respect for such people means attempting to follow the good example set by such people. 4. Living in an amenable location: an unpolluted environment with good prospects for work and education both in worldly and spiritual EFTA01161447 ways — and even government — not somewhere dominated criminal underworld. 5. Get down to the pursuit of the Perfections. Our work in the present time will bring its fruits in the future. In the same way the happiness we receive in the present must be the result of our pursuit of perfection in the past, the merits we accrue will bring fruits ensuring our intelligence, prosperity and progress EFTA01161448 in our duties in the future and happiness in life in accordance with the Buddhist proverb: The accrual of merit brings happiness (Dh.33) and Merit is the refuge of beings in the world to come (J.iv.62) Furthermore, the faith of those who are steadfast the accrual of merit will be a shield to protect them from the temptation of evil ways. EFTA01161449 6. Setting oneself up properly in life: especially having the correct aim in life. Anyone who has accumulated all the foregoing virtues will be sure to have developedthe ability to be a teacher to themselves — with the flexibility to adopt appropriate to any circumstances — and will be able to earn their living successfully life is happy and such a person has worth to society. Blessing Twelve: Raising our Children 161 EFTA01161450 Apart from the virtues mentioned above, parents should be ultra-critical of table manners, sleeping habits (especially fixing bedtime) and working habits (especially working hours) because these are all fundemental ways of developing self-discipline. Without the parent's prodding, you can be certain that self-discipline will not develop by accident. A child should also be expected to make a contribution to the work of the household since EFTA01161451 they are small if theyare waited upon hand and foot and have too much time on their hands, in the end the child may be unable to help themselves. B.3.3 Giving your child an education Education is the gateway to knowledge and wisdom for your child. If a child has the chance for a full education. Then success will follow on in later life. Thus parents should instill in their children the EFTA01161452 love of education and reading by: 1. choosing good booksfor your child: The same thing goes for books which the children should read. Of course the books most suitable for the child to read are the ones that children are too lazy to read. Children would usually like to read any sort of book of cartoons or book with no serious content instead. It is up to parents therefore, to find ways to make useful books interesting to EFTA01161453 their children, such as getting the children to read such books aloud to their parents. 2. choosing good teachersfor your child: means taking your child to study with monks or masters of secular subjects. Parents can also help their children by finding a good school for their children and special tuition. Children might also need their parent's help in learning how to split their time between study and play. In study time children should EFTA01161454 study hard: in freetime, playhard. The problem with childrens' education is that all parents would like their children to be top of the class. They want their children to be accepted into the best school. Whether the child lives up to these expectations does not depend on their parent's wishes however, but on two important factors the child's past merits (gifted and wise from birth) and his environment. The parents EFTA01161455 have their strongest influence on the second factor. In any case the parents shouldn't expect too much from their child. Don't forget that childhood is short. Children cannot live by education alone; they must have time to play and need to have all sorts of experience of life, society and community in order to fully develop their capabilities. Children should have the chance to develop in all areas. If children do well in their studies they EFTA01161456 deserve praise from their parents. If children don't meet with much success in their studies, even though they have tried hard, there is no need to punish them or compare them with other children who have got better marks because it will undermine a child's self confidence. No matter what result the child gets, parents should be proud of their children for their diligence at the very least. The parents should notice if their child EFTA01161457 is gifted in any particular way or has any special interest art, music or sports for example. Parents should support their children in the things that take their interest in order to lead them to success and even if they aren't the best of students they will still be able to find happiness in life. Having provided worldly knowledge for their child, parents must complement it with knowledge of Dhamma. Where worldly knowledge looks after EFTA01161458 the body, knowledge of Dhamma cares for the mind. Dhamma, the food of the mind, helps to make children resilient towards problems and obstacles, never `chickening-out' or bored by their own tasks. Dhamma brightens childrens' minds giving them faith to develop their own virtue without end. Parents should introduce the Five Precepts to their children from an early age. Children should check for themselves each day whether their EFTA01161459 Precepts are intact or not, point by point. Apartfrom keepingthe Precepts parents should encourage their children to study Dhamma literature, be generous, perform chanting and meditate on a regular basis. Every good son should also have the chance to ordain as a novice or a monk at some time during his education in order to have first hand experience of the ideal Buddhist culture. Parents should always take the role of pointing out EFTA01161460 the applications of Dhamma knowledge in its connection with everyday life. 162 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living B.3.4 Approving an appropriate marriage partner As if giving all manner of basic needs and education is not enough, children even expect parents to give free consultation when in doubt about who to marry.When one's children are fully educated and are well established in their EFTA01161461 careers, if they wish to marry, then parents have two important duties firstly to finance their childrens' marriage and secondly to advise and take the final decision in their childrens' choice of spouse. Really who your child marries is not the important issue — it is whether they have the sixteen qualities of a "good friend" (see Blessing Two) upon which to build their own family. In fact, if as a parent, you can pursuade your EFTA01161462 child not to marry, you will be doing them the biggest favour of all because at best the happiness of married life is only miniscule compared with all the suffering family life brings. One's opportunity to do good deeds is seriously curtailed by one's marriage. The latter role of the parents is seen as an unnecessary intervention by many modern societies but Buddhists still feel it is justified because the choice of a marriage partner is a very EFTA01161463 serious decision to make and ideally should be at the discretion of someone with a lot of experience of the world. It is not the job of the parents to act as the matchmaker, especially when one's child is still not sufficiently well-educated or with enough work-experience to look after themselves.Young people in love tend to see the world through rose-tinted spectacles. An inappropriate marriage might ruin the rest of a couple's EFTA01161464 life and this is why parents are called upon by Buddhists to make the final decision as to the marriage partner. The reason is because it is no problem to find a good lover or a good wife, but to find a good mother for one's prospective family is much harder. Having hundreds of children is no problem. Even chickens can do it — but what to do to be a good parent — because a parent must give knowledge, thoughts and morality. EFTA01161465 That a son or daughter leaves the final decision up to their parents is one way of repaying their debt of gratitude to them. In any case however parents should be lenient in their discretion, using as a rule of thumb "the partner who we don't like but our child loves is better than the partner we love but our child doesn't like". The only circumstances which may cause friction between the two generations is when one's son or daughter falls EFTA01161466 in love with someone criminal or otherwise damaging to their future. B.3.5 Passing on your legacy to your child In non-Buddhist countries, where social values dictate that sons and daughters shouldn't expect to look after their parents in their old-age, the expectation also arises that they shouldn't come asking for money either. However, in Buddhist culture there are reciprocal duties between EFTA01161467 parent and child. That the child does not become independent of their parents when adult, looking after their parents when those parents are old) also gives some meaning to the parental duty of passing on their legacy to their children before they die. However, the child's worthiness to receive the legacy, certainly depends on their ability to have nothing to do with any of the Six Roads to Ruin [abhAyamukha]. EFTA01161468 B.4 Summary: The Art of Bringing up Children Bringing up children can be divided up into three periods: firstly, to conceive a good child in the first place by living our own life in a virtuous way. Secondly, to look after the embryo while it is in the womb, making sure it receives no physical or spiritual trauma. Thirdly, after birth to take care of the child's upbringing: not letting him do evil and encouraging him to do good by praise and EFTA01161469 remonstration, selecting good friends & books and setting a good example; giving him a decent education; helping choose a partner if he wants to marry and, lastly; passing on your inheritance to him at the appropriate time. Finally... 1. love the child but do not spoil him otherwise he may get into a bad habits; 2. don't love the child so much you don't dare to punish him; 3. don't overlook your duty of EFTA01161470 being a teacher to your child; Blessing Twelve: Raising our Children 163 4. be lenient and not overfussy; 5. give the child enough time, no matter how busy you are, you must try to find time for him or you will regret it later; 6. scold immediately when seeing the child doing something wrong however, be reasonable and do not lose your temper. Praise him when he does something good to encourage EFTA01161471 him to keep on doing good things; 7. train the child to work from an early age don't let him sit idle. Don't help him with what a child of his age should be able to do. Teach him to depend on himself as much as possible; 8. giving food, clothing, shelter and medicine is not enough parents must give their child Dhamma too... C. ILLUSTRATIVE TALES C.1 Ex. Buddha passes on legacy to son EFTA01161472 The person with the best human relations in the world must have been the Buddha. He taught his father King Suddhodana until he could become an arahant. He taught his wife YasodharA until she could become an arahant also. His son RAhula also became an arahant. RAhula asked to inherit the treasures of his father. Instead of giving him the throne he gave him the qualities of one free from defilement by having his child EFTA01161473 ordain from the age of seven. All of the rest of his family and friends became arahants. His teachers died before he was able to teach them, but the group of five ascetics who had helped him in the past, all became arahants. Thus we must take a look at how he brought up his own children as well. What had the Buddha used to bring up his son to be so brilliant? He had given him the seven noble treasures EFTA01161474 [ariyadhana or bahukAradhamma] (D.iii.163, D.iii.267, A.iv.5): 1. Faith [saddha] Believing in the things that are worthy of belief. 2. Self-Discipline [sEla] 3. Shame of Evil [hiri] 4. Fear of the consequences of Evil [ottappa] 5. Knowledge [bahusacca] 6. Self-Sacrifice [cAga] 7. Wisdom [pariiiA] C.2 Ex. TilamuEEhi JAtaka(J.252): Necessity ofpunishment Brahmadatta, son of the king of EFTA01161475 Benares, was sent to Takkasila to study. One day, when going to bathe with his teacher, he ate some white seeds which an old woman had spread in the sun to dry. He did this on three different days. On the third day, the woman reported him to the teacher and he was beaten. When Brahmadatta ascended the throne, he sent for his teacher, wishing to avenge this insult by killing him.The teacher did not come until the EFTA01161476 king had grown older, but when he did arrive, the sight of him so kindled the king's hatred, that he ordered him to be put to death. The teacher however, told him that if he had not been corrected in his youth, today he would be a highway robber. Convinced that the teacher's action had been due to a desire for his welfare, Brahmadatta showed his forgiveness and showed him all honour. The JAtaka was told in reference to a monk EFTA01161477 who showed resentment when advised. J.ii.277ff. C.3 Ex. AnAthapiAIika bribes son to learn Dhamma AnAthapiAIika also had a son who was a troublemaker. He bribed his son to go to the temple. The son went to the temple and curled up and went to sleep there. He didn't hear any teaching. As soon as he woke up he went home again to claim his prize. He got his prize and a new bribe — this time EFTA01161478 more — to go to the temple, listen to a sermon and remember one teaching well enough to relate to his father when he got home. If he could remember more than one teaching he would get more money. His father paid up each time and before long the son was going to the temple regularly. At first the son was only interested in the money. Later, the teachings started to be absorbed into his heart. One day the Buddha saw that the son EFTA01161479 was becoming more ready to understand the Dhamma and so that day He taught on a very difficult subject. The son tried his hardest to understand. Because the son's mind was concentrated on only one thing then he could become a stream-enterer. That day when he went home and his father offered him money he wouldn't take it saying that he already had some/64 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living EFTA01161480 thing more precious within himself DhA.iii. 1 89ff. C.4 Ex. Godha JAtaka (J.141): Perils of not selecting a child's friends At that time the baby iguanas and the baby chameleons were the same size. The father iguana warned his son not to play with the chameleons saying that they were of a different grade. The baby iguana answered back saying,"Oh Dad! Don't be such a snob. After all we're all reptiles EFTA01161481 together!" The father advised,"it's not just that we are reptiles, but we have a different physique and different habits. If you keep on associating with them, in the end, danger will come to our door." However, with the wisdom of a father, he knew that his stubborn son would not listen and the result would bring disaster not only to himself but to the rest of the family of iguanas too. Therefore the EFTA01161482 father set to work digging an escape route at the back of their burrow. Before long, it was just as the father Iguana predicted — the baby iguana grew fast and strong. The chameleons grew only a little at a time. The baby chameleons were weighing a few hundred grammes but the baby iguana was several kilogrammes in weight. Now when they engaged in play-fighting as they used to do, the chameleon was EFTA01161483 beginning to get seriously hurt. The iguana didn't realize his own strength. This time the chameleon had no mercy left for his old friend and it called to some hunters who were passing by and pointed to the iguanas' burrow saying that they could catch something to eat there. The hunters pushed dry grass into all the openings of the burrow and set fire to it sending smoke deep inside the burrow. The baby iguana came running out of EFTA01161484 the burrow and was killed by the hunters. Many other iguanas in the family suffered the same fate. Only the father, smelling the smoke, immediately realized that his prediction had come true and made his escape by the escape burrow that he had dug for himself. (At that time the father iguana was the Buddha himself, the baby chameleon was Devadatta and the baby iguana was a bhikkhu who had associated EFTA01161485 with Devadatta and had caused a schism of the SaIgha). J.i.487ff. Blessing Thirteen: Cherishing our Husband or Wife 165 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 Aim in Life: Marriage versus celibacy In some cultures, such as those of Indonesia, there are only two logical answers to the question, "Are you married?" — "Yes" or "Not yet"! Western culture might not see marriage as quite so much of an EFTA01161486 obligation, but it should be declared from the outset with, that just because the Buddha says "Cherishing One's Spouse" is a blessing, does not mean there are not superior ways to become blessed! Rather than advocating marriage, what the Buddha meant in teaching this blessing is to remind us to avoid the dire consequences of having a spouse and not cherishing them. Marriage can be a minefield — thus, if you don't have a spouse EFTA01161487 and don't plan on procuring one, you can skip this Blessing with a sigh of relief. For westerners, marriage has traditionally been portrayed as the high-point of happiness in life. The fathers of western attitudes — the Ancient Greek philosophers — have seeded the delusion of idyllic matrimony with the sentimental idea about a man and women mutually searching for the "other half' who will make them EFTA01161488 complete (— oblivious to the fact that you could say the same about rabbits, ducks, crows or any other sort of animal fulfilling its urge to mate). Consequently, celibacy does not feature visibly as a demographic option in the west. Buddhism, by contrast, bases its practices on the conviction that every person can be complete in themselves if they train themselves earnestly. As mentioned in Blessing Six, Buddhism EFTA01161489 idealizes the "exclusively spiritual" aim in life and thus the Buddha advocated a life of celibacy because life as a couple always leads to compromises in the intensity to which one can cultivate ultimate peace and purity of mind. In many non-western cultures around the world, celibacy is an option chosen more and more by professionals, especially women, who want to devote their time and efforts to their life's EFTA01161490 work — they realize that otherwise, because of the expectations of society, marrying would involve a conscious decision to drop their career. It is also traditional in many Asian cultures for couples to become celibate in their married relationship after their own children have grown up and left home. Those with the inner strength to renounce the married life can thereby enter the "fast-lane" of spiritual development — however, in EFTA01161491 practicality, renunciation of the married life is difficult, because it requires the ability to see through the illusory nature of the self and of the sense-pleasures. Most people realize the truth only when they are already married and are find themselves saddled for the rest of their lives with the more detestable side of their partner. Buddhism accepts the reality that renunciation is not for everyone, and thus does not EFTA01161492 decry marriage. Even if the idea of renunciation appeals to you, once Blessing Thirteen: Cherishing our husband or wife 166 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living married you cannot just shrug off the duties you have taken on yourself you need to take proper responsibility for creating happiness in your marriage to make a success of the path of EFTA01161493 life you have chosen for yourself. Although the married life doesn't correspond to the highest of aims in life, nonetheless, if one can cultivate contentment with one's spouse and thereby avoid promiscuity— it can give considerable leverage in one's self-development. Creating success in marriage is a major way of cultivating goodness of character. It is to such readers that this Blessing is directed. Wrongly EFTA01161494 approached marriage can be a nightmare turning the closest of lovers into the worst of enemies. By contrast a properly fulfilled marriage will be longlasting, avoiding the bitterness of divorce and creating blessings both for that couple and for society as a whole. However, be warned! Most of the content of the Buddhist Scriptures deals with monastic issues and thus tend to idealize those who see through the folly EFTA01161495 of their marriage, subsequently renouncing the world or those who marry only reluctantly out of respect for their parents' wishes, renouncing the world after the passing of their parents. A.2 Long-term Relationships: Marriage versus "living together" Buddhism advocates celibacy, it tolerates marriage, but prohibits promiscuity under its definition of "adultery". Although Buddhism's definition of EFTA01161496 marriage is not black and white (see §C. below) it is clear that Buddhism does not support sexual relations between partners who take no responsibility for one another or the possible consequences of their liaisons. Let us examine the worst scenario for some of the material and abstract issues touched upon as the consequence of sexual relationships: 1. sexually transmitted disease (possibly fatal) 2. pregnancy (possibility of EFTA01161497 handicapped child or subsequent miscarriage) 3. emotional trauma and regret 4. damage to reputation 5. general undermining of health 6. erosion of deeper meaning in the relationship by ephemoral pleasures Buddhism prohibits abortion (murder of an unborn child) but does not prohibit contraception. Recourse to contraception might superficially seem to remove responsiblity for "1" and "2" above — but closer examination reveals that EFTA01161498 contraception does not offer 100% protection from either. Who is going to be there for the girl to comfort her if she has a miscarriage? Who is going to pay for the upbringing of a child born out of wedlock? Will he still love her if she is disfigured by infection with HIV? These are consequences which apply irrespective of the cultural traditions of the society you find yourself in.The reader can answer for themselves what sort EFTA01161499 of relationship a couple needs to have built for themselves to be willing to shoulder all six of these possible risks implicit in their sexual liaison. For a couple to face up mutually to the responsibilities of living together and having sexual intercourse, demands enormous sacrifices on both sides. It is these sacrifices and responsibilities the Buddha teaches about in the Thirteenth Blessing. On a brighter note, living together EFTA01161500 should not be the "end" of young peoples' idealism— it can and should be the start of something yet more beautiful. At this point, it should be added however, that the western mass media consistently lull the public into a false sense of security concerning the risks of promiscuous sex. A.3 Sexual discrimination in Buddhism? In this day and age, many people are concerned about equal rights for men and EFTA01161501 women, but find that religions often harbour the worst of sexual discrimination. Before embarking upon the advice to married couples that follows, it is necessary to qualify the advice by saying the temprament of men and women are not the same in the eyes of the Buddha. Masculinity and femininity are distinct qualities equivalent to the elements of earth, water, fire and air that make up our bodies. One is not superior EFTA01161502 to the other, but harm can come about when one becomes enamoured these features of one's own or another's gender (e.g. SaOyoga Sutta A.iv.57). It is the attraction between the genders that causes harm, not the gender qualities themselves, Blessing Thirteen: Cherishing our Husband or Wife 167 because: "no sight, sound, scent or touch can overcome the mind of a man like those of a woman and no sight, sound, scent EFTA01161503 or touch can overcome the mind of a woman like those of a man" REpAdi Sutta A.i.1 and for as long as a man or a woman is under the control of the attraction they have for someone of the opposite gender, they will fail to make use of their nobler virtues such as wisdom and conscience. They will tend to forget that love has a nobler side which is motherly, brotherly, selfless or universal EFTA01161504 in place of love which is merely sensual, emotional, sexual or downright selfish. That women are often shown in a bad light in the Buddhist scriptures does not reflect the quality of women per se, but us because women are mostly referred to in stories used to threaten monks on the brink of disrobing (a relatively common reason for the Buddha to give a teaching). Elsewhere the Buddha shows women in a good light and admits that EFTA01161505 women have an equal chance of becoming enlightened as men. A.4 Disadvantages of not cherishing one's spouse With or without divorce, the consequences of marital neglect are far-reaching. If a husband and wife do not cherish one another according to the advice of the Buddha, the harm that will come to them can be concluded on three levels: I. Losing a sense of responsibility for their own human dignity: If a husband and EFTA01161506 wife lack self-discipline and don't fulfil the duties towards one another prescribed by the Lord Buddha, the first level of disaster which will happen to them is that they will lose their sense of responsibility for their own human dignity — this loss giving rise (at the minimum) to the following three undesirable symptoms: 1. Breaking the Precepts: The husband and wife might be unfaithful to one another EFTA01161507 leading to family problems, divorce, vengeful aggression and violence; 2. Running out of inspiration to perform virtue: When someone feels disappointed with life, the last thing they want to do is to be a good husband or wife to their partner or a good parent to their children; 3. Displaying violence in front of their children: If a parent has no respect for themselves, EFTA01161508 they will feel no embarrassment about losing their temper or being aggressive in front of the children. Such aggression, even if it is only verbal, leaves an unerasable traumatic impression on the children's developing mind quenching any possible warmth they might feel for that parent in the future; 2. Losing a sense of responsibility for the human dignity of others: If a husband and EFTA01161509 wife lack self-discipline and don't fulfil the duties towards one another prescribed by the Lord Buddha, the second level of disaster which will happen to them is that they will lose their sense of responsibility for the human dignity of others — this loss giving rise (at the minimum) to the following three undesirable symptoms: 1. Pessimistic world-view: If a husband and wife EFTA01161510 habitually loses their temper with colleagues or friends outside the home, it will eventually retard career progress and promotion prospects; 2. Biased personality: The insecurity of family life will lead them to take refuge within a clique of sympathizers, thereby losing the ability to associate sincerely with a wider society; 3. Accumulation of anger and vengefulness: The EFTA01161511 husband or wife will start to accumulate negative emotions because they feel that everybody is against them eventually they become preoccupied with looking for ways to "get their own back on these "enemies". 3. Losing a sense of responsibility for economic fairness in society at large: If a husband and wife lack self-discipline and don't fulfil the 168 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps EFTA01161512 towards Enlightened Living duties towards one another prescribed by the Lord Buddha, the third level of disaster which will happen to them is that they will lose their sense of responsibility for economic fairness in society at large — this loss giving rise (at the minimum) to the following three undesirable symptoms: 1. Recourse to "Roads to Ruin": If husbands or wives lose their sense of EFTA01161513 responsibility for economic fairness, eventually they will turn to "Roads of Ruin" such as alcohol for solace, in an attempt to "blot out" their suffering. 2. Economic hardship for the family: When the finances of the family are misdirected, the ones who suffer the most will be the children who experience neglect in their material and educational needs — exacerbating EFTA01161514 problems of juvenile delinquency; 3. Lack of harmony in earning livelihood: when the relationship between husband and wife is plagued by mistrust and suspicion if the couple eventually has to break-up, the certain victims will be the children in the family. The problems of the western quarter can be summarized down to two main points: I. Broken families: The manifest problem of broken EFTA01161515 families in our society exacerbates the already grave problems faced by young people as well as affecting a country's economic stability; 2. Misunderstanding of marriage: The covert social problem of misunderstanding of marriage stems from the fact that young people are getting married for the wrong reasons. Without any comprehension of how to lead a household, a majority of couples EFTA01161516 these days seem to be marrying merely to fulfil their sexual fantasies. However, once married, when the reality of the situation sinks in, they find themselves ill-equipped to make a success of the family life. It is ironic that "sex education" has become a compulsory school subject at a time when society is plumbing the depths of marital problems and promiscuity. EFTA01161517 In the olden days "sex education" was not taught, but somehow the "man-in-the-street" seemed to make less of a mess of his marital life! Maybe what they should be teaching in schools instead of "sex education" is "how to prepare yourself to be a good husband/wife" or "how to prepare yourself to be a good parent" 9 B. HUSBANDS AND WIVES B.1 Seven Types of Spouse EFTA01161518 In a teaching to SujAtA, the daughter-in-law of AnAthapiAIika who was causing considerable friction in her own marriage as a result of ill-chosen words, the Buddha enumerated seven different sorts of spouse — some desirable, some undesirable (A.iv. 91ff., J.269). We can use these categories as a mirror on our own situation — to throw light on possible room for improvement in our current or future relationships. The seven EFTA01161519 categories of spouse are as follows: I. A spouse like an enemy [vadhaka samAbhariyA]: such a spouse is partial to all sorts of violence. Always looking for the opportunity to kill. Sometimes a couple was not wholehearted about marriage or their marriage was arranged. Only after they have been together for a while does the real personality of the partner manifest itself and they will always be beating one another. EFTA01161520 Such a spouse is cruel to their partner instead of being compassionate, looking down on them, having no gratitude to them, and even going as far as attempting to kill their partner in some cases — a spouse with such characteristics is a spouse like an enemy; 2. A spouse like a robber [corE samAbhariyA]: No matter how much wealth the couple has, if one of the couple has such a character, EFTA01161521 then it is like having someone in the house who is burning money the whole time until there is nothing left e.g. by gambling or extravagence. The people of old used to say that seven robberies of your house are better than your house burned down (because at least robbers leave the house behind) — and your house burning down seven times is Blessing Thirteen: Cherishing our Husband or Wife 169 EFTA01161522 better than being married to a gambler (because even though the house burns down, the land is still left). With gamblers, all your property is still not enough — they will even run up debts for you to service. Such a spouse is full of greed and tries deviously to extract as much of their partner's money as possible for their self-interest, without thinking how hard they have had to work to earn it a spouse with EFTA01161523 such characteristics is a spouse like a robber; 3. A spouse like a boss [ayyA samAbhariyA]: Where the categories of spouse above threatened your life or your possessions, the boss spouse will threaten your honour — the sort who pulls your ears or treats you like a child in front of your friends. They may be lazy constantly awaiting the chance to sit down or lie down and rest instead of helping with their EFTA01161524 various duties, lacking helpfulness, and using threats and insults to goad their partner into doing their work in their place, but never accepting similar treatment from their partner — a spouse with such characteristics is a spouse like a boss; 4. A spouse like a mother [mAtA samAbhariyA]: A mother has unlimited love for her children, forgiving all of their mistakes. Such a spouse will forgive their partner for anything EFTA01161525 they do wrong. You will see the special features of such a spouse when their partner is ill or handicapped and they will look after their partner with the same care as they would look after one of their own children (without thinking of looking for a new partner). This is also true of a spouse whose partner dies when their children are still young, who carries on bringing up their children singlehanded EFTA01161526 without thinking of taking a new partner. Such spouses tend to be full of compassion, loving their partner, helping and being a credit to their partner, looking after their partner's health when they are ill, like a mother would look after her own children — a spouse with such characteristics is a spouse like a mother. 5. A spouse like a little sister [bhaginE samAbhariyA]: Such a spouse is EFTA01161527 almost the same as the motherly spouse, but a little more playful, lonely, moody and emotional — but at the same time truthful, honest and faithful. They tend to be ashamed of evil and fear the consequences of evil, respecting and looking up to their partner as if they were an older brother or sister — a spouse with such characteristics is a spouse like a little sister. 6. A spouse like a friend [sahAya EFTA01161528 samAbhariyA]: Such a spouse is one of similar background, tastes, education as their partner — maybe they have known their partner since childhood. Such a couple tend not to have much sense of respect towards one another. Their level of morality will be similar and they can live quite happily together. Such a spouse will tend to be generous and sincere — empathizing with their partner EFTA01161529 in all they do throughout their life like a friend who goes together through thick and thin — a spouse with such characteristics is a spouse like a friend. 7. A spouse like a slave [dAsE samAbhariyA]: Usually the intelligence of such a spouse is less than that of their partner. They will be honest, they may want to serve their partner to the utmost but they may make mistakes. Such a spouse EFTA01161530 tends to allow themself to be abused, slapped or beaten by their partner without becoming angry or vengeful and without blaming their partner — being contented to be completely dominated by them — a spouse with such characteristics is a spouse like a slave. Living together like these first three sorts couple is like being in hell from the time you are still alive. When such spouses die, then it will only be a continuation EFTA01161531 of the retribution from all the terrible things the husband and wife have done to one another. They will pass away into hell at the end of their lives as a result of the bad karma they have accumulated for themselves. The remaining four types of spouse will pass away into heaven at the end of their lives as a result of the good karma they have accumulated for themselves. They all represent marriages which EFTA01161532 have the chance of working out. Both husband and wife have a baseline of morality and are flexible. 170 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living The marriages with spouses from categories "4" to "7" are in decreasing order of stability. Thus if you are already married then ask yourself which category you have worked yourself into — as "4" is the most stable of all. C. DUTIES OF HUSBANDS AND WIVES EFTA01161533 C.1 Getting Married C.1.1 Choosing a compatible husband or wife In order for a couple to stay together, it is necessary that they are compatible in terms fo the level of virtues they possess — particularly the following four "virtues of compatability" [samajEvi-dhamma]: I. faith [sama-saddha]: husband and wife should have the same level of spiritual faith and the same level of "aim in life" 2. self-discipline [sama-sEla]: EFTA01161534 husband and wife should have the same standards of Precepts, manners and etiquette as one another; 3. self-sacrifice [sama-cAga]: husband and wife should have the same level of self-sacrifice in selflessly devoting themselves to generous deeds or helping others; 4. wisdom [sama-palifiA]: husband and wife should have the same level of wisdom, creativity, empathy and common-sense EFTA01161535 being on the same communicative "wavelength" — neither suffering overly from stubborness. In addition, concerning compatability, the Buddha warned of the perils of an old man bringing home a young girl as a wife: (When) an old man takes as a wife a vigourous young girl and cannot sleep, because of his possessiveness for her, this leads to his downfall. EFTA01161536 ParAbhava Sutta, SN.20 v.109-10 C.1.2 Marrying your spouse In the time of the Buddha, there was no such thing as a legal registration of marriages. A man and a woman mutually decided to accept each other as husband and wife and thereafter they lived together. Their marriage was carried out in the presence of the lay-community rather than in the presence of the spiritual community. In the present day, however, legal registration of EFTA01161537 a marriage is required. Details differ from country to country and Buddhism supports whatever complies with the Law. However, there remains no specific Buddhist ritual or procedure to conduct a marriage. Buddhism recognizes the traditions and cultures practised by people in different countries — hence Buddhist wedding rituals differ from one country to another. In general, there will be a religious service for blessing and to give EFTA01161538 advice to the new couple, performed either in the home or in the temple. Some hesitate over becoming "officially" married over concerns such as whether their marriage vows will substitute for affection as the bonds to hold the couple together! However, this misses the point of legalizing a marriage which is publically to recognize one's spouse. How do you think a wife would feel if her husband were too EFTA01161539 embarrassed to admit he had married her? or how would the husband feel if his wife refused to wear a wedding ring? Marrying is about showing each other due respect and this is the foundation of the trust which unifies the couple. C.2 Maintaining a married relationship C.2.1 The challenge of married life Life in a long-term relationship is infinitely more demanding on one's store of EFTA01161540 virtues than that of dating and first love. How can a couple preserve the joy of their initial encounters while developing the love and understanding to ensure a happy and stable marriage? How can partners respect their own dignity and that of their "better half' instead of running off to get a divorce or abortion after their first quarrel or dispute? C.2.2 Principles In a recent piece of research on the emotions, it was EFTA01161541 discovered that immediately conflicts within a marriage lead to "stone-walling" (i.e. the husband and wife are no longer on speaking terms), the further life expectancy of the marriage will not exceed three years (John Gottman, What Predicts Divorce). Conflicts can not be avoided in a marriage — the secret of happy marriage relies on keeping open channels of communication to deal with them. Blessing Thirteen: Cherishing our EFTA01161542 Husband or Wife 171 A surprise for many modern-day readers is that the Buddha never recommended "making yourself more attractive" or "being sexy" as a way to maintain a marriage. He addressed instead the gravest enemies of marriage: "distrust" and "suspicion". Maintaining good channels of communication according to the principle recommended by the Lord Buddha is to maintain a healthy "emotional EFTA01161543 bank account" [saIgahavatthu] with one's marriage partner. There are four ways of maintaining a healthy emotional bank account with your partner as follows: I. Giving resources [dAna]: If two people are going to live together they must be able to share what they have with their partner. Any place that lacks giving will be parched like an emotional desert. Once married, all the property EFTA01161544 once individually owned should be shared. To "keep back" something as an individual asset will only create suspicion — and suspicion kills marriages. Thus it is important to keep open a channel of communication in the marriage whereby one partner can consult the other if they are suffering or are having problems with material resources. 2. Endearing speech [piyavAcA]: A husband and wife should take care always to EFTA01161545 address each other with polite speech, even in the case they need to criticize each other. Sometimes if things become too informal, careless words may touch on the "views" of the other partner and disturb the peacefulness of the family. After marriage, one should use the same standard of polite of speech used before marriage! 3. Helpfulness [atthacariyA]: A husband and EFTA01161546 wife need to lend each other a helping hand. Also if one of the partners learns something new concerning spiritual knowledge, they should share it with their spouse. When a conflict arises in the marriage, there is a huge temptation to put all the blame on the other partner instead of taking collective responsibility — but if both are well-versed in spiritual teachings, the couple will tend to EFTA01161547 deal with the problem directly instead of merely looking for someone to blame. 4. Consistency [samAnatatta]: Both husband and wife have implicit duties in the marriage (see details below) and to the degree they live up to these duties they will avoid the suspicions of their partner. If a husband has decided that his wife should take responsibility for the running of the house, he should not EFTA01161548 subsequently come interfering in the household affairs. Sometimes "appropriateness" is not immediately evident for every situation — sometimes it is hard to sense what your partner expects of you — but if both partners meditate on a daily basis, they will tune in more easily to consistently harmonious behaviours. C.2.3 Five duties of a husband to his wife Based on these four principles, in EFTA01161549 the SiIgalovAda Sutta the Buddha advised of five duties a husband should fulfil towards his wife and five duties a wife should fulfil towards her husband. The duties of a husband are as follows: I. He must praise his wife: He should not keep a wife in secret. Once a man is married he should show off his wife in public, not keep his wife in secret. He should have a proper, lawful registration of his marriage. He should be EFTA01161550 careful to treat his wife with respect, not criticising her personally in front of inferiors. 2. He must never look down on his wife: Even though a couple is married doesn't mean that a husband will have an attitude of respect to his wife. Sometimes he may look down on her or even treat her like a slave or a pet animal. That a husband restrains himself from looking down on his wife in any way, shows his EFTA01161551 responsibility for the human dignity of others. 3. He must never be unfaithful: Because a Buddhist husband is a man of virtue it goes without saying that he refrains from the Four Defilements of Action [kammakilesa]: killing, stealing, adultery and telling lies. He would thus never be unfaithful to his wife, because doing so would destroy the human dignity of himself and his 172 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps EFTA01161552 towards Enlightened Living wife. The feelings of a person who is found guilty of sexual misconduct are described in the Sutta Nipata: Whatever fame and reputation he had before, of course vanishes . . .in the grip of his fantasies, he broods like a beggar. Hearing the outrage of others, he gets depr essed hearing the spread of gossip, he then hides in his own embarrassment. He EFTA01161553 cannot accept the criticism of others on this count, and may lie to those who try to counsel him. . . Tissametteyya Sutta, SN.160 v.817-20 4. He should give his wife the responsibility for looking after the house: To demonstrate his sincerety and trust for his wife, a husband must give his wife the final word in the organization of the household and the family without interfering. EFTA01161554 If his wife is a "working mother" it doesn't make her any less responsible for the affairs of the home and the family, but husband and wife will need to come to an agreement, according to the principles of the "emotional bank account", whereby she can manage to keep on top of her domestic responsibilities without being overloaded. 5. He should bring his wife gifts of clothing or jewellry: Such gifts express the EFTA01161555 love of a husband for his wife and his appreciation of her virtues. Such generosity can mend many marriages. It breathes a new air of life into a relationship. A husband should take his wife shopping for things she wants to buy. He should encourage her to do the things she wants to do sometimes to allow her to get out of the house occasionally. C.2.4 Five duties of a wife to her husband EFTA01161556 The duties of a wife to her husband are as follows: I. She see to the proper care of the household. The wife should see to it that the house become a heavenly mansion the house should be peaceful, the food nourishing and appropriate in taste to the age and the health of the family members. 2. She must take proper care of the `in-laws. The wife must look after her `in-laws' especially well (within the limits of her EFTA01161557 convenience). She must be especially careful what she says to them because a few ill chosen words can have serious consequences. 3. She must never be unfaithful: Because a Buddhist wife is a woman of virtue it goes without saying that she refrains from the Four Defilements of Action [kammakilesa]: killing, stealing, adultery and telling lies. She would thus never be unfaithful to her husband, because doing so EFTA01161558 would destroy the human dignity of herself and her husband. 4. She must take good care of the shared wealth: A wife should look after the shared wealth of the household responsibly being neither extravagent nor stingy. This implies that the husband goes out to work but entrusts his wife with the money for the administration of the family finances. 5. She must be conscientious in EFTA01161559 her responsibilities: Having been entrusted with the responsibility of looking after the household and the family she should see to it that these duties are properly fulfilled — rather than lazing around at home or doing other work to the neglect of the household. C.2.5 Reciprocal relationship between husband and wife From the SilgalovAda Sutta we learn that a husband EFTA01161560 has duties towards his wife and a wife has duties towards her husband. In the ideal world, both the husband and wife will fulfil their side of the bargain and in doing so, no danger will grow up in the relationship or for society at large — there will be happiness and prosperity both for husband, wife and society at large. If the husband fulfils his duties according to Blessing Thirteen but the wife doesn't, it can be said that EFTA01161561 the wife has done nothing to deserve such a good husband. In addition, certain harm will come to the family. If the wife fulfils her duties according to Blessing Thirteen but the husband doesn't, it can be said that the husband has done nothing to deserve such a good wife. In addition, certain harm will come to the family. Blessing Thirteen: Cherishing our Husband or Wife 173 If the neither the husband nor the EFTA01161562 wife fulfil their duties according to Blessing Thirteen, certain harm will come not only to the family but to society at large too. C.2.6 Ten further principles of happily married life Finally for the married couple we are fortunate to have passed down to us in the Buddhist tradition the ten-fold advice given to VisAkhA by her father Dhanalicaya on the day of her wedding EFTA01161563 (DhA.i.384ff.): 1. Don't let thefire inside go outside: don't go spreading the secret problems from inside the house for people outside to know about; 2. Don't let the fire outside come inside: don't bring gossip of problems from elsewhere into the house, especially gossip that is of no benefit to know; 3. Give to those who give to us: help those who have helped us in the past EFTA01161564 especially the parents of both the husband and the wife. Let them borrow things. If you lend things to people and they return them punctually, you should lend things to them a second time; 4. Don't give to those who give nothing to us: Don't lend things to people who never return them or return them late or to those who in the past have refused to help us even though it is withing their capability to do so; EFTA01161565 5. Whether they give or not, be generous anyway: Whether they have helped us before or not, if they are our relatives and they have fallen on hard times, you should help them anyway. It doesn't matter if they return money given or not because their inability to return it is through circumstances beyond their control; 6. Make sure that thefood is amenable: Make sure the meals served to your family are EFTA01161566 nutricious — and serve your in-laws with good food too. You may have to eat after your children have finished their meal but if all the family are well provided for in terms of food, you too will have no problems when it comes to eating; 7. Find an amenable place to sit: This means the wife must know relative level of respect due to others - for example it would be insulting to EFTA01161567 sit on a higher level than one's in-laws. 8. Find an amenable place to sleep: You should make sure that the sleeping place of everyone in the family is restful. Be prepared to get up before anyone else in the family and go to sleep when everyone else has already gone to bed. 9. Keep thefire going: that is to take special care of one's in-laws and husband when they are "on fire" (i.e. in a bad temper) even EFTA01161568 if they should speak in an unpleasant way to us, it is necessary to hold our silence instead of answering back — to say the right thing at the wrong time will only make the situation worse. Sometimes the wife must wait until things have "quietened down" before explaining the real reason for a situation. 10. Be respectful to the angels: to congratulate one's husband or inlaws when they do EFTA01161569 EFTA01161570 'sld90aJd aq1 d9o `snat91102 9 ct 1 tu9TIT 9pensiod .I :1u9udoi9A9plias p mulcts UT )Sa.1a1UT It watt u 2uun MU cq tn 0 92T LU I 9 paIaAO0STp 10Aa1 Fru-LI-ids e UO S911tpcp 1edtuoout Auy . A ip n1utds asnods JnoA lJoddns 1 °Nu 9q 1 p9ou os[e nox adziamid inniulds &mimic L z ? sp9ap poo2 Ia1)aq I 9A9 O1 9ITT IN a1 pploqs 1uaua2t moott9 Jo s pJommo ．310nI poo2 p。ouaadxa a A1 q JO poo2 2uttli9tuos listen to sermons and meditate. Some are scared to encourage their spouse to have too much involvement with spirituality in case they turn professional and leave them to bring up the family alone. Some men say, "I want a wife in the home not a nun." However, if one's wife stays at home and also keeps the Precepts then we should be thankful (especially for the third precept). In the same way, wives can forbid their EFTA01161571 husbands from going to the temple more easily than they can prohibit them from unfaithfulness. At least if they go to the temple regularly they will be more motivated to be faithful to their wife. 2. Teach your spouse how to do chanting so that they have a refuge for the mind. If people have fear and shame of evil then they have virtually no vulnerability to adultery. Chanting and re/ 74 EFTA01161572 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living spect for the Triple Gem is the basis of fear and shame of evil. C.3 Analyzing marriage breakdown In the olden days, if a piece of a equipment or a pair of shoes were worn or broken, the owner would always take care to have it mended as new. No matter how much effort it took to have it mended, the owner would be prepared to make the sacrifices EFTA01161573 because it would be unthinkably extravagent to buy another piece of the same sort of equipment or a new pair of shoes for as long as there were even a remote possibility of mending the old. Our modern society however, has turned into a `throwaway' society. We replace things merely because they are worn, or obselete or unfashionable and it is even a pleasure when something breaks because at last you have "a legitimate excuse" to EFTA01161574 buy a new one. Such attitudes towards possessions at the worst are wasteful, but when they are applied not to objects, but to friendships and marriages, they tend to lower one's threshold of patience and loyalty. Divorce is becoming so common in our society that in some countries, single-parent families are as common as those with both parents! How can we analyse a marriage that is breaking up in order EFTA01161575 to know whether a divorce is for the better or not? Basically there are only two scenarios — being bored of one's partner and being bored of marriage. In the first scenario one or both of the married partners feels that their marriage is not working and that they would be happier if they went to live with a certain other person. They want to "turn-in" their spouse in exchange for a new one! Such a divorce is a bad idea because what they fail EFTA01161576 to realize is that the faults they are trying to escape by divorce are not their ex-partner's, but their own! If they do divorce, they will take these faults uncorrected to their next marriage and history will repeat itself. Thus rather than asking for a divorce, the person should get down to improving their own character in earnest (starting with forgiveness and humility) thereby repairing the relationship.This scenario EFTA01161577 applies in 99% of cases. Be warned ! — you have no idea before going through with a divorce how destructive it will be for yourself, your children, your reputation, your spiritual development and for everyone else you and your spouse know. In the second scenario, if after all efforts to ameliorate your marriage you realize that the problem is not with your spouse, but with marriage in general, this may be a valid reason for a divorce. In EFTA01161578 such a case, you see thr ough the folly of being involved in a relationship at all. If the reason you want a divorce, is in order to upgrade the intensity of your spiritual vocation by leading a life of celibacy, with the genuine intention never again to enter into a new relationship,this is a valid reason to obtain a divorce. One should however, minimize the negative effects for any children you may have, by waiting first until they are old enough to be EFTA01161579 independent of you. D. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES D.1 Metaphor: Tongue & Teeth in close proximity When chewing one's food, if one's teeth and tongue fail to co-operate, biting one's tongue can be painful enough to bring tears to the eyes. In the same way, if a husband and wife fail to be helpful and understanding to one another, apart from making EFTA01161580 no progress in their married life, tears can be expected too in the long-term. D.2 Ex. Love beyond the grave In the Tang Dynasty an emperor who liked to perform a lot of merits. He had an empress who was not interested in any form of good deeds.Even when their country was invaded, the empress would not make any merit to help the situation. When her husband sent her to make a merit she only pretended to go. When she came back she EFTA01161581 lied saying that she had already made the merit he sent her to do. The empress died in advance of the emperor. One day when the emperor was sleeping he drempt he saw the empress as a ghost crying and calling for help. In the morning the king thus called an assembly. He asked the monks what could be done. The monks told him that he needed to make a merit and transfer the merit to the late empress. If the ghost EFTA01161582 was able to rejoice in the merit then she would escape from her ghostly rebirth for something better. The emperor thus organized a merit-making fit for Blessing Thirteen: Cherishing our Husband or Wife 175 an emperor. He donated all the gold in his treasury, all the servants, all the carriages, chariots and horses. He transferred merit for the next seven days. He slept again and drempt that he saw the empress now free from distress, thanking EFTA01161583 him. The tale of the emperor was therefore told by many generations of Chinese until more recently the whole subject of transferring merit has been misunderstood. Because the normal people don't have the wealth of an emperor to make merit, they burn paper money, paper Mercedes, paper servants etc. to burn for their deceased relatives. It is tempting to think that nowadays deceased Chinese relatives EFTA01161584 get only ashes! D.3 Ex. Reluctant marriage: the nun (DhA.iii.147ff.) There was once a girl who had been going to the temple since the age of seven and had wanted to be a nun right from that time. Her parents didn't let her, saying that she must finish her studies. Thus as a child she did her duty to her best. When she finished her studies she asked her parents' permission to become a nun, EFTA01161585 but they refused saying that they wanted to see her married. Thus she was married and continued to do the best of her duties as a faithful wife. One day the husband was going to take his wife to a fair and said to her `go and put on all your best jewellry so that you look the best at the fair'. The wife said, I don't see the point on putting on any more jewellry than this. The husband asked why not because he had EFTA01161586 already bought so many nice items of jewellry for her to wear. The wife said that really none of us have any beauty. The skin on our body just hides the putrescence inside ourselves'. The husband teased `with that sort of thinking wouldn't you be better off as a nun?' The wife replied, `actually it is my dearest wish if you would only give your permission.' The husband allowed her and after EFTA01161587 becoming a bhikkhuAi within a very short space of time, she could become enlightened. Whatever duty she had had to do in the past she had always done her best, thus when she was a nun, before long she could achieve what she had set out to do. D.4 Ex. Reluctant marriage: MahAkassapa (Ap.u.583) Kassapa was the son of a millionnaire. His future wife was also the daughter of a millionnaire. Each EFTA01161588 of them lived in distant cities. The two families had heard the reputation of the other family's child and before long they sent messangers to arrange the marriage. Neither the bride nor the groom were interested in marriage. When they were both forced to marry then they did not rebel. However, because both of them were more interested in the Dhamma, after they were married they always slept in separate rooms. Later when both of their EFTA01161589 parents had passed away, they persuaded each other to ordain. The husband became a monk. The wife became a nun. They left their house, gave away all their possessions. When they came to a fork in the road, they agreed that if they went together they might cause gossip so they decided to go their separate ways. Before long both of them met with those who could teach them the Dhamma and both could become EFTA01161590 arahants with ease. D.5 Ex. Married spite beyond the grave (DhA.i.47ff) There was once a good husband and wife. The wife was barren and felt sorry for the childless husband so she found a mistress for him. Both the wife and the mistress were good friends but all of us still have defilements and cannot be trusted. When the mistress got pregnant, the husband was so pleased that he lavished more affection on his mistress than EFTA01161591 on his wife. This made the wife envious because she thought to herself, "even when the child has not yet been born, my husband is already treating me with indifference. If the child is born, the husband will certainly treat me with no more respect than a pig or a chicken around the house." Thus she thought `time is of the essence' and found some poison that would cause abortion and tricked the mistress into drinking it. The first EFTA01161592 child was aborted. When she became pregnant a second time, the wife did the same again. By the third pregnancy, the mistress worked out what was happening and refused to take the `medicine' thus there was a fight between the wife and the mistress. The wife killed the mistress who was almost defenceless because of her pregnancy. When the husband saw what had 176 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living EFTA01161593 happened he killed his wife. Before the mistress died she was so vengeful that she made the vow that she would kill and eat all the children of that wife in every future lifetime. When the mistress died she was reborn as a cat in the same house. The wife was born as a chicken in the same house. However many eggs the chicken laid, the cat would eat them all. The chicken was thus angry and before it died made the vow to eat all the EFTA01161594 children of the cat in the next lifetime.The chicken was reborn as a tiger and the cat was reborn as deer. The tiger ate all the baby deer. This carried on the same until the final lifetime when the wife was born as a maneating ogress. The mistress was born married to the same husband again.The man-eating ogress ate up the first and second children of the couple. When the third child was born, the mother realized EFTA01161595 in time and quickly took the child to where the Lord Buddha was staying. As soon as the maneating ogress followed the mother into the temple, its temptation to eat people disappeared. The Buddha summoned both of the two. The Buddha looked at their previous lives and made the pictures of their past visible for others to see as well. Having seen the pictures, both of the women knew the reasons for everything and so EFTA01161596 were able to forgive one another. The ogress was able to become a stream-enterer. The mistress attained faith in theTriple Gem.The ogress didn't know how to earn her living so the mistress brought her home and looked after her like a daughter. The ogress knew in advance what the seasons of the year would be like — whether there would be drought or flood and the forecast she passed on to her caretakers EFTA01161597 and they were able to become wealthy. The moral of this story is don't go looking for mistresses to help any situation because we all still have defilements. Blessing Fourteen: Not Leaving One's Work Undone 177 Blessing Fourteen: Not Leaving one's Work Undone A. INTRODUCTION A.1 The "work ethic" in Buddhism Like many other spiritual EFTA01161598 traditions, Buddhism is a religion which supports the "work ethic". Buddhism is not a religion to tolerate lazy people. Even if you have already fulfilled all the blessings in this grouping by cherishing your parents, children and spouse, if you neglect to be lively in earning your living, harmony in the family will not come about because of financial difficulties. From a financial point view is necessary to devote oneself to earning EFTA01161599 one's living in order to support one's children, to have a legacy to pass on to one's children, to support one's spouse and cherish one's parents. In Buddhism it is also seen as dutiful to work hard because out of gratitude, one recognizes that in order to come to working age at all, we are a result of considerable investment of time, money, education, love and patience by parents, teachers and state alike and if we don't put our skills EFTA01161600 into action, then that investment and good will would go to waste. Thus in Buddhism a lazy person is also seen as an ungrateful person. Supposing you are already someone who has knowledge (Blessing Nine), practical skills (Blessing Ten), it doesn't mean that you will automatically be effective in doing your work. Some people with the best of education and experience, make no impact on their work if they never get EFTA01161601 round to doing it. Many think that the reason for procrastination is laziness on the part of the person involved. However in recent academic studies, it turns out that the reason we don't do things even when we know it is a good idea is often much more varied. • procrastination coming.from fear: especially the fear of being judged to lack ability. Such people have an inferiority complex over their ability and EFTA01161602 would rather be seen to fail in a task because of procrastination (lack of time) that because of lack of ability. Thus the slip-shod work of the final minute rush means that procrastination is an excuse for mediocrity. • procrastination because of perfectionism: some people have been brought up with the fear of doing too well, or appearing too keen, or being a "goody-goody". Consequently they procrastinate, EFTA01161603 not putting in their best, so that if the results come out well, it doesn't look intentional or magnifies the myth of `latent ability'. • procrastination from the misconception that work expands to fill the time available: Some people are disorganized to the degree that they feel they have no control over the time they spend on any task. Therefore they leave tasks to the last minute in order to `save EFTA01161604 time'. However the results of the work often leaves a lot to be desired. • procrastination because of resentment of control: (e.g. when a person doesn't like their boss). Here procrastination serves as a way to give power to the underdog, to say "get off my back", as a sort of game where people try to beat the clock, or 178 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living reminding others of things they are EFTA01161605 starting to take for granted (when the person is not assertive enough to say `no' directly). • procrastination is sometimes used to control distance in relationships: to make a person more or less reliant on another person or persons. Whatever the reason, the Buddha taught that procrastination either in worldly or spiritual work will limit one's ability to earn one's living and the result will be to destroy harmony in EFTA01161606 one's family life. B. WHAT IS WORK? B.1 Definition of work: physical and spiritual When we talk of `work' in a religious context we mean `a means of earning our living'. We cannot survive without money. We have to have something to eat but don't forget that food is of many types . . . It is just like a tree needs food, but the food that nourishes it is sucked up through the roots.The food for a light bulb is electrical current. EFTA01161607 Because work is simply a means of earning our living we thus divide work into two main components, neither of which we can afford to leave undone: • foodfor the body: For our body we need solid food. To get the food we need for our body we must find ourselves a job or a career. Work (physical) means the means by which we can nourish our body and its scope also reaches to EFTA01161608 such things as maintaining harmony with the other people around us. • foodfor the mind: food suitable for the mind is "merit" i.e. the fruits of our good deeds and spiritual development. Working on the mind doesn't just mean feeling contented the whole of the time, but also to develop the mind to become wiser too. C. UNFINISHED WORK C.1 Why work left unfinished Some people in an office get a EFTA01161609 reputation for leaving a backlogue of work. Every piece of work which involves them in any way can be easily found because it is always on that person's desk unfinished. They have two baskets on their desk, an `in' basket and an `out' basket. The `in' basket is always stacked up higher than their head, but there is never anything in the `out' tray. Thus if you have lost a particular document people in the office say playfully EFTA01161610 "If you want to find finished work go to Mr. A but if you want find unfinished work go to Mr. B because it is all on his desk!" The same is true for students always leaving the revision until the exams are close. If you want to look at why work is left unfinished, in almost every case you can generalize down to four basic reasons: 1. wrong timing: Doing the work at the wrong time or with the wrong timing. If you do the work at EFTA01161611 the wrong time such as ploughing a field out of season, weeds will choke the bare soil before you manage to sow your crops (hasty in things that don't require it) or else wait until it's too late before you start doing something (slow in things that should have been finished long ago) e.g. someone who doesn't study when he has the opportunity as a child and has to do his studies when he too old to remember anything. ( `Make EFTA01161612 hay while the sun shines' but More haste less speed'). Same for people who wait until they are old before becoming interested in training the mind. Work which needs to be done patiently (e.g. throwing a pot of clay) or driving at the same speed as the rest of the traffic. Meditation needs you to be patient, like waiting for crops to grow or like a hen hatching an egg where the mother hen must wait thirty EFTA01161613 days whether the mother hen must wait thirty days regardless. If things have a fixed period or cycle there is not point rushing them. Also if you rush into something and do it wrongly as the result you will waste both time, money and morale because instead of doing it only once (correctly) you have to do it three times (do it wrongly, undo it and re-do it) and on every time there is no satisfaction from your EFTA01161614 achievement. Better to do things cautiously so you can get it right from the start. With meditation also you cannot rush to bring the mind to a standstill. You cannot achieve overnight success in meditation (except for 0.00001% of people in very exceptional circumstances).You have to be able to tell whether what you are doing is the sort of work where the time spent is fixed or whether it is EFTA01161615 Blessing Fourteen: Not Leaving One's Work Undone 179 something that can be hurried. If it is to take a fixed length of time, then you have to put up with waiting. However, if it is something that can be done more quickly then it can be hurried so that you have more time to speak to others. 2. wrong technique: An example of doing things by the wrong technique is trying to work individually when the task requires teamwork EFTA01161616 or dividing up your time wrongly spending too long doing any one question in an examination paper — the result is that you run out of motivation to do the work at all. 3. never getting started: There are many reasons why people prevaricate instead of starting to do things. One reason is those wait for the auspicious time by studying horoscopes. Meditators however, are those who take their EFTA01161617 destiny in their own hands and don't wait for astrologers to organize their lives for them. Any time when you get round to doing good deeds, then the simple act of getting down to doing it will be auspicious itself. If you want to know whether it is the auspicious time to do something or not, don't waste money to see a fortune teller but instead use your powers of observation and experience to see EFTA01161618 whether you are ready and prepared to do the task in hand. If by common sense you have discerned that you are ready to do something, there is a good chance that getting started will yield success. 4. not genuine in one's efforts: Not being genuine in one's efforts means getting one's priorities wrong. Instead of realizing how important your work is, you neglect it in favour of something EFTA01161619 more trivial. Common distractions that get in the way of our work are as follows: • eating. The way to cure such a habit is to go on a meditation retreat where you must eat food all mixed up together or eat only one meal a day. • sleeping. To train yourself to sleep no more than you need to you have to train yourself from an early age. • alcohol: because they are more interested in EFTA01161620 consuming alcahol or other intoxicants that dull the mind. To overcome such a tendency you need to abstain from consuming these substances. • courting lovers: Some do no work because they are more interested in boy/girlfriends and spend all day looking in their diary. . . • entertainment: some take their leisure time more seriously than their time at work to the EFTA01161621 neglect of earning their living. • gambling: because they are more interested in gambling — they have no time for working and burn up all their savings. • badfriends: modelling oneself on bad friends who neglect their work will make us more lazy • laziness: when people become lazy they have excuses for everything excuses — where work is concerned if it is not too hot it is too cold, if EFTA01161622 it is not too early it is too late. • incompatible working hours: This is not the same as being more interested in sleeping but leads to failure in work because they work at a time which doesn't fit in with other people. D. STRATEGIES FOR NON-PROVARICATION D.1 Those who are successful in work Thus if you want to be successful in whatever you do you must: 1. Do it at the right time EFTA01161623 2. Do it in the appropriate way 3. Get round to doing it 4. Do it enthusiastically and conscientiously The signs of someone who will be successful in their work are as follows: I. Approaching work in the appropriate way [paEirEpalcArE]. You must have learned from Mangala 7 and 8 before you can achieve this. When you are new to work you have to learn from your errors. You need to be observant EFTA01161624 and patient to obtain this characteristic. 2. Loving work and challenges to one's ability [dhuravA]. Not to look down on work of any sort. 3. Keenness and quickness in work and enthusiastic, lively & active [uEEAtA]. If you do find 180 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living that you are lethargic then maybe you should take up sport. (/Oavaka Sutta S.i.214) EFTA01161625 D.2 Recipe for success in worldly & spiritual work Success in one's work will be attained more easily, whether it be worldly or spiritual work, if one is able to put into practice the following four principles called the "Four Foundations of Success" [iddhipada] applicable to all types of work, worldly or spiritual. Practising towards success comes in four stages: 1. initial motivation [chanda]: With work you EFTA01161626 need the willingness to get down and do the work. Without this, you will never get down to doing it. For spiritual practice it is also important to try to find the initial motivation to cultivate yourself. Don't wait for the mood to work or cultivate yourself to accidentally happen — look for ways to create the right mood! It means looking forward to the practice of meditation. Sitting down to EFTA01161627 meditate like a mercenery or even forcing yourself to do the practice will never give you the results for which you are seeking. 2. initial application [viriya]: The next thing which you require is actually to get down to work in the proper way starting as you mean to go on. This often means achieving an optimal balance between productivity and enjoyment (mindfulness and EFTA01161628 comfort for meditation). 3. sustained application [citta]: Starting out well is not enough however, and you have to be able to keep up the good work if you are to succeed. You need to be consistent about your work or spiritual practice meditation setting aside time for both each day — and not giving in to exceptions and excuses. For work you need to keep going until you bring EFTA01161629 the task to completion, for meditation you need to cultivate mindfulness until it is something you can maintain twenty-four hours-a-day. 4. retrospective analysis [vEmaOsA]: you need to back over your work and give yourself feedback looking for ever better and more efficient ways to do the same task in the future. In spiritual practice you need to be observant. You need regularly to examine EFTA01161630 your own performance remedying your weaknesses as quickly as possible so that they no longer impede your worldly and spiritual progress. If you experience success, you should remember the reasons for your success so that you can apply it on future occasions. D.iii.221, Vbh.216 If you can follow these four simple principles in your professional and spiritual work, success is only EFTA01161631 just around the corner. E. ILLUSTRATIVE TALES E.1 Metaphor: Those who are patient... Those who work without interest whether it is hot or cold, persevering like the toughest of grass, dedicating their manly strength to their business, will not fall away from happiness. E.2 Metaphor: Just as dung accumulates on a pig's tail The nature of dung on the tail of a pig is to accumulate with the passing of the days EFTA01161632 making it increasingly difficult for the pig to find happiness in its daily life. The work a person leaves unfinished is of the nature to impede their prosperity. A person's value is proportional to the work they complete. The work they leave undone detracts from their value. E.3 Ex. CuOakaseEEhE JAtaka (14) There was once a millionnaire and his servant who were travelling in a cart in the EFTA01161633 middle of India. The millionnaire saw a dead mouse at the side of the road and pointed it out to his servant saying `if someone had proper principles of working as a salesman even with such a dead mouse as this he could set himself up in life.' The servant immediately got down from the cart and allowed the millionnaire to go home alone. He picked up the mouse and because he knew a lot of people in the EFTA01161634 area, he selected a house where he knew someone with compassion who kept cats was living and took the mouse there. He knew that compassionate people won't kill mice but at the same time the cat has Blessing Fourteen: Not Leaving One's Work Undone 181 to have something to eat every day. He sold the mouse to the householder for a few cents. He used the few cents to buy some sugar-cane juice from the people crushing the cane. He EFTA01161635 asked for another bucket of plain water. He took the water and the sugar cane juice to the gate of the town. He waited until the flower-gatherers from the palace came back from where they had been picking flowers outside the city wall. Of course they were tired and thirsty as they came to the gates. He gave them a glass of plain water to drink first of all. After they had slaked their thirst, he gave them a second glass EFTA01161636 of sugar-cane juice. The palace attendants didn't know how to pay the man so they gave him each a handful of jasmine flowers. The man took the flowers and sold them for a small profit. He had a little more money than before. He bought more sugarcane juice and collected a little more rain water, he sold all of it to the flower gatherers on the second day, and got enough money for a second round of sugar-cane juice enough for the EFTA01161637 people collecting firewood. The people with the firewood drank the sugar-cane juice and each left him with a bundle of firewood. He sold the firewood and got even more sugar-cane juice. He kept his eyes and ears open and noticed that there had been a storm in the night. In the royal forest there were many broken branches and tree-trunks on the ground. He took his sugar-cane juice along to the forest. He offered EFTA01161638 to the forest keeper to be the one to clear up all the broken branches and the forester agreed because he would be able to have an easy day. He therefore offered sugar-cane juice to the children running and playing nearby and the children cut and gathered all the broken branches together into a huge pile. He sold the branches as firewood to a potter and bought a big barrel. Where he had sold sugar-cane juice by the bucket EFTA01161639 before, now he sold it by the barrel. He bartered sugar-cane juice for flowers, firewood and even grass-fodder. One day a big caravan of traders arrived at the gate with many hungry horses etc. He told the stable boys in the palace not to sell their fodder to anyone and he sold his own fodder at a high price to the traders. It was not enough and they even took the fodder from the palace to sell to them at the same high price so EFTA01161640 that everyone got a profit. He carried on working like this until before long he was able to put down a deposit on a trading ship. His ship kept trading until he had amassed a fortune of 100,000. In the end he returned to the old millionnaire who had been his master and presented him with the 100,000 saying that all of this wealth had come from the policy of seeing benefit in a dead mouse. The millionnaire was so impressed that EFTA01161641 he gave the man a fortune of a million and also his daughter's hand in marriage. E.4 Ex. Nakkhatta JAtaka (J.49) There was once a bridegroom who was due to be married the next day. He was about to go to the wedding reception when a fortune-teller came and warned him that today was not an auspicious day for a marriage. The man believed the fortune teller and decided not to turn up for his own wedding. EFTA01161642 The bride waited and waited and then in impatience married someone else. The bride took all the first bridegroom's property in compensation for his having broken the marriage contract and married someone else. 182 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Blessing One: Not Associating with Fools 183 The Fifth Group of Blessings EFTA01161643 "Becoming a Pillar of Society" The Fifth Grouping of the Blessings of Life is usually referred to as "Becoming a pillar of society". The Group consists of "Being Generous" (15), "Practising the Dhamma" (16), "Looking after your extended family" (17) and "Working in a blameless way"(18). In the Fourth Grouping, we have learned EFTA01161644 about harmony in the family life (where applicable) — doing things like recognizing and repaying the debt of gratitude we have to our parents will stimulate our awareness of good deeds and the harmony of the family life will be a foundation and a springboard to the real performance of virtue which we are to meet in this Fifth Grouping. Until now EFTA01161645 if we have fulfilled all the blessings we have learned from 1 - 14 we can say that we have done no more than `break even' in our virtues. We have managed to steer clear of the minefields of everyday life that might cripple future efforts to accumulate merit. Thus in this fifth grouping we start to explore the virtues where we do truly start to give EFTA01161646 something back to society and the world about us. We are sufficiently mature in our cultivation of good deeds to start to produce virtue for ourselves — first in basic ways (in the Fifth Grouping) but subsequently in more and more advanced ways. The fifteenth blessing of generosity can be regarded the first stepping stone on the path of actively producing EFTA01161647 virtues. It will start to make us into the sort of person who society can trust and look up to. It will make us a person who can be considered a `pillar of society'. 184 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Blessing Fifteen: Generosity 185 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 Introduction to Blessing Fifteen Buddhism places great importance on generosity because it is seen as the origin of EFTA01161648 wealth. The Law of Karma states that "we shall reap what we sow" and if we provide for the happiness of others through our generosity, the karmic fruit will be that we will always be provided for in our own happiness and convenience. Thus Buddhism sees generosity less in a material way (benefit for the recipient) than in its spiritual fruits (benefits to the giver). A.2 The Importance of Giving A.2.1 Generosity is a basic virtue EFTA01161649 You may ask yourself why, if generosity is so fundemental, why it is not the first blessing. However, you must not forget that all the previous Blessings are necessary preparation for the actual performance of good deeds and recognizing and setting a foundation for their accrual. From Blessing Fifteen onwards, all the content of the blessings is concerned with real good deeds. There are five good reasons for choosing generosity as EFTA01161650 a first priority in doing good deeds (Siam Rath Edn. 33/2/428): I. It is thefirst step on the stairway to heaven: It engenders the compassionate way of thinking characteristic of an angel even from the time one is still living in the human realm; 2. It is like provisions that you can take with you: If you have been generous to others in your past, then in the future you will be on the receiving end of generosity. No matter how EFTA01161651 far your spiritual journey may take you, with the provisions you have stored up for yourself through our generosity, you will be sure never to fall on hard times. 3. It is the direct path to Nirvana: It clears the way for doing other sorts of virtue with ease. To give an example, when peasants slaughter animals it is not that they don't know the karmic retribution of what they do — it because of EFTA01161652 force of circumstances of their poverty. If you are poor it iS hard to keep the precepts properly. If you are poor, the opportunity to sit and listen to a sermon is hard to find. Even the price of the bus to the temple is hard to find. If you are poor, then you have little chance of obtaining a good education. If you are poor, you won't see the point of sitting for meditation. If you are generous then EFTA01161653 it will stop you from falling into poverty and the other sorts of good deed will come naturally. 4. Generosity is a splendid means of escaping the cycle of rebirth. Anyone who is going to escape the cycle of rebirth must have faith in the performance of good deeds. As for the good deeds for which it is easiest to see the fruition in the here and now, there is nothing to beat generosity. 5. Generosity purifies the mind: EFTA01161654 The most direct way we can cure ourselves of stinginess lurking Blessing Fifteen: Generosity 186 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living in the mind is to be generous. The more you give, the more you rid yourself from stinginess in the mind and the more and more control you gain over your desires. A.2.2 Generosity makes the world go round EFTA01161655 You can offer money to hire a person but if they don't want to do the job, you can offer the highest salary in vain. Generosity is like the downpayment needed to get a new project rolling. If if wasn't for the generosity of our parents, how could we have survived after the moment of our birth? If it wasn't for the extra hours of work put in by our teachers, would we be so able to make sense of the world around us today? Thus it is true EFTA01161656 that before all else one must practice generosity. A.2.3 Respectfor generosity makes you respectable too! Some people complain that others show them less respect than they deserve. If we are moved by the value of giving, then others will respect us for that (i.e. we have respect for generosity) then when our generosity gives its fruit then we too will be the object of respect. If you find that others never treat EFTA01161657 you with much respect then the situation is telling you that your attitude to giving is a little reluctant. Thus if you find you are not being treated with enough respect, then don't go blaming others, put the blame on yourself first. Generosity is thus an indispensable prerequisite for being a `pillar of society'. B. GENEROSITY B.1 Definition of Generosity The Pali word `dAna' means literally `to give'. In this Blessing, we take generosity to EFTA01161658 mean: `sacrificing your own possessions for the benefit of other people, wholeheartedly, with the intention to honour the virtue of that person, or to assist a person of similar social standing, or to help someone who is worse off than ourselves.' If you are not wholehearted about giving then it cannot be called `dAna'. The Buddhist usage of the word `generosity' is therefore broader than the EFTA01161659 equivalent word `charity' in Christian culture which isusually restricted to giving to the poor and the sick. In the spiritual sense, `dAna'sometimes refers to our intention to give, sometimes it refers to the thing we want to give, sometimes it refers to abstention from wrong-doing (e.g. not seeking vengeance from someone who has harmed you). In this particular blessing we will speak of only the first two instances of usage of the word, EFTA01161660 because we have already mentioned abstention from wrong-doing in Blessing Nine on "self-discipline". B.2 Categories of Generosity (A.i.90) There are two main categories of generosity 1. Concrete generosity [amisadAna] 2. Abstract generosity [dhammadAna] Material generosity can be subdivided by the quality of the gift: 1. Giving things of worse quality EFTA01161661 than you would use yourself [dAnadAsa] 2. Giving things of equal quality that you would use yourself [dAnasahAya] 3. Giving things of better quality than you would use yourself [dAnasAmE] Or by the exclusivity of the gift (M.iii.254-6, A.iii.392) 1. Personal [patipuggalikadAna] 2. Community [saIghadAna] Or by the nature of the gift (see BlessingFive §C.2 for further details), generosity can be divided into: giving useful material objects EFTA01161662 [vatthudAna]; giving worldly knowledge [vidhayadAna]; giving spiritual knowledge [dhammadAna]; forgiving [abhAyadAna]; humility [apacAyana]; service [veyyAvacca]; transfer of merit [pattidAna], and; rejoicing in the merit of others [pattAnumodanA]. B.3 Reasonsfor Giving Some reasons for giving are less noble than others —therefore it is useful to study the variety available to that we can select the noblest. EFTA01161663 According to the Buddha's teaching in the PaEhama DAna Sutta [A.iv.236] there are eight different reasons why people give gifts: I. giving because in the hope of getting something in return [Asajja dAnaO deti]; Giving because wants something in return. Sometimes people Blessing Fifteen: Generosity 187 give because they want others to see them doing so, or they want to become famous as the EFTA01161664 result; 2. giving out offear [bhayA dAnaO deti]; Giving out of fear. Some give gifts to others because they are afraid that if they don't give something the recipient will create problems for them (e.g. protection money). Such giving can even include being scared someone won't love us so we give them things to win their love; 3. giving in order to repay past favours [adAsi me ti dAnaO deti]; Giving in order to EFTA01161665 repay a debt of gratitude we have to someone else; 4. giving to procurefuture favours [dAsati me ti dAnaO deti]; Giving with the thought that the recipient will repay our favour in the future — e.g. Mr.A gives Mr.B some sweets so that the next day he can invite himself to eat a meal at Mr.B's house; 5. givingfor giving's sake [sAhu dAnaO ti dAnaO deti]; Giving for the joy of it - EFTA01161666 perhaps because spontaneously inspired by a particular monk or seeing a group of children without transport to go to the temple and gladly paying the cost of hiring a bus for them. 6. giving out of sympathy for the monks [ahaO pacAmi, ime na pacanti, na arahAmi pacanto apacantAnaO adAtunaO ti dAnaO deti]; Knowing that monks cannot cook rice or catch fish to feed themselves out of fear that the EFTA01161667 EFTA01161668 9JeSUOSBa9Icpssod 9tp..mj omi '[I)9p o tuyp O tq11e p 1Ia uto I pout Ty t3] pum 户雨？p alp adoichui dapdo 2uhtig 篆 fpuB 'mow qoq AtTpom9ST1 id U ST 人1t9ua8 pa9put astn oaq ) 'astatd Joj p9018 JO in°1snf 1ou 1 i19p o 1uyp !1 q)1 q)ounnqqqt 'pjoyykit 1 Wit p O 1uyp Opp SI1 a Qctui] uopvinda. i no f a(todchui Xumig .pooj S0AT8 aUO 9A.11 1S SIUOUT EFTA01161669 ypaTN essi Ari VAlep Q euyp ot grin] uaum/ u! U涩°g?'t aq oi 磕O1 11179a4 no fasnnoaq 》ui119 7 "1no 9uo ppo aq1 9q o1 nit m 1'uop r1O C puB 8UIAT8 JO uoilipmi u 9putu SiCI ANIL a AI q SJOIS931,IB no人 asin oaq /quo 8mAiD [I19PO1uNT u n 9dyq oi soi Al Till owyJod puyipit eu igaircuirid mid oi qqndmi I O uqqndeLimp] 锰（7?7?1m4 dlliunifo;no gukti9 7 :9￡乙“'WV i 11ns nq11eAi uya 9ql iii p91ou parammaraAA sugatiO saggaO lokaO upapajjissAmE ti dAnaO deti] The first four reasons are no more than ways to keep up good relationships with the people around us. We want others to remember us for our goodness — it is the only reason for giving. There is no merit in such giving. This is the sort of giving which politicians like to do in order to win votes or of shops wanting to boost their sales by giving away free EFTA01161670 gifts. The remaining reasons are all types of giving which are done for merit, however people differ as to the extent they see the true nature of merit in what is given. In this blessing we will try to go as deep as we can, i.e. to discover the sort of giving that is going to improve the quality of the mind. C. HOW TO CULTIVATE GENEROSITY Here is some practical advice for cultivating generosity in a way that fulfils all the EFTA01161671 requisite components. One should practice generosity according to the following steps: C.1 Make an intention Purify your intention by recollecting the virtues ofthe Triple Gem and the power of generosity to banish stinginess from the mind filling your mind with faith and the joy of the act of generosity you plan to do. Once you have made your intention, make sure you fulfil it because according to EFTA01161672 the VaAijja Sutta (A.ii.81), the Buddha taught that if someone has made a promise to offer a certain amount of requisites to a monk or someone who keeps the Precepts, or to parents who are virtuous, but when it comes to the appointed time: • do not come up with the goods, then in business they will always lose money; • come up with less goods than they said they would then they will always receive less than EFTA01161673 the anticipated profit; • come up with the goods, no more, no less than they promised, they will always receive the anticipated profit; 188 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living • come up with goods exceeding the promised amount then they will always receive more than the anticipated profit. C2 Seek out an appropriate gift: Seek out or buy an appropriate and wholesome gift by your honest efforts. Some EFTA01161674 people expect to find joy in giving to something else something they have obtained in a dishonest way — such as picking daffodils in a public park to offer on a Buddhist shrine. However in his teaching on the Ten Ways of Consuming Sense Pleasure [kAmabhogE] (A.v.176) the Buddha taught that there is no joy to be had in the giving of gifts obtained in dishonest or partially dishonest ways. C.2.1 The Quality of the Gift EFTA01161675 The Buddha enumerated three different attitudes to the quality of the gift chosen for an act of generosity: I. Giving things of worse quality than you would use yourself [dAnadAsa]: This sort of giving which literally means "giving as a slave" happens when one gives a gift of worse quality than one would consider using oneself. An example of this would be selecting the smallest or most unattractive of three mangos to EFTA01161676 EFTA01161677 U SE 8 UIAI8 „ SUI 0M AR ℃I91!I 1I0WA 8MA8 JO 1.1OS SILI工 :[p人yqt st uyp]has nof asn ',moh nofimp efifinnb pnbaJo s8upp .8u!ti;9 .1 0 /pmlI？扣uo？7璎／>p uvpsyto atp moqv [ 'ELsr siuautwod daydva fa) S0AI0S.MO LIBLI1JJO-3SJOM Japisuoo 3m 3S0q2 c1 Al!salaua8 Jo s2ou Ai pDzuo)o℃rt qo s! 8UTA18 lions 'ssou!8ups Jo onrIs all ups SI pUILU S'011O '8MAI8JO 0UIII. 3 琅 21 osneo0q "0AJS u SE 8 UIAI8 „ p011.1.10i SI IT '3S13 0tTO0MOS O2 3AI8 EFTA01161678 mnoit noC 锰1,裤 心红vnbJanaq户S勐liii;》 UltD 's 'SPU9!JJ s1q0flS S9AI9SJflO o1 ienba J9pIsuoo 9Ma SOq)o1 人1!soj9u98JO S1D1 人q p9zIJ913eJeq0 ST 2UtAt8q3nS 'aSI99uo9IuoS O1aAT8 o1Jpsinoic iji9 oi Addcq 9q PTflOM n0人S08ugm a9Ⅲ1 JO iui8UT)0aJ9S9q PIflOM STq1JO 9jdrnix9 uy jps9uo 8U!Sfl J9ptSUODpjflOMaUO WIJ1. o1 iinba 山II1nbJ0UI8eS9AI8auo uaqA羔 suaddiq "PU9!JJ use yourself [dAnasAmE]: This sort of giving which literally means "giving as a boss" happens when one gives a gift of better quality than one would consider using oneself choosing only the best to give to someone else. It is termed "giving as a boss" because at the time of giving, one's mind has stinginess under control. In general, Buddhists cultivating generosity try to make sure that their giving falls into this last EFTA01161679 category. When giving rice to the monks on their almsround, they will select the tender rice from the mouth of the rice-pot to give to the monks before taking their own meal from the remainder of the pot. When offering food to the monks, supporters will offer delicacies they might never consider themselves worthy of eating — and when offering food, they might decorate and garnish the food EFTA01161680 with special attention. In fact, when we give to others we should always try to give things of a quality we would like to be give ourselves, no matter whether the recipient is of lower, equal or higher social status than ourselves. Such giving is especially characterized by acts of generosity to those we respect or to whom we have a debt of gratitude such as our parents, teachers or teaching monks. EFTA01161681 C.2.2 The Nature of the Gift Here are some "do's" and "don'ts" to help you with your choice — in general things which are worthy of giving are the four basic requisites: clothing, food, shelter and medicine. You have to be careful, however, because some forms of clothing are not suitable. These four are sometimes subdivided further into ten: 1. food (but not aphrodisiacs); 2. drinks (but not alcohol); 3. cloth or clothing (but not EFTA01161682 immodest clothes); 4. vehicles, shoes or fares for travelling; 5. flowers; 6. candles, incense; 7. rubbing creams; 8. bed clothes & beds; 9. shelter; 10. fuel. As for objects not suitable for giving: 1. Alcohol for the purpose of drinking (rather than rubbing alcohol or alcohol for cleaning). Blessing Fifteen: Generosity 189 Alcohol is the component of some EFTA01161683 medicines. This usage is good but don't use this as an excuse to give alcohol with a little bit of medicine instead of giving medicine with a little bit of alcohol; 2. To give shows, entertainment; 3. To give a female animal to a male animal or vice-versa; 4. To offer matchmaking services to find a partner for others; 5. To give someone else erotic pictures or even a EFTA01161684 picture of yourself (so that they think of us); 6. To give weapons (especially when two people are in the middle of a fight); 7. To give poisons or drugs. In addition the gift should be made clean, refined and attractive to receive. At the time of giving you should do your best to relinquish your attraction for the appearance, sound, smell, taste, texture or mood of that object (The meditation master Luang Phaw Wat Paknam suggested to EFTA01161685 bring you mind to a standstill at the centre of your body as a practical way of achieving this). C.3 Make yourselfpure before giving your gift Purify yourself before giving the gift by taking the Five or Eight Precepts. Meditate to purify the mind, thinking of the recipient as if they were as pure as an arahant, or as a representative perpetuating the teaching of the Lord Buddha. C.4 Make a resolution It is customary to raise the gift one EFTA01161686 intends to offer to one's forehead while making the resolution. Making a wish or resolution is like setting up a longterm plan for yourself. If a government takes care of a country it must have a long-term plan. Even merchants have plans for what they will be doing in the years to come. In Buddhism we have merit as our budget and we have our resolution or ambition as our long term plan for doing good deeds EFTA01161687 over the course of the lifetimes to come. If we have made a resolution at the time we make a merit of some sort then when the merit gives its fruit it will give its fruit in the way we have made the wish. However we must also be careful about the thing which we wish for supposing we make a resolution but our mind is still under the influence of defilements then it might be disastrous because we leave ourselves wide open to the EFTA01161688 working of evil. If we make a resolution about something skilful, by contrast then the merit will give its full fruit, shortening our path to Nirvana. An example of a skilful way of making a resolution is: "Through the power of this good deed, from this day forth may my mind never fall under the influence of greed or stinginess again and may I never be born in a family with stingy or greedy people ever again and may EFTA01161689 I never be born in a country where there is a shortage of basic needs for survival, and even when it comes to studying the Dhamma, may I never be stuck with a teacher of the Dhamma who is stingy with his teachings and wants to keep his knowledge to himself. May I never know shortage of anything skilful. May I always be well provided-for . . . and may the power of this generous EFTA01161690 deed help me to enter upon Nirvana [nibbAna paccayo hau]." Or more briefly according to the traditional Pali: "SudinnaO vata me dAnaO AsavakkhayA vahaO hotu" (May these alms that I have given on this day be for an end of all defilements.) C.5 Harbour no regret in mind: Having offered the gift, make sure the gift is gone from your mind too by thinking only of the joy of giving and not allowing any EFTA01161691 feeling of regret to enter your mind. It is also customary to transfer the merit of one's generosity [pattidAnamaya] by making the intention that the merit of our good deeds might also benefit our deceased relatives wherever they might find themselves reborn — in accordance with the Pali verses: "IdaO riAtEnaO hotu, sukhitA hontu fiAtayo" (May this merit accrue to all my [deceased] relatives. EFTA01161692 May all my [deceased] relatives be happy). C.6 Summary: Four Tures' In conclusion, there are four things that will ensure 190 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living that the giving we do will bring the maximum of merit: I. Pure Gift. The thing which we give must be something we have come by in an honest way or bought with money that is honestly earned; 2. Pure Intention. A pure intention EFTA01161693 for giving means the intention to reduce the stinginess in your mind, or to reduce the number of defilements in the mind or cultivate your Perfection of Generosity or Loving Kindness. The Buddha also taught that if you want to gain the maximum of merit from a gift you must maintain the quality of the mind during three periods of time. Intentions which are not pure EFTA01161694 are giving with the wish for something in return e.g. giving for one-upmanship, giving to make yourself famous or giving to make someone else love us: 1. before giving [pubbecetanA]: make sure that you come to the act of giving wholeheartedly 2. during the act of giving [muricanacetanAp give with respect and a mind full of faith and without any trace of irritability 3. after giving [aparAparacetanAp EFTA01161695 make sure that the mind is still joyous not regretting what you have given away. Some people go home and sit thinking, "Maybe I gave too much. Maybe I should ask the monk for some of it back!" 3. Pure Recipient: The more pure the person receiving our gift, the more merit we will accrue. If the recipient is a layperson, they should be a layperson who keeps the Precepts. EFTA01161696 If they are a monk, they should be a monk who keeps the Vinaya, not just someone who is masquerading as a monk. If the monk is an arahant (i.e. has no further defilements) then he will be a supreme field of merit. 4. Pure Giver: Even you as the giver must be keeping the Precepts. If you think of yourself as a receptacle for merit in the same way as a bowl might contain water, then you mustn't EFTA01161697 be like a leaking or dirty container (Precepts incomplete) or else your merit will leak away or be sullied. Nowadays, it is hard for us to earn enough money to both feed ourselves and to offer as donations — therefore when we do come to have the opportunity to give donations, make sure that you possess all four of the factors mentioned above. D. WHO TO GIVE D.1 Giving to an individual: EFTA01161698 The Buddha taught in the DakkhiAAvibhaIga Sutta (M.iii.253) that the amount of merit from a gift to an individual [ paEipuggalikadAna] is in proportion to the purity of the recipient. If you give food: 1. to a humble animal it will give long-life [Ayu], good complexion [vaAAa], happiness [sukha], strength [bala] and intelligence [paEibhAAa] for no less than 100 lifetimes; 2. to a person who does not keep EFTA01161699 the Precepts your gift will give the same fruits for 1,000 lifetimes; 3. to a person who keeps the Precepts your gift will give the same fruits for 100,000 lifetimes; 4. to a hermit or ascetic outside the Buddhist monastic community who has attained some degree of mental powers your gift will give the same fruits for 1012 lifetimes; 5. to a person who practices with the intention to train himself to become a EFTA01161700 stream-enterer, the fruit is countless; 6. to a person has actually attained sainthood at the level of stream-entry [sotApana] then the merit is even more; 7. to a person who practices with the intention to train himself to become a once-returner [sakidAgAmi] then the merit is even more; 8. to a person has attained sainthood at the level of once-returner [sakidAgAmi] then the merit is EFTA01161701 even more; 9. to a person who practices with the intention to train himself to become a non-returner [anAgami] then the merit is even more; 10. to a person has attained sainthood at the level of non-returner [anAgami] then the merit is even more; 11. to a person who practices with the intention to train himself to become an arahant then the merit is even more; EFTA01161702 12. to a person has attained sainthood at the level Blessing Fifteen: Generosity 191 of arahant then the merit is even more; 13. to a paccekabuddha then the merit is even more; 14. to a fully-enlightened Buddha then the merit is even more; If you favour a particular person when you are making your donation, then you the amount of merit gained as the result of the gift will be reduced. Some EFTA01161703 people go to a particular temple and single out a particular monk for their attention. It is almost like something personal between the giver and the recipient. The giver feels that there must be something personal between themselves and a monk before they will give that monk any support. They will not help strangers. They might look down on monks of low rank. Their mind is rather narrow. Of course they still receive merit EFTA01161704 from their good deed, but it is slightly reduced from what it could be — because the merit in all of these categories of recipient cannot beat the merit from offering a gift to the community of monks. D.2 Offering to the monastic community Offering to the monastic community [saIghadAna] means giving a gift which is not specific to any particular monk in a monastic community. Such a person does not mind who the monastic EFTA01161705 community delegates to receive a particular gift from them.Even if the community sent a novice to receive their gift they wouldn't mind. Their mind would be filled with faith before, during and after their making of the gift.The Buddha taught that anyone who is sufficiently broad-minded to support the SaIgha in this way will receive countless merit. E. HOW MUCH TO GIVE E.1 Duty of a Buddhist to support EFTA01161706 their religion The Buddha specified the duty of a Buddhist householder towards members of the monastic community in the sixth of the "six directions" of the SiIgalovAda Sutta, as follows: 1. kindly acts towards the monastic community 2. kindly words towards the monastic community 3. kindly thoughts towards the monastic community 4. by keeping an open house to the monastic community EFTA01161707 5. supplying the monastic community with their material needs In other words it is the duty of every Buddhist householder to perform acts of generosity towards the SaIgha. The Buddha laid down the rule that monks must earn their livelihood by alms alone. Monks are not allowed to earn income by any other means. The Buddha's intention by this rule was that monks be able to devote their time to their real duties EFTA01161708 of study and meditation in order to be: 1. pure in body, speech and mind and to be a worthy field of merit for the householders 2. worthy teachers to the householders Of course the government could organize things so that people could support Buddhism out of their taxes in the same way the State finances the Church in many western countries, but because Buddhism has (like the Protestant Church) EFTA01161709 has always emphasized the importance of independence from "worldly" concerns such as political policy, the price of this freedom is that Buddhism must rely on the reciprocal relationship between monk and laity at a grassroots level which cannot be manipulated by any politician. By supporting the monastic community, the householders maintain the intactness of the Triple Gem for perpetuity — for the EFTA01161710 peace and harmony of society and the world at large. It is not difficult for well-intentioned householders to understand the importance of the first four duties of the householder towards the monastic community — however, in the society of the present day where even the media find it profitable to sensationalize the laxity of a miniscule minority of members of the monastic community — the repurcussions are having a EFTA01161711 negative effect on the whole monastic community throughout the world. No small number of formerly dutiful householders exposed to such sensationalism have discontinued their support for the monastic community out of uncertainty as to which monks are practising in earnest. 192 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Thus it falls upon earnestly practising monks to co-operate in trying to salvage the EFTA01161712 tarnished image of the monastic community — because if the faith of the Buddhist laity is allowed further to deteriorate, eventually the laity will lose their understanding of Buddhist principles — becoming capable of heinous social crimes or of defecting to other religions. Such people will only add to the fragmentation and internal divisions which already exist in society. E.2 Managing your resources EFTA01161713 When we talk of generosity [dAna] in this blessing we mean giving those things which are surplus to our needs. Some people might doubt as to how much they really need or might be unable to distinguish between `need' and `want' and hence the Buddha gave guidance about how householders should budget their earnings so that their generosity is neither reluctant nor a burden on the family expenditure. The Buddha taught EFTA01161714 (/diya Sutta A.iii.45) that the family budget should be divided into five as follows: 1. one part to support the immediate needs of yourself, your parents, your children, spouse, servants 2. one part to extend generosity towards your friends 3. one part which should be saved in case of emergency (for example fire, flood, excess taxation, theft or extortion by EFTA01161715 malevolent relatives) 4. one part which should be used for five sorts of dedication 1. for one's extended family 2. for hospitality 3. for dedicating merit for the departed 4. for taxes 5. for dedicating merit to the things that you believe in according to your local custom (e.g. ascetics, animals, physical forces and elements, lower deities or higher deities depending EFTA01161716 on your culture) 5. one part to extend support to well-practising monks and ascetics The Buddha did not say that each part should be 20% of your earnings, but he taught that you should budget for each of these sorts of expenditure. As for the "working capital" which you have built up for yourself, the Buddha taught in the SiIgalovAda Sutta (D.iii.180ff.) that you should apply one-quarter of your earnings for your EFTA01161717 immediate needs, onehalf should be reinvested in your business and the remaining quarter should be saved in case of emergency. It is up to each individual to decide how much of their income to use as "working capital" and how much to use for generosity. If you budget in this way, you will be able to practise generosity, giving neither too much nor too little. E.3 Degree of Generosity As mentioned above, generosity EFTA01161718 usually refers to giving away what is excess to one's needs. Generosity thus trains one to overcome the tendency to want more and more without end — and to be able to distinguish between `need' and `want'. If you have a big plate of food and you know that half will be enough for you, to give the other half to a hungry friend is generosity [dAna]. However in some places such as the "Four Virtues of the Householder" EFTA01161719 [gharavAsadhamma] (S. i .2 1 5 Sn.189) the Buddha exhorted his householders to train themselves even to be willing to sacrifice their own convenience for the good of others. In such a case, a hungry man might forgo the whole of his large plate of food for the benefit of a friend who has eaten nothing for three days. Such giving is a more developed form of generosity known as "self-sacrifice" [cAga]. In pursuit of the perfection EFTA01161720 of generosity the bodhisattva cultivated self-sacrifice to the point he was willing to sacrifice all his material possessions, but also parts of his body such as blood and eyes [upa-dAna-paramitA] and his own life [paramatta-dAna-paramitA]. F. RESULTS OF GIVING F.1 Speed of Outcomes A final point about generosity concerns the reason why some people perform an act of generosity and receive the fruit of their deed EFTA01161721 immediately. For example, someone is generous and immediately comes into a fortune or is made king or attains enBlessing Fifteen: Generosity 193 lightenment. What is the reason? There is an additional factor in the performance of generosity which influences the swiftness with which the merit will give its fruit. If you look at the set of teachings `the giving of a noble one' (SappurisadAna Sutta A.iii.172) you will find the answer. EFTA01161722 The Buddha taught that a noble man will give: I. with faith (i.e. with full faith in the favourable outcome of a good deed): will bring the giver wealth, attractive and trustworthy appearancewith a good complexion; 2. with respect: will bring the giver wealth and endowment with obedient children, spouse and servants; 3. at the correct time; will bring the giver wealth EFTA01161723 and the wishes of the giver will come to fruition without delay; 4. with the thought to help the recipient; will bring the giver wealth and higher enjoyment of the pleasures of the senses; 5. without coming into conflict with yourself or others: will bring the giver wealth and protection of possessions from fire, flood, misappropriation by tax-collectors, theft and exhortation by enemies of malevolent heirs. EFTA01161724 F.2 Difference offruit by difference of gift type Whenever we do generous deeds, we reduce the influence of greed in the mind, however the degree of the reduction will depend on the purity of the gift, the intention, the recipient and the giver. Apart from these factors, the fruits of our giving is also influenced by the type of thing we offer is. To take the example some examples of offerings. The first five come from the KiOdada Sutta EFTA01161725 (S.i.32) — see table below. Therefore, if ever you have the opportunity to cultivate generosity, never let the opportunity pass by unanswered. Sometimes we think of waiting until we are more ready, but often if we wait until everything is ready, the opportunity is gone. G. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES G.1 Proverb: MahApadayE Sutta (A.iii.51) Those who give the things they EFTA01161726 like, are wont to receive things that they like; those who give the supreme, are wont to receive supreme things; those who give good things are wont to receive good things; those who give the ultimate are wont to attain the ultimate; persons who give the supreme, the good, the ultimate, will have long life and honour wherever they are born. Offering Example Fruit giving food giving cloth or clothing EFTA01161727 giving transport giving light giving shelter giving permanent property time-limited giving forgiving, giving life giving knowledge meal for monks robes for monks vehicles, shoes, a lift, bus/ train fare candles, lanterns, fuel oil a place for the night, a building buildings, trees receiving guests, those preparing to travel, first EFTA01161728 harvest forgiving others, extending the life of condemned animals, releasing fish a lecture, needed advice long-life, bright complexion, good health, strength, quickwittedness good complexion happiness outstanding eyesight everything! long-life, strength, security of personal property wishes will come true, lack of difficulty in times of shortage long-life intelligence, easy attainment of wisdom EFTA01161729 TABLE 15.1: THE MERITORIOUS FRUITS OF VARIOUS SORTS OF GENEROSITY 194 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living G.2 Metaphor: A burning house If our house catches fire, the possessions we can manage to salvage before it burns down will be all we are left with. In the same way, the possessions that are really our own, are those we can convert to merit by the power of our generosity in the space EFTA01161730 of our lifetime, before the fires of old-age, sickness and death burn up this impermanent body of ours. Dutiya Jana Sutta A.i.156 G.3 Metaphor: Cow and Pig (trod.) The pig was jealous of the cow because the cow seemed to be very popular with everybody. Someone advised the pig,"Don't be jealous popularity is in proportion to one's generosity. The cow gives her milk daily to make butter and yoghurt EFTA01161731 and cheese". The pig was indignant saying,"Generous — I'm generous! Look at all the things mankind has to thank me for — my bristles make paintbrushes and my flesh makes all the pork dishes of the world." "Don't confuse the issue," said the advisor, "— all the things the cow gives, she gives while she is still living!" Ever wondered why the people who are only generous in their will are never very EFTA01161732 popular? G.4 Ex. CEOasAtaka Brahmin (DhA.iii.002ff) There was once a couple who were so poor that they only had a loincloth each and between them they only had a single shawl. If the husband went out of the house with the shawl then the wife had to hide in the house. If the wife went out of the house, the husband had to stay home. They couldn't go anywhere together because they only had a single EFTA01161733 shawl between them. One day the husband went alone to hear the teaching of the Buddha. He was filled with faith and thought to offer the shawl to the Buddha. He took off the shawl, then thought of his wife at home and changed his mind. He listened to the sermon further until midnight and again he was filled with faith to offer the shawl — but when he thought of his wife, he changed his mind again. He listened to the sermon further EFTA01161734 almost until dawn and this time when he was filled with faith, he offered the shawl to the Buddha without any further hesitation, while exclaiming the words, "Cittame Cittame" meaning "I have conquered (it), I have conquered (it)." King Pasenadi was sitting nearby. If anyone shouts anything like this near a king, they will normally have their head chopped off — but the king was interested to know what he had conquered. EFTA01161735 The poor man said that he had conquered his stinginess. The king thought, "such a person is rare" and therefore set the man up in life with a standard of living fit for a millionaire.The man offered everything he had been given to the Buddha except for a shawl for himself and one for his wife. The king therefore gave the man even more possessions. In the morning the Buddha revealed to the rest of the monastic community that if the EFTA01161736 man had managed to conquer his stinginess since the beginning of the sermon, he would have been made four times as rich. If he had conquered his stinginess at midnight he would have been twice as rich. His hesitation had blunted the power of his meritorious intention. The Buddha concluded that if anyone ever has the faith to do a good deed, then they should quickly do that good deed before the intention is EFTA01161737 overtaken by stinginess. G.5 Ex. Sumedha Hermit (.1.L3Off) At the fruition of the ninth asaIkheyya kappa of pursuing perfections the bodhisattva was born as a hermit called Sumedha. He trained himself in meditation until attaining magical powers — being able to fly through the air. One day he travelled in the air and saw all the people of a certain town building a road. He asked why they were building EFTA01161738 the road. They replied that the Buddha DipaIkara had already arisen in the world so they were creating a road to receive the Buddha. Sumedha the hermit asked permission to rebuild part of the road for himself, and the people of the town permitted him. They thought he would use his hermit's powers to magic the road to completion, so they gave him a piece of road that ran over a piece of subsided ground, with a deep hole in it. EFTA01161739 Sumedha wanted to cultivate generosity the `hard way' in order to fulfil his Perfections so instead of using magical powers he started to mend the road by the Blessing Fifteen: Generosity 195 sweat of his brow. Consequently, he had not finished leveling his piece of road when the Buddha and his disciples reached the place. Sumedha thought, `the road I have built is not finished — never mind, only two metres EFTA01161740 remains — so I will lie down in the hole in the road myself. When the Buddha arrived, he bowed at the feet of the Buddha and invited the Buddha and all of his disciples to be his field of merit and allow him to be a human bridge for them all to traverse the unfinished piece of road. The Buddha and all the disciples walked over his body and instead of feeling aches and pains, Sumedha was filled with joy to have been EFTA01161741 of service to the Buddha. That was the lifetime in which the DipaIkara Buddha gave Sumedha the prophecy of his own Buddhahood that he would need to go on to attain full enlightenment four asalkheyya and 100,000 kappas later. It was also the lifetime that the bodhisattva recognized generosity as the foundation of all other Perfections (as mentioned at §A.3 above). G.6 Ex. Aputtaka millionaire (DhA.iv.76ff) EFTA01161742 One day in the time of the Buddha, King Pasenadi of Kosala (of SAvatthE) came for audience with the Buddha in the afternoon. King Pasenadi said that a miraculous thing had happened concerning a millionaire in his town. (Millionaires in our own time are simply rich people, but in those times `millionaire' was a title bestowed by a king, on wealthy economists. Some in those times may have been wealthy but if they had no EFTA01161743 knowledge of economics, they would not qualify for such a title. Millionaires had the duty to be patrons who would use their knowledge and their wealth to support the king in the development of the nation. They were almost like bankers of the present day.) A millionaire had died without heir so the whole legacy of the millionaire became national property and had been taken for storage in the palace. When the millionaire EFTA01161744 was alive he had been so stingy that he would not even allow expenditure to feed himself decently. He would survive only on rice husks and over-ripe fruit sold at clearance prices. He would wear only rag clothes — anyone who saw him couldn't believe he was a millionaire. He would not even buy soap so he always smelled from never washing. The King asked how such a person could be so EFTA01161745 rich but seemed unable to spend any money on himself. The Buddha looked at the previous lives of the man and told the king that in a previous lifetime, the man had donated food to a paccekabuddha. Arahants, paccekabuddhas and fully-enlightened Buddhas are so pure of mind that anybody giving a donation to any such will accrue a lot of merit. On this particular occasion he had instructed his wife to offer food to the paccekabuddha EFTA01161746 and went to work. When he returned he found out that his wife had given all the best of their food to the paccekabuddha. He thought with regret, "If we had eaten that food ourselves, we would have had plenty to eat for many days. If we had given the food to our workers, they would have worked their hardest for us for many days." When the merit of the donation of food gave its fruit, he became a very rich man, but EFTA01161747 from his regret at a later time, he was always stingy in any expenditure for his own convenience. He was only able to use remnants because at that time when he regretted having offered food to the paccekabuddha, all he thought of giving the paccekabuddha was remnants. G.7 Ex. Daddalla VimAnavatthu (Vv.48) In the time of the Buddha there were two sisters. The elder was called Patta and the younger was EFTA01161748 called Supatta. Both sisters did as many merits as they could throughout their lives. Patta intended to do more merits than her little sister. When Patta passed away, through the power of her merit, she was reborn as an angel and was born in the second level of heaven (TavatiOsa). Patta the angel wondered where her little sister had gone. Only much later did an angel of very bright complexion introduce herself as her former little sister EFTA01161749 who was now an angel in the higher fifth level of heaven (Nimmanaradi). Patta the angel was confused. She had always done many more merits than her little sister — how come she had a lower rebirth? Supatta the angel revealed that even though she had had less chance than her elder sister to make generous donations to monks, whenever she did make a merit 196 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living EFTA01161750 it was always a donation to the monastic community [saIghadAna] rather than the personalized merit [paEipuggalikadAna] offered by the elder sister. As the result of her donations, the elder sister's mind was not truly broad, and the merit she accrued was reduced. As for her little sister, although she had less opportunity to make merit, she always offered it with the thought,"May my gift be received by any monk who practices in EFTA01161751 earnest any monk who is a representative of the monastic community will do." Thus when the younger sister passed away, as a result of her mind being broader and having fewer biases in her understanding of Dhamma, she took a more fortunate rebirth than her sister when she passed away. G.8 Ex. JEjaka Brahmin & his wife AmittatApanA 1)4.521-4, 593 Some people like to ask about the story of Vessandara. EFTA01161752 In that particular JAtaka,there is an evil man a hundred years old called JEjaka who has a young wife called AmittatApanA (aged 17). Some ask what this old man did to get himself a wife young enough to be his grandchild. AmittatApanA was someone fond of giving but instead of offering fresh flowers to the monks she would always offer only shriveled flowers. When the time came for her to marry, then her husband was also old and shriveled. As for EFTA01161753 JEjaka, he would always like to offer flowers to the monks that were fresh so when the merit gave its fruit the result was different. For a similar reason, if people habitually offer only second- hand things to the monks, maybe they will always get a widow(er) for their spouse! G.9 Ex. Bhattabhatika the woodcutter (DhA.iii.87ff.) There was once a millionaire called Gandha SeEEhE who inherited a fortune — and considering that he EFTA01161754 would be unable to take it with him when he died, made every attempt to use up his wealth within his lifetime by every sort of extravagence. He would spend 100,000 kahapanas each day alone on his own food. His extravagence became renowned and he would thus eat in public so that the peasants could come to watch what delicacies he would eat each day. One day a wood-cutter passed by and became so entranced by the millionaire's food that he EFTA01161755 realized he would die if he didn't get to taste such food. He pushed his way to the front of the crowd and begged the millionaire for a taste of the food. The millionaire refused, saying "If I give you a taste, the rest will be wanting one too." Instead the wood-cutter offered three-years of his work in the service of the millionnaire in order to earn a taste of such food, and the millionnaire agreed. At the fulfilment of three year's EFTA01161756 labour,the woodcutter (in the meantime nicknamed Bhattabhatika — "the one who labours for a meal"), was sitting at the table about to tuck in to the delicacies he had earned for himself. At that moment a paccekabuddha passed into view on almsround. Seeing the paccekabuddha, the woodcutter hesitated thinking: "that I have had to work three years for this meal must be because I am lacking in merit to find myself subject to such poverty. If I eat this EFTA01161757 meal myself it will only sustain me for a day, but if I offer it to the paccekabuddha, it will sustain me for many lifetimes." The woodcutter offered a large portion of the food to the paccekabuddha who then closed the lid of his bowl. The woodcutter appealed to the paccekabuddha to receive more food saying: "don't just help me for this lifetime — help me in the next lifetime too!" The paccekabuddha removed the lid of his bowl and the EFTA01161758 wood-cutter put all the remaining food into the bowl, while making the wish, "may this merit bring me happiness and success in every lifetime, may I know some part of the wisdom of this paccekabuddha". The paccekabuddha gave his blessing to the effect that the wood-cutter's every wish should be fulfilled. The onlookers for the wood-cutter's meal were inspired by the wood-cutter's generosity and how he had given something that was so EFTA01161759 hard to give. They applauded him so loudly that the millionaire came out to see what all the noise was about. He too was inspired by the wood-cutter's example and shared so much wealth with him that he too was to attain the status of millionnaire. He performed charitable works to the end of his days and was reborn as Sukha who ordained as a novice under SAriputta at the age of seven and very quickly attained arahantship. This EFTA01161760 is an example of "giving things of better quality than you would use yourself' [dAnasAmE]. Blessing Sixteen: Dhamma Practice 197 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 Purification in Buddhism On our path of self-development via the Manual of Peace there are many reasons on many levels of description why to purify oneself is attractive. • On a personal level: it would be a rare person who isn't proud of the many strengths they consider EFTA01161761 they have in their character — purification can be the way in which one builds and improves the strengths already in one's character. At the same time, if one knows oneself to have certain weaknesses of character, by purification, one can overcome these weaknesses. • On an interpersonal level: by purifying ourselves of weaknesses and building on our strengths we can become the sort of person who others feel EFTA01161762 privileged to consider as a friend • On a social level: purifying oneself can contribute to overcoming the weaknesses and inequalities that are often so obvious in our modern society by being one less person who is prone to corruption, nepotism and fraud, while displaying the sort of compassion which makes our society a more pleasant place to live. In Buddhism, according to the Law of Karma, we must receive the retribution of the good EFTA01161763 and bad actions that we do. (Usually) the only way in which karmic retribution becomes defunct is by giving its fruit. However, rather than just sitting and waiting for one's karma to run out, the Buddha suggested two ways to purify oneself: • dilution of old bad karma with large quantities of new good karma: Supposing you compare the negative things in our past to a spoonful of salt and you compare the positive things in life to a EFTA01161764 container of water. Supposing you put the spoonful of salt in a glass of water if you taste the water it will still have the salty taste. If you put the same amount of salt in a bucket of water you will find that the water still tastes salty but less so. But what if you put a spoonful of salt in a huge water tank? Now even if you taste the water, you will no longer be able to detect the salty taste — even though the salt is still EFTA01161765 there. In the same way although we may have things we have done in the past which we regret, we can start afresh in our lives by doing so many positive things in our life that the old negative things become insignificant. • direct uprooting of the old bad karma through meditation: This method is described in the higher blessings of "Austerity" (31) and "Chastity" (32). EFTA01161766 In this blessing we consider pure living at the level of the householder leaving purification at the more intense monastic level to later blessings. A.2 Buddhist Purification compared to that of other religions In its approach to purification, Buddhism is rather unique when compared to other religions. In Christianity (esp. Catholicism), if a Christian breaks a commandment, he will go to confession with a EFTA01161767 Blessing Sixteen: Dhamma Practice 198 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living priest in church. In that way, he can absolve his sins. Although confession has an important role in Buddhism too (primarily monastic) from the point of view of declaring one's intention to renew one's effort to overcome evil deeds after having broken a precept — it is not seen as a way of overcoming the EFTA01161768 consequences of the evil done. Supposing Mr. A punches Mr. B in the street and subsequently confesses it to someone he respects, Buddhists would see this as helping Mr. A to feel better about it, and to avoid repeating his behaviour — but it doesn't help Mr. B. feel any better about his swollen nose! i.e. the consequences, even on a superficial level, do not go away because of the confession. In Hinduism, there is also a way of EFTA01161769 purification — bathing in the River Ganges on full-moon days. Hindus believe they can rinse away their sins with river water. If sin were really washable, then presumably it is a sort of bodily dirt, rather like dried sweat? The Buddha however, concentrated on the residue of evil deeds left as defilements in the mind. He said that you can wash your mouth out a hundred times a day, but it doesn't get rid EFTA01161770 of the evil effects of the bad speech that comes from your mouth.You can wash yourself in the river a hundred times per day, but it doesn't get rid of the effects of the evil bodily acts which you have done. This blessing deals with the Buddhist approach to mind purification — specifically by the technique of "dilution". A.3 Definition: Practising Dhamma The Pali word we use for Dhamma Practice is EFTA01161771 "dhammacariya". This word is the compound of two words — `dhamma' and `cariya'. `Dhamma' is a word which has anything up to forty different meanings, but for our purposes in the study of Buddhism it means `correctness', `goodness', `purity' or `what the Buddha taught'. Sometimes 'dhamma' means `phenomena' — which is a neutral term applied to positive and negative things — for example, aging, sickness and death are all EFTA01161772 Vhammas'. In English we capitalize Dhamma when it is meaning goodness, purity or the Teaching of the Buddha and leave it with a small `d.' when it refers just to phenomena or mental phenomena. The word `cariya' means `conduct' — therefore, `Dhammacariya' means the `practice of good deeds' or `correct practice'.The sort of deeds that are good or correct are described in more detail below — however, to give practical EFTA01161773 principles for the purposes of this blessing, we can say that it is that the sort of deeds and conduct which comply with this blessing are those which promote our sense of responsibility for human dignity on three levels: • the personal level • the interpersonal level • the level of society and the economy In this particular blessing we will concentrate mainly on the first two levels of description — not EFTA01161774 because the social level is irrelevant, but because we will deal with it in more detail in Blessing Eighteen (Blameless Work) and Blessing Nineteen on not consuming the things that lead to economic unfairness. The Dhamma Practice of this achieves two goals: • protecting yourself from the effects of the evil we have done in our past (= practice for purity) • furthering our good deeds (= pure practice) A.4 Dhamma Practice in the EFTA01161775 Sequence of the Blessings The Buddha chose to put "Dhamma Practice" as the sixteenth blessing (i.e. before "Looking after one's extended family" [17] and "BlamelessWork" [18] because looking after one's extended family and harmless work, both of which concern our dealings with a wider society (the members of which have a wide variety of dispositions) are possible minefields of conflict. Without particular caution in our dealings, we EFTA01161776 run the risk of spoiling our good intentions or coming into conflict through our own partiality. Thus before embarking on works of "social value" we have to prepare ourselves by studying the right approach to our worldly and spiritual work so as not to bring harm inadvertently to ourselves or others. B. PRACTICE FOR PURITY There are many ways of practising good deeds for your own benefit, but in this Blessing we emphasize EFTA01161777 the groupings of good deeds which boost our Blessing Sixteen: Dhamma Practice 199 sense of responsibility for our own human dignity. B.1 Avoiding the Defilements of Action Firstly, it is vitally important that we avoid the four defilements of action [kAmakilesa], namely: 1. Killing people or animals [pAAAtipAta]; 2. Stealing or taking what is not given [adinnAdAna] EFTA01161778 3. Adultery or sexual intercourse outside marriage [IcAmesumicchAcara]; 4. Telling Lies [musAvAda]; You will notice that these four forms of behaviour are diametrically to the decent behaviours described in the moral codes of almost any religion. In Buddhism restraint from these behaviours is covered in the first four of the Five Precepts. Keeping the Five Precepts is well known to be the underlying virtue that allows us to be born EFTA01161779 human. If we want to stay human (i.e. remain humane or respect our own human dignity) then it is necessary to live our lives according to the Five Precepts. Even compromising our behaviour for any single one of the Five Precepts diminishes our humanness by that amount — but that is not the end of it— those human intuitions which we lose are replaced by the same amount of savage or animal instincts. If we are to EFTA01161780 give up all of our Precepts then we reduce our instincts entirely to the level of a savage [manusso tiracchAno]. The missing fifth Precept, i.e. to restrain oneself from the consumption of alcahol or substances that cloud the mind [surAmerayamajjapamAdatthAn A veramaAE] is not included inthe Four Defilements of Action, but reappears later in Blessing Nineteen. A person who cannot manage to restrain himself EFTA01161781 from these defilements of action compromises their own human dignity — they will have no scruples about constantly taking advantage of other people both in their presence and behind their backs. If they have neither fear nor shame of evil or its consequences then nothing will be left of their respect for human dignity. Anyone who can abstain from the Four Defilements of Action is someone established in self-discipline EFTA01161782 because they are able to keep the Precepts — they neither harm others nor take advantage of them. Because such a person does nothing to harm society, then it can be considered as social responsibility to a certain extent. B.2 Cultivating the Five Virtues [paricadhamma] If we want to go further than simply avoiding taking advantage of others, in Thai Buddhist culture there is a traditional set of virtues called the "Five EFTA01161783 Virtues" [paficadhamma] which build on the virtues of abstinence cultivated in the Five Precepts, namely: I. Compassion (controlling all the nasty things that come from the body in a way that will not offend them (personal cleanliness to the eye and to the nose; well-spoken (courteous & express concern for others); good manners; going out of your way to help others; not doing EFTA01161784 things to create suspicion in others; 2. Generosity: This means giving resources, time, forgiveness, attention, teaching, advice (see Blessing Fifteen forfull details); 3. Contentment with one's spouse: This means being faithful to one's spouse (if applicable) and actively practising the virtues that keep a marriage going (see Blessing Thirteen forfull details); 4. Truthfulness in everything you EFTA01161785 say, honesty to yourself, earnestness in every task you do and earnestness towards good deeds. Train yourself to do your very best in every task that comes to you. Train yourself to be a person of principle, honest to yourself and honest to other people. You will find that all ten of the principles above will come automatically; 5. Mindfulness train yourself to keep your mind EFTA01161786 at the centre of the body the whole of the time whether you have your eyes closed for meditation or open for other duties you perform during your life. Meditate too to give yourself the encouragement to keep practicing because you are getting to the roots of the problems that crop up in life. Cultivating any or all of these virtues will add to the strength of accumulated positivity in the mind EFTA01161787 200 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living that will be able to change our mind from negative to positive on a more regular basis. Even if we have negative things in our past — the things we have done and which we may now regret — by building up more and more positive deeds in the way we mention above will allow us to dilute the regrets and anxieties we have in our minds. B.3 Fulfilling the Tenfold Path of EFTA01161788 Wholesomeness Our aim in cultivating these virtues is to establish oneself in the Tenfold Path of Wholesomeness [kusaladhammapatha] which we have already seen in Blessing Nine: 1. absolutely not killing. 2. absolutely not stealing 3. absolutely not committing adultery 4. absolutely not lying 5. absolutely not gossiping 6. absolutely not speaking harshly. 7. absolutely not chattering idly 8. absolutely not thinking to take EFTA01161789 the possessions of others 9. absolutely removing yourself from vengefulness. 10. absolute possession of Right View C. PURE PRACTICE A second facet of Dhamma Practice is behaving in accordance with purity. This means particularly in our decision-making we must establish our thinking in `purity' and not allow impure things like defilements and temptation to interfere with what we EFTA01161790 know is good and fair. Pure practice instils respect for the human dignity of yourself and others. It includes: • refraining from bias (see §C.1 below); • avoiding the six roads to ruin (see Blessing 19); • fulfilling one's duties in the six directions mentioned under the relevant blessing topic: • a child's duties to their parents (see Blessing 11, §C.4); • a parent's duty to their child (see Blessing 12, §B.3); EFTA01161791 • a student's duties to their teacher (see Blessing 7, §E.1); • a teacher's duties to their students (see Blessing 7, §E.1); • a husband's duty to their wife (see Blessing 13, §C.2.3); • a wife's duty to their husband (see Blessing 13, §C.2.4); • friends' duties to each other (see Blessing 2, §D.2); • an employer's duties to their employees (see EFTA01161792 Blessing 18, §D.1); • an employee's duties to their employer (see Blessing 18, §D.2); • a congregation member's duties to their clergy (see Blessing 15, §E.1); • a clergyman's duty to the congregation (see Blessing 3, §C.2); C.1 Lack of Bias The four forms of bias comprise: I. Bias because of desire [chandAgati]: e.g. parents who don't love their children equally because of bias based on desire, may treat EFTA01161793 their children unfairly; 2. Bias because of hatred [dosAgati]: e.g. teachers suffering from bias based on hatred or anger will behave unfairly towards annoying students, perhaps awarding them less than their due grades; 3. Bias because of ignorance [mohAgati]: e.g. someone who suffers from bias because of ignorance may take decisions based on his own EFTA01161794 stupidity or lack of information or put someone wicked or stupid in a position of responsibility; 4. Bias because offear [byAgati].e.g. someone who is biased because of his fears might bear false witness against someone he knows is innocent because someone he is afraid of told him to do so. All forms of bias cause us to trample the dignity of the innocent. Trampling dignity through bias starts EFTA01161795 with trampling one's own dignity, by twisting the truth in one's own heart and mind. Such bias in our minds then twists the things we say and do to deviate from what is righteous and appropriate. Such behaviours are all the sign of a cowardly and wicked person who has no love of justice — and Blessing Sixteen: Dhamma Practice 201 who neither respects his own human dignity or that of others. EFTA01161796 Anyone who knows that they have been maltreated by someone else as a result of that person's bias cannot help but feel sad, angry or vengeful — and with the progressive accumulation of such negative emotions in the mind — might eventually lead him to act wickedly himself towards the person in question in any of the four categories already discussed above in the Four Defilements of Action. Thus we can see how one person's EFTA01161797 bias might undermine another's responsibility for the human dignityof others. Thus we can conclude that bias undermines a person's responsibility towards human dignity whether it remains unexpressed in a person's mind, or whether it causes resentment in another in response to an unjust action. Bias is very damaging to the cultivation of virtue because the best of intentions such as giving a gift EFTA01161798 out of "gratitude" can become interpreted as something base like nepotism or corruption if there is even the slightest suspicion of bias. If one can be sure that no-one involved in any situation is subject to bias — one can cultivate good deeds to the full. Anyone who can abstain from the Four Forms of Bias is someone who abides in justice. They will be someone who follows strictly the guidelines of all EFTA01161799 that is fair. C.2 The Ten Virtues of a Ruler The Buddha taught the Ten Virtues of a Ruler [rAjadhamma] as guidelines for the conduct of those in a postion of power (J.v.378): 1. generosity [dAna]; 2. self-discipline [sEla]; 3. self-sacrifice [pariccAga]; 4. integrity [Ajjava]; 5. gentleness [maddava]; 6. austerity [tapa]; 7. non-anger [akkodha]; 8. non-violence [avihiOsa]; 9. patience [khanti]; EFTA01161800 10. non-deviation from righteousness [avirodhana]. Thus whoever you are, you should not infringe the rights of others, twist the truth or bear false witness. You should follow social laws and regulations consistently — not intentionally breaking the law. One should neither slip into the Four Defilements of Action nor pressurize others into such behaviour. Even the simple adherence to consistent honesty, avoiding breaking social laws and EFTA01161801 traditions by protecting oneself from bias will stop one from stirring society into unrest. Thus anyone who abstains from the Four Forms of Bias can also be considered, to a slightly greater extent, to be a person with social responsibility. D. CONCLUSIONS D.1 Relative importance of Pure Practice and Practice for Purity To the casual observer, the consequences of failing to "Practice Purely" (being biased EFTA01161802 and lacking the Ten Virtues of a Ruler) might appear less serious than those who don't "Practise for Purity"(i.e. with defilements of action, none of the Five Virtues and lacking the Tenfold Path of Wholesomeness) — but on closer examination, the two forms of wickedness have equally devastating consequences. Thus if anyone truly wants to develop responsibility towards human dignity, theymust practice purely and EFTA01161803 practice for purity this is what it means to be truly responsible towards human dignity both in oneself and others. D.2 Achieving Dhamma Practice in Everyday Life Some people may wonder whether in the present day you can still find examples of people who can follow the Tenfold Path of Wholesomeness. What can you do if you are still unable to follow all ten perfectly? 1. Select your livelihood: If you EFTA01161804 want to help yourself, first of all, be choosy about the work that you do. Don't involve yourself in forms of work that involve Wrong Livelihood (see Blessing Eighteen). However, if you want to go further than these ten principles in life to shift from simply neutral actions to more positive ones then you have to make a further effort as follows. 2. Never allow yourself to be EFTA01161805 shoddy: Train your202 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living self never to work on anything in a shoddy fashion. Always do your best in whatever task comes to you. This thoroughness will carry over when you come to training yourself in so that you cultivate virtue too. (e.g. preparing notes for a sermon instead of simply making it up as you go along) 3. Avoid bias: Train yourself to be EFTA01161806 unbiased and fair in whatever you do. You need to be sincere to principles, to your work, to yourself and to others too. 4. Meditate regularly. No matter how smart you are, without meditation you have no chance of being successful in your pursuit of the Tenfold Path of Wholesomeness. The reason is that, even though people know something is bad, they cannot stop themselves EFTA01161807 from carrying on in the way they have always done. D.3 Overcoming obstacles to Dhamma Practice For various reasons people find great difficulty in earnestly cultivating virtue in their lives: I. Low Morale: Some try to practise but give in to themselves easily because they lack morale. Such people need to be close to those who are more experienced — i.e the Wise of the Second EFTA01161808 Blessing. If you are able then choose a sort of work by which you can avoid having to put yourself in negative situations every day of the year. 2. Bad Surroundings: Supposing you have the morale but your environment doesn't allow you to do as well as you want to, don't give up, but do as much as you are able to. e.g. someone who must work as a hunter for a living EFTA01161809 but who keeps the Precepts when he can. It gives the mind a rest and reduces the toll of negativity in the mind. Do good deeds whenever you have the opportunity. When it comes to the right time a better opportunity will present itself. E. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES E.1 Ex. Kukku JAtaka (J.396) On the occasion of giving a teaching to the king, the Buddha related the story of his EFTA01161810 previous birth as the counsellor to King Brahmadatta who at that time was an unjust ruler. After waiting a long time for a tactful opportunity to correct the king's ways, one day the two visited a building under construction in the royal park.The roofing is not complete and the rafters had just been laid in place. The king asked his counsellor how the rafters could stay in place, and having found his opportunity, the counsellor EFTA01161811 said that just as the peak of a roof will fall, unless tightly held by the rafters, a king will soon fall from power unless supported by subjects who have been won over by his righteousness. As a lemon must be eaten without its peel, so must taxes be gathered without violence. Like the lotus, unstained by the water in which it grows, is the virtuous man untainted by the world — therefore his majesty should give up his EFTA01161812 extortion of unfair taxes and various other injustice driven by bias and defilements of action. E.2 Ex. Temiya the Mute (J.538) The bodhisattva was born as Temiya, son of the king of Kasi and Candadevi his wife. As a baby he lay in the lap of the king as he pronounced death sentences on robbers brought before him. Temiya recollected past lives when he had done the same and suffered for 20,000 years in Ussada Hell as a result, EFTA01161813 therefore he feigned dumbness to avoid having to take the throne. Eventually, when he was sixteen his execution was ordered. As his grave was being dug, he confided his resolve to become an ascetic to Sunanda the gravedigger. Sunanda was impressed by his words and released the bodhisattva to become an ascetic. His parents were informed and upon visiting Temiya's hermitage, they heard his preaching and all became EFTA01161814 ascetics too. Citizens of Kasi and three neighbouring kingdoms followed their example. Temiya's parents were identified with the parents of the Buddha, Sunanda with Sariputta. E.3 Ex. MahAdhammapAla JAtaka (J.447) There is a story of when the Buddha went back to visit his father King Suddhodana. The King told him the story that someone had told him that his son had already died as the result EFTA01161815 of his practice of Blessing Sixteen: Dhamma Practice 203 self-mortification. But the King had not believed him. He had more confidence in his own son than that. The Buddha told him that it was not the first lifetime that the King had had such confidence in him as a son. In a previous lifetime when the Buddha had been studying in a town away from home with his teacher DisApAmokkha, a young EFTA01161816 student died. The Buddha told his teacher that where he lived, noone younger than 100 could die. The teacher didn't believe him, so took some goats bones and took them to the Buddha's father saying that he had returned the bones of his son who had passed away in the course of his studies. At that time the Buddha's father had not believed him either. Not even the children in that village would believe him. The EFTA01161817 reason why everybody in that village was so longlived was that for seven generations, everyone in the village had been practicing all of the Tenfold Path of Wholesomeness described above. E.4 Ex. RAjovAda JAtaka (J.334) Once the king of Benares, wishing to discover if he ruled justly, travelled about in disguise, and, in the course of his wanderings, came to the Himalayas, where the Bodhisatva lived as an ascetic. The ascetic EFTA01161818 gave him ripe figs, and, when asked why they were so sweet, explained that the king of the country was evidently a just ruler. The king returned to his kingdom and ruled unjustly for a while — returning again to the hermitage, he found that the figs had become bitter. 204 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Blessing Seventeen: Looking After One's Extended Family 205 A. INTRODUCTION EFTA01161819 A.1 Place of Blessing Seventeen in the sequence A notable quality of the numerical teachings of the Lord Buddha are they become successively deeper in the order in which they are taught. There is never an example of teachings of the Buddha skipping details. Dhamma is like a coastline which gets progressively deeper as you go further and further out to sea until at its furthest extent it comes to the deepest point at the bottom of the ocean. EFTA01161820 (Uposatha Sutta: Ud.51) If you learn the teachings in the order they were intended, you will be able to discern the progression of complexity that is contained in the order. It is not like conventional work where you can do things in any order. Furthermore, in Buddhism we always start with ourselves and gradually expand the circle of influence of our good deeds for the benefit of those around us. With the Manual EFTA01161821 of Peace, we start with ourselves, learning about how to do good deeds, we learn how to make ourselves useful to society. Once we have taken care of ourselves, only then do we turn our attention to looking after others in our family. We start by looking after our own parents, offspring and spouse. Once our close family is harmonious and welloff, we can further enlarge the influence of our good deeds to look after our extended EFTA01161822 family. From our extended family we can spread the goodwill further and further until our goodwill extends to everyone in the world. Looking after our extended family looks as if it ought to be easy but when it comes down to it, it is not as easy as we imagined. You may have heard examples of families where the whole of the family has always helped one another until everybody in the family manages to set EFTA01161823 themselves up properly in life. On the other hand you may have heard of families where the internal politics is so complicated that no-one dares to associate with them. One strange thing for "care of the extended family" is that instead of tacking it on to the end of blessings eleven, twelve and thirteen as the fourteenth Blessing, the Buddha first inserts teachings on how to earn our living (Blessing Fourteen), the art of generosity EFTA01161824 (Blessing Fifteen) and how to practice Dhamma (Blessing Sixteen) in between. Some people might dismiss this as insignificant, but there is a reason why looking after our extended family comes much later than looking after our close family: • it is not so urgent as looking after the members of our close family. • it is a major investment of time, energy and money. • done in a clumsy way, it might EFTA01161825 be misunderstood as favouritism or nepotism. Thus we need to know how to earn our living in the proper way first so that we will have a good enough financial position to help others. Also we have to practice Dhamma, ie. we must be fair, because otherwise favouritism will creep in as our mo- Blessing Seventeen: Looking After One's Extended EFTA01161826 Family 206 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living tivation for helping those around us. Instead of making the world a more peaceful place, our bias will make the world worse rather than better. Thus when you help your extended family it must not be in things that are causing a break with the Precepts or with virtue — otherwise some will use this blessing as an excuse for EFTA01161827 corruption. A.2 Definition: `Looking after one's extendedfamily' We can divide all our acquaintances in the world into two groups: • our close family: our parents, husband, wife, parents in law and our sons and daughters; • our extendedfamily: all of our blood relations apart from our close family (e.g. aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents etc.), those who we trust and have concern for, close EFTA01161828 friends (but maybe not those who are no more than acquaintances or colleagues), spiritual teachers and fellow spiritual practitioners. For the group of our close family because of our debt of gratitude to our parents (see Blessing Eleven) or because if we have a husband, wife or children they are as a result of our own choice, as we have seen from Blessings Twelve and Thirteen our duties and our fulfilling of the "Emotional Bank EFTA01161829 Account" [salgahavatthu] towards these groups needs to be unconditional. For your extended family, usually the degree of expected commitment is less. You don't see your extended family every day or have to live with them. Therefore you have space to breath between visits (unlike your close family where you have no space to breath). It may only be now and then that you have the opportunity to help a member of your EFTA01161830 extended family or a trusted friend, but when you do have the opportunity, you have to make a good job of it, or else it may destroy or make awkward your previously good relationship. Because you have not `chosen' your extended family voluntarily/ intentionally, the expectations for how much support you can give them, is less. It is usually expected to be `conditional' i.e. to give support, something is expected in return. Thus when EFTA01161831 we talk of looking after our extended family, we mean giving assistance according to the Emotional Bank Account [salgahavatthu] on a conditional or `one-off basis. A.3 Finding out who your extendedfamily is Sometimes we are not sure of the size of our extended family (both our blood-relations and our trusted friends), but we will surely find out when we are in our times of need. Once close to Dhammakaya EFTA01161832 Temple, there was a boy who came and helped with the building of the temple road seven or eight years previously. When the road was finished, there was a lot of surplus timber. The boy had not yet set himself up in life and had no house of his own so the vice-abbot gave him the timber to build himself his first house. The young man was very appreciative of the timber but he admitted that if he had to work on the house himself EFTA01161833 (he could not afford to hire a carpenter) it would take him many months to complete. The vice abbot asked him how many people he had in his family. He said that he was related to practically everyone on the waterfront. The vice-abbot said that within a few days of starting to build his house he would know how many members he had in his extended family — the vice-abbot asked him to go to everyone he thought was one of his extended EFTA01161834 family and explain that he was short of the wages he needed to employ a carpenter. The man went to everyone who he thought had goodwill towards him. It turned out that all along the waterfront no-one would help him except for two people — his stepbrother who lent him what he could and a farmer from another province who had stayed in the family house of the boy when he had first arrived in town and was looking for a EFTA01161835 place to stay. Thus from thinking that he had relatives all along the waterfront it turned out that in actual fact he had only two people who were his true extended family one was a blood-relative, another was a neighbour who remembered a favour. B. IMPORTANCE OF HELPING ONE'S EXTENDED FAMILY B.1 We cannot remain independent throughout life Sometimes we are young and independent and we EFTA01161836 think that we could live self-sufficient in the world without having to take an interest in anyone else. If Blessing Seventeen: Looking After One's Extended Family 207 we think we are independent, often it will cause us to think that everyone else should make themselves independent too and as a result we may turn a deaf ear to the pleas for help of others who are in need. The reality of the situation is that (in spite of the presence or absence of a welfare EFTA01161837 state) it is only for part of our lives that we can expect to be independent. If we are a child who is too young to look after himself or a senior citizen who is too old to look after themselves, or a wife who is heavily pregnant or if we get ill, all of a sudden we realize that we need to rely on other people too. In times of disaster, such as fire or a death in the family or criminal proceedings, again we have to turn to others for EFTA01161838 help. Also during the rites of passage of our life, whether we are starting our first business or getting married or having our first child then again, it is unlikely that we will have a very smooth right of passage without the help of those who are closest to us. Like the lone pine exposed unprotected to the wind we will soon be uprooted if we don't seek the support and shelter of our friends and family. For some people these needs are EFTA01161839 just occurring from time to time. For others, the need may last for many years. And when the need occurs, the thing which causes people to suffer the most boils down to four main things: shortage of funds/ability to borrow things, shortage of encouragement, shortage of manpower/advice, lack of security. We already met these four needs in previous lessons, especially in the workplace. If we are able to understand the EFTA01161840 needs (entitled to) by each sector of our family, we will be better able to see the opportunities to help other members of our family in the things that matter to them. B.2 Collective merit of a family needs unity The important thing to understand about helping our extended family is that it promotes the unity and solidarity of our family and society at large. It allows the family or the society we live in to maintain EFTA01161841 a certain level of collective merit. However, if in a family or society there are a few troublemakers who do nothing to care for their extended family, they can destroy the good name of the family or the society and lead the collective merit of that society to break down — in the way a small number of Thai drug-smugglers have given the whole nation a bad reputation. B.3 Making the world a more peaceful place EFTA01161842 There are many international organizations campaigning for human rights and world peace — however the Buddha's approach to creating peace was slightly different. He proposed that we should try to make everybody in the world into our extended family. If other people don't share this philosophy, it doesn't matter how many peace organizations come into existence, they will not be enough to solve the problems of world peace. We EFTA01161843 will not even be able to solve the problems of gang fights in the neighbourhood let alone world wars. The thing which really can help the situation are the minds of men who believe the other people of the world do be their true extended family. However, the Buddha didn't say that if everybody in the world is an extended family it will give rise to happiness, he said that `help your extended family and it willbring EFTA01161844 its results'. Thus if you come to the real reason for helping our extended family you will see that it is the basis of harmony/unity in society. It is the only value that will spread the feeling that the whole of the world is of the same family. To bring peace to the world you have to start with the smallest viable unit. You cannot start by making the world `out there' peaceful. It is like someone who wants to EFTA01161845 build a large skyscraper. One might prepare many blueprints and designs but all this will come to nothing if you don't take care of the quality of the building materials such as sand and cement then no matter how good your design is the building will soon collapse. However, if you concentrate on the quality of the materials, so that there is no dust or splinters of wood mixed up with the sand, you make a careful control of the size of EFTA01161846 gravel, you make sure that the steel is not rusted or bent, then apart from building an attractive skyscraper you will also build to last. In the same way, if we want to build a society which is one of quality then we have to start with the buildings blocks of society which are the c1os208 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living est to us and that means our relations with our extended family. EFTA01161847 C. LOOKING AFTER YOUR EXTENDED FAMILY C.1 Appropriate times to help We have already mentioned that there are certain times when people lose their independence and have special need of the support of the extended family around them. The following circumstances are times when it is particularly important for us to pay attention to looking after our extended family: 1. When our extended family fall EFTA01161848 on hard times and are without refuge. Supposing a child in our extended family is orphaned then perhaps we will take on such a child to look after for herself. 2. When our extended family needs investment to set themselves up in life. Sometimes a family cannot go as far in its education as it would like to because its own family is unable to pay its way into higher education, even EFTA01161849 though the child has the potential to go further. 3. When our extended family needs to travel but has no transport 4. When our extended family lacks necessary equipment for pursuing their livelihood. 5. When some of our extended family is ill 6. When there is some special occasion e.g. usually we don't pay much attention to our extended family, but on the occasion of the EFTA01161850 wedding of someone in our extended family, and they need to set themselves up in life, maybe we will help to be the sponsor. Maybe you will help with the expenses involved with a funeral in the family or an ordination in the family. 7. When someone in our family is unjustly accused of something they didn't do. 8. When someone in the family is affected by natural disasters. EFTA01161851 C.2 Emotional Bunk Account us the basis of help for one's family There are four main ways in which you can assist your extended family. We call these the Four Bases of Sympathy [salgahavatthu]: I. Helping with resources [dAna]: This means giving or lending whatever we can spare which are useful to our extended family. All of these things sound easy but when we come to practising, they are not so simple. All it takes is EFTA01161852 one of our extended family to come borrowing 5,000 or 10,000 when our salary is hardly enough to cover the month's overheads. If they come borrowing 100,000 you would hardly take their request seriously any more. If we are still in difficulties about being generous to others at this point this is telling us that our cultivation of blessings at the level of Blessings Fourteen and Fifteen is not EFTA01161853 yet sufficient. If we are not really very earnest or efficient in the work that we do, and we never keep any savings then we still have our weaknesses. Thus if we are thorough in our thinking instead of thinking that it is enough just to cover our own basic needs, we have to think also of the eventuality of our extended family needing to rely on us as well. If you are skilful in the application of these principles you will find EFTA01161854 that the members of your extended family are always on the increase and you will never be short of help in times of need. Even if beggars come to our door, we should find something to help them with, according to our means. In the old days, men would always keep a little money in reserve for times of need. If anyone came to them in need, at least they would not lose their friendship. (see EFTA01161855 budgetting scheme of Blessing Fifteen §E.2) If you can't afford to lend them money, at least give them advice. Even if you can't give them advice, maybe you can give them the busfare to reach the houses of other friends who may be able to help more. 2. Endearing speech [piyavAcA]: This means speaking in a way that is not at all upsetting to our extended family and not looking down on them EFTA01161856 either. Normally we are able to be polite to others the whole of the time. However if we are irritable or in bad mood, even though we may try to say things politely, they never seem to come out as we intended — especially when we have to give reasons for things instead of telling people "just do what I say". The other time when it Blessing Seventeen: Looking After One's Extended Family 209 is difficult for us to speak politely EFTA01161857 is the time when others come asking for help from us but we have to refuse. Refusing in a way that is gentle is no easy thing. If you have never made the effort to speak politely before then it is at this point that you will say something thay you may regret for years to come. Maybe you didn't realize that the 300 or 500 that they have been giving us willingly all these years has been the last EFTA01161858 cents out of their purse every time. For them they didn't think that the money they gave was insignificant, but they thought of the fact that they were prepared to empty out their purse even to the last cent every time we came asking. If we speak insensitively every time when they have cause to come asking us for help, then that may be the end of any relationship we ever had to them. Just a few ill considered EFTA01161859 words may mean that we cannot look each other in the eye any more for the rest of our lives. It is very frightening what words can do. It is strange that when we are children we tend not to hide our feelings because we aren't concerned about what other people think of us. Our moods fluctuate between tantrums and laughs thoughout the whole of the day. However, when we grow older, the same is EFTA01161860 no longer true. A few ill chosen words from another adult and even if they were to come back asking your forgiveness with a gift of a million, you would still be reluctant to speak to them. Therefore start training yourself in endearing speech from this day on, so that when it comes to situations where you are taxed for words you won't risk being ostracised from your own family 3. Lending a helping hand EFTA01161861 [atthacariya]: This means helping our extended family out when they have work to be done. Even if you don't have money to lend, you are still strengthening the bonds of friendship within your extended family by giving them a helping hand. 4. Being consistent to one's duty [samanatthattha]: This means giving others familiarity and confidence and not doing things that create EFTA01161862 suspicion. You need to conduct yourself in a way befitting your status in the eyes of your extended family. Sometimes members of our extended family may have received only a low level of education. Sometimes they may not know the appropriate way to behave in a particular situation. Maybe all they know is that `Whitey' is their grandson — but what they don't realise is that Mr. White is also the Managing EFTA01161863 Director of a firm. Thus when they visit Mr. White at his work and shout, "Come here Whitey!" at first Mr. White may have to listen patiently to the stream of things they have for him to help them with, but only later, when the situation is more relaxed on both sides will he be able to point out the reasons for things, step by step. If you are not able to help with everything they ask then you must EFTA01161864 find a way of helping them but in a more feasible way. C.3 Spiritual ways to help `extendedfamily' Apart from helping people with material things, we can also help people with Dhamma (teachings). To give Dhamma to people is often even more important than the physical things we give to people. It can be especially important when we come to help members of our extended family who are already EFTA01161865 materially self-sufficient but who are still a long way from spiritual pursuits such as generosity or keeping the precepts. You might invite your aunt to go to the temple but she complains of having too many aches and pains to go to the temple today. Therefore you give her a helping hand by driving a car to pick her up from her doorstep to take her to the temple and return her to her temple in the evening. So she complains that she doesn't EFTA01161866 have anything to give at the temple, so you say that you have already prepared all the food to offer at the temple and that all she needs to do is to offer it. Thus she agrees to go to the temple and later as she gets more familiar with the customs of the temple, later she will want to go without anyone prodding her — and before long she will want to be generous, keep the precepts and meditate without others having to give EFTA01161867 her encouragement all of the time. You might have a relative who has already got a good job but because he is still childish and irresponsible he is unable to set himself up properly in life. If you can 210 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living persuade such a person to take leave from work to ordain as a monk during the vacation, and you make all the arrangements for him and make him aware of all the advantages. Then EFTA01161868 that would be called looking after your extended family spiritually. C.4 Choosing the sort offamily to help It is not every sort of family who will benefit from help you might try to give them. If you would like to maximize the amount of merit and satisfaction you gain from caring for your extended family, give priority to families who: • Make an earnest effort to help themselves first — not the sort who come EFTA01161869 running to you every time there is a minor problem and never think to try to solve their own problems • Those who are of good conduct, who are grateful, humble and courteous and who aren't mixed up with the `Roads to Ruin' D. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES D.1 Metaphor: Lone pine cannot survive in strong wind The Lord Buddha taught that all of EFTA01161870 the trees that stand together in the forest will help each other mutually giving shelter from the gales and storms, sun and rain. By offering each other shelter, each tree is protected from being uprooted. On the other hand the largest tree (the king of the forest) in the forest must endure the strong winds alone and in the end it cannot survive every storm. In the same way if anyone tries to go it alone in the swift currents EFTA01161871 of society, without the help of any friends and relatives, will eventually come to a sticky end. On the other hand, even if someone in society is not particularly outstanding in any respect, if they have sufficient friends and family who can help them in times of need, they will be able to overcome all difficulties that cross their path. If they run for election, without much canvassing they can soon be elected without much trouble. EFTA01161872 D.2 Ex. VaEEaka JAtaka (J.33) The bodhisattva was once a quail. There was a fowler who enticed quails by imitating their cry and then throwing a net over them. The bodhisattva suggested that when the fowler did this, they should all fly away with the net. This they did, day after day, and the fowler returned empty-handed until eventually his wife grew angry. One day, two of the quails started quarrelling and the EFTA01161873 bodhisattva, hearing their wrangling, decided to go elsewhere with his following. When the fowler came again and spread the net, the two quails started quarrelling and he was able to capture them. D.3 Ex. War in KaliIga (DhA.iii.254ff.) Kapilavatthu, the town of the Sakyans, and Koliya, the town of the Koliyans were situated on either side of the Rohini River. The farmers of both towns irrigated their fields EFTA01161874 from this river. One year, due to severe drought their paddy and other crops were threatened, and the farmers on both sides wanted to divert the water from the Rohini River to their own fields. Those living in Koliya wanted to divert and channel the water to irrigate their field. However, the farmers from Kapilavatthu protested that they would be denied the use of the water and their crops would EFTA01161875 be destroyed. Both sides wanted the water for their own use only and as a result, there was much and hatred on both sides. The quarrel that started between the farmers soon spread like fire and the matter was reported to their respective rulers. Failing to find a compromise, both sides prepared to go to war. The Buddha came to know that his relatives on both sides of the river were EFTA01161876 preparing for battle. For their wellbeing and happiness and to avoid unnecessary suffering, he decided to stop them. All alone, he went and appeared in the middle of the river. His relatives on seeing him, laid aside all their weapons and paid homage to him. Then, the Buddha admonished them, asking, `what do you think is more precious, irrigation water or your royal blood?' They replied "Our royal blood is EFTA01161877 more precious" "For the sake of some water, which is of little value, you should not destroy your lives which are of so much value. Why have you taken this Blessing Seventeen: Looking After One's Extended Family 211 unwholesome course of action? If I had not been here today, your blood would have been flowing like this river by now. You are living with hatred, but I live free from hatred. You are ailing with EFTA01161878 moral defilements, but I am free from moral defilements. You are striving to develop selfishness and enmity, but I don't strive for the development of selfishness." Both sides then became ashamed of their foolishness and thus bloodshed was averted. The Buddha was also to help his extended family, the Sakyans by prohibiting ViIElabha from massacring them out of anger, as many as three EFTA01161879 times (See Blessing Thirty-Three §D.6) D.4 Ex. Kukkura JAtaka (J.22) Because his carriage straps, left in the rain, are gnawed by his own dogs, the king of Benares orders all dogs except his own to be killed indiscriminately. The Bodhisattva, who was the leader of the pack of dogs in the cemetary, visited the king and pointed out to him his iniquity, and reveals the truth by causing an emetic to be administered EFTA01161880 to the king's own dogs. In this way the Bodhisattva cared for his "extended family" by making sure justice was delivered to all of his kind. Having convinced the king, the Bodhisattva taught him the The Ten Virtues of a King and to avoid the Four Forms of Bias. Great are the benefactions thereafter made to dogs in the kingdom. D.5 Ex. Buddha tends the sick monk himself (DhA.i.319ff) EFTA01161881 Once the Buddha happened to see the sorrowful state of a certain monk called `Tissa'. The monk had been meditating diligently until becoming afflicted with a disease of stinking open sores covering his whole body. Because of the smell, he had been abandoned by his fellow monks.The Buddha knew that Tissa would soon attain Arahanthood, so he proceeded to the fire-shed, close to the place where the monk was staying. There, he personally boiled some water, EFTA01161882 went to the place where the monk was lying down, and took hold of the edge of the couch. It was only then that the other monks also gathered round him, and as instructed by the Buddha, they carried him out where he was washed and bathed.While he was being bathed his robes were washed and dried. After the bath, the monk became fresh in body and mind and soon developed one-pointedness of concentration. Standing at the head of the EFTA01161883 couch, the Buddha told him that this body when devoid of life would be as useless as a log and would be laid on the earth. At the conclusion of the sermon, Tissa attained Arahanthood. Soon after, he passed away into ParinibbAna.The Buddha then directed some bhikkhus to cremate his body and enshrine his relics in a stEpa. Subsequently, the Buddha taught, Thikkhus! You do not have your mother or father here who can tend to you. If you do not tend to one EFTA01161884 another, who will be there to tend to you? Tend a sick fellow monk as if you were tending me.' 212 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Blessing Eighteen: Blameless Work 213 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 Blessing Eighteen in the Sequence of the Blessings The workplace is somewhere we have already been familiar with since Blessing Fourteen — but last EFTA01161885 time we visited, we were interested in work only as a means to earn the salary we needed to support the close family (as covered in Blessings Eleven, Twelve and Thirteen). Now we have matured a little further in the sequence of the Blessings, we return to our work, not as simply something which needs to be completed, but to be completed well! Within the context of this Fifth Grouping of Blessings, `Becoming a pillar of society', it EFTA01161886 matters not simply that we finish our work, but also how well we do it and how beneficial it is to society too! In this Blessing we are to learn about the quality and the ethicality of the work we do important factors in being the sort of person others in society can look up to. A.2 Buddhist Economics `Economics' is not a term native to Buddhism. "Buddhist Economics" is a phrase coined by E.F. EFTA01161887 Schumacher — but the concepts involved (especially Right Livelihood at the mundane [lokiya] level) are very relevant to explaining a second visit to the workplace is necessary. Like the diligent but shoddy and corrupt worker tolerated by Blessing Fourteen, contemporary western economics tries to measure social well-being by financial transactions alone. Western economists try to avoid involvement of values when considering the EFTA01161888 `economics' of different actions — and their approach is thus radically different from that of Buddhism. To give some examples of iniquities in the modern economic analysis, transactions which are considered . . . : • Economic non-events: Any work which doesn't get paid a wage is a non-event to an economist - so much for voluntary work in the temple! • Economically equal activities.- EFTA01161889 The purchase of a bottle of whisky and or a sack of rice to feed a village of hungry refugees have the same economic value • `Negligible' economic by-products: That vices are by-products of attending night-clubs, rampant consumerism the result of advertising, temptation towards unethical business practices the result of competition — have no place in the economic equation. EFTA01161890 Costs given consideration in the Buddhist economic equation: To Buddhism, by contrast, the economics of livelihood has a human face (i.e. it acknowledges values). Below are listed some of the factors to be encouraged in the equation of Buddhist economics: • Physical health and security of the population: If the public are made ill by unethical business practices, the medical costs it is the victims who end up paying the bill EFTA01161891 through Blessing Eighteen: Blameless Work 214 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living their own taxes! When consumerism exacerbates crimes, guess who has to pay for police investigations and prosecution of the offenders? • Spiritual Health: the ravages of over-consumption and over-production reflect unhealthy mental processes in the population EFTA01161892 generated by the superficial emotions of want, choice and material satisfaction — emotions which Buddhism does not encourage; • Quality of work: Shoddy work is produced by shoddy minds. Buddhism foresees a working environment where workers are enthusiastic to give their best, because in so doing, apart from job satisfaction, workers will have the chance to train and better EFTA01161893 themselves and refine their minds through their working experience; • Job satisfaction: If workers enjoy their work and are industrious, productivity will be high. On the other hand, if they are dishonest, disgruntled or lazy, this will have a negative effect on the quality of production and the amount of productivity. • Respect for individual human dignity: To be ethically sound, economic activity EFTA01161894 must take place in a way that is not harmful to the individual, • Respect for interpersonal human dignity: To be ethically sound, economic activity must take place in a way that does not encourage one individual to take advantage of another; • Respect for fair economics/human dignity of society at large: society or the natural environment. In other words, economic activity should not cause problems for EFTA01161895 oneself, agitation in society or degeneration of the ecosystem, but rather enhance well-being in these three spheres. A.3 Three types of Worker Workers in the world have many styles and qualities, but in conclusion you can divide successful workers into three major kinds: 1. those who finish what they do without being interested in the quality; 2. those who finish their work to the best of their EFTA01161896 quality; 3. those who care that the result of their work is beneficial to society; The Buddha taught that anyone who wants to be a pillar of society must pay attention to the quality of every piece of work they do as well as finishing it. A.4 Three types of work Work in Buddhism, as already discussed in Blessing Fourteen (a source of food both for body and mind) is a term which relates to a EFTA01161897 much wider scope of activities that that implied by our 40-hour week! Thus, before going into further detail as to which sort of work is blameworthy and which not, it is important to recognize the scope of this analysis. The term `work' includes: 1. physical work (e.g. cooking or governing the country); 2. verbal work (e.g. training our children or grandchildren, business negotiation or chanting) EFTA01161898 (most of the details of this sort of work have already been discussed in Blessing Ten); 3. mental work (adjustment and development of our own thoughts to overcome the inbuilt tendency of our thoughts to degenerate into preoccupation with sensuality [kAmavitakka], vengefulness [byApAda-vitakka] or aggression [vihiOsavitakka].; The principles of `blame' discussed in relation to EFTA01161899 work, although mostly dealing with the context of physical work here, can in fact equally be applied to verbal and mental work too. B. JUDGING THE ETHICAL VALUE OF WORK Often when people are looking to measure the standard of the work they are doing they rely too heavily on the amount of praise or criticism they receive from others (see example §E.1 below). The Buddha warned us that to use such an arbitrary EFTA01161900 measurement as our standard is not foolproof. In the world there are so many people of different viewpoints that you could never please all of the people all of the time. Some people cannot find a Blessing Eighteen: Blameless Work 215 word of praise for anyone. Thus whatever the task you do, you cannot listen simply to the criticism of others — because some people's criticism is possibly without any foundation. You have EFTA01161901 to measure the quality of work based on reason. Therefore whatever work you are doing, never base your decisions on the criticism of others. What then can you base your decisions on? The Buddha taught that we should make sure any work we do is: I. Not illegal: this is the grossest filter of blame in work — but it is too gross to cover all eventualities, and this is why we need EFTA01161902 to resort to the other three criteria too; 2. Not breaking with tradition: Some things don't break the law, but because they are out of keeping with local customs or traditions, they may bring you into conflict with others. Supposing a man wears women's clothes — will the police arrest him? Probably not, but it is certainly not very good. Or when you are eating, there is a EFTA01161903 division made between sweet and savoury food. Some countries eat savoury food before they eat sweet desserts. Some, like Japan, eat their sweet food first. Not all customs are universally good. They may be applicable only to the particular locality or climate in a place. So how can you tell if a custom is worth respecting or not? Supposing you want to choose what to wear EFTA01161904 to go to the temple. You know that it certainly won't break the law. As for customs, you know that in different places, the way people dress is not the same to go to the market you dress in a cosmopolitan way, to go to the cinema you dress in a fun-loving way, to go to the seaside you dress to the minimum — but if you go to the temple, EFTA01161905 EFTA01161906 osnuoickuoo 1 'uop noiC 靶琅 S0MSU0 ：s;＜Jadaid-at?ja／gurivaaq;ON T 'Jouoq 0w 1Tom 1 noA spre ss0upljpunu qons pm ssougu op Jo Iona! umo .1noA jo 'mon° oq O) no人 somojos Bump osnt ooq ojdwo) o琅 . c8 O1 01 .!qm °TT mom°lsopom E I ssoip O）kniumno s! ’人ioniwniosuoo put Apsopom oJ ssalp pInotTs no c Injoaeod oq ism!alogdsoulw osn ooq human dignity of others or of yourself (as already described in Blessing Nine). 4. Not compromising your Five Virtues Iparicadhammal: This ensures that you don't fall into unwholesome ways which compromise virtue or justice (in the ways already described in Blessing Seventeen) Thus, if in the future, you want to be a pillar of society, then give things careful EFTA01161907 consideration before you do them. You have to do things well — not just finish them. If you want to know if there is going to be any bad side-effects occurring as the result of something we do, check by using these four principles. Check the law, customs, Precepts and virtue. C. AVOIDING WRONG LIVELIHOOD The Buddha taught that we should earn our living by working for it and by working honestly too — EFTA01161908 otherwise the economy and society cannot truly prosper. Of course earning your living by thieving, shop-lifting or pick-pocketing is not supported by Buddhism these forms of work have already been ruled out in our consideration of the ethical value of work above. But there is a grey area of what constitutes a fair profit, which the Buddha charted for us with the concept of Right and Wrong Livelihood. Those who make a success out of EFTA01161909 Right Livelihood in business will have a positive effect on the economic situation of their country too but those involved in Wrong Livelihood enterprises, whether directly or indirectly are undermining the well-being of their country by so doing. The Buddha said that a person who earns their living by Wrong Livelihood is like someone who intentionally advises a traveller to take a dangerous road, saying that it is safe, but when EFTA01161910 travelling themselves, will always take another (safer) route. The main ways people earn a living are in either in the public or in the private sector — and we will look at the specific considerations of Right and Wrong Livelihood for each in turn: C.1 Private Enterprise Most work in private enterprise can be simplified 216 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living down to trading a product or a service. For Right EFTA01161911 Livelihood in the trading scenario the Buddha taught us to avoid five specific types of Wrong Livelihood: I. Dealing in slaves [sattavaAijjA]: This means buying people at a low price and selling them at a higher price and supporting oneself from the profit made — or running a brothel where you are making a profit out of the loss of another person's dignity. Taking on such an occupation will change the quality of your EFTA01161912 mind it will cause you to see people as something inanimate. You will eventually lose your sense of humanity because you will no longer be able to appreciate others' human dignity. 2. Dealing in weapons [satthavaAijjA]: This means weapons for killing animals or people and supporting oneself from the profit made — selling weapons will make you see the EFTA01161913 world in a strange way. The quality of the wares you are selling all depend on the efficiency with which the weapons can kill men or animals — eventually it will cause your own Precepts to suffer. 3. Dealing in flesh [maOsavaAijjA]: This means rearing live animals (like buffalos, pigs, ducks and chickens) to slaughter oneself or have someone else slaughter for us and supporting EFTA01161914 oneself from the profit made — most people see animals with compassion, but if you kill them or trade with those in the abattoir, instead of seeing the nice side of animals, you will see animals as nothing more than a walking meat counter. Even though you might not be directly involved in such a trade, your appreciation of the preciousness of life will disappear. If ever you lose your temper there EFTA01161915 will be an increased intention for you to threaten people with the same murderous intentions that belong inside the abattoir. 4. Dealing in alcohol [majjavaAijjA]: This means selling alcohol (or any other sort of substance causing heedlessness) and supporting oneself from the profit made — it doesn't break the law or customs — but it does break with Right Livelihood. If you sell alcohol you EFTA01161916 know that it will lead to the drunkenness of the customer — it will destroy their reputation, their wealth, their health etc. etc. however, you don't feel any compassion for such a person or responsibility for their human dignity. You know all the damaging consequences of buying our alcohol for the customer, but you look beyond these in your search for profit. Loving kindness EFTA01161917 becomes a stranger to your heart. The more evil of this sort you collect for yourself, in this lifetime or in future lifetimes, if ever you find yourself in difficulties yourself, your evil will prevent others from having any compassion for you — even those you have helped before — even your own children. The karma will block out the reality and you won't be able to blame them. EFTA01161918 5. Dealing in poisons [visavaAijjA]: This means selling poisons for killing animals (e.g. insecticide) and supporting oneself from the profit made. In many places where mosquitos are not even the vectors of malaria (like in Bangkok) people are dying not of malaria, but of self-poisoning from the DDT they spray on the mosquitoes. People think that insecticide will become benign again within a EFTA01161919 few hours but actually it takes about fifteen to twenty years to break down. If a bottle of such poison smashes on the floor, even if you clean up thoroughly, the smell still remains for two or three weeks. If you work in the poison trade, there are broken bottles and spillages nearly every day. Even if you never use the poison, you are inhaling it every day. Those in the EFTA01161920 trade die of respiratory disease and blood cancer almost without exception. Those who do any of these trades, will find themselves increasingly unable to cultivate an `Emotional Bank Account' [saIgahavatthu] with anyone else. Furthermore, those who work in commerce but who are dishonest (by for example fixing their weights and measures) also fall into the category of Wrong Livelihood. Another EFTA01161921 variety of Wrong Livelihood are the forms of deception used by forgBlessing Eighteen: Blameless Work 217 ers - for example, they provide the first batch of their work all in solid gold — however, as soon as the order is placed, the remainder of their work will be in gold-plated brass. C.2 Public Sector It would be impossible for Wrong Livelihood enterprises to exist, whether on the large or small scale, without some form of EFTA01161922 cooperation from a corrupt Public Sector — whether it be the "soft drug" industry, gun running, casinos, forgery, prostitution, or assassination. Any such involvement shows that those implicated are devoid of any sense of responsibility for human dignity in the fairness of the economy of their own country. Usually the enemy of Right Livelihood in the Public Sector is bribery or corruption — for example EFTA01161923 surveyors in charge of measuring land for a buyer, if they are dishonest or corrupt and don't get paid protection money, will over-measure the land. However, if they are bribed, will undermeasure it. Judges who can be bribed to come to a verdict are no better. All come under the heading of Wrong Livelihood. C.3 Special Occupations C.3.1 Military In addition to the work categories already explained, EFTA01161924 special mention should be given to the work of the professional soldier which comes into strong disagreement with any form of Buddhist practice. In the time of the Buddha there was a soldier who thought that soldiers who fought bravely for their king and country would have heaven as their afterlife destination. However, the Buddha explained that: `those who kill will be killed in return' EFTA01161925 Dutiya KAmavatthu Sutta (S.i.83) And that there are only two possible afterlife destinations even for those who (only) consider killing others — and those are hell and the animal realms — whether they be soldiers, cavaliers or soldiers mounted on elephants. [YodhAjEva Sutta (S.iv.308), AssAroha Sutta (S.iv.310), HatthAroha Sutta (S.iv.310)] C.3.2 Doctors and Nurses On the contrary, to be a doctor or a nurse can be a EFTA01161926 profession which can bring great merit if it is done well. If it is done badly, it can bring serious demerit. It was therefore for this reason that the Buddha gave guidelines on the abilities of those prerequisite for making a good doctor or nurse (in his particular context to look after sick monks): 1. Must have the ability to prescribe the appropriate medicine; 2. Must know the difference between what is for the comfort and discomfort of EFTA01161927 patients, being able to increase the comfort and decrease the discomfort of the patient by his or her actions; 3. Not just interested in the payment received from the treatment — healing should be done out of the prime motivation of compassion 4. Does not object to the removal/excretion of the patient's excrement, urine, vomit and saliva; 5. Able to cheer up the patient with timely EFTA01161928 Dhamma teachings Dutiya UpaEEhAka Sutta (A.iii.144) C.3.3 Devious Customers Even customers can do it! Supposing a butcher has two deer for sale, a big one and a small one. He asks $20 for the big one and $10 for the little one. A devious customer comes up and buys the little one for $10. Some time later he comes back and says he changed his mind and he wants the big one. The butcher asks $20 for the big deer, EFTA01161929 but the customer says that he already gave the hunter $10 and that the small deer he is returning is also worth $10. Together they are worth $20, the price of the big deer. The customer therefore exchanges the big deer for the small one. Meanwhile the butcher is not smart enough to keep up with the customer's trick and is thereby cheated. On this occasion, the customer is guilty of Wrong Livelihood even though he might EFTA01161930 say the butcher deserved it. Therefore, if you aim to be a pillar of society who is beyond criticism by any reasonable person in the world, measure your work carefully by the standard of Right Livelihood. Apart from avoiding criticism, all tasks which you do will be done to the 218 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living best of your ability. Others will regard you as an elder in society not only because of your advancing EFTA01161931 age, but also because of your wisdom and example to upcoming generations. D. RELATIONSHIPS IN THE WORKPLACE Apart from the ethicality of work, a second area of problems in the work we do may come from personal conflicts arising at work. Irrespective of the nature of the work, we need to cultivate good human relationships in the workplace otherwise we might risk blame and undermine our job satisfaction. EFTA01161932 We have to be able to get along with our colleagues whether they are true friends or false. Our relationship with this group of co-workers (whether they be our boss, employees, servants, inferiors or slaves!) are covered in the fifth grouping of relationships mentioned in the SilgalovAda Sutta. From this teaching we find out about the reciprocal relationship between the boss and the employee. D.1 Duties of an employer EFTA01161933 The Buddha laid down five responsibilities of a boss to his employees as follows: 1. Delegating appropriate work: Work given to an employee should be chosen as appropriate to that person's age and gender and disposition and capability in order that they can work efficiently; 2. Give food and remuneration: A decent wage should be given which is not less than the legal minimum. There should be wage EFTA01161934 increase with time and bonuses. Employees who live "on site" should be provided with regard to appropriate food not left hungry! A boss with such caring behaviour will be able to relinquish the effects of both bias and defilements of action; 3. Take care of employees in time of illness: Employees should be allowed to take leave if sick and enquiries should be made EFTA01161935 about their recovery to show the features of a "true friend" of the boss; 4. From time to time give delicacies: organize celebration for special occasions for the employees etc. — and this will give them the encouragement which will keep the boss-employee relationship an amicable one; 5. Allow holidays on occasion: employees should be allowed holidays according to the usual working calendar and EFTA01161936 national festivals Employers and bosses who take responsibility for their employees in these five ways will in such a way cultivate a mind of loving-kindness and compassion instead of simply thinking to take advantage of others. A boss with all the features of a true friend — but such an attitude doesn't occur by accident — it needs for the boss to have been instilled with such responsibility since an early age, whosoever EFTA01161937 fulfil their duties to the "nadir" in these ways. D.2 Duties of an employee The Buddha also laid down five responsibilitiesan employee ought to have towards his employee: I. Start work before him; 2. Finish work after him: If any employee who can practise both of these duties, it shows that they have a strong degree of responsibility towards their employer — a sincere respect, love and gratitude towards their EFTA01161938 employer — rather than having the hidden intention that their behaviour be conditional on their employer raising their salary; 3. Taking only the things (expressly) given to them by the employer: an employee who can have the control of himself to avoid the defilements of action will not help themselves to the things `left lying around' in the workplace or steal the boss's belongings; EFTA01161939 4. Doing their work better: Means giving their all to fulfil their duties for the greatest benefit — without having conditions to negotiate salary increases from their employer — such behaviour shows that the employee really has the generosity befitting a "wise one". 5. Maintaining and defending the boss's good reputation: employees with such behaviour do so because of their loyalty to EFTA01161940 their employers — they see their boss as similar to the ways they would regard a kindly relative or parent. Blessing Eighteen: Blameless Work 219 In general, it is the employer who controls the benefits and disadvantages coming to an employee. That an employee fulfils these five responsibilities towards an employer means that the employer must have treated the employee well in the first place — EFTA01161941 to want to show these responsibilities to repay his debt of gratitude. D.3 Reciprocal Relationship between Boss & Employer If the boss does not fulfil his duties but the employee does, the boss does not deserve such a good employee — in the end harm will come to that workplace because seeing the boss's attitude, before long the employees will imitate his example. If the boss fulfils his duties, but the employee EFTA01161942 doesn't — the employee does not deserve such a good employer — the workplace will not prosper because the boss cannot control the employees. If both boss and employees fail to fulfil their duties, the workplace will go bankrupt because it will become a den of thieves — having dire consequences for society at large. However if both boss and employee fulfil their responsibilities, the workplace will prosper — both EFTA01161943 boss and employee will enjoy happiness and peace and society will benefit too. D.4 Possible Harm comingfrom unfulfilled duties between boss and employee 1. When employees have no sense of responsibility for their own human dignity — if a boss or employer lacks the self-discipline according to the teaching of the Buddha, the first disaster coming to him is that his employees will have no sense of responsibility for their EFTA01161944 own human dignity, producing at least the following three character traits: 1. Chronicfalse view: Mostly employees come from an unwealthy and uneducated background and if they come into contact with an undisciplined boss who is a false friend, the employee will be discontent and will resist against the boss — an emotion which may exacerbate False View in the EFTA01161945 employee's mind. 2. Breaks the Five Precepts: Those of False View also tend to break the Five Precepts. Employees might deteriorate into the Four Defilements of Action in order to fight back against the employer, without any fear of the legal consequences 3. Brings disadvantage to the employer: in order to avoid breaking the law, employees band together to strike in order to claim EFTA01161946 rights and benefits for themselves. Any form of strike will disadvantage the employer. 2. When employees have no sense of responsibility for the human dignity of others if a boss or employer lacks the self-discipline according to the teaching of the Buddha, the second disaster coming to him is that his employees will have no sense of responsibility for the human dignity of others, producing at least the EFTA01161947 following three character traits: I. Lookingfor ways to take advantage of the employer: When bias arises in the mind of the employee — they will want to put the employer at a disadvantage — something they can do in many ways, e.g. by "going slow" (if paid by the hour) or producing shoddy work (ifpaidfor productivity). 2. Mistreats employer: In order to get revenge EFTA01161948 for the resentment they feel, they produce shoddy goods or feign quality; 3. Ruin the employer: Sometimes the employee divulges trade secrets to competing companies etc. 3. When employees have no sense of responsibility for the human dignity of economic fairness — if a boss or employer lacks the self-discipline according to the teaching of the Buddha, the third disaster coming to him is that his EFTA01161949 employees will have no sense of responsibility for the human dignity for economic fairness, producing at least the following three character traits: I. Addiction to the `Six Roads to Ruin': because of working to express animosity towards the employer, they will feel insecurity about working in that enterprise and immerse themselves in `Roads to Ruin' to forget their woes by drinking alcohol or gambling; EFTA01161950 2. Undisciplined in expenditure: When they are 220 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living addicted to `roads to ruin', they will lose the intelligence to use their earnings beneficially; 3. Consequent debt problems: The combination of addictions and lack of discipline in expenditure will lead them to indebtedness producing problems not only for themselves but eventually for the employer too! EFTA01161951 E. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES E.1 Ex. The Father, the Son and the Donkey Once there were a father and a son who went to the market in a distant town and bought a donkey. They led the donkey back towards their home on a rope. On the way back from the market, they passed through the first village and all the villagers exclaimed, "What a stupid father and son, they have spent good money on a donkey and EFTA01161952 now they lead it along the road instead of riding it". The father and son thought, "What they say is true," and so the father sat the son on the donkey and they went on their way. They passed through the second village and all the villagers exclaimed, "What an ungrateful son to ride the donkey and leave his poor father to walk — if the son were to walk and let his father ride, it would show that the son at least repays EFTA01161953 his debt of gratitude to his father". The father and son thought, "What they say is true," and so the father sat on the donkey and the son walked and they went on their way. They passed through the third village and all the villagers exclaimed, "What a cruel father! He has hardly any more years of life in him, and he lets his poor son walk along the road in his place". The father and son consulted one another, "What they say is EFTA01161954 true," and so both the son and the father sat on the donkey and they went on their way. They passed through the fourth village and all the villagers exclaimed, "What a cruel father and son! Both of them together weigh more than the donkey itself and they are both riding the donkey — they're not interested even if they break the donkey's back". The father and son consulted one another, "What they say is true," — if they ride EFTA01161955 the donkey singly, together or lead the donkey, they get criticized — what can they do? They found a rope and tied the donkey so that it hung on the pole by its feet. The father took one end of the pole and the son the other and they went on their way. They passed through the fifth village and all the villagers exclaimed, "This father and son must be mad. What could be the reason they have bought a donkey to carry around like that. Wouldn't EFTA01161956 it be better just to walk empty-handed?" This story only goes to show that if you want to find something to criticize, you can always find something. However, unfortunately, those who spend their whole time criticizing others are very numerous in the world. The moral of the story is that you cannot rely on others' criticism to tell you the truth of a situation — you must have principles which are tried and tested to EFTA01161957 use as a rule of thumb. E.2 Ex. SerivA JAtaka (J.3) The bodhisattva was once a hawker of Seriva and was called SerivA. Once, in the company of a greedy merchant of the same name, he crossed the TelavAha and entered Andhapura. In that city was a family who had fallen on hard times, the sole survivors being a girl and her grandmother. The greedy merchant went to their house with his wares. The girl begged her grandmother to buy a trinket, and EFTA01161958 suggested that they should give the hawker the golden bowl from which they ate. The bowl was a valuable heirloom, but it had lost its lustre and the woman didn't know its value. The hawker was called in and shown the bowl. He scratched it with a needle and knew it was solid gold, but wishing to have it for nothing, he bluffed saying it was not worth half a farthing — so he threw it aside and left. Later, the bodhisattva came EFTA01161959 to the same street and was offered the same bowl. He told them the truth, gave them all the money he had and his stock too, leaving only eight pieces of money for himself. These he gave to the boatman and boarded the boat to cross the river. Meanwhile, the greedy merchant went again to the old woman's house, hoping to get the bowl in exchange for a few trinkets. When he heard what had happened, he lost command of himself, and throwing EFTA01161960 down all he had, ran down to the river to find the bodhisattva's boat in mid-stream. He shouted to the boatman to return, but the bodhisattva urged him on. The merchant, realizing what he had lost through his greed, was so upset that his heart burst and he fell down dead. Blessing Eighteen: Blameless Work 221 E.3 Ex. SEci JAtaka (J.387) The bodhisattva was once a very clever smith of Kasi, but was very poor. The EFTA01161961 principal royal smith had a beautiful daughter and the bodhisattva, wishing to win her, made a needle so delicate that could pierce anvils and float on water. For this needle, he made seven sheaths. He then went to the village of the head smith, stood outside the house and sang the praises of the needle. The smith's daughter, who was fanning her father, told the bodhisattva to go elsewhere EFTA01161962 as no-one in that village wanted needles. The bodhisattva answered that his were no ordinary needles and the head-smith asked him to show them. The bodhisattva suggested that all the smiths be summoned and in their presence, he gave the needle-tube to the head-smith. He thought it was the needle itself, because he could find no end or tip. The tube was handed back to the bodhisattva who took EFTA01161963 out the first sheath. In this way the seven sheaths were removed and when the needle was at last revealed, he made it pierce an anvil and float on water. The whole assembly was filled with envy and admiration and the head-smith gave his daughter to the bodhisattva. 222 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Blessing Eighteen: Blameless Work 223 EFTA01161964 The Sixth Group of Blessings "Preparation of Mind" The first eighteen blessings form the first half of the MaIgala Sutta. They are all concerned with transforming our lives. It is only upon the foundation of security in life achieved in the first half of the Blessings of Life, that one can go on, in the second half of the Sutta EFTA01161965 to cultivate purity of mind in earnest by following Blessings nineteen to thirty-eight. When we come to the start of the sixth grouping we are concerned with the preparation of the mind. 224 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Blessing Nineteen: Abstaining from Unwholesomeness 225 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 Introduction to the Nineteenth Blessing The mind is fickle and easily influenced. A person EFTA01161966 who is virtuous today can easily relapse into bad behaviour tomorrow if his mind has not been cultivated to the point of steadfastness. When you realize the weakness of the mind it immediately implies that we have work to do in the constant upgrading of the mind towards something better. If you really want to be sure that you will never do unwholesome deeds again, then at the least you have to attain EFTA01161967 enlightenment at the level of `stream-enterer' [sotApana]. For those who still fall short of this initial degree of enlightenment — although you can always praise and encourage their good intentions — you can never entirely trust the working of the remaining defilements in their mind. Cultivating virtue can be compared to climbing a tree. Trees have no branches at the lowest level. The lowest branches are EFTA01161968 several metres above the ground. Therefore if you want to start climbing a tree you have to shinny up the trunk before you can sit to rest on the lowest branch. If you don't make it to the first branch, whenever you get tired you will slide back down to the bottom of the tree again. Only if you are on the first branch can you be sure you will not backslide and can you be sure that you have a chance of eating EFTA01161969 the fruit from the tree. In the same way, in the pursuit of virtue, no matter how many years you have been cultivating good deeds, if you have still not managed to attain the body of enlightenment (DhammakAya) inside yourself, you cannot be assured that one day, if you are short of encouragement you will not fall back to your old unwholesome ways. For most people in the world, unfortunately it EFTA01161970 is much easier to do unwholesome (wicked) things rather than wholesome (good) ones. To do unwholesome deeds is like going with the flow — but in fact is is the tide of defilements in the mind. Instead of being ourselves, we become like a puppet to the defilements or demons [mAra] in our minds — in the beginning it might seem easy, but in the long-term suffering and regret is the path to which it leads. By EFTA01161971 comparison to do good deeds is like travelling against the flow — it needs much more patience and precision to go against the tide of temptation and defilement in one's mind. However, although it may seem more difficult in the beginning, in the long term, it has true happiness as its destination. Thus to gain the steadfastness of mind and resist the temptation of slipping into the convenience of unwholesome ways, we have to EFTA01161972 study Blessing Nineteen concerning the avoidance of all unwholesomeness. It is the first step in adjusting our quality of mind. Adjustments to quality of mind will continue in a way that becomes increasingly refined all the way to Blessing Thirty-Eight. Blessing Nineteen: Abstaining from Unwholesomeness EFTA01161973 226 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living B. MORAL APPROACHES TO UNWHOLESOMENESS When comparing different systems of ethics, usually you will not find much disagreement in the discussion of what constitutes a good deed — however, when you come to the morality of avoiding evil, suddenly there is a lot more controversy. People like to do what they feel comes naturally and if you look at man to try to EFTA01161974 find out what appears to be the natural state of man you will come across a lot of surprises. If you were to describe what ought to happen to a rock when you drop it, it falls to the ground every time, so it is easy to make up a rule. However, if you try to make up a rule to describe what man ought to do in any situation, even if you expect the best of intentions from man, you will often be disappointed. Even if you take the EFTA01161975 most crude system governing morality, such as the law, you will find that many people disobey it. Even though people know perfectly well what is right and wrong, they still do misdeeds, and you might argue that if the nature of man is to be disinterested even in the most basic of morality, that it is not man that is the measure of morality, but it must lie elsewhere. Indeed, according to the rationale of Phramonkolthepmuni, the Great EFTA01161976 Abbot of Wat Paknam: "Force needs to be applied to improve peoples' virtues. The mind is like water which tends to sink to its own depth. Without effort, the mind's virtue, like water, will fall to the lowest level — that is the performance of evil deeds. If normal people are to develop their minds to the level of the arahant, then efforts need to be made. The mind has to be brought under EFTA01161977 control until it comes to a standstill. Thus, to govern others, there need to be rules. There needs to be something to force people to become better — and there need to be penalties for breaking the rules." If the rules are to be better than man himself, to make him better, then the question arises where they should come from. The answer to the question is different in different ethical EFTA01161978 systems depending on what each takes as its ideal. In general, you can summarize the origin of these rules under three headings: I. Artificial Morality: artificial morality where the Law court decides what is right or wrong and retribution is man-made; 2. Theistic Morality: where decisions about what is useful or unuseful behaviour are attributed to a supreme supernatural being. In deified religions such as EFTA01161979 Christianity or Islam, sin originates from displeasure or disloyalty to the will of this supreme being and can also be nullified by confession and penance to that being. Supposing the Creator ordered Christians always to think of God and never to take His name in vain — if they were to blaspheme or use God as a swearword because that is against God's will, it is a source of sin. Because EFTA01161980 God and not the perpetrator is the source of the sin, this logic can lead to strange beliefs such as that sin can be transmitted from parents to their children. Adam and Eve ate the forbidden fruit in the Garden of Eden and so committed the primordial sin. As a result of that action all subsequent generations down to the present day all have to suffer as the result. 3. Natural Morality: This does not EFTA01161981 mean doing `whatever comes naturally'! It refers to guidelines for morality which are not attributed to any supernatural source, but which are passed down from a time when men were wiser, more insightful, perceptive and shameful than in the present day. The men did not make the rules but observed the long term consequences of the behaviours — thereby coming EFTA01161982 up with recommendations for how to behave in order not to risk regret at a later time. It is just like a person who vainly tries to wear shoes that are two sizes too small for them. No-one says such behaviour is good or bad — but the truth is that by wearing them, later they will suffer from pain as a result. Thus, natural morality is not a system of judgements, but a description of the likely EFTA01161983 consequences of behaviours in the long term. As we shall see, the Buddhist understanding of Blessing Nineteen: Abstaining from Unwholesomeness 227 wholesomeness andunwholesomeness accords to natural morality. C. UNWHOLESOMENESS The translation of the Pali word ‘pApa' (which we translate glibly as `unwholesomeness') in fact has very broad scope of meaning. The implication of the word is one of `malfunction'. If EFTA01161984 you consider any other malfunctioning object such as a rundown house or a broken-down car or rotten food you might have a better idea of the unpleasant qualities of `pApa'. However the important malfunctioning implied by the term is the malfunctioning of the mind. When the mind malfunctions it takes on the unpleasant qualities of cruelty, impurity and low quality. Anything that detracts from the quality of the EFTA01161985 mind is `unwholesome' for the purposes of our understanding of the word `pApa'. C.1 Origin of `unwholesomeness' in Buddhism The Buddha taught that sin will not arise for those who do no unwholesome deeds. Unwholesomeness will only arise if you do unwholesome deeds, as we can see from the proverbs: Natthi pApaO akubbato No unwholesomeness accrues to those who do no unwholesome deeds Dh. v. 124 EFTA01161986 and AttanA pakataO pApaO attanA saOkilissati, attanA akataO pApaO attanA 'va visujjhati Unwholesomeness accrues personally to those who do unwholesome deeds. Those who do no unwholesome deeds remain pure. Nd1.32 If you don't do any unwholesome deeds, there will be no unwholesome consequences. If you do unwholesome deeds you will receive unwholesome EFTA01161987 consequences. You don't find that one person does unwholesome deeds and another person receives the consequences. If a father eats a meal, he will be full. His son will be left hungry. It is never the case that the father eats a meal and his son has his appetite satisfied thereby! Thus in Buddhism unwholesomeness arises for a person as a result of the unwholesome deeds they do. Unwholesomeness arises in the mind of that person (not in their feet or EFTA01161988 hands etc.) Unwholesome will attach itself to the mind of the doer and will stain the mind of that person making the mind dull and clouded. Unwholesome for Buddhists is produced by action of body, speech or mind which leads to unwholesomeness in the mind. The result of practising discipline until attaining self-discipline is to remove oneself from the influence of the Tenfold Path of Unwholesomeness EFTA01161989 [akusaladhammapatha] (see Blessing Nine §D.2). The Buddha analysed unwholesome states in a very detailed way, because he wanted us to be able to keep up with the changes occurring in our own minds. He expected us even to be able to recognize vengefulness arising in our own minds and withdraw from a situation before it worsens to anger, cruelty or aggression. C.2 Characteristics of Unwholesomeness EFTA01161990 In fact many of the dynamics of unwholesomeness are the same as for merit but they take their action in the opposite way. It is the residue of unwholesome karma which can be done with body, speech or mind. They are like poisons for the mind where merit is a food. Unwholesomeness will tend to cloud the mind, worsen the quality of the mind, it can be accumulated, it belongs to the person who did its originating evil deed, as it EFTA01161991 gives its fruits it will be exhausted, the amount of demerit depends on the strength of intention, amount of effort and the amount of ingratitude of the originating deed, and it will attract misfortune at four levels: mind, personality, lifestyle and society. 1. Level of mind: The first level of description at which unwholesomeness brings retribution is at the level of the mind. The retribution includes clouding the mind, decreasing the EFTA01161992 quality of the mind, bringing unease of mind, making the mind more unstable, making the mind less flexible, making the mind less radiant, decreasing the potential of the mind, obstructing decision-making, obstructing insightful analysis of any situation, make thinking less thorough and comprehensive, obstructing thought that is noble or deep; 228 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living EFTA01161993 2. Level of Personality: Damage to the quality of the mind brings about the following general changes in personality — physical awkwardness, bringing ignorance, crudeness and clumsiness, causing a decay of tastes and values, deterioration of character and personality, lack of skill in speech, deterioration of behaviour, more impatience, less control over temper, worsened personal appearance, more anxieties. EFTA01161994 3. Level of Lifestyle: Unwholesomeness will take its effect on our mind and our personality immediately whenever we perform an unwholesome action. At the third level, that of the lifestyle, however, we cannot be sure how quickly the damage will be manifested because our quality of lifetime arises as the result of both present and past deeds. General disadvantages include failure, condemnation, EFTA01161995 vulnerability to misfortune, lack of attainment, disappointment in the things we wish for. 4. Level of Society: Beyond the level of lifestyle, accumulated collective results of the unwholesomeness of many people together will give rise to: Sorrow, disharmony, injustice, aggression, lack of progress, hardship at the social and family levels C.3 Purifying oneselffrom unwholesomeness EFTA01161996 In Buddhism unwholesomeness arises as the residue of our own unwholesome deeds. Unwholesomeness which we have accrued for ourselves will stay with us until it gives its retribution. To do good deeds does not even out the bad ones we have done — they are like two separate bank accounts. However, if we would like to reduce the effect of unwholesomeness you have accrued for yourself in the past is to do as many good deeds as you can, EFTA01161997 thereby to dilute the relative amount of unwholesomeness in your karmic history (as already mentioned in Blessing 16, §A.1, A.2). D. ABSTAINING FROM UNWHOLE-SOMENESS D.1 Definitions This blessing uses two words to describe the way in which unwholesomeness can be eradicated from the mind. Arati' means giving up any unwholesome habits which we have picked up in the past — i.e. eradication.' Virati' means EFTA01161998 not picking up any further types of unwholesome habit — i.e. by avoidance. D.2 Strategiesfor abstinence The way we practice eradication and avoidance of unwholesomeness depends on the exact type of unwholesomeness. Even medicine needs to be separated into different classes such as internal, external, vitamins etc. for convenience in using them to cure illnesses. In the same way if we understand the different sorts of EFTA01161999 unwholesomeness, we will be thorough in our giving up and avoidance of unwholesomeness behaviours and practice will be more convenient for us. Unwholesomeness is categorized according to its refinement and the appropriate way to avoid such unwholesomeness depends on their refinement. D.2.1 Gross unwholesomeness Gross unwholesomeness includes physical and verbal misdeed such as killing, stealing, committing adultery and lying. No-one stops EFTA01162000 doing evil by accident. One has to start with the intention to avoid evil. It is like the person who wants to give up smoking has to start with the intention to give up smoking first of all. The intention to avoid evil is called "virati" in the Pali or "veramaAE" which you will recognize from the requesting of the Precepts. In fact there are three ways in which people avail themselves of the intention to avoid evil (DA.i.305, EFTA01162001 KhA.142). I. Situational avoidance [sampattavirati]: This means avoidance of evil on a situational basis. There is no public declaration that a person will avoid evil in advance he decides on the spur of the moment when confronted with the situation. If you see a fish washed up on the beach and you decide on the spur of the moment to throw it back into the water EFTA01162002 out of compassion, rather than killing it — this is the sort of avoidance which we call sampattavirati. Perhaps you would turn in a lost wallet with all of the money instead of keeping it for yourself, for fear of being acBlessing Nineteen: Abstainingfrom Unwholesomeness 229 cused of stealing. Such avoidance of evil occurs as the result of the important ability to teach oneself i.e. the fear and EFTA01162003 shame of evil or the consequences of evil [hiri-ottappa]. 2. Planned Avoidance [samAdAnavirati]: This means avoidance of evil by formally requesting the giving of the precepts by a monk. Some people simply make a vow to keep the Precepts each day in front of the shrine. Even if someone were to give you a bottle of beer, not because you are ashamed to do so, but because EFTA01162004 you have taken the Five Precepts that day, you will turn down the offer for fear of breaking your vow. 3. Transcendental Avoidance [samucchedavirati]: This is absolute avoidance of evil of the type achieved by those who have attained the stages of Buddhist sainthood. Their mind is on such a high level, that even the intention to do the evil doesn't enter into the mind, let EFTA01162005 alone the outcomes of evil thought like speech or action. Although there are different ways of abstaining from unwholesomeness, in practice, keeping the Precepts is the most workable. The Precepts are the means by which gross unwholesomeness can be avoided. Thus we use the Five Precepts, the Eight Precepts, the Ten Precepts and the 227 Precepts. D.2.2 Medium unwholesomeness Unwholesomeness at the medium EFTA01162006 level is anything that causes the mind to wander away from the centre of the body. The further the mind wanders from the centre of the body, the more damaging will be the things which the mind will think about — and the amount of unwholesomeness will increase in proportion.This is the reason why we must practice meditation as the way to bring the mind back from all those negative thoughts to the centre of EFTA01162007 the body. Supposing you are walking along and stub your toe on a step. When you are angry, your mind will go to the step. If you can bring the mind back to the centre of the body again, then the anger disappears. Even if you are not able to bring the mind back immediately, the sooner you can bring the mind back the sooner will you recover from the anger. If you are slow in bringing your mind back, before long EFTA01162008 your thoughts will elaborate onto who to blame and how to get your revenge. The same principles apply to greed. Whenever you see something as beautiful, it will cause your mind to be pulled away from the centre of the body to be with the beautiful thing. If your mind is away from the centre of the body for long enough, the thoughts that follow on will be thoughts of envy and how to obtain the thing for yourself, even if it EFTA01162009 is by dishonest means. If you see something as beautiful, if you want to maintain your quality of mind, then you should quickly bring your mind back to the centre of your body, repeat the mantra SammA- ArahaO to yourself and be quickly on your way. Therefore, when we talk about unwholesomeness at this level, we mean the distancing of the mind from the centre of the body andthe associated negative thoughts. These negative ways of EFTA01162010 thinking can be categorizedas five sorts of mental hindrance [nivaraAa]. Most people overlook the damage of them. In fact they seriously impede your opportunity to do good deeds 1. Sense-desire [kAmachanda]: 2. Illwill [byApAda]: 3. Sloth and Torpor [thEnamiddha]: 4. Absent-mindedness [uddhacca-kukkucca] 5. Doubt [vicikicchA]: Hindrances can be overcome by the practice of EFTA01162011 meditation until one-pointedness [ekaggatA] of mind can be achieved. Some days we meditate well. Other days we have to compete with many obstacles. All this is part of the fight against impurities in the mind. Thus don't think that if your meditation still seems to have many obstacles it is of no merit. In fact it is a fight against the unwholesome in the mind. One day in the future you achieve total victory. EFTA01162012 D.2.3 Subtle unwholesomeness Subtle unwholesomeness is yet harder to observe. These fetters [anusaya] (D.iii.254, A.iv.8, Vbh.383) are like habits that stop us achieving the path to Nirvana: 230 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living 1. Sensual grasping [kAmarAga]: 2. Irritability [paEigha] 3. Wrong View [diEEhi] 4. Doubt [vicikicchA]: 5. Looking down on others [mAna] 6. Grasping for existence [bhAvarAga] EFTA01162013 7. Ignorance [avijjA] You have to overcome such defilements by attaining the DhammakAya and using the DhammakAya for insight meditation to uproot them. D.3 Developing Conscience as Protection from Unwholesome Behaviour Sometimes we know that our behaviour is unwholesome, but we carry on doing it nonetheless. In order to strengthen one's conscience, the Buddha recommended the cultivation of EFTA01162014 two additional virtues — that of being ashamed of unwholesomeness [hiri] and fear of the consequences of unwholesomeness [ottappa]. Shame of unwholesomeness can be developed by recollecting: I. Your own human status. You have to think that you are a human being and not a savage — having attained such a noble birth how can we stoop to killing, stealing or adultery? 2. Your own family. You have to EFTA01162015 remind yourself that your family has been doing good deeds for generations - so how can you bear to be the one to destroy the family name. 3. Your own age. If you remind yourself that at your age you ought to know better than to mess around with various sorts of immorality. 4. Your own past good deeds. You have to think how can you bear to spoil your track record EFTA01162016 5. Your own knowledge. You have to think how you can be so stupid to do bad things in spite of all you have learned. 6. Your own teachers. You have to think of your spiritual teachers and academic teacher and think how they would feel about what you are doing. Another way of thinking is to remind yourself that there are no secrets in the world. If others don't see what we are doing, the angels will. EFTA01162017 Even if the angels don't see, we are still witness to our own deeds. Similarly, fear of the consequences of unwholesomeness can be developed by recollecting: I. Later Regret. If we were to do an unwholesome thing like this, it is not worth it because we will only regret it later. 2. Criticism: If we were to do an unwholesome thing like this, it is not worth it because others will criticize us for it. 3. Retribution: If we were to do an EFTA01162018 unwholesome thing like this, it is not worth it because we will only be punished later or receive the bad karma. 4. Hell Realms: If we were to do an unwholesome thing like this, it is not worth it because we will only be born in hell. In conclusion we can say that unwholesomeness is not just breaking the Precepts but it is what happens to the mind whenever the mind is distanced EFTA01162019 from the centre of the body. To avoid unwholesome we have to train the mind to return and establish itself permanently at the centre of the body. In the beginning we have to keep the Precepts, at an intermediate level we have to train ourselves in meditation until we can attain the DhammakAya. When we attain DhammakAya we can meditate oninsight and uproot the refined defilements from the mind too. In order to inspire yourself to EFTA01162020 train in keeping the Precepts and meditate conscientiously you should cultivate these hand-in-hand with your conscience. E. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES E.1 Metaphor: Just as we must freshen ourselves up ... Just as we have to freshen ourselves up thoroughly before dressing up smart, before we avail ourselves of the higher virtues we have to make sure we are completely free of remaining EFTA01162021 unwholesomeness. E.2 Ex. Cakkana and the Rabbit SA.11.112, MA.1.165, DhsA.103 There is a story of a young man whose mother was ill with a bad back. The doctor said the only way to cure the disease is to treat it with fresh rabbit blood. Because he wanted his mother to be cured he went out hunting for rabbits. He caught a rabbit but when Blessing Nineteen: Abstaining from Unwholesomeness 231 he was about to wring its neck, he EFTA01162022 saw its sad eyes and couldn't bring himself to kill it. He let the rabbit go and returned home empty handed. His brother asked him, "Where's the rabbit?" The boy said, he had let the rabbit go so his brother shouted at him, "Do you think the life of a rabbit is worth more than the life of your own mother?" The boy didn't say anything but went and bowed at the feet of his mother and said, EFTA01162023 "Mother I wanted to kill a rabbit to make medicine for you but I couldn't bring myself to do it. I thought to myself that your illness is only due to the karmic retribution of such killing for many lifetimes. Even if I were to have killed the rabbit, there is no guarantee that its blood would help you to survive. Whether the medicine worked or not, the killing would just make for more unwholesome karma so we would EFTA01162024 come across the same predicament in future lifetimes." The young boy made an act of truth, saying, "May the power of never having killed an animal since I was born cause my mother to be cured". Because of the boy's virtue and sincerity, miraculously the mother was cured. Thus if you keep the Precepts properly, when it comes to situations of hardship, your resolution will also be effective. This isan example of abstinence from EFTA01162025 unwholesomeness by situational avoidance. E.3 Ex. The Man and the Python (MaIgaladEpanE 2/158/129) There was once a young man who used to go to the temple regularly and request his Precepts from an arahant. He didn't have any special virtue except for the Precepts he had requested. One day he went to work in the forest. On the way a python captured him and coiled round him with the intention EFTA01162026 to crush him. Normally, forest travelers will keep a dagger on them for such an eventuality. Every time you breath out, the python will tighten its coils, but if the victim puts the knife between themselves and the coils normally the snake will release them.The young man immediately pulled out his dagger with the thought to stab the python in the head. Then he thought, it is such a rare opportunity for me to be born at a time when Buddhism is EFTA01162027 still known and practiced. It is so rare for me to be able to meet an arahant. If I were to die, I don't know how many more lifetimes it would take before I would have a similar chance again. If I were to kill this snake then there would be no end to the vicious circle of karma. It would also break my Precepts. It is also equivalent to lying to an arahant. He had to think to himself which was more important to him — Precepts EFTA01162028 or his own life. Finally he decided his Precepts were more important so he threw away his knife and concentrated at the centre of his body. The merit filled his mind. A strange thing happened. The snake, even though it was a humble beast, suddenly felt sorry for the man and let him go. This is an example of abstinence from unwholesomeness by planned avoidance. E.4 Ex. KukkuEamitta the Hunter (DhA.iii.24f1) EFTA01162029 In the time of the Buddha there was a woman who had been going to the temple with her mother since the age of seven. At that time she had already become a stream-enterer. A stream-enterer keeps the Precepts automatically the whole of the time and is unable to break their Precepts. Sense-grasping is still in the mind of a stream-enterer, however. Thus even though she was a stream-enterer, she still had subtle desires. As the daughter of a EFTA01162030 millionaire she had her own castle and each day she would look down from the castle at the people coming and going in the market place (because she had nothing better to do). One day she saw a hunter coming to sell the animals he had killed in the market place. She fell in love with him on first sight, and in the end eloped with him. Even though she could no longer bring herself to kill, steal, commit adultery, lie or drink alcohol, EFTA01162031 she could not help herself falling in love. Before long she had seven sons. When they married, she had another seven daughter in-laws. The Buddha saw that the time had come when the family could profit from his teaching so he passed by the home of the hunter. The Buddha spread loving-kindness so that no animals in the area got caught in any of the hunter's traps. The Buddha sat in the forest and meditated. When the hunter EFTA01162032 couldn't catch any232 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living thing he thought that someone must be stealing the animals out of the traps, so he looked for the culprit. He saw the footprints of the Buddha and followed them to where the Buddha was. The hunter aimed an arrow at the Buddha but was unable to shoot and stuck there at the spot. All the seven sons came out looking for the father, and tried to shoot the Buddha EFTA01162033 and ended up the same as the father, frozen to the spot. Later in the day, the woman came out looking for the rest of the family along with her daughters in-law. When the woman saw the Buddha and what her husband was trying to do she called, "That's my own father. Don't harm him!" When the sons and father heard their mother's voice they thought that the Buddha was really her father and so laid down their bows. The Buddha was able EFTA01162034 to teach them until all of them could attain stream-entry in that family. From that time onwards no-one in the family could kill any more. This is an example of abstinence from unwholesomeness by transcendental avoidance. Blessing Twenty: Restraintfrom Drinking Intoxicants 233 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 Western values concerning alcohol Alcohol in the West is a substance primarily associated with relaxation and celebration. EFTA01162035 Most westerners would shrink from any hint that alcohol is an agent of mass destruction. However, consider some of the following national statistics from the USA summarized in a Scientific American report in June 1998 (p.67): • Alcohol consumption contributes annually to 100,000 deaths in the USA alone. • Alcoholism is the third most common preventable cause of death after smoking and obesity. EFTA01162036 • 14-20 million Americans have some history of their lives being disrupted by their relations with alcohol. • An estimated 40% of Americans have been intimately exposed to the effects of alcohol abuse through a family member. • As many as 12,000 children born annually to drinking mothers in the US have mental and physical deficiencies as a result of their exposure to alcohol in utero. EFTA01162037 The mores and traditions of our era form a veil of self-satisfying myths which often blind us to the damage alcohol consumption actually brings to modern society — and perhaps by understanding how deeply alcohol is woven into Western culture, can we take care not to have the wool pulled over our eyes too! In the West before the popularity of tea and coffee in the late eighteenth century, alcohol was EFTA01162038 claimed to be one of the only hygenic drinks available. Although Judeo-Christian teachings prevalent in the west have never supported drunkenness, they have portrayed alcohol consumption as a necessary coping mechanism in the face of social hardship: "Give strong drink unto him that is ready to perish, and wine unto those that be of heavy hearts. Let him drink, and forget his poverty, and remember his misery EFTA01162039 no more." (Proverbs 31) Wine has even been incorporated into the most sacred of Christian ceremonies — the Mass. Historically speaking, the escalation in the seriousness of alcohol problems has been accelerated as the distilled liquor products have become more readily available on the market. Research as early as 1813 established the connection between alcohol consumption and liver disease, jaundice, wasting EFTA01162040 and mental disfunction. Indeed, alcohol consumption has not gone completely unopposed in the West — however, in Christian circles such opposition has mostly come in the form of temperance rather than abstinence. It was Methodist values backed by clinical research which led to the American Prohibition from 1920 to 1933. Because of its long history of acceptance in Judeo- Christian culture alcohol remains EFTA01162041 deeply rooted in the Western idea of respectability. Thus, as we pur- Blessing Twenty: Restraint from Drinking Intoxicants 234 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living sue our path of the Manual of Peace, whether in a Buddhist context or otherwise, we need to take care to make ourselves truly open to alternative approaches to intoxicants like alcohol — EFTA01162042 westerners reading the content of this blessing need (perhaps more than for other blessings) to have particular conviction in the wisdom of `Restraint from drinking intoxicants' to adopt standards concerning the consumption of alcohol based on the Buddha's teachings rather than the current social norms. A.2 Why Buddhists consider abstinence from alcohol indispensable Abstaining from alcohol is a virtue EFTA01162043 we have already encountered several times on our journey through the Manual of Peace — as a `road to ruin' in Blessings Six, Seven, Thirteen and Fourteen, as the Fifth Precept in Blessing Nine and as a substance which is not to be sold for one's livelihood in Blessing Eighteen. The Buddha devotes an entire blessing to `Restraint from Drinking Intoxicants' in Blessing Twenty, not simply because of the damage alcohol EFTA01162044 does to one's physical health, but because if one doesn't abstain from alcohol definitively by this point in the Manual of Peace, one will have no chance to upgrade oneself in the direction of Blessing Twenty-One (Avoiding recklessness in the Dhamma) and beyond. If you consider self-discipline based on the Five Precepts, you will find that each of the Five Precepts are more or less independent from one another EFTA01162045 except for the fifth. If you break the any of the first four precepts, normally it will not cause any other of the Precepts to be broken. However, if the Fifth Precept is ever broken, it subsequently increases the risk of breaking all the other four Precepts. When you drink, you say more than you mean to, some is true, the rest breaks the fourth Precept. If you have some latent adulterous tendencies, they will manifest themselves EFTA01162046 when you are drunk. If you have tendencies to steal then you will find it hard to keep your hands to yourself when you are drunk. If you are normally bad-tempered, when you are drunk you will be uninhibited in your violence. Alcohol may be the single reason why you break all the Precepts. Without alcohol, when our conscience is fully-functional, we cannot do anything harmful, because we still feel shy of wicked EFTA01162047 deeds — especially for our reputation. Thus alcohol is something about which we have to be extremely wary. For most of us, no matter how bad we may start out, if we don't go to the lengths of drinking alcohol, we still have the opportunity to change ourselves for the better. Supposing someone is a ruffian who likes to pick fights, usually such habits will only last for as long as he is a teenager. When EFTA01162048 he is more mature he will stop by himself. Thieves who have been stealing since they were young, as they grow up will start to think, "Am I going to keep on stealing like this until the day I die?" Even the Casanovas of the world, as they get older will become reflective about their own condition — they will become self-conscious about being seen by others as a `dirty old man'. Liars too will eventually become bored of lying. However, EFTA01162049 if any of these four types of people are still drinking alcohol as well, they will be unable to stop their old ways. The thought of stopping might cross their minds, but as soon as they start drinking, their behaviour will regress into its old ways. The fifth Precept is thus the most crucial. If you ever hear anyone boasting that they can keep all the Precepts except the last, take their claims with a pinch of salt — all five of EFTA01162050 their Precepts are at risk. A.3 How alcohol affects the mind The problem with alcohol is that it worsens the latent weaknesses and unwholesome tendencies that already exist in the mind.The Buddha taught that the untrained mind tends to have the following four weaknesses: I. It is habituated to unwholesomeness: The mind will squirm like a fish out of water: being so used to negative moods as soon as you start to take the mind away from EFTA01162051 these negative states it will struggle. 2. It will change continuously: You will tend to change your mind about any decision you have made 3. It will wander: It is hard to keep the mind on a single thing 4. It is hard to pacify. Blessing Twenty: Restraintfrom Drinking Intoxicants 235 Under the influence of alcohol, all these bad features of the mind have the chance to manifest themselves EFTA01162052 to the full. A.4 Drunkenness even without alcohol Even if we are sober it is difficult enough to perceive the true nature of life and the world around us. The Buddha taught that, even if we don't smoke, drink alcohol or abuse drugs, we are already drunk the whole of the time — especially concerning the following three things: I. we are drunken concerning our youth (we tend to think "I am still young I can EFTA01162053 still go out every night. I am still beautiful I can still turn the heads of young men") 2. we are drunken concerning our freedom of disease. Those who are healthy are wont to think that they will be healthy like that forever and that abuse of their health doesn't matter. 3. we are drunken concerning the length of our lives. We think that the likes of us doesn't die so easily. We tend to think we are EFTA01162054 still strong and that our time has not come — in fact we are fooling ourselves. The Buddha called such attitudes 'drunkenness'. Even without drinking alcohol, people still think like this. If we drink alcohol as well, there will be many more forms of drunkenness which will be attracted to us as the result. B. DEFINITIONS B.1 Definition of `intoxicants' Intoxicants [majjhapAna] in this blessing refer to EFTA01162055 anything absorbable by the body that clouds the mind. In general this means alcohol, but it also refers to other substances such as addictive drugs. It can mean liquids that are drunk or injected or dry substances like tobacco that are smoked. B.2 Definition of `drinking' The Pali word `salifiamo' used in relation to alcohol in this Blessing usually means `being careful with regard to'. In our context, however, `being careful' EFTA01162056 of intoxicating substances doesn't just mean using these things with care, in normal circumstances it means total abstention. It is only in exceptional circumstances such as medical use that careful use of alcohol may be considered. Some religions which prohibit alcohol per se will not even allow their followers to use alcohol to clean a wound or to preserve a corpse — however, Buddhism allows intoxicants to be used for medical EFTA01162057 purposes (e.g. where alcohol must be used to extract the active ingredients of some medicines). This excuse should not, however, be abused by those who put a teaspoonful of medicine in a bottle of alcohol to drink instead of putting a teaspoonful of alcohol in a bottle of medicine. Similarly, we know that such drugs like opium are damaging to smoke, but they may be used for medicinal purposes. However to use EFTA01162058 them for non-medicinal purposes is prohibited. This is the only reason why `being careful in the use of' is used instead of `abstain from'. If your sense of discretion is good, and your mind is clear, then you will be able to know for yourself what is the appropriate use of these substances. Thus we abstain completely from the general use of these substances and we use these substances with care in the case of medicinal use. EFTA01162059 C. DAMAGE FROM DRINKING ALCOHOL C.1 Damage arisingfrom drinking alcohol (visible this lifetime) In brief the Buddha taught (D.iii.182-4) that, even without waiting to see what will happen to us as the result of drinking alcohol in the next life, the damage alcohol does is as follows: I. It destroys your wealth: it will start eating into your income from the day you start to drink. 2. It destroysfriendship in the EFTA01162060 beginning people look like they are drinking to be sociable, but at the end of the night they may be breaking bottles over one another's heads 3. It destroys your health 4. It destroys your respectability 5. It destroys your honour 6. It destroys your intelligence. These are all dangers of alcohol visible in the present lifetime. 236 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living C.2 Damage arisingfrom drinking alcohol EFTA01162061 (visible next lifetime) If we take a longer term view, drinking alcohol this lifetime stores up countless forms of retribution for future lifetimes: I. Speech impediments: Some people are born mute, and it turns out that such people passed away while drunk, while they were so drunk they couldn't say anything coherent. Even after a long time in hell, they may still not be able to throw off their speech impediment. EFTA01162062 A lesser form of the same retribution is to suffer from a stammer; 2. Madness: Some people are born mad or mentally incompetent as a result of having drunk a lot of alcohol in their past. The hallucinations experienced when drunk become a permanent state of mind in a future birth. Some experience paranoia. Lesser forms of the same sort of retribution are to lack steadfastness and self-confidence EFTA01162063 or to be gullible. Some people hear only a few words of praise from the opposite sex and elope with them — or hear a few words of criticism and hang themselves. Some are incapable of doing anything more than sitting around all day and daydreaming `building castles in the air'. 3. Mental Deficiency: Some are mentally retarded having been so drunk in previous existences that they were unable to think straight EFTA01162064 — in a later existence this becomes a permanent state of being. 4. Arising as a Crawling Animal: Even the crawling animals like snakes and lizards have drunkenness in previous lives as their causes — previously they were drunks who had been rehearsing crawling on all fours since they were still human. The difference between poisonous snakes and non-poisonous snakes is the difference EFTA01162065 between vengeful drunks who create suffering for others and those who get drunk and remain benign. It is because the long-term effects of drinking are so difficult to control that when we come to the task of adjusting the quality of the mind, the Buddha had to teach us to avoid alcohol repeatedly. D. BENEFITS OF NOT DRINKING ALCOHOL The Buddha taught that if we don't drink alcohol, EFTA01162066 it will pave the way for the higher blessings ahead on the path — with advantages such as: • knowing events in the past, present and future without delay • mindfulness in all situations (rather than the mind wandering continuously) • non-recklessness • lack of envious enemies • respect from others • happiness • appreciating the virtue of others [katafifiE] • repaying one's debt of gratitude EFTA01162067 to others [katavedE] • generosity • purity of precepts • wisdom • worldly wealth • heavenly wealth • the ability to be a true refuge to oneself • the wealth of Nirvana Furthermore the purity by which we can avoid the Tenfold Path of Unwholesomeness will be avoided together with the Subtle Defilements of mind. We will have less tendency to engage EFTA01162068 in: • lies • malicious gossip • insults or swearing • idle chatter • deviousness • ill-temperedness • lack of shame of evil [hiri] • lack of fear of (the retribution) of evil [ottappa] • wrong view. E. PRACTICALITY OF GIVING-UP DRINKING DEFINITIVELY Having realized the harm brought by consuming alcohol, if you decide to kick the EFTA01162069 drink habit, prepare yourself for a struggle! It is not so easy to change an addiction and you are liable to experience withdrawal symptoms. However, for those who dare to train themselves in this way, here are a few words of advice to help pave the way to your eventual freedom from alcohol: Blessing Twenty: Restraintfrom Drinking Intoxicants 237 1. The first thing you have to do is see through to the danger of alcohol. EFTA01162070 2. Once you have seen the danger, you need to make up your mind to give up. 3. The third thing is to avoid contact with anything that will remind you of drink any more (such as collections of old bottles). Don't allow any of these sort of things into your house. 4. Fourthly, think of your own self-respect. Think of the things that will create a sense of conscience for yourself. 5. The fifth thing you need to do is EFTA01162071 not to associate with your drinking friends any more. F. ILLUSTRATIVEEXAMPLES F.1 Metaphor: Just as one match can burn a town down Just as a single match can burn down an entire town even a little alcohol can cause a lapse of mindfulness that may ruin your whole life. F.2 Metaphor: The elephant's trunk In one metaphor told by EFTA01162072 Phramonkolthepmuni (1885-1959) — the Great Abbot of Wat Paknam: "abstaining from alcohol is the most important single Precepts because it ensures the reliability of all the other four. For this reason you must strictly abstain from all alcohol. If you cannot abstain from alcohol then no single one of your Five Precepts is safe. This precept prohibits the consumption of any substance which causes EFTA01162073 people to lose their sense of responsibility. The enlightened ones never think to touch even a drop of such substances and you should follow their example too if you really want to keep the Precepts. If the substance is one that causes heedlessness, you have the intention of consuming it, you make the effort to consume it and it goes inside your body (e.g. down your throat) then the Fifth Precept will be EFTA01162074 broken. The Buddha compared the first four Precepts to the feet of an elephant and the Fifth Precept to its trunk. The whole of an elephant's quality of life depends on the intactness of its trunk. With its trunk it can earn its living and feed itself. Without a trunk it cannot stoop down and eat grass like a buffalo — because its so tall. It would have to endure the difficulty of lying EFTA01162075 down in order to eat. That's why the trunk is important. In the same way abstaining from alcohol is the important part of the Five Precepts. If you consume substances that make you heedless then before you realize it, you will break the other four Precepts. Thus the Fifth Precept is the important one. This is because of greed, hatred and ignorance in the mind, ignorance is the most damaging. EFTA01162076 This is why the Fifth Precept is so important. All the benefits of the good things in the whole of the Buddhist Canon hinge upon our responsibility towards practising them. If you are reckless then you will estrange yourself from all these good things and furthermore do evil things instead. Alcohol and drugs that dull the mind causing one to slip into recklessness. Thus only when you are able to abstain EFTA01162077 strictly from all such substances will you set yourself upon a foundation of non-recklessness." F.3 Ex. BhagraghaEa JAtaka J.11.431ff. Once the banker AnAthapiAIika had a nephew who had squandered 40 million by his drinking habits, leaving him penniless. The nephew therefore came to AnAthapiAIika's home asking for some financial help. The nephew said he would use the money to invest in business EFTA01162078 to set himself up in life. AnAthapiAlika was pleasantly surprised to hear his drunken nephew wanted to earn his living. He gave him 1,000 and taught him a few tricks of the trade. The nephew thanked AnAthapiAlika and wasted no time in going out with his friends at spending all the money on booze. Later he came back to AnAthapiAlika saying he had lost all his money in business due to lack of experience and asked for money EFTA01162079 again. AnAthapiAlika pretended he didn't know what was going on and this time gave the nephew only 500, again telling him to invest it wisely. The shameless nephew spent all 500 on the alcohol again. For a third time, the nephew returned to ask for more. AnAthapiAlika gave him two pieces of coarse cloth instead of money, knowing he would 238 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living EFTA01162080 be more likely to make an effort to sell it. The nephew did sell the cloth but again he spent all he had earned on alcohol. He came back to AnAthapiAlika for a fourth time with an outstretched palm. This time AnAthapiAlika had his nephew thrown out into the street. The nephew was destitute and lodged at this person's house or that, until eventually the nephew died in poverty. AnAthapiAlika felt somehow EFTA01162081 blameworthy for his nephew's death. Was there something more he could have done? He sought audience from the Buddha telling him the whole story. The Buddha said that it was not only this life that the nephew had been beyond help. In a previous lifetime when the nephew had been given a wishing cup, it still couldn't help him. It still couldn't satiate his appetite so it is no surprise that with AnAthapiAIika's limited EFTA01162082 means weren't enough to help him. The Buddha concluded briefly, but AnAthapiAIika invited him to give more detail. The Buddha thus revealed the story of the past as follows: In the past, when King Brahmadatta reigned in Benares, the Bodhisattva was born as a millionaire, inheriting a fortune of 40 million from his father. He had only one child — a son. The Bodhisattva liked to perform acts of charity EFTA01162083 regularly, giving alms and pursuing other forms of virtues until the end of his life. When he passed away the Bodhisattva was reborn as Indra, the king of heaven. The only son inherited the fortune of 40 million, but instead of investing it in business, he had a huge pavilion built — not as a place of worship but as a drinking place. There he whiled away the time drinking with friends, hiring dancers and singers EFTA01162084 and gave them extravagant prizes for their performances. He did the same things every day — this and nothing else — living a life of drink and recklessness. Eventually his wealth was exhausted. He had to sell-up everything he owned. He was left destitute, wearing only rags and wandering the streets. Indra surveyed the world and saw his former son destitute — his inheritance squandered on alcohol. EFTA01162085 Out of mercy, Indra appeared to the son saying "Now you are in great hardship. I feel sorry for you, so I'm giving you this magic pot — take good care of it. Never drop it. If it breaks, it will lose its magic powers. It will produce whatever you wish for." The son accepted the cup and Indra gave him a sermon before returning to heaven, re-iterating that he should never let the cup break. The son promised to take good care of it. "Good," EFTA01162086 said Indra, "Because its your last chance to liberate yourself from hardship and poverty!" As soon as Indra was gone, he made a wish for all types of wealth and spent all the wealth on alcohol. He drank alone or in company singing and dancing merrily, holding the wishing cup in one hand and a bottle of liquor in other. He felt more and more incapable. He came to the point where his merit had run out because EFTA01162087 the alcohol had uprooted the last of his merit. He started to play with the wishing cup for fun, throwing it in the air and catching it. Eventually it fell to the ground and broke — irreparably. And so he returned to his former hardship, with a begging bowl, a burden on society to the end of his days." "AnAthapiAlika! As it was in the past, so it is now — this man has not changed his ways." Thus for an alcoholic even the gift of a EFTA01162088 wishing cup is still unable to bring happiness or prosperity. From their foolishness drinkers even destroy the luck they already have. Even though he had had the chance to help himself with a magic pot even more powerful than any money, as a drunk he could not do anything to help himself. He was beyond help. Therefore before helping someone, look to see whether they are going to use the money you give EFTA01162089 them to buy alcohol. Sometimes you pay labourers more wages — instead of the work they do improving, it gets worse because they have more money left at the end of the week to spend on drink. Make sure that before you help someone, they stop all forms of the Six Roads to Ruin, even if they are your own family or parents. F.4 Ex. Putting your land in a whisky bottle There was an old uncle who loved to drink liquor. EFTA01162090 His wife and children warned him again and again Blessing Twenty: Restraintfrom Drinking Intoxicants 239 but he would not listen. He sold all his land to buy liquor. One day the son came home tired from the fields and saw his father drinking and thought, "How can I teach my father to see through his stupidity?" The boy took a goad and beat a buffalo trying to force the buffalo into an earthenware pot. The father said, "Stop that at once! EFTA01162091 How can you expect to force a buffalo into a tiny jar like that?" The boy said, "Father it's no more illogical than what you do every day — you have managed to put all of the land on this farm in your whisky bottle!" Then the father managed to see what his son was teaching him — if his son was doing something crazy, then he was the crazier of the two of them. F.5 Ex.MahAdhana: a millionnaire reduced to EFTA01162092 rags (DhA.iii.129ff) In the time of Lord Buddha there was a family of bankers who had 80 million to their name. The son was born with a silver spoon in his mouth and his parents loved him so much that when they got older they pleaded with him just to live off the family inheritance and never to earn his living. They said, "You are our only child. Even if you were to spend the money all your life, there is so much you would EFTA01162093 surely never manage to use it all up. So just take it easy. It would be much better then the stress of earning a living." The son didn't like working for a living anyway, so he agreed wholeheartedly. He settled down to the onerous task of spending his parents' fortune and passed the time playing the guitar or singing songs. In another nearby town there was a daughter born to another bankers' family and her EFTA01162094 parents loved her so much that when they got older they pleaded with her in just the same way, just to live off the family inheritance and never to earn her living. They said, "You are our only child. Even if you were to spend the money all your life, there is so much you would surely never manage to use it all up — so please take it easy. It would be much better then the stress of earning a living. You could live nearby EFTA01162095 us so we won't get lonely in our old age." The daughter agreed and whiled away her time spending her parents' fortune. When both the daughter and the son came of age, both families looked for a worthy partner for their child. They found a worthy partner in each other and so their marriage was arranged. This couple was amply provided for but they had no idea how to manage their wealth. At the time when the parents EFTA01162096 on both sides of the family passed away the couple had been left with a total inheritance of 160 million — the millionaire boy would seek audience with the king three times a day. In that town there was a group of drunkards. They would get drunk and chatter idly and dream of ways to be able to get free drinks their whole life long, because they thought alcohol was the greatest drink in the world. One day, they came up with EFTA01162097 the idea of persuading some wealthy person to become an alcoholic like themselves — then they would be able to manipulate that millionaire's wealth. They did their homework and found out how rich the millionaire boy was. They found out that he went for royal audience three times a day and what route he took on the way back from the palace with his retinue. The next day the drunkards waited nearby the millionaire EFTA01162098 boy's usual route and acted like they were having tremendous fun. When they saw the millionaire boy they toasted him shouting, "May you live to be a hundred years old". The millionaire asked his man-servant (who was a drunk himself) what the group was doing. The manservant said, "the men are drinking a drink called `alcohol' (which at that time was not well known)". The millionaire asked what alcohol was. EFTA01162099 EFTA01162100 8miq 'D o o琅 p n„ 'Rut s oq uomuu ota ‘人rA簋km° 44 UI no/C Joj po8 s '11・omssoid pooTq moic osIviillm ）1 `omssoid poom MOT °AULT no C 'oinssoid pooIq ino C oonpoi 4I `omssonl poom q8 om q noAn ' oiolsoToqo oonpal 'uosJod Ou ℃a HIM nO入‘御 AJ0A Tooj pnom no/C loqoop Jo dis v om q 1 00M noic 'ppoM oi . Tiup snoiollop Isom otp. ll„ `oHogooIt jo num m `poildoi 1URAJ0S-UVUI 0T4l 0q1. some alcohol for me to try!" He thought he would only have a sip, but the taste was so seductive he felt intoxicated. All the drunkards gathered around him cheering him on to drink 240 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living more and that is exactly what he did. He drank more and more until he wasn't himself any more. The drunkards smirked to themselves. The millionaire boy kept on paying for more drinks — drinks for EFTA01162101 himself and drinks for all the other cronies too because it's no fun to drink all alone. You have to have company when you are drinking, so that you can chat and boast and tell tall stories. And just getting drunk wasn't enough he would go out buying expensive flower garlands and would invite musicians and dancers to perform for him and would always reward them with lavish prizes. He would do the same thing every EFTA01162102 day. Before long all that was left of his fortune were empty treasure chests. The treasurer came to advise the millionaire boy that there was not nothing left of his fortune of 80 million. The millionaire boy asked "Doesn't my wife have some money to her name?" The treasurer answered, "Yes sir! She does still have some wealth." Therefore as soon as the millionaire boy got his hands on his wife's fortune he EFTA01162103 continued his drunken extravagance as before, until eventually the fortune was exhausted again. Now in order to raise some cash, he was reduced to selling all his beautiful estates. To slake his thirst, he sold off his orchards, his coach and horses, trinkets around the house and eventually the house itself. In the beginning they asked the permission of the new owner to stay on in their former house. Their EFTA01162104 handsome looks became forlorn. In their old age they were driven from the house by the new owners. So they had to wander from one house to another looking for refuge. Eventually they had to resort to a begging bowl to feed themselves. One day the Lord Buddha, with /nanda as his attendant, passed through that town and seeing the husband and wife begging for the monks left-overs by the monk's refectory, the EFTA01162105 Buddha smiled to himself. Seeing the Buddha smile,/nanda asked the reason. The Buddha replied, "/nanda! Look at this millionaire son formerly rich, but who has squandered 160 million and who must now take his wife around begging for a living in the city." "If this millionaire's son hadn't squandered his wealth, but in his youth had invested in business, he would be the richest man in the city by now, EFTA01162106 because he has a lot of merit in his past. If he had renounced the world in his youth he would have become an arahant. If his wife had renounced the world as a nun in her youth. She would have become a non-returner [anAgAmi]." "If this millionaire's son had squandered his wealth only in his youth, but in middle age had invested his wealth in business, his previous merits would have caused him to become the second EFTA01162107 richest man in the city. If he had decided to renounce the world in the middle age he would have become a non-returner [anAgAmi], and his wife if she had ordained as a nun, would have become a once-returner [sakEdAgAmi]." "If this millionaire's son had squandered his wealth in his youth and his middle age, but had invested his wealth in his old-age, his previous merit would have caused him to become the third EFTA01162108 richest man in the city and if he had decided to renounce the world in his old age, he would have become a once-returner [sakEdAgAmi]. If his wife had ordained as a nun, she would have become a "stream-enterer [sotApana]." "Unfortunately, this couple have completely squandered their wealth and have lost their opportunity to cultivate to path for Nirvana. /nanda! Foolish people who fail to cultivate virtue in their EFTA01162109 lives, and who fail to earn their living when they are young, will become forlorn like an aging heron, living in a dried-up pond with no more fish to prey upon. They hadn't cultivated virtue in their youth — nor earned their living either. In their old age all they can do now is reminisce with regret about their former wealth like an arrow that falls to earth when its momentum has run out. Therefore the harm of alcohol apart from it destroying EFTA01162110 the drinker also ruins the lives of the rest of the drinker's family, destroys our wealth and security and obscures the pathway to Nirvana. This is the harmfulness of alcohol — therefore if you have alcohol in your possession stop drinking it, pour it away and discard the bottles. Make sure your home is alcohol free. Blessing Twenty: Restraintfrom Drinking Intoxicants 241 F.6 Ex. Choice of which Precept to break EFTA01162111 There were once a man and a wife who lived near the mountains. One day the husband left home and went to live in a cave in the mountains to keep the Five Precepts. After a while, his wife began to miss him and went to him in his cave, threatening to kill herself if he continued with the `Five Precepts nonsense'. The man found the threat rather worrisome, so offered to break one of the Precepts in order to save the life of his wife. The wife EFTA01162112 brought him a cow, a young woman and a bottle of liquor and told him to take his pick of which Precept to break. The man thought that to kill the cow would be destructive — and equally to rape the young woman— so he settled for drinking the liquor because it didn't seem to bring harm to anyone else. After one sip of the liquor he found it good and drank the whole bottle. Inebriated, he killed the cow and raped the EFTA01162113 young girl too. The moral of the story is that abstaining from alcohol serves to preserve the intactness of all the other four Precepts! F. 7 Ex. Kumbha JAtaka (J.512) Long ago before alcohol was produced industrially, it occurred by accident far away, deep in a forest in Kasi in India. In the forest there was a certain tree with a cleft between its branches. Rainwater collected in the cleft. Fruit like myrobalans and peppercorns from the surrounding trees fell in EFTA01162114 the water. At the foot of the tree was a rice plant and the birds in the forest would collect the rice seeds and perch to eat them in the bough of the tree. Some of the seeds fell in the water in the cleft of the tree too. The water, the fruit and the rice in the tree cleft were warmed by the heat of the sun until it fermented into alcohol, changing its colour, taste and smell. It became red in colour and the smell attracted birds to drink it. The birds EFTA01162115 drank some of the rotgut without realizing its danger — they only drank it to slake their thirst, mistaking it for water. After only a taste the birds fell out of the tree unconscious — and the pile of birds under the tree did not escape the eye of a forester called Sura who happened to be passing by. He taught "that's good luck for me today — I don't have to catch birds and set my traps or spread my nets!" As he watched the birds EFTA01162116 continued to fall out of the tree one by one. In fact the birds were asleep and when then eventually woke up, they could fly away as normal. The hunter was curious and realized there must be something special up the tree. He climbed the tree and found the special liquid in the cleft with a tempting aroma. He tasted a little fluid — not knowing its dangers however by the time he had climbed down the tree he started to feel dizzy, unlike he had ever felt EFTA01162117 before — intoxicated. He picked up some of the unconscious birds from the foot of the tree and started to roast them on the coals of a bonfire he had built, and ate them as an appetizer with cup after cup of alcohol from the top of the tree. He felt like dancing and singing all by himself in the forest. Then he remembered a friend of his called Varuna who had become a hermit. He thought, "I ought to share discovery with my friend." Thinking EFTA01162118 this, he took a flask of the alcohol for his friend to try. When Sura arrived at Varuna's hermitage, he was sitting for meditation. Sura tapped on his shoulder, "Hey friend! Don't waste your time meditating. Drink this instead — it's more fun!" You'll feel intoxicated and relaxed." Varuna the hermit tasted it and laughed out loud. He felt more lively than usual and decided to give up being a hermit to see if he could make a living out of EFTA01162119 selling the liquor. Sura led the way back into the forest saying, "We'll start by offering some to the king." Eventually they brought a sample of alcohol of offer to the king. They explained, "Your majesty, we have found the most wonderful, the most delicious drink in the world. A drink so amazing that you have never before tasted since the day you were born — won't your majesty just try a sip?" The king tasted it and liked it — and ordered more. EFTA01162120 Therefore Sura and Varuna were in and out of the forest all day long bringing alcohol from the tree for the king. Later the two got tired of making the journey so often, so they contrived a synthetic process to produce the alcohol. The produced many barrel of the liquor. They reserved some of the liquor for the king but they sold the rest to citizens of the kingdom. In the beginning the citizens asked what sort of EFTA01162121 drink it was — they replied, "It's a delicious drink and call it ' Sura' after the discoverer." 242 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living The citizens drank more and more. The more they drank, the less inclined the felt to work for a living. When they were drunk they would sleep all day. When they got sober they would drink more because it was so tasty. In the end, the whole kingdom went bankrupt — eventually going to EFTA01162122 rack and ruin. Sura and Varuna realized their market had collapsed so they moved to another kingdom, namely Benares, where the king and the citizens were still unaware of the side-effects. They brought Benares to rack and ruin in exactly the save way and moved on to the next kingdom, that of Saketa. The same thing happened there, so they moved to SAvatthE. In that kingdom, King Sabbamitta ordered 500 barrels of alcohol without even tasting it. EFTA01162123 However as they were pouring the alcohol into the barrels some split over the brim. A cat licked some of the spillings out of curiosity. The cat's curiosity was not easily abated and eventually it got so drunk that it fell down unconscious. It lost all it's cat-like dignity when the mice came out and nibbled its whisker and ears. Someone discovered the incapacitated cat and reported to the king that `curiosity had killed the cat' — it had be EFTA01162124 poisoned to death by the alcohol. The King had Sura and Varuna up for treason and sent them for execution. However before their heads were chopped off. The cat came round and wandered around dizzily. The king realized that alcohol was not poisonous and pardoned the two alcohol merchants — having preparation made for the launch of the new product. The impending doom caused Indra, the king of heaven's throne to show signs of EFTA01162125 heat. Indra realized that if he did not intervene and this major kingdom got addicted to alcohol in the same way as the lesser kingdoms before it, alcohol would spread unabated throughout the subcontinent... Indra therefore appeared to King Sabbamitta in the guise of young Brahmin holding a `gold pot' floating in the air before the throne. The king marvelled, "0! Brahmin! — How come you can float in the air like that you are surely EFTA01162126 no ordinary being! What is that you have in your hand?" The Brahmin replied, "This is a magic pot. In this pot is a fluid which is exceptionally delicious. Anyone who drinks this fluid will be so drunk they could fall head first in a pond, abandon their reason, sing in the street, run around naked and encourage their friends to do same. They will be shameless, sing raucously, walk back and forth all night each friend taking EFTA01162127 it in turn to see the other home. They will fall asleep so drunk that they won't even notice if the house is burning down around them. Anyone who drinks this won't even care about eating dog food off the floor, go around clumsily, unsuitably dressed in public, vomiting in the street or sleeping face down in their own vomit. Some have delusions of their own grandeur, or become hideously aggressive. Drinking such a fluid can kill you, it will EFTA01162128 consume all your wealth if you drink it. It will make you so shameless that you won't think twice about insulting your parents, flirting with your daughter-in-law, shouting at your in-laws or having an affair with the maid. You will be capable of all this if you drink this fluid. You will think nothing of harming clergy, getting in arguments and fighting. Children will have no respect for their elders, adults will squabble, chatter aimlessly EFTA01162129 and tell lies, when they drink this fluid — they will forget to do the work they promised. The intelligent are reduced to fools. People forget to eat and nourish themselves properly, falling asleep in inappropriate places — anyone who drinks this fluid is like someone who has drunk poison. If your princes drink this they will elope with the court dancers. Even angels who drink this fluid fall out of heaven and become Titans [asEra]. This gold pot EFTA01162130 contains no butter, cheese or honey — it contains the fluid with all the side-effects I have been speaking of — does your majesty want some?" "I certainly wouldn't touch it with a bargepole — let alone drink it," said the king and rewarded the Brahmin by granting him five estates, with a great deal of other riches. The king wanted the Brahmin to be his minister. The Brahmin said, "You may keep your wealth and EFTA01162131 estates because I am already king of my own estate in heaven. It is out of anxiety that I have come here to warn your majesty. I am afraid otherwise that the whole subcontinent will come to rack and ruin. May your majesty be established in justice. May you practice in accordance with the Buddha's teaching so that you too may gain heaven at the end of your life!" Blessing Twenty-One: Non-Recklessness in the Dhamma 243 EFTA01162132 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 Looking a spiritual gift horse in the mouth In the previous blessings we have started to set the foundation for the cultivation of higher virtues by closing the door definitively on any unwholesome behaviours that might deviate us from our spiritual quest. We have seen specifically the dangers of `unwholesomeness' and alcohol towards our path of cultivation. However, in this grouping there still remains one possible danger for us on our EFTA01162133 path of cultivation — that we miss or overlook the opportunities which come our way to cultivate ourselves in earnest. Such opportunities are precious and few — and given our short lifespan, if we miss the golden opportunity to work on ourselves, we can never be sure if there will be a second chance. The irony of self-cultivation is that the impurities in our mind may lead us to `look a gift horse in EFTA01162134 the mouth'. Because the untrained mind is full of weaknesses — it spends the whole time mulling unsystematically over thoughts about the world — in distinct contrast to the thinking of the Lord Buddha who had a systematic way of thinking. We spend our whole time drunk with the desires of life (even when we are sober) — our thinking is more like a boat cast adrift without a rudder — than that of someone pursuing a spiritual EFTA01162135 quest! Whenever the mind is without direction it will almost always fall under sway of the five forms of sensual desire: 1.visual images; 2.melodious sounds; 3.tasty food; 4.perfumes, and; 5.things soft to the touch. All we care about is beautiful houses, beautiful clothes — our desires are without end. When such thoughts as these dominate the mind, there is no EFTA01162136 remaining space for our spiritual vocation. There is only selfishness and even the thought to take advantage of others. When our thoughts are negative, negative speech starts to escape from our mouths and bad action start to manifest themselves for the rest of the world to see. Even when we set our mind on doing good things, our good intentions become discontinuous. Allowing our mind to succumb to such unsystematic thinking is a EFTA01162137 condition the Lord Buddha called `recklessness' and because of all the harm such recklessness brings, the Buddha advocated non-recklessness at every opportunity. A.2 Things for which we cannot afford to be reckless One might think that there is no harm in a little `recklessness' but the opportunity to cultivate ourselves spiritually is so precious that we cannot afford to be reckless about EFTA01162138 anything leading us in the direction of self-improvement. Such resources upon which our opportunity to better ourselves depend are in limited quantity consider these: Blessing Twenty-One: Non-Recklessness in the Dhamma 244 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living 1. Time. We cannot afford to overlook the passing of time. The Buddha taught that EFTA01162139 "he who is not reckless will habitually reflect that days and nights are passing us by, what are we doing with our lives?" Some people sit and gossip all day or sit and boast about this or that all day or sit and look at fashion magazines or rehearse dancing. We are always competing with time. Time waits for no man and once it has passed it has gone. 2. Youthfulness: We cannot afford EFTA01162140 to overlook the value of the `best years of our life'. Some people spend their life thinking that they will wait until retirement before getting religious — however, in reality, even if you are lucky enough to reach retirement age, you will lack the former health and strength necessary for spiritual striving. 3. Health: We cannot afford to overlook the value of strong health. Some people think they will be EFTA01162141 healthy the whole of their lives — some even abuse their health if you see the robustness of your health in the context of spiritual striving, you will realize the importance of preserving it! 4. Long-life: We cannot afford to overlook the transience of human life. Some people think that they have plenty of time to do good deeds — but everyone knows someone younger than themselves who has already passed away EFTA01162142 couldn't they just have easily been us? 5. The opportunity to train oneself in working skills: We cannot afford to overlook the opportunity to train ourselves in working skills. Make sure that every task that comes your way is done to the best of your ability. Make it your personal rule always to do things to the best of your ability no matter what the situation around you. At the very least it will build up good EFTA01162143 habits for yourself. 6. The opportunity to train oneself in knowledge: We cannot afford to overlook the opportunity to train ourselves in knowledge. When you get older, your memory starts to falter. If there is anything which you need to study and memorize get it done since you are young. You don't need to wait until you are in the mood! 7. The opportunity to further oneself spiritually: EFTA01162144 We cannot afford to overlook the opportunity to train ourselves spiritually. In a single lifetime, we can expect only to overcome 10% of the weaknesses in our mind at the most and that is only if we try our hardest. Therefore, you can very easily make no improvement to yourself at all or even backslide if you let opportunities pass you by, to train yourself spiritually. A.3 Three Characteristics of the EFTA01162145 reckless The usual way in which a person's recklessness in the Dhamma expresses itself is to overlook the importance of putting in the appropriate effort in order to get the hoped-for results. Here are some examples of the attitudes of those caught up in recklessness: 1. Those who don't do anything good but who expect good results [kusEta]: Some people expend no effort when studying but expect to pass their EFTA01162146 examinations. Some do no work but expect promotion. Some never help anyone else but they expect to be popular. Some don't keep the Precepts — they practice neither generosity nor meditation — and yet they expect to attain heaven and Nirvana . . . 2. Those who do only wicked things but expectfortunate outcomesfrom their actions [ducarita]: Some do their work badly or harmfully but expect EFTA01162147 to receive a wage rise. Some spend their whole time gossiping behind others' backs but expect everyone to like them. 3. Those who do negligable amounts ofgood deeds but who expect significantly good results [sithila]: Some do nothing more than light sticks of incense on the shrine and expect an afterlife with a heavenly mansion and a retinue of thousands. Some spend only an hour doing serious EFTA01162148 revision for an exam but expect to be the top of the class. Some do others a small favour like giving someone a meal but expect loyalty for the rest of their lives. In conclusion, any of these three types of recklessness are caused because the doer underestimates the importance of investing effort in doing good deeds. Blessing Twenty-One: Non-Recklessness in the Dhamma 245 B. NON-RECKLESSNESS EFTA01162149 B.1 Definition of non-recklessness 'Non-recklessness' means being in control of oneself the whole of the time, no matter whether one is thinking, speaking or doing overt actions — never allowing yourself slip into complacency, and never letting the opportunity to do good deeds pass by unanswered. You need to be focussed on the things which you have to do and things which you need to avoid. You have to be aware and EFTA01162150 responsible for your duties — working in earnest with the effort to seek for spiritual progress the whole of the time. Non-recklessness is thus like a feeling of responsibility towards yourself which you maintain the whole of the time. It is also like being constantly `awake' to one's proper priorities. B.2 Importance of non-recklessness in Dhamma as a whole We have already mentioned the preciousness of EFTA01162151 opportunities to cultivate oneself — and the Dhamma, or teaching of the Buddha, is the system which explains these opportunities and how they can be benefitted from. Before exploring the detail of this particular Blessing, let us examine the nature of the Dhamma, so that we can orientate ourselves in a non-reckless way towards it. The Dhamma can be compared to the spire of a pagoda. A flag attached to the top of the pagoda of EFTA01162152 the Dhamma could be marked `non-recklessness' or equally well with the words `freedom from defilements' or `Nirvana' or `arahanthood' or `freedom from suffering'. If you are ultimately non-reckless, then you will manage to attain all of these other things i.e. an end of defilements, an end of suffering, Nirvana and arahanthood. The pagoda is made of 84,000 bricks — which are the symbolic number of teachings attributed EFTA01162153 to the Buddha. Just below the flag on the top, there are three special bricks engraved with the words `avoid evil' (Precepts), `do good' (meditation) and `purify the mind' (wisdom). These three teachings are expansions upon the concept of not being reckless as mentioned in the "OvAdapAEimokkha". Avoiding evil is further expanded as the following three bricks: • Right Speech [SammA VAcA]; • Right Action [SammA EFTA01162154 Kammanta], and; • Right Livelihood [SammA /jEvo]. The `meditation' brick is also further supported by the following three bricks: • Right Effort [SammA VAyAmo]; • Right Mindfulness [SammA Sati], and; • Right Concentration [SammA SamAdhi]. Wisdom' has two supporting bricks: • Right View [SammA DiEEhi], and; • Right Intention [SammA EFTA01162155 SaIkappo]. This line of bricks all on the same level as the Noble Eightfold Path. Beneath the Eightfold Path there is a further expansion of detail in each of the three original categories, rather like a base to the whole structure. On the side of `Precepts' there is a gradual expansion to `Five Precepts', `Eight Precepts', `Ten Precepts' and `227 Precepts'. Finally it expands to 21,000 items that are the content of the Vinaya.The bricks Right EFTA01162156 Effort, Right Mindfulness and Right Meditation are further expanded to a base of 42,000 items which are called the Suttanta. The bricks Right View and Right Intention are further expanded into 21,000 items known as the Abhidhamma. Thus when you see the structure of all the teachings, you can see that the Teachings of the Buddha originate from `non-recklessness' and anyone who does not want to be reckless needs EFTA01162157 to train themselves in Precepts, meditation and wisdom. TABLE 21.1 246 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living We might easily overlook the importance of `nonrecklessness' at this particular point in the thirtyeight blessings because it seems like nothing more than a vague instruction to `be careful'. `Being careful' — we might think— means nothing more than taking a torch with us EFTA01162158 when we go outside in the dark or not going out of the house during a storm — or if you are a drunkard, it might mean making sure that there is always enough stock of whisky in the house! However, when we come to study what `being careful' means according to the Buddhist meaning, we have to make a study that has its own individual identity. It is a teaching that is particularly EFTA01162159 deep, not just a teaching that is `vaguely useful'. It is a teaching that is at the heart of Buddhism and even Buddhists, even if they have `known Buddhism' all their lives, might not understand `non-recklessness' if they have never given it due consideration. If it was an easy blessing to apprehend, it would surely not have been put as number twenty-one in the sequence of thirty eight. EFTA01162160 Another point which reminds us of the importance of this teaching is that it is contained in the ParinibbAna Sutta which is the last teaching of the Lord Buddha to his disciples. In His last days, instead of going back and revising any particular teaching from the forty-five years of his dispensation, the Buddha talked of non-recklessness. He said: "0! Monks! Our aggregates have the nature of EFTA01162161 impermanence therefore all of you must arouse `non-recklessness'." These were His last words before passing away. `Non-recklessness' is therefore sure to be a major issue. You cannot afford to overlook it. B.3 Definition of non-recklessness in the Dhamma Non-recklessness in the Dhamma, refers particularly to "being careful" concerning the performance of particular "causes" that will lead EFTA01162162 to the "effects" — rather than superstitiously believing that `everything will turn out fine' even if we are too lazy to make things better. B.4 Components of non-recklessness in the Dhamma When we apply the cause and effect of non-recklessness to the spiritual path, it points to a total of five things we should be particularly 'careful' about: I. Being careful to remind EFTA01162163 ourselves to abstain from the three modes of evil action (evil of body, speech and mind) the whole of the time. It is like a conscience which reminds you not to kill or steal or speak in an aggressive way or think about things that are going to upset your mind without due cause. 2. Being careful to remind ourselves to do the three modes ofgood actions (goodness of body, speech and mind) the whole of the time. It EFTA01162164 is like a conscience which reminds you to do good deeds at every opportunity 3. Being careful to remind ourselves of the suffering of the hell realms that awaits us in the case we do evil. We cannot be reckless, because even though we may be a good person these days, in our childhood, when we didn't know the difference between wholesome and unwholesome behaviours, we surely have amassed a not EFTA01162165 insignificant toll of bad karma for ourselves... 4. Being careful to remind ourselves of the suffering that arises from birth, sickness, old age and death. Mindfulness reminds us `at our age' we can no longer afford to be reckless any more. If we are a child of ten, we cannot afford to be reckless because we must study. If we are teenagers we cannot afford to be reckless because we need to get the skills we need to help EFTA01162166 our parents run their business. If you are thirty and you are still unable to set yourself up in life you cannot afford to be reckless. If you are thirty-five or forty, even though you have already set yourself up in life, you cannot be reckless because you have still not done many good deeds in life — the same principle of non-recklessness applies throughout our lives. 5. Being careful to recall our EFTA01162167 object of meditation the whole of the time. Apart from keeping your mind focussed on your chosen object of meditation throughout your waking hours, this means Blessing Twenty-One: Non-Recklessness in the Dhamma 247 the mindfulness to keep your mind free from the bias of greed, hatred, delusion and fear the whole of the time. These are the virtues maintained continuously in EFTA01162168 the mind by those who are cultivating `non-recklessness'. If you regard yourself as someone in the face of impending death the whole of the time, it will inspire you not to neglect these tasks of nonrecklessness. Treat each day as if it were your last and by this recollection of death, your mind remain focussed on the task of self-cultivation. Such an ability to focus comes from a mental attribute we call `mindfulness' — a virtue discussed EFTA01162169 in more detail in the following section. C. MINDFULNESS C.1 Definition of mindfulness Mindfulness is recollection and discernment of good or bad, right and wrong, together with the motivation to think, speak and act in the proper way without forgetting oneself, without distraction and with wise reflection not letting our mind become caught up in sensory stimuli than come into contact with us. EFTA01162170 C.2 Properties of mindfulness The properties of mindfulness can be analyzed as follows: I. Not allowing the mind to wander: They are at work here but their mind is thinking about things on the other side of the world. 2. Not allowing moods and feelings to take over the mind: Not like those who smoke opium or maruana or even actors who make no effort to control their feelings. EFTA01162171 3. Not allowing the mind to elaborate one thought after another without end. 4. Constantly reminding yourself not to forget yourself C.3 Benefits of mindfulness The benefits of mindfulness can be analyzed as follows: 1. Mindfulness controls the state of mind to make sure our mind remains in the state we require keeping only the sorts of things we want to think and cutting out the EFTA01162172 things we don't want to think. 2. Allows the body and mind to be independent. Sometimes when we feel ill or in bad shape, our body feels heavy and sluggish. This also happens when our business is not going so well, or there are problems in the family. It is as if the world is weighing heavy on our shoulders. However, if we have good mindfulness, even though the EFTA01162173 things around us may be challenging they are unable to weigh us down it will not `get through' to your state of mind. 3. Mindfulness will allow our thoughts to enlarge outwards without limits. You will see things as they really are. You will be able to spread loving kindness without limits because you have no limiting anxieties. 4. Mindfulness will allow us to consider things EFTA01162174 EFTA01162175 a aLUOS J。q19qM JO Sa 9saq jo ss9ssod noA jT 99s .s9tup iu son iJIA. amj jo no!)eApino snoaui i.[nuns a il i q )noqu 18nal(' 0qui 3 SS0LISS313130J-UOU Imp 1 8nij iqppn I 叫I ？碑 pun ipaads ‘ifpoqJo suollov *Ind .J911ULU tc.19Aa J。 200J 0ill O1 208 O: noA moTte Him T osni ooq mopsIA气 S1u9Iu8fl1 ss0u[njpunu snq j ., zn a z17?4{ du maw ＜onofpun mops!，tt im'u missing. Can you manage to maintain them continuously all of the time or can you only maintain them from time to time. In this way we will know the degree of our recklessness C.4 Functions of mindfulness The functions of mindfulness can be analyzed as follows: I. It allows us to be careful of ourselves. It will protect us from falling into ways of evil or deterioration — by being suspicious of things EFTA01162176 worthy of suspicion and to be careful to protect yourself from dangers. Mindfulness is something that has the ability to stay with us wherever we are, whatever posture we are in. If you go out of the house and there is the sound of distant thunder, instead of simply being oblivious, you might 248 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living think, "Today it may rain heavily" (suspicious EFTA01162177 of things that deserve it) therefore I'd better take along my umbrella" (care to protect yourself from potential dangers). If you see a friend of the same age who is usually stronger than yourself fall down faint in the street, maybe you would instantly think of food poisoning and besides helping them, be especially careful of the sort of food you eat. 2. Tells us where to draw the line: when one must EFTA01162178 share activities with those who might a different aim in life from our own, to know to what extent one can join in with the activity without compromising one's spiritual path. 3. Gives us a timely reminder: To wake us up and get us doing useful things with our lives instead of lying around all day. 4. Acts as a catalyst: Stimulates us to hurry us up instead of allowing us to drag our feet in certain situations which require haste EFTA01162179 an attribute lacking for those who are already thirty years old but who are still playing around in life as if they were teenagers. 5. Makes us aware of our reponsibilities: It will remind us of our responsibilities — to know what and should not be done. If you are young and you wear lively colours, no-one will criticize your for it, but if you are old and you still do the same, your mindfulness might remind EFTA01162180 you about your duty at your particular time of life. It will tell you that old people don't belong in discotheques any more. 6. Engenders Thoroughness: Thoroughness relies on experience — if you know the sort of mistakes you or the employees in your care tend to make, you will be more cautious when assessing the quality of work done. C.5 Metaphorsfor mindfulness There are many metaphors for EFTA01162181 mindfulness: I. Supporting Pillar: The people of old compared mindfulness to the main supporting pillar. Wherever you put the main pillar, everything around will be firm and strong. In the same way wherever there is mindfulness, you will always manage to consider issues until you get to the bottom of things. (No other virtue can be cultivated without awareness). 2. Doorkeeper: Mindfulness has EFTA01162182 also been compared to a doorkeeper/guard in a large house or palace. A doorkeeper will let familiar people pass, but must stop strangers. In the same way mindfulness must always question as to what to investigate and what to let pass by. Whether to adjust or whether to start all over again (especially concerning sensory filtering). 3. Treasurer: Others say that mindfulness is like a treasurer who must by fussy. They EFTA01162183 must make sure that the income and outgoings are balanced or else they will not let go of the issue. In a bank sometimes they have to stay late to midnight if there is an irregularity in the accounts — even if it is a profit — because they cannot afford to have even the slightest mistake in the accounts. Even if the amount of money in question is only a small fraction of the extra wages that must be paid to EFTA01162184 all the staff who have to check the accounts. 4. Ship's Rudder: Mindfulness has also been compared to the rudder of a ship which will steer to port or starboard. Whether the ship will complete its voyage or collide with another object along the way will depend on the rudder. Without a rudder a ship will go in circles it uses up all its fuel but gets nowhere. D. CULTIVATING NON-RECKLESSNESS IN THE EFTA01162185 DHAMMA In order to cultivate non-recklessness in the Dhamma, one needs to make the cultivation of wholesomeness a regular daily activity — without exception or excuses. Be generous, keep the Precepts and meditate on a daily basis. Any morning when you have not get given alms, don't dare to take breakfast. Any day you have no intention to keep the Precepts, don't dare to leave the house. EFTA01162186 Any day you haven't done your chanting and meditation, don't yet dare to go to bed. If you have the opportunity find time for temporary ordination or to keep the Precepts at the temple keep your mind on your object of meditation throughout your waking hours and remind yourself of impending death in order to keep yourself focussed on the priorities of your spiritual vocation. Blessing Twenty-One: Non-Recklessness in the Dhamma EFTA01162187 249 E. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES E.1 Proverbs AppamAdo amataO padaO Non-recklessness is the pathway to immortality. PamAdo maccuno padaO Recklessness is the pathways to death. Dh. v21 When the wise remove recklessness by nonrecklessness; it is as entering upon the castle of wisdom; free of sorrow, they are able to see people; still caught up in EFTA01162188 their stupidity. Those still caught up in sorrow, like those standing upon a mountain peak. E.2 Ex. MakhAdeva JAtaka (J.9) Once there was a king called MakhAdeva who ascended the throne. On the day of his coronation he summoned his barber and said, "From now on my work will be much more busy I will look after the country, but you also have your job, to tell me on the day you EFTA01162189 see the first grey hair appearing on my head." The barber smiled at such an easy job. One day a few years later, the barber saw the first hair on the king's head turn grey. When he told him, the king's face turned sheet white. The king had all the subjects in the kingdom summoned together in an assembly and announced, "Today, after many years of ruling this country, the first sign of deterioration has EFTA01162190 appeared on my body. It has therefore come to the time for me to seek good deeds for myself. Thus I give up the throne, and my son will reign in my place." The king then went into the forest and became a hermit. That was the Buddha himself in one of his previous lifetimes as the Bodhisattva. For most people, instead of thinking of impending death when their hair turns grey, EFTA01162191 they are still thinking of hair dye. This is more a case of lack of mindfulness. Wouldn't it be better to donate the price of the hair dye to a good cause? (J.i.137ff., also M.ii.74ff.) E.3 Ex. CakkhupAla Thera DhA.i.15ff.40/32 There was a monk called CakkhupAla in the time of the Buddha. He ordained in his old age. Once he had learned the principles of meditation, he went EFTA01162192 into the forest to practice with another thirty monks. Before the beginning of the rainy season, the monks had a meeting to decide how to practise in keeping with having become Buddhist monks. Some monks said they wanted to meditate for an hour a day. Others said they would learn chanting or read books. CakkhupAla disagreed and said that they were all still reckless. He said that such practice was no more challenging than the EFTA01162193 household life. He said that for himself, he would restrict himself to the three positions of sitting, standing and walking to meditate throughout the rainy season. He would not lie down even for the fear of death. All the other monks agreed with him so they all practiced like this for two months. At that time, CakkhupAla's eye got an infection. He developed opthalmia and needed medicine. He went to see a doctor who gave EFTA01162194 him eye drops. To administer the drops, you needed to lie down. Thus CakkhupAla didn't use the medicine because he didn't want to break his vow of not lying down. He thought at his advancing years, he didn't know when death would come. He was more afraid that his mind would be blind to the Dhamma than that his eyes would be blind to the light. The doctor abandoned him. CakkhupAla thought to himself that he no longer had any EFTA01162195 refuge so he sat for meditation with a fervour, to try to find a real refuge for himself — the DhammakAya inside. On the last day of the rainy season, he attained DhammakAya and used the DhammakAya to consider the Noble Truths and was able to become an arahant, but by that time he was already blind. All of the thirty monks were able to become arahants. Some asked the Buddha why after doing so many EFTA01162196 good deeds CakkhupAla could go blind. CakkhupAla had been an optician in a previous life and had a female patient who was blind. The girl had made a contract that if she got her sight back she would pay him a certain amount. When she really recovered her sight, she didn't want to pay what she had agreed, so she pretended not to have recovered. The doctor wondered how she knew it 250 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps EFTA01162197 towards Enlightened Living was him if she could not see. When he found out she was just evading payment, in anger he made her a new eye medicine with acid, saying that when she used this medicine, she would be cured for life. This time the girl really did go blind. The karma of that action was to plague him in every future lifetime. To advocate meditation even to the point of damaging one's health might sound extreme. EFTA01162198 If we were still considering the pursuit of virtue in Blessings One to Eighteen, perhaps we would consider compromising spiritual practice with our worldly needs, however, now that we are in the second half of the Manual of Peace concerning higher virtue, given that we have the knowhow and the opportunity, having come thus far, we should strive without compromise in every way that we know EFTA01162199 will bring progress to our practice. E.4 Ex. Subhadda Thera DhA.iii.3 76ff When the Buddha knew that he was approaching the time when he must enter ParinibbAna, he made an announcement that anyone with any remaining doubts concerning the Dhamma should come and ask their questions within three months. Everybody was so sad and cried with grief. One monk Subhadda however, did not cry, EFTA01162200 but withdrew into the forest to intensify his own practice. He practiced meditation walking, standing and sitting — never allowing himself to lie down. He trained himself in mindfulness the whole of the time. Someone went to the Buddha and accused the monk of disrespect saying that even though that monk knew the Buddha must pass away soon, he had still not come to pay his respects. The Buddha summoned the monk EFTA01162201 in question and asked, "Why have you abandoned the community?" "I considered myself that I have still not attained any higher virtue as the result of my practice. If this is how I am even when the Buddha is still with us, what will I be like when you are gone? Therefore, I am practising to my utmost in the hope that the Buddha will be able to help with any obstacles that may crop up in the course of my practice during EFTA01162202 this three months." The Buddha agreed with the answer and said, "Other monks should take this monk as their example. He has done correctly and is an exemplar of non-recklessness." The monk was able to become an arahant before the Buddha entered ParinibbAna — he was the last to become enlightened before the passing of the Buddha. This might seem like a very high level of practice EFTA01162203 which surely could not apply to us, but even on meditation retreats, when retreatants know for themselves that they are close to making a breakthrough in their meditation, they would be wrong to waste time chattering and joking with their fellows — instead, maybe they need more time to themselves, more solitude and practice until they can secure progress in their meditation and only then to return to being their usual EFTA01162204 EFTA01162205 luiod SI琅1V 'Safl1JTA JaI8!qJO8UTMOS 9q1 J粤人pe9Jpuau oq1joIIOS 0q1UJOJJ Spa0M 0q:p 0AOIII0环pI0jTI 0A℃q OM8uidnoj8 q1xTs o琅UI "Sdm・l.'A diSfls z17?4 ｛彝asa饪0 Xuijjijsuj,, 睛uissajq jo dnoi9 mUaAaSaql Icz mLlum纫aa维u1ssa型ssa倒？aY一型0入［ ..3uO 一如a'i'tj8U!SS3iEf JI9S snojje8oj8 in our pursuit of higher virtues we still need to till and seed the ground of our mind before sowing the higher virtues we want to cultivate. There is no seed that grows well on stony ground and accordingly the first four of the five blessings in this Group, patience, humility, contentment and gratitude are concerned with softening up the mind and making it more receptive to the seeds of EFTA01162206 Dhamma to be sown in Blessing Twenty-Six (Regularly listening to Dhamma teachings). 252 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Blessing Twenty-Two: Respect 253 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 Introduction to Blessing Twenty-two In recent years, a new term has become fashionable in the vocabulary of management science that word is `knowledge management'. The term EFTA01162207 refers to ameliorating the atmosphere of knowledge sharing in a working or educational context. The problem is that knowledge in the working enviroment consists of more than just academic knowhow. Many of the skills which a craftsman can show by example, but can't put into words, will be lost on an apprentice if he has a bad rapport with his trainer. Discretion especially, can be learned only through example an apprentice EFTA01162208 needs to rely upon his master's experience especially when it comes to steering clear of the pitfalls implicit in every body of knowledge. Some types of knowledge such as acting or singing for entertainment are useful sorts of knowledge in themselves, but when entertainers don't know where to draw the line, then they may run the risk of becoming promiscuous simply because they don't know how EFTA01162209 much is too much in their quest for fame or fortune. Some doctors are very skilled in their medical skills, but if they are not close to a good exemplar of medical ethics (which are often not contained in the textbooks) they will end up becoming immoral doctors who will find any excuse to do operations because they know that the more operations they do, the more money they can earn. Without a good rapport with a teacher who is a good EFTA01162210 exemplar, with all professions, new practitioners run the risk of degeneration into the vices of alcohol, prostitution, corruption etc. Moreover, researchers have found that in many working environments where expertise consists of more than just academic knowledge, there is often little sharing of knowledge between employees, because many barriers arise which impede the spreading of good ideas in a workplace. EFTA01162211 Those who should be on the receiving end of knowledge waste time `reinventing the wheel', they don't learn from others' mistakes or their own, they have a reduced ability to absorb knowledge, learning only overt aspects of knowledge, competing with one another instead of co-operating, and not giving sufficient time or interest to new ideas to improve their work performance. In turn, those who have the knowledge EFTA01162212 to share are often unaware of what the less knowledgable wish to know and thus they communicate their ideas ineffectively or may be disinclined to share their knowledge at all. In the academic situation the same principles apply. For all the knowledge a lecturer may have if he is confronted day-in-day-out by inconsiderate, faultfinding students who have no genuine interest in their studies eventually he will be tempted to teach EFTA01162213 only half of what he knows. He will take the other half with him to the grave. The next generation will know only 50% and teach only 25%.Within only a few generations for the whole body of knowledge once so well known, will completely disappear. Blessing Twenty-Two: Respect 254 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Looking for ways to rectify the situation in working EFTA01162214 and educational contexts, the researchers recognized a set of behaviours found to act as an antidote to the problems mentioned above behaviours which work as a sort of lubricant in the student- teacher relationship — allowing the knowledge to flow. Such behaviours include being open, having the courage to admit failings, asking if one doesn't understand, looking for good points in the people one wishes to learn from EFTA01162215 and in the knowledge itself (rather than finding fault) and showing enthusiasm. In a nutshell, these sort of behaviours help to transform passive transfer of knowledge into an active and enthusiastic search for knowledge. Just as in the world of business and education, obstacles to the transfer of knowledge need to be overcome, it may come as no surprise that the same is all the more true in the world of spiritual teaching EFTA01162216 and learning. Many of the behaviours just described which help a student to learn actively instead of passively, are just as essential to the spiritual learning process. However, far from being a new discovery, these behaviours are grouped together under an ancient virtue by the name of `respect'. Respect is vitally important to the spiritual learner. In its business context, the worst that can happen if respect is lost is the bankruptcy of EFTA01162217 the company — but in the spiritual world the stakes are much higher. All of us are familiar with the rise and fall of different Empires in the world, whether they may be the Roman Empire, the Ancient Egyptian civilization or the Aztec Empire to take a few examples. All of them are established upon a particular vision which unifies a sufficient number of people and is of benefit to satisfy the human need to reach out to EFTA01162218 a cause that is larger or greater then their own self interest. Civilization can last for only as long as there is still a unifying vision to inspire people to share what they know with those of the next generation. The civilizations of the world prosper or founder depending on the vitality of visionary scholarship in their day and age. The Great Wall of China and the Pyramids which even today's modem technology cannot replicate are EFTA01162219 concrete proof of the knowledge of the ancient ones but nowadays Egypt's empire is but desert, and ruins are all to tell us of civilizations past. Empires prosper as the arts and scholarship grow, bringing more and more comfort to peoples' lives. Peoples' appetites are never satiated though, and in the race to personal pleasure man becomes less considerate of his fellow man. At this point as the market grows for EFTA01162220 those sort of pleasures that make men antisocial — the vices of gambling, prostitution, alcoholism and drugs — pleasures of which no-one can ever get enough. However, neither vice nor materialism per se are reasons for the fall of civilizations. It is man's lack of respect for his fellow man and especially towards the knowledge he relies upon for his wellbeing, that is the critical factor in the downfall of bodies of knowledge and their EFTA01162221 dependent civilizations. Without respect, whole bodies of knowledge quickly die because neither student nor teacher are willing to go out of their way to help each another. The death of knowledge is the death not just of altruism, but of civilization. Thus respect needs to be cherished by all who wish to see such a crucial body of knowledge such as the way to enlightenment, perpetuated throughout our generation and for EFTA01162222 many generations to come.Thus we must ask ourselves how both on the level of the individual and the level of civilization how we can promote and preserve a learning environment which promotes spiritual maturity. A.2 Virtue that opens our eyes to the qualities ofpeople The key value which we need to develop in order to activate our spiritual learning is the ability to look deep enough into the personality of others to identify EFTA01162223 the good qualities from which we can learn. To know the uses of things, whether it be the healing properties of plants or the applications of minerals, is the characteristic of a wise man — contrary to those who think that nothing is a greater gift to the world than themselves. Anyone blind to the usefulness of the objects or people around them lose any opportunity to benefit from the things around them. Unfortunately, without EFTA01162224 practice we tend not to see others as they really are. When we see someone, we tend to be caught up in appearances inBlessing Twenty-Two: Respect 255 stead of being able to tell what virtues that person really has. The only way we have any chance of seeing through to the real value of people is if we make a specific effort to look for the good qualities in people. However, we have a tendency not to do this. Because we have a certain EFTA01162225 arrogance, thinking that we will always be better than others, often we overlook the good in anyone else. If we are not even able to see the goodness in others, what chance do we have to emulate that goodness for ourselves? Some people are blind to the goodness in others because they do not look for it or they assume themselves to be superior — or the goodness in others is often not manifest — and even when their EFTA01162226 virtues are manifest, they are veiled from our own perceptions by the impurities in our minds. In order to overcome possible blindness in the mind we therefore need to focus on respect and how to cultivate it. B. RESPECT B.1 Definitions Respect means to open up sincerely to the ways in which others are (in truth) more valuable or important than yourself and by expressing sincere and EFTA01162227 humble praise deserved by others with body, speech and mind — whether you are in their presence or not — as a way of showing that the person expressing respect appreciates and is cognizant of the good deeds of another — voluntarily without being forced to show such respect. Respect is easy to understand if we say that is is the opposite of finding fault with others. If you look at the epistemology of the word `respect' you will find EFTA01162228 that it is made up of two parts "re" and "spect"."Spect" means `to look'. "Re" means `to do something again'.Thus the meaning of the word `respect' is `to look at something a second time' — but specifically to find the good qualities of something. Such a definition helps us not to confuse `respect' with its near neighbour `expressing respect'. Such behaviours as bowing may be sincere but often they EFTA01162229 are not. A soldier's salute, for example, doesn't mean he has respect for the person he salutes — the key factor which makes respect useful in the cultivation of virtue is the attitude behind the respectful behaviour. Having emphasised so much on the attitude of respect, the reader might be tempted to think it is superfluous to bow or express respect — in fact many think that having respectful thoughts is good EFTA01162230 enough. However, expressing respect is also useful in itself (see objectives belowfor further details) — because it helps to reduce ones' selfish views, cultivates humility and lends value to the cultivation of virtue in any society. For a young child taught from an early age to bow in respect to monks, parents, elders and teachers in the beginning it might be an automatic response out of a child's blind faith or obedience. However, when EFTA01162231 expressing such respect becomes habitual, later when the child is older and more reflective, it will start to ask itself the question, "what's so great about my parents or teachers or spiritual teachers that makes them worthy of such respect?" and at that time the child will start to look for the virtue in those people — which is the fully-fledged attitude of respect. B.2 Objectives of expressing respect EFTA01162232 The reasons we show respect are in order to: 1. To show that we have real respect for that person both in body and mind 2. To reinforce the goodness of that person: When you pay respect to someone it forces the person on the receiving end of the respect to reflect whether they are worthy or not of such respect if they feel embarrassed by the respect because of their lack of virtue, before long they will feel EFTA01162233 motivated to improve themselves. Teachers, for example often forget that their duty consists of both parts, both of which he need to be fulfilled in order to qualify for the respect of their students: 1. The duty to explain (i.e. teach a subject in theory) 2. The duty to exemplify (especially the moral useage of the subject he teaches) 3. To perpetuate humane culture 4. To reduce your own selfish views EFTA01162234 5. To train yourself in human relations 6. To publicize the goodness of yourself and the person who is object to your respect. 256 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Those who express respect have the wisdom to seek for goodness in others. If someone shows you respect you will know that that person is someone of developed virtue — they have at least the makings of wisdom. If you too are smart, when EFTA01162235 someone treats you with respect, you will treat them with respect too. It is a foolish person who ignores or patronizes someone else who shows them respect. Not to acknowledge another's respect is as good as saying, "I'm so dumb and devoid of wisdom that I can see no good in you!" The fear to express respect to others or to acknowledge the respect shown to one is usually rooted in the assumption that it will belittle one's grandeur or allow EFTA01162236 others to appear more important than oneself. Such hankering after self-importance and hunger for deference by others unfortunately blinds one's mind to the goodness in others. C. OBJECTS OF RESPECT C.1 Spiritual objects of respect The Buddha taught (AppamAda Sutta A.iv.27; Kimmila Sutta A.iv.84; Sakkacca Sutta A.iv.120) that there are seven objects of respect in the spiritual world which are so full of virtues that even if a person EFTA01162237 EFTA01162238 (uouatuouaqd 1 ) uopn npa (Sa0IIeu。SJad)e I8re S aill (uou9tuou9 mum/ y alp (山tpuosJ9di) ntippn y aw 7 ：釭Tidalax9 Aai1 poo8 aT41. rOp 9AO 1p.IOjje UI 3 9LIO-O11)em p[JOM 9甲O1 9iqi A OS 9 tioTtim loadsai Jo s)oa fqo p n1Inds om 9Saq工 !S'SdiU puff atp u？paqy?sap dpvaim S'Sa 0.1d V) 9n JIA 。 UOITCpaldde icq p9 A气al aq UOOS HIAA P 9dSal /wogs ）:j.ojjaa p ' )as1no aq1 隼9TL1JIA JO 9 il A 9 q1 a1Tm°aide 19ppun si 5. meditation (a practice) 6. non-recklessness (a practice) 7. hospitality (a phenomenon) All of these things have such a decisive influence over our own well-being that we cannot afford to overlook them. If we have no respect for these things it is hard to appreciate any lesser virtue. C.1.1. The Lord Buddha We need to have respect for the Buddha, because he has nothing but goodness, we can really look as deep as we like and we will find no EFTA01162239 end to his virtue. If anybody is able to instill themselves with the virtues which the Buddha had, they will themselves be worthy of respect. Anyone whose mind is blind to the virtues of the Buddha will find it very difficult to achieve success or happiness in life. There are different ways of expressing one's respect to the Buddha which depend on whether the Buddha is still alive or has already passed away. EFTA01162240 When the Lord Buddha was still alive, disciples would pay respect by: 1. going for audience with the Buddha three times a day — or if lay Buddhists, would pay respect to the Buddha by going for audience with the Buddha regularly; 2. not wearing shoes when the Buddha was barefoot; 3. not walking in a place higher than where the Buddha was standing; 4. not sitting in a place higher than where the Buddha EFTA01162241 was sitting; 5. (for monks) not wearing one's robe in a manner as to cover both shoulders when the Buddha was robed with one shoulder open. (to cover both shoulders in the time of the Buddha was the manner of dressing of a leader — thus if the Buddha was already sitting as president in any particular place with one shoulder `open' it would not be suitable for others to keep both shoulders EFTA01162242 covered). 6. not putting up an umbrella or parasol within the Buddha's sight if the Buddha had not already done so; 7. not passing water or defecating within the Buddha's sight. When the Buddha had entered ParinibbAna, different ways of paying respect became applicable: 1. respecting the pagoda containing the Buddha's relics; 2. paying respect at the four holy EFTA01162243 sites of Buddhism [saOvejanEyaEEhAna] the places as which the Buddha was born, enlightened, gave his first sermon and passed away into ParinibbAna; 3. paying respect to Buddha images or anointing Blessing Twenty-Two: Respect 257 the Buddha image with water on the appropriate occasion; 4. paying respect before the main shrine of a temple when arriving and before leaving; 5. not wearing shoes in pagoda grounds; EFTA01162244 6. not putting up an umbrella or parasol in the pagoda grounds; 7. not chattering while walking in the pagoda grounds; 8. taking down one's umbrella or parasol and removing one's shoes when entering the grounds of a temple (or for monks to change one's manner of robing from that of covering both shoulders to that of exposing one shoulder when entering the temple) and maintaining EFTA01162245 modesty and composure from the time one enters the temple compound; 9. practising what the Lord Buddha taught. C.1.2. The Dhamma The Dhamma is the collective name for all that the Buddha taught about the nature of life and the world. It is also a pathway which if followed will lead to an end of suffering. Even the Lord Buddha himself paid respect to the Dhamma. He respected EFTA01162246 the teaching so much that his final words were to declare, not a person, but the Dhamma (together with the monastic code of conduct [vinaya]) as successor to Buddhism after his passing. 1. never missing opportunity to listen to Dhamma teachings 2. listening to Dhamma teachings attentively, peacefully and with composure — rather than falling asleep or picking one's fingernails during EFTA01162247 the teaching 3. taking respectful care of books containing Dhamma teachings — not shoving them in trouser pockets, putting them on the floor or in places where they will get dirty or wet and not putting other things (like cups of coffee) down on top of them; 4. You should not make fun of the Dhamma — and if one has the opportunity to teach the Dhamma to others, it should be EFTA01162248 taught accurately. C.1.3. The Saigha The Saigha were those who have trained themselves and help to teach others to follow in their footsteps. We can pay respect to the Saigha by: 1. Bowing and saluting with composure in the presence of monks; 2. Sitting with composure when in the presence of monks (rather than sitting hugging one's knees, for example); 3. Not putting on shoes or putting EFTA01162249 up umbrellas in the middle of the monastic community; 4. Not making exaggerated gestures (such as waving one's arms and legs immodestly) when in the presence of monks; 5. Not standing, walking, lying or sitting in a way impedes or encroaches upon monks; 6. Not boasting of Dhamma knowledge or answering questions on Dhamma unless specifically invited to do so by the most senior monk; EFTA01162250 7. looking after the monks needs with a faithful heart; 8. receiving monks hospitably with appropriate gifts of requisites. C.1.4. Education Education in both spiritual and worldly ways is necessary for one's welfare doesn't mean bowing to your pencil and jotter. It means being sincere in your studies (not reckless). You must not take the attitude that you already know it all. If you study EFTA01162251 then try to get to the core of the thing you are studying. C.1.5. Meditation People might be very respectful towards the Triple Gem and education, but they can never expect to attain enlightenment unless they get down to the practice of meditation too. It is necessary to remind oneself constantly of the benefits of practising meditation and express one's respect by practising meditation regularly for as long as one can. Meditation EFTA01162252 is vital to the cultivation of virtue. It is the last and most important link of the Eightfold path that will bring the mind to successful attainment in meditation. It is irreplaceable for all who wish to know the real meaning of the Dhamma as explained by 258 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living the Threefold Training [ti-sikkhA] — the heart of the Buddhist teaching consisting of self-discipline [sEla], meditation [samAdhi] and EFTA01162253 wisdom [pafifiA] — which will lead to the liberation of Nirvana. We cultivate self-discipline in order to avoid the evil that might otherwise cloud the mind and impede our mind from entering upon meditation. Meditation is in turn the foundation of wisdom. Thus meditation is the prime principle in the cultivation of all sorts of virtue, especially removing defilements from the mind and entry upon Nirvana. EFTA01162254 Some people refuse to meditate, but try to attain enlightenment exclusively by reading about it. Unfortunately, no matter how much they read, they have no chance of coming closer to enlightenment, because all their theoretical knowledge, can do nothing to help an inner sphere of knowing to arise in the mind unless the mind is directed inwards . . . Thus don't go believing anyone who tells you that meditation is superfluous to EFTA01162255 Buddhist practice. It contradicts the Buddha's own words and it does not correspond which the example set throughout his life by the Buddha himself. C.1.6. Non-recklessness Those who are not reckless will habitually be mindful of: 1. Abstaining from evil 2. Doing good deeds 3. Remind ourselves of the suffering of the hell realms that awaits us in the case we do evil. 4. Recall the suffering that arises EFTA01162256 from birth, sickness, old age and death. 5. Recall our object of meditation the whole of the time. All of these things are equivalent to having respect for yourself. C.1.7. Hospitality Hospitality is helping to fill the gaps. Sometimes when we are taking care of other people, it is hard to please them in every respect. However, if guests come to our own house and the reception we provide for them is still lacking, then we EFTA01162257 may well be criticized for it. We must try to fill the gaps so that there is no remainingthing which others could criticize us for as being inhospitable. This doesn't just mean being friendly to guests, but it means training everybody in our circle of influence who might receive guests in our place (e.g. sons & daughters, subordinates or housemaids). Hospitality is very important if you want to be a pillar of society. Hospitality EFTA01162258 means (A.i.93, Vbh.360): I. Material Hospitality [Amisa-paEisanthAra]: receiving people with the material things they need. Even if they have come to your house to borrow your money don't refuse them completely (but might not give as much as they ask). 2. Spiritual Hospitality [dhamma-paEisanthAra]: talking about thngs that are useful for the guest's spiritual transformation instead of talking about EFTA01162259 things which they don't want to hear — or useless things. If we are able to cultivate respect for these seven objects (of§C.1), before long we will gain the ability to see the virtue not only in these objects, but in everybody around us in the world — whether they are spiritually inclined or not. The habit of finding fault with others will gradually recede. C2 Secular Objects of Respect In daily life, it is not only the EFTA01162260 seven objects of §C.1 which we should show our respect towards. Virtue exists in many places, even the mundane world, and the Buddha advised us also to have respect for the following secular personages. Such personages are especially worthy of respect if in turn they have respect for the seven objects already mentioned: 1. Kings or national leaders who are established in the Ten Virtues of a Monarch (see Blessing 16, EFTA01162261 §C.2): 2. Parents (for the part of them that is virtuous): Supposing they are robbers and get put in jail, maybe you will send food for them. 3. Teachers and Preceptors (who have virtue) 4. Elders 5. Older brothers or sisters should be respected by younger brothers or sisters 6. Younger brothers and sisters (who have exceptional virtue) For these secular objects of respect, the following EFTA01162262 are appropriate ways in which respect can be expressed: Blessing Twenty-Two: Respect 259 1. Clearing the way for that person to pass. 2. Standing up to receive the person 3. Holding your hands in a gesture of respect 4. Bowing D. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES D.1 Metaphor: Cavemen frozen for their ignorance Arthur C. Clarke once observed that cave dwellers EFTA01162263 froze to death on beds of coal. Coal was right under them, but they didn't notice it, or have the knowledge to mine it or use it. Not knowing the beneficial qualities of a resource can cost you your life. In the same way, without the respect to wake you up to the virtues latent in the people standing right next to you might cost you your the path of spiritual progess. D.2 Ex. Tittira JAtaka (J.37) There were three animals a pigeon, EFTA01162264 a monkey and an elephant which lived in a banyan tree. They showed no respect or consideration for each other. The elephant thought it was the best because it was the biggest. It would scratch itself against the tree so roughly that all the other animals would fall out of the tree. It would trumpet so loudly that it would wake up all the others. The monkey was no less inconsiderate. It thought it was the best because it EFTA01162265 was fast and could climb the tree more quickly than the others. It would throw a red-ant's nest down on the elephant if it was dissatisfied. If it was bored it would destroy the pigeon's nest just for fun. The pigeon said nothing but did a dropping on the monkey's head. Also the pigeon would coo loudly whenever it felt like it. In the end, none of the three animals could get a proper night's sleep. The three animals met together to decide EFTA01162266 what to do because, if they carried on being inconsiderate like this indefinitely, they would surely all die. They decided to respect each other according to age. They didn't have a way of counting the years so they all compared themselves to the history of the tree. The elephant said that his first memory of the tree was when the tree was only as high as his navel (a metre high). The monkey's first memory of the tree EFTA01162267 was when it could sit on the ground and nibble the top of the tree (six inches high). The bird said that he could remember the tree since it had still not sprouted. Therefore the bird was oldest followed by the monkey followed by the elephant. Now each animal could put its own goodness to work. The bird would get up in the morning and fly up high into the sky to see which part of the forest where the fruit was ripe. Now the EFTA01162268 elephant and monkey didn't have to guess where the fruit was any more. The monkey and the bird would sit on the back of the elephant and go to where the fruit was ripe. Now instead of the elephant having to wait for the fruit to drop, the monkey would climb the tree and collect the fruit for the other two. They would pick so much fruit and put it on the back of the elephant that they could store fruit at the bottom of the EFTA01162269 banyan tree so that the next day they wouldn't have to go looking for food any more. Because of the benefit of respect according to seniority in bringing forth the goodness in every person, even in the monastic community, monks respect one another according to seniority and the older monks have the duty to teach the younger. D.3 Ex. SAriputta jumping canals The elder monk SAriputta, who was second only to the Buddha for wisdom, still had EFTA01162270 certain faults remaining even though he was already an arahant. When he led the other monks on almsround, instead of using bridges to cross canals in his path, he would jump across the canal. If he led a group of monks for dhutaIga practice, he would like to hang up his umbrella not at ground level, but at the top of a tree. Some people asked the Buddha, "With all these strange habits, is it true that EFTA01162271 SAriputta is really an arahant?" The Buddha confirmed that SAriputta was really an arahant. They asked, "Then why does he still jump across canals and camp at the top of trees?" The Buddha replied, "SAriputta is really an arahant, but even so,there are some deeply engrained aspects of his character that being an arahant has not changed — because he has spent many lifetimes as a monkey." D.4 Ex. Pilindavaccha says EFTA01162272 `peasant' There was another arahant Pilindavaccha who, 260 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living whenever he met someone, would call them with the words, "you peasant" [vasala]. If you didn't deserve such a title and you got called `a peasant' every day, it would surely become very irritating, even for the most patient of people. To him, whether they were aristocrats or kings they were all `peasants' to him. A large EFTA01162273 number of people asked, if Pilindavaccha was really an arahant or not, with such disrespect for everyone he met. The Buddha confirmed that he was really an arahant, but that again he had certain engrained aspects of his character, too deep to change — because Pilindavaccha had been born only as a king and as an emperor continuously for many lifetimes. Even as an arahant, it is still possible to have faults - so what about the humble likes of EFTA01162274 ourselves who have still not made much progress in our Dhamma practice? Blessing Twenty-Three: Humility 261 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 Introduction to Blessing Twenty-Three There are many obstacles which may stand in the way of our acquisition of higher virtue. As already mentioned, virtue does not exist unpackaged, but comes as part and parcel of the people who are endowed with them. If we are unable to see EFTA01162275 deeply enough into the qualities of people — if we judge them only on superficial appearances, we might overlook their deeper worth. By overlooking their qualities, we tend to assume they have less than us — and when we assume ourselves to be superior, arrogance becomes our normal state of mind. A.2 Things which people tend to measure their worth in terms of Arrogant people tend to measure EFTA01162276 their worth in terms of superficial things (a completer list of twelve items is available at Nd1.80]) such as: I. Their family: Some are born with a silver spoon in their mouths and thus tend to think, "I come from a large and influential family. I am descended from celebrities. I can get away with anything I want. No-one else can even compare with me." Thinking such, a person tends to look EFTA01162277 down on everyone else. However, in reality coming from an influential family does nothing to guarantee a bright future for oneself It is often even harder than for an `unknown person' for someone from a famous family to learn to stand on their own two feet or establish an independent reputation. It has been said that the children who are constantly namedropping or using their parent's importance as an excuse EFTA01162278 to do devious things will eventually come to grief. Eventually when they listen to no-one's advice, they will be beyond help; 2. Their wealth: Some tend to think, "I am exceedingly wealthy. There is nothing I can't afford to buy or do. There is no reason why I should show any deference to anyone else — or show anyone any consideration." Thinking such, a person tends to look down on everyone EFTA01162279 else. In reality wealth does nothing to guarantee a bright future for oneself. Just by making a few slip-ups in their accounts today's rich can become tomorrow's paupers and debtors. Even if you manage to keep your riches until the end of your life, you cannot take them with you when you go. If you don't appreciate applying your wealth for the cultivation of good deeds, even though you may EFTA01162280 be wealthy, it will not help you to escape from suffering in life. The richer you are, the more worries you will have — out of fear your riches will disappear or be stolen. 3. The beauty of their appearance: Some people tend to think, "I am more attractive than anyone else. No-one comes close to me in beauty — my skin is so fine, my nose shows breeding, my eyes are rounded — even Miss Universe would be EFTA01162281 jealous." Thinking such, a person tends to look down on everyone else. However, in reality an Blessing Twenty-Three: Humility 262 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living attractive appearance does nothing to guarantee a bright future for oneself. People may be attracted to one for the wrong reasons and even EFTA01162282 if you live to seventy you can be sure your beauty won't! 4. Their knowledge and experience: Some people think, "I am so smart I have a Masters' Degree. I have obtained even the degrees that everyone says are so tough to obtain. I am cleverer than anyone else." Thinking such, a person tends to look down on everyone else. In reality academic knowledge does nothing to guarantee a bright EFTA01162283 future for oneself — because knowledge in the hands of a fool can lead to disaster. 5. Their rank or position: Some tend to think, I hold such a high rank in the armed forces or have a managerial position in the civil service therefore everyone else should listen to me! Thinking such, a person tends to look down on everyone else. However, in reality rank does nothing to guarantee a bright future for oneself. Positions come EFTA01162284 with responsibilities and if we don't have the virtues requisite for fulfilling those duties, those ranks or titles can be our downfall — ruining our reputation. Moreover, there is nothing to guarantee security of our position forever. 6. The number offollowers: Some tend to think, "I have so many friends and followers that no-one would dare to mess with me!" Thinking such, a person tends to look down on EFTA01162285 everyone else. However, in reality the number of our friends and followers does nothing to ensure a bright future for oneself. If we don't know how to choose wise friends and are interested in nothing more that popularity — those friends can become our downfall. Furthermore, even if we have many friends and followers in the present day, there is nothing to guarantee that we will EFTA01162286 be able to keep them for ever. We tend to measure our worth in terms of these six factors while at the back of our mind, common sense tells us that none of these six things can stay with us permanently. All of these things are impermanent — and they don't really belong to us. Many are just conceptual phenomena which happen to have value in the eyes of society in this particular day and age. They are assets which can be of benefit EFTA01162287 to us only as long as we practise a particular duty in the social structure. If you examine what we can actually call our own — you will eventually find that all we can call our own are the good virtues we have cultivated in our hearts. You should ask yourself what you actually improve in yourself by looking down on the other people. Does it make others appreciate us more? — or does it irritate other people so that EFTA01162288 they will never want to do anything to help us a second time? It is like a person who wants to wants to be praised for their wealth and who behaves like a `big-spender' in spite of the fact they cannot really afford to do so — because of their frivolous spending they go further and further into debt day-by-day as the price of their pretenciousness. Those who are really endowed with virtues will maintain their humility even when EFTA01162289 praised by others. Thus they will not allow self-pride to cause them to look down on others - for fear that they will lose the opportunity further to improve themselves. A.3 Isn't humility just the same as respect? Respect and humility sometimes look as if they are the same virtue, but in fact there are many differences. Respect, as we have seen from the previous blessing, has already taught us to be active in our search EFTA01162290 for the virtues contained in others Respect is a virtue basedon the way we see others — a respectful person is someone who actively looks for the good things about other people instead of finding fault with them — and who expresses respect in their thoughts, words and deeds. They would be a person who is able to estimate peoples' worth according to reality rather than superficial appearances. Humility, by contrast, is a virtue EFTA01162291 based on the way we see ourselves — to be a humble person is to reflect on one's own weaknesses, finding fault with oneself and to estimating one's own worth according to reality rather than superficial appearances. A humble person is not someone to boast, but one who is able to show deference to others in order to maximize the amount of goodness absorbed from Blessing Twenty-Three: Humility 263 EFTA01162292 them. A humble person does not overestimate themselves in terms of their good qualities in relation to others — to give ourselves the chance to learn from them. A respectful person is not necessarily a humble one. A person may be observant enough to see the good qualities exemplified by others (i.e. they have the quality of respect) but they might not be able bring themselves to show any deference to such a EFTA01162293 person in order to learn from them (i.e. they are not humble). Instead they always like to compare themselves to that person they respect in an unrealistically favourable light. They say to themselves, "even though you're the best at this, I'm the best at that — so I'm as good as you!" If they were a little less arrogant, even though they may already be good at one thing, they will always be looking to improve themselves at things they EFTA01162294 have not yet mastered instead of complacently sitting on their laurels. Thus, not to overestimate ourselves together with avoiding the arrogance of looking down on others (for whatever reason) is the subject to be dealt with by this Blessing. A.4 Damage from arrogance When we lose our humility, judging our worth in superficial terms and arrogantly looking down on others, there are three sorts of EFTA01162295 harm it will bring to ourselves, others and society at large: I. Damage to yourself: You lose your opportunity to absorb goodness from others estimating yourself too highly — you will tend to think you are already good enough and have no room for improvement. Looking at others you see no-one who matches your own talents. 2. Damage to others: Often people's arrogance starts with good intentions. EFTA01162296 However their haughty discrimination will degenerate into being touchy about trivial things and they become the subject of disagreements which break up friendships. Like a pagoda with a narrow base which cannot be built very tall without toppling, arrogant people will not get far in teamwork. Because of the conflicts they always have, they will always prefer to work alone, so their life's EFTA01162297 achievements will never amount to much. In the words of the famous Buddhist master of meditation, Luang Phaw Wat Paknam: "to look down on others, even without realizing it, seeing others as weaker than oneself, speaking irreverendly to them, is like the gables of a house being burned by a fire which has spread from the lower storeys. Even in the smallest house fire will spread EFTA01162298 to the gables and in the same way, the resentment of juniors can destroy the person who governs them unless he is compassionate and wishes only happiness to those around him, especially those less privileged than himself." 3. Damage to society at large: Arrogant people have many negative consequences for society, namely: 1. breakdown of law and order: Arrogant people EFTA01162299 don't tend to respect the rules and always expect to be treated as the exception to the rule. Society will break down if it supports such people. 2. disharmony, social instability and vulnerability to colonization: in a society where arrogance prevails, it will be difficult for any lasting harmony to come about. (see §D2, Like sandy broken soil even after the rain). The caste system in EFTA01162300 India in the olden days tended to make each caste arrogant and even when enemies were at the door such as the British colonists, instead of thinking to unite to defend the independance of their country, the superior castes all thought themselves too superior to deal with the practicality of national affairs — meanwhile the lower castes and the untouchables, although they saw the danger, EFTA01162301 shrugged their shoulders and reflected that if the worst came to the worst, it would teach the arrogant superior castes a good lesson. The castes were so busy arguing amongst themselves they failed to defend themselves against invaders who were many thousands of times less numerous than themselves. In dynastic China arrogance was often expressed 264 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living EFTA01162302 in terms of vengeance wrought by one family on another often many generations after the original provoking incident. In countries such as Thailand where humility is more well-regarded as a social virtue, although there may disagreements on a national level — even coup d'etat from time to time — the transitions usually take place with a minimum of bloodshed. In any community or society EFTA01162303 where humility prevails — even when a conflict should arise — before long people will be re-united again in harmony (see §D2, like a clay soil after the rain). These are all good reasons why we should cultivate humility. B. HUMILITY & ARROGANCE B.1 Definition: Humility The word for humility in the Pali, ‘nivAta' used in this blessing, actually means someone who is without EFTA01162304 (`ni') air (`vAta'). The word is applicable to someone who is not inflated by their own self-importance. B.2. Characteristics of Humility If you were able to see into the mind of a humble person, you would see the following characteristics: I. Freedom from false views: False views are ground assumptions about the nature of life and the world so negative or out of keeping with reality that they obscure any intention to cultivate EFTA01162305 oneself for the better. 2. Freedom from self-pride and self-importance: Self-pride is the belief that you are always superior to others. Some people who are born in the aristocracy don't believe that the normal manin the street can ever be his equal. Rich people look down on poor people. Town dwellers look down on `country bumpkins' — in a nutshell people tend to be proud of themselves for the EFTA01162306 wrong reasons; 3. Freedom from stubborness: The mind of a humble person is soft like greenwood (M1) or like a piece of soft workable clay (O)2). Not like a deadwood (M1) or like a clod of sandy soil (0302). This is the result of 1 and 2 above. 4. Workableness of mind: whether the mind is soft or hard will be adapted appropriately to the situation. B.3 Characteristics of a humble person A humble person tends to behave EFTA01162307 as if they are of no importance. Their virtues speak for themselves they don't need to advertise them. It is like a diamond which will always be a diamond whether you advertise it or not. A humble person doesn't need to show-off their strengths — to be stubborn or make a fuss. Because humble people know their own worth according to reality, they are characterised by three identifying features: I. Humility of action: a humble EFTA01162308 person is not arrogant in their body language or their manners — but at the same time they are not obsequious. They know how to make themselves endearing to others by their behaviour but at the same time they have confidence in themselves. It is someone who is always ready to mould themselves to the convenience of others like a piece of soft clay. They will be the person who can get along EFTA01162309 with everybody and fill the gaps in situations of social disharmony. They will be good-mannered to seniors and subordinates alike. They give things due respect rather than pretending that they are the equal of others out of their league. They are careful always to be consistent in their cultivated manners no matter what walk of society they are dealing with. They mould themselves favourably to any situation that EFTA01162310 will give rise to virtue or reduce bad habits. This is in stark contrast to the body language of arrogant people. Arrogant people will often be physically unable to bend their body to express humility (such as bowing or even lowering their head in deference). 2. Humility of words: a humble person is not arrogant in the way they speak. Their words express the purity and good intention in EFTA01162311 their heart. Their words are soft rather than being provocative or boastful. They do not use their verbal skills to `put others down'. If they should be responsible for a mistake, they will be quick to say `sorry'. If they receive praise from others they will be quick Blessing Twenty-Three: Humility 265 to thank them for the complement. They don't make threats or tease others for making mistakes. EFTA01162312 If they see the good someone else has done, they will be quick to congratulate them for it. Because their thoughts are pure, the words that come from their mouths are only those which have already been well filtered and considered. The manner of their speech is gentle but not weak. They refer to people by their appropriate titles. Their speech is therefore endearing to all who hear it. This is in stark contrast to EFTA01162313 the rigid speech of arrogant people characterised by patronizing comments about others. They will never let others forget how they are related to the royal family or have a high rank in the civil service.The words they say are nauseating to all who hear them. 3. Humility of mind: a humble person is not arrogant even in the way they think. They may be soft and gentle in their approach to EFTA01162314 all things, but it doesn't mean that they are weak or indecisive. Never complacent about their abilities, they will always be looking for ways to improve on them. They don't assume that they are always right — they are open to others' opinions. They don't get angry if they don't get their own way, but look for ways to adapt their thinking to the needs of others (within the limits of scrupulousness EFTA01162315 laid down by the Lord Buddha). This is in contrast to the untrained mind of an arrogant person which will tend to be subject to `views' — especially those concerning ' self-importance ' In any situation where they must forgo their individual whims in order better to work as a team, they will often find it hard to adapt. They will always want to be the leader of a group — even if they don't have the capability. EFTA01162316 C. OVERCOMING ARROGANCE C.1 Useful ways to train yourself Everyone has tendencies towards arrogance — even children. Children are known to gangfight with others simply because they go to a rival school. A crying child will stop crying as soon as they hear the magic words, "Oh aren't you the bravest little boy in the world?" When our arrogance is engrained from such an early age, we need to make a special EFTA01162317 effort to cultivate humility in its place — and in practice this can be done by: I. Avoidingflatterers: If we have the feeling that we have a tendency towards arrogance or if we know that our own family is one of influence — the person who has the most danger for us is the flatterer. Instead of succumbing to popularity with flatterers we need to seek out those who can wake us up to our delusions on a regular EFTA01162318 basis. Such people may be found amongst our teachers or elders, but they might even be responsible friends or those who have a lot of virtue. Such friends will influence us to be thorough and detailed in assessing all that we do, never overlooking our habits irrespective of the situation (see Blessing Two). 2. Being thorough and think carefully before you do things: You have to think things through thoroughly EFTA01162319 before doing them. For example, you should wisely reflect whether dressing so lavishly is appropriate to one's social position. You should wisely reflect whether driving such a large car is appropriate if your boss drives a much smaller one. If, even uninintentionally, you are constantly doing things that might be interpreted as arrogant by others you will eventually find yourself surrounded by enemies. Be careful EFTA01162320 when you express opinions. Remember that an idea doesn't have to be yours to be good! You get your merit even if you make your good idea appear to belong to someone else! Don't become reckless when you have success. Never forget that you are never the best, there is always better. Think of death and remind yourself that there are still a lot more good deeds to do. Don't become enamoured by superficial EFTA01162321 qualities of your personality — and try to remember that no matter how good you think you may be, you are still subject to all the weaknesses of a human — whether it be old age, sickness or death. C.2 The tradition ofpaying respect to one's teacher Humility is one of the virtues heavily emphasised along with `patience' and `self-discipline' in the ceremony of respect for one's teacher practised in the EFTA01162322 266 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Buddhist tradition by schools and educational institutions annually throughout Thailand. At this ceremony called ' Wai Kru', there are three symbolic gifts whichhave been used traditionally in the ceremony to pay respect to the teacher — aubergine flowers, coarse grass and popped rice: 1. The aubergine flower is a symbol of humility because each flower that will give rise to a EFTA01162323 fruit must bow its head towards the ground. Flowers which hold their head high will give no fruit and in the end will wither. In the same way, humility is quality of every student who will receive a teacher's knowledge to the full. Just as water must flow down to a lower level, the student who is humble will receive the most knowledge the most quickly. 2. Coarse grass is a symbol of EFTA01162324 patience. This sort of grass can endure being parched during the dry season. It can endure treading and crushing by countless feet at the side of a footpath where other plants might have withered and died. In the same way, only the student with patience will endure the full duration of the course — doing whatever is needed to succeed in their studies. 3. Popped rice is a symbol of self-discipline. When EFTA01162325 by exposure to heat upon the stove, only the rice which can stay in the cooking pot without jumping out before time will be sweet and tender: ready to eat. In the same way, the one who can stay within the discipline they have set themselves in studying will succeed in their studies. The one who cannot stand the discipline and has to give-up half way can be compared to rice which is charred but not popped EFTA01162326 and ready to eat. These are the three qualities of the effective learner — humility is the first and the two others are covered in Blessings Nine and Twenty-Seven with also Sensitivity to Self-improvement (willingness to hear out criticism of oneself) at Blessing Twenty Eight. D. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES D.1 Metaphor: Deadwood v. Greenwood Deadwood is tough and brittle. It EFTA01162327 will stand unyielding in the wind. If the wind gets stronger, it will remain unmoving. However, if there is a gale, it will break in two. Pushed to its limits, the damage to deadwood is irreparable. No matter how much more water or fertilizer you give it, it will not come back to life. This can be compared to an arrogant person who will never show any deference to anyone else and thereby forgoes the opportunity EFTA01162328 to absorb virtue from others. By contrast, greenwood is soft and flexible. In a breeze it will bend and twist with the wind. If the wind gets strong, then it will bend double — or even parallel with the ground. When the wind has passed, then it will stand up as straight as it was before. If you give it a little water after the dry season, it will soon break into leaf. This can be compared to a humble person who will adapt themselves EFTA01162329 favourably to any situation or person from which they can absorb virtue. D.2 Metaphor: Clay earth v. sandy earth Sandy soil becomes fragmented into individual clods in the drought of the dry season — but even when the rains come, although the ground is wetted, the soil will still remain rigidly cracked into its individual clods. In a similar way when differences arise in a group of arrogant people, even though EFTA01162330 they have the opportunity to reconcile them, vengeful thoughts keep prevent them from coming back together again. Clay earth also becomes cracked in the dry season — however, all it takes is a shower of rain, and it will soon be back to normal with no remaining cracks. In a similar way, when differences arise in a group of humble people, as soon as they have the opportunity to reconcile themselves, they will soon EFTA01162331 be back to harmony again. D.3 Metaphor: the low-lying ocean The ocean is the lowest lying of all the waterways in the world as such all the waters of the all the rivers of the world must flow towards it. In the same way the deference shown by a humble person will lead all the virtues exemplified in other people in the world to flow towards him. D.4 Metaphor: Half-full bottle A bottle that is full of water makes no noise when EFTA01162332 shaken like a person full of virtue who doesn't need Blessing Twenty-Three: Humility 267 to boast about it. But a bottle that is half-full is noisy when shaken like a person lacking in virtue who feels compelled to boast about what little they have. D.S. Ex. Humility of SAriputta (VuIIhi Sutta) A.iv.373, DhA.ii.178 Once in a monastic assembly presided over by the Lord Buddha, a monk accused SAriputta saying EFTA01162333 that in spite of being one of the two chief disciples of the Buddha, he was clumsy enough to have bumped into him. The Buddha thus asked SAriputta whether the accusation was true or not. SAriputta explained to the Buddha, "I am a person who is steadfast in mindfulness - I am careful of everything I do. I am mindful of the body with just the same care that a man would carry a tray filled to the brim with oil if stalked EFTA01162334 by a swordbrandishing guard threatening to cut off his head should he spill a single drop. I am wont to behave with the humility of a wiping rag, a bull with broken horns, like an untouchable child who blunders into the village of another caste all of whom have no opportunity to indulge in their self-importance" Even before renouncing the world, SAriputta was already so gifted that he had attained no less that EFTA01162335 eighteen scholastic degrees before renouncing the world. After ordination he had attained arahantship. He was the right-hand chief disciple of the Buddha —yet look at how humble he could be — comparing himself to a rag, a broken-horned bull or an untouchable child. SAriputta had no trace of self-importance or arrogance. If such gifted monks in such an elevated position can be so humble — then who are we to look down on EFTA01162336 others? D.6 Ex. VidEdabha & MahAnAma, DhA.i.346 Although the SAkya clan were the ancestors of the Lord Buddha, they had one weakness— their arrogance about the long history of their clan led them to look down on everyone else. Normally they would not even deign to marry outside their own dynasty. Thus when King Pasenadi of Kosala, hoping to secure good relations with the SAkyans, EFTA01162337 asked for the hand of a SAkyan maiden in marriage they had a difficult decision to make. In the end they succumbed to their normal arrogant ways and instead of sending a real princess, sent an illegitimate, half-caste daughter born out of a relationship between SAkyan King MahAnArna and a slave-girl. The child was therefore an untouchable. King Pasenadi didn't know, so he had a huge State marriage organized. Later a prince was born EFTA01162338 called Prince VidEdabha. He was very clever (because of hybrid vigour). He wanted to know about his maternal relatives. When he grew up and went to visit hismaternal city of Kapilavastu, he was still looked down upon by all the SAkyans and he was given reluctant hospitality. On the way home after such an inhospitable visit, one of VidEdabha's generals found he had forgotten something important at EFTA01162339 Kapilavastu. He returned and found the SAkyans scouring the palace with milk. When he asked the reason why, they told him that VidEdabha was an untouchable — and they must disinfect every place he had trodden or sat. When Pasenadi heard the news he removed both the queen and the prince from their positions and was going to invade Magadha. The Buddha prohibited him. The Buddha explained that EFTA01162340 whether Pasenadi attacked them or not, the SAkyans would receive the fruits of their own karma. The Buddha also advised Pasenadi to reinstate the queen, saying that the paternal blood was more important than the maternal. Pasenadi followed the Buddha's advice but VidEdabha found it less easy to forgive the SAkyans. He made the vow that whenever he became king, he would seek his revenge and scour the earth of EFTA01162341 Kapilavastu with the blood of the SAkyans. Before long VidEdabha ascended to the throne and marched against the SAkyans. The Buddha knew what would happen and appeared to VidEdabha at a sand heap on the road between SAvatthE and Kapilavastu. The Buddha appealed to VidEdabha to stop and the first time, he turned around and returned to SAvatthE. However, he couldn't forget his anger. He set EFTA01162342 out with his troops a second time. Again, the Buddha appealed to him to be forgiving. A second time he turned his troops homeward. This happened in all three times — but VidEdabha was not cured of his 268 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living anger. The fourth timehe marched on Kapilavastu, the Buddha didn't stand in his way. He saw that it was karma that was unavoidable to the SAkyans EFTA01162343 because of their past arrogance. Even though many of the SAkyans had ordained, many had attained degrees of enlightenment, and all of them kept the Five Precepts, they still maintained their arrogance. The SAkyans all came out in defense of their kingdom, but they were more scared of breaking their Precepts than they were of death. They shot arrows harmlessly into the turbans of the Kosalans, into flags and into the wagon wheels. EFTA01162344 They were too afraid to hit any living target. VidEdabha conquered the SAkyans easily and had the throat of every SAkyan slit washing the floor with their blood. He spared only the life of King MahAnAma. He said that he would have one last meal with his grandfather. MahAnAma was still so arrogant, that he would not even eat at the same table as his untouchable grandson. He threw himself into the EFTA01162345 water and drowned himself. This is an example of the damage done when people are arrogant. D.8 Ex. King Rama V. abolishes slavery In most countries when slavery is going to be abolished, it will present major difficulties for that country. In America it caused a civil war between the North and the South. However, for the abolition of slavery in Thailand in the reign of King Rama V, nota single drop of blood was EFTA01162346 spilled. How did he manage to do it? He went to his advisors in the palace, and they advised him to use the tactic of `getting their foot in the door'. They knew that slaves were the most important convenience to all the most influential people in the country. Ninety-nine percent of them would instantly refuse if the king were to change the Law. He sent his spies out into society and asked them to find out what people's attitude EFTA01162347 was to slaves. The king found out that many of the old slaves had been slaves since they were children. Some were sixty or seventy years old. Even if they were to be released, they wouldn't be able to support themselves any longer. What should they do? The king was very humble. He made a simple law: that any child born since his coronation should be liberated from slavery. Ten years later, all the old slaves had passed EFTA01162348 away. The slave masters looked for new slaves but the young teenagers were protected by the law. As that generation grew up into the next, slaves became extinct and not a single drop of blood was spilled — all because of the humility of the King. Blessing Twenty-Four: Contentment 269 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 Blessing Twenty-Four's place in the order of things EFTA01162349 Before starting to discuss the twenty-fourth step on the stairway of Buddhist practice let us take stock of the place of Blessing Twenty-four in the Seventh Group of Blessings "Cultivating Basic Virtues" — so we can see how they integrate. In our pursuit of basic virtue we started by opening up the channel by which we can transfer the virtues of others into our own heart. The respect of Blessing Twenty-Two helps us overcome the tendency to EFTA01162350 find fault with others — allowing us to target the virtues and strengths to learn from them. The humility of Blessing Twenty-three helps us to avoid overestimating ourselves so that we don't look down on others — so that we can keep the flexibility of mind necessary to avoid becoming complacent about further improving ourselves. However there is one more virtue which we need to acquire for ourselves — EFTA01162351 owing to the elusive nature of the virtues we are trying to cultivate for ourselves. Virtue is strangely unlike worldly phenomena. For worldly phenomena, often we have to rush and struggle to achieve our ambitions — often we have to make sure that our performance doesn't fall short of the target we have set for ourselves — only in such a way can our ambitions be fulfilled. For worldly phenomena, it is always with an eye on EFTA01162352 the outcome that we invest the necessary effort. However, for spiritual phenomena it is very different — sometimes the more we hanker after results, the more elusive they will be. Spiritual phenomena are like trees where you must add the water and fertilizer at the roots, but the blossoms and fruit for which we wish for will appear in another place altogether — high above our head! However if we spend the whole day gazing into EFTA01162353 the branches to the neglect of our watering — we will never get the fruits and blossoms for which we long. For meditation too, we have to do our daily practice without undue interest in what the results will be — although in the long run, we would like to make a breakthrough in our meditation, if we sit for meditation worrying about when the breakthrough will be, such expectations will only impede EFTA01162354 our progress. Not only for personal virtues, but also for social virtues, we have to concentrate on our cultivation and not worry about the results. If you imagine a person who whines incessantly all day long, "How come no-one ever listens to a word I say?"— do you think his complaints ameliorate or worsen his situation? If he were instead to ask himself how he could make himself into the sort of person people EFTA01162355 want to listen to and to get down to cultivate those virtues instead of complaining — his effort would be better spent. In this respect the cultivation of virtue is like a tennis trainee who concentrates their attention on `technique' rather than results. Some tennis players make the mistake of worrying constantly where Blessing Twenty-Four: EFTA01162356 Contentment 270 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living in the opposite side of the court, the ball is going to land. However, instead of projecting one's anxieties over the net, trainers always recommend their students to concentrate instead on how they hit the ball. If they hit the ball correctly, then the ball will go where it is meant to whether the player worries about it or not! EFTA01162357 Thus instead of getting caught up in expectations and comparing ourselves to others, we need to cultivate a virtue which will allow us the acceptance and enthusiasm to work on ourselves as we really are — instead of wasting our time daydreaming as to how we would like to be. That virtue is contentment — a key aspect of our personality, which apart from being important for selfdevelopment also has a social role in allowing EFTA01162358 people to pool their strengths instead of competing with one another. A.2 Why it is necessary to know where you stand A.2.1 Personal Potential When cultivating ourselves we have a certain number of strengths and weaknesses — and through our cultivation, we hope to further the strengths and diminish the weaknesses. Before we can do that, we need to evaluate ourselves honestly and accurately — we need to EFTA01162359 accept ourselves as we are only then will we have the pride in ourselves to have the encouragement to make the necessary improvements. The strengths and influence which people bring to bear on improving themselves is different from person to person — the more strengths and influence one has, the more one will immediately be able to improve about oneself, others and society. If there are limitations to one's EFTA01162360 strengths, however, there will be many things at which one will fail in one's efforts to change — and even to try will cause great discouragement to your one's career of selfdevelopment. To avoid such unnecessary discouragement and to be realistic about yourself as you stand, the Buddha taught a total of six characteristics which are benchmarks forus to `know ourselves', comparable to a mirror which allows us to look deeply at EFTA01162361 the latent potential within ourselves. I. Inspiration [saddha]: the degree to which you believe in what you're doing. Believe that the good deeds you are doing are really having an effect; 2. Self-discipline [sEla]: this is the purity with which you are able to keep your Precepts; 3. Experience [bahEsEta]: this is the extent of the experience you have under your belt and also how many teachings you have EFTA01162362 heard and can remember; 4. Generosity [cAga]: this is the extent of your own generosity and the ability to let go of the things to which you are attached; 5. Wisdom [pafifiA]: this is the extent of the knowledge, common sense and insight you possess; 6. Quick wittedness [patibhAna]: the extent of your ability to answer questions on your toes without having the chance to go away and prepare EFTA01162363 beforehand. One's health can also be a big factor in determining one's personal potential to change things. Try seeing how you measure in relation to the following virtues — note your strengths and your shortfalls — accept them, and then get down to making the necessary improvements. Thus contentment in the context of personal development means both accepting the reality of yourself and putting EFTA01162364 in the necessary effort to make an improvement. A.2.2 Social Potential Besides measuring yourself up personally against these benchmark virtues, when working for progress in a social context it is necessary to know your place in society. Sometimes to a westerner, having a `place in society' might seem to imply encouragement of segregation of society into classes and castes — with all their hereditary rigidity. When we EFTA01162365 talk of a `place in society' we mean something more akin to one's `function' in society — and it should be hastily added that there is nothing per se to hinder mobility from one function in society to another. A realistic appreciation of one's 'place' or `function' in society will prevent one from wasting one's efforts being pretencious or hankering after something that one has not yet attained instead of 'putting one's back' into the work EFTA01162366 needed to imBlessing Twenty-Four: Contentment 271 prove one's lot in society. Even if you don't like your place in society, you need to start by accepting where you stand, and in that way the enthusiasm and willing [chanda] will arise which will allow you to make a success of whatever you doing (it is the first of the "Foundations of Success /iddhipadaJ, already met in Blessing Fourteen, §D.2) and thereby to achieve success. It is by this EFTA01162367 success, not by our hankering that promotion and progress will come.Thus contentment in the context of social progress means both accepting the reality of your place in society and putting in the necessary effort to make an improvement. B. CONTENTMENT B.1 Definitions The Pali word from which the word `contentment' in this blessing is derived, is `santuEEhE'which can be broken down into the syllables EFTA01162368 `san-' which means `oneself and '-tuEEhE' which means `happy'. Thus, in its entirety, the word means `happiness with oneself and one's possessions' — in other words knowing moderation or knowing enough. B.2 What Contentment is not 'Contentment' is a concept widely misunderstood. Some blame the idea of `contentment' for standing in the way of economic progress, or claim it makes people too lazy to change or to EFTA01162369 improve themselves and their situation. They think it means being content to do nothing or being content to remain in isolation from others. In fact these other concepts already have their own words in the Pali language which are different from the `santosa' which we refer to by `contentment' for the purposes of this Blessing: • being contented to do nothing is called lcosajja' in Pali otherwise translated as `laziness'; EFTA01162370 • being contented to be alone is called `pavivitta' in Pali, otherwise translated as `seclusion'; The Buddha never taught his disciples to be lazy, backsliding or to avoid work — or to be inert or unresponsive in a way that impedes progress and prosperity, as is often misunderstood. On the contrary, this Blessing emphasises that when each person understands their own strengths and weaknesses and their place in society that EFTA01162371 contentment will arise of its own accord. Such contentment will ensure that everyone will be content with what they have, what they receive and what is appropriate to them — in such a way that the tendency to fight over luxuries will be reduced — and along with it, the jealousy and mudslinging that is often common between those of influence in society. B.3 Types of contentment Being happy with oneself as one EFTA01162372 stands has three different characteristics: I. contentment with what you already have [sakena santosa]: In the words of the Lord Buddha (Dh.103): SalAbhaO nAtimarineyya "Never look down on your own wealth" this might mean being content with one's parents, one's spouse and children, our work or one's nationality. Even if there are faults with these things, it is necessary to EFTA01162373 cultivate the `pride' for them (note: not arrogant pride which has already been dispensed with since Blessing Twenty-three) that will make it seem worthwhile gradually to make the necessary improvements — rather than to attempt to solve the problem by stealing away someone else's (spouse, work etc.) There are many examples of even the humblest of shoe-menders working in the gutter who have taken pride in their work EFTA01162374 (even though they might not have liked it at first) until eventually managing to build up a prospering shoe business for themselves. If a person is contented with something, they tend to progress in that thing — because contentment, properly understood gives us the encouragement to expend effort on the things we come into contact with. Thus `contentment' in our meaning of the word is something EFTA01162375 which helps to vanquish laziness. You need to accept how you are and use what you have to the very best of your ability. It is not like some people who think to themselves, "My father is only an ignorant fool, what hope have I of doing anything worthwhile? Why couldn't I have the 272 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living president for my father?" Some people blame their parents for being so poor, EFTA01162376 thinking, "What have they wasted their time doing all these years instead of amassing riches? Why couldn't I have been born with a silver spoon in my mouth?" Some people are not content with their nationality. Some people are not content with their own wife, thinking that other people's wives are all so much better. Some people wonder how their own children could ever have grown up with EFTA01162377 such a monstrous personality — without ever thinking to ask themselves where those children got their bad habits from! It's no use wasting your energy being discontent — instead you ought to be rechanneling our energy into improving the situation. 2. contentment with what you get [santena santosa]: in the words of the Lord Buddha (J.i.476): YaO laddhaO tena tuEEhabbaO EFTA01162378 "You should be content with whatever you receive" when we are working on a task, this sort of contentment means contentment with the outcome. Sometimes the results don't reach the targets of beauty, quantity or craftsmanship we had set for ourselves — but if we can be content, instead of losing sleep about it or revelling in the suffering of it we can go on cheerfully to make the necessary EFTA01162379 adjustments. Some who lack this sort of contentment will tend to assume that they are destined to misfortune. One tends to revel in the shortcomings of one's work instead of concentrating on the successful part of what one has achieved. A fisherman lacking such contentment will always think that the fish that escaped his net are larger than the ones he has caught. In the end he spends his whole life eating EFTA01162380 fish he is disappointed with. Thus he never enjoys his food to his dying day. If your parents can only afford to give you 1,000 or 10,000 you should be thankful - it's better than being given a debt to service. By contrast someone who is contented will be happy with whatever they are endowed with instead of always looking to see what their neighbour has that might be better. If you already have EFTA01162381 something and you feel that it is in some way inappropriate, then if you decide to make some adjustments then that is another matter. If someone gives you a small piece of land to build a house, and you can build only a small house — you should be thankful that you don't have to waste money renting for many years — but at the same time, you should work diligently, building up your financial position, so that EFTA01162382 you can expand the house to your full requirements at a later date. Supposing you are in business and you expect to make a profit of a million. You work as hard as you can but can manage a profit of only 500,000. You have to learn to live with that. Don't be like some people who immediately go into chronic depression. Instead of being upset about the small size of your profit, you should EFTA01162383 be thankful that you haven't made a loss. Some people take an entrance exam hoping to be accepted to study medicine — but when they are turned down, they commit suicide. Why can't they look on the bright side and find something else to study instead? Some people fall in love with a girl who shows no interest in them — so they hang themselves with a broken heart. People of such stupidity deserve no EFTA01162384 sympathy. If they didn't have their love returned, why couldn't they learn to be content with living alone? You can be content with what you have or what you are given. If you are content with what you are given, supposing when it comes to time for promotion, the boss gives it to someone else who is lazy, even though you have been working hard all year, maybe you can be content EFTA01162385 with that. However if it happens every year, maybe you need to do something about it. 3. contentment with what is appropriate for you [samena santosa]: In practice this means that we don't keep in our possession things that are surplus to what is appropriate for us. Supposing someone comes along and offers you something that is unbefitting of your ability or social status it is better to be content with what EFTA01162386 you already have. If someone comes along one day and ofBlessing Twenty-Four: Contentment 273 fers to make you president, if you were to accept, it might just be the death of you. If you were just a newly ordained monk and someone came along and offered to make you the abbot of a temple, again it might not be fitting because you are not yet well trained enough. Monks have to think carefully before they accept EFTA01162387 certain offerings. Supposing someone were to come along and offer a monk a jade Buddha or a huge Buddha image made of gold it might be better to refuse it otherwise you might have to be a security guard for the rest of his life. There was once a tramp who bought a lottery ticket and miraculously got the first prize. When the tramp heard the news of how much he had won, he had a EFTA01162388 heart attack and died. A second person went to collect the money, but as they had never had any experience of looking after the money before, they died in the ensuing quarrels between various friends and relatives who thought they were entitled to a share of the money. You have to know what is appropriate or inappropriate for yourself. When considering what is appropriate for one, there are three deciding EFTA01162389 factors: 1. whether it is appropriate to our status [yathA lAbha]: we should consider what our socio-economic status is — are we a monastic, a householder, a senior, a subordinate, a teacher, a student, a military general, an infantryman, a faculty head, an odd-job man — and the things which we use and consume ought to be appropriate to the socio-economic status we occupy EFTA01162390 instead of being pretencious things inappropriate to our status. If you are a manual worker maybe you should be contented to furnish your house with plain furniture rather than the upholstered `reception furniture' more fitting to the office of the primeminister! If you are a monk and someone offers a female maidservant to attend to all your domestic needs — then in spite of their good intentions, you would EFTA01162391 be better to turn them down, because that would not be fitting a monk — or perhaps not building a huge air-conditioned house you cannot afford, having to take out loans to do it; 2. whether it is appropriate to our potency [yathA bala]: If one knows and accepts the level of one's own potential, one will be better able to know what is appropriate for one. You should not over- or under-estimate EFTA01162392 oneself. You should look at oneself deeper than surface features such as gender, size or beauty. Don't go comparing yourself to others out of your league — thinking that just because you know them or can speak to them, that you you deserve the same treatment as them. If you know your capabilities are only enough to take the responsibilities of a minister in parliament, EFTA01162393 don't go coveting the title of primeminister. If your capabilities are only enough to be a handservant, don't go dreaming of being an employer — e.g. not choosing status-symbols inappropriate to our actual status — like a highbacked director's chair if one is not capable of being a director; 3. whether it is appropriate to our level of morality [yathA sarupa]: Even if something is appropriate EFTA01162394 to our status and potential, if it is something inappropriate to the level of Precepts we have set for ourselves — or if it will discredit us or compromise our dignity to receive it — then we should not be contented to receive that kind of thing. For example, we should not accept goods we know to be stolen or salary earned by illegal employment — in order that possessions don't become EFTA01162395 more important to us than our virtues and so that we don't become a puppet to the accumulation of more and more possessions without end — if something is over or beneath one's social status, it is inappropriate to accept it or own it. C. HAPPINESS & POVERTY C.1 The Two sorts of happiness The key issue which will become obvious to us if we are endowed with contentment EFTA01162396 is that happiness exists in (at least) two different forms (A.i.80): I. Happiness dependent on external stimuli [sAmisa sukha]: Such happiness is dependent on sense-pleasure coming to us via our eyes, ears, 274 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living nose, mouth or by our sense of touch. It also includes thoughts of desire from which superficial pleasure can also be derived. This sort of EFTA01162397 happiness tends to be gross because it is mixed up with suffering and has the following characteristics: 1. the objects of happiness can be obtained only as the result of considerable effort and difficulty because they are rare and limited in quantity; 2. the objects of happiness, once obtained have to be closely guarded for fear of being parted from them; 3. being hindered in one's access EFTA01162398 to such objects of happiness, can cause aggression and acts of vengeance; 2. Inner happiness [nirAmisa sukha]: Such happiness is independent of external stimuli and arises directly from inside whenever the mind has the characteristics of being: • pure: occurs when the mind is free of defilements; • peaceful: occurs when the mind is free from movement and grasping; • free: occurs when the mind EFTA01162399 breaks free of various encroachments, becoming light and limitless; • radiant: occurs when the mind is suffused by wisdom [pafifiA] — seeing things according to reality; • fulfilled: occurs when the mind has no further feeling of lacking or missing anything, and with no residual feeling of even the slightest loneliness — because the happiness of the mind is self-sufficient in itself EFTA01162400 Inner happiness is true happiness — it is happiness that creates no conflicts of interest. It is a happiness that helps to diminish other problems. However, those who are to find inner happiness must first cultivate a state of mind that is peaceful and free from discontent. The more one can cultivate contentment with relation to the happiness dependent on external stimuli, the easier it will become to touch instead upon inner happiness — as EFTA01162401 with the Buddhist proverb (Dh.93): TuEEhE sukhA yA itarEtarena "contentment with the requisites you have and those you receive will bring you happiness" C.2 Two sorts ofpoverty Those who lack happiness succumb to poverty — and just as there are two sorts of happiness, there are two corresponding sorts of pauper: I. Material paupers: Such people suffer from lack of resources because they really EFTA01162402 lack the wherewithall to earn enough to keep themselves from the poverty line. Such people are temporarily poor because if they find an appropriate way to earn their living, before long they will be able to help themselves out of poverty. 2. Spiritual paupers: Such people suffer from lack of resources because they spend more than they earn. Their problem is not one of resources but EFTA01162403 one of attitude because they know no moderation in their spending. Such people can be counted amongst the `permanent poor' because even if they inherit a fortune, they will not be able to stay out of debt until the day they die (unless they learn contentment in the meantime). Thus `contentment' means `knowing moderation' —it is a miraculous virtue which can stop people from competing mercilessly with EFTA01162404 one another, stop extravagence, stop pretenciousness, stop wars, making people self-sufficient in happiness irrespective of their position in society and it can allow the rich to be real millionnaires, because in the words of the Buddha (Dh.57): SantuEEhE paramaO dhanaO "Contentment is the ultimate wealth" D.SOCIAL CONSEQUENCES OF CONTENTMENT When contentment is lacking: • competition tends to grow up EFTA01162405 between those who are influential in society to the degree that one tries to discredit another or cut corners in amassing wealth instead of applying their skills and influence for the public benefit. Unfortunately such behaviour is becoming more and more prevalent in our society. • there is no respectfor ethics in the business world — nothing is left but flagrant profiteering withBlessing Twenty-Four: Contentment 275 EFTA01162406 out any thought of the negative repurcussions for others in society or the harm brought by fanning the flames of greed. No matter how much is earned, even in unscrupulous ways, it is never enough to satisfy the appetites of those addicted to materialism. Expenditures exceed spending power and when the businessmen concerned cannot earn money fast enough by scrupulous methods then they will soon resort to EFTA01162407 dishonest ones — like puppets dancing on the strings of the defilements of greed in the mind. As such one goes through life distancing oneself further and further from all reasonableness and moderation — for one key reason — the lack of contentment. Social progress requires both contentment and the investment of effort. Effort needs to be regulated by contentment just as a powerful car needs to have a EFTA01162408 good set of brakes. Without contentment, efforts made will tend to be excessive, misplaced and vulnerable to risk-taking. Thus contentment is one of the most vital virtues contained in the Blessings. It is for progress at individual, family and even national levels. The mind of someone versed in contentment will always be ripe for the fruition of other higher virtues instilled there. Those who know contentment will be able to cultivate all manner EFTA01162409 of virtues without risking `burnout'. Virtue will always be cultivated with the most honest of intentions. When society fails to make progress or progresses slowly, it is not because people are content, but on the contrary because of those lacking in contentment who constantly undermine the fair economic system. D.1 Danger of discontentment The trouble with discontent is that it develops from an insignificant emotions in the EFTA01162410 mind into more and more serious attachments — until it becomes wanting without end. The point of studying about the symptomology of greed is that you can more easily learn to catch yourself before the symptoms become too serious. You can observe your own tendencies by examining the symptoms of greed as they develop in your own mind. This is the nature of the escalation of greed in the mind. In what follows we EFTA01162411 will examine the way in which greed progresses from subtle emotions to powerful and damaging temptation. In essence greed has many components and as it gets worse, more and more components become involved: • attraction (or preference) [rati]; • attachment (wanting it for ourselves) [icchA]; • losing our consideration for others [mahicchA]; • losing our scruples about how to earn the money to pay for what we want EFTA01162412 [pApicchA]; • losing our scruples about exploiting others [lobha]; • getting down to out and out stealing [adinnadAna]. The last involves a total loss of conscience in this matters again undermining our discretion in the manner of the recklessness we studied in the most recent lecture. In conclusion, from someone who likes something, we become someone who is attracted to it — from EFTA01162413 being attracted to it, we want to own it — from wanting to own it, we want own it so strongly that we are not interested in anyone else's feelings concerning it — from being interested in nothing else but owning it, we would even do evil to own it — making people suffer throughoutthe neighbourhood. This is how something seemingly benign like discontent deteriorates into a serious social evil. D.2 Objects of Discontent In general there are four types of EFTA01162414 things that are the objects of peoples discontent: I. greedfor power: those who get elected as a member of parliament and they are not content, wanting to be prime minister. 2. greedfor possessions: those who have pearls and want diamonds, they get diamonds and want rubies etc. etc.. Someone who used to live in a hovel and wants to get a house. When they get a house they want to get a mansion. When they get EFTA01162415 a mansion they want a palace. When they get a palace, they still want to be king of the world. 3. greedfor food (overeating): some people are not interested in power or possessions as long as they can get their hands on delicacies to eat. 4. promiscuity: they have a family in every new town they visit. All of these things can be the source of discontent. 276 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living EFTA01162416 D.3 Acquisition with and without discontent If we want to have something that belongs to someone else, but by honest means, for example if you want a new Mercedes and it costs a million so you save up to buy it (such a feeling is not succumbing to discontent) — however, if you have a salary of a million per month, but you think to cheat someone else in order to get the Mercedes you want, instead of paying for it (discontent is at EFTA01162417 work in the mind for sure). Wanting to obtain things is not wrong in itself, if it doesn't lead us to lose our scruples about exploiting others. If you really want to buy a Mercedes and you save up your salary to buy it, that is not discontent. However, if you can't wait and get involved in corruption to boost your earnings, then that is submission to the discontent. And eventually it will lead to greed for things without end. EFTA01162418 E. CULTIVATING CONTENTMENT IN EVERYDAY LIFE E.1 Earning one's living contentedly In Buddhism, the purpose of earning one's living is nothing more than to procure sufficient of the basic requisites of life to support one's physical needs, so that one can use one's time, strength and ability to do what is really important in life — namely to cultivate the maximum possible virtues in the space of EFTA01162419 one's life. Buddhism has never seen the working life or the accrual of material assets as an end in itself. Thus Buddhists define the economic and social prosperity of a country as being in inverse proportion to the number of people on the poverty line rather than in proportion to the amount of money in the national treasury, in keeping with the saying: "the absence of poverty is a better measure of a nation's success than the number EFTA01162420 of wealthy people" To cultivate happiness and progress one should start by contentment for what one already has — doing one's duties to the best of one's abilities without hankering unduly after other things. For example, if one has the position of `head of department' at work, and would like to experience both job satisfaction and progress in one's career, one should start with contentment for one's EFTA01162421 own position and doing one's duty to the best of one's ability. Apart from being happy at work, promotion and other aspects of career progress will come to us automatically by the fact one is devoted and enthusiastic about our present position. Similarly, if one feels as if one's married relationship is going badly, before harbouring discontentand thinking that a new spouse would fix the problem, one should try cultivating EFTA01162422 contentment with one's present spouse by practising one's duties (see Blessing 13) towards them to the best of one's ability. E.2 Principlesfor administering one's possessions Principles concerning assets I. Acquisition: When acquiring assets, you should earn them in a scrupulous way without having to take advantage of other people to do so — not breaking the law, breaking with custom, breaking one's Precepts or breaking with EFTA01162423 virtue. 2. Expenditure: When using your wealth, you should not be stingy — but you should also not be extravagent. You should not be reluctant to use what you have earned for your own welfare and the welfare of those closest to you — while at the same time practising generosity, sharing with others and for good works. 3. Attitude: One should not worship money but should see it as a means or a tool EFTA01162424 by which one can live one's life. E.3 Cultivating Contentment I. Daily Reflections: There is a habitual reflection contained in the Evening Chanting: We are of a nature to age, we have not yet gone beyond aging — we are of a nature to sicken, we have not yet gone beyond sickening — we are of a nature to die, we have not yet gone beyond dying." If we think habitually of the EFTA01162425 limited nature of our life it will help to reduce the time we waste greedily chasing after desires for things that are ultimately unimportant to our real well-being 2. Moderation in eating: Train yourself to know moderation in eating. Eat to live rather than living to eat! If you can appreciate moderation in simple things, it will be easier to know contentment in more complex ones. 3. Generosity: If we often give EFTA01162426 things to others it will help us to overcome greed. Blessing Twenty-Four: Contentment 277 4. Keeping Eight Precepts: Keeping the Eight Precepts, especially the Third Precept of abstaining from sexual relations, will directly train us to overcome greed concerning the opposite sex. The Sixth Precept of not taking food in the evening will help us to overcome our interest in food. The Seventh Precept of EFTA01162427 not wearing jewelry or make-up will train us to be content with ourselves as we are. The Eighth Precept of not sleeping on a luxurious bed will train us not to be overcome with desire for comfort. 5. Meditate every day: When the mind becomes more refined, our temptation to hunger for power and fame will be reduced. If you have a good friend, never ask them for the thing they love the most, it may EFTA01162428 cost you your friendship unless they give it to you without your asking. E.4 Monastic Life as training in contentment Since ancient times, Thai society has had a way of training in contentment which has always been very efficient in instilling contentment in its people — this ancient training is the tradition of temporary ordination. There is a tradition in Thailand for young men to take temporary ordination as a EFTA01162429 monk at the age of around twenty-years old. Usually the ordination is no longer than three months, however it gives the ordinands the chance to experience inner happiness first hand, and especially the happiness that comes from knowing contentment. Those who ordain as monks are allowed to use only the bare minimum of material requisites, namely three robes and a bowl — one's living is earned by almsround such a simple EFTA01162430 life without worries about material wealth easily facilitates the freedom of mind which gives rise to the subtle states of inner happiness — allowing those with the chance to ordain to understand the importance to their happiness of attaining contentment in life. F. ILLUSTATIVE EXAMPLES F.1 Metaphor: A drop can fill a glass but a river cannotfill the sea ... Even the smallest drop of water can make the difference between whether a bottle is full is EFTA01162431 not. On the other hand no much water you may have you cannot cause the ocean to overflow. In the same way, even a small amount of money can make a difference to a person who knows contentment. On the other hand, no matter how much wealth you may have, for those who don't know contentment, it will only add to that person's discontent. F.2 Ex. Happy beggar, discontent businessman EFTA01162432 There was a minister of commerce who told the story of two events he came across in the same day which had impressed him from that day to this. He left his home one day and passed a beggar in the street. In his family there was a tradition that they would never pass a request for help unanswered — how much they helped someone in need depended — but they would never refuse someone help. To give a beggar a cent EFTA01162433 would normally be a lot, but that day in his pocket there was no loose change. He had to open up his wallet where the smallest note was a five-dollar bill. He gave the five dollar bill to the beggar. The beggar was so happy that he bowed down on the pavement at the feet of the minister. The beggar said that he had been a beggar since he was a child and today was the first time in his life he had met someone so generous as EFTA01162434 to give him five dollars. The beggar's eyes shone with appreciation.The beggar's delight gave the minister a certain cheerfulness to start his day. When the minister reached the ministry, he met a bank manager with a pained expression of woe on his face. The minister asked whether the banker was ill. The banker said,"I am so upset I haven't slept for a week. I told my son to order a certain product that was bound to be missing from EFTA01162435 the market, right from early in the year. The son didn't believe me at first so he made his order a little late. Only the first order had been ahead of the competitor. For the second and third lots, there had been sales competition from other companies. The son should have had a profit of 100 million this year, but because he didn't believe me, he could only manage a profit of 60 million. We have lost 40 million we could have EFTA01162436 had." The minister expressed his condolences and entered his office and that day, could hardly get any work done, because of his musing about the ways 278 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living of the world — a beggar who is happy all day with a five dollar bill and a banker who cannot sleep because he only got a profit of sixty million. He sat and wondered whether even if he managed to EFTA01162437 achieve miracles as the minister of commerce whether anyone would be happier as the result. F.3 Ex. AsitAbhu JAtaka (J.234) There was a prince in the time of the Buddha who already had a wife, but he wasn't content with her. If his father wasn't vigilant he would mess around with the maids in the royal court. One day the king discovered his son's evil ways so he banished him into the forest. If it had been anyone else he would EFTA01162438 have had them executed. The prince escaped into the forest with his wife and the two of them lived in a hovel. Instead of realizing the peril of non-contentment with one's own spouse, one day the prince saw some female kinnarees in the forest so he left his wife in the hovel and ran after the kinnarees trying to catch one as a wife. The wife despaired and went to a hermit in the forest, asking him to teach her how to meditate. EFTA01162439 With the determination and lack of attachments in the world, before long the wife was able to meditate so well she was able to float in the air and flew away from the forest leaving the prince to his ignorance. The prince couldn't catch any kinnarees When he returned to the hovel, even his old wife hadn't waited for him. So he sat in his hovel and cried like a drowned and helpless rat. Even today, there are people with EFTA01162440 the same tendency. You ask them if they would like a wife. They think having a wife would satisfy them. But when married if they could have another mistress or two, they would certainly feel that it would add a little more spice to life — and if they had four or five mistresses — the more the merrier. They are not content with what they receive. Even if you were to give them a mountain of gold they would not be EFTA01162441 content. F.4 Ex. Kumbhaghosaka DhA.i.321ff. In the time of the Lord Buddha, there was an outbreak of an infectious disease. In the home of a millionaire, the two parents decided they were too old to escape the infection, but they told their son to run away as far as he could to save his own life. Before the son went, the father pointed out where all the family treasure EFTA01162442 was buried. The son cried to think that he had to leave his parents to die, but all the same he fled despite being only 12-13 years of age at that time. In ten years time he returned to his hometown. The disease had long subsided. He thought of digging up the treasure, but he decided that it was not yet appropriate for him to obtain a fortune. He thought that if anyone saw him with a fortune, they would think that he EFTA01162443 had stolen it, so he might be caught by the police. He also reflected that he had nowhere to store the fortune even if he did get it — because he still had no house of his own so to have the fortune would put his own life at risk. Therefore he waited and took a job working as a guard in the house of a wealthy family, ringing the bell to tell the family the time of day. One day King BimbasAra EFTA01162444 heard the sound of the man ringing the bell in the morning and could tell at once that the person ringing the bell was no ordinary person but a rich man. The king sent a courtier to see the man and she came back to the king to report that the guard ringing the bell was no rich man, but just a guard employed in a rich household. The king would not believe her therefore the courtier found EFTA01162445 ways of finding out the background of the man until she found out that he was the owner of a fortune. King BimbasAra thus summoned the man curious to find out why he lived like a poor man even though he was heir to a treasure. The man told the king the reason why he was waiting for the appropriate time to take advantage of his fortune. The king told him that the time had EFTA01162446 now come to dig up the treasure. The young man dug up his fortune and the king made him the treasurer of the kingdom as the result of his wisdom and patience in the use of his savings. The wisdom of this man has a useful message especially for ladies who are tempted to wear expensive jewelry beyond their means and even for ladies who dress provocatively. Blessing Twenty-Four: Contentment 279 EFTA01162447 F.5 Ex. Palicuposatha JAtaka (J.490) There was once a hermit that had a pet bear. One day the bear was bored of the food it was given so it decided to go into the town to look for delicacies to eat. The bear disappeared into town, but before it could get its paws on anything to eat, the town dwellers chased the bear away with arrows and spears. The bear returned covered in blood to the dwelling of the hermit and had no EFTA01162448 more discontent. The bear learned from its hard lesson, and decided to take the Eight Precepts and would no longer take an evening meal even if the hermit offered it food at that time. When the hermit asked why the bear didn't accept food, the bear said it had decided to keep Eight Precepts to learn to be content with the food it was given. The same JAtaka told the story of a past life of Devadatta when he was born as a EFTA01162449 greedy fox. The fox found the carcass of an elephant recently died and licked its lips. It made its way inside the body of the elephant through one of the openings and started to eat the soft inner organs of the elephant. When the fox was full it fell asleep where it lay, inside the elephant, for a day or two. In the sun, the carcass of the elephant started to dry out and the bodily openings all closed trapping the fox inside. EFTA01162450 The fox was trapped there for seven days until the fox was thin. Only then did it rain and when the bodily openings loosened, the fox was able to escape with its life, but it was so shocked by the whole experience that it wanted to overcome its attachment to food and so kept the Eight Precepts from that day forth., , F.6 Ex. SuvaAAahaOsa JAtaka(J.136) There was a greedy bhikkhuAi who was the origin EFTA01162451 for the Vinaya rule for bhikkhuAis not being allowed to eat garlic. The bhikkhuAi called TulAnandA loved to eat garlic and one day she became acquainted with a garlic farmer. The farmer thought that a bhikkhuAi should know moderation in eating so he pointed to the garlic field saying, whenever you want any garlic, just go to the field caretaker and tell him I gave you permission to help yourself. The bhikkhuAi picked EFTA01162452 cartloads of garlic and the neighbours gossipped and spread it about that the bhikkhuAi was shameless. The farmer himself didn't know what to say. The news reached the Buddha so the Buddha made the simple rule that bhikkhuAis may no longer eat garlic. The Buddha looked at the past lives of the bhikkhuAi and caused pictures of those previous lives to manifest themselves for the bhikkhuAi and others to see. EFTA01162453 TulAnandA had been a female Brahmin with a husband and a daughter. The Brahmin died but because of not understanding the working of merit had done both good and bad deeds. The Brahmin was born as a golden goose. The goose was able to recognize his former wife and daughter in their poverty and shed its golden feathers for them to ameliorate their poverty, feather by feather. In that lifetime, TulAnandA had also been EFTA01162454 greedy. She wanted more than just a few feathers and a few days later plucked the goose bare and shut the goose away in a coop. From that day forth, the goose could no longer produce golden feathers. With its new conventional plumage the goose flew away and did not return. The mother and daughter thus returned to poverty and starvation. A clear message from such stories is that if you are going to help someone, you EFTA01162455 have to observe first whether they know moderation first or not. F. 7 Ex. A stray dog grown fat If you notice the habits of a mangy, starved dog — if you give it a bowlful of offal it will be glad of even this and will finish the whole plate. However, if you feed it offal for seven days, if after a week there is no meat in its bowl it will start to refuse food. If you continue to give it better food, in no time it will be climbing on the EFTA01162456 table competing with the master for the food on his plate. If you meet this sort of stray dog, you have no alternative but to chase it away, because it is a dog of the sort that never knows enough. Not only animals are like this — even some people, although they may not be at all poor, never know enough of a good thing. The richer they get, the richer they want to be. Even when they are quite comfortable in their own lifestyle, EFTA01162457 they will still go out of their way to take advantage of others to 280 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living widen their own profit margin. There have been such people in every period of history and they have brought only suffering and degradation to society in all cases. The illness such people suffer from is that they `never know enough' of something or to be more specific, they lack contentment. EFTA01162458 Blessing Twenty-Five: Gratitude 281 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 Blessing Twenty-five in the order of things This blessing is the twenty fifth step on the stairway of Buddhist practice. In fact we have already come across much of the material in this unit already in the preceding units such as Blessing Three `Paying Respect to those worthy of respect', Blessing Twelve `Cherishing One's Parents, Blessing EFTA01162459 Thirteen `Cherishing One's children and Blessing Seventeen `Cherishing One's extended family.' Sometimes it looks as if much of the material is repeated but in fact there are new things to study which go beyond the mundane household situations already discussed — because in this Blessing, gratitude is considered particularly in the context of the learning of virtue. This is why the Lord Buddha chose to give special consideration EFTA01162460 to this virtue for the purposes of Group VII of the Blessings. A.2 The Rarity of Altruism In the words of the Lord Buddha, there are two very rare sorts of people [dullabha-puggala] in the world (A.i.87): I. those who initiate favours to others [pubbakArE] — whether they be our parents, relatives, elders, monks, the Lord Buddha or the King — it is no accident for someone to mature into a person EFTA01162461 who values virtue and who is dedicated to the cultivation of virtue; 2. those who are grateful and repay the benefits they receive from others [katafniE-katavedE]. Such altruism is hard to find amongst people in general because it requires a high degree of spiritual maturity. According to the research of psychologist Lawrence Kohlberg (late 1950's), our wish to help others around us is a form of maturity that EFTA01162462 we acquire with age, we tend to start out in life selfish, but become less self-centred as we mature. From birth to age eleven children tend to be motivated mainly by self-interest — being mainly interested in avoiding punishment and maximising rewards from their parents and teachers. During the teenage years, motivation shifts to give more credance to social approval — they need to be liked by their peers or else to conform to social EFTA01162463 order such as staying on the right side of the Law. Only those who manage to extricate themselves from the mind frame of a teenager does a person's ethical motivation move onto considerations of social contract such as not doing something because of being obliged not to or Universal Rights such as those characterized by the spiritual traditions. Altruism belongs to this final category of abstract ideals. From EFTA01162464 such research we learn two things: • that an altruist is rare and that without an attitude of gratitude from those on the receiving end of such altruism it will surely become still harder to find; • that we cannot underestimate the role of social contract in bolstering our efforts to do good deeds; Blessing Twenty-Five: Gratitude 282 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps EFTA01162465 EFTA01162466 9MO a M LUOLIM O1 °SOLT JO p AOida 31.11 Xill I39dso) p mmdde p MOS asn ）9ABq HITS aM a.1Oj9J0U .Sum)O1.119 Act pa13ljjeun sp 9pi PI .11sqe Jo Ian91 9lp le si a0U9ed ino 9laLIM 1aAa1 e :p1a 1O11 a ll a A羔 `,1u9tugstund, pue , pit Ak9, JO 1SaI。1UT JI0S 9lp puo/Coq a ct O1 1.q8n° 9 sauss。1q 唧9 2e j.s sup. Aq q8toquy .a 3119LI9dx9 人q 1 9wog si UOTICA.19SqO puooos salⅠ aniqA uo軍mtmn3 atp apnimm9 s .v 2u？几？7 patta / . 'lug sp.mmai a debt of gratitude) to give ourselves extra moral leverage. Somehow if left to our own devices we can succumb all too easily to temptation. Harder than simply doing good deeds, is to keep one's encouragement for the cultivation of good deeds going indefinately — rather than giving up at the first obstacle to come along. It is the nature of cultivating virtue that one must always come up against obstacles and hindrances — EFTA01162467 sometimes problems from our associates or our immediate surroundings, sometimes inner problems from the working of our defilements. Not to succumb to discouragement in the face of such hardships needs special strategies which we can use to help us overcome our tendencies to backslide in the cultivation of goodness: I. patience [khanti]: Such patience particularly needs development of `shame of evil' [hiri] and EFTA01162468 `fear of the consequences of evil' [ottappa] — and can eventually allow us to be a good teacher to ourselves [yonisomanasikAra]. When we are not sufficiently definitive in our own mind to keep to our own principles, sometimes we need to give ourselves some extra moral leverage by thinking of the other people who our behaviour affects. Patience will be developed to the full in Blessing Twenty-Seven. EFTA01162469 2. respect [gArava]: Sometimes, even though we know full well that something is wrong, we still do it, because we lack the patience. Because our patience is not yet fully developed (we didn't complete Blessing Twenty-seven yet), it will reach a dead-end or a ceiling if we don't develop the virtues of respect and gratitude (together with the wish to repay the debt of gratitude) in relation to our spiritual teachers too. EFTA01162470 Respect doesn't just mean bowing or expressing reverence towards one's teacher, it means using our sincerest effort and ability to ensure the transfer of the virtues of the teacher towards ourselves — and to rid ourselves of our remaining bad habits — to the point that all their goodness becomes ours and they become a part of us while avoiding the temptation to dwell on any faults the teacher EFTA01162471 may still have — and avoiding the temptation to answer back whenever the spiritual teacher delegates work or gives advice.If we recall our debt of gratitude to them, sometimes, even if we couldn't be bothered to make the effort for ourselves, we would still do it "just for them". 3. gratitude [katalnit]: Sometimes what our teacher asks of us exceeds the threshold of our patience, and even our respect EFTA01162472 cannot bolster our morale enough to keep us going. Sometimes it is because of our limited understanding, that we cannot understand by reasoning why a teacher has asked us to do one thing or another. Such limited understanding is often exactly the same reason why we are unable to make any progress in our spiritual practice. However if we think to ourselves that: "before I got to where I am today I EFTA01162473 was like the majority of other people in the world, up to my neck in water, drowning a slow death in the shark-infested sea of sense-pleasures [saOsAra]. However my teacher came along in his boat, and hoisted me to safety. After coming aboard and helping to row the boat so that it can go around helping to rescue others like my former self who are still adrift in EFTA01162474 the ocean. Although such rowing is undisputably hard work, it is a thousand times better than being eaten up by sharks. No-one has forced my teacher to work his fingers to the bone, day-in-day-out to perform this great act of altruism in helping other people — my teacher could just as easily opt for the quiet life of meditation — without having to bother about anyone else — thus I owe EFTA01162475 my life to the pure compassion of my teacher. Therefore even if I feel tired now and then and would prefer to take a rest, out of gratitude I realize that for as long as my teacher Blessing Twenty-Five: Gratitude 283 doesn't rest from our mission, it is not my place to protest "How much longer do we have to wait before we can take a rest," or worse than that to go about EFTA01162476 persuading other oarsmen to take a rest too." We will begin to realize that the difficulties we are facing in our personal cultivation are very minor when compared to the huge debt of gratitude we have to our teacher for ameliorating the course of our destiny! Thus gratitude is a form of social approval which can be used to give leverage in elevating the usual threshold of our patience in cultivating virtue to EFTA01162477 the level of the ideal — even beyond the bolstering effect of respect. But something which remains of the utmost importance in the cultivation of virtue is that we must train ourselves a great deal in the regular practice of meditation — especially at times when we must `weather out' conflicts or when we are feeling demoralized — we must be quick to sit for meditation, because otherwise hesitation can cost us our career of virtue EFTA01162478 cultivation. Schoolchildren persevere in their studies, often not because of their own intent, but out of gratitude to their parents and teachers. Similarly spiritual practitioners,who in spite of their good intentions often succumb to petty quibbling with their fellow practitioners, can keep themselves on track to self-betterment by reminding themselves of their gratitude to the Lord Buddha and their spiritual EFTA01162479 teachers, even when their own vocation might be weak. Thus gratitude is one of the most important virtues which will act as a catalyst to allow even higher virtues to be developed in the future. B. GRATITUDE AND INGRATITUDE B.1 Definitions The Pali word for `gratitude', katanilE, used in this Blessing means recognizing benefit or virtue (in Pali the same word `guAa' is used for both commodities). EFTA01162480 It is similar to the western notion of `loyalty' — but loyalty to those people or things that have done favours for us or brought us benefit in the past. For our purposes in this blessing, `katafifiE' means: I. Recognizing benefit brought to us by others: Such benefit usually comes to us as the result of an intentional effort on behalf of benefactor. In this context, the word `gratitude' is a reasonable EFTA01162481 translation. 2. Recognizing the latent benefit: sometimes benefit comes to us not by any intentional action, but simply by the presence of a personage or a thing with latent virtue. An example of this is a paccekabuddha who is enlightened and has rid himself of all defilements — but because he lacks teaching skills is unable to transform his latent virtue into benefit for others who want to learn EFTA01162482 from him. It also applies to the benefit of things like merit in our mind accumulated by our past actions. This second meaning is something we have not yet met in the preceding Blessings — and it is not quite the same as respect either. B.2 Degrees of Gratitude When we categorize any sort of thing in the world, we have to choose the standards by which we judge them. Some people divide up people according to EFTA01162483 the colour of their skin, or their nationality or the level of their knowledge, or maybe you can divide them into fools and wise men as we have done since the earliest Blessings. However, using gratitude as your standard, you can divide people into three different types: I. Able to appreciate favours receivedfrom others [katafitiu]: This might be compared to virtue at the primary school level. Even some animals have EFTA01162484 virtue at this level of development so any person who still lacks this virtue should seriously question their own level of maturity. If you can already practice virtue at this level you can congratulate yourself that you are already more advanced than some dogs! 2. Able to appreciate the favours receivedfrom others and repays his debt of gratitude to others too [kataririE-kataveda This might be compared to virtue at the secondary school EFTA01162485 EFTA01162486 aUO 9IUOS ji .9 1e8 a0UO3 9TLIJIA p doionap XI-OIq )SOM 9tp. SI IT 9sni 3 9q Ia AaI kvisi9mun . 'titA17 patiolq ' cpJv4to sda1Sgs :?3U3cI扣ivnuvpv- 177 pgz alp 0twIn 1 poJi chuoo oq 1q8nu sall ．[IgriHd] Jno(inf imp auop silt/ mi＜tt uos ad a ／Jo ssoupoo2 oq1 &mourn' OSI1 uovad n 'pus s a 褲o apnilmd Jo map spi sindawr pun s.m tpo z瘟o∥ pa Waal sdno(inf aw 唧aaidd? qn 3up g .s .1anal just thinks, "my parents have done me a favour by bringing me up so I will return the favour by looking after them in their old age" then it is only goodness at the secondary school level. If the person is truly virtuous he will not only repay his debt of gratitude to his parents — he will also honour them in some of the ways already discussed in Blessing Eleven (§D. & E.). If you remember, you can honour people in two EFTA01162487 ways — with gifts [amisapEjA] and also by putting into practice what they have taught and exemplified for your benefit [patipatipEjA]. You can see the distinction clearly in the case of a person who looks after their parents in their old age, but they never listen to any advice their parents give — they do whatever they feel like doing — they never think what they might do to keep up the EFTA01162488 parent's inspiration to take concern for their child's well-being. B.3 Degrees of Ingratitude Similarly using ingratitude as your standard, you can divide people into three different types: I. Low-down people: Even though you know that a person has done you favours in the past, you don't even attempt to repay your debt of gratitude. The Buddha didn't go as far as to cause such people wicked but he called EFTA01162489 them `lowdown' people. Such people often try to forget the good things that people have done for them in the past. Even a pet dog will help the owner guard the house, but if human being doesn't even recognize the debt of gratitude they have to another, there is something seriously wrong. 2. Wicked people: Such people are unable even to recognize the benefits or favours brought to them EFTA01162490 by others. In the olden days, even a robber wouldn't touch the possessions in a house where he had been given a free meal. However, the robbers of today are different. When they have finished the food they have been given, they will steal everything in the house and even hurt the householders too. Doing a favour for such a person is lost on them. 3. Treacherer: Such a person goes further than the EFTA01162491 forgoing — they will not only fail to recognize the benefits they have received from others — they bite the hand that feeds. They will not stop short of killing those to whom they have a debt of gratitude. Such a person might grow up as adopted child in someone's house, and as soon as they are old enough, run off with the householder's daughter. Ungrateful people find it very difficult to integrate EFTA01162492 in society because they cannot accept the thinking of anyone else. If you are ever on the receiving end of a new acquaintance, employee, spouse etc. then always examine the degree to which they have or lack gratitude. If they have no gratitude and are unable to develop it, especially for their own parents, never shelter them in your house — no matter how tempting it may be to have someone who is very skilled or talented close at EFTA01162493 hand. You may find otherwise, it is like letting a cobra into your house. If you find your own children have such a tendency, quickly reeducate them from an early age, otherwise when they grow up there will be no limit to the evil they will be capable of. Don't go thinking that they will understand for themselves when they get older. You have to take responsibility for guiding them from the earliest possible age. EFTA01162494 C. OBJECTS OF GRATITUDE C.1 Comparison between Respect and Gratitude There are many parallels between the list of people and things worthy of gratitude and those worthy of respect already discussed in Blessing Three. Gratitude is elicited not merely by a person or a thing that has latent virtue but by the good that person or thing has done us. Thus the objects of gratitude tend to be more concrete than the corresponding EFTA01162495 list for `respect'. Thus to avoid repetition, in this Blessing we cover the details only of the objects of gratitude not shared with the list of objects of respect — with the following list serving as a rough-and-ready comparison: Personages • Lord Buddha (see BL Three §CJ) • Community of Enlightened Monks (see Bl. Three §C2) Blessing Twenty-Five: Gratitude 285 • Our parents (see Bl. Three §C4) EFTA01162496 • Our teachers (see Bl. Three §C5) • Virtuous Employers (see Bl. Three §C6) • Virtuous Monarchs (see Bl. Three §C3, i.e. those established in the Ten Rajadhammas, see BL Sixteen §C2) Animals - • Beasts of Burden Inanimate Objects • Educational Objects (see Bl. Three §D3) • Dhamma Scriptures (see Bl. Three §D2) • Pagodas (see Bl. Three §M) • Homeland EFTA01162497 • Shade-giving Trees Goodness • Merit Yourself • Your own health C.2 Gratitude to Animals The people of old were grateful to their beasts of burden by which they earned their living. They would not use their water buffaloes to plough in the heat of the midday sun when it would be torture to the beasts. They would find only the best of soft grass and pastures for their EFTA01162498 beasts to graze during their time of rest. They would never kill an old beast when it was beyond its working life — out of gratitude for all it had helped them with. They would maintain the buffalo to the end of its days. Some people loved their buffalos and felt their debt of gratitude so strongly that they would hardly ever beat them and some would even put up a mosquito net for the buffalos at night! When the buffalo EFTA01162499 passed away of natural causes, the owner would divide up the meat with his neighbours. People in the old days would even choose new employees based on the level of gratitude they displayed towards their old buffalos. If anyone didn't keep buffalo beyond their working age, they would not be accepted into a company. C.3 Gratitude to Inanimate objects In the old days, those who took their rest under a EFTA01162500 tree for many years, even though the tree is inanimate (it has no mind) people would still be grateful for the shade and shelter they had had from it. Maybe they will take care of the tree as a result so that others might get the same benefit. They might not make a mess under such a tree or cut it down. You will miss the forests and realize the forests when they're gone. If you have gotten benefit even from your meditation centre or EFTA01162501 temple you ought to treat that place with respect. Some people might even go as far to reflect as to the value they have taken from their homeland, home country or even the territory fought for and won by one's ancestors, where one has grown up in peace. You would know the value of your own country ifyou were ever made a refugee and had to leave your own country. You will miss it when its gone. EFTA01162502 C.4 Merit Just as electricity works invisibly to bring us many benefits and conveniences, the Lord Buddha discovered that there is another force which brings benefit to all of our lives, but about which (in general) we understand little of the workings — and that is merit — which had brought all forms of success and happiness into our lives. It gives us life and strength and protects us from handicap at birth. It EFTA01162503 brings us material comfort and intelligence. Most of us are new to meditation so we are still not particularly versed in the real value of merit, but if you meditate further until you attain the DhammakAya, you will be able to start to understand the workings of merit in the same way that a scientist understands the workings of electricity. This is why merit deserves our gratitude C.5 Yourself None of the forgoing forms of EFTA01162504 gratitude are of any great surprise to anyone — but something which is many times more miraculous is gratitude to yourself. Your physical body is a vital piece of equipment for you to use in the pursuit of goodness. You can't have anyone else do it for you. Those who use their body for doing evil things such as breaking the Precepts: killing, stealing, committing adultery, lying or taking intoxicating drugs and alcohol. EFTA01162505 It is as good as destroying your own body. The 286 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living demerit of all these activities will follow you like a shadow. However, if you use your body to perform generous actions, keep the Precepts and meditate — the merit which arises as the result will nourish the mind and when it comes to time to leave this world, our physical body will go to the graveyard but our merit will be collected by EFTA01162506 our astral body and angelic body, leading us to take new life in heaven. When the power of that merit is exhausted then you return to be born as a human again. You will be the sort of person they invite to be born human — not the sort who has to compete to be born as a human. The proportions and characteristics of your body will be better than before — not excessively fat or thin, or white or black — everything EFTA01162507 will be in equilibrium. Eventually you will be able to advance you meditation until you are able to overcome all the defilements in the mind and you can enter upon Nirvana in the footsteps of the Buddha. You have to rely on your own body to do this. Thus everybody should be grateful to their own body which is their vehicle on the path to Nirvana. D. DEVELOPING GRATITUDE IN EVERYDAY LIFE EFTA01162508 D.1 Repaying a Debt of Gratitude How large or small does a debt of gratitude have to be before it is worth recognizing? Sometimes it is impossible to put a price on a favour one has received. If you are dying and someone donates a bottle of blood to save your life, how can you put a price on that blood you have received? The blood is worth your life. You cannot put a price on the milk you have suckled at your mother's breast. If EFTA01162509 your mother had refused to feed you since you were small, you would have died. That milk is worth as much as your life also. For some things it is likely that you will never be able fully to repay the debt of gratitude you owe. The best we can do is to do what we can to repay our debt of gratitude until our dying day. Thus if not entirely necessary, stand on your own feet rather than accepting the help of others — but in case you cannot do EFTA01162510 without their help, then don't forget that debt of gratitude for the rest of your life. As a practical guideline, however for how a debt of gratitude can be repaid appropriately, bear in mind the definitions of conditional and unconditional love (described in Blessing Seventeen §A.2) which will allow you to size up your debts in a way that allows you to set your priorities without conflicting loyalties. If someone has done you a favour, EFTA01162511 be quick to repay your own debt of gratitude (without them having to ask) — not just once but many times until your dying day. Don't go thinking like some children, "I lived in my parents' house for fifteen years — therefore I will look after may aging parents for only fifteen years, no more than that." If a person has done both good and bad things to you in the past, try to remember that person for the good EFTA01162512 things they have done, and be grateful for those good things. If you are to remember the bad things they have done, don't remember thinking only of vengeance, but remember in order to protect yourself from further such situations. Don't allow a few faults on the part of another person to obscure the good favours you have received from them. If you can manage to do this the whole of the time, you will be able to maintain a joyous EFTA01162513 heart and a happy face. You will not get old before your time with a frown established on your face. If all you can think of is the bad you have received at the hands of others, then this world will not appear a very pleasant place to live. You will fail to see any value in life. Some final hints for putting gratitude into practice in everyday life are as follows: I. Build up the roots of gratitude in the younger generation: The people of old EFTA01162514 used to have a way of developing gratitude in the younger generation. Children would be trained to use only the very highest of words to greet and speak of their parents. They would bow to their parents every night before going to bed. When children get older, instead of just going through the motions of bowing they start to look for the virtues in their parents that make them worthy of respect. EFTA01162515 Once one can see the benefits received from one's parents one will be able to identify the goodness in others such as the Buddha or one's teachers. If we are unable to see the goodness received from our parents it is unlikely to be able to identify the goodness in anyone else. Blessing Twenty-Five: Gratitude 287 2. Be grateful to your own body: by using it only for good deeds. Don't go destroying your health EFTA01162516 with alcohol. Don't abuse your mouth by lying or gossiping with the neighbours. Don't go using your handsomeness to become a womanizer. Everyone has the opportunity to go to Nirvana so why don't you hurry up and use your entitlement? Thus you should use your own body with gratitude. D.2 Words of Warning concerning Gratitude It should be noted that gratitude needs be moderated EFTA01162517 by `equanimity ' [upekkhA] (i.e. not allowed to be influenced by bias [Agati] or by familiarity [visAsa] or else can lead to corruption. Thus the importance of understanding Blessing Sixteen &C) before moving on to this blessing. Secondly, supposing you have done someone a favour in the past. In fact they owe you a favour in return. However if you are to openly claim a favour in return, then it makes you look like a manipulator EFTA01162518 instead of a benefactor in others' estimation. Thus if you ever do someone a favour, never go ask for that favour back! If you ask for money back that you have lent someone, that is alright but when it is a favour you have given someone, asking for the favour back is not at all appropriate — because you often cannot put a price on a favour. E. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES E.1 Metaphor: Sunlight is lost on a blind man EFTA01162519 In the same way that the light of the sun is blind man no matter how brightly it shines, the favours and compassions of a benefactor are lost on an ungrateful person no matter how much help they may give. E.2 Ex. One ladleful of rice DhA.ii.104ff Besides being the right-hand disciple of the Lord Buddha who was wise in teaching second to the Buddha himself. SAriputta was also unsurpassed EFTA01162520 in the virtue of gratitude. He would not let even the smallest favour pass by unnoticed. There was one day in the town of RAjagaha, the Lord Buddha was staying at VeOuvana Temple and SAriputta was there also. An aged brahmin called RAdha who had been shunned by his wife, family and in-laws because he was not very wealthy. They abandoned RAdha instead of looking after him in his old age. He didn't want to bother anyone EFTA01162521 unduly so he thought of becoming a Buddhist monk for the final days of his life. None of the monks in the temple were interested to take responsibility for his ordination because they saw that he was already old and would only be a burden on the temple. Noone would give him ordination. The Buddha asked if there was not a single monk in the temple who had received benefit from this Brahmin in the past. EFTA01162522 SAriputta spoke up and said that once a long time ago RAdha had given him a ladleful of rice when he was on alms round. The Buddha therefore asked SAriputta to help out RAdha on this occasion. SAriputta ordained RAdha and allowed him to stay in the same lodging teaching him meditation and the teachings of the Buddha. RAdha practised hard and before long was able to become an arahant. SAriputta certainly showed his EFTA01162523 gratitude and the Buddha revealed that it was not only in that lifetime that he had been grateful. Even in previous lifetimes, he had been grateful and this had built up the habits that allowed him to absorb the Dhamma to the point of mastery. E.3 Ex. GuAa/SEha JAtaka (J.157) A second disciple of the Buddha well known for his gratitude was/nanda./nanda had his own disciples to look after EFTA01162524 five-hundred of them — according to the duty of senior monks. There was a young monk who attended/nanda in every way — washing his robes, sweeping the lodging and massaging his feet because/nanda himself had many other responsibilities to attend to, especially as secretary to the Buddha. Even though/panda did not have much time to spare to look after his charges, he thought of his junior monks with gratitude. EFTA01162525 One day when/nanda went to teach in the palace he was offered 500 sets of robes./nanda offered all 500 to that faithful student of his. Some people wondered why/nanda was biased towards this particular student and whether he was really a stream-enterer [sotApana] as others claimed. Why didn't he divide up the robes equally? In any case the faithful student divided up the five-hundred 288 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps EFTA01162526 towards Enlightened Living robes equally amongst the other 499 monks and kept only a single robe for himself. There were still tell-tale monks who went to ask the Buddha about what/nanda had done. The Buddha explained that /nanda had not given all the robes to a single monk because of bias because of three reasons: 1. He recognized with gratitude the benefits he had received from that student; 2. He knew that that particular EFTA01162527 monk possessed true virtue; 3. That monk had made himself endearing. The Buddha praised/nanda for doing the right thing. If he had praised all the five-hundred monks equally, it would have obscured the special good deeds possessed only by a single monk. E.4 Ex. Cullapaduma JAtaka (J.192) When the Lord Buddha was still pursuing Perfections as the Bodhisattva, he was born as EFTA01162528 a prince called Paduma. His father the king was suspicious of his young and handsome son because he was afraid that his son might compete with him for his own wives and consorts. He banished his son from the kingdom and told him to come back only after the death of the king. Prince Paduma lived in the forest with his wife. One day the prince came across a prisoner who had had his arms, legs, nose and EFTA01162529 ears cut off in punishment but who was nevertheless still alive and who had been cast away on a raft. The prince attended to the health of the prisoner even though the princess shunned him at first. Later, when the prisoner had recovered his health, somehow a love grew up between himself and the princess and the two of them had an affair. The princess was afraid she would be discovered so she lured the prince to EFTA01162530 the edge of a cliff and pushed him over. The prince survived by clinging to a branch below and returned to his home kingdom, in time to become king. He was fed up with marriage and ruled the kingdom in justice doing only good deeds throughout his life. As for the princess, she put her lover in a basket and would carry him here and there begging for a living. They made up a story that they had been married only out of EFTA01162531 respect for the wishes of their parents. Everyone was sorry for them, thinking that the wife had gratitude towards both her parents and her husband so they gave their donations of food and money. One day, the princess crossed into the kingdom of King Paduma and that day the king himself was there making donations to the poor with the others. Of course he remembered the couple and was angry because he had EFTA01162532 still not come to an end of defilements. He ordered the execution of both the princess and the prisoner, but after a few moments, his temper cooled down and reduced their punishment to banishment. Thus you may trust a person but never trust their defilements — even if they are an invalid. Ingratitude has deep roots which can even be communicated from one lifetime to the next — therefore to get rid of ingratitude right from the EFTA01162533 present lifetime is the safest bet. E.5 Ex. SElavanAga JAtaka (J. 72) In another lifetime the Lord Buddha was born as a white elephant in the forest. Devadatta was born a hunter. The hunter had lost his way in the forest so the elephant showed him the way home. The hunter left marks on the trees as he went and later found the opportunity to return to the same place in order to get the tusks of the white EFTA01162534 elephant. The first time the hunter came, the elephant gave him the tip of his right tusk. The second time the hunter came he gave him the tip of his left tusk. Each time the hunter came, the tusks of the elephant were cut a little shorter. As the tusks got shorter, sawing the tusks became very painful for the elephant. When only stumps were left, the hunter no longer used a saw. He cut into the flesh of the elephant's face to EFTA01162535 get the tusks out by their roots. The Bodhisattva elephant thought to itself,"It is not that I don't love my tusks, but I love them less than the prospect of pursuing perfection towards Buddhahood. The elephant thought of its giving as the perfection of giving. In the end the hunter took the life of the elephant it's final gift to the world. As the hunter was cutting the tusks from the carcass of the elephant, the earth split in two where the EFTA01162536 hunter stood and sucked him directly into hell, without having to wait for him to die. Blessing Twenty-Five: Gratitude 289 E.6 Ex. JavasakuAa JAtaka (J.308) Once upon a time in the Himavanta forest a mountain lion was devouring his prey under a tree near his den. A piece of bone got stuck in his throat causing the lion extreme pain. A woodpecker perched above heard the lion's cries and EFTA01162537 asked what had happened to make him look so pained. The lion replied, "A piece of bone has stuck in my throat" "I can take it out," offered the woodpecker. "Please hurry up and remove it, my friend — you will be saving my life," roared the lion. ". . . but this is not going to be easy ... ". . . I don't see what is so difficult?" ". . . the problem is I don't dare to go inside your EFTA01162538 mouth," said the woodpecker. "I am afraid you will eat me up!" "Oh! I wouldn't do that," said the lion. "Hurry up and save my life!" Thus the woodpecker accepted to help the lion — but not without circumspect. He used a stout branch to prop the lion's jaws open first and only then did he enter the lion's mouth and pull the bone from the lion's throat with his beak. Only then did he re-emerge from the lion's EFTA01162539 mouth, knock away the branch and retreat hastily to a nearby tree. The lion's pain subsided. Later, fit and well again, the lion caught a wild buffalo and returned to sit under the same tree to devour his prey. The woodpecker learned of the lion's success in his hunting and tested the lion asking: "I have heard you've been successful in your hunting — could you spare a little of the meat to share with me?" EFTA01162540 "Be off with you," growled the lion. "You don't deserve anything from me — think yourself lucky that I granted you your life when you were between my jaws!" The woodpecker criticized the lion for his selfishness and ingratitude and then flew away never to return. 290 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Blessing Twenty-Six: Listening Regularly to Dhamma Teachings EFTA01162541 291 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 The Place of Blessing Twenty-six in the order of things We come to the twenty-sixth step of the staircase of Buddhist practice entitled `Regular hearing of Dhamma Sermons'. Only once we have availed ourselves of the first four virtues of Group VII of these Blessings is it useful for us to go on to listen to Dhamma Teachings regularly. If we have done EFTA01162542 the requisite groundwork for the mind, when we come to listen to the Dhamma, it we can use what we learn as a mirror to evaluate ourselves in order to know which virtues we possess and those we lack, the weaknesses we have, and those we have overcome — so that we know in which areas we have room for improvement. A.2 Objectives of listening to the Dhamma Of course the point of listening to a sermon is to EFTA01162543 depthen one's wisdom. However wisdom in not an instant commodity. There are some things we don't understand immediately when we hear them, but that doesn't mean that listening to the Dhamma is a waste of time. Therefore listening to Dhamma sermons has objectives at many levels of complexity: I. To arouse faith in the Triple Gem: without a foundation of faith it is unlikely that you will see the value of the teachings to the extent EFTA01162544 that you will want to reflect on them. Thus faith is like a sword which helps you to cut away the unnecessary doubts and fears. People are potentially so full of suspicions and doubts that they could write a list of hundreds. However, if you can put these doubts on one side to the extent that a few items of the Dhamma start to wake you up to reality, often these problems will be overcome. If at least EFTA01162545 you can see some value in the Buddha, the Dhamma and the SaIgha, then you begin to open your heart to the benefits which you can absorb from Buddhism. 2. To wake you up [saOvega] to the reality of life Most of the time our mind wanders about aimlessly. If you can point your finger at something that allows the mind to wake up to the real nature of mind (such as the imminence of death) it EFTA01162546 can stimulate people really to get down to practice of the Dhamma. It is like matches and a matchbox which may lie together throughout their lives but they never break into flame unless one is struck against the other. In the same way, people co-exist with the cruel reality of life for years but it is not unless people receive some sort of transformative shock that they will get down to earnest practice to EFTA01162547 improve their lot. This form of transformative shock is the function of Dhamma teaching. The Lord Buddha taught that whether Dhamma practice gives its fruit quickly or slowly, we still need to do it because at the very least such practice will start to engrain itself as a positive disposition [upanissaya] in oneself Blessing Twenty-Six: Listening Regularly EFTA01162548 to Dhamma Teachings 292 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living B. LISTENING REGULARLY TO DHAMMA TEACHINGS B.1 Definitions The meaning of the title of this particular blessing is to seek out opportunities to hear Buddhist teachings and make time to listen to them from knowledgeable teachers in order to transform one's mind for the better and having heard EFTA01162549 teachings in theory, to use the virtues learned as a mirror to examine the presence or absence of those virtues in ourselves and to see whether the virtues we already have can be improved upon. For example, having heard a teaching about `patience' one should use one's new knowledge to examine one's own heart to see the level of patience in oneself. If you have some degree of patience in you, you should be honest EFTA01162550 about yourself about how much are there some things which still make you impatient? Can you put up with unpleasant things, but find it hard to say `no' to temptations? Listening to a Dhamma sermon, you will know instantly where you have room for improvement. The main point of this particular blessing is the choice of appropriate things to listen to and secondly the choice of appropriate time to listen to them too. EFTA01162551 The word `Dhamma' means (also defined in Blessing Sixteen) Buddhist teachings as found in the TipiEaka. We need to find the time to listen to such teachings — because the teachings of the Buddha are without a shadow of a doubt beneficial — because if anyone can really understand them and practice them for themselves, they will certainly manage to avoid hardship in the long or short term. Sometimes we hear that there are EFTA01162552 84,000 headings of Dhamma in the Buddha's teachings. Do you think you know as many of these as 10,000 yet? Or perhaps 1,000? People in general know 10-200 headings of Dhamma from the Teachings. Sometimes, we only know such subject matter but we have still not got round to practising it for ourselves. Thus if you are to ask yourself which of the 84,000 headings of Dhamma it would be useful to listen to, the EFTA01162553 answer is `as many as possible'. B.2 Appropriate times to listen to the Dhamma There are four main appropriate times to listen to the Dhamma teachings. The Buddha taught: 1. On Quarter-Moon Days (the Buddhist Holy Days): These are the full-moon days, new-moon days and half-moon days. Such days are about seven-days apart. You will find a similar rhythm of holy days in almost every religion. Christians EFTA01162554 observe their Sabbath every Sunday. Moslems observe the Sabbath on Fridays and Jews on Saurday. Why should all religions have such a seven-day periodicity for listening to religious teachings? Usually even if someone is impressed or inspired by a teaching, they will remember such a teaching for only a few days. Most people have so many other things on their minds, that within seven days will forget EFTA01162555 spiritual teachings they have learned and at the end of seven days they will return to their bad old ways. If you listen to a teaching which recommends that you study conscientiously, maybe you will become a conscientious student for a few days, but by the end of the week you will be back to your old lazy ways. Supposing your parents have given you some strong advice about a matter. EFTA01162556 Maybe you will remember what they have taught you for a few days, but by the end of the week you will start to forget again. It is the same for practically every good habit we set out to build for ourselves — if we are absent from our spiritual teacher for more than seven days, we start to revert to our old behaviour. Thus it is no coincidence that there is teaching every seven days no matter what the religion. It EFTA01162557 is like recharging your batteries every seven days — topping up your morale. 2. Whenever there are unskilful states arising in the mind: If unskilful states arise in your mind, you should be quick to listen to a Dhamma teaching. It doesn't matter what day of the week it is, if your mind has fallen into unskilful states — that is the right time to listen to the Dhamma. It doesn't matter where or from EFTA01162558 whom you listen to such Dhamma — from a monk in a temple or from a layperson or even from your parents or elders — the important thing is that you cannot just allow your mind to `run riot' — you have to do something immediately to solve the problem Blessing Twenty-Six: Listening Regularly to Dhamma Teachings 293 of the mind that you are experiencing. If you are feeling slighted or sorry for EFTA01162559 yourself, don't allow that state of mind to continue, but you should listen to some Dhamma teachings or else you might get so negative that you feel suicidal. Supposing that you are particularly angry with the neighbours, then you should go and listen to the Dhamma before you do something you will regret later. If ever the feeling that you would like to respond to any of these three sorts of unwholesome EFTA01162560 mental preoccupations [akusalavitakka] (A.iii.446) arises in the mind to make it unskilful, then find the opportunity to listen to the Dhamma without delay: 1. preoccupation with sensepleasures [IcArnavitakka]: when your mind is overcome with desire (especially sensual temptation); 2. preoccupation with vengefulness [byApAdavitakka]: (when you feel that you would like to steal from people, or damage their reputation EFTA01162561 or even when you are angry), 3. preoccupation with violence or cruelty [vihiOsAvitakka]: when you want to hurt or take advantage of others 3. When in Doubt: An appropriate time to listen to the Dhamma is when doubts arise in your mind — for example, when you feel there is something about your meditation practice or what you have heard that you don't understand or if you find something seemingly inconsistent EFTA01162562 in the Dhamma teachings you have heard. If you have doubts, then go to find a teaching monk or someone more experienced in the Dhamma practice than yourself — so you can put your mind at rest. 4. Whenever there is a sermon being given: If you hear that there is a sermon on Dhamma being given and you know that the person or monk giving the sermon is someone who EFTA01162563 has real knowledge, it doesn't matter what day of the week it is, or what time of the day it is, you should not hesitate to go and listen to such a sermon. It is a very difficult thing for anyone able to understand the Dhamma to arise in the world. To study the Dhamma to the point of understanding takes time and it requires that they study from the Buddha Himself or someone who is as adept as the Buddha. Not only EFTA01162564 that, but they must also be able to communicate what they have learned in a way that others can understand. If there is such a person arisen in the world, you should not delay — go and listen to what they have to teach without hesitation. If you hear that there is someone who is enlightened then you should see what they have to teach — but beware of those who make false claim to EFTA01162565 being enlightened such as the many people who have to advertise themselves. However, if someone is knowledgeable, has a good manner of practice and has a gift for making Dhamma easy to understand — be quick to make yourself one of the audience whenever you hear news that they are teaching. The Buddha even went further to enumerate the virtues of those who teach the Dhamma and those EFTA01162566 who listen to the Dhamma. B.3 Marks of a good Dhamma Teacher Those who are good at teaching the Dhamma should have the following characteristics (A.ii.184)(you can use these characteristics as quality control for any Dhamma teacher about whom you have your doubts): I. Expounds Dhamma sequentially: This means the speaker must teach the Dhamma in way that becomes gradually more profound EFTA01162567 (not someone who skips over important subject matter vital for the listener's understanding). To be sequentially profound requires that the speaker: 1. has a real understanding of their own subject matter; 2. has skill in communication 3. must have prepared and planned what he is going to teach. It is not good enough just to speak `off the top of one's head'. 2. Gives reasonsfor the Dhamma EFTA01162568 taught: It is not good enough just to repeat what you have memorized from a textbook or even from the Scriptures. It is unacceptable for a teacher who has not done any preparation simply to take the same textbook which the students already have 294 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living and read it aloud to them. You have to be able to explain the causes and effects in any relationship, EFTA01162569 be able to categorize, analyze, generalize and distinguish. When teaching virtue, it is only possible to explain something thoroughly if one has practiced such a virtue for oneself How can you expect to teach meditation if you have never practised for yourself? How can you expect to teach about the Five Precepts or Eight Precepts, if you are unable even to keep a single Precept yourself? If you are giving a EFTA01162570 description or an example and there are only the examples of what others have done, but you can never pay witness to your own good deeds, who will be convinced by what you have to say? 3. Teaches out of sincere compassion for the listener: The goodwill of loving kindness and compassion are the basic foundation of a good teacher. Supposing someone is very virtuous and can practice many virtues for himself (like a EFTA01162571 paccekabuddha) but lacks compassion for his fellow man — supposing he gives up teaching as soon as someone doesn't understand a few words of what he has said then it may be that he lacks sufficient compassion to teach others. 4. Teaching without the motive of gaining something (material) in return: A good teacher must not teach with a wish for something material (e.g. wealth, praise or fame) in return. EFTA01162572 Some monks lose their interest in giving sermons if they are offered insufficient donations. Such thinking is more worthy of a mercenary Dhamma teacher. Some are not interested in the income from their sermon, but will be disappointed if their audience is small. If there is a large audience, they will rise to the occasion — but if there are only a few in the congregation, they don't really bother EFTA01162573 what they teach and try to finish as early as possible. This is wrong. Thus if you can be pleased no matter how many or few come to listen to your teaching, that is one of the signs of a successful Dhamma teacher. The Great Abbot of Wat Paknam taught: "If a thousand come, we teach a thousand: (its tiring but a few words can change the lives of many, so the speaker accrues a lot of merit — EFTA01162574 so that's good). If a hundred come, we teach a hundred: (its not so tiring so that's also good). If a handful of people come, we teach a handful: (so we don't have to speak so loudly, and the atmosphere can be a little more informal — so that's also good). If no-one comes, we sit for meditation and teach ourselves (so that's also good)" 5. Teaching without bringing conflict to yourself EFTA01162575 or others: Sometimes when someone is teaching, they are not firmly established in the virtues they teach — when they see someone they don't like in the audience, they take the opportunity to insult that person in the course of their teaching (bringing yourself into conflict with others). Others use giving sermons as the opportunity to boast about themselves (bringing yourself into conflict with yourself). This is a EFTA01162576 very important distinguishing feature of how the teachings of Buddhism have always been spread — the Buddha laid down guidelines for his monks so that they never teach in a way that brings Buddhism into conflict with other religions — but that doesn't mean Buddhism is a religion of Vaissezfaire' — it means that when teaching, one should choose one's explanations and subject matter EFTA01162577 with care. If you ever hear that someone who has all five of these qualities who will give a sermon, then if you can take leave from work, go and listen to them without delay and without worrying what day of the week it is. B.4 Marks of a Good Listener to the Dhamma The person who is a good listener to the Dhamma also should have five qualities (MNidA.8): I. Doesn't look down on the EFTA01162578 subject matter: Never look down on the subject matter being taught that it is too basic `for the likes of yourself. The Buddha taught that each and every item of Dhamma that he taught has the quality that if it is practised to the full it can lead to enlightenment in the end — but some people fail to see the teachings in sufficient depth because they Blessing Twenty-Six: Listening Regularly to Dhamma Teachings EFTA01162579 295 look down on the subject matter and thus miss the real value. Some people, for example, think that the First Blessing (not associating with fools) just means being choosy about one's friends — and conclude that it is too simple to waste their time with. They have their own preconceived ideas about what fools are like so they don't want to waste time hearing a sermon about such a subject! EFTA01162580 But looked at through the eyes of the initiated, even this single subject practised properly can allow us to enter upon Nirvana! — however a person needs to look at the teaching sufficiently deeply to realize that they must also give up associating with the fool in themselves — the part of themselves that is stingy, undisciplined and too lazy to meditate. Thus don't go thinking any item of the Dhamma is too simple EFTA01162581 to bother learning or revising. Thus those who appreciate Dhamma teaching never look down on the materials they are taught. 2. Doesn't look down on the level of knowledge of the teacher: Don't go thinking that a monk is young, therefore there is probably nothing you can learn from him. Don't go thinking that as an older person you have to hear the Dhamma from and old monk to be a match for EFTA01162582 your own level of experience. It is therefore a great mistake to look down on the knowledge of a Dhamma teacher. In order to help remind the people not to look down on the knowledge of a teacher, in the olden times, people would hold their hands in a gesture of prayer throughout the sermon they were listening to. However in the present day, you can sit however you like, but don't fall EFTA01162583 asleep or chat with your friends during the sermon or else that is showing that you are looking down on the knowledge of the teacher. You close the door on your own possibility of spiritual progress. The Buddha warned (Dahara Sutta S.i.68) that there are four small things which you should never underestimate the importance of: 1. a smallfire: even a small fire can grow to burn down an entire city EFTA01162584 2. a small poisonous snake: you can die from the bite even of a small snake 3. a young king: some kings have reigned since they were not yet thirty (e.g. Alexander the Great) 4. a young monk: some have become arahants since the age of seven. 3. Never look down on yourself: Don't go thinking that you have no chance of being able to understand anything as profound as the Dhamma. In EFTA01162585 fact, even the most unlikely of people have benefitted from Dhamma teachings to the degree they could become arahants. ( See the story of CElapanthaka §D.2 below). Some people think that they have no chance of being able to transform themselves for the better so they give up even before they start. They think to themselves that success in the study of the Dhamma may take years even for an enthusiastic EFTA01162586 person so what hope does a lazy person like them have? 4. Keeping the mind in meditation (concentration) when listening: Your mind should be in meditation while listening to sermons you shouldn't distract yourself during a sermon by chatting or picking your fingernails etc.. The better your mind is concentrated in meditation as you hear a talk the more you will understand of the subject EFTA01162587 being taught. In the time of the Buddha, when He needed to teach a very subtle subject, he would sit with his eyes closed in meditation to teach and the listeners would do the same in order to be able to follow the subtleties of his teaching. In this way, many people were able to attain the path and fruit of Nirvana. Thus we too, should keep a mind of meditation when listening to Dhamma teachings in keeping EFTA01162588 with this age old Buddhist tradition. 5. Reflects wisely [yonisomanasikAra] on everything learned: You should reflect further on the things you have learned from a sermon — turning the subject matter over in your mind and examining it from different angles. Such a habit will allow you a fast and quick mastery of the subject matter. Thus both the teacher and the listener each have five EFTA01162589 points of practice which they need to apply if a sermon of the Dhamma is to give its maximum benefits. 296 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living C. OUTCOMES OF LISTENING TO THE DHAMMA C.1 Fruits of listening to the Dhamma (A. M.248) I. Hearing things never before heard [assutaO suAAti]: Because a Dhamma teacher will always put in the effort to find new items of Dhamma EFTA01162590 for the listener (see Blessing Three §C.2), if we attend a Dhamma sermon, we will almost always be hearing something we have never heard before; 2. Clarifying things already heard [sutaO pariyodapeti]: If it happens that the subject to the sermon is something we have already heard before, at the very least, it will allow us to revise and depthen what we already know and raise our mastery to a new level EFTA01162591 allowing us to remember more; 3. Dispelling one's doubts [kalkhaO vihanati]: If after hearing teachings in the past, it is still with some reluctance that we give up old bad habits and strive for new better ones, as a result of hearing a Dhamma sermon, some of that doubt and reluctance will be dispelled; 4. Straightening one's views [diEEhiO ujuO karoti]: In the course of our everyday life as we journey EFTA01162592 in pursuit of virtue, we may come up against many obstacles from inside and outside which might conspire to infiltrate our thinking with `false views' [micchA diEEhE]. Such false views if left to their own devices can eventually lead our spiritual cultivation to go in circles or else to deviate from the objectives we have set ourselves. One advantage of regularly hearing Dhamma teachings is that we will be able to EFTA01162593 identify the workings of False View in our mind and to uproot these, cultivating Right View [sammA diEEhE] in their place. 5. Calming the mind and bringing happiness [cittamassa pasEdati]: Hearing Dhamma sermons will `wake us up' to the reality of life and the world, shaking our mind out of distraction with sensuality, vengeance and aggression while making clearer to us where our EFTA01162594 weaknesses lie, and to raise up our morale giving us the means by which to definitively overcome those weaknesses — ultimately attaining the path and fruit of Nirvana. C.2 Predispositions acquired through listening to the Dhamma By listening to Dhamma sermons, even though we might not understand everything of what we hear, something which we will gradually acquire in our EFTA01162595 personality through our perseverence are certain sorts of pre-disposition. Such deeply rooted habits become like bedrock for the mind. Even though we might not understand everything we hear when we listen to the Dhamma, before long, we will start to build up a vocabulary of technical terms associated with the Dhamma even if we are not sure of the meaning, we have a familiarity with them. Sometimes we don't know the meaning of EFTA01162596 chanting, but before long we have a passing acquaintance with the Pali words. Such predispositions will be like `capital' that will be a downpayment making cultivation of good deeds by us easier in future in four different ways: 1. Quicker attainment of wisdom: in subsequent existences one will attain wisdom quickly and with ease. One will be able to recall and apply items of Dhamma with ease EFTA01162597 allowing one to attain the path and fruit of Nirvana quickly: 2. Ability to teach: in subsequent existences, once one has a knowledge of Dhamma, it will be easy for one to teach it and explain it to others; 3. Recognition of the Dhamma message: in subsequent existences, even if one cannot remember items of Dhamma oneself, but upon hearing Dhamma teaching from others, one will be able EFTA01162598 to attain the path and fruit of Nirvana quickly — and one's understanding will be thorough and without any shadow of a doubt. Like a person who has heard the sound of a drum once before — even much later, after a journey of many miles — if they are to hear the sound of a drum for the second time, they will recognize it instantly for what it is. It would be hard for anyone to persuade such a person that what they are EFTA01162599 listening to is not a drum. 4. Easily re-awakened to the value of Dhamma teachings: in subsequent existences, even if one can no longer remember the Dhamma one has Blessing Twenty-Six: Listening Regularly to Dhamma Teachings 297 learned, and even if there is no-one to teach it, but on hearing only a few words of advice from others, or perhaps even overhearing such advice EFTA01162600 it will bring back one's former knowledge of Dhamma easily allowing one to attain the path and fruit of Nirvana with ease. Even those who regularly perform their Morning and Evening Chanting, even though they might not know the precise meaning of the Pali vocabulary — it is certainly not a waste of time because at the very least it will bring peace of mind and a familiarity with the Pali turns of phrase so that in a future EFTA01162601 existence even just overhearing the sound of someone else chanting, it will attract one to investigate more closely and have the opportunity to hear Dhamma teachings — and having heard them, to understand them with ease as the result of the past disposition we have built up for ourselves, so that we can attain the path and fruit of Nirvana with ease. D. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES EFTA01162602 D.1 Proverb: Those who see the danger in the cycle of existence (S.v.94-6) "0! You who see the danger in the cycles of existence [saOsAra], in whatsoever era the Noble Disciples hear the Dhamma, listen to the marrow of their bones, listen to the innermost part of their mind, and who muster all of their encouragement, bending their ears to listen in earnest — in that EFTA01162603 era their Five Hindrances will be overcome and their Seven Factors of Enlightenment [bojjhaIga] will be brought to completion through the power of their meditation." D.2 Ex. CElapanthaka DhA.i.239ff There was one monk in the time of the Lord Buddha called CElapanthaka who had ordained for ten years but was so inert that after all that time he could not even remember four EFTA01162604 lines of verse (one vagga). His elder brother (already an arahant) despaired. He thought, "My younger brother iS so dumb he cannot even remember four lines of verse so what chance would he have of learning the chanting or any of the longer suttas of the Buddha?" CElapanthaka was chased out of the temple and shunned because he wasn't considered worth his almsfood. CElapanthaka left the temple in despair EFTA01162605 and met with the Buddha. CElapanthaka informed the Buddha that he was going to disrobe. The Buddha asked him, "When you ordained, did you ordain to offer your life to Buddhism or did you ordain for the benefit of your big brother?" CElapanthaka agreed he had ordained to offer his life for Buddhism so he renewed his interest to continue with the ordination. The Buddha looked back into the previous lifetimes of EFTA01162606 CElapanthaka to see what was the problem impeding his progress in the apprehension of Buddhism. In past lives he had been very intelligent but he had become arrogant as the result of his intelligence and had regularly teased a fellow monk who was not so gifted so often that the other monk despaired and disrobed. That evil had made him as stupid as his victim in every subsequent lifetime. The Buddha realized that EFTA01162607 to memorize any scriptures would be fruitless so he found another way to teach the monk. He taught the monk the word `rajoharaAaO' (meaning sullied) and gave the monk a piece of white cloth with which to wipe his own head. He gave the monk the practice of reciting the word while at the same time wiping his head with the cloth. The white cloth was blackened by sweat and dirt and eventually CElapanthaka, seeing that the EFTA01162608 impurity of his own body had sullied the white cloth to make it black, lost attraction for his own body, his mind was able to enter the centre of his body and attain the DhammakAya inside. He became an arahant where he stood. His elder brother could not believe he was enlightened until his younger brother performed a feat of mental power by replicating thousands of images of himself [manomayiddhi]. EFTA01162609 D.3 Ex. JanasAna Ascetic (MahAvaOsa-EEkA 190ff.) In the time of Kassapa Buddha, there was a python which had dug a burrow just next to a cave where monks regularly chanted the Abhidhamma. The monks often chanted the verses concerning the sense doors [Ayatana] and how they should be re298 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living strained. The python heard the chanting every day EFTA01162610 but because it was a snake, of course it could not understand the meaning. It could only remember the word `Ayatana' and the pleasant personality of the monk chanting the verses. It was these things that the snake remembered at the last moments of its life. Usually animals will only think of food, mating and fear of death — but this snake thought only of Dhamma and was reborn as an angel. It lived in heaven for a hundred EFTA01162611 years. The ex-snake was reborn in about 300 B.C. as JanasAna and his former familiarity with the chanting attracted him to ordination, even from teenage. He became an ascetic who was able to become versed in the Vedasi. The ascetic also trained in meditation and was able to make accurate predictions. At that time the Queen who would be mother to the Emperor Asoka conceived. Usually when women become pregnant, they EFTA01162612 have morning sickness which leads them to have some strange compulsions. Some would like to eat strange things such as sand or human blood. Some feel compelled to shout at the neighbours. For the mother of Asoka, her compulsion was to have the moon and the sun at her feet and to eat stars and clouds. The young ascetic heard the strange desires of the queen and was able to tell her that he child would EFTA01162613 be no ordinary son. He told her that wanting to stand on the sun and the moon was a sign that her son would rule the whole of the subcontinent. Wanting to eat the stars was a sign that Asoka would kill some of his own brothers and sisters and wanting to eat clouds was a sign that he would destroy heretic sects which got in the way of the truth (like the clouds which hide the sun). The life of Emperor Asoka proved all the prophecies EFTA01162614 of the ascetic to be true, so Asoka sent his men with a golden palanquin to invite the ascetic to the palace. However, on the way, the ascetic visited Vattaniya Hermitage and met with an arahant Assagutta who taught about the sense doors. Just hearing the word `Ayatana' woke him up to the value of Buddhism to the extent that he asked to ordain at that very moment and could become an arahant himself in the reign of EFTA01162615 Asoka. Thus even listening to the Dhamma without understanding the meaning can have implications to the extent of enlightenment in the future. D.4 Ex. Saccaka Nigantha M.L234ff, MA.L469ff In the JAyamaIgalagAthA chanting which recollects the victories of the Buddha achieved without aggression — there was one example in that chanting of a dialogue with a leading philosopher in contemporary India. Both his parents were also EFTA01162616 philosophers. In his own right, he was renowned for his skill in dialogue. He was not contented when many of his supporters became followers of the Buddha so he planned to defeat the Buddha in debate to descredit Him. He went to see the Buddha with a huge congregation of supporters (who loved debates). That morning the Buddha had seen in his meditation that Saccaka Nigantha was ripe for EFTA01162617 progress in Dhamma that day, but not to the extent of attaining the Path and Fruit of Nirvana (the reason for this was because he lacked sufficient engrained familiarity with the Dhamma). However, as a result of their debate, Saccaka Nigantha would absorb the Dhamma he had learned as an engrained familiarity that would help him towards enlightenment in a future lifetime. The philosopher was defeated in EFTA01162618 the discussion and listened to the teaching of the Buddha. He invited the Buddha to take a meal in his own house and again heard a repetition of the same sermon, but still was unable to understand it. He could manage no more than faith. In the next lifetime he was born in Sri Lanka and became a monk known as KAOa-Buddharakkhita at an early age. He knew all the Teachings by heart, but the engrained habits of a EFTA01162619 philosopher rendered him unable to practice any of them. He knew only the theory. One day his teacher warned him to practice himself or else all his students would be arahants before him. The monk realized his mistake, practised for himself and was soon able to become an arahant himself. At that time, with his old ability in dialogue together with the sermon in his mind, received from the Buddha in a previous life- EFTA01162620 1. The Vedas are Hindu scriptures in which some of the prophetic materials share elements of the Buddhist scriptures from a time when Buddhism has almost disappeared from the world and which is passed down to the next era. Blessing Twenty-Six: Listening Regularly to Dhamma Teachings 299 time, he was soon able to become a valuable Buddhist missionary. D.5 Ex. KAOE KuraragharikA (DhA.iv.103ff.) KAOE KuraragharikA was the EFTA01162621 mother of SoAa- KuEikaAAA Thera. On one occasion, SoAa passed through his home town. On his return from the Jetavana monastery, his mother met him and organised a grand charity in his honour. Having heard that her son could expound the Dhamma very well, she requested him to give a discourse. SoAa complied with her request and so she built a pavilion for the purpose. A large crowd, including his EFTA01162622 mother, turned up to listen to the Dhamma expounded by SoAa. While she was at the pavilion, some thieves broke into her house. However the leader of the thieves went to the pavilion to keep an eye on her. His intention was to kill her should she return home early on learning about the theft at her house. Her maid, left behind to guard the house, went to the pavilion to inform her about the theft, but the lady only said, let EFTA01162623 the thieves take all my money, I don't care. But don't come and disturb me while I am listening to the Dhamma!' Having reprimanded her, she sent the maid home. The leader of the thieves, who was sitting closeby, overheard everything. Her words also made him think, `If we take away the property of this wise and noble lady, we will surely be punished. We might even be struck by lightning.' The leader got alarmed, hurried EFTA01162624 back to her house and ordered his thieves to return all the things they had taken. The gang of thieves then went to the pavilion to listen to the Dhamma. SoAa finished his exposition of the Dhamma at the crack of dawn. Then, the leader and all the thieves admitted their mistakes and requested for her forgiveness. Being a kind and devout lady she pardoned them all. Realising the evil of their ways, all the thieves joined the Holy Order. After EFTA01162625 receiving instructions from SoAa, the new bhikkhus went into the forest to practise meditation. The Buddha knowing their mental attitudes sent forth his radiance and exhorted them on the way to gain Purity 300 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Blessing One: Not Associating with Fools 301 The Eighth Group of Blessings "Instilling Oneself EFTA01162626 with Higher Virtues" Having acquired the basic virtues in Group VII culminating in regular listening to the Dhamma (Blessing Twenty-Six) to cultivate oneself further on the Buddhist path of progress, it is necessary to instill ourselves with higher virtues such as patience, openness to criticism, the sight of a true monk and regular dicussion of EFTA01162627 the Dhamma. There is a major distinction between the basic virtues described in Group VII and the higher virtues described in Group VIII. The basic virtues of Group VII are concerned with making ourselves receptive to what we hear during a Dhamma talk — and this is the major purpose of the virtues of respect, humility and gratitude. However the EFTA01162628 culmination of Group VIII is more demanding. Even after the explanation of various items of Dhamma in Group VII we may not understand them until we see them exemplified. We might be able to understand the Precepts [sEla] from a Dhamma sermon, but we might not be able to comprehend how they can bring happiness until we see the happiness of a monk who keeps the Precepts well in EFTA01162629 Group VIII. Thus the `higher' virtues of Group VIII are more demanding because they are `interactive' virtues — namely patience and openness to criticism — which make us ready before we see a monk and discuss the Dhamma with him. Without these two major `interactive' virtues, if the monk should attempt to point out a profound EFTA01162630 truth to us which conflicts with the defilements still lurking in our mind, if too much is demanded of us, instead of improving ourselves, we might flounce away in a huff— the `fool' re-appearing in us because our patience and openness to criticism is insufficient. 302 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Blessing Twenty-Seven: Patience EFTA01162631 303 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 The Place of Blessing Twenty-seven in the order of things Patience is necessary as an interactive virtue because we need to be prepared to overcome many possible obstacles, especially conflicts and temptations, in order to acquire the higher virtues. Patience is one of the most important qualities of mind we can possess. We do meditation the EFTA01162632 whole of our lives to give rise to the wisdom that will allow us to identify and overcome the defilements in the mind — but you could never attain wisdom without a foundation of patience. In fact patience is not only the foundation of wisdom — it is the foundation of every sort of virtue in the world. Thus if we already have a mirror with which we can examine the quality of the mind, the first thing we should be looking EFTA01162633 for is `patience' in the mind. No matter what task we undertake, our success relies not only upon our level of wisdom, but also our patience to apply our wisdom to its intended conclusion. Patience is the virtue allowing us to overcome the temptation to backslide or become dejected instead of being diligent. Instead of seeing obstacles with trepidation, with patience we welcome them as challenges thus every EFTA01162634 success both in spiritual and worldly ways is a monument to the virtue of patience. The Buddha praised patience as one of the greatest virtues, second only to wisdom. B. PATIENCE B.1 Definition: Patience The root meaning of the Pali word for patience, "khanti" literally means maintaining one's normal state — and this would be true no matter whether shaken by tempting or unpleasant EFTA01162635 stimuli — in the face of such obstacles, a patient person remains steadfast. B.2 Characteristics of Patience The characteristics of authentic patience are as follows: I. We can put up with things: If insulted by a fool, one pretends one has not heard. If you are reprimanded for something that is not true or if you are provoked, you pretend not to hear. Some have just given up drinking alcohol and knowing EFTA01162636 that a colleague might intentionally order some liquor and sit down at the same table with the intention of making your mouth water — if you pretend not to see, that is the practice of patience. Patience is to do all the good things you normally do with restraint of speech and mind. It applies especially when someone has done you a favour in the past, but later does something annoying to you. Patience is to EFTA01162637 EFTA01162638 sda7Sgs:a?mJ户i/Inu刃vr,0s ajuaI）℃d :UaAaS-ApuaAi 盎uiss3jfl Jflo人uI saApsmq ssaidxa o) SMaTA in蘸 8UiMOIII iiou '1nqs q1nom inoic d9oj jj蝉U酸 aou9i1ed 人q 'SMaTA asI粤8uonS 人JaA 甲IA笺9uo9mos uoaq S人1Mj 0Aeq U酸8utsoddnS 'iu9ip o1 9pn1qii8 jo iiqap mno人8uI11a8J粤）noqhIA羔II0A撞uIaq1 110J1O1~nuJ1'uoo towards Enlightened Living speech and by continuing to work on yourself — until there are no further traces of such false views even in your thoughts. 2. Avoiding being cruel: One is able to keep one's temper under control — rather than getting angry, violent or threatening. Those who lose their temper easily show a lack in their development of patience. There is a proverb coined by Indra that: EFTA01162639 "Those angry in response to the angry provocation of others are the worse of the two; Those who don't respond angrily to angry provocation have won the battle which is hard indeed to win." (S.i.157) At a more subtle level, avoiding cruelty even means avoiding allowing other things to irritate you — whether it be extravagant people, or working in the hot weather — irritation would EFTA01162640 be a sign that your level of patience is still lacking.There should not even be thought of getting your own back on others who have hurt you in the past. 3. Not bringing tears to others: One avoids bringing suffering or mental hurt to others because of any hatred we might bear towards them. 4. Maintaining joyousness of mind the whole of the time: One should not allow one's mind to EFTA01162641 fall away from contentment — rather than being vengeful or putting the blame on the weather, fate or scapegoats, we should try to do all sorts of work with a mind that is blythe. You look on the bright side of the world, instead of thinking who to blame for hardships — instead of grinding your teeth whenever you are ill thinking, "Why is it always me? Why do others never get ill like me?" EFTA01162642 In addition to all of these you should be interested only to mind your own business — instead of nosing into the affairs of others which don't concern you. Instead of going for instant solutions from fortune tellers, one should get down to hard and honest work to ameliorate the situation through your own abilities. Keeping the Precepts no matter whether others laugh at you or not, would count as patience. Supposing you have EFTA01162643 never meditated before, or you have meditated but have still not attained the Sphere of Dhamma or you are still not able to maintain the Sphere of Dhamma the whole of the time or you are still unable to attain the Dhammakaya — then getting on with our daily practice in spite of what anyone else says, can be counted as patience. B.3 Misunderstandings concerning patience Some may be familiar with effigies EFTA01162644 of three monkies often seen in Asia — one monkey with its hands over his eyes, the second with his hands over his ears and a third with a hand over his mouth. This is a symbol of the ancient proverb advocating patience: "See no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil" Even though this proverb is well known, even the meaning of the three monkies has been twisted in the modern day by those who misunderstand patience. EFTA01162645 They say: "Even if you see evil behaviour turn a blind eye; even if you hear evil speech, pretend you haven't heard; even if you know something evil is going on, keep your mouth shut" Thus various evil actions such as corruption continue unabated as a result of the pseudo-patience of its witnesses. Thus if we are really to understand patience, we have to look carefully at its guiding principles instead of succumbing EFTA01162646 to widespread misunderstandings. Supposing a child is too lazy to study or help around the house. If his mother reprimands him and he is unmoved and indifferent, is that patience? Indeed, it is maintaining one's normal conduct in the face of unpleasant stimuli, but it is not the cultivation of patience. In this case it would be better referred to as stubborness. Supposing some hooligans are normally troublemakers EFTA01162647 and they ignore someone who tells them to stop, carrying on with their normal troublemaking — is that patience? They may say it is the cultivation of patience, but in fact it is more likely to be insensitivity to advice. Supposing someone is so poor that he is about to starve, but instead of helping himself by going out Blessing Twenty-Seven: Patience 305 and earning money, he puts up with the situation EFTA01162648 — calling it patience — In fact, he could show a lot more patience in striving hard to do the necessary to ameliorate his situation. By contrast, patience should be the saving grace that allows one to extricate oneself from truancy, delinquence or poverty. The important characteristic of patience is for as long as you are truly patience it should be on the basis of a radiant mind not a clouded one! True patience is thus: EFTA01162649 • the patience to extract oneself from and avoid all evil — allows you to endure until you can extract yourself from the clutches of evil behaviour • the patience to continue to do all manner of virtuous deeds — allows you to persevere in doing good deeds • the patience to maintain one's mind, not allowing it to become clouded — allows you to keep your mind pure and radiant B.4 Levels of patience EFTA01162650 Patience exists at at least four different levels: I. Patience in theface of hardship: This means endurance of hardships caused by the environment around us — such as the heat of the sun, or the rain. We were born with the sky over our heads and not a roof, so if it rains or the sun is hot then we have to accept it and carry on with our work in the rain or the sun. 2. Patience in theface ofphysical suffering: Everybody EFTA01162651 has physical feelings in their body. All you need to do is sit without moving for a few minutes and you will start to feel stiff. However, some people sit around a gambling table or sit watching a movie all night without moving or complaining — but why when you sit for meditation for a few minutes is it such a grueling experience (?) — only because you lack patience in the face of suffering. EFTA01162652 This category of patience also includes toleration of the suffering implicit in illness. If a person has an illness and they exaggerate their suffering by reveling in it, it is as if they are twice as ill than they need to be. Some people can tolerate all sorts of hardship, but if they see their own blood from a cut in their finger they will scream and cry as if they were going to die. In a hospital EFTA01162653 there were three patients. One was crying out as if in agony and it was discovered that she had lost her ring finger. She couldn't accept her own bad luck because she thought, "I'll never be able to wear a wedding ring any more." The second bed had a patient who was just moaning now and then. She had lost her arm and both legs. At the third bed, all was quiet because the patient had a broken neck. It was EFTA01162654 because of many similar situations that the people of old had the saying, "Don't attend to the patients who cry out loudly first, because they are still a long way from death. Take care of the ones who have no strength to cry out any more — because we have no way of knowing how much longer they will be with us. 3. Patience in theface of conflict (mental suffering): This refers to patience we have EFTA01162655 when confronted by anger, discontent and denial that comes from hearing insulting words, unpleasant treatment or manners, being put under pressure by one's boss or by one's subordinates and various sorts of injustice in society. People in our society are very diverse in their dispositions — thus don't expect everyone to be as you would want in every respect — thus once you EFTA01162656 start to develop the social dimension of your life, if you want to get along with other people, you need to prepare plenty of this sort of patience for yourself. Everybody in the world loves to do exactly whatever they want without taking any notice of any regulations but in fact it just shows that you are lacking this third form of patience. The more people live in a community together, the more EFTA01162657 occasions there will be for conflict. People have different habits, needs and backgrounds and if they don't have the capacity to be tolerant of others' differences then conflicts will soon break out. Even if you possess all the forms of patience already discussed, but you lack patience in the face of conflict, you cannot make a success of life — supposing you resign from a place of work EFTA01162658 every time you get a little bit of criticism? 306 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living 4. Patience in theface of temptation: This means patience to avoid succumbing to attractive or distractive things which maybe you would like to do but which are inappropriate e.g. the patience not to succumb to the temptation of touring night clubs, gambling, addictive drugs, bribery, corruption, promiscuity, EFTA01162659 drunkenness concerning rank or power or boasting etc. This is resistance towards the things that distract us from our real work or purpose for example, to resist the attraction of going on outings, gambling, smoking, drinking or taking drugs. Before you had experience of any of these things, you would have found it easy to resist any of them because you regarded all of them in a negative EFTA01162660 light but whenever you have had your first taste, your capacity to refuse is significantly weakened. Before you knew the rules of poker the whole game seemed very tedious but as soon as you knew how to play, it began to feel more like a way of strengthening friendship, or an aid to mental calculation. Before trying heroin, like the rest of the world you would condemn it, but once you become more familiar EFTA01162661 with it, it suddenly seems more acceptable as a way of enhancing your strength. It might take patience not to accept a bribe. If someone offers you a bribe of a 1,000 or 10,000, you might find it easy to refuse, saying, "What do you think I am a mercenary?" But what if they of fer you 100,000 to keep your mouth shut? You might say, "Personally, I don't have the need of your money, but EFTA01162662 sometimes, I have to help out my employees and their families . . . but both my self-respect and those of my employees are worth more than your money!" When offered a million, there is only one response left — "I'll take it!" As soon as you are put in a position of responsibility, there will be things to tempt you. The sort of patience that you need to overcome this sort of temptation is even more difficult to master than EFTA01162663 patience against conflict. Most people who are already temple-goers already feel indifferent if anyone comes up and insults them — it is not much different than listening to a dog barking. We often congratulate ourselves for being so patient — not getting angry when insulted. However, are you patient enough not to smile when someone praises you? Flattery is specially dangerous for EFTA01162664 young ladies who run away with the first spotty youth to chat them up. This final type of patience is the hardest of all to develop — as in the words of the ancient saying: "Not to be angry when insulted is hard enough — but not to be elated by flattery is harder still" Thus obstacles on all four levels can be overcome by patience. C. CULTIVATING PATIENCE C.1 Training oneself in patience EFTA01162665 Training oneself in patience when one is put in situations of hardship can be easier if one bears the following tips in mind: I. Reflect regularly on one's sense of conscience: When we are fully ashamed of evil [hiri] and fear the consequences of evil [ottappa], patience will automatically arise; 2. Transform negative emotions into positive ones: In the case we are maltreated, by relativizing, and reminding ourselves that things EFTA01162666 could be worse, we can elevate our level of patience in the face of hardship. If they insult you, remind yourself it is better than being beaten by them. If you are beaten by them, remind yourself that it is better than dying at their hands. Some people only like to meditate when they feel it is easy for them to do so. On days when it doesn't seem to be going very well, often they make no attempt to carry EFTA01162667 on with the practice. Such people will be unlikely to make progress, because they refuse to meditate at exactly the time when they need to sit for meditation the most. If you sit for meditation and find it is not going as well as you expected, don't give up. Think instead, "Today all I can see in meditation is pitch darkness well at least that is better than feeling dizzy." And if some days you sit for meditation and you feel EFTA01162668 dizzy, think instead, "today I feel dizzy in meditation — well at least that is better than feeling stiff." And if Blessing Twenty-Seven: Patience 307 some days you sit for meditation and feel stiff, think instead, "Today I feel stiff in meditation — well at least that is better than having a headache." And if some days you sit for meditation and have a headache, think instead, "Today I EFTA01162669 have a headache when meditating — well at least that is better than having a fever." Such an attitude is equivalent to the attitude of a boxer who dodges punches to avoid the painful blows they are intended to cause. 3. Practice meditation regularly: Meditation is the foundation of all sorts of patience. Patience allows our meditation to deepen. As our meditation deepens, our ability to be patient is improved. This EFTA01162670 is why no matter what part of Buddhism you want to study you have to meditate first to prepare the mind. Train yourself in meditation continuously. Patience and meditation are complementary virtues — for patience to be good, there must be a good quality of meditation as its foundation. For meditation to progress, it needs patience as its springboard. Patience is like the left hand and meditation like the right. If the left EFTA01162671 hand gets dirty, it can be washed with the right. If the right hand is dirty it can be washed with the left — and if both are dirty, one can be rubbed against the other to get them both clean. C.2 Turning a blind eye to provocation The Great Abbot of Wat Paknam taught how patience is invaluable for the cultivation of meditation. He taught that you need to: "do as if your eyes are blind like bamboo; EFTA01162672 do as if your ears are as deaf as frying pans; do as if your body is as humble as a doormat-rag; do as if your mind was as steadfast as the earth" The conclusion of his advice is in the order of the above verses: 1. don't go looking at the inappropriate things — for example, don't go looking at the other people who go to the same temple who might annoy you 2. don't go listening to the things EFTA01162673 that are inappropriate — for example, don't go listening to gossip 3. don't look down on even the humblest of work 4. don't allow your mind to be upset by elation or disgust: your mind needs to be like the earth which doesn't recoil no matter whether unpleasant refuse or the most exotic perfume is poured onto it and a mountain remains unshaken in the face of the winds from the four EFTA01162674 directions. If you can follow these four practices, you will soon be able to cultivate patience and other virtues will follow. C.3 Practising patience in theface of injustice Similarly the Great Abbot of Wat Paknam gave a path of practice to victims of injustice. Sometimes you know that you are being maligned — but to lose your temper about it would do nothing to help the situation. Usually such EFTA01162675 injustice is the end product of a longer train of contributing factors which are better dealt with cooly and calmly by such means as new legislation — thus if you find yourself the victim of the end products of injustice rather than letting it spoil your day, you can cultivate patience as follows: I. Never fight back. For example if they insult you, don't insult them in return. If there is a fight there is always a winner and a loser. In EFTA01162676 our case that is never enough because we will settle for nothing less than outright victory. If they put an article of lies about you in the paper, don't go giving an interview to the newspapers instantly. Maybe you should just have a private talk with your boss to let him know the real situation. Don't engage in mud-slinging. Even if you publicize your response in the papers, they may twist your EFTA01162677 words to their own advantage. 2. Never run away. By running away it is like admitting your guilt. 3. Do good deeds continuously. This is the transformative part of our patience. Don't give up but maintain your quality of mind. Don't leave weak spots for your opponents to attack further. The initial accusation is only like the first punch of a boxing match to see how the opponent will open himself up to further EFTA01162678 attacks. `Good' in the worldly sense means carrying on 308 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living with `business as usual'. Do everything according to the book, in case someone looks for fault with your practice. In spiritual ways, don't go relying on others but rely on the merit you have done. Merit is really the thing that helps people win or lose. Thus any morning when you haven't EFTA01162679 given done something generous, don't dare to take breakfast. Any day when you don't intend to keep the Precepts, don't dare to leave the house. Any evening when you haven't done your meditation and chanting, don't dare to go to bed. In that way your goodness will accumulate making you less vulnerable to injustice. If you can manage to follow this advice, before long you will win a victory without bloodshed. It will EFTA01162680 be outright victory and the public sympathy will fall on your side. D. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES D.1 Metaphor: Grass is Patient Despite its small size, the tenacity of grass has allowed it to spread to every corner of the world. In the same way, despite a person's lack of wealth, knowledge or ability, their patience will allow them to train themselves towards happiness and success in life. EFTA01162681 D.2 Ex. KhantivAdE JAtaka (J.313) At a time when the Lord Buddha was still pursuing Perfections as the Bodhisattva, he was born as a hermit. He was meditating in a royal park. That day the king was drunk and came through the forest with his retinue of court ladies. The king fell asleep in the forest, so all the courtiers became bored and instead of attending the king, they went to listen to the teachings of the hermit EFTA01162682 nearby. When the king woke and found himself alone he lost his temper. When he found the courtiers, instead of being angry with his courtiers for leaving him, he became jealous of the hermit for having become the centre of the courtiers' attention. He shouted at the hermit saying, "What's so good about you? — Speak up for yourself if you have any particular virtues to speak of!" The hermit said, "I have the habit of not being EFTA01162683 driven to anger. I train myself in patience." The king said, "That's all I wanted to hear. We'll soon find out where your patience lies!"— and had his attendants whip the hermit a thousand of times. The hermit remained indifferent. He said, "Your majesty, patience is not to be found my skin but in my mind. Even if you were to strip all my skin off you would not find it." The king said, "That's all I wanted to hear. We EFTA01162684 need waste no further time with whipping," and proceeded to cut off the ears, nose, arms and legs of the hermit. The hermit remained indifferent. Of course it would have been agony, but the hermit maintained the quality of his mind, and in spite of the pain he was not angry. Normally, if something hurts our body, it hurts us to our mind, but not in the case of this hermit. Instead of the hermit being angry, it EFTA01162685 was the king who got angry because he couldn't manage to upset the hermit. He stamped on the ground in anger and turned his back on the hermit to leave the park. As he turned, the earth opened up beneath his feet and swallowed him directly into Aveci Hell. The hermit remained alive, but covered in his own blood. The courtiers attended to the hermit's wounds and redressed him. They were afraid the hermit would be angry with EFTA01162686 them — they all said that they only did what they did because the king had ordered them to do so. The hermit replied, "Long live the king and anyone else who decides to cut off my arms, legs, ears and nose. People of the likes of me have no anger left for anyone." D.3 Ex. PuAAovAda Sutta M.iii.267 In the time of the Buddha there was a man called PuAAa who lived in the town of SunAparanta in EFTA01162687 the south of India. At that time the south of India was less developed than the rest of the country. There were even cannibals living in the forests and all the inhabitants had a reputation for their cruelty. Murder was a daily occurrence. PuAAa had been a merchant travelling with his brother to trade in the town of SAvatthE. He had the chance to hear the teaching of the Buddha and was so inspired that he asked to ordain. He tried his EFTA01162688 best in meditation but the foreign climate and the environment was not amenable to his meditation — and he could Blessing Twenty-Seven: Patience 309 make no progress. One day he came to take his leave of the Buddha in order to return to his home country and to try meditating there instead. The Buddha disagreed with his idea reminding him, "Have you forgotten the cruelty of the people in your EFTA01162689 homeland? Will you be able to tolerate the people there?" PuAAa replied, "I can." The Buddha asked, "What will you do if they insult you?" "I will consider that being insulted is better than their beating me with their hands." "And what if they beat you?" "I will consider that being beaten is better than their throwing clods of earth, sticks and stones at me." "And what if they stone you?" EFTA01162690 "I will consider that being stoned is better than their stabbing me with spears and knives." "And what if they stab you with knives and spears?" "I will thank them because some people who want to die have to waste considerable time looking for effective means to take their own lives." The Buddha thus allowed PuAAa to make the journey. Meditating in favourable surroundings, he EFTA01162691 was able to attain arahantship before long, and made an important contribution to spreading Buddhism in that province of cannibals. D.4 Ex. Temiya the Mute Ivi.lff. When the Buddha was still pursuing perfection as the Bodhisattva, he was born as a prince called Temi. Because the king wanted Prince Temi to grow up into a king who was able to take decisions in his place, from the age of six or seven, he would be taken to sit on the king's lap when EFTA01162692 the king had to make serious decisions in court. One day when the prince was eight or nine, he was present in court when the king sentenced a murderer to death by live burning at the stake. Because of the Perfections which the Bodhisattva had cultivated over the course of many lifetimes, the power of his patience and meditation was very well developed. He knew that in his past he had been a king who had ordered EFTA01162693 the death of robbers in exactly the same way and as the result he had spent many lifetimes in hell. He considered that if he grew up to be king again in this lifetime then he would have to order the death of people again in the same way and he would risk going to hell again. Therefore he decided to train himself further in patience. He decided that he would not fall for the temptation of the power of kingship and that he would EFTA01162694 pretend to be mute from that day forth so that he would not be made king by his father and the people of the kingdom. He pretended to have no strength whenever he was in public. He would show no interest either in toys or in sweets that people used to tempt him to cooperate. When he grew up a little more, the king brought young princesses to tempt him. He felt tempted, but relied on the power of meditation he EFTA01162695 had built up for himself since he was young. Eventually, the king and the people lost all hope that he would be king and sentenced him to death. However, at the moment he was to be executed, he demonstrated to the executioner that he had no disability and he had been faking all along — and escaped to become an ascetic instead. When the people of the town found out what had happened, they followed his example and all left the home EFTA01162696 life to become ascetics in the same way. This is the power of the perfection of patience. D.5 Ex. Chica MAAavika During the lifetime of the Buddha, he was falsely accused many times by those who didn't agree with what he was doing. At that time the Buddha overcame his rivals accusations through the use of patience. There once was a woman called Cirica MAAavika who supported ascetic sects. She was EFTA01162697 also a very beautiful woman the local beauty of SAvatthE and also a competitor of VisAkhA. VisAkhA supported Buddhism throughout her life. In that time, they would always invite celebrities to do the opening ceremony for local events. Buddhists would always invite VisAkhA to open their ceremonies.The naked ascetics would always invite Cirica MAAavika to do their openings. One day, because the naked ascetics were losing EFTA01162698 many followers to the Buddha, they enlisted the help of Cirica MAAavika to spread gossip about the Buddha. In 310 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living the evening, when supporters of the Buddha were returning from listening to His teachings at the temple she would pass them in the opposite direction and make it look like she was about to sleep in the kuti of the Buddha. When they asked where she was EFTA01162699 going, she would say, "To bring pleasure to the Buddha." In the morning Cifica MAAavika would pass the supporters who came to offer food in the morning. When they asked where she had been, she would say, "Bringing pleasure to the Buddha."She pretended to be on intimate terms with the Buddha. She faked that she had become pregnant, by wearing a concealed lump of wood over her stomach. Gossip started EFTA01162700 amongst some people who were still unsure of the virtue of the Buddha. Some believed that he had made Cirica MAAavika pregnant. After nine months, many supporters had been put off going to the temple. Cirica MAAavika stood up in the middle of a sermon and asked, "Are you only interested in teaching others rather than paying attention to our unborn child?" If any woman in India made an accusation like this, EFTA01162701 she would be instantly believed. Many people walked out of the temple. The Buddha continued to use patience as his weapon. He said, "Only the two of us know the truth of the situation." He didn't deny or accept the accusation and he was not angry. Cirica MAAavika didn't know what to do. She strode about irritably and somehow the lump of wood slipped out from under her dress. Everyone knew the truth of the situation. EFTA01162702 "Have you given birth to a lump of wood?" some asked — but others were not so forgiving — they were going to kill her. She ran out of the gate of the temple, but as soon as she escaped the temple, the Earth split open between her feet and swallowed her straight into Aveci Hell. In India there are still two holes in the ground close to the historic sight of Jetavana Temple. One where Cirica MAAavika was swallowed EFTA01162703 up — the second belonging to Devadatta. Even to the present day, the soil of those two holes remains infertile to any crops planted on them. D.6 Ex. MAgandiyA In another place, a Queen MAgandiyA hired people to accuse the Buddha because in the past she had been presented to the Buddha as gift and as a monk he was unable to accept the gift. She had felt slighted and later vengeful. When she became EFTA01162704 queen she used her authority to destroy his reputation. Wherever he went, there were hired men by the hundred waiting to insult him. They would follow him wherever he went, insulting him, until his secretary,/nanda could not stand it any more. He suggested to the Buddha that they go to another town. The Buddha asked/nanda, "And what happens if in the next town there are also people coming to EFTA01162705 insult us?" /nanda replied, "We should move on to another town." The Buddha said, "If you think like that, we will be moving for the rest of our lives. Better, when we find the get to the root of the problem and solve the problem at its roots. The roots of our problem are right here in this town. If we do good deeds and nothing but good deeds, within seven days the problems will sort themselves EFTA01162706 out." After seven days, the hired insulters went to get paid. They were supposed to keep their work secret, but when they were paid they spent their money on drink. They were no longer able to keep their silence and started to boast where they had got their money from. When the `cat was out of the bag', the people of that country wanted to execute the MAgandiyA — and that was the end of the story. EFTA01162707 EFTA01162708 oisnqqyq1e人Iiiyyndo IUY 唯A Os 113 0e5a1d o1s1ppnp iuid ourn,)u O1SaW;j1 Tflh1（鲍A OeSS1PflS :（乙cz'qq) 甲9AOJd 35NPPnHa'I1 JO SpJOMaq3 UT SV "91do9d Jaq3O O3Utq3 S9Aj9SJflO o1 3u~J1dd1 ss9j oii s1jmj mo jo Auitn9snioaq usI0uuo o1 u9do9q o1 p99u9M 睛碑竿疖viapvio a裤碑7犁却7一瘫iianj s?U!SS刃s户ad勿daijj i.V NOII〕〕00粗lNI'V : in 锣？m.' oi ssa犯ddO :7幼8御一心uaMI8饪？ssa7g Attano pana chAdeti kaliO va kitava saEho Easily seen are the faults of others but one's own are difficult to see Like chaff one winnows another's faults but tends to hide one's own Even as a crafty fowler hides behind sham branches — just like a fish born and raised in the water might never know what `water' is — we are sometimes so used to our faults that we fail to notice them. Thus we need to rely upon outsiders to offer their EFTA01162709 criticism to us in order that we can know the weaknesses we must improve upon. In this respect, we start to appreciate that the acquisition of higher virtues requires more than just the four levels of patience described in the Blessing Twenty-seven, namely: 1. Patience in the face ofphysical hardship: working on normally despite rain, hot or cold weather; 2. Patience in the face ofphysical EFTA01162710 suffering: working on normally despite illness or pain; 3. Patience in the face of conflict: working on normally despite having to avoid conflict; 4. Patience in the face of temptation: working on normally despite the ever-present temptation of things like bribes which we might like but know are not good for us; indeed, what we need to bring the higher virtues to their fruition is the additional sort of patience that allows us to receive (instead of EFTA01162711 refusing) the criticism offered to us by others. In fact, the openness to criticism (or not being stubborn) which is the subject of this Blessing, is like another subtle form of patience — but is patience in the face of criticism. Some people can tolerate all forms of physical hardship, physical suffering, mental anguish and temptation, but if anyone gives them a piece of advice they will turn their back on the person EFTA01162712 who gives them it. When it is close to examination time, a parent might warn their child, "Son! Isn't it about time you started doing your revision?" The son turns round and says, "Why don't you say such things before I dress up to go out?" If his little brother gives him advice, even if it is useful advice, Blessing Twenty-Eight • Openness to Criticism EFTA01162713 312 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living he will not listen— why? — because how can someone younger than him have the cheek to talk in such a way? In this respect, the Buddha taught: "Those who tolerate criticism from superiors do so out of fear; those who tolerate criticism from equals do so to compete; but those who tolerate criticism from subordinates; the Noble ones praise as the ultimate of EFTA01162714 patience." SarabhaIga JAtaka (J.522) Who is the most stubborn person in the world? In fact everybody in the world has the seeds of stubborness in them, but it's just a question of degree. The sound of advice seems to singe their ears so badly that they never listen to such things. Thus we come to `openness to criticism' as the twentyeighth step on the staircase of Buddhist practice. B. OPENNESS TO CRITICISM EFTA01162715 B.1 Definition: Openness to Criticism In the original Pali, openness to criticism uses the word `sovacassata' — literally, someone who learns easily and is gentle in response to teaching. When a person of knowledge teaches them something useful out of compassion, they will follow the advice given with respect and humility — without `ifs' or `buts' or answering back. Thus if they are taught something, they start by listening EFTA01162716 — then they do what they have been advised without showing reluctance but thinking of the compassion of that person to have taken the trouble to give a piece of advice. B.2 Characteristics of those open to criticism The characteristics of someone who is open to criticism are as follows: I. Doesn't answer back when warned or given advice. Some people will immediately criticize someone back as soon as they hear EFTA01162717 EFTA01162718 PuV,, `spioh箋9q1imAn N3eq JaAASUB 9UTOS .LlinT3J UT aa!tpv atp a u atig svti mot uovad dill 1M'4 jinni oi 缸。？7錳Nu!。錳s11H .E iUaAT8 a arnpu O11.1311I UTeLIT9J 人3q1 U9TIAN a 0U9ed 8 tusTliald aJ A91.11 A S a tLIOS ？*tin) lid呷g um/,14 Ind fr ap v lo 鯉11!41 *Z xlInumu Imm 9pinpu 1 NIa001 lnq ' 9pup U AT8 9Je 人Oq1 U9TIM S0ST10X3 0VILI JO UMlOJ UT 1S31OJd 1Ou 1IIM Aop. 0tuOAoickumOs 0 Os Aip a.1 ST uos.iod 1 J1 .ootApi Jo SpJOM Ak3j U are you so superior as to expect to criticize me in that way?" Or "How come you are the only person to say such a thing?" If someone doesn't accept advice in such a way, it doesn't make any difference to the person who gives the advice. They only bothered to say it out of compassion for the listener! 4. Facilitatefurther teaching: they will follow the advice, acting on what they have EFTA01162719 been told in a way that will give the advisor the encouragement to pass on further advice to them, if the need arises, in the future. 5. Having the highest respect for what they have been taught andfor the person who has given the advice: Some people follow the advice they have been given with reluctance. However, if someone is really open to criticism, they will not even show reluctance because EFTA01162720 they will be afraid of showing disrespect towards what has been taught and the person who has given the advice. In fact, anyone who had come to give us advice, is taking a big risk because they know that they might not meet with a favourable response if they give someone a piece of personal advice — and yet they still give it. When someone is criticized, usually they have not even EFTA01162721 thought whether the criticism is true or false, they must first express some resistance to the criticism. This is the sign of an untrained mind. Thus a well trained person will pause to consider the value of teachings received instead of immediately thinking, "How dare they criticize me?" or "Who are they to criticize me?" If they are even better trained, not only will they consider whether what they have been EFTA01162722 taught is true or not — they will show their enthusiasm to hear criticism, no matter whether the criticism received is true or not. They think instead, "What a great risk this person has taken in giving me some criticism — look at how they have singled me out for special attention — so I had better be quick to thank them for their good intention." 6. Will show the greatest humility: They will reBlessing EFTA01162723 Twenty-Eight: Openness to Criticism 313 spond to criticism without expressing stubbornness and without pretending as if they already knew better. 7. They will express their happiness and gratitude at having received advice: In the time of the Buddha, they would express appreciation with the word ' SAdhu'. For people really interested in training themselves, receiving criticism is like EFTA01162724 an elixir for the mind. They feel really thankful to the critic to the degree that they will thank that person immediately. However for a stubborn person, when they receive criticism which is correct and they know it, the words `thank you' seem to get stuck in their throat. 8. Follow the advice to an appropriate extent. Supposing someone points out the reality of a situation. "Why at your age and EFTA01162725 your time of life are you still unable to support yourself? Why are you still gambling every day? When your children grow up and see you like this, what will they think?" Really, what that person has said is out of goodwill for the listener — but if they are stubborn they will respond, "And what about you then and who are you to speak when you drink alcohol every day?" EFTA01162726 Even if what the critic says is not 100% true, if we are on the receiving end of the criticism must temporarily forget their bad points in order to help ourselves open up to their advice. Rather than continuing to err just to prove our point, once we know we are in the wrong, we accept this and do what is right according to the Dhamma. 9. Has acceptable and polite behaviour: Anyone EFTA01162727 who is open to criticism must resist the temptation to burst into a tantrum or be unpleasant to the person giving the advice; 10. Must listen with intent to all sides of advice given without answering back and should even go so far as to invite that person to speak up again if ever they notice anything else in their behaviour which needs improvement. They will not be afraid of being embarrassed by knowledge EFTA01162728 of their faults — because the character of a wise man is never to suffice as to new knowledge. Thus if someone gives you some advice you could think to yourself, `thank you' because it has been worthwhile keeping friendship with you, or paying respect to you as an elder member of my family etc. etc. 11. Tolerant even to advice that comes in the form of unpleasant speech: we have to accept that EFTA01162729 we have not yet come to an end of defilements. Sometimes someone has already carefully explained something to us, but we are unable to follow what they have said. Sometimes we are not smart enough to grasp what they mean. Sometimes, the person who gives us the advice might already be irritated or in a bad mood. Sometimes they might speak a little harshly or use comparisons that are a little EFTA01162730 direct. If any of the case, then you should still be patient and not be angry as a result. B.3 Characteristics of those open to criticism For ease of remembering, these eleven headings can be summarized down to three main characteristics of those open to criticism being able to: I. Hear out criticism: Someone who doesn't even hear out others have to say is very stubborn. 2. Follow advice: Some people EFTA01162731 EFTA01162732 9uoamos.ioJ9ad i iqpazI3I1IJ。 JT 蝕）e1I弭 qIIIA气 lnq rn q1ueq1ioTuasaioIu uosi~ 1 !flOJJ uisi。Ijuo apto9Jddt91do9da uos .9 DTAp19q1S9AT8 OqAt uosi9d 唧JO8 UTpUi)S JeI0OS 9AI1eI9Jaq1 l~qA羔J911euI。N :a1ltpv a／缸a呷》 ，鈕跬。siad si 軍 otj a移戶///HpOOY di/J aj契dalddV uioqqns 仰./111/SIuoSJ9dei3ns .U9AT8 o0tAp1aq1 MOjj蝕J9A9U i91.J1T nq 'a3u11s1SaJ 1cue8uISsaJdX91noq1IA羔I-USIDI1IJ0 圃 uoistj o) uoI1uo1p Aid like their husband or wife. Such a person is not entirely open to criticism. Some people accept and follow advice given to them by seniors and peers but if someone younger or subordinate offers them advice, it is too much for them. They lose face and so cannot accept advice. If you are put in such a situation and you still feel irritated, try biting your lip instead of criticizing them in return. You will build up a EFTA01162733 habit of being a good listener to such advice which will start to become part of your personality. At first, if you prevent yourself from criticizing them in return but 314 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living can still not bring yourself to follow their advice — at least you keep the channel open to improvement in the future. At first you may have no inkling of appreciation for the goodwill of that person. However, EFTA01162734 if over the course of time, you can prevent yourself criticizing them in return and can follow their advice too, before long you will start to see through to the goodwill of that person too. B.4 Ulterior motivesfor being open to criticism It is rare to find someone who can genuinely take criticism on board. However, saying that, that someone accepts criticism doesn't automatically mean that they are motivated by EFTA01162735 self-improvement — they may have an ulterior motive. Not to be able to distinguish between the openness to criticism and `pseudo' openness to criticism can potentially be very misleading. Thus when dealing observing our own or others' responses to criticism, we should make a clear distinction between the negative and positive sorts of openness to criticism: 1. Materially-motivated: some people make themselves very obsequious because they seek EFTA01162736 for something material in return. Why are some children so obedient? You will see why after they receive the legacy from their parents. Once received if they lose their original obsequiousness, it is a sign that they were only obedient for the money. Some people are stubborn by nature, but they will change their tune whenever they are close to influential people (but only for as long EFTA01162737 as they have the chance of being promoted). Really such people are not open to criticism — they are only compliant to your face but behind your back they will behave differently. 2. The gullible: Such people look compliant and obedient but the reason is not through intention. They are obedient because they lack any intelligence to think for themselves. Usually they lack any initiative of their own and will do anything EFTA01162738 they are told to do. You might chase them off to school, and they will obediently listen to the teacher for hours at a time without understanding a word. If you tell them to go to school they go. If a friend tells them to skip school then they play truant. They will do whatever the last person they meet has told them to do. They tend to lack any aim in life because they lack the wisdom to see the need for one in fact EFTA01162739 they lack any confidence in themselves. 3. Spiritually motivated: only this last category are such people who want to improve themselves without limit. Thus any criticism is taken as treasure that will help them towards the goal of perfection. Only this last category is open to criticism for purposes corresponding to the Manual of Peace. Thus in practice, if you have those close to you, or EFTA01162740 subordinates who seem to be compliant and obedient, you need to ask yourself what motivates them to be so. Is it because they want to run off with your daughter? If this is the case, as soon as they get her hand in marriage, they might never lift a finger to help you again. So be careful not to be fooled by such behaviour. C. STUBBORNNESS C.1 Categories of stubbornness There are basically three categories of stubborn people EFTA01162741 in the world: I. stubborn because of ignorance: their intelligence doesn't allow them to see the value of the advice they are being given. Sometimes, they might not only be ignorant — they may be too lazy to change. For such people it is not worth devoting too much effort to encouraging them to change. Such people are stubborn without realizing it. 2. stubborn because of intransigent views: In fact EFTA01162742 they are very intelligent people, but only intelligent in the materials they have studied. There may be many more things that they do not yet know or understand. They don't realize the limits of their knowledge or the gaps in their experience. They think they already know everything there is to know. Many such people have high IQ and always get the best results in the class. Such success gives rise to the EFTA01162743 feeling that `I'm the cleverest and beyond criticism'. Such people get their first class honours degree, but when they try to apply their talents in the workplace may die in the effort. They are unable to accept advice from anyone else so those who have the Blessing Twenty-Eight: Openness to Criticism 315 potential to help them `leave them to their ignorance'. They leave them to learn from their own EFTA01162744 mistakes. Such people will meet with disaster, as the result of their own inability to listen to others. 3. stubborn because short-tempered: these will lose their temper upon hearing the slightest thing they disagree with. It is very hard to eke any sort of cooperation from such people. They are likely to cause disharmony in any group. We will further examine the practical ways of dealing with the first two sorts of EFTA01162745 stubbornness in §D.3 below. C.2 Reasonsfor stubbornness Some people think that training oneself to be sensitive to self-improvement should be simple. All you have to do is to stop being stubborn — but that is easier said than done. You have to ask yourself what is the root of the damage in a stubborn person. What is the reason for stubborness in people (so that we can get rid of it)? MahAmoggallAna Thera taught EFTA01162746 in the AnumAna Sutta how sixteen possible sorts of traits can create stubbornness in the face of criticism (M.i.95-7): I. Determination to do evil [pApiccho hoti pApilcAnaO icchAnaO]: Some people will wish for success in the most evil things (like stealing Buddha images from temples or smuggling heroin). Such determination to do evil will make them evil for the whole of their life. It EFTA01162747 sounds very extreme but even normal people suffer from it now and then when we think `just this once we'll make them sorry'. At that time the seeds of stubborness are creeping into the mind. 2. Overestimation of oneself [attukaO sako hoti paravambhi]: When we think we are superior to everyone else, then again it is a root of stubborness. Again you will listen to no-one EFTA01162748 3. Losing one's temper easily [kodhano hoti kodhAbhibhEto]: If you know you have this tendency then you must bite your lip if ever you are criticized in case you lose your temper with the person giving you advice or else you will have no second chance of a helping hand. 4. Vengefulness [kodhano hoti kodhAhetu upanAhE]: Not only angry with others — but even long after the event still EFTA01162749 harnessing a grudge for that person even though it is so long ago you cannot even remember who that person is. Thus, if you are angry, never let it last overnight. To be angry for no longer than it takes to drink a glass of cool water. 5. Inability to control oneself when angry [kodhano hoti abhisalgE]: Not being able to control your gestures with your angry. e.g. stamping or tearing one's hair out, EFTA01162750 or spitting or slamming doors. If you meet anyone like this don't waste time giving them advice. 6. Those who have to have the last word if criticized [kodhano hoti kodhasAmantaO vAcaO nicchAretA]: unable to control what they say when criticized. 7. Those who have an excuse for everything [cudito codakena codakaO paEippharati]: a person who is asked to sit politely EFTA01162751 when in the temple will find an excuse for doing whatever they like, for example "If you want to learn the Dhamma you have to be comfortable in body and mind, so if I want to stretch my legs however I want, don't come interfering in something that is none of your business." If you meet such people, don't waste time trying to change their ways — however, if you recognize EFTA01162752 the same habits in yourself, get rid of such habits without delay. 8. Those who give others the brush-off [cudito codakena codaka0 apasAdeti]: Whenever someone tries to give such a person advice, they chase them away saying that they have no time to listen to such talk. 9. Those who find a callous way of answering back [cudito codakena codakassa paccAropeti]: who will always find a way of EFTA01162753 answering back to the person who gives them advice in a way that will hurt them. They will say something like, "Don't go worrying about me — use your time more usefully and worry about the state of your own husband." Instead of accepting advice and showing enthusiasm to follow it — they ignore the advice and go 316 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living further by using the advice as the EFTA01162754 excuse to hurt the person who has helped them with the best of intention. Or maybe, "I may have my weaknesses and faults but at least I manage to keep control of my own husband...". 10. Those who change the subject to avoid speaking about the matter [cudito codakena aririen' arifiaO paEicaroti bahiddhA kathaO apanAmeti, koparica, dosarica appaccayarica pAtukaroti]: They cannot refuse EFTA01162755 the accusation so they change the subject instead. 11. Those who become suspicious of the person who advises them [cudito codakena apadAne na sampAyati] 12. Those who persecute anyone who tries to advise them in order to hide their faults [makkhE hoti paOAsE]: In Buddhism monks have to confess their faults so that there is nothing left secret. Suspicion will not arise in a community. EFTA01162756 If faults are kept hidden the perpetrator will end up with anxious neuroses. 13. Those who like mudslinging [issukE hoti maccharE]: or glossing over favours received from others in order to make themselves look superior. 14. Those who are jealous [saEho hoti mAyAvE]:this extreme form of selfishness makes one narrow minded to the extent that you are unable to receive advice from anyone else in case EFTA01162757 they look better than you when you admit your faults 15. Those who are boasting and arrogant [thaddho hoti atimAnE]: because they feel they are already superior to others. They bring a needle to offer the monks and boast about it until it becomes a crate of needles or Cleopatra's Needle. 16. Someone who has views which deviate severely from reality [sadiEEhiparAmAsE hoti EFTA01162758 AdhAriagAhEduppatinissaggt]: They might think, "Our parents ought to be thanking us for all we have done for them. If it wasn't for us, they would have died of loneliness in their old age" or else "Generosity just makes the recipients lazy." With such thoughts in mind, they will not be able to benefit from advice all their lives — as if the compass in their minds has malfunctioned. Like all of these qualities, all of EFTA01162759 these are the starting point of stubbomess that will make us unable to correct our weaknesses. D. CULTIVATING OPENNESS TO CRITICISM D.1 Correction of stubborn habits for monks The Buddha taught that monks should improve themselves by inviting others [pavaraAa] to give their criticism, whatever their relative rank or status. In the rainy season, when Buddhist monks stay in the same place for three months EFTA01162760 when travel is inconvenient. At the end of the rainy season retreat (lent) the Buddha made it monastic discipline that all the monks in the temple should meet together and make the invitation to one another to invite the other monks to correct each others behaviour out of goodwill for one another and for the rest of the community. The words of the ceremony areas follows: "If any of you have seen, heard or suspected EFTA01162761 any behaviour of mine that is unpleasant in any matter, please inform me of such err ors out of compassion, so that I might realize my own faults and be more careful of my behaviour in future." Every monk from the abbot of the temple to monks newly ordained that day must participate in the ceremony. D.2 Correction of stubborn habits for laypeople If you are not a monk, but a EFTA01162762 layperson, there are nonetheless many ways in which you can help to make yourself more open to criticism: I. Reflect on the harm you bring to yourself by your obstinacy: If you realize that you are closing the door on useful advice others might have for you like a paralytic person surrounded by useful objects, none of which he can reach. Even if a person is surrounded by the wise he can gain EFTA01162763 nothing from any of them. 2. Reflect that criticism is hidden treasure: Reflect upon the Buddhist proverb that `he who gives us personal advice and criticism is he who points the way to treasure.' 3. Train yourself in respect so that you try to see the good points about others instead of the bad Blessing Twenty-Eight: Openness to Criticism 317 points. Whatever criticism you might receive from others, extend a heart of EFTA01162764 gratitude towards them, because the trouble they have taken to criticise us shows that they have high expectations of us — think like this even if you don't agree 100% with what they have criticised you for — hear out their criticism instead of rushing to answer them back or pick a fight with them. 4. Open the opportunity for others to criticise you: In the same way as monks invite others to criticize EFTA01162765 one another, members of the same family can invite criticism from one another from time to time. If children are trained in such a way from an early age, then they can avoid collecting the sixteen damaging traits before they develop and they can avoid the disadvantages of stubbornness in later life. 5. Meditate often and regularly: If we can train our mind to the point of radiance and steadfastness, EFTA01162766 EFTA01162767 J9 1U.1 S8 op o) paJap.m 9q 1 iajaid 9ido9d Lions :aduitioub)! ignovitil uioqqnis Ain ‘租asou 7 :A.102a1U3 aUO U1甲 9.1OLU 3U1O0 aloqqms 9tp IM1 198J饵 aA9U '9ido9d ujoqqms q1Trn 3iionA oii 0m q no人 ji agoad 竿o户ssauutoqqms dip lifitt Ywinda s'a 'sass9LIT aAk IeUOS.1ad .1 O 9AO.1dUIT O1 palldde 9q In 0 0Dive Lions MOq 8UI30S &Tali1o Aq sn 1 uam8 a0TApe i. uo AtasTA簋）Douai 1sn moiIe IITAN IT than to hear reasons for things. Don't bother giving reasons for things which are not appreciated because it is about as much use as playing a flute for the benefit of a buffalo; 2. Those who are stubborn because of their views: such people prefer not to be ordered around — but rather to be given reasons, explanations and choices for the things you would like them to help with. If they are not too entrenched in their EFTA01162768 own views, given a good reason, before long they will want to comply but if their views are extremely rigid, you will have to let them do what they insist and be there to give compassionate advice when they start to realize their own mistakes.As for the `stubborn by view' in fact they are already quite clever, but only in the limited areas they know. They are like a frog at the bottom of a well that thinks it EFTA01162769 knows the whole of the world because it already knows the bottom of a well. If you are a boss with stubborn people if this type working for you and even after ordering them and teaching them they still do not respond, you may have to punish them (e.g. by reducing their salary). Failing that you might use the punishment of shunning them known in Buddhist tradition as the `BrahmadaMa EFTA01162770 treatment'. Thus now that we know the qualities of a person sensitive to self-improvement, we can examine ourselves for these qualities so that if ever we receive advice or criticism from someone else, we will get benefit from them: listening without criticism in return; reflecting on the criticism; following the advice; getting an appropriate benefit from following the practice and eventually appreciating the goodwill EFTA01162771 EFTA01162772 8uunod am ST SANa TA aSIEJ JO asnroaq Tiloqqms UOSJad e O1 amp 'J0A0/1/1OH '4Insai alp s℃le9 ol suloanismu maje la8 lSEaI 1p 1i8TUT noic ) g (ssaiasn 'a'!) 'dump awlI 8uuo筚A鳘 0瓠II sT kiIptdms Aq u.loqqms uosiad e o1 °owe 21 琅 pu s pp jo ardoad aqi ・sllej U笆qi. 0.1OU1 sassed oq 鳘 auo9mos oluinasinoX doTanap O2 ame aq Illm noK `uopeuunexa ue ssed o1 pa5pLULU I 0A0U OqM 0UO0LUOS MOJA 'UOSi0d TUT JO water on a dog. The dog doesn't get wet but will shake itself until everyone around it is wet instead. Such a stubborn person will accept no advice and instead they will turn the criticism back on the person giving the advice, by answering back. E. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES E.1 Proverb: Criticism like hidden treasure (Dh. 76) NidhEnaO' va pavattAraO yaO passe EFTA01162773 EFTA01162774 11OI12J3OSS℃ UE qons o隼Amno o）'0&TOM J0A0U pUI Jonoci ski mo sJ 1.1 `arnsR uoppiq . uz pauavgyug spdvevio; s'dajggs :advadfo ivnum V gi-E opInW e pinom ouo se `uosiod snoiai 8℃s pm osTm ℃ qons MOIIOj LUII4 1.01 `S0AOJC10.1 oqm pue slInej slmod oqm e putj ouo moils o人Idyd I u nog ofAos 'Rsseuruereqg QisI'Atm Q笆1ITy d ℃sIpyi. O IINA q人I 88IU 'O1 UISSI peffen E.2 Metaphor: Frog at the bottom of a well A stubborn person who doesn't open themselves to criticism is like a frog living at the bottom of a well who has never had the chance to see the world from any other perspective. No matter how many people might come along and point out how much better the world is outside the well, such words are lost on the frog who through his lack of experience always assumes he knows better. EFTA01162775 E.3 Metaphor: Paralyzed by Stubbornness The people of old compared a stubborn person to someone who has been paralyzed. Even though all round him there may be delicious food, beautiful clothes and many other useful things, they are all useless to that person because the paralyzed person is unable to pick them up. In the same way, if a person is stubborn, even though they might have an arahant for a teacher, are unable EFTA01162776 to absorb any of the goodness of that person. E.4 Ex. JEvaka heals King Candappajjota (Vin.268-81) In the time of the Buddha King Candappajjota of Ujjeni could not be healed by anyone in his own kingdom, so he sent a letter to King BimbisAra asking him to send the court physician JEvaka KomArabhacca to take care of him. Normally in the treatment, the patient must swallow ghee to be EFTA01162777 cured. In this case, the patient stubbornly refused treatment because in his religion, they prohibited the eating of dairy products. JEvaka considered the condition of the king would be helpless if he didn't take ghee, so he make what may have been the world's first `capsule' by concealing the ghee inside a digestible husk. JEvaka knew that after halfan- hour, the medicine would give its effect and the king would regurgitate the ghee. EFTA01162778 Besides being cured, the king would know that he had been fooled by the doctor. JEvaka administered the ghee capsule to the king and immediately asked for the king's fastest elephant to go looking for additional herbs. The king granted his request and JEvaka made a quick get-away, without any intention to return. When the king regurgitated the ghee and knew he had been fooled, he ordered his soldiers EFTA01162779 to pursue and kill JEvaka, but JEvaka was long gone on a swift elephant and they could not catch him. The king was angry all day and all night, but within a few days he was cured of his illness, and changed his attitude to JEvaka , even sending him a reward of sEveyyaka cloth to thank him for his attention. The king made an effort to change his stubborn personality from that day onwards. E.5 Ex. RAdha Thera DhA.ii.104ff. EFTA01162780 There was one day in the town of RAjagaha, the Lord Buddha was staying at VeOuvana Temple and SAriputta was there also. An aged Brahmin called RAdha who had been shunned by his wife, family and in-laws because he was not very wealthy. They abandoned RAdha instead of looking after him in his old age. He didn't want to bother anyone unduly so he thought of becoming a Buddhist monk for the final days of his life. None EFTA01162781 of the monks in the temple were interested to take responsibility for his ordination because they saw that he was already old and would only be a burden on the temple. Noone would give him ordination. The Buddha asked if there was not a single monk in the temple who had received benefit from this Brahmin in the past. SAriputta spoke up and said that once a long time ago RAdha had given him a ladleful of rice when EFTA01162782 he was on almsround. The Buddha therefore asked SAriputta to help out RAdha on this occasion. SAriputta ordained RAdha and allowed him to stay in the same kuti teaching him meditation and the teachings of the Buddha. RAdha practised hard and possessed the quality of being sensitive to self-improvement. He never thought of looking down on the teachings of a much younger monk. He practised everything he was taught. There EFTA01162783 was no hesitation or doubt in his mind. If he was asked to use the mantra `SammA-ArahaO' and think of a Buddha image that was exactly what he did. He was not like some people who sit and think, "How can it be possible that we can imagine something and see it?" or "How could there ever be brightness inside?" or "The mind has the nature to think, what's the use of trying not to think?" or "Surely the teachBlessing EFTA01162784 Twenty-Eight: Openness to Criticism 319 ing monk is making it up as he goes along?" like most people. RAdha did exactly what was asked of him. SAriputta was a young monk who could sit for meditation for five to ten hours at a time. Even though RAdha was seventy, he would still sit together with SAriputta without worrying about stiffness. RAdha thought, "After all, I have made the effort to become a monk, so what EFTA01162785 is there to be feared about meditation when I have left behind everything else?" and after three days was able to become an arahant. E.6 Ex. BrahmadaAIa punishment of Channa DhA.11.110ff In the time of the Buddha, when he left the palace to ordain, he went together witha horseman called Channa. Channa also ordained at that time, but from that day to the time when the Buddha entered EFTA01162786 Parinirvana, he could make no progress in the teachings of Buddhism. The reason for this is that he would selfishly do whatever he felt like doing and would ignore the advice of all the other monks in the community. He would be so proud of the fact that he had accompanied the Buddha when he renounced the palace that he thought that the whole of Buddhism should thank him for it. He was not ready to listen to anyone's EFTA01162787 criticism because he saw them all as ungrateful. He would listen to no-one but the Buddha himself. However, the Buddha didn't have enough time to give Channa personal attention, so he ended up as a stubborn monk. /nanda asked the Buddha "What can we do with this monk because if you should ever enter upon parinibbAna, there will be no-one left who can do anything to help this monk." The Buddha said, "You must EFTA01162788 perform the BrahmadaAla punishment." /nanda asked, "How can we do that?" The Buddha explained, "From now on, whatever Channa wants to do let him do it. Whatever he wants to say let him say it. Shun him by treating him as if he wasn't there and don't speak to him or do anything to co-operate with him." When the Buddha passed away, all the monks did what the Buddha had instructed EFTA01162789 and within a very short period of time Channa became like an outcast in the community. Charma came grovelling to /nanda saying, "Please be a refuge to me — I will stop being stubborn." All the monks had a meeting and decided to forgive him. As a result of everyone treating him in the same way, he could soon realize his mistake and change his ways. If you have a stubborn child in the family, the parents EFTA01162790 can use the same technique of punishment. However, if your parents are stubborn, as children you should not try using this technique or maybe you will be punished yourself! Even in schools or places of work might adapt this for their own use. E. 7 Ex. Sariputta criticizedfor a squint underrobe (SA.ii.29, Mil.397) SAriputta's humility was as great as his patience. He was willing to receive correction from anyone, EFTA01162791 not only with submission, but with gratitude. It is told in the commentary to the SusEma Sutta that once through momentary negligence, a corner of the elder's under-robe was hanging down. A sevenyear old novice, seeing this, pointed it out to him. SAriputta stepped aside a once and arranged the garment in the proper way and then stood before the novice with folded hands saying "Now it is correct, teacher!" and said the following EFTA01162792 verses: "If one who has gone forth this day, at the age of seven should teach me, I accept it with a lowered head. At the sight of him, I show my zeal and respect. May I always set him in the teacher's place." 320 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Blessing Twenty-Nine: The Sight of a True Monk 321 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 The place of Blessing EFTA01162793 Twenty-nine in the order of things With this blessing we come to the twenty-ninth step of Buddhist practice — that of `the sight of a true monk'. We find that all that patience and openness to criticism developed in earlier blessings together with `seeing a true monk' in this blessing will be a foundation to prepare us to discuss spiritual teachings with a monk (the topic of the next blessing). A.2 The Objectives of the EFTA01162794 Twenty-ninth blessing The objectives of this blessing are as follows: I. to make ourselves worthy of discussing the Dhamma with a monk: a monk is an ordained person who has no need of anything from anyone. He has no interest in fame or social standing. If anyone cannot be sufficiently patient to listen to what he has to say, then why should he bother to teach them? Even if you were to conduct EFTA01162795 yourself towards him in a pleasant way, his main priority is to attain liberation from the world, training himself in the forest. Thus, if you were to conduct yourself in an inappropriate way, it would be an unattractive prospect indeed for him to teach you; 2. to understand by example the meaning of Dhamma we have not yet experiencedfor ourselves: with higher virtues, if you just say `such EFTA01162796 and such a virtue' is good in `such and such a way', it brings the listener no closer to understanding it. You always need to give an example. Supposing you tell someone, "Keeping the Five, Eight, Ten or 227 Precepts will make your mind cheerful." If someone had never heard of the Precepts, they would disagree immediately because 227 Precepts looks like a way of removing all the cheerfulness from life. To EFTA01162797 the uninitiated, the more Precepts you have, the less life has to offer. To them, cheerfulness is equated with keeping no Precepts, because you can do exactly what you want — you can drink liquor and you don't need to be faithful to your wife any more. They would argue that keeping no Precepts would certainly be more cheerful. They have seen only cheerful drunks, night-club singers, EFTA01162798 dancers and boxing crowds. Thus if you say keeping the Precepts makes you cheerful, they might accuse you of lying. However, the day such a person meets a monk keeping 227 Precepts who is peaceful and has a radiant complexion and who speaks politely, they will realize, "Yes, the monk is cheerful too", but it may be a sort of cheerfulness they have never encountered before. However, if someone never EFTA01162799 met such a monk before, there is no way they would believe in the capacity of the Precepts to make people happy; 3. to recognize a monk able to benefit us with his teaching: Part of the objective of this blessing is to allow us to recognize a good monk when we see one and at the same time to avoid being Blessing Twenty-Nine: EFTA01162800 The Sight of a True Monk 322 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living taken in by those masquerading as monks. We mustn't overlook qualities that make someone a `true monk', otherwise, we run the risk of meeting a monk without recognizing him as did the main character `Kamanita' of the novel of K.A. Gjellerup's (1906-Danish/1907-German) EFTA01162801 classic Der Pilger Kamanita, who searched high and low for the Buddha, hoping the Buddha would heal his broken heart. One night he met an old monk and sat talking to him all night because the monk seemed to be able to answer all of his questions. The next morning he bade farewell to the monk and continued in his search for the Buddha, without realizing that the monk he had been talking EFTA01162802 to all night was the Buddha himself. Even when at the end of his life he was gored to death by a bull, he still didn't realize who he had been speaking to! Thus, so you don't make the same mistake as Kamanita, we must instead study this twenty-ninth Blessing of the MaIgala Sutta. B. SEEING A TRUE MONK B.1 Definition: The True Monk The definition of the word a true monk means `peaceful one.' However, because EFTA01162803 we tend to translate in a haphazard way, we had better compare the translations of a few similar words: • Pabbajita': This word means `an ordained person' i.e. a person who has gone forth into the homeless life. They will not marry and have decided to remain single and to spend their time training themselves in discipline meditation instead. A `pabbajita' can belong to any religion, EFTA01162804 not necessarily Buddhist. • Thildchu': This term means a certain sort of `pabbajita' in Buddhism who is an almsman and must practice the `Dhammas of a Peaceful One' according to the regulations laid down by the Lord Buddha. • `SAmaAera': This term means a novice — which is also a type of `pabbajita', but they are usually of child's age (9-20) or are still a postulant. Even those who wear white to EFTA01162805 practice Eight Precepts in the temple are also a type of ordinand but of a precursory sort. Buddhist nuns are also a form of ordinand. In the Chinese religions such as Taoism, there are also ordinands with their own training regulations — and they would also be called `pabbajita'. By comparison, the word `samana' should be reserved for bhikkhus who really practice the `Dhammas of a Peaceful One' to EFTA01162806 the point that they are peaceful in body, speech and mind. A `samana' is a monk whose body, speech and mind are already well-trained and is hereafter referred to as a `true monk'. Just because a person shaves their head and dons robes doesn't automatically make him a `true monk' — because there are some monks, unfortunately to say, who have a daily regime which consists of no more than eating, sleeping and EFTA01162807 watching the television. Such monks are hardly worthy of being called a true monk — they can be considered more like `trainee monks'. They are no more than `bhikkhus'. You have to be careful about your definition of a a true monk because if you pick the wrong sort of monk, (e.g. trainee monks who are still fighting over almsfood) you will find it hard ever to see why seeing such monks could ever be a EFTA01162808 blessing. In cases where you see monks doing unsuitable things, you should remind yourself that they are just trainees, but not yet true monks. For the purposes of this Blessing, seeing a monk, is to see a monk of the type we can call a `true monk' — because there is no guarantee that seeing monks of any other sort will really be a blessing! B.2 General Guidelines As we shall see later, there are different levels at EFTA01162809 which we can catch sight of a true monk. However, we can start by making some generalizations which apply at all levels of description of a monk's behaviour: I. A true monk must be peaceful in action: He must be completely free from actions of harm to others. He cannot carry weapons, pick fights with others or even walk in a demonstration. He cannot beat the table with his fist as he gives his sermon. None of his physical actions must EFTA01162810 be provocative. Anyone who sees him must be left with nothing other than a positive impression. He will not be attractive in the same way as a handsome Blessing Twenty-Nine: The Sight of a True Monk 323 man or a beautiful woman, but he will be graceful and charismatic in his presence. If a bhikkhu has no presence, then maybe he has no self confidence to be anything more than a beggar. The EFTA01162811 a true monk will have confidence in his own good deeds, so he will not feel inferior. 2. A true monk must be peaceful in speech: He must be completely free from malicious gossip or harmful speech or boasting. How would you like to meet a monk who said, "My temple is the best. Any other temple is no competition. My way of meditation is the best. Don't bother paying attention to any other sort of meditation."? EFTA01162812 A monk must be well-spoken. What he says must be serious — not said just to make people laugh. It is not suitable for a monk to speak of matters such as politics. 3. A true monk must be peaceful in mind: He must train himself to rid his mind of thoughts of greed. If a monk doesn't try to free his mind of greed by training in meditation, before long he will want to have supplementary EFTA01162813 activities like being a witch doctor, or a fortune teller, or a lottery tipster. In the same way, he should not allow his mind to come under the influence of hatred or ignorance. However, it is easier said than done. He must try to train his mind the whole of the time and maintain a good temper always. Thus don't go thinking that a monk can become a true monk simply through his achievements in temple EFTA01162814 construction. Only these four practices mentioned above can allow the body, speech and mind of a monk to become sufficiently pure for him to be termed a `true monk'. He needs to practice all four in order to really be worthy of the name a true monk. A further set of generalizations about monks' behaviour which qualifies him as a true monk are as follows: I. Must be of no danger to anyone: Thus nothing about a true monk in body, speech EFTA01162815 or mind must be of any danger to anyone. 2. Must not be biased by the temptations of wealth: If you find monks overtaking one another on almsround to compete for food, could you entrust them with anything more valuable? 3. Must practise the 'Mammas of a Peaceful One': This means he must train himself to avoid the temptations of excessive eating and sleeping. He must have a steadfast daily routine, without exception: EFTA01162816 doing morning and evening chanting, studying the Dhammavinaya, TipiEaka and Buddhist ceremonies. His manners should be polite. 4. Must practise austerities (to reduce the level of bad habits in the mind): These include the practice of meditation, dhutaIga (see Blessing Thirty- One). They help one to overcome the habit of doing exactly as one pleases the whole of time. EFTA01162817 In conclusion to this general introduction to the features of the true monk — we can say that a monk is someone whose happiness comes entirely from spiritual sources. We have already seen (from contentment in Blessing Twenty-Four §C.) that happiness can come from either material or spiritual sources, and for a true monk, the connection with happiness from inner peace is so well-developed that it manifests in all that he does and in his EFTA01162818 appearance too! B.3 Ways of seeing a true monk Simply to see a monk pass by the door is not fully `the sight of a true monk' — it is not much of a blessing. You have to be on closer terms with the monk until you can start to distinguish the virtues of the monk. Thus simply to `see' a true monk is not so simple as it sounds. In fact the word `to see' can have three different depths of meaning: I. Seeing with the eye: i.e a EFTA01162819 monk's outward appearances 2. Seeing with the mind: i.e a monk's outward behaviour 3. Seeing through meditation: i.e a monk's inner attainments Why do we have to look at three levels to see a true monk? This is because every person is complex and has an inner and outer self. In the following sections we consider each level of description in turn. B.3.1 Seeing with the eyes According to the SAmaririaphala Sutta (D.2) the EFTA01162820 characteristics of a true monk which can be observed by the outward manner and behaviour of monks are as follows: 324 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living I. Ordination with an aim in mind: A monk should ordain with the aim to train himself to be a good person in every respect: restraint of senses, education of the mind in theory [pariyatti] and practice [paEipati] by study of the scriptures and following EFTA01162821 EFTA01162822 auydpsip-ips passassod- f(E ’乙‘sD§ 67g ads) :/liwpnsui Agfy] pommartu u! amyl .c f([ 'l's？§ 6'lff ddS) ：几.1eAOeSe1pppaligydi ionpuod 户 apod apsnuo1瘟dip 犁7?‘ aduvpioadu u!pauplusay- 7 伏1IIe9J 1-11Im a011I p.1O00B UT pIJOA1 9q1 puu an pit1 )sJapun tuopsinn Alli mu9AO put 9Otn Tpi .1 'ON 3c1 8 uuq punt'a 9uIe) aige 21119q mun uoT Ipat"'Jo potp9p 9noo u [stla]: (for details see Blessing Nine §C3.2) If monks are possessed of such characteristics they are worthy of the praise, faith, homage and support of householders. B.3.2 Seeing with the mind This means appreciating the good manner and conduct of the monk through the channel of our mind. We see that in the kuti of the monk, there are virtually no possessions — that he has hardly anything but humble bedclothes and a set of EFTA01162823 the Buddhist scriptures. Such a few possessions, would lead us to suppose that the monk studies the TipiEaka whenever he is free. We might observe a battered meditation mat in the corner and might suppose that he meditates as part of his daily routine. We reflect and surmise according to what we see. This is the virtue of the true monk. According to the SAmafulaphala Sutta the five characteristics of a EFTA01162824 true monk which can be observed a the level of the mind are as follows: I. Restraint of the senses [indriyasaOvara]: When in public it is especially important for monks to restrain the sense doors to be worthy of the homage of laypeople or younger monks. Monks who are habitually restrained according to the pAEimokkha will find that it comes naturally to restrain the senses both in public and behind EFTA01162825 closed doors; 2. Endowment with mindfulness [sati] and selfawareness [sampajafilia]: This means not allowing the mind to wander or to drift in a way that undermines the faith of others. 3. Endowed with contentment [santuEEhi]: This means contentment with what one has and what one receives — not going to great lengths to ask for special treatment and gifts from lay people in a way that undermines the faith EFTA01162826 of others 4. Freedom from the Hindrances [nivaraAa]: Although the hindrances are an internal affair of the mind, a monk must be careful not to let hindrances manifest themselves as e.g. losing one's temper, hatred of others, sleepiness, reluctance, boredom with life, doubt in the teaching — on the contrary, a monk should show enthusiasm for a life of training, restraint and give encouragement EFTA01162827 and guidance to laypeople. 5. Attainment of the absorptions [jhAna]: This is not something that is obvious to the observer. Also a monk will not inform you — because to inform you would be in breach of the Vinaya. However for a monk who is able to overcome the hindrances and make further progress, attainment of the inner brightness of absorptions will be visible by improved conduct, ability to EFTA01162828 teach clearly and from a bright physical complexion. B.3.3 Seeing through meditation According to the SAmarifiaphala Sutta the characteristics of a true monk which can be observed a the level of inner attainment which come as the result of self-training in meditation are eight in number and sometimes referred to as the Supranormal Eightfold knowledge [vijjA] are as follows: 1. insight-knowledge [vipassanAriAAa] EFTA01162829 2. mental powers [manomayiddhi] 3. miraculous powers [iddhividdhi] 4. supra-normal hearing [dibbasota] 5. knowing the minds of others [cetopariyayariAAa] 6. recollection of previous lives [pubbenivAsAnussatinAAa] 7. seeing the arising and passing away of other beings according to their katiiia [dibbacakkhu or cutupapatafiAAa] 8. knowledge of an end of defilements Blessing Twenty-Nine: The Sight of a True Monk 325 EFTA01162830 [asavakkhayanAAa] These supramundane forms of knowledge can only come about because the monk himself has attained the sight of the true monk inside himself i.e. has attained one of the levels of the body of enlightenment [dhammakAya] within himself. B.4 Characteristics of a monk not worthy of respect The SAmannaphala Sutta teaches us not only the things which identify a good monk but also characteristic of monks to be avoided. EFTA01162831 1. Ordained in spite of lacking faith in the Vinaya: without any intention to train oneself or improve oneself as a monk. Some ordain simply to run away from their worldly problems or to avoid the hard work of earning a living. Some ordain to escape legal proceedings or as a tool in earning their living; 2. Laxity in following the monastic code of conduct: This is obvious in the case of monks lying, EFTA01162832 EFTA01162833 J1 8aum opnio s1。a icins qOns :sid.fqns dippo'u uo dS.INIJI0d paisadal碑碑ag w 墉一犁？jqua& 'men amp ，n sJamoddns thuiffnmodua Jo ffunqwp9 ! UOT坨1TAUT i q Jo pi o1 ssouisnq it UOSJod UO 0 0LULLIO 0 JO 111oiMEMo111o JO S o01 ICI O1 8mo8 quotu 0 iceui SIql :yuour v 'of [moo°勘〕 ,spunoq-fo-mo, akin 緲刀 sadvid ff uioD .E toismu 2uiuoTST[ JO II 0LLT 8 UIU0AO LIe 8 UT71 's8nip 8 -uppl or fashion — or other subjects not directly concerned with monastic duties; 6. Volunteering to help with jobs that are the domain of a householder: These may include tasks such as matchmaking, being a go-between or canvassing for votes; 7. Making a living out of black arts: Examples include fortune telling, initiations, charms, witch doctery, numerical house charms and yantras, EFTA01162834 making predictions looking at the vital signs of adults, children or animals predictions and lucky stars for marriage. 8. Playing games: Such games might include chess, draughts, cards, computer games or even ball games; 9. Boasting: This may include boasting about one's personal ability or looking down on the abilities of other monks; 10. Indulging the senses; 11. Distorting the teachings: This EFTA01162835 may include explaining and teaching Buddhism in a way that deviates from the dhammavinaya or spreading or perpetuating false views such as that heaven and hell don't really exist, that death is the end of the story or that there is no afterlife. 12. Deviousness: Monks may use means to mislead the public e.g. into understanding that they have attained the stages of Sainthood. EFTA01162836 13. Displaying a lack of contentment: This may be noticeable from the way a monk's accommodation is furnished (excessive luxury or with a television or radio — which are not for helping to practice Dhamma — and accumulating lot of things in their kuti beyond any possible usefulness). There may be more characteristics of unworthy monks than these thirteen — but any one of the thirteen behaviours mentioned EFTA01162837 above is sufficient for supporters to suspect that a monk might not be a `true monk'. It is sad to say that numerous are those who profess piety — but who in reality doesn't live up to all they profess. Thus don't go wasting time with monks who say they can turn silver into gold, or give you a fertility spell or guess the result of the lottery. If you do — it only goes to show that your misunderstanding of the purpose EFTA01162838 of a monk. C. THE PRACTICALITY OF SEEING A MONK C.1 Receiving thefull benefits of seeing a monk In order to gain the full benefit of the sight of a monk, it is important, not only to see him, but to hear his teaching, to memorize it, reflect on it and apply it for one's own and others' benefit in the same way (as already outlinedfor academic teachings in Blessing Seven §E. [The Learning EFTA01162839 Process]). In addition it is also necessary to help and support the monk in order to learn from his example the virtues which may be hard to 326 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living transmit in words. C.2 Why people like to have a true monk visit their home In order to gain full benefit from seeing a true monk, if we should have the opportunity to invite one to our home, the Buddha gave us EFTA01162840 clear guidance on how to offer appropriate hospitality. Done properly, such hospitality can bring five distinct sorts of merit to the owner of the house, because: I. Looking on him with respect: will bring steadfast faith in mind because seeing the conduct of a true monk will give that household the chance to practice the path to heaven; 2. Preparing his seat: giving the a true monk a place to sit [Asana] will give that household the chance EFTA01162841 to practice the path to birth in an influentialfamily. 3. Offering him refreshment: putting aside the mental impurities of stinginess (by giving something for the a true monk to drink for example) gives the household the chance to practice for the path to the attainment of honour. 4. Offering him requisites: sharing their wealth with the a true monk (e.g. by offering a donation to a monk) gives that household the chance to practice EFTA01162842 the path for the attainment of wealth. 5. Conversing on the Dhamma: conversing on the Dhamma and listening to teachings gives the household the chance to practice the path to the attainment of wisdom. In fact to treat a monk of attainment badly can be very damaging, as in the case of Koka the Hunter (DhA.iii.31) who set his dogs on a monk and whose dogs subsequently turned on him, or the case of EFTA01162843 Upaka (DhA.iv.71-2) whose lack of ability to recognize the qualities of a True Monk in the Buddha delayed his spiritual search for many years. C.3 Manners in meeting with a monk These days even Buddhists are often not so careful as they used to be about the way in which they treat monks whether it be passing them in the street of inviting them to their homes. Both the monks and the laypeople must shoulder some EFTA01162844 of the blame, because often monks ordain without any special preparation. They are not really very sure what being a monk entails. After ordination they don't study monastic conduct and so make mistakes. When they make mistakes, then no-one treats them with any respect. The other half of the blame falls on the laypeople who have never taken any interest to look for the good points in monks. They spend EFTA01162845 the whole of their lives going from one bar to another and never think to visit the temple. Thus it is sometimes hard for monks if they go into town.Young ladies think that the monks are just another sort of man and squeeze past them in the street. Some gentlemen even walk into monks knocking them over in the street. If people carry on treating monks like this, then in the end they will remove all possibility of ever EFTA01162846 learning anything useful from the monks. Their eyes still see but their minds will become blind to virtue. Even if they were to meet the Buddha they would be unable to get any benefit from him. Thus if you want to conduct yourself properly when interacting with monks you need to study the correct protocol. If you should have the opportunity to come into contact with a monk, try to practise the following as far as it is EFTA01162847 practical: I. Offer something: If you have any requisites suitable for monks to use, then you should offer an appropriate amount to monks. Even a glass of water counts as requisites. 2. Bow: If there are no suitable requisites available then bow to the monk using the five-point bow to express your respect. It shows that you don't just look a monks indifferently and it will be a habit which you will build up for EFTA01162848 yourself to give its fruit for the course of many lifetimes to come. It will remove the habit of stubborness from your mind. 3. Join your hands in a gesture of respect: If it is not convenient for you to bow (e.g. the floor is not clean, there are a lot of people or you risk being run over by a car) then join your hands in a gesture of prayer and it is better than nothing. 4. Stand respectfully: If it is not EFTA01162849 convenient for you to join your hands in a gesture of respect (e.g. you are carrying something) at least stand reBlessing Twenty-Nine: The Sight of a True Monk 327 spectfully or bow your head or make way for him to pass or find some other way of expressing your respect. 5. Look respectfully: Even if you cannot do any of the above, at least look at the monk with faith and respect — not to look daggers EFTA01162850 at the monk or survey the monk from head to foot as if with the question in your mind `Is that really a monk or not?' . D. ILLUSTRATIVE TALES D.1 Ex. Vakkali Thera (It.92, AA.i.14Off). Vakkali belonged to a brahmin family of SAvatthE and became proficient in the Vedas. Usually people are inspired to faith by one or more of four attributes of a monk (A.ii.71): 1. the appearance EFTA01162851 [rupappamAAikA] 2. the voice [ghosappamAAilcA] 3. the humble manner of dress [lEkhappamAAikA] 4. the teachings he gives [dhammappamAAikA] Vakkali was inspired to faith by the appearance alone of the Lord Buddha. After seeing the Buddha only once, he could never again tire of looking at him and followed him about everywhere. Any day he could not see the Buddha he felt low. In order to become closer to him he become a EFTA01162852 monk, and spent all his time apart from meals and bathing in contemplating the thirty-two signs of a Great Man [purisalakkhaAa] so well exemplified by the Buddha's person. He was satisfied simply to see the Buddha and had no further thought of listening to the Buddha's teaching or of striving for liberation. The Buddha waited for the right opportunity to teach him — because what he had to say would surely upset Vakkali but at the EFTA01162853 same time must be for his benefit. One day when the right time came, He banished Vakkali to a place where he could no longer see the Buddha. Vakkali was so upset by the Buddha's retort that he prepared to commit suicide by jumping over a cliff on GijjhakuEa (the Vultures' Peak). Fully aware of Vakkali's intentions, before he was able to jump, the Buddha went to him and appeared to him teaching EFTA01162854 the words (S.iii.120): Ala() Vakkali kiO to iminA pEtikAyena diEEhena. Yo kho Vakkali dhammaO passati, so maO passati. Yo maO passati so dhammaO passati. The sight of my foul body is useless; He who sees the Dhamma, sees me He who sees me, sees the Dhamma. Filled with joy, Vakkali rose in the air pondering on the Buddha's words and realized arahantship in EFTA01162855 mid-air D.2 Ex. AIgulimAla Thera (DA.i.240ff, liv.180) There was once a student at TakkasilA called AhiOsaka (the harmless one). He became a favourite with his teacher because of his devotion to the study of the philosophies and the virtues. His diligence, however, stirred up the envy of his fellow students who conspired against him, eventually poisoning his teacher's mind EFTA01162856 against him. Finally, looking for a way to rid himself of AhiOsaka the teacher gave this student a final task he must perform in order to earn his graduation — he must avail himself of a thousand human right-hand fingers — hoping that AhiOsaka would be killed himself in the attempt. Thus, out of unerring obedience to his teacher, AhiOsaka was transformed from a diligent student of virtue to a highway murderer EFTA01162857 attacking travellers in the JAlinE forest. With his usual diligence, he killed each victim taking a finger from each. With the finger-bones thus obtained he made a garland to hang round his neck, hence the nickname `AIgulimAla'. As a result of his deeds whole villages were deserted and the king ordered a detachment of men to seize him. AlgulimAla's mother guessing who the notorious murderer must be, started off to warn EFTA01162858 him of the king's plan of action. By now he lacked but one finger to complete his thousand and seeing his mother coming, determined to kill her. The Buddha seeing AlgulimAla's latent potential for enlightenment, and realizing that if he should kill his mother it would be the end of his spiritual career, went himself to the wood himself, and intercepting him before he could harm his mother. The Buddha appeared to AlgulimAla with his EFTA01162859 back to him 328 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living as if he was moving slowly away from him. AigulimAla seeing his chance chased after the Buddha with his sword, but miraculously no matter how fast he ran, he could not succeed in catching up with the Buddha until eventually he called out, "Stop monk! Stop!". "But, I have stopped," said the Buddha, "On the contrary it is you who have not EFTA01162860 stopped." It was at the sight of the Buddha's miraculous behaviour that AlgulimAla was eventually converted by the Buddha's power and received ordination as a monk, later to become fully-enlightened as an arahant. D.3 Ex. MaEEhakuAIatE (DhA.i.20ff) MaEEhakuAlalE was the only son of the brahmin Adinnapubbaka. His father loved him dearly but was a great miser and would make EFTA01162861 savings in every way he could instead of spending money on his son — even down to the burnished earrings from which MaEEhakuAIalE took his name. When he was sixteen years old MaEEhakuAlalE had an attack of jaundice. His father refused to call the physician fearing medical costs and prescribed for MaEEhakuAlali himself until the boy was beyond all cure. Seeing he could do nothing more to help EFTA01162862 the boy, he carried him outside and laid him on the terrace — not in the hope of curing him, but to save himself embarrassment in the face of those who came to prepare for the funeral who might see his unspent wealth. The Buddha saw MaEEhakuAIalE as he lay dying and, out of compassion, came to the door of his father's home. Too weak to do anything else at the sight of the Buddha, the boy conjoured up devout EFTA01162863 faith in the Buddha. He died soon afterwards and was born amongst the gods in a golden mansion thirty leagues in extent. D.4 Ex. Asajji Thera (DhA.i.78f1) SAriputta had originally been ascetic in the school of Safijaya VelaEEhaputta. Together with his best friend MoggallAna, he had achieved eighteen diplomas from university and did not know what further to study, so they became ascetics. They wanted to meet an arahant. Later, EFTA01162864 SAriputta did meet the arahant called Assajji. He recognized from the manner of Assajji that he must have a special attainment. Thus, SAriputta approached Assajji and bowed in respect before saying, "Sir, you have a radiant complexion, in whose school are you ordained?" "I am ordained in the school of Gotama Buddha who is the son of the SAkya kings," replied Assajji. "And what does he teach, Sir?" Even though he was an arahant, EFTA01162865 Assajji continued to treat SAriputta in a humble way saying, "I am still newly ordained, and I am still new to the teaching of the Buddha, I am not able to elaborate much on the Dhamma teachings, but can tell you that `Whatever thing arises because of a cause, the TathAgata will show the cause of that arising and the falling away of that thing." To the unpracticed listener, such a teaching might not sound very impressive (to EFTA01162866 those who have only captured sight of a true monk in the past without reflecting on their teachings.) However, SAriputta had over the course of many lifetimes been in the habit of `seeing' a true monk on all three levels, so even such a short sermon could become a streamenterer [sotApana] on the spot. D.5 Ex. MahAnAga Thera (DA.i.190, 191 etc.) There were once two brahmins who lived at the gate of the city of PAEalEputta (a EFTA01162867 trading city built by the Emperor Asoka which served the whole of the Indian subcontinent). They often overheard traders who praised the virtues of an arahant called MahAnAga Thera who lived in the remote province of Rohana. The two brahmins were inspired to faith and had the wish to see the arahant for themselves. Even though the arahant lived far away, the two decided they would do whatever was necessary EFTA01162868 to meet with him. The two brahmins left Pataliputta and set off on the long journey. Before they had got far, one of the brahmins died on the way. The remaining brahmin continued undeterred to the coast where he made the necessary sea voyage to Rohana. He found accommodation at the village closeby MahAnAga's dwelling and prepared various delicacies to offer the next morning. Early next morning, the brahmin went to EFTA01162869 MahAnAga and stood respectfully behind all the other people who had also gone to visit. Later, when he had the opBlessing Twenty-Nine: The Sight of a True Monk 329 portunity, he came closer to the arahant and gleefully bowed at his feet, clutching the arahant at the ankles. Bowing one more time, the brahmin said, "You are so high." In fact the arahant was no taller or shorter than the next man. "What I meant to say is that you EFTA01162870 are of such high virtue that your reputation has even spread like the mist, across the sea to India, so that even sitting at the gates of PAEalEputta, I was able to hear others' praises of you. That is the reason I have gone to the trouble to come here." Having spoken thus, the brahmin offered requisites to the arahant and having sought out the necessary robes and bowl for himself requested ordination under the arahant. Striving hard in EFTA01162871 meditation and obedient to the teaching of the monk, within two or three days, through his understanding of the value of the `sight of a true monk' the brahmin was able to attain arahantship like his master. D.6 Ex. Godha JAtaka (J.325) There are certain sorts of monks who pretend they are genuine but who are actually hypocritical. There was once a hermit who would teach every quarter EFTA01162872 moon day. He taught both the humans and the animals. One day, a supporter offered him some curry and he found it delicious. He asked,"What meat is this? - it's so delicious!" The supporter replied that it was water-monitor meat. The hermit said, "Water- monitor meat! It's the greatest." There was a water- monitor that lived in a hole at the back of the temple and it used to come and listen every time Dhamma was being taught. Next EFTA01162873 time round, it would be easy for the hermit to get a delicious meal. He would just sit teaching the sermon with a machete at his side. Next time there was a sermon, the water-monitor stuck its head out of its hole and noticed the machete by the side of the hermit. It thought to itself, "I wonder what subject is being taught today, that the hermit has brought a machete with him?" The water monitor was extra careful, EFTA01162874 but as soon as it was not attentive, the hermit hit it over the head with the machete. The water-monitor ran back down its burrow and didn't come out again, but all the time, it thought to itself, "Who is the more advanced anyway, me or the hermit? If a hermit who professes the Precepts is going to behave like that even in front of the congregation, who knows what he does behind our backs?" D.7 Ex. How hot is chili? EFTA01162875 People may be as unaware of the qualities of virtues as they are unaware of the spiciness of a chili pepper. If you go to a western country and a European asks what Thai chili is like, you might try making a comparison or showing him an example. They might ask, "Is it hot?" Of course you must agree that it is `hot'. If they ask how hot it is, of course you could answer that it is "as hot as chili peppers" however you run the EFTA01162876 risk of being accused of not trying very hard to explain — but it's hard to know what to use for a comparison, for someone of limited experience. He might ask, "Is it hot like ginger?" or "Is it hot like onions?" or "Is it hot like peppercorns?" or "Is it hot like mustard?" There is only one way of explaining — ask him to open his mouth and shut his eyes and put a little Thai chili in his mouth. Within five minutes he will EFTA01162877 have a swollen mouth and tongue and his cheeks look as if they are on fire. Now it's your turn to ask, "What is it hot like?" He will say for himself, "Hot like red hot charcoal!" D.8 Ex. The turtle and thefish People need to understand things based on their previous experience. If one tries to understand something new in terms of experience in which one is lacking, the results might be the same as a found in the following story: EFTA01162878 Once upon a time, there were a turtle and a fish who were good friends. The fish was confined to the water, but the turtle was amphibious and could travel in the water or on the land at will. When the turtle returned from its travels on the land it would tell the fish about all it had seen. At first the fish was not very interested, but after hearing the stories about the land, day in day out, it became EFTA01162879 more and more fascinated. The fish asked, "When you say that birds fly, do you mean like a frog?" Well, everybody knows the difference between a hopping frog 330 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living and the flight of a bird — but the turtle was unable to make the fish understand the difference. "And when you say that elephants are large and have tusks, are the tusks the same EFTA01162880 as the whiskers of a prawn?" Again, the turtle was unable to make the fish understand the difference. "And when you say that trees have trunks, branches and twigs with leaves are they the same as seaweed?" The turtle was unable to make the fish understand the difference. However many questions the fish asked, the turtle was unable to explain. Finally the turtle realized that there EFTA01162881 is a condition for being able to explain things to another person — both people must share common experience to be able to communicate. Without such common experience, the speaker may as well be speaking to himself! Blessing Thirty: Regular Discussion of the Dhamma 331 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 The place of Blessing Thirty in the order of things Many people can talk all day and EFTA01162882 all night about outings or holidays, but if they had to talk even for five minutes on a subject of the Dhamma, they would certainly die! Discussing the Dhamma is no easy skill — even the Buddha himself spent many lifetimes perfecting speaking and listening before he could move on to discussion of the Dhamma. Dhamma discussion is a challenge because it is the culmination of almost all of the Blessings already EFTA01162883 mentioned: • Blessing Seven: Having heard much:. Dhamma discussion requires participants to be good listeners. We have to be able to build up the ability to listen to others first before we can expect them to listen to us; • Blessing Ten: Artful Speech: Those in the discussion must be artful speakers on the subject of Dhamma. They must not just say what others want to hear by complimenting EFTA01162884 and praising them. Although someone might speak seven languages, but they can hardly be considered an artful speaker if they are always causing fights by the things they say; • Blessing Twenty-Two: Respect: Those in the discussion must be respectful. Everything in the world has good and bad points. You should choose the constructive aspect of things to talk about. EFTA01162885 • Blessing Twenty-Three: Humility: Those in the discussion must be humble — not looking down on others or their opinions; • Blessing Twenty-Six: Having regularly listened to the Dhamma: They must have heard many Dhamma Talks — with an understanding built by reflecting on what they have learned, and by discussing and questioning the Dhamma. Of course, it is an acquired taste to want to listen to EFTA01162886 the Dhamma rather than listening to something else like music — which can be explained by two reasons: 1. It's hard to concentrate on something abstract like the Dhamma: we are used to focussing on more material or sensually-stimulating subjects; 2. It's hard to open up one's mind to the Dhamma: Supposing the monk talks about Precepts, the listener knows that their Precepts are not very EFTA01162887 well kept, therefore to be reminded of their bad habits is always painful. It's hard to want to listen to someone talk about the faults about your personality. It is all very entertaining to listen to a sermon about `fools' (as in the first Blessing) for as long as someone else is the subject of the sermon, but as soon as we realize that we also share some characteristics of a fool, the sermon becomes less EFTA01162888 pleasurable to listen to. It is like touching an open wound. This is why people like sitting right at the back of the lecture hall when listening to Dhamma teachings — to try to protect their `comfort zone'. Blessing Thirty: Regular Discussion of the Dhamma 332 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living • Blessing Twenty-Seven: EFTA01162889 Patience: Those in a discussion need to be patient. The sort of patience you will need the most of is `patience in the face of conflict' when differences of opinion arise; • Blessing Twenty-Eight: Openness to Criticism: Those in the discussion must be open to criticism. You will know why you need to have patience when in the course of a discussion, you receive your first item of personal criticism. EFTA01162890 Sometimes during the course of a discussion, the others will test our patience first to see just how much criticism we are able to accept. If someone deserves some heavy criticism, they will start by receiving minor criticisms first, such as "When you are listening to sermons, you shouldn't sit and wriggle because it shows lack of respect towards the Dhamma," and gradually get heavier for example: "When you are EFTA01162891 listening to sermons, you shouldn't let your mind wander to think about other matters like your own home, because it shows lack of respect towards the Dhamma." Thus you can see that discussing the Dhamma is no easy matter. If it were easy, it would have been one of the first units of the Manual of Peace. However, we find that it has been placed at the thirtieth step of the path of Buddhist practice. Thus don't EFTA01162892 go organizing a discussion if you don't know what you are doing or else you might end up with a discussion of things that are not artful. Dhamma discussion is even more demanding than just listening to a Dhamma-talk — because discussion means we must learn to listen and respond at the same time. Similarly, it is easier just to talk and have people listen to you than to have the patience to listen to other people talk. EFTA01162893 A.2 The objectives of Blessing Thirty The objectives of this blessing are: 1. to discuss the Dhamma in a way that benefits oneself and others; for those who are capable of discussing and sharing their knowledge, a large merit awaits because in the words of the Buddha `sabbadAnab dhammadAnaO jinAti' (the gift of Dhamma excels all gifts) Dh.354 2. to discuss the Dhamma in a EFTA01162894 way that does not detractfrom the value of the Dhamma; This needs to be mentioned because discussing Dhamma in an inappropriate or distorted way may curtail the life of the Dhamma in living memory "0! Monks! Those monks who claim (various sorts of) monastic transgressions are not monastic transgressions, and those who claim as monastic transgressions EFTA01162895 those which are not monastic transgressions, are those who bring harm and unhappiness for the manyfolk suffering to humans and angels alike — in so doing earning grave demerit, consuming much merit and causing an end to the Saddhamma." AnApati Sutta (A.i.20) and "Distortion of the Dhamma means claiming the Buddha said or didn't say EFTA01162896 (A.i.59) or that the Suttas contain or don't contain (A.i.61) what is in fact not the case." This is in addition to what has already been mentioned in Blessing Three (§D.2) about joking about the Dhamma; 3. to acquire wisdom: Dhamma discussions are intended as a way of cultivating wisdom. Above all other things the Buddha praised `wisdom'. Most people know that wisdom is beyond price. EFTA01162897 The Buddha even taught the proverb: PafifiA naranaO ratanaO wisdom is the (wish-fulfilling) gem of the people JarA Sutta (S.i.36) The Buddha's observation is in contrast to the opinion of many modem children who seem to think that a wish-fulfilling gem comes in the form of a television or a computer. Life is full of problems to solve. Whether it be trivial problems of physical hardship like drying EFTA01162898 washing when it is raining, or problems from the people around us. There are even problems inside our own body from illnesses and pain. We must rely on wisBlessing Thirty: Regular Discussion of the Dhamma 333 dom to solve all these problems — but wisdom is something we cannot buy — it can however be acquired from two main sources (as already discussed in the "Two Formative Influences on EFTA01162899 our discretion (0.3) in the First Blessing): 1. the advice and encouragement we get from good friends [kalyAAamitta] during discussion of the Dhamma with them; 2. the insights we come to through our ability to be a teacher to ourselves [yonisomanasikAra] — for which the regular practice of meditation is a prerequisite; 4. to sharpen our wits: having to think and apply the Dhamma we know `in EFTA01162900 real-time' as one does in a discussion is a `performing art'. In order to do so well, we need to have sharp wits [paEibhAAa]. These are in addition to the five objectives of listening to the Dhamma already mentioned in Blessing Twenty-Six (SC.1). B. DISCUSSION OF THE DHAMMA B.1 Definitions: Dhamma & Discussion The word `dhamma' is not easy to define and can have up to a hundred meanings EFTA01162901 depending on the context. In Blessing Sixteen we have already described Dhamma as being a description of the reality of things while at the same time referring to virtue. However, at this stage in the Manual of Peace it is perhaps also useful to reflect that the Dhamma in its context as the teaching of the Buddha and as the second component of the Triple Gem is recognizable by the following six characteristics (M.i.37, EFTA01162902 A.iii.285): 1. properly expounded by the Exalted One [svAkkAto bhagavatA Dhamma]; 2. clearly perceived within ourselves [sandiEEhiko]; 3. timeless [akAliko]; 4. which inspires those who see it to call others to come and see it [ehipassiko]; 5. which should be internalized [opanayiko]; 6. which can be realized subjectively by the wise .. [paccataO veditabbo vifniEhi]; The word `discussion' means that EFTA01162903 there must be at least two people dialoguing on a subject of the Dhamma (not on other matters). Such discussions should occur regularly and they should be aimed to increase the wisdom of the participants (not to show off who is the smartest like some sort of contest) arranged at an appropriate time and taking no more time than is appropriate. B.2 Varieties of Discussion Discussion of the Dhamma can be divided into two EFTA01162904 types: I. Giving a Dhamma talk: which is more or less a one-way discussion of the Dhamma. This subject has already been touched upon in Blessing Twenty-Six, however, in this Blessing we are no longer simply on the receiving end of teachings, now we must start to take some of the responsibility for applying them to others for our own and others' increasing wisdom, without devaluing EFTA01162905 the Dhamma by doing so; 2. Dhamma debate: which is a two (or more)-way discussion on the subject of the Dhamma. B.2.1 Giving a Dhamma Talk The Buddha enumerates the following five qualities of a good Dhamma preacher as already mentioned in the Twenty-Sixth Blessing §B3. The Buddha went further to say (Candupama Sutta S.ii.195) that anyone who teaches simply to attract followers does not teach in a pure way. EFTA01162906 However anyone who thinks that the Dhamma with its six characteristics will bring benefit to those who know it and practice it and who teaches it on the basis of loving- kindness, compassion and the thought to help others, that sort of teaching is pure. In addition to these basic skills, according to the Kest Sutta (A.ii.112ff.) different approaches are required for training different types of people in the Dhamma EFTA01162907 some disciples need to be taught gently by elaborating the meaning of good behaviour and the wholesome fruits of such good behaviour — some need to be taught sternly by elaborating the meaning of evil and the unwholesome retribution of such evil behaviour — some need to be taught by a combination of these two means — and for those that cannot be helped in any of the previous three ways, 334 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps EFTA01162908 towards Enlightened Living one needs to accept that there is no use in giving them further teachings until such time as they can gain benefit therefrom. B.2.2 Dhamma Debate Preaching is challenging in that one needs to have a sensitivity to the disposition and needs of the listener without hearing anything from them. However, even though in debating others' position is more express, the debate is more challenging because EFTA01162909 one must have the ability to `think on one's feet'. It is not only a question of satifactorily answering questions, but also the ability to gauge the type of question and the real purpose behind the question too. The Buddha enumerates five sorts of questions (S.ii.1): 1. questions about things the person asking has not yet seen; 2. questions comparing things to those the person asking has already seen; EFTA01162910 3. questions to overcome the person asking's doubts; 4. questions to encouraging the listener to follow what the questioner has seen; 5. rhetorical questions; Surprisingly, many questions do not require a straight answer and this becomes easier to comprehend if one looks at the five reasons the Buddha identified for why questions are asked (A.iii.191): 1. asking under the influence of ignorance or forgetfulness EFTA01162911 2. asking under the influence of evil desires 3. asking as a way to express looking down on others 4. asking out of curiousity to know 5. asking with the expectation that they will get a good answer Thus, one needs a multifaceted strategy in answering questions— and it turns out that even the Buddha himself had four different ways of answering a question (A.ii.46): 1. answering directly [ekaOsabyAkaraAa]; wellprepared EFTA01162912 questions deserve a direct answer 2. answering by dividing one's response [paEipucchabyAkaraAa]; Answer which requires you to make a division clear. If someone is mixing up their practice because they are confusing steps which should be made separate or practising things in the wrong order, then your answer must start by making a clear division between the factors in an issue. Sometimes you need to EFTA01162913 limit the scope of what you are answering. Sometimes, you need to make sure that both you and the listener understand the same thing by the terms you are using in a dialogue (e.g. when they are talking about `evil' are they in fact meaning `sin' defined in their own terms?) 3. answering by a question in return [vibhajjabyAkaraAa], Sometimes people ask questions not because they are interested in the answer but EFTA01162914 they are interested in whether you can answer. In such cases maybe you should ask such people why they ask such a question. In some cases you need to ask them whether they would like to know or whether they would like to experience it for themselves — without answering, and; 4. keeping one's silence [EhapanEyaparila]. This is otherwise known as `Noble silence' — or in modern EFTA01162915 day parlance `no comment'! It is applicable when giving any answer irrespective will only serve to reinforce the unwholesomeness of the questioner. An example of this is when people ask about the specific inner experiences gained as a result of meditation but they have never practiced for themselves, it is not much use to give an answer because: 1. they may not believe you; 2. they may use what they have EFTA01162916 remembered instead of striving to attain such experience for themselves. C. PRACTICALITIES OF ORGANIZING A DHAMMA DISCUSSION C.1 Self-preparation for a Dhamma Debate It is hard to get a good Dhamma discussion going if you don't know the rules and regulations of the game. You need to be well-prepared when you enter a Dhamma Discussion. It is not just like having EFTA01162917 a chat. As for conducting the discussion of the Dhamma, the following guidelines are recomBlessing Thirty: Regular Discussion of the Dhamma 335 mended: I. Keep the Precepts in advance: If you are a householder, you should keep Five Precepts for at least seven days beforehand. (If possible, Eight Precepts is even better). It will make sure that we embody the Dhamma about which we want EFTA01162918 to talk. It is not the idea to discuss the Dhamma when you are drunk. In the old days Dhamma would never be discussed if alcohol was being drunk or if any of the participants had been drinking. If you want to know the reason, why not try it for yourself? If you try speaking on a sensible subject to someone under the influence of alcohol, you may start a fight. To discuss the Dhamma, your mind must first be EFTA01162919 true to its real nature. Alcohol interferes with this nature. Thus if you can't even manage to keep the Five Precepts, don't delude yourself into thinking you will be able to discuss the Dhamma. 2. Meditate in advance: You should prepare yourself for the Dhamma discussion by meditating regularly beforehand and meditating immediately before starting the discussion. In this way EFTA01162920 your mind will be sufficiently refined to understand the subtle nature of the subject under discussion. 3. Dress politely and modestly to participate: you must dress in a way suitable for the nature of things under discussion. Thus don't dress in clothes that are too brightly coloured, provocative, tight-fitting, dirty, stained or torn. 4. Maintain good manners: Nothing you do must be irritating to the others participating. EFTA01162921 5. Speak politely: You should speak calmly. For those who speak loudly, it is obvious that the mind is already away from the centre of the body. One should not boast about one's own attainments or one's own school of meditation. One should honestly admit the limits of what one knows and not pretend to be expert in everything. 6. Give unknown teachings the benefit of the doubt: Even if you don't understand some of EFTA01162922 the Buddha's teachings at first encounter, don't refuse them outright. Sometimes we don't instantly understand the meaning of teachings we learn. Sometimes our experience or refinement of mind is not enough to be able to see the benefit of a teaching. Supposing we have the teaching, "forge your own destiny with diligence" — if we are heavily involved in social welfare work we might think that the EFTA01162923 teaching cannot be right — how could it be better to help ourselves rather than to spend our time being altruistic to others? However reflecting more deeply we will find that it refers to the fact that the benefit of others will be of no use in the long term if we don't train ourselves too as our first priority. Thus, if you don't agree with a teaching, don't refuse it but express your doubt and EFTA01162924 what you think it might mean as an alternative instead. Supposing we have already categorically refused a teaching and later someone points out that it is right using appropriate reasons, it will be hard for us to reconsider our point of view — because we will be more afraid of losing face than of being wrong. 7. Avoid provocative words: Use only a manner and choice of words that facilitate harmony. EFTA01162925 8. Avoid expressing anger when confronted by differences of opinion: Sometimes there are even classic proverbs can be contradictory (viz. "Make hay while the sun shines" versus "More haste less speed") Both can be true in the appropriate context. If two people have different situations in mind they will be sure to have differences on even the same subject. 9. Avoid havingfame or oneupmanship as the motivation EFTA01162926 for your discussion: If such unskilful motives are the reason you want to have a discussion for it would be better for you to stay at home! 10. Don't forget that Dhamma discussions are designed to bringforth wisdom: Dhamma conversations are always to further our knowledge and to use the strengths of others to fill in our own weaknesses. Such discussions are never to show EFTA01162927 off how much we know. 11. Avoid letting the conversation drift `off topic': If you you start by talking about generosity and later find yourself boasting about all the times you have been generous then you have gone 336 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living beyond the limits of a Dhamma discussion. Similarly, if you find that you are gossiping about how stingy such-and-such another person EFTA01162928 is, then again it is no longer a Dhamma discussion. 12. Avoid letting the discussion go on for too long: — otherwise everyone involved will be bored C.2 Selecting worthy participants Choosing the wrong people to engage in a Dhamma discussion can be disastrous and cause a quarrel. As mentioned above, it is only in conversation with the `Good Friend' that wisdom will arise, therefore, in choosing participants, EFTA01162929 you should invite those possessing the seven characteristics of a good friend [kalyAAamitta] (A.iv.32): I. endearing [piyo]: attractive and making others feel at ease, ready to ask questions and seek advice; 2. respectable [garu]: one who makes others feel that they can take safe refuge in them; 3. cultured and emulable [bhAvanEyo] others who see their educated qualities and would EFTA01162930 like to be like that too; 4. a counsellor [vatta] having the ability to give good counsel through knowing the way to speak to get results, through knowing how to explain Dhamma so that others understand, through knowing the appropriate time to give praise and mention criticisms ; 5. being a patient listener [vacanakkhamo] always being open to advice, questions and EFTA01162931 criticism without being irritated ; 6. the ability to treat profound matters [gambhirafica kathaO kattA] and able to difficult matters in a way which can be easily understood; 7. never speaking of things without reason or leading conversations to a useless end [no caEEhAne niyojaye]. These criteria apply to conversation between unrelated people. It should be noted that if the conversation is within the family, then it is not EFTA01162932 EFTA01162933 ![1 IRA] 8UTALTIS 3I)92J9Ua .c f[e88esot se] 9prutios . ！〔e aAIA1d] Das． f[tqaqmut s])u9 uawoo .z f[1 q3otddi] aI)1II8 )UBM .1 :O1 9nionpuop 9Je )eq1spoccitis /Claw u `(∼1 1. \I puu ci 1. )B 091 `6zi.A.V) uotssnostp i urtut q u Joj antiotuisuoo sp9ccins 2utp9ps Joj [12/./i/VAD/ii7z？γ〕 911.10 Ua 9.1U atatit i tippriH 9q1 O1 8UI13.1O30V 刃珍qap Jo pafqns, ip OM ii s 一uipaps .s1uudtotInd aq1 8utl0aps 1nocte X.I.1OM O）klUSSa39U 6. self-discipline [sEla]; 7. concentration [samAdhi]; 8. wisdom [paririA]; 9. liberation [vimutti], and; 10. seeing and knowing of liberation [vimuttifiAAadassana]. One should talk on these sorts of subjects while avoiding unconducive talk of kings, robbers, ministers, armies, panic, battle, food, drink, clothes, beds, flowers, garlands, perfumes, relatives, vehicles, villages, townships, cities, districts, women, champions, streets, gossip, EFTA01162934 ghost-stories, desultatory talk, fables about land and sea, prosperity and decay. In addition, the subject of conversation must be suited to the participants — if you are going to discuss the Vinaya you must choose people who are expert in this subject. If you are going to discuss meditation then it should be a discussion between those who have really got down to practice for themselves. C.4 Selecting an appropriate time EFTA01162935 for a debate For participants in a Dhamma Discussion who are unrelated, any mutually appropriate time is acceptable. For families, particular advice (given below see §D.4). Just like listening to Dhamma teachings, the practice of Dhamma discussions should be regular (weekly, monthly) or might be on the occasion of a particular calendar event with an appropriately related topic e.g. for New Year, it might be a discussion EFTA01162936 about one's good resolutions for the New Year. C.5 Conclusion: By Dhamma, for Dhamma In conclusion, there are three governing principles to discussing the Dhamma: Blessing Thirty: Regular Discussion of the Dhamma 337 I. Discuss within the scope of Dhamma: The subject of discussion must remain within the scope of the Dhamma. If you want to talk about virtues, don't let the discussion overlap EFTA01162937 into boasting about virtues. If you want to speak on protecting yourself from vices, don't let the discussion run over into gossipping about others' ills; 2. Discuss by means of Dhamma: Those participating in the discussion must not behave out of keeping with the Dhamma. Respect should be given to others where it is due — rather than looking down on the other participants you assume EFTA01162938 know less than you. You should speak politely with artful speech. Praise those who speak correctly and be polite if occasion arises to point out the faults in another's argument (rather than insulting them personally). If you make a mistake yourself, apologise rather than letting your defilements dominate the conversation; 3. Discuss for Dhamma: Those who discuss must share the goal of furthering their EFTA01162939 knowledge of Dhamma through conversation rather than showing off what they already know. In expressing your knowledge, it should be with the aim of facilitating others to share their knowledge with you! D. DHAMMA DISCUSSION IN EVERYDAY LIFE D.1 Dhamma Discussion in the time of the Buddha: In the time of the Buddha, even EFTA01162940 though arahants had already freed themselves of all defilements, they would hold discussions of the Dhamma to sharpen their knowledge not to speak of the less `enlightened'. Discussion of the Dhamma was like the national pastime of that age with debate on spiritual and philosophical matters to be found in groups on every street corner. D.2 Old tradition in Buddhist society In the olden days, in the countries EFTA01162941 of Southeast Asia, any village where the mayor was interested in the Dhamma, would hold a public Dhamma discussion every full-moon night. The discussion would have very simple rules so that everybody could have the chance to join in — for example, each villager took it in turn to talk about the best good habit they had — something even the village thief could manage! D.3 Role of the Older Generation in Dhamma EFTA01162942 Discussion In Asian Buddhist society of old, when all the family lived together, the young and middle-aged adults would all go to work the fields. The old folks and would stay at home with the children. Usually the old folks would make baskets or do other sedentary tasks, but often they would tell tales to the children playing nearby — often cautionary tales from the JAtakas (birth stories of the previous lifetimes EFTA01162943 of the Buddha). The young children would have a lot of questions for the old-folks and by questions and answers, before long there would be a conversation set up on the subject of the Dhamma. As the result of such conversations, the children would learn the foundations of moral behaviour from a very early age. D.4 Dhamma Discussion around the dining table (see also Bl.12 ,sCB3.1, heading 3.2) EFTA01162944 These days the opportunity to discuss Dhamma en famille is becoming scarcer because the family tends to centre itself more on the TV than Dhamma wisdom. However anyone who values the future of their children should realize that the TV is robbing them of the opportunity to instil their children with virtue. It can be predicted that any family which cannot manage to come together for at least one communal meal EFTA01162945 per day will have a sorry future for its children.The extra money parents can earn for their children by working late (but missing the family mealtime) is no substitute for the time they will miss teaching virtue to their children — guidance without which the children can ruin their future. For Dhamma Discussions within the family, finding an appropriate time is more complex. Whether you are the leader of a family yet or not you EFTA01162946 need to consider being responsible for the real education of your child. Nowadays, we no longer have grandparents at home to look after the children's morality. The 338 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living form of the discussion is usually a parent giving advice to his children and asking for their opinions on certain things concerning the childrens' own behaviour. The parent will speak for 80% of the time EFTA01162947 and the child speaks for 20% of the time — no more than that — otherwise it will end up with the child teaching the parent instead! D.5 Twin pulpits & Tibetan debate Between monks in the present time in the TheravAda tradition, there is still the tradition of giving a sermon `from two pulpits' — that is two monks with expertise in a subject will discuss that subject in front of an audience — maybe the ancient EFTA01162948 equivalent of today's televised panel discussion? In the Tibetan tradition, there is alse the tradition of debating for students and teachers to hone their wits and mastery of scriptural material. D.6 More than just talking about it — practise! It should never be forgotten that whether knowledge gained comes from a sermon or a discussion, it can be of no use to anyone if we don't practice it for ourselves as the EFTA01162949 result as the Buddha mentions in addition to the criteria for subject of discussion (see §C.3 above) that the most praiseworthy topics of discussion are those where the debators not only talk about it, but also practice it too (A.v.129). E. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES E.1 Metaphor: Conferences for academics Just as the sharing exchange of ideas at conferences helps to foster academic progress, EFTA01162950 regular discussion of the Dhamma will bring wisdom, the pathway to the liberation of suffering. E.2 Metaphor: Shadow-boxing The people of old compared talking to `shadow boxing'. They compared listening to others like punching a sandbag. However, discussions with others are the hardest of all (like boxing in the ring). E.3 Ex. EkuddAna Thera (DhA.iii.38411) There was once the son of a wealthy brahmin of EFTA01162951 SAvatthi who entered the Buddhist order. He dwelled in the forest fulfilling his noviciate and came to the Buddha to receive a subject of meditation from him. Seeing that SAriputta was otherwise occupied, the Buddha gave the novice a short teaching himself to the effect: "There is no sorrow for the monk of transcendental thoughts" The novice learned this verse by heart and returned to the forest to reflect on it. EFTA01162952 Although he didn't know any other verses of Dhamma, he understood this one thoroughly and eventually became an arahant by contemplation of it. Later he came to be known as "one exclamation" [ekuddAna] he would exhort others to listen to the Dhamma, and he would recite this only verse he knew. Every time he had finished his recitation, the guardian spirits [devas] of the forest rejoiced in his merit resoundingly. On one EFTA01162953 occasion two learned monks who were well-versed in the TipiEaka, each accompanied by a group of 500 monks came to his dwelling place. EkuddAna invited the two monks to preach the Dhamma. They enquired if there were many who wished to listen to the Dhamma in such a remote area. EkuddAna told them that even the guardian spirits of the forests would rejoice at the end of each discourse. Thus reassured, the two learned monks EFTA01162954 took turns to preach the Dhamma, but when their discourses ended, there was no rejoicing from the guardian spirits of the forests. The learned monks were puzzled and they doubted the words of EkuddAna — but he insisted that the guardian spirits always rejoiced at the end of each discourse. The two learned monks then requested him to do the preaching. EkuddAna recited his usual verse. At the end of EFTA01162955 the recitation, the guardian spirits rejoiced as usual. Some monks in the retinue felt that the devas inhabiting the forests were showing favouritism to EkuddAna. They reported the matter to the Buddha on arrival at the Jetavana monastery. However, the Buddha admonished them: "0! Monks! I don't say that a bhikkhu who has learned much and talks much of the Dhamma is one who is versed in the EFTA01162956 Dhamma. One who has learned only little and knows only one verse of the Dhamma, but fully comprehends the Four Noble Blessing Thirty: Regular Discussion of the Dhamma 339 Truths, and is ever mindful is the one who is truly versed in the Dhamma." E.4 Ex. Veralija Sutta (A.iv.172) The brahmin Verarija once visited the Buddha at NaOerupicumanda and asked the Buddha a series of questions. EFTA01162957 First he asked, "It is said that the Buddha pays no respect to aged brahmins?" The Buddha replies that he has not seen a brahmin in the whole world to whom such respect is due from him. "It is said that the you are tasteless?" "In fact that they say I am tasteless is correct because the Buddha has relinquished attachment in the sense perceptions of eye, ear, nose, mouth and body — but that is not the reason EFTA01162958 for your asking?" "It is said that the you are without wealth?" "What they say is true, because the Buddha has relinquished the sense perceptions of eye, ear, nose, mouth and body which lead to attachments to wealth — but that is not the reason for your asking?" "It is said that the you are inactive?" "What they say is true, because the Buddha exhorts his disciples not to do anything which is evil EFTA01162959 with body, speech or mind but that is not the reason for your asking?" "It is said that the you are a nihilist?" "What they say is true, because the Buddha advocates the anihilation of greed, hatred and delusion from the mind — but that is not the reason for your asking?" "It is said that the you are full of hatred?" "What they say is true, because the Buddha advocates the hatred of evil action of body, EFTA01162960 speech and mind — but that is not the reason for your asking?" "It is said that the you are a terminator?" "What they say is true, because the Buddha advocates the termination of greed, hatred and delusion and he teaches the Dhamma for the termination of all forms of evil and unwholesomeness but that is not the reason for your asking?" "It is said that you are an incinerator?" EFTA01162961 "What they say is true, because the Buddha advocates the burning up of the unwholesome states of body, speech and mind but that is not the reason for your asking?" "It is said that you will not be born any more?" "What they say is true, because the Buddha will never again enter the womb or take future birth. Just like amongst 8, 10 or 12 eggs are incubated by a mother hen, wouldn't it be true to call the first of EFTA01162962 those chickens to use its beak or its claw to break through the shell the eldest of the batch? " "It is true he should be called the oldest, because he emerges before all the others." "In the same way, of all the beings of the world encapsulated in their shell of ignorance [avijjA] the Buddha has been the first to break through that shell because of cultivating the recollection of previous lifetimes [pubbenivAsAnussatifiAAa], EFTA01162963 knowing the arising and falling of others according to their karma [cutEpapAtanikAa] and knowing an end to defilements [AsavakkhayariAAa]. Only after this explanation did Verarija realize the answer to his original question and appreciating the uniqueness of the Buddha in his world and took refuge in the Triple Gem as a Buddhist layman for the rest of his life. E.5 Ex. BAvarE & his disciples (SN 976-1148) EFTA01162964 There was once a Brahmin ascetic teacher who lived on the banks of a river in DakkhiAApatha and who had many students. He heard praise of the Buddha and decided to send his students to interrogate the Buddha with questions to see if his claim to Buddhahood was justified. They followed the Buddha to RAjagaha, and meeting him, satisfied themselves that he bore all the thirty-two marks of a Great Man. Then each in EFTA01162965 turn asked one or more questions (to a total of thirtyfive different questions!) — Ajita: What is the reason why living beings are enshrouded in unknowing? Buddha: The enshrouding of ignorance is reason for their unknowing. Because of their craving and recklessness no wisdom is available to them. Thus I teach that craving smothers living beings in attachment and suffering is the consequent harm brought. EFTA01162966 Ajita: What is the thing to prevent the craving that 340 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living runs like water through our perceptions? What can release us from craving? Buddha: Mindfulness is what can prevent and protect one from craving while wisdom is what allows one release. Ajita: And what can cause the extinguishing of body and mind components [nAma-rEpa]? Buddha: If the consciousness EFTA01162967 (mind) has already attained extinction, the bodily component will also be brought to extinction. Ajita: What characterises those who have already seen the Dhamma (attained enlightenment)? Buddha: They have no further attachment for sense pleasure, their mind remains unclouded and knowing all mental phenomena they are mindful in all postures. Tissametteyya: Who can be said to be contented? EFTA01162968 Buddha: I call those who are not caught up in sense pleasure . . . those who follow the Brahma-faring, who are restrained as to the senses, who have no further craving, who are mindful in all postures who are of Right View and who have uprooted the defilements from the mind, those who are contented. PuAAaka: What is the reason why large numbers of people worship deities with sacrifices? Buddha: The reason is that their EFTA01162969 aging interferes with them achieving what they wish. PuAAaka: Is it possible through properly practising sacrifices to overcome birth and aging? Buddha: Those who perform sacrifices are motivated by material gain. I say that whoever is so motivated cannot be released from the cycle of rebirth. PuAAaka: If those performing sacrifices cannot obtain release from the cycle of rebirth, then who EFTA01162970 can? Buddha: Those who can attain release must be those who have no further craving in their mind, who have seen the Dhamma by which their mind is peaceful, pure, without unwholesome behaviour to cloud the mind, like a snuffed candle, without further defilements or craving. MettagE: What causes all the suffering in the world? Buddha: Suffering has karma and defilements as EFTA01162971 its cause [upadhi]. The more the cause is fulfilled, the more suffering there will be — thus fools by fulfilling the cause come across suffering often. However, knowing the cause, one should avoid fulfilling it. MettagE: How can one endowed with wisdom cross the ocean of birth, aging and sorrow? Buddha: All my teachings are those you must put into practice by yourself, within the very body of EFTA01162972 yours — it cannot be attained by asking other people — and that is to mindfully overcome the craving that traps you in this world MettagE: Which dhamma does the Buddha rejoice in as the highest? Buddha: The Buddha rejoices in any teaching which reduces absent-mindedness in the beginning, middle or ending — which leads to mindfulness and non-recklessness to know and relinquish attachment to all that is `mine' in order to EFTA01162973 transcend the suffering of birth, aging and sorrow. MettagE: Just as the Buddha must have overcome suffering and doubtlessly have taught your disciples to do the same — may I be accepted as one of your disciples? Buddha: He who is the true Brahmin has (not only) thoroughly studied the Three Vedas (but), has no further defilements or anxieties, has no further attachment in the sensual plane — has crossed EFTA01162974 the ocean of suffering with no remaining suffering — that is who I say is liberated from birth and aging. Dhotaka: In the human or deva-world is their any brahmin perfectly free of concerns? Buddha: Those who know the supreme Dhamma, having overcome doubt, have crossed the ocean of defilement. Dhotaka: What is the device to extinguish the defilements? Buddha: The device which you can EFTA01162975 see for yourself, and which you don't need to enquire from others, is the mindfulness to overcome the craving that attaches the mind to this world. Dhotaka: I delight in the Buddha's explanation of how to overcome defilements. . . Buddha: Once knowing that craving of the high, middle or low level traps beings in the world, entertain no further craving. UpasEva: I find that I have no perceptable mental Blessing Thirty: Regular EFTA01162976 Discussion of the Dhamma 341 state. What mental state can I rely upon to bring me to liberation from this ocean? Buddha: You should take the absorption of the Sphere of Nothingness [AkificaririAyatana-jhAna] as the object of your meditation to cross the ocean, relinquishing sense-pleasure, overcoming doubt and seeing the end of craving be day and by night. UpasEva: Do those who cultivate the Sphere of Nothingness as their object of EFTA01162977 meditation ever know fading out of that state? Buddha: There is no fading out from the state of the Sphere of Nothingness. UpasEva: If a person were to pass away while in the state of meditation on the Sphere of Nothingness would they stay in that realm or would their consciousness enter upon Nirvana? Buddha: Just as a flame which blows out in the wind gives no indication of the direction in which it has gone, those who have gone EFTA01162978 beyond the body and mind constituents [nAma-rEpa] will extinguish with no further trace without further birth. UpasEva: Has that person really been extinguished or are they simply disembodied or do they become eternal beyond danger? Buddha: Those who enter upon ParinibbAna have no further defilements to cause them to be born, they will take no further birth. Nanda: If a sage [munE] exists in the world is he EFTA01162979 one endowed with the absorptions [jhAna] or is it the way he earns his living that makes him a sage? Buddha: One is not called a sage because of what one has seen, heard or known. I say that he who frees himself from defilements, who has no further defilements, who is no longer concerned by craving can be referred to as a `sage'. Nanda: A large number of ascetics and brahmins claim to have become pure by what they have seen EFTA01162980 or heard, by their discipline, torment or methodology do some of them really manage to overcome birth and aging? Buddha: I say that those ascetics and brahmins cannot overcome birth and aging by such practices. Nanda: If these brahmins and ascetics cannot overcome birth and aging, who in the human or devaworld can? Buddha: I do not say that is the case for all brahmins and ascetics are trapped EFTA01162981 in birth and aging, but I say that only those brahmins and ascetics who can relinquish attachment to mental state accompanying all what they have seen or heard, their discipline, torment or methodology, knowing the harmfulness of craving to the extent that they have no further defilement, can overcome birth and aging. Hemaka: In the past I have been distracted by teachers who have speculated about events of the EFTA01162982 future or the past. All that they have done is simply lip-service to true practice. I take no delight in their teachings — what I would really like to know is the thing that allows one to overcome craving? Buddha: Whosoever knows that Nirvana is what can reduce craving and contentment with pleasureable perceptions, that it is not impermanent, and knowing this has mindfulness, who sees the Dhamma and has extinguished EFTA01162983 the defilements, will overcome the craving which leads to attachment to this world. Todeyya: How is the liberation of a person who has transcended the sensual, who has no more craving and who has overcome all doubt? Buddha: The liberation of such a person will be unalterable. Todeyya: Has such a person really overcome craving, possessed of true wisdom or have they just altered their wisdom to change the EFTA01162984 perception of craving or Right View in the mind? Buddha: That person really has no further craving and has achieved true wisdom — it is not just wisdom to change the perception of craving. Kappa: What virtue can be a refuge to those amidst the suffering of aging and death in the same way that an island can be refuge to someone cast adrift in a sea of terrifying waves? Buddha: Nirvana, which is free of EFTA01162985 defilements and concerns, free of craving and attachments, which is beyond aging and death is as an island refuge. Those who know Nirvana can be said to be endowed with mindfulness, have seen the Dhamma, extinguished the defilements and are longer under the power of the MAras, and no longer walk the path of the MAras. JatukaAAE: As one who has overcome defile342 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps EFTA01162986 towards Enlightened Living ments and sensuality, may I know what is the virtue that allows one to overcome birth and aging in this very life? Buddha: If you can put an end to obsession with sensual pleasure, seeing the end of sense indulgence and concern with attachments, craving and views no longer ingrained in your mind, putting an end to any concern you ever had in your mind — not entertaining such concerns at heart, EFTA01162987 your mind will be tranquil and the defilements which allow the MAra of death power over you will no longer exist. BhadrAvudha: What virtue can be of use to those who have come from afar to hear the Dhamma of the Buddha? Buddha: Those people should remove craving from themselves completely, because wherever craving causes people to attach to things or to the world the MAras will be able to EFTA01162988 interfere knowing and seeing how beings become entrapped in the cycle (of existence), monks should cultivate mindfulness and not attach or have concern for anything in the world. Udaya: What is the liberating virtue to be known which can destroy ignorance and un-enlightenedness? Buddha: I say that the virtue to overcome the Five Hindrances, equanimity and mindfulness are the pure virtues which lead to EFTA01162989 liberation and destroying of ignorance. Udaya: What binds one to the world — what is the release from the world — and relinquishing what is Nirvana attained? Buddha: Distractedness binds one to the world. The world can be escaped by mindfulness. By relinquishing craving is Nirvana attained. Udaya: What sort of mindfulness leads to the extinguishing of consciousness? Buddha: When one is not distracted by the inner EFTA01162990 and outer feelings [vedanA], together with mindfulness can the consciousness be extinguished. PosAla: How should a person who has already clearly attained the form (absorptions) seeing inside and outside that nothing remains (attaining the Sphere of Nothingness) practise further? Buddha: He should investigate further in the phenomena arising together with that state of mind to attain the full absorption, in order EFTA01162991 to bring the Brahma-faring to completion. MokharAja: How does the Buddha see the world (including the Brahma-world and deva-world) that death cannot see it? Buddha: The world must be seen with mindfulness, seeing the world as empty for death to be escaped. PiIgiya: I am old and afflicted by loss of strength, wrinkled skin, poor eyesight and hardness of hearing — what is the device for EFTA01162992 overcoming birth and aging in this very life? Buddha: Having seen that others are reckless, suffering by their attachment to beauty — you must not be reckless nor attached to beauty in order to take no further birth. PiIgiya: I have never known any of the ten directions — may the Buddha inform me of the virtue for release from birth and aging in this very life. Buddha: Having seen how living beings are caught EFTA01162993 up in craving and their consequent suffering — assailed on all sides by aging — you should not be reckless, relinquishing craving in order to take no further birth. At the end of the discussion, all BAvarE's disciples and the 16,000 followers who they had gathered during their journey became arahants, except for PiIgiya who became a non-returner [anagAmi] because he was thinking of BAvarE as the Buddha EFTA01162994 preached. PiIgiya took leave of the Buddha and returned to BAvarE to whom he recounted these events. At the end of his recital, the Buddha appeared before them in a ray of glory and preached to them. PiIgiya thereupon became an arahant and BAvarE a non-returner. E.6 Ex. How not to conduct a Dhamma Discussion! There were once a father and a son who were having a drink while they discussed the EFTA01162995 Dhamma. It was approaching the Buddhist Lent, so they were having their last drink before giving up drinking for the duration of the Lent. The father said, "I'll be going to stay in the temple to keep the Eight Precepts so this alcoBlessing Thirty: Regular Discussion of the Dhamma 343 hol will cause me to excrete the digestive bacteria in my stomach so that I don't get too hungry." The son replied, "But isn't it evil EFTA01162996 to excrete those poor digestive bacteria?" "No, because those bacteria are just the cause of illnesses in our body — they don't count." "But I insist — that is really killing living creatures!" Before long, the discussion of the Dhamma has been reduced to an argument and the father chased the son down the road with a shotgun! 344 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Blessing One: Not Associating EFTA01162997 with Fools 345 The Ninth Group of Blessings "Practice for the Eradication of Defilements" Having acquired all the theory we need in the Blessings up to and including Group VIII, the present Ninth Grouping, entitled `practice for the eradication of defilements' is characterized by putting EFTA01162998 theory into practice getting down to earnest spiritual striving. The Grouping consists of: • Blessing Thirty-One: The Practice of Austerities: Putting into practice the sensual restraint and striving needed to burn up the defilements in the mind through the practice of gradual and intense austerities; • Blessing Thirty-Two: The Practice of Chastity: Having practised EFTA01162999 austerity until the worst of the defilements have been uprooted, one must quickly sow the seeds of higher virtue in the mind before the defilements can take root again — especially by extricating the mind from the sense-desire that is the origin of decay and suffering; • Blessing Thirty-Three: Seeing the Four Noble Truths: Cultivating our meditation further to the EFTA01163000 point we can know and understand the reality of life and the world otherwise known as attaining the DhammakAya; • Blessing Thirty-Four: The Attainment of Nirvana: Having seen the Four Noble Truths, if one cultivates meditation further, bringing the mind to a standstill so that it can further penetrate at the centre of the DhammakAya, the mind will become sufficiently refined to EFTA01163001 enter upon Nirvana the subtlest of defilements gradually falling away until there are no remaining defilements and arahantship can be attained. 346 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Striver's Reasoning " I should be quick to meditate, because time for such striving will soon be precious" "I should be quick to meditate to make up for time wasted while work was in hand" "I should be quick to meditate, because time for such EFTA01163002 striving will be hard to find en route" "I should be quick to meditate to make up for time wasted en route" "I should be quick to meditate while I have an amenably `light' stomach" "I should be quick to meditate while all the energy of the food in my stomach is readily available" "I should be quick to meditate before it gets worse" "I should be quick to meditate before there is a relapse" Situation Knowing there is work on its EFTA01163003 way... Having just finished their work . . . Knowing a long journey is at hand . . . Having just completed a long journey . . . Having had only a little food to eat . . . Having had a lot to eat . . . Being on the brink of illness . . Having just recovered EFTA01163004 from illness . . . Backslider's Reasoning "It's not worth meditating because I will soon be interrupted by work anyway" "After all that work, I deserve to rest instead of meditating" "It's not worth meditating because I will soon be interrupted by the journey anyway" "After such a long journey, I deserve to rest instead of meditating" " I can't be expected to meditate on an empty stomach!" "Don't expect me to meditate EFTA01163005 immediately after a meal!" "If I meditate, I might be risk my health — so better that I sleep instead" "If I sit for meditation it might cause a relapse — so better that I sleep instead" TABLE 31.1 Backsliders vs. Strivers' Outlook on the World Blessing Thirty-One: The Practice ofAusterities 347 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 The place of Blessing Thirty-One in the order of things EFTA01163006 With this Blessing we come to the thirty-first step on the staircase of Buddhist practice. An overview of the Manual of Peace reveals that the thirty previous Blessings have been nothing more than `groundwork' for the spiritual journey ahead — which requires removing the impurities or `defilements' from the mind. Thus this Blessing is the first to deal earnestly with the nature of the defilements in the mind and continues by EFTA01163007 advocating the austerities — particularly sensual restraint and striving in meditation — as methods of removing them. B. DEFILEMENTS B.1 Defilements in the mind If we look at our human being we can conclude that we are made up of two distinct parts: body and mind. If you want to be technical your can use the word `rEpa' for the part that is the body as opposed to `nAma' for the mind. Although EFTA01163008 the body might look bigger and stronger than the mind, in fact, of the two, it is the quality of the mind which has the greatest influence on our lives. The human mind is like a dynamic energy, which is like a sphere which is normally about the size of the tip of your little finger. The mind in its natural state takes the form of a clear sphere of diamond brightness, however, when polluted, the sparkling mind is reduced to dullness and EFTA01163009 weakness, lowering its potential. This pollution is caused by the impurities that reside in the mind — known by the technical term `defilements' [kilesa]. Defilements are already something we have met in many of the previous blessings — including 5, 7, 16, 19, 20, 21, 24 and 27 (not to be confused with the `defilements of action' [kammakilesa] which are actually just the outward manifestations of the real EFTA01163010 `defilements' in the mind). In this blessing, however, we start to tackle these defilements directly — as we shall see, by the practice of austerities. Defilements in the mind are equivalent to the bacteria and viruses which infect the body, causing illness. We may think that the possible number of illnesses of the body are a lot, but in fact they are not nearly so numerous as the illnesses of the mind. In the mind the major infections that EFTA01163011 destroy the capabilities of the mind are things like craving, hatred, vengefulness, wishing for fame, sleepiness, wanting people to admire us for our beauty — all these are signs that the mind is out of condition. Defilements have gross and subtle forms in just the same way that litter has both gross and refined forms. Gross litter can be picked up and put in a trash can or a waste basket. Defilements also have EFTA01163012 their subtle forms which are rather like dust. Such defilements are so subtle that they cannot be seen with normal eyesight. They are like the dust that clings to a mirror that make it dull — if you take a Blessing Thirty-One: The Practice of Austerities 348 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living cloth, you can clean away such dust so that you EFTA01163013 can see clearly in the mirror again. We cannot afford to remain ignorant of the nature of the defilements to facilitate our efficiency in ridding ourself from these for good. Defilements in the mind are like the residue of engrained bad habits. They are the things which cause us to act upon our emotions rather than our common sense. Even though all these mental taints might be considered minor — no more than `rust' in the mind, EFTA01163014 we have to try to get rid of them because otherwise they will be damaging to us in the future. For most people, the mental taints are so subtle that they feel that it doesn't really matter whether they are there or not. They are like tiny bacteria which can cause much more serious diseases. Unless we have tried meditation, it would be difficult to appreciate the dangers of these taints. However, when we dedicate ourselves to mental training, we EFTA01163015 see that these taints cannot be ignored. Although defilements may be small, abstract and hidden away in the deepest recesses of our minds, they cannot fail to have dire effects on our everyday lives. In individual work defilements can create problems in the the way we make decisions especially when we succumb to bias. When we work with others, defilements in the mind become even more evident when they cause EFTA01163016 discord between those supposed to be working as a team. Defilements originate as a sort of residue from bad habits. Statistically speaking, the more we have done something in the past, the more we will be likely to do it in the future. If all we have done in the past are good and virtuous things, then that would be our good luck. However, for most of us there are bad habits. The more we do them, the more EFTA01163017 the chance that we will do them again. If we quit any of these habits, we feel a lot of resistance. Although we may not see the source of such resistance at its root, we can know that this is the action of defilements. B.2 Principlesfor removing defilements Such an understanding of the nature and the location of the defilements is vital to a correct understanding of how to eradicate them. Some ascetic religions EFTA01163018 believe that defilements are located in the body — therefore they try to wash away their sins by washing themselves in a sacred river like the Ganges (e.g. SalgArava Brahmin [S.i.182ff.]) — as already mentioned in the purification practices of Blessing Sixteen (M2). Even some ill-informed Buddhists try to find material solutions to immaterial problems. They think that if their prospective husband is habitually bad-tempered, they EFTA01163019 can cure the problem before their marriage by washing him with holy water. Misunderstanding of the nature of defilements has given rise to many strange religious rituals in the world. People even link their heads together with a sacred thread at their marriage ceremony with the belief that it will keep them together for the rest of their lives. They can only tie themselves together — but they will never be able to tie EFTA01163020 their hearts and minds together for life! The Buddha used principles for removing defilements of fighting the fire of defilements with the fire of austerity. The purpose of austerity is directly to burn up of the defilements of the mind. B.3 Difficulty in removing the defilements If our body is ill, doctors have to find the bacteria or viruses that have infected us. In medical science they use all sorts of technologies to study the infections EFTA01163021 in the mind. They use microscopes to identify the infection, study the properties of the infection and put a name to it. For the mind, it is the same process. We have to identify the defilement we wish to remove, catch the defilement and put a name to it — however, there are three problems concerning removing defilements from the mind: I. Defilements are hard to see: The problem with destroying defilements in the mind EFTA01163022 is that defilements are even smaller that the mind itself. Most people cannot even see their own mind, let alone the defilements that exist in the mind. 2. We take our defilements for granted: Our mind is so used to being bathed in defilements that it is hard even to notice the effect they are having on us. We feel that they are like a legitimate part of our personality. It is like a person with athlete's EFTA01163023 foot who half enjoys having an itch to scratch. The Buddha taught that we are as used Blessing Thirty-One: The Practice ofAusterities 349 to our own defilements as a fish is used to water. A fish without water will surely die. If anyone attempts to take a fish out of water it will struggle with all its might to get back into the water again. In the same way, people are used to defilements, they will go to great lengths to EFTA01163024 preserve them. 3. The way to remove defilements is elusive: It wasn't for the Buddha arising in the world, we wouldn't know how to cope with defilements in the mind. Even though some religions know that defilements exist in the mind, they know that the mind takes defilements for granted, but they don't have any idea how to overcome those defilements. They know they are lazy but they EFTA01163025 don't have any idea what to do about it. They know they shouldn't covet their neighbour's wife, but they cannot get her off their mind. All they think is, "Why does it have to happen to me?" What they lack are the techniques of practising austerity taught by the Lord Buddha which are the subject of this Blessing. C. AUSTERITY C.1 Definition The word used for `practising EFTA01163026 austerity' in the Pali is `tapa' which literally means to make something hot. It can mean to roast, to boil, to grill or to smoke — anything that burns or heats something. It is not the same as `tapas' — better known as a small savoury dish to befound in Spanish bars — although it readers may find this a good ' aidememoire' ! If you can burn out the defilements all that will be left is the unblemished mind. Such a EFTA01163027 pure mind is wise, not liable to anger etc. etc. It is like heating up crude ore to extract the pure metal that can be used for something useful. Such austerities should not be confused with the self-mortification practices of Brahminism tried and rejected by the Buddha before his enlightenment. Although these practices are also sometimes called `tape', their objective is different — to weaken the body to the point of feeling EFTA01163028 no more sense-desire in contrast to Buddhist `tapa' which aim to uproot the defilements in the mind. C.2 Categories of Austerities There are two sorts of austerity: 1. Gradual Removal of Defilements [sallekha]: The Buddha taught a total of forty-four defilements in the Sallekha Sutta (M.i.40ff.) together with the gradual virtuous behaviours needed to uproot each of them. The sallekha are gradual solutions EFTA01163029 and this is the content of almost every heading of Dhamma in the Buddhist scriptures. Thus, for example: • if you know you are a very greedy person, then you can change yourself gradually by practising generosity. If you practice every day in the end the tendency to crave others' possessions will gradually disappear. • if you are a particularly hot-tempered person, you should make sure you spread EFTA01163030 lovingkindness on a daily basis, before we go to bed. • if you know you covet a new woman every day or if the whole of the female world looks beautiful to us, you should try to keep the Eight Precepts. Going without a meal in the evening will start to undercut the power of your desires little by little. Giving up wearing make-up and jewelry will help to diminish EFTA01163031 your tendencies also. The power of your sensual desires will gradually be reduced. • if you are forgetful then gradually train yourself in mindfulness. 2. Intensive Removal of Defilements [dhutaIga]: There is another sort of removal of defilements which is more intense... This set of teachings is a radical way of overcoming bad habits accumulated over the course of many years. The Buddha EFTA01163032 categorized the root bad habits of people into four major categories: habits concerning dress, habits concerning food, habits concerning accommodation and habits concerning laziness. There are thirteen different forms of dhutalga practice and they address these four major types of bad habit. C.3 Thirteen forms of Intense Austerity (Vism.59-83) Overcoming the wish to be choosy about clothes EFTA01163033 [cEvara-paEisaOyutta] I. Rag-robe wearer's Practice [paOsukElikaIga] 350 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Wearing only robes made from rags retrieved from a dust heap or from a charnel ground (§1). 2. Triple-robe wearer's Practice [tecEvarikaIga] Usually just three robes are allowed for monks to use, that is the upper robe [uttarasankaO], the outer robe [saIghatiO] and the waistcloth EFTA01163034 [antaravasakaO]. These three robes are supposed to be adequate to keep monks warm even in the coldest of weather. In later times there have been trends to allow monks to have additional accessory cloths such as girdles, belts and a vest to absorb sweat in hot climates. Usually monks will have a change of robes to a maximum of three, to allow one set to be washed when the other is being worn. However, if EFTA01163035 you practice dhutaIga, only three robes are allowed. This practice puts an end to the desire to be choosy about your clothes. You have to be very careful about where and how you sit or else you will soil your robes and have to go to the inconvenience of washing them again. Thus such a practice makes you see the value of the robes you have while at the same time training you in EFTA01163036 mindfulness (§2). Overcoming slavery to one's appetite [piAIapAtapatisaOyutta]: If you are the sort of person who cannot control your eating it is hard to make progress in meditation. If you eat too much you will be sleepy. With too much protein perhaps you will be subject to sensual temptations. If you cannot restrain your appetite for food it is unlikely that you will ever be able to overcome your appetite for EFTA01163037 sexual temptations. The Buddha wanted monks to avoid becoming slave to their appetites and even without following dhutaIga practice monks are not allowed to eat between midday and the dawn of the next morning, even if food is offered. There are thus several ways in which monks can train themselves to become less controlled by their appetite: I. Almsfood-eater's Practice [piAIapAEikaIga] Eating only food that has been EFTA01163038 received on almsround. If anyone offers food to you on a plate you cannot accept it. You accept only as much as is given. If anyone makes something especially for you, you cannot accept it. Even if some other food offered is better than that in your bowl, you cannot accept it (§3). 2. House-to-house seeker's Practice [sapadAnacArikalga] For this practice you are only allowed to go for almsround along EFTA01163039 prescribed routes. You may not go on almsround to places where you think you might get better food. You cannot just go down a street where you know plenty of rich people live who might give you appetizing food (§4). 3. One meal eater's practice [elcAsanikaIga] If householders aren't satisfied with their breakfast, they can make up for it at lunch time. If they are not satisfied with their lunch they EFTA01163040 can make up for it with an extra large evening meal. They eat so much that they have to sleep all afternoon and gradually regurgitate the food little by little like a cow chewing the cud. For monks however, with only two meals a day, they have to train themselves to be content with whatever they receive. Even so, on two meals a day, some monks can still not help but be interested in food, and may EFTA01163041 overeat, becoming sleepy as the result. Therefore some monks prefer to take only one meal per day (§5). 4. Bowl-eater's practice [pattapiAlikaIga] This practice entails eating all your food mixed up together. This is particularly suitable for those addicted to tasty food. In a single bowl all the food will be mixed up, no matter whether it be rice, chocolate powder, fish soup or whatever. By the EFTA01163042 time the fourth or fifth contribution is added to the bowl, the contents will resemble pig-swill. Eating your food in this way will help to remind you what the purpose of eating is — to give you strength to carry on doing good deeds, not just for the sheer enjoyment of eating (§6). 5. Late-serving refuser's practice [khalupacchAbhattikaIga] This practice entails not accepting further offerings of food once you have already EFTA01163043 started eating (§7). Overcoming Attachment to Luxury Accommodation [senAsana-paEisaOyutta] I. Forest-dweller's practice [AraffilikaIga] This practice entails living only in shelters in the forBlessing Thirty-One: The Practice of Austerities 351 est and never using accommodation in the town (§8)- 2. Tree-root dweller's practice [rukkhamElikaIga] This practice entails living only in the forest at EFTA01163044 the roots of trees without any building for shelter. Such a person will stay under a tent or a mosquito net — nothing more (§9). 3. Open-air dweller's practice [abbholcAsikaIga] This practice entails living out in the open, not even using the trees for shelter. It serves radically to reduce your attachment to comfort, luxury and fulfillment of sense desire (§10). 4. Charnel-ground-dweller's practice [sosAnikaIga] EFTA01163045 This practice entails living only in a graveyard where corpses have been laid to rest without coffins. The sound of mice running in and out of corpses and the sound of wind escaping from corpses as they dry-out will soon put an end to sexual obsessions and delusions of grandeur (§11). 5. Any-bed-user's practice [yathAsantatikaIga] This practice entails taking your shelter wherever EFTA01163046 you are put by your host. Even those who stay under a camping umbrella or mosquito net are sometimes choosy about where they stay — staying near the kitchen if they like the smell of food or near the toilet if they think they are going to have to visit often. If someone is extremely choosy, maybe they should try staying in the open air instead (§12) (see 010) above). Overcoming Laziness EFTA01163047 [viriya-paEisaOyutta] I. Sitter's practice [nesajjikaIga] This practice entails avoiding lying down. Usually when one stays on a dhutaIga retreat, one is there to meditate anyway. If you keep this sort of dhutaIga practice you must restrict the position of your body to standing, walking or sitting down. In the time of the Buddha, monks would keep this ascetic practice for the duration of the rainy season. EFTA01163048 It works well for a group only when everybody in the group is at the same high level of advancement in meditation. It should only be done when you can meditate well enough to overcome sleepiness (§13). CA Necessary virtues for practising austerity In general, practice of any Dhamma practice is the practice of austerities at the level of ' sallekha' (above), however, for the practice of intense austerities, it is EFTA01163049 normal to practice under'residential' circumstances (i.e. to join a `dhutaIga camp'). When you practice austerities, you have to do so while applying the following virtues: I. Patience: (see Blessing Twenty-Seven) 2. Must keep the Precepts strictly according to your personal status: If you are a householder, Five Precepts is no longer sufficient. You have to keep the Eight Precepts at the least. Some people EFTA01163050 might like to keep Ten Precepts like a novice. If you are a novice you must keep your Ten Precepts strictly. If you are a monk you must keep your 227 Precepts strictly. 3. Keep Sabbath Self-Discipline [uposathakamma]: You must revise your Precepts regularly in the same way as monks revise their Precepts by taking part in the pAEimokkha recitation ceremony every two weeks; 4. You must study the Teachings EFTA01163051 of the Buddha: You need to alternate your activities with the learning and memorizing of the scriptures by Dhamma sermons or readings and daily chanting. 5. Practise austerities to the best ofyour ability: Some healthy people might keep all thirteen of the dhutalga rules at once, but it is more normal just to keep two or three of the rules at a time; 6. Restraint of the senses; EFTA01163052 7. Striving in meditation Sometimes the sallekha' practices might seem to overlap with the practices already mentioned in the preceding Blessings. Sometimes for a person who still leads the household life and who must hold down a job, some of the dhutalga practices will not be at all compatible with everyday life on a daily basis. However — if one knows what the practices entail, one can look for opportunities to pursue EFTA01163053 them on a sabbatical basis — perhaps during free weekends or during the long summer holidays. Of these seven virtues, the first five have already been 352 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living discussed in the forgoing Blessings. As for practice in everyday life, we find that far from being strangers to everyday life, the twin practices of restraint of the senses and striving to meditate are perfectly amenable even to the householder. EFTA01163054 The following sections give further explanation of these sixth and seventh virtues of the practitioner of austerity — i.e. restraint of the senses [indriya saOvara](see §D. below) and striving [viriya] (see section E. below). D. RESTRAINT OF THE SENSES D.1 The Six Sense-doors All of us have six channels by which we can improve or damage the quality of our minds and lives. They are like six entrances or EFTA01163055 doorways to the mind. The six entrances are: 1. Eyes 2. Ears 3. Nose 4. Tongue 5. Our skin 6. Our mind Supposing there is a walled city with six gates — if ever the gateman is caught unawares, robbers or enemies can gain access to the house or the city by any of the six entrances — subsequently wreaking havoc inside that city. The sense EFTA01163056 doors of the mind are comparable to those city gates. If our mindfulness is ever caught unawares, damaging sensory information can find its way into our mind. If such damaging things can gain entry to the mind they will stir up the mind causing the defilements already there to create trouble for us. The Buddha went further to compare the sense-doors to lowly animals: I. The eyes are like a snake: the EFTA01163057 eyes are always tempted to look at secret things; 2. The ears are like a crocodile: in just the same way that the crocodile loves cool water, the ears are always tempted to hear the flattery or flowery speech of others; 3. The nose is like a caged bird: in just the same way that a caged bird will never stay still in its struggle to escape, the nose will always be obsessed to find the source of any pleasant smell it EFTA01163058 detects; 4. The tongue is like a mad dog: it is always frothing with saliva at the mouth — if ever it has a moment free it will fulfill itself by gossiping about the neighbours (even though the gossipper knows how angry they would get if anyone gossiped about them!) 5. The body is like a fox: like a fox it likes to find a warm and comfortable place to rest or to take the weight off its feet. EFTA01163059 6. The mind is like a monkey: it is never still, but must find something to think about the whole of the time. Even if you try to train your mind to think of a crystal ball or a Buddha image the whole of time, it will think of castles in the air and every other possible thing under the sun. Thus each of the sense doors has its own damaging tendencies in the absence of sensual restraint. This is why the Buddha didn't have a EFTA01163060 EFTA01163061 s 0lst l 's0sou eIn sij0 `SIe0 mo I spunos 's o/c0 Rio e s 08 。AI000.1 0 U0LIM，, : [I nHUTU] 刃。軍，’4 uondadiad atp u何？力77n一u。AI7 :smopj 0opuid 1 sn pq2nui. u LTppn EI alp 's 0su0s 0q18unn' S0JO 卻Ie1O U0LIM ．11111 Mal IenS11as 91unpIno 1 si s 0su0s QUIJO 人1IIIqw0u[nA 18UILU00.10AO 0坯叫0 犁vd211 JOU 刃。軍，帆 ii! 'MP 缸ludunPviiV i &loop-0su0s a .10J OSTIA Jo pioA气 via our tastebuds, sensations via our skin or inner experience via our mind, we must not become attached to the source of those sensations (in a positive or a negative way)" — if we see an attractive lady we must not react with the thought, "How beautiful she is!" If you see someone who is repulsive you must not react with the though, "How repulsive that person is!" If you are caught unawares thinking EFTA01163062 such a thought, the thought will stir up defilements latent in the mind. 2. Non-attachment to the perception in part [anubyanjana]: You might see an attractive woman and think to yourself, "Overall, this woman is not very attractive but . . . how beautiful her lips are — like Cupid's!" or "Overall, this woman is not very attractive but . . . look at her little twinkling eyes!" Even such EFTA01163063 an attachment Blessing Thirty-One: The Practice ofAusterities 353 can lead us to make serious mistakes. People recognize, that such-and-such a man is completely irresponsible and all his habits are despicable but . . . his gaze is so mesmerizing that they marry him for the rest of their lives! In the opposite sense even the sight of a part of an object might cause us irritation and anger. D.3 Restraint of the Senses paves EFTA01163064 the way to liberation It is all very well knowing the advantages of sensual restraint, but what if every woman you look at is beautiful? You have to develop conscience (as already mentioned in Blessing Nineteen §D.3) — and the possibility of what might happen to us if we make a mistake with our senses. It is a way of building up shame of evil [hiri] and fear of the consequences of evil [ottappa]. The Buddha taught EFTA01163065 (Hiri Sutta A.iv.99) that training ourselves in conscience will lead eventually to liberation in the same way that if the heartwood of a tree is not rotten, it will protect the bark, and branches from rot too. More specifically, if we can manage to train ourselves inconscience [hiriottappa], restraint of the senses [indriya saOvara] will be the natural consequence. If we are going to look at people, we look at them to find out what good EFTA01163066 virtues they possess that we might learn from. We don't go looking for the physical beauty of others or any other superficial quality. If you keep on training yourself in this way it will make your self-discipline [sEla] steadfast. You will be able to upgrade your level of Precepts. From not being able to keep the Five Precepts properly you will be able to upgrade to keeping the Five Precepts properly, but not yet the Eight. If you continue to train EFTA01163067 yourself in restraint of the senses, before long you will be able to keep the Eight Precepts properly too. They will establish themselves almost automatically. Once our Precepts are properly kept, Right Concentration [sammA samAdhi] will arise of its own accord. If you find in the present day that your meditation doesn't seem to be making much progress, then examine the purity of your Precepts. If the purity of your Precepts EFTA01163068 leaves something to be desired, they pay more attention to the restraint of the sense doors. Sometimes when you sit for meditation, images of beautiful celebrities or whisky bottles will arise in the mind — these are signs that your restraint of the senses needs improvement. If you can develop your restraint of the senses sufficiently, your Precepts will be pure, meditation will arise and brightness will arise inside to the degree you can start to see EFTA01163069 the mind and the defilements in the mind, so that you can start to work directly on the purification of the mind by the qualities of seeing things as they really are [yathAbhEtariAAadassana] in the same way as a medical worker can identify the vectors of illness in the body with his microscope — starting at first with only lenses of low-power, but gradually acquiring medium-power, high-power, oil-emulsion and eventually an electron microscope until none EFTA01163070 of the vectors of illness have anywhere left to hide and they can be destroyed. In the same way, as the sublety of our concentration increases, it will give way to dispassion with sensuality [nibbitA], release [virAga] and eventually the seeing and knowing of liberation [vimuttifiAAadassana] (Kimatthiya Sutta A.v.1) E. STRIVING IN MEDITATION By this time in the study of the Manual of Peace, by EFTA01163071 Blessing Thirty-One we are sure to be able to tell what is right and what is wrong. We know that the practice of austerity is good, but we may be prone to giving up too easily instead of seeing our practice through to its conclusion. We think of keeping Eight Precepts for the whole of the three months of the rainy season. After the third day, when you feel hungry in the evening, you start to think to yourself, "I have kept the Eight Precepts for EFTA01163072 three days already — and that is already a lot of merit . . . maybe I will keep Eight Precepts again at the end of the rainy season . . . seven days altogether . . . and that is plenty of merit for me." For such a person, the ability to strive is only weakly developed. E.1 Four types of effort (A.11.15, 16, 74) Properly developed striving has four components: 1. not doing evils which you never did before EFTA01163073 EFTA01163074 'a转）Ipout O1 2ou osnoxo nu tuIt4 S0AT8 SA1 MI1 pIJOM 0lp. 1 opn i1℃ s J ' opqs Toeq v (g)guipqs pnq Jofsastma ffulumaixto z'7 亿uyjptdyq涠uJnu闳 ssossod Apt alp no C swim poo8 ot)8 MITI )UT1 U ' . id/ 117 pauavgyug spivevim sda7SR':aova I fo 1vnuppv V psi !put `[.Buytlipt dyurnigrqq] aiqpq J0A0U noA spoop poo8 8 Imp ’￡ ![ruyqp deurp d] ssossod Apt alp noX s1 llna 8UTUIO3.10AO ’乙 '[puVqppdeJpAQ℃S] whereas the attitude of a striver will lead him to take every chance to further his meditation (see Table 31.1 p.346). If you use any or all of the backslider's reasoning for not meditating, you will be perfectly able to sleep all year round and never do any meditation again. The same goes for people who cannot meditate in the summer because it is too hot. They cannot meditate in the winter because it is too cold. In the seasons EFTA01163075 when the climateis just right, they regret not using the favourable temperatures to get some hard-earned rest. Such excuses are not hard to find. However, in the practice of austerity, even in everyday life, we should not resort to the lazy excuses above, but instead try to transform that reasoning into the reasoning of a striver. F. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES F.1 Ex. Loma-kassapa JAtaka (.1.433) EFTA01163076 Many aeons ago the Bodhisattva was born as a hermit called Loma-Kassapa. The hermit trained himself in austerities and asceticism together with meditation (pre-Buddhist). He focused his mind on things outside the body and was able to attain the absorptions [jhAna]. However his attainments in meditation were still not very steadfast. His mind was not perfectly at a standstill. Even so, the more he practiced meditation, the more EFTA01163077 he managed to attain supranormal powers. He could fly through the air at will. Indral the king of heaven observed how powerful Loma-Kassapa was becoming and realized that before long a mere `human' would soon be becoming more powerful than any of the angels including himself. Indra felt jealous and didn't want Loma-Kassapa to increase his mental powers to the degree that he would outshine the EFTA01163078 angels of heaven. He looked for a way to destroy the magical powers of Loma-Kassapa and found that in the town of Benares, there was a princess so beautiful that she would be bound to distract Loma- Kassapa from his practice. Thus Indra went to the king of Benares and told him that if he wanted to rule the world he would have to make a special animal sacrifice and the only person who could do that was Loma-Kassapa. Indra told EFTA01163079 the king that Loma-Kassapa would be too afraid to kill an animal for sacrifice because it would be too obvious a way of giving in to temptation. However, if the king were to lure Loma-Kassapa using the princess, before long Loma-Kassapa would be fooled into doing the sacrifice. The king of Benares agreed to do the sacrifice and immediately sent his daughter to tempt the hermit. Unfortunately the hermit lacked EFTA01163080 restraint of the senses. As soon as he started thinking about the beauty of the princess he became slave to his latent sensual desires. His meditational powers disappeared instantly. He could no longer fly in the air. Now he had to walk — and he started to follow the princess along the road back towards Benares. It came to the day of the sacrifice and he was still wearing the clothes of an ascetic — he felt nothing EFTA01163081 about the fact that he was going to have to kill an animal for sacrifice, because sensual desire had overcome him. However, the people of Benares complained and protested asking how a hermit could ever do such a thing. All the animals of the town howled and screamed at the same time. Someone said the words, "The sun has strength, the moon has strength, monks and ascetics have strength, the ocean EFTA01163082 coast has its strength, but none of these forms of strength can rival that of a temptress." On this occasion the complaints and the sound of the animals brought mindfulness back to Loma- Kassapa. He threw away his sword and shame and fear of evil and the consequences of evil [hiri-ottappa] returned to him. He restrained his senses again. His Precepts became intact again and his ability to meditate returned. He was able to float and EFTA01163083 fly in the air again. He flew up into the air and taught to all of the assembled people to learn from his mistake — to practice restraint of the senses for themselves too 1. The word Indra is a rank or title rather than a personal name which denotes the most powerful angel in TavatiOsa heaven. The angel occupying this rank will change from time to time as angels are reborn again to the human realm. Blessing Thirty-One: The Practice ofAusterities 355 EFTA01163084 - so that the people of the world would not be slaves to their senses. Once Loma-Kassapa had give his warning, he flew away back to the forest again. F.2 Ex. MudulakkhaAa JAtaka (J.66) In previous lifetimes when the Buddha was still pursuing perfections as the bodhisattva, he renounced the world in order to liberate himself from the world of sense-desire. Practising meditation in the Great Forest, before long, EFTA01163085 through earnest practice, he was able to attain psychic powers through his meditation. Because the hermit could fly through the air by his mental powers, he would always do so instead of walking. On one occasion in search of supplementary minerals, he travelled through the air to Benares for alms and while there stayed in the royal park. The king of Benares was pleased with the hermit's demenour and persuaded EFTA01163086 him to live permanently in the royal park. Sixteen years passed and the king, leaving the city to quell a border rising, left Queen MudulakkhaAa in the care of the ascetic. The hermit was slightly inconsiderate of his sponsor — and would visit the palace for alms at his own convenience. Any day he was particularly hungry, he would go earlier to the palace. On days he was not so hungry, he would go later. Thus the EFTA01163087 queen would prepare food each day, but would never know when the ascetic would come to collect alms. On the fateful day, the ascetic had still not come for alms at the appointed hour, so the queen, tired of waiting went about her toilet and laid down to relax while waiting for his arrival. The ascetic finished his meditation and flew unannounced through the air at high speed, to the palace for his alms not entering by the EFTA01163088 door, but through the open window! The queen had very little warning, hearing nothing but the sudden sound of the wind whistling through the ascetic's bark clothing as he flew. Getting quickly up from her couch, the queen's clothes slipped from her body, revealing her nakedness to the ascetic. It was never the intention of the queen to lead her respected ascetic into temptation — however, EFTA01163089 it was too late for the ascetic whose mind had already been imprinted with her image — all manner of desires long hidden away in his mind overflowed — the hermit fell instantly in love with her, consequently losing all his iddhi powers. As he had flown to the palace in the morning, he returned to his dwelling on foot. . . Meanwhile the queen was upset to think she had unwittingly contributed to the undermining of her hermit's EFTA01163090 austerities. Seven days later the king returned, he found the ascetic disconsolate and unable to eat — on learning the reason, and out of respect for the hermit, without hesitation agreed to offer him the queen in marriage. The reason why the king could deal so amenably with the hermit was that he was sure that the hermit's condition was the result of his mistakes or carelessness and not because of any wicked intention EFTA01163091 in the hermit's mind. Hearing the king's equitable words, the hermit recovered instantly from all his apparent illness. Secretly, however, he asked the queen, to think of some device by which she might save the ascetic's holiness. Together the ascetic and the queen left the palace and went to a derelict house given to them by the king which had previously been used as a lavatory. The queen made the ascetic clean EFTA01163092 the house (knowing full well that dealing with loathesomeness [asubhasaririA] is a ready antedote to sense desire). Furthermore, she made him fetch water and do a hundred other chores. Having pushed him to the very limits of his physical ability — the queen shook him by the shoulders and shouted: "And still you don't wake up to the fact you are a monastic? Is this how an ascetic who must be and example of relinquishing EFTA01163093 sense-pleasure for the rest of the world should behave? The ascetic then realized his folly and hastened back to the king, surrendering the queen with the words: "Before obtaining the beautiful Queen MudulakkhaAa she was the only thing in the world I desired. But once having obtained her for myself, the desire for other things has increased without end." With these words, the hermit was EFTA01163094 able to recover his mental powers.Taking his leave, the hermit flew back through the air to the Himavanta forest where 356 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living he cultivated the `divine abidings' [brahma-vihAra] for the rest of his life and on passing away was reborn in the Brahma world. F.3 Ex. Buddha's vow under the Bodhi Tree The Buddha himself was an example to us the ideal attitude to striving. On the morning EFTA01163095 before he sat for meditation for his enlightenment, he received milk-rice from SujAtA and a seat of perfumed grass under the Maha Bodhi Tree. The Buddha sat for meditation under the Bodhi Tree and made the vow, "For however long it take for me to attain enlightenment as a fully enlightened Buddha, even if my body should shrivel and die leaving only skin, sinew and bone, I will not leave EFTA01163096 this meditation seat." Physical Body: Of course, everybody reading this book has a physical body (although after reading Blessing Twelve you now appreciate how difficult this has been to achieve!), but the inner experience that is central to the existence of the human body is a sphere of light at the centre of the mind that is bright and clear like a shining star — and which in the DhammakAya tradition is called the `initial path' [paEhama magga]. This is equivalent to the first form-absorption in its EFTA01163097 precursory form. If you want to check the qualities of your experience with those in the TipiEaka you will find that indeed you have the qualities of initial application of mind [vitakka], continued application of mind [vicAra], joy [piti], happiness [sukha] and one-pointedness [ekaggatA]. The defilements associated with the physical human body comprise covetousness [abhijjhA], vengefulness [byApAda] and False View [micchA diEEhi]. When the mind is sufficiently pure to be released from these three defilements, the mind will attain the Angelic EFTA01163098 Body. Angelic Body: This form is an inner body similar to the subtle human body but more refined and beautiful. This level is equivalent to the second form-absorption. The defilements associated with the Angelic Body are greed [lobha], hatred [dosa] and delusion [moha]. When the mind is sufficiently pure to be released from these three defilements, the mind will attain the Form-Brahma Body. FormBrahma Body: This form is an inner body similar to the angelic body but more refined and beautiful. This is equivalent to EFTA01163099 the Third Absorption.The defilements associated with the BrahmA Body are grasping [rAga], hatred [dosa] and delusion [moha]. When the mind is sufficiently pure to be released from these three defilements, the mind will attain the Formless Brahma Body. FormlessBrahma Body: This form is an inner body similar to the Brahma form but more refined and beautiful. This is equivalent to the fourth absorption.The defilements associated with the Formless Brahma Body are subtle desire [kAmarAga Anusaya], EFTA01163100 annoyance [pAEighA Anusaya] and subtle ignorance [avijjA Anusaya]. When the mind is sufficiently pure to be released from these three defilements, the mind will attain the first Dhamma Body [DhammakAya GotrabhE]. Initial Body of Enlightenment: This is an inner body of the form of a crystal clear initial body of enlightenment inside oneself. The first Body of Enlightenment stands at the threshold between the mundane [lokiya] and the transcendental [lokuttara] worlds and is called `DhammalcAya GotrabhE'. There are EFTA01163101 still some subtle defilements left in the mind called `fetters' [saOyojana] — but these will be dealt with by cultivating the four remaining bodies of enlightenment — stream-enterer [sotApanal, once-returner [sakidagAmi], nonreturner [anagami] and arahant (detail is given in Blessing Thirty-Three). L 0 K I Y A EFTA01163102 B H U M I sensual L OK UTT AR A form formless TABLE 32.1 Correlation of inner experience to sphere of mental experience sphere of mind subjective EFTA01163103 experience Blessing Thirty-Two: Practising the Brahma-Faring 357 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 The place of Blessing Thirty-Two in the order of things As far back as Blessing Six (0.) we learned about levels of aim in life indeed, earlier blessings were adequate for exclusively material aim in life but moving into the material/spiritual or exclusively spiritual ways of life, we need to depthen our understanding EFTA01163104 of spiritual practice to serve our higher aim in life. At the time of studying Blessing Six several complex facets of Buddhist cosmology and attainment were left unexplained — and now, as we near the end of the Manual of Peace with striving towards liberation, it is necessary to explain some of these concepts before going further — concepts which include the Buddhist world system, mental attainments and the transcendental. EFTA01163105 In Blessing Thirty-One we studied about austerities as a way of burning up defilements in the mind. However, once you have burned up your defilements that is not the end of the story. It is like farmers in the rainy season who have pulled out and burned-up the weeds in the field. As soon as the weeds are gone and all that is left is the fertile soil, you have to be quick to plough. As soon as the rain falls, you have to be quick to sow EFTA01163106 your crops. If you are slow to sow your crops you will find that the weeds will grow up again worse than before. You will have wasted your time completely. With the removal of defilements from the mind, it is the same principle. Once you have practiced the austerities, as soon as you find that your mind starts to become detached from sensual indulgence and laziness, you must be quick to upgrade your EFTA01163107 mind towards the transcendental attainments. If you are slow or too lazy, your old bad habits will come back worse than before. Moreover, if our level of attainment were accidentally to reach transcendental attainment, if our way of life were not sufficiently pure, it would not be able to support it. A.2 Definition: the Brahmafaring The Pali word used to refer to this blessing is `brahmacariya'. This word is EFTA01163108 sometimes translated as `brahma-faring'or `holy-life' — or sometimes, more mundanely as, `celibacy' or `chastity'. In fact this word has a broader a spectrum of meaning (as we shall see in §E. below). In the sense of practice, it means `conducting yourself like a god (Brahma).' And how does a god conduct himself? A god conducts himself strictly in accordance with the practices of Buddhism to elevate the state of mind until EFTA01163109 there are no further defilements remaining there. Thus the rationale of this Blessing is for us to elevate our state of mind and behaviour to the level of the Brahma faring for our ultimate liberation. B. LEVELS OF MIND vs. REALMS OF EXISTENCE B.1 Levels of mind Quality of mind is dependent on the degree to which the mind is unified, purified or made free of thought. If the meditator can EFTA01163110 overcome the Five Blessing Thirty-Two: Practising the Brahma-Faring 358 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Hindrances, (see Blessing Nineteen §D.2.2.) the mind can become unified at the level of the first formabsorption [rEpa-jhAna] a mental state which iS qualitatively different from anything it has previously known. Cultivation of the mind EFTA01163111 further will lead to the second, third and fourth form-absorptions. The next stage of progress of the mind is to make a qualitative leap to the formless-absorptions [arEpajhAna]. According to Buddhism, all of the states of mind mentioned so far are considered no better than `mundane'. However, anyone who cultivates their mind beyond the formless absorptions can elevate the mind to a condition so pure that it EFTA01163112 is `transcendental'. As for the meaning of `form', `formless', `mundane' and `transcendental' — and their relationship to liberation, what follows is an examination of each in more detail. B.1.1 The Three Planes of Mind [bhEmi] The quality of our mind can be summarized down to four different levels: I. the sensual plane of mind [IcAmavacarabhEmi]: this is the plane to which most people's minds are still attached to the temptation EFTA01163113 of sensual pleasures. Such people are still affected by the Five Hindrances. 2. the form' plane of mind [rEpavacarabhEmi]: this is the plane of those whose minds are still attached to absorptions at the form plane [rEpajhAna]. With their eyes open or closed they will perceive a bright sphere at the centre of their body the whole of the time as clearly as seen with the eye. If you are really at this EFTA01163114 plane, the mind will be in this state of brightness the whole of the time and the mind will have no remaining interest in the sensual pleasures of a married life. You will see such things as no more entertaining than child's play; 3. The formless plane of the mind [arEpavacarabhEmi]: this is the plane of the mind where the mind is still attached to the absorptions at the.. formless level [arEpa-jhAna]. You EFTA01163115 will be able to perceive the inner body of the formless Brahma level at the centre of your body the whole of the time. If you have such a level of attainment you will have intense brightness inside the whole of time and it is no problem if you want to sit for meditation uninterrupted for seven days and seven nights without a break. There is hardly any need to sleep any more EFTA01163116 only 15 or 20 minutes per day is enough. The brightness inside keeps the mind refreshed the whole of the time. 4. The supramundane plane of the mind [lokuttarabhEmi] This is a plane of mind is beyond the reach of worldly viscissitudes. At its most advanced it includes the level of mind of an arahant who has come to an end of defilements. From the time of the birth of Prince Siddhartha to EFTA01163117 the time when he left the palace to start his ascetic practices, even He was still trapped in the sensual level of mind with his royal family and consorts and a palace for each of the three seasons. Once he practiced to the point where he could attain the first absorptions [rEpajhAna] e.g. at the age of seven under the black plum tree — he elevated his mind to the level of form. When he studied withiOara and Udaka he could further raise EFTA01163118 the level of his mind to the level of the formless. At the age of 35 he could attain enlightenment his mind entered upon the level of the transcendental. He attained all of these levels without leaving the human realm — his mind was elevated not his body. B.1.2 Subdivisions within the Three Planes of Mind Within the three planes there are subcategories of experience and we experience EFTA01163119 these in meditation in the form of inner bodies of experience (see Table 32.1 p.356). B.2 Parallels between level of mind and realms of existence Many students of Buddhism, especially those who have practised meditation find no difficulty in understanding how different levels can exist in states of mind — however, understanding the full variety of realms of existence is less easy. With the naked EFTA01163120 eye, the only two forms of existence we can see are the human and the animal realms — are we succumbing to gullability to accept that Buddhist cosmology consists of not two forms of existence but thirty-one? Blessing Thirty-Two: Practising the Brahma-Faring 359 Indeed, some refuse to believe in the existence of anything they cannot immediately see. They consider as gullable anyone who believes in anything EFTA01163121 without material proof. They maintain that if invisible realms are real, they should be immediately demonstrable to the naked eye. On the contrary, such skeptics find no difficulty in believing in the existence of Japan or the existence of microscopic particles even though they have no direct experience of either. Such skeptics would say, if you want to prove the existence of Japan — you need to make the journey there. If you want to EFTA01163122 prove the existence of microscopic particles, you have to have a microscope at your disposal — so even skeptics have their conditions! i.e.: • You need to have the appropriate vehicle or equipment at your disposal; • You need to know the route to get there. • You need to have enough resources in pocket. Well! Meditators can also have their conditions! If you want to prove the existence of invisible realms, EFTA01163123 you need to fulfil the following three conditions for reaching them, i.e. • your mind needs to be sufficiently stable to observe them • you need to know the pathway by which you can arrive at there • you need to have sufficient merit to get you to there At the very least, to see the invisible realms for yourself, you have to allow the defilements to precipitate out of your mind first. When EFTA01163124 defilements start to precipitate out, the mind will be left bright and clear. This is the brightness that we use to illuminate the path ahead and we will start to have the possibility to see those `invisible' realms for ourselves. B.2.1 The Destination of the Dead: The evidence Fortunately it is not only ancient and scriptural evidence we have for realms of existence beyond the normal limits of our senses. The EFTA01163125 testimony of those who have had a Near Death Experience (NDE) recorded as numbering between 8-13 million people in 1998 in the U.S. alone shows differences in the nature of destination of those who have had NDE's. Some people report a destination that is pleasant, others report a destination that is deeply frightening. In summary of some of the differences: B.2.2 Equivalence between Planes of Mind and EFTA01163126 Spheres of Existence There is a correspondence between states of mind (which are transitory within a given life) and state of existence (which we inhabit the whole of our lives). What we do habitually leads to our habitual state of mind and our habitual state of mind will lead to our next state of existence. Asked why people who die have different destinations after death, there is always a temptation to require some higher `force' to EFTA01163127 `put' people `where they deserve'— however, in reality, people's habitual state of mind is already ample reason to explain afterlife destinations. Consider a bee and a dungfly in a bottle. When you open the lid of the bottle, the two insects escape. At first they fly along in unison, but before long they part — the bee heads for a patch of flowers it can smell inthe distance, whereas the dung-fly heads for the dung heap. EFTA01163128 Asked by whose power the insects have chosen to go their separate ways — the answer is through the force of habit. Like attracts like — the bee has been used to flowers all its life, so is attracted to flowers. The dungfly has been used to dung all its life, so is attracted to dung heaps. Any creator god with the duty to `put' them `where they deserve' is decidedly redundant. Of course there are sometimes discrepencies between EFTA01163129 habitual state of mind and afterlife destina- Hell-Like Cases Lifeless or threatening apparitions Barren or ugly expanse Threats, screams, silence Danger and the possibility of violence and/or torture A feeling of cold (or of temperature extremes), and a sense of hell Heaven-Like Cases Friendly beings Beautiful, lovely environments Conversations and dialogue Total acceptance and an overwhelming sensation of love EFTA01163130 A feeling of warmth and a sense of heaven TABLE 32.2: Categorization of Near Death Experiences 360 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living tion — again, it is no more difficult to explain than someone who has `crammed' hard for an exam at the last minute (but who habitually knows nothing about their subject) who is put in an advanced class as the result of their good examination results. This might be equivalent to someone EFTA01163131 who is indifferent to virtue all their lives, but who makes an effort to elevate the quality of their mind in the final years of their life. Returning to the maxim of `like attracts like' we find that states of mind and realms of existence have virtues and/or inner experience in common — and if these virtues or inner experiences are habitual for a person throughout their lives or are steadfast in a person at their moment of death, EFTA01163132 they will lead to rebirth in the corresponding realm. The correspondence is illustrated in the table above. Please note that if the Five Precepts are not intact then the mind will be attracted to the unfortunate realms such as the hell realms at the break-up of the body. B.3 Realms of Existence Having understood the correspondence between inner experience and realms of existence, we now turn to look at each of the Spheres EFTA01163133 of Existence in more detail. The Spheres of Existence are threefold, like the Planes of mind, but their subcategories can be expanded in detail to up to thirty-one realms of existence. B.3.1 The Three Spheres of Existence The realms of existence can be summarized down into three spheres: I. The sensuous sphere [kAmabhava] — equivalent in subtlety to the sense-pleasure state of mind EFTA01163134 - is the state of existence inhabited by humans, animals, hell-realms and angels. In the deepest heart of every being which inhabits this realm, there is still the feeling of enjoyment of sense pleasure. Sense pleasure can mean sexual pleasure or it can mean pleasures of the five senses (pleasurable images seen with the eyes, pleasurable sounds heard with the ears, pleasurable tastes reaching our tastebuds, EFTA01163135 pleasurable aromas that reach our nostrils or soft sensations that come into contact with our skin. Every living being in the sensual realm is searching for happiness via sense pleasure, whether by the channels of sight, sound, taste, smell or touch. 2. The Form Sphere [rEpabhava] is the dwelling place of form-Brahmas [rEpabrahma]. Such besensual plane [kAmavacarabhEmi] EFTA01163136 form plane [rEpavacarabhEmi] formless plane .. 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The Formless Sphere EFTA01163139 [arEpabhava] is the dwelling place of formless-Brahmas [arEpabrahma]. Such beings also are derived from people who managed to train themselves in meditation until they attained the `formless absorptions' [arEpajhAna]. They were those who were attached neither to sensual pleasure or to the pleasure of the form-absorptions — but they enjoyed the pleasure of the formless realms. EFTA01163140 To imagine the relationship between the three Spheres so far discussed, you should picture three concentric spheres — one the size of a football, the second in the centre of the football, but the size of a tennis ball and the third inside the tennis ball, but the size of a ping-pong ball. If you were to use the analogy to explain the relationship between the three Spheres, you can compare the ping-pong ball to the Sphere of Sensual Pleasure. EFTA01163141 The tennis ball can be compared to the Sphere of Form and the football can be compared to the Sphere of the Formless. B.3.2 Subdivisions within the Three Spheres of Existence The world system consists of thirty-one realms. They are arranged within the three spheres of existence already described. The sensual sphere [kAmabhava] includes the hells, the human realm and all the realms of heaven. In EFTA01163142 this sphere, the inhabitants spend nearly all of their time fulfilling themselves by the pleasure of the senses. If we can escape the sensual realm then we enter upon the sphere of form [rEpabhava] which is known as the Brahma-world because it is inhabited by Brahmas or gods. However there is a third sphere of existence which is even more refined and this is called the formless sphere [arEpabhava] which is inhabited EFTA01163143 by formless Brahmas. Nirvana • Realm of neither perception nor non perception [NevasaririAnAsaririAyatana] • Realm of nothingness [/kificafiriAyatana] • Realm of infinite consciousness [viririAAaricAyatana] • Realm of infinite space [AkAsAnaficAyatana] • Realm of the supreme Brahmas [AkanitthA] • Realm of Brahmas who are clear-sighted [SudassE] • Realm of Brahmas who are beautiful [SudassA] EFTA01163144 • Realm of Brahmas who are serene [AtappA] • Realm of Brahmas who do notfall from prosperity [AvihA] • Realm of non percipient beings [AsaririEsattA] • Realm of Brahmas with abundant reward [VehapphalA] • Realm of Brahmas with steady aura [SubhakiAhA] • Realm of Brahmas with infinite aura [AppamAAasubhA] • Realm of Brahmas with limited aura EFTA01163145 [ParittasubhÅ] • Realm of Brahmas with radiant lustre [/bhassarÅ] • Realm of Brahmas with infinite lustre [AppamÅÅÅbhÅ] • Realm of Brahmas with limited lustre [ParittÅbhÅ] • Realm of Great Brahmas [MahÅbrahmÅ] • Realm of Great Brahma's ministers [BrahmapurohitÅ] • Realm of Great Brahma's attendants [BrahmapÅriasajjÅ] EFTA01163146 EFTA01163147 〔rncnuvp ] iiqnaj錳IJl豇71H . [yH1yJyqeurny3] st?u!X 1vaJ9 JflOJ ／戶 Ud41WH . [ysoI坨Ay1] aaqI 齟？ilIa褲戶 Ud4flaH . ipva 戶1a'z,Va／戶 Ud41WH . [yIsni] 彤a鈿v pa [s/1v a磷戶錳d4flaH [jeJ1uyuauIM] suol7vaia 錳，隼（。 jid／碑 an0l,J oiI,fl 彤a,uva 磷戶錳d4fldH 〔q11eAeSeAe1IuIuI!umed〕 s/a／。戶s程。即a幻 a/ Jd40 p.t町。犁，楓彤a,uVa 磷戶錳a'tnaH :suqnaY uatnaH . :[im 'nsvuw圳 su11VdY dim!1IiJoI The unhappy realms [ApAya]: • Animal Realm [TiracchAnayoni] • Monsters [AsuralcAya]: • Hungry Ghosts [Pittivisaya] • Hell Realms [Niraya] sphere realms of existence transcen- dental formless - planes form-planes sensual - planes TABLE 32.4: The Thirty-One Realms of Existence 362 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living EFTA01163148 B.4 Rebirth B.4.1 If Rebirth is so obvious why should we believe otherwise? Another new concept which comes with moving around between realms of existence is 'rebirth'. For doctrinal reasons the teaching of rebirth has been suppressed and intentionally removed from Biblical Christian literature. Only during the reign of Constantine the Great with the finalizing of the scriptures to be included in the EFTA01163149 Bible, was the doctrine of transmigration as preached by the Gnostics decreed to be heretical and received criticism from Greek philosophers such as Hyppolitus, Irenaeus etc. In fact the main problem for Christians with the concept of rebirth seems to be that they don't see animals as sentient beings. If man can be born as an animal sometimes, it devalues his spiritual `worth' in the eyes of God. Before this time doctrine of rebirth EFTA01163150 is not so alien to western thinking as you may think. In the early days of Christianity as still recorded in some of the apocryphal (non-Biblical) scriptures and commentaries on the Bible, rebirth of the soul was accepted up until about 280 A.D. In the Gnostic tradition who emphasized inner insight as the main source of revelation they found no difficulty in fitting reincarnation into their plan of salvation. Far from thinking EFTA01163151 that reincarnation is alien to gospel-teaching, they elaborately interpret certain of the most striking sayings in this sense, and give graphic details of how Jesus, as the First Mystery, brought to rebirth the souls of John the Baptizer and of the disciples, and supervised the economy of his own incarnation. In this respect the Great Seth scriptures offer richer material for those interested in this ancient and widespread doctrine than can EFTA01163152 be found in any other old-world document in the West. Gnostic teachings like Buddhist ones have regarded reincarnation as a calamity to be overcome by liberation. B.4.2 Rebirth v.s reincarnation At this point it is necessary to point out a small distinction in the use of language between the words `rebirth' and `reincarnation'. In Buddhism we usually use the word 'rebirth' to describe the continuity from life to life. It indicates that EFTA01163153 the `soul' or `entity' that is reborn between one life and the next might not be the same in nature but will have a quality which will differ according to the actions most recently performed by that being. Hindu tradition, by contrast, uses the word `reincarnation' which indicates that a person reborn, has an unchanging character or soul, but the new form of being at birth might change to be a frog or a cat or an elephant, EFTA01163154 but the soul is still John Smith etc. C. PRINCIPLES OF LIBERATION The Three Spheres together are like a three-layered prison which traps the beings in the world in a cycle of rebirth. Returning to our model with three concentric spheres, we realize that even now, we are still in that prison, rattling about inside the pingpong ball. Even if we were to be born as angels we would not escape the ping-pong ball. We get in a EFTA01163155 spaceship and go to the moon, thinking that we can escape from the prison of the world — but in fact, the moon is just a satellite of the earth. Even if we make it to the sun or the stars, we are still in the same old galaxy, the same old universe — and we are still in the most basic level of prison — the sensuous realm. No matter how far we travel, we cannot escape. What must we do to escape from our prison? The key to gaining EFTA01163156 liberation of our being is to gain liberation of mind. Body has mind as its governor. Liberation in Buddhism entails permanently extricating one's mind out of states within the mundane [lokiya] plane and elevating one's mind permanently into the transcendental [lokuttara] plane. If one's mind is liberated into the transcendental plane it will have access to happiness which is qualitavely different from the worldly state. EFTA01163157 The people of old had a metaphor for the degree of happiness attained in each of the levels of mind. In the four different levels, the level of happiness is not the same. In higher levels there is more happiness and this is why we have to make the effort to improve our level of mind. I. The happiness of the sensual sphere (the happiness of having a family and of sense pleasure) is like the happiness of a newborn child playing EFTA01163158 with mud or dung. Blessing Thirty-Two: Practising the Brahma-Faring 363 2. The happiness of theform sphere (the happiness of attaining the form absorptions) is the satisfaction of someone who fulfills himself by performing his work well. 3. The happiness of theformless sphere (the happiness of the formless absorptions) is like the satisfaction of seeing the success of others who you have raised up, such as the EFTA01163159 happiness of raising one's children into responsible members of society, when you once again have the freedom to live your own life again. 4. The happiness of the transcendental (the happiness of removing all defilements) is happiness beyond comparison. Furthermore, the states of mind on the transcendental level will be beyond the touch of the worldly vicissitudes (see Blessing Thirty-Five) — the reason EFTA01163160 for this difference is the radically reduced number of defilements inthe mind. If we can permanently raise our mind to the highest level, then when dying from the human realm we will gain entry to a purer existence, or better still, will not be reborn any more. C.1 Relinquishing as a relay We have to throw off the temptations of sensuality, and the temptations of satisfaction with the form or formless absorptions. You have to sever the attachments EFTA01163161 sequentially. This point is difficult to understand — it has been very widely misunderstood even amongst monks. You don't give up everything all at once. According to the RathavinEta Sutta (M.i.145ff.), the process is a relay. For the mind it is the same, in order for the mind to escape a lower level, we need to build up a higher state of mind ready and waiting to receive the outgoing mind. If you plan to remove sensual interest EFTA01163162 from the mind and you just try to sever the ties without anything in the way of replacement you will never succeed. The mind needs something as the object of its attention. If you have no new (better) object of interest as a replacement, the mind will never give up its old ways. This is why you have to train yourself in meditation to the degree that you attain the first absorptions of the mind (brightness within) before EFTA01163163 you can hope to sever the ties of sensual temptation. Your mind has to be completely absorbed in the happiness of meditation attainment before it will be able to give up the happiness derived from sensual fulfillment. If you have sweet dreams of graduating and finding a cute husband or wife to marry, and having a cute little house and one or two cute little children of your own, and someone comes along and says EFTA01163164 — give up all interest in sensual pleasure — it'll be good for you — you would probably think that killing yourself might be a more viable possibility. If you really want to give up sweet dreams of sensual fulfillment, you have to meditate until brightness arises within, there is a possibility of finding alternative forms of fulfillment. Without an alternative you cannot force people to give up sensuality. Thus, anyone who decides to give up EFTA01163165 sensual attachment without doing meditation to build up a better alternative for themselves is doomed to failure. D. PRACTISING THE BRAHMA-FARING IN EVERYDAY LIFE D.1 Attitude to Sensuality How can it be that a person already had a spouse or a partner or a boyfriend or a girlfriend or children and the Buddha still insisted that sensual fulfilment is a mistake? The Buddha gave many reasons, EFTA01163166 but in these pages, just ten of his metaphors will suffice, to make the point. If you cannot completely sever the ties, you can prevent yourself from increasing them. However, if you can release yourself fromall the ties of sensuality it is the best of all. Someone wishing to extricate themselves from sensuality should remind themselves regularly of the following metaphors: I. Sensuality is like a hungry dog chewing a dry EFTA01163167 EFTA01163168 f(’粤IIinocjo 0u1q3q1aLUOD9qIIIA鳘龚琅pU1 '001 aim粤0琅 UIU0T_U J0琅001U0I)0笆n龚J0ooJnoS ℃oqIIIM 014S osiwooq 'ouo j粤I)nioq i osooqo JOAOU‘蚀IA簋R OSO0q0 no1c jr pies Sr ij)'saJn11nt 购 .iato1犁勐I可J13!豇 一adalcin a契1 锣砸？jnnsuag 亿 !sosauoid )I 靶qM 玲AOUsIOA0q .sn sjjUT珥JOAOU 21'oaws 0琅）SnfS! 蚀IIp0In1J赶 狗）!10ddt S21 0隼I隼S JOAOU JJJM1nq &uMoqos1I 琅!M JJ0S1T s1srnmjxo8op 0琅）a饪oq 3. Sensuality is like carrying a torch offire while 364 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living walking into the wind. (As it burns down, the fire comes closer and closer to burning your hand and in the end you have to throw it away. In the same way however much you may love your spouse, both of you get older year by year and in the end one of you has to be the first to the deathbed); EFTA01163169 4. Sensuality is like a pool of burningfuel (Everyone knows if they fall in the pool they will never get out alive, but they cannot help being attracted to walk along the edge of the pool until they eventually fall in — even though they know the saying `wherever there is love there will be tears') 5. Sensuality is like a dream (You dream of happiness, but before long you have to wake up to EFTA01163170 the real world. Try asking a married couple what the happiest day of their marriage was. They will always reply that it was the first and since that day the causes of suffering have been increasing day by day. When you were single you could please yourself, but since you got married that has had to change. In the old days we thought it was hard work to look after our parents, now you have to look after your EFTA01163171 partners' parents too — and perhaps their extended family too and any children inherited from previous marriages! You end up saying to yourself, "If only I had known I would never have got married!" but you will be saying that to the end of your days.) 6. Sensuality is like borrowed jewelry (When you wear it, it looks good and everyone admires you, but as soon as you meet the lender, EFTA01163172 they will ask for that jewellry back. Before marriage we take special care to choose the best of beauty or handsomeness in our partner. People will admire you when you first marry saying `What a lovely couple!' but that beauty and handsomeness will gradually be `returned to its lender' with the passing years leaving only wrinkles in its place. Even the most handsome filmstar ends up with EFTA01163173 a bald head. The best of beauty wears off after five or ten years. Supposing you are twenty-five when you marry. From the age of thirty-five to the end of your days, you have to live with someone to whom you are no longer physically attracted) 7. Sensuality is like a fruit tree in the forest (The fruit of a tree in the forest is public domain. The fruit it bears is there to be taken by anyone who has the time to pick it. If you are EFTA01163174 good at climbing the tree or knocking off the fruit or even at cutting down the tree, the fruit is yours. The climber half way up the tree will be hurt when the tree cutters come along but there is nothing in the way of compensation because none of them own the tree for themselves. In the same way, you cannot become the exclusive owner of the life of another person. If anyone else puts EFTA01163175 in the time and the effort to make they love them more than they love you, then your spouse becomes your ex-spouse. If you get beaten up by other suitors, who can you complain to?) 8. Sensuality is like a steak hammer. (Anyone who gets involved with sensuality will be putting their own life at risk.) The more beautiful or handsome you spouse, the more risky is your marriage. You know your husband EFTA01163176 finishes work at four in the afternoon. Why is he still not home at six o'clock? Has there been an accident or is he having a secret affair? The more attractive they are, the more you have to worry about. As the result, instead of your marriage bringing you happiness, the ensuing worry ages you before your time. 9. Sensuality is like a spear. (It has the tendency to wound you). It is like teeth and EFTA01163177 a tongue which share the same mouth. Sooner or later you will end up biting your tongue. The fights which grow up within a marriage are some of the most painful to all concerned, and eventually you end up dividing up the children between you as if they were nothing more than puppies or kittens. 10. Sensuality is like a snake head. (If you have anything to do with it, you have EFTA01163178 always to be on your guard. There is no time you can be off your guard. You have to be thinking all the time, "Do they really love me or are they just pretending to love me? Did they have an ulterior motive in loving me?" Suspicion grows like a canBlessing Thirty-Two: Practising the Brahma-Faring 365 cer in a marriage. Especially when your spouse is not a particularly moral person, the level of EFTA01163179 suspicion will be all the greater and the suffering greater too, as the result.) In fact the Buddha had many more metaphors for sensuality than this. Thus if you are yet to get yourself a boyfriend, girlfriend or spouse, train yourself in meditation more and more and when you attain inner brightness, you will soon find a happiness which is superior. The thought of marriage will disappear of its own accord. As for those who are EFTA01163180 already married, there is no need to go encouraging divorces. If someone doesn't yet have any children, maybe they would prefer to keep in that way. If someone has a certain number of children already, maybe they can be content with the number they already have. Chastity can offer a bright future to all who can practice it. D.2 Ways to Practise the Brahmafaring Many of the ways of practising chastity have already EFTA01163181 been covered in previous Blessings. However, we come back to these again because chastity can be practised at many levels. There are ten ways of practising chastity and as usual they range from the easy to the difficult: The Brahma-faring at the Lowest Level • Generosity [dAna]: Once your mind is already purified by austerity, the first thing you must do is to practise generosity. The reason why we must EFTA01163182 be generous, because possessions surplus to our needs will be chinks in the armour via which sensuality can form attachments. An excess of possessions will attract people to love us for our wealth. • Service: [veyyavajja] To give our time and effort to help with good works or do favours to others in need. If there is an ordination then you should do your best to help them. If the neighbours are EFTA01163183 making a new road you should help them. Pick up litter that has fallen at the side of the road and help to put it in the bin. Help them when they are organizing KaEhina offerings or the offering of `forest robes'. If they are building a new hospital or library, see what you can help with. If you see someone's car has broken down, you should help to push it. In a word, it is using strength surplus to our needs to EFTA01163184 help others. Often if we have too much effort unused, it becomes sensually directed instead, so you have to be quick to use it for more constructive ends. • Keeping the Five Precepts: You should keep the Five Precepts purely. You will notice that keeping the Five Precepts seems to be included in almost every form of Dhamma study. The Precepts are unlike many other items of virtue which can EFTA01163185 be compared to steps on the stairway of Buddhist practice, the Five Precepts can be compared to the banister. The banister is always as long as the stairway itself unlike the steps which each only extend a little way. Thus whenever you speak of another virtue, you always take for granted that that virtue comes within the guidelines of the Five Precepts (whether they are specifically mentioned or not). Concerning EFTA01163186 EFTA01163187 `XplaIduloo kuonsuas J。 s99 all.1DA0S O2 q8now aAgig 1aic 1ou 3.I1 0M pup 3 o5us 8uIs Tins 0JT JI U3A [.331131id O2 prom!lsag ino sT sldaoaid aAId0q2 o1 uoT2ua11p iadoid ualp `Apurej UMO .1flO O1 satIqig!suodsai an q ill1s am ) g '魚!mg° aot1mid ol 0殲II mom am 2tusoddng -mom° soul aqi. AIsnoIngo Isom SI A.13I1IllpE 8 IWIRUO3 IOU I11OC1B ld303.1d pip.)琅a `S1d330.1d 0AH 3111 UT ‘魚I1Seq。 we should establish ourselves firmly in the Five Precepts so that we don't go messing about with other people's husbands and wives and creating trouble for ourselves in the long term. The Brahma-faring at the Middle Level • Spreading Loving Kindness limitlessly [apamafaia]: This is the spreading of good wishes and forgiveness to all without exception — even if they are enemies or EFTA01163188 those who have hurt us in the past. Thinking to yourself, that we are all in the same predicament of old age, sickness and death, so why create further suffering for ourselves by disharmony? Be careful to distinguish between spreading loving kindness and spreading affection [rAga]. If you spread loving kindness properly it will give the feeling as if the whole of the world is like our own children EFTA01163189 366 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living — because we wish that all of them could enjoy happiness. Don't go mistakenly spreading the feeling that you would like everyone in the world to fall in love with you. This is no longer loving kindness. Loving kindness has no admixing of sensual desires. • Contentment with one's own spouse [sadarasantusa]: Whether you still find your spouse attractive EFTA01163190 or not, or less attractive than the neighbours is something you have to put behind you now because you have gone ahead and married them. You were the one who chose your spouse for yourself. You don't have to blame anyone else. Cultivating limitless loving kindness towards others without exception and contentment with your spouse will limit the scope of our sensual desires. EFTA01163191 • Abstention from sexual relations [methunavirati]: This item applies specifically to those who do not yet have a family or a spouse of their own — or who are religiously ordained in some sense. If you are single or an ordained person, you should think to yourself, "I'm strong enough to be independent — I don't need to rely on anyone else to do my ironing or to replace me as the bread-winner" and keep EFTA01163192 yourself single. Reflecting on the ten comparisons for sensual desire we have already mentioned, you will soon see that sensual restraint is the key to your own freedom. The Brahma-faring at the Highest Level • Persistence [viriya]: This is the fortitude to practice meditation continuously for the whole of your life. This refers to the four components met in the previous blessing i.e. not EFTA01163193 doing evil that you have never done; giving up evil you have already done; doing all the good things you have not yet done, and; continuing to do the good things you have done before. • Keeping Eight Precepts [uposatha]: For those who are single, this means keeping the Eight Precepts the whole of the time. Those who are married or who have their own family, they might start by keeping the Eight Precepts on EFTA01163194 the quartermoon days, then on the quarter moon days and the day before the quarter moon days too, then on the quarter moon days and the day before the quarter moon days and on the day (i.e. Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday...) of your birthday and your spouse's birthday. The people of old lent a lot of importance to keeping the Eight Precepts on one's birthday — reasoning that otherwise, EFTA01163195 you might never have a clear mind to think seriously about your life. They said that anyone who has sexual relations on their birthday will be someone who will never know success in their lives. If a child is born as the result, it will be the sort of child who doesn't appreciate its debt of gratitude to its parents — because the parents haven't ever taken any trouble to appreciate with gratitude the preciousness of EFTA01163196 attaining human birth. If you can build up your Eight Precepts, you will already be keeping Eight Precepts for four days of the week (or three days of the week if both husband and wife were born on the same day). Another approach might be to keep the Eight Precepts throughout the rainy season. • Following the Eightfold Path [ariyamagga]: This will be discussed in more detail in EFTA01163197 Blessing Thirty-Three. • Following all available teachings [sAsanadhamma]: This means following all Buddhist teachings available. It is like an amalgamation of all the practices already mentioned. At all levels of the brahma-faring, the Precepts are always present. At the lower level, it is the Five Precepts, at the mid-level it is the Eight Precepts and at the High level, it will be Eight Precepts or 227 Precepts. EFTA01163198 Thus if you are going to practice at this high level, you should start by performing dhutaIga practice as mentioned in the previous Blessing. Once you have completed your dhutaIga practice,you shouldn't just go home and go back to bed! You need to further your practice by practising generosity every day, keeping the Precepts at a level appropriate to your marital status and train yourself in meditation for the rest of your life. You should seek to train EFTA01163199 yourself in every virtue that exists in the world and this is the true meaning of chastity. Blessing Thirty-Two: Practising the Brahma-Faring 367 D.3 Possibilitiesfor practising celibacy I. Temporary or Permanent Ordination: There has long been the tradition in Thailand that every man should ordain as a monk at some time in their life. Usually at the age of twenty, young men will ordain for one month, two EFTA01163200 months or three months. Some ordain for the rest of their lives. 2. Ordaining as Nuns: Although there are no female monksl, it is possible to ordain as a nun who keeps the Eight Precepts for a temporary period or permanently. 3. Staying celibate in your everyday life: It is possible to keep the Eight Precepts while earning your living in the proper way. All that is needed is to ignore those who would EFTA01163201 persuade you to do otherwise. Never forget that they are persuading you to turn yourself into a dog chewing a dry bone! There is nothing dishonourable about being an old maid. The people of old said that to remain unmarried is like to retain your freedom like a bird that flies free in the open sky. Once married, you are no longer a bird but more like a pet dog that has been put on a chain at home. EFTA01163202 Thus, if anyone tries to chat you up or to pinch your bottom, you can tell them where to go. 4. Staying celibate once your eldest child gets married (or the first child in family gets married): there is an old tradition amongst the country people of Thailand that as soon as the oldest child in a family gets married, the parents must keep chastity (at low/mid/high level) from that time onwards. EFTA01163203 5. Staying celibate once you are widowed: Instead of thinking to remarry once your old spouse had died, you should start to think of your long term benefits and keep the Eight Precepts for the rest of your life. D.4 Practical knowledge about ordination It is a Buddhist tradition for all young men to ordain temporarily as monks at the age of twenty as a way of self-training in chastity. In practicality, EFTA01163204 however, many hesitate to take the opportunity to ordain because of unfamiliarity with the requirements. Accordingly, please find some hints and information about ordination below: • Age at ordination: Those who ordain between the age of 15 to 20 will ordain as `novices' (who keep the Ten Precepts). Those who ordain at the age of 20 upwards usually take full ordination as monks (who keep 227 Precepts). The latter is EFTA01163205 the superior form of ordination but one should not provaricate about ordaining early in life because limitations of health may make ordination at a later age difficult. Also it is hard to teach an old dog new tricks and those ordaining late in life are notoriously hard to instil with new virtues; • Period of ordination: It is usual to ordain for the whole of one rainy season (three months) — or to ordain in the university summer EFTA01163206 vacation for one or two months. One might otherwise take ordination when it is convenient to take leave from work or taking lifelong ordination is also possible. Ordination should not be for less than one month, however because it does not allow sufficient time for the study of the Dhamma; • Choosing a place of ordination: The amount we learn while ordained is entirely dependent on EFTA01163207 the quality of the training given by a temple or institute. You should choose a place of ordination which emphasises strictness in Dhamma education and monastic discipline. At a good place of ordination, the preceptor will take direct and intimate responsibility for training the monks he ordains — giving an abundance of teachings and criticism to his students. This is in contrast to places which leave new EFTA01163208 monks to do whatever they like after their ordination. In some places, from the day of ordination to the day of disrobing, the ordinand doesn't get to converse a word of Dhamma with his preceptor. Really, what we are seeking from our ordination is to maximise the opportunity to be trained at the hands of our preceptor — don't go thinking that the magic of ordination comes from wearing saffron EFTA01163209 robes! it is the training that counts; • Monastic Discipline: We should think to ourselves that it is monastic discipline that sets us apart from household life. Without monastic dis- 1. in orthodox or Theravaada Buddhism cipline, we are no more than a householder with 368 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living a shaven head and saffron robes. To masquerade as a monk is no better than to steal from the EFTA01163210 faithful — therefore, once ordained we must be strict in keeping the monastic discipline otherwise we will regret it at a later date; • Meditation Practice: Once ordained, one should consecrate one's time entirely to studying the Dhamma and meditating rather than chattering idly or looking for amusement; • Helping Society: When ordaining for three months, one should give first priority to training and benefitting oneself - if there EFTA01163211 are opportunities to help with humanitarian or social work while ordained — it is a good opportunity, but one should not become so involved with this that one diminishes the time available for meditation and Dhamma study. Welfare work doesn't require us to be ordained to do it — we can always do it later after our disrobing. The true way to help society as a monk is to teach Dhamma for EFTA01163212 others' benefit — however as a newly ordained monk, our knowledge will not yet be enough to teach others — all we can do for society is to conduct ourselves well, go on almsround in an orderly fashion, concentrating on making our behaviour worthy of faith — to be a good exemplar of the monastic discipline and knowing sense-restraint. E. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES EFTA01163213 E.1 Ex. MahA Kassapa (AA.L92ff, SA.iL135ff, ThagA.u.134ff, Ap.11.578ff, Ap.L33ff) There once was a young brahmin called Pipli. When he was young, he was very handsome, but was not interested in the married life. He was interested only in the study ofthe Dhamma. His father was a wealthy man and was worried that he would have no-one to look after the family fortune when he was gone. His father was so anxious to see his EFTA01163214 son married that he went looking for suitors himself. Eventually, the father found another daughter of a millionaire who lived in a distant town. It happened that the daughter like Pipli was disinterested by the subject of marriage. The parents of this young girl were the same as Pipli's parents — they were afraid that she would be an `old maid'. As soon as they heard that Pipli was to be a suitor, they were quick to give her hand in marriage. EFTA01163215 Little did the parents of both sides know that both sides were already in communication with one another by letter. Both Pipli and the millionaires daughter had independently written letters to one another saying the same thing (i.e. please inform your parents to cancel the marriage, because with all due respect, I am not interested in marriage and would prefer to remain single for the rest of my life). The messengers bearing the letters met one another on the EFTA01163216 road between the two towns. Both were scared that if they brought bad news to the respective parents, they would get no reward for their efforts so the two of them read each other's letters then rewrote the letters to say that both sides were ready and waiting to marry. So it came to pass that Pipli and the millionaire's daughter were married, but because both had cultivated chastity for many lifetimes, they had no interest in sensual pleasures. EFTA01163217 Both had the latent ability to be arahants and even though they were forced to sleep in the same bed, both of them felt completely indifferent. They would put a garland of jasmine flowers between them on the bed and each of them would meditate in the sleeping position throughout the night. Even after ten years when the parents on both sides of the family had passed away, they were still living their married life in the same way. Once the last of their EFTA01163218 parents had passed away, they gave away all the family legacy. They both obtained the robes of an ascetic and left the home life. When they came to a fork in the road, the wife said, "Now we are ascetics, to go around as a couple is no longer appropriate." Therefore the wife paid her last respects to her husband and both asked forgiveness for any mutual trespasses in the past, before the wife took the left hand fork and the husband took the right EFTA01163219 hand fork. It is said that through the power of the decision by such young people to go their own separate ways, at that time their was an earthquake in the vicinity. It is said that they were doing something very difficult to do. The Buddha detected the earthquake while he was meditating and looked for the reason. When he saw the reason was the ordination of Pipli, he went to meet him along the way and in a single sermon could elevate Pipli to the EFTA01163220 level of an arahant in seven days. As for the wife . . . she met with a bhikkhuAi arahant who taught her to the degree that Blessing Thirty-Two: Practising the Brahma-Faring 369 she could attain arahantship within seven days in the same way. Ultimately, Pipli, under the ordained name of MahAkassapa Thera was the monk praised by the Buddha as unsurpassed in the practice of dhutaIga because he kept the dhutaIga practices throughout EFTA01163221 the whole of his life. After the passing away of the Buddha, because he was one of the most senior of the monks in the community, he was the monastic president for the First Council. E.2 Ex. MAtika MAta (DhA.i.293) In the time of the Buddha there was a group of sixty monks who having made sufficient study of Buddhist theory, went to take leave of the Buddha before going into the deep forest to practise meditation. In the forest EFTA01163222 they came across an old woman who was the mother of the village mayor. The old woman was very pleased to see such a large number of monks coming to practice in the neighbourhood and so she provided for all the catering needs of the monks. One day she asked the monks, "Is it possible only to practice chastity as a monk or can women and householders also practice?" The monks answered that it was also possible for householders to practice EFTA01163223 chastity - it is possible for anyone who wants to come to an end of defilements. The monk taught the lady all about meditation and keeping the Eight Precepts and the remainder of the ten components of chastity. The lady trained herself strictly in accordance with what she had been taught and found she could make progress even more quickly than the monks themselves. The reason she could make more progress was because she had built EFTA01163224 up such habits over the course of many lifetimes and she could also see the value of such practice after coming across many disappointments during her life. She was able to attain the form-absorptions, the formlessabsorptions and the DhammakAya to the level of anAgAmi. Through the power of her meditation, she was able to read the minds of others. She was able to know that her own progress in meditation was more EFTA01163225 than any of the sixty monks for whom she brought food. She meditated further and found that the reason that they weren't making progress in meditation was because the monks were unfamiliar with the sort of food they provided for them. Instead of meditating without any concerns, their minds were always distracted by the thought of the food they were used to. Thus from that day onwards, if the lady knew that there was a particular food that the EFTA01163226 monk was wishing for that day, she would provide the self-same food for the next meal. The monks were constantly surprised by the fact that whatever food they happened to be interested in, it would always be the next meal on their plates. Before long the monks were meditating better because they were no longer worrying about food and in seven days, fifty-nine of the sixty could become arahants. The fifty-nine returned to the temple EFTA01163227 where the Buddha was residing. The remaining monk who had not been practising so hard was not only hindered in his meditation, he also guessed that the lady was able to read his mind so he was scared of her. He knew if he should happen to think of anything wicked he would be ashamed to death of that lady. This last monk ran away back to the Buddha and asked permission to pursue his meditation somewhere else. The Buddha asked the reason, EFTA01163228 and the monk said, "The supporter is a mind reader supposing I think anything evil, what will she think of me?" The Buddha said, "To have shame even of your thoughts might just be your advantage!" The monk was sent back to where he had been before, but now he took such care even of his thoughts that he was able to become an arahant. As an arahant, he looked back into his past lives to see if this was the first lifetime EFTA01163229 in which that lady had helped him. He found that in a previous life the lady had been his wife — she had been unfaithful and had murdered him — however in other lifetimes, the lady had sacrificed her life for his benefit. The reason why the woman had become only an anAgAmi was because in the past she had not paid enough attention to the practice of dhutaIga. E.3 Ex. BAhiya DArucEriya DhA.ii.209ff. EFTA01163230 Many kappas ago, the teaching of a previous Buddha was almost disappeared from the world. There were seven monks who still practised well. They saw that society had degraded to to a level where no-one was interested to learn the Dhamma any more. The seven monks decided to disappear into the forest to practice in earnest instead of wasting their time with society any more. They found a mountain which was surrounded by cliffs on all sides. The mountain EFTA01163231 in the forest which was suitable for meditation. They agreed 370 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living amongst themselves to meditate on the top of the mountain until they could attain mental powers. They climbed a ladder up the cliff and when all had reached the top the kicked the ladder away — intending that if they couldn't attain enlightenment in their meditation, they would rather die than give in. They meditated EFTA01163232 without eating and without moving for five days before the first of the monks could attain transcendental states. He was able to become an arahant and floating in the air, flew down the mountain to go for almsround. Returning from almsround, he brought enough food for all the other monks too. However, the other monks were resolute in their meditation and refused his food. On the seventh day a second monk attained anAgAmin. The two EFTA01163233 enlightened monks went for almsround, but the remaining five still refused to eat the food they had brought. Eventually the remaining five died of physical exhaustion in their meditation. The arahant entered parinibbAna. The anAgAmE entered the Form-BrahrnA realm and the rest of the monks were reborn in heaven. After spending the requisite time in heaven one of the five monks was reborn in the human realm as a merchant called BAhiya EFTA01163234 DArucEriya. While trading in a ship, it was wrecked and he was the only survivor. He got hold of a plank and eventually came to land at the port of Supparaka. As he was naked, he tied a piece of bark to his body, and sat in a place where people could see him. Passers-by gave him food. Some thought that he was a holy man and paid respects to him. Some brought clothes for him to wear but he refused, fearing that by wearing clothes, EFTA01163235 people would give him less respect. Besides, because some said that he was an arahant, he mistakenly came to think that he really was one. Thus, because he was a man of wrong views who was wearing a piece of bark as his clothing, he came to be known as BAhiya DArucEriya. At about this time, Maha BrahmA, who had been the friend who had attained anAgAmE in one of his previous existences, saw BAhiya's views going EFTA01163236 astray and felt that it was his duty to put him on the right path. Thus, the BrahmA came to him in the night and said to him, "BAhiya, you are not an arahant yet, and what is more, you do not have the qualities that make one an arahant." Faced with the truth, BAhiya looked up at the BrahmA and said, "Yes, I must admit that I am not an arahant, as you have said. I now realise that I have made a great mistake. But is there anyone in this world EFTA01163237 now who is an arahant?" The BrahmA then advised him to go and seek help from the Buddha who was staying in SAvatthE. BAhiya, realized the enormity of his guilt, felt very much distressed and travelled all the way to SAvatthE to see the Buddha. BAhiya found the Buddha going on an almsround with other bhikkhus and respectfully followed him. He pleaded with the Buddha to teach him the Dhamma, but the EFTA01163238 Buddha replied that since they were on an almsround it was not yet time for a religious discourse. And again, BAhiya pleaded, "Venerable Sir! One cannot know the danger to your life or to my life, so please teach me the Dhamma." The Buddha knew that BAhiya's mental faculties were not yet ready to completely realize the Dhamma. The Buddha also knew that BAhiya's mind was not receptive at that time because EFTA01163239 he had just made the long journey and also because he was overwhelmed with joy at seeing him. The Enlightened One did not want to expound the Dhamma immediately but wanted him to calm down to enable him to absorb the Dhamma properly. Still, BAhiya persistentlypleaded. So, while standing at the roadside, the Buddha said to him, "BAhiya, when you see an object, be conscious of just the visible object; when you hear a sound, be EFTA01163240 conscious of just the sound; when you smell or taste or touch something, be conscious of just the smell, the taste or the touch; and when you think of anything, be conscious of just that mind-object." BAhiya did as he was told and because of his deep concentration, the accumulated karmic force of his past good deeds became dominant and he attained Arahanthood. He asked permission from the Buddha to join the Order. The Buddha told EFTA01163241 him first to collect the robes, the bowl and other requisites of a bhikkhu. On his way to get them, he was gored by a mad cow and died. This is said to be one of the only examples of those to attain arahantship before ordination — but without ordination, he could not support such a high mental state and so passed away within seven days of his enlightenment. Blessing Thirty-Three: Seeing the Four Noble Truths 371 EFTA01163242 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 Blessing Thirty-three in the order of things This blessing and the remaining five blessings of the Malgala Sutta are the culmination of all the previous thirty-two blessings. It is not to say that there was nothing gained from the foregoing blessings, but those previous blessings have not yet managed to raise us to liberation or transcendental purity. In the Blessing Thirty-two we discussed cosmology EFTA01163243 saying that our current sphere of existence can be compared to `life in a ping-pong ball' (!), i.e. the Sphere of Sense-Pleasure. Our sphere of existence is enclosed within a larger sphere like a tennis ball, which is called the `sphere of form-BrahmAs'. This tennis ball is enclosed within a larger football which is called the `sphere of formless-BrahmAs'. Sometimes we think that our cosmos is incomprehensibly large, but to a meditator, it is no EFTA01163244 more cosmically significant than a ping-pong ball. We refer to all three of these spheres together as the `ti-bhEmi' or `Triple World'. The knowledge of anything any further than this `Triple World' is unique to Buddhism amongst world religions. Buddhism, has specialized in the fact that its implicit knowledge extends further than the Triple World into experiences that truly transcend the mundane world [lokuttara] EFTA01163245 and concern Nirvana. Of all the blessings we have studied, those which have emphasized earnest practice the most are blessings Thirty-One and Thirty-Two. Those who practice must use austere techniques to burn up the defilements in the mind — overcoming laziness and their habitual bad habits concerning use of clothing, food and shelter. In the blessing concerning the `Brahma-faring' we sowed the seeds of goodness EFTA01163246 in the pure mind. The process of sowing virtue is like smelting a metal to purity. We have already said that overcoming impurities in the mind can only take place if we have transcendental happiness to replace our mundane happiness. As we change the staple diet of the mind from mundane happiness to transcendental happiness, eventually when this becomes habitual, it will dictate our rebirth in the corresponding transcendental EFTA01163247 realm orlead to no further rebirth. As you practice more and more according to the prescribed stages, the clarity and brightness of the mind will increase. As the brightness of your mind increases, the mind will have the ability to appreciate the reality of life and the world. If you are able to appreciate such a reality, in that way you can come to an end of all suffering — and attain real happiness. Buddhism refers to EFTA01163248 `seeing reality in the way that can bring you to an end of suffering' as `Seeing the Noble Truths' — which is the subject of this blessing. A.2 Definition: The Noble Truths The word `noble' is used to describe the truths examined in this Blessing. The reason for them being noble is threefold they are: Blessing Thirty-Three: Seeing the EFTA01163249 Four Noble Truths 372 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living • Noble in themselves: Seeing these truths, you discover the key to the nature of reality. Simply knowing the truth about certain key issues, you will be able to appreciate the truth of everything — in contrast to the knowledge of mundane matters which does nothing to transform us for the better; EFTA01163250 • Discovered by someone who was noble: The Noble Truths can be discovered only by those who are really noble — not by birth but by the utter purity of their minds; • Will make the attainer noble: Whosoever attains the noble truths will gain penetrating knowledge of all things and that in itself will make that person noble. We might ask ourselves, having studied the forgoing blessings, why we have not yet see EFTA01163251 the Noble Truths as a result. The reason is because we have not yet trained ourselves to the utmost. First, we have to ask ourselves honestly whether we have really practiced the forgoing blessings in earnest or not? Once satisfied with our efforts to study the preceding blessings, it is also pertinent to remind ourselves that even if we are not yet at the point where we can see the Noble Truths for ourselves, the study EFTA01163252 of this blessing is still essential, even if only to know what we are lookingfor. To see the Noble Truths is not the work of a single day. Even if we cannot reach this spiritual destination today, at least we can know the route to take us there — so that in the future we can orientate ourselves in the right direction. Thus, this blessing will deal with `knowing about the Noble Truths' so that we know what they comprise. When we have EFTA01163253 practised further, then we will be able to recognize the Noble Truths when we see them for ourselves. A.3 Noble Truths: overlookedfor epochs The Four Noble Truths are Truths which have existed as long as the Earth or longer. However, even though they existed, no-one ever noticed them. Their discovery had to wait for many aeons (an aeon being defined as the time it takes to wear a 16km x 16km x 16 km solid stone EFTA01163254 mountain down to the ground by rubbing it once every hundred years with a light cloth [Pabbata Sutta S.ii.181]). Not just a single epoch, but a period of the order of 10140 aeons. This is how long it takes for someone to train themselves sufficiently well in the thirty-eight blessings to discover the Noble Truths anew. If such a person has not arisen in the world, the world will remain in ignorance concerning those truths. However, EFTA01163255 once such a person has seen the Noble Truths, even though they might be able to teach those Noble Truths for the benefit of others, it doesn't mean that others will necessarily be able to see the Noble Truths in the same way. The Noble Truths are difficult to see or appreciate because our relationship to them (especially suffering) is like a fish's relationship to water. A fish is so used to the water it lives in, that it fails to notice EFTA01163256 the presence of that water. In the same way, our human condition is so intimately in contact with the Noble Truths that without penetrative insight we fail to see the patterns or the reasons behind them. B. THE NOBLE TRUTHS The Buddha's first teaching, the Dhammacakkapavattana Sutta (S.v.420ff.), which is the main source of our knowledge about the Noble Truths is one of the most important teachings for EFTA01163257 Buddhists to know. Its importance lies in the fact that it acts like a blueprint for all the subsequent teachings on Buddhism given during the Buddha's lifetime. Even if the Lord Buddha were to teach the Dhammacakkapavattana Sutta and never to teach another word of Dhamma for the rest of his life, His duty in proclaiming the Dhamma to the world would have been fulfilled. Just as each country of the world has a Constitution as the EFTA01163258 blueprint for the rest of the laws of the country to expand upon, similarly, the other teachings of the Buddha, the teachingsof the arahants and the teachings of distinguished Buddhist teachers down to the present time are simply enlargements upon the Noble Truths of the Dhammacakkapavattana Sutta. The Noble Truths are fourfold and consist of: 1. The Noble Truth of Suffering EFTA01163259 [dukkhaariyasacca]; 2. The Noble Truth of the Origin of Suffering [samudaya-ariyasacca]; 3. The Noble Truth of the Cessation of Suffering Blessing Thirty-Three: Seeing the Four Noble Truths 373 [nirodha-ariyasacca], and; 4. The Noble Truth of the Path to the Cessation of Suffering [magga-ariyasacca or dukkhanirodha- gAminE-paEipadA-ariyasacca]. If you were to compare these with our system of curing illness, you can compare: EFTA01163260 1. Suffering to the condition of being ill 2. The Origin of Suffering to the pathogen, bacteria or virus 3. The Cessation of Suffering to the condition of being healed from the illness 4. The Path to the medicine that can cure one of the said disease. To take the metaphor further, it can be said that everyone in the world is ill with the disease of suffering — but it is as if no-one really knows EFTA01163261 what the nature or the cause of the illness let alone the cure. The purpose of this blessing is to allow us to know the real nature of Suffering and how we can extricate ourselves from it. B.1 The Noble Truth of Suffering The Pali word used for this Truth is ' dukkha' which means the (truth of the existence of) Suffering. Suffering in general means `awkwardness' or `discomfort' of body or mind. Over the course of EFTA01163262 many existences, when the Buddha had developed inner brightness sufficient to see the reality of the world, he saw that every living being in the world is plagued by suffering. Even multimillionaires are suffering. No matter if they are the president, members of parliament, the king, the emperor or even monks — all are plagued by suffering. All are suffering to a greater or lesser extent. As the result of extended self-training, the EFTA01163263 Buddha was able to see the nature of suffering and even to analyze it into its different components. There are eleven major categories of suffering under the two headings of inevitable and miscellaneous (to a greater degree avoidable) suffering: B.1.1 Inevitable Suffering [svabhAvadukkha]: It doesn't matter what sort of birth you take, you cannot escape this type of suffering — even if you are a man, an angel or a god, for as EFTA01163264 long as you are still within the Three Spheres you cannot escape: 1. Birth [jAta]: Most people wonder why the Buddha designated birth as a form of suffering — in contrast to most religions of the world which conclude that it is a pleasure to be born. The Buddha, by contrast, taught that birth is suffering because it is the starting point for all the other sorts of suffering. In addition birth is fraught EFTA01163265 with the following ten aspects all of which lead to suffering: 1. the Suffering of Internment in the Womb 2. the Suffering of Physical Shocks to the Womb 3. the Suffering of Unnatural Childbirth 4. the Suffering of Undergoing Childbirth (for the baby) 5. the Suffering of Being Cleaned-Up after birth 6. the Suffering of Curtailed Life 7. the Suffering of Wounds in Combat EFTA01163266 8. the Suffering of Birth in the Hell Realms 9. the Suffering of Birth in the Animal Kingdom 10. the Suffering of Birth in the Realm of Hungry Ghosts 2. Aging [jarA]: Aging is a form of suffering easily seen from the sighs and moans of old people each time they have to get up from their chairs. Indeed, most people think that aging starts when you are seventy or eighty years old. However, EFTA01163267 the worst aspects of aging are not the grey hair and wrinkles, but the hidden part which works in the background from the day we were born — compared to an unseen fire which reduces a forest to cinders or storm which leaves nothing but debris in its wake; 3. Death [maraAa]: All living beings have to undergo death before they leave one existence for the next — no matter whether they are rich or EFTA01163268 poor, have led a good life or a bad one. When the mind must depart from one's body at the end of one's life, it is only those who have managed to attain transcendental [lokuttara] mental states who don't fear oncoming death. This is why the Lord Buddha referred to death as suffering. The suffering of dying brings excruciating misery because of: • the scorching sensation when dying which EFTA01163269 seems to penetrate the whole of our body 374 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living • having to face pre-death omens and visions • the struggle of clinging to possessions in vain • the struggle of clinging to loved ones in vain • special torment of death in the case of execution B.1.2 Miscellaneous Suffering [pakiAakkadukkha]: This is suffering which is caused when the mind is lacking in quality. It is a category EFTA01163270 of suffering which you have the opportunity to escape — but for those who don't make the effort to escape, they will meet up with a lot of it. If you know the method to avoid this sort of suffering, you can reduce your misery — especially by changing your attitudes at a deeper level: 1. Sorrow [soka]: This is the `dry-minded' suffering — for example, that of a mother with a new baby who cannot take her baby to EFTA01163271 work (or she will be fired), but must leave the baby in the creche or with a maid despite her misgivings. He anxiousness leads to sorrow for the situation. With the anxiety of whether the maid will take proper care of the baby or whether they will leave the baby to be bitten by ants. 2. Lamentation [parideva]: This is sorrow that drives you to tears. If the mother in the last example should worry herself to tears it EFTA01163272 would be counted as lamentation. 3. Pain [dukkha]: This is physical suffering. The Buddha characterized this sort of suffering as that which makes the mind depressed and dejected. The cause of the suffering might be illness, physical torture, punishment, imprisonment or having hands or feet cut off. As the suffering must be endured alone — friends and relatives can do nothing to help us, or else EFTA01163273 we are separated from them. Some people feel such pain as a result of their poverty — being unable to afford clothes and jewelry to wear like more fortunate people. The mental anguish which comes from the resentment of the unavoidability and seeming unfairness of one's circumstances can also be ascribed to this form of suffering. 4. Feeling slighted [domanassa]: This is when one EFTA01163274 has a `chip on one's shoulder' (to be aggressively sensitive about a particular thing or bear a grudge). Some people bear a grudge against their parents for not having showed them enough love. Some wives bear a grudge against their husbands for receiving less affection than they think they deserve. 5. Despair [upAyAssa]: This is when you give up any hope of success in something. You might see a EFTA01163275 task which is so great that you give up hope of ever completing it. 6. Exposure to hateful things [apiyehi sampayoga]: The Buddha characterized this form of suffering as the sort of cloudedness of mind, grief and melancholy which result from coming into contact with those things to which we are averse. The things which make us feel averse may come via our five senses — we feel aversion and would EFTA01163276 like to remove those hateful things or escape from their grasp — but when we can't it only adds to the suffering in our mind. 7. Separation from loved ones and treasured things [piyehi vipayoga]: If we are the sort of person who wishes for fulfilment by the sense-pleasures and habitually indulges the senses, when we are eventually separated from such sources of pleasure, the heartbreak of parting is the characteristic EFTA01163277 of this sort of suffering. Separation from loved ones (like close relations who pass away) or from treasured things (possessions, home or honours) will bring us misery for as long as we still harbour these attachments in our hearts. 8. Disappointment [alAbha]: The Buddha divided this category of suffering into two parts —physical disappointment and spiritual disappointment. Supposing in spite of working hard and having EFTA01163278 all the necessary patience in the face of hardship, a person still doesn't manage to earn their living successfully - physical disappointment is what they feel as the result. If a person hankers after more abstract things like honours, but is unable to procure all that they are looking for, spiritual disappointment is what they feel as the r esult. For as long as we still harbour such disappointment in our hearts, they will continue to EFTA01163279 bring us misery. For people in general who never studied the Blessing Thirty-Three: Seeing the Four Noble Truths 375 Dhamma or listened to sermons concerning suffering, when they are overtaken by old-age, sickness or death, it comes as a major shock. As for those who have achieved some level of enlightenment or have heard the teaching of the Lord Buddha, the inevitability of such suffering presents no surprise. EFTA01163280 Faced by suffering, the wise reflect that all beings are subject to suffering, irrespective of whether they are possessed of supra-normal powers — no matter how rich or influential a person might be, one doesn't feel one is being singled out for particular bad luck — all are equal in the face of suffering. Thus, to realize the reality of suffering for what it really is, to know the Noble Truth of Suffering, is indeed one strength of the EFTA01163281 Enlightened Ones. The realization of the Noble Truth of Suffering has been achieved independently by all the Buddhas and paccekabuddhas. As for the arahants and various enlightened disciples of the Buddha — it has only been as the result of the teaching of the Buddha that such an insight has been attained. B.2 The Noble Truth of the Origin of Suffering The Pali word used for this Truth is samudaya' EFTA01163282 which means the `origin' of Suffering. When people are ignorant of the real reason behind their suffering, they tend to clutch at straws — blaming anything they can think of (but themselves). Some blame the gods and deities, some say `that it is God's way of testing one's patience' or 'that it is God's punishment'. Some say the victim has `fallen prey to the local spirits or to the Devil'. It is like people who don't know the reason for an EFTA01163283 economic crisis will blame anything they can think of— e.g. the government or foreign countries — but they never think of blaming themselves or the laziness of their fellow countrymen. Some people will always find someone to blame whether it is their husband or wife or the government. If they fail their examinations they blame their teachers. They will do anything to make sure that they pass the buck. EFTA01163284 It is only the Buddha who taught us to blame ourselves — to blame ourselves for not having completely dealt with the craving that remains in the mind. The Buddha taught that we suffer because we still have defilements in the mind. The defilements in the mind create craving [taAhA] which expresses itself in different ways. The Lord Buddha taught the existence of three sorts of craving (A.iii.445): craving for EFTA01163285 sense-pleasure [kAmataAhA], craving for the form realms [bhavataAhA] and craving for the formless realms [vibhavataAhA]. 1. Craving for Sense-Pleasure: Craving for sensepleasure is the grasping of the mind when it iS under the influence of greed or desire for the objects of the senses i.e. images, sounds, perfumes, tastes and touching. It is the craving of those who think that true happiness can be obtained EFTA01163286 via sense pleasures. Thus such people wish to be reborn in the human realm or one of the heavens, all of which are in the Sphere of Sense Pleasure [kAmabhava]. Skilful-minded people with such an attitude to life, try to do as many meritorious actions as possible (e.g. keeping the Precepts or being generous) in order to be reborn in heaven. Such an attitude is one driven by craving for EFTA01163287 sense-pleasure and the Lord Buddha enumerated it as one of the Noble Truths of the Origin of Suffering. 2. Craving for the Form Realms: Craving for the Form Realms is the attitude of those who wish to be reborn in the BrahmA-world or the Realms of Form [rEpabhava]. Such people believe that being able to attain the BrahmA-world (to be reunited with God etc.) will allow them to escape from the suffering of birth, old age, EFTA01163288 sickness and death. Such people devote all their efforts to the attainment of the form-absorptions [jhAna] in order to pass away into the BrahmA-world at death. Spiritual practitioners who subscribe to this attitude, having developed a certain degree of meditation, will acquire the ability to recollect their previous lives and will know what form they had taken in previous lives. When passing EFTA01163289 away, the highest realm in which they can be reborn will be the Form-BrahmA world. Such an attitude is one driven by craving for the BrahmAworld and the Lord Buddha enumerated it as one of the Noble Truths of the Origin of Suffering. 3. Craving for the Formless Realms: Craving for the Formless Realms is the attitude of those who 376 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living wish to be reborn in the formless EFTA01163290 BrahmA-world or the formless Realms [arEpabhava]. Such people believe that being able to attain the formless BrahmA-world will allow them to escape eternally from rebirth in lower realms and that it will allow them to attain Nirvana. Spiritual practitioners who subscribe to this attitude, who have developed a certain degree of meditation, will acquire the ability to know what awaits them EFTA01163291 after death. The limit of the knowledge of such practitioners are the Formless-BrahmA Realms — knowledge gained as the result of developing the formless absorptions [arEpa-jhAna]. Such ascetics misunderstand that being reborn in the Formless BrahmA-world will release them from suffering — thus all their time in the human world is spent trying to develop the formless absorptions in order to try to be born in the EFTA01163292 Formless-BrahmA Realms. Such an attitude is one driven by craving for the Formless-BrahmA world and the Lord Buddha enumerated it as one of the Noble Truths of the Origin of Suffering. The wise recognize these three forms of craving as the Noble Truth of the Origin of Suffering because they are the prime-mover for all subsequent forms of suffering. Craving for sense pleasure is the origin of all the suffering connected with EFTA01163293 rebirth in the Sphere of Sensual Pleasure. Craving for the Brahma world or the Formless Brahma World are the origins of all the suffering connected with rebirth in the Spheres of the Form-BrahmAs and the Formless- BrahmAs respectively. It is for this reason that craving is explained as being the sole cause of all forms of suffering — suffering cannot be blamed on any other thing. If craving can be avoided, the suffering EFTA01163294 of birth, old age and death will be escaped. Craving has been responsible for keeping beings in the endless cycle of birth and rebirth in the cycle of existence without offering any possible refuge. It is for this reason that craving has been called 'samudaya' the Noble Truth of the Origin of Suffering. B.3 Noble Truth of the Cessation of Suffering The Pali word used for this Truth is `nirodha' which means the `extinction' or EFTA01163295 `cessation' of Suffering. The Buddha found that craving can only be overcome if craving is extinguished. The way that craving can be extinguished is by eradicating the defilements in the mind. If defilements are reduced, craving is reduced. If craving is reduced, suffering will be reduced. If you can bring craving to an end, there is nothing to cause you to be reborn any more. If there is no birth any more, then that will eradicate suffering at its roots. EFTA01163296 Furthermore, cessation of suffering is something we can find for ourselves. We don't have to wait for an unknown `factor' or external agent or deity to do the work for us. B.4 Noble Truth of the Path to the Cessation of Suffering The Pali word used for this Truth is ' magga' which means the `Path' or ' dukkhanirodha gAminE paEipadA' which means the `path leading to cessation. It refers equally to the `Middle Way' and to the EFTA01163297 Noble Eightfold Path. The `Middle Way' [majjhimA paEipadA] doesn't mean `moderation in all things' but to cultivate the cessation of craving by steering between the extremes of sensual indulgence [kAmasukallikAnuyoga] and self-mortification [attakilamathAnuyoga] in one's spiritual practice. Such cultivation is a way of training ourselves until the mind can wriggle itself free of craving — something achieved by freeing the mind EFTA01163298 of all the thoughts that cause it to move. If the mind is not still it has no way of extinguishing craving. Furthermore, if the mind is still, it will be sufficiently clear and bright to identify the defilements remaining in the mind, and it will be possible to banish these defilements from the mind. This way or path of practice to bring the mind to a standstill consists of eight components — which is why it is called the Eightfold EFTA01163299 Path. The Noble Eightfold Path can be found at all levels of advancement, whether it be the Sensual Sphere .. [IcAmavacarabhEmi], the Form Sphere [rEpAvacarabhEmi], the Formless Sphere [arEpavacarabhumi] or the Transcendental Level [lokuttarabhEmi]. If it arises at the Transcendental Level then it is called the Transcendental Path [lokuttaramagga]. If it arises in the Triple World then it is called the Mundane EFTA01163300 Path [lokiyamagga] — although the way it is applied changes with the level of practice (see Table 33.1. right) Blessing Thirty-Three: Seeing the Four Noble Truths 377 Right View [sammA Right Intention [sammA saIkappa] Right Speech [sammA vAcA] Right Action [sammA kammanta] Right Livelihood [sammA AjEva] EFTA01163301 Right Effort [sammA vAyAma] Right Mindfulness [sammA sati] Right Concentration [sammA samAdhi] Confidence in the working of the Law of Karma and the power of the Triple Gem. Overcoming Eight Sorts of False View The wholesome intention to remove oneself from the influence of sensual desire, vengefulness and aggression by being generous, keeping Five Precepts and meditating EFTA01163302 Avoiding telling lies, divisive speech, harsh speech and idle chatter. Refraining from killing and cruelty towards living beings, stealing and sexual relations outside marriage. Doing things by the rules. Refraining from earning one's living by selling weapons, slaves, animals to the slaughterhouse, alcohol, drugs, poison or prostitution, `fixing' weights and measures used for business or otherwise misleading customers. Avoiding evils not yet done, EFTA01163303 breaking of bad habits, development of virtues not yet done and maintenance of virtues already mastered. Keeping our mind on wholesome thoughts without any deviation, especially by practising meditation until attaining one-pointedness of mind Following the absorption of the mind onto equanimity. Fiercely accurate understanding of life and the world based on thorough understanding of the Four Noble Truths and without further influence EFTA01163304 of ignorance or the defilements. Insight into the becoming of the Five Aggregates Release from the three types of wrong preoccupation [akusala-vitakka] and bias [agati] Every word as artful speech or else maintaining noble silence. Practice for the removal of every last trace of ignorance and craving. Earning one's living in a compassionate way. Dedicating oneself actively to the attainment of Nirvana. Cultivating the Four Foundations of EFTA01163305 Mindfulness. Seeing and knowing the Four Noble Truths and the Three Universal Characteristics in the Five Aggregates until releasing oneself from the action of the defilements. Attainment of Cessation of Suffering and entry upon Nirvana. Mundane [lokiya] Transcendental [lokuttara] Right View Right Intention Right Speech Right Action Right Livelihood Right Effort EFTA01163306 Right Mindfulness Right Concentration Wisdom Self-Discipline Meditation TABLE 33.1: Practising the Eightfold Path on Mundane and Transcendental Levels TABLE 33.2: Correlation between Eightfold Path Factors & the Threefold Training Eightfold Path Factors Threefold Training 378 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living For as long as a meditator cultivates the Noble EFTA01163307 Eightfold Path purely, completely and according to the principles of the Middle Way (i.e. with the mind entering continuously upon the pathway at the centre of the body), the mind will be liberated from mood influences in the outside world. Once the mind has adjusted itself, the meditator will see the diamond clear PaEhama Magga Sphere (DhammAnupassanAsatipaEEhAn a Sphere) at the centre of his EFTA01163308 or her body. At its smallest it will be the size of a star. Medium-sized, it will be the size of the full moon. At its largest it will be the size of the midday sun. The PaEhama Magga Sphere arises when all eight components of the Noble Eightfold Path are present and fuse into unity [maggasamaIgE]. This is the trailhead of the pathway to Nirvana. You need to train yourself simultaneously in all eight of the following the Noble Eightfold EFTA01163309 Path. The Eightfold Path can be expanded into the whole of the 84,000 teachings of the Buddha or contracted into the Threefold Training [sikkhA] of selfdiscipline [sEla], meditation [samAdhi] and wisdom [pafifiA] (as shown in Table 33.2. p.377) C. SEEING THE FOUR NOBLE TRUTHS C.1 How the Noble Truths can be seen At this point we now know how many sorts of EFTA01163310 suffering exist — but so far this is only theoretical knowledge. In fact, for the ariyasacca to work, we must see them twelve times — three cycles in twelve characteristics. (See Table 33.4) Seeing the Noble Truths is different from seeing other things because seeing them, one's self is transformed by the act of seeing. Seeing, for example `craving', one immediately will relinquish craving and having relinquished it, you see that one EFTA01163311 has done so. It is equivalent to seeing `this is the medicine', while automatically realizing `this medicine should be taken' and eventually recognizing `this medicine has already been taken'. This is possible only because it is not the physical eye or imagination which we use to see the truths but the Eye of the DhammakAya or dhamma-cakkhu' . Of course the other inner bodies of experience EFTA01163312 already mentioned in Blessing Thirty-two also have their equivalent form of `inner eye' but, as we shall see, (See Table 33.3) these eyes are not sufficiently refined to be able to see the Four Noble Truths in the way described: The comparative wisdom of available to the inner bodies at each level was described by the Great Abbot of Wat Paknam Bhasicharoen (Phramonkolthepmuni) as follows: EFTA01163313 "If you are able to attain the body of enlightenment (DhammakAya) you will find that it iS many tens of times wiser than our human physical body. If you attain the subtle human body it is already twice as wise. Attaining the angelic body, it is twice as wise again. Attaining the subtle angelic body, it is three times wiser. Attaining the form-brahma body, it EFTA01163314 is four times wiser. Attaining the subtle form-brahma body, it is five times wiser. Attaining the formless-brahma body, it is six times wiser. Attaining the subtle formless-brahma body, it is seven times wiser Attaining the body of enlightenment and subtle body of enlightenment, they are eight and nine times wiser respectively. This is the nature of their EFTA01163315 successive wisdom — you should familiarize yourself with their relative wisdoms." What is the true meaning of `insight' [vipassanA] meditation? In fact insight is insightful vision or seeing things according to their true nature, seeing them thoroughly from every perspective. The `Dhamma' eye is the eye of the `Body of Enlightenment' which has the ability to penetrate to the truth, especially to know the origins of EFTA01163316 defilements, how they come to enslave the mind and how we can overcome them. This is a major difference from the eyes of bodies belonging to the mundane levels of mind to which the defilements are invisible. C.2 Characteristics of the Body of Enlightenment Luang Phaw Wat Paknam explained that the Dhamma Body is similar in shape and form to a Blessing Thirty-Three: Seeing the Four Noble Truths 379 EFTA01163317 sphere subjective experience equivalent inner eye sensual Physical Body: physical eye [maOsa-cakkhu] Angelic Body angelic eye mundane [dibba-cakkhu] states of form Form-Brahma Body the eye of wisdom mind [pailliA-cakkhu] [lokiya] formless Formless-Brahma Body all-seeing eye [samanta-cakkhu] transcendental Dhammakaya Gotrabhi Body states of mind of Enlightenment and higher Buddha eye [lokuttara] [buddha-cakkhu] Ariyasacca EFTA01163318 SaccaliAAa KiccariAAa KatariAAa Dukkha knowledge of the existence of suffering knowledge of what should be done in relation to suffering knowledge that what needs to be done has been done in relation to suffering Samudaya Ariyasacca knowledge of the existence of the origin of suffering knowledge of what should be done in relation to the EFTA01163319 origin of suffering knowledge that what needs to be done has been done in relation to the origin of suffering Nirodha Ariyasacca knowledge of the existence of the cessation of suffering knowledge of what should be done in relation to the cessation of suffering knowledge that what needs to be done has been done in relation to the cessation of suffering NirodhagAmEnE EFTA01163320 Ariyasacca PaEipadA Ariyasacca knowledge of the existence of the path to the cessation of suffering knowledge of what should be done in relation to the path to the cessation of suffering knowledge that what needs to be done has been done in relation to the path to the cessation of suffering TABLE 33.3: Correlation between state of mind, inner experience & capacity for insight TABLE 33.4: Seeing the Four EFTA01163321 Noble Truths - Three Cycles with Twelve Characteristics 380 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living DhammakAya GotrabhE Body using the Dhamma eye of this body to examine the Noble Truths as they pertain to the physical body, the DhammakAya SotApana Body can be attained DhammakAya SotApana Body using the Dhamma eye of this body to examine the Noble Truths as they pertain to the angelic body, the DhammakAya SakidAgAmE Body can EFTA01163322 be attained DhammakAya SakidAgAmE Body using the Dhamma eye of this body to examine the Noble Truths as they pertain to the Form Brahma body, the DhammakAya AnAgAmE Body can be attained DhammakAya AnaagAmt Body using the Dhamma eye of this body to examine the Noble Truths as they pertain to the Formless Brahma body, the DhammakAya Arahant Body can be attained EFTA01163323 DhammakAya Arahant Body self-view [sakkayadiEEhi] doubt [vicikicchA] attachment to rites and rituals [sElabbataparamAsa] sensual grasping [kAmarAga] annoyance [pAtighA] attachment to the form realms [rEparAga] attachment for the formless realms [arEparAga] stubbornness [mAna] absent-mindedness [uddhacca] ignorance [avijjA] sensual grasping [kAmarAga] annoyance [pAtighA] attachment to the form realms [rEparAga] EFTA01163324 attachment for the formless realms [arEparAga] stubbornness [mAna] absent-mindedness [uddhacca] ignorance [avijjA] sensual grasping [kAmarAga] annoyance [pAtighA] attachment to the form realms [rEparAga] attachment for the formless realms [arEparAga] stubbornness [mAna] absent-mindedness [uddhacca] ignorance [avijjA] desire [rAga](diminished) hatred [dosa] (diminished) delusion [moha](diminished) attachment to the form realms EFTA01163325 EFTA01163326 [ygooppoin] 1qnop [tquum Ai 3pp s] main-Ras 伟SVu砣北（抛龚qqjjs] sI℃n)IJpug s01!J O)1UaLUT40℃1 [yR00Dfloin] 1qnop [-Nga-fp Ai pp s] marn-Ras [vsytu n de龚qql Bs] sI℃mIJpur sa1!O)1UaLUT401 11珍 [NrIp0npoin] 1qnop [iqjaipAipps] main-Ras auou auou [yfiln ] 00111JOU81 [℃001 qppn] ssaupaputm-wasq 伟uvlu] ssautuoqqn:s [℃8y vdgil] ssapuiojal1 JOJ 1UOLUT4OV11℃ [诟 d巾] attachment to rites and rituals [sElabbataparamAsa] desire [kAmarAga] annoyance [pAtighA]. self-view [sakkayadiEEhi] doubt [vicikicchA] attachment to rites and rituals [sElabbataparamAsa] sensual grasping [kAmarAga] annoyance [pAtighA] attachment to the form realms [rEparAga] attachment for the formless realms [arEparAga] stubbornness [mAna] absent-mindedness [uddhacca] ignorance [avijjA] attainment/practice remaining EFTA01163327 fetters [saOyojanal destroyed fetters [samyojana] TABLE 33.5: Stages of Inner Attainment at which fetters are uprooted Blessing Thirty-Three: Seeing the Four Noble Truths 381 Buddha image (of the sort with a lotus bud on the topknot) — but crystal clear and sparkling like a mirror — but exquisitely beautiful and proportioned. The Dhamma Body is the most refined of all the inner bodies described so far — and itself EFTA01163328 exists at differing levels of refinement: • Dhammakaya GotrabhE Body • Dhammakaya SotApana Body • Dhammakaya SakidAgAmE Body • Dhammakaya AnAgAmE Body • Dhammakaya Arahant Body The DhammakAyas are all transcendental [lokuttara] in nature — that is they are not made up of conventional aggregates [khanda] but are made up of transcendental aggregates [dhammakhanda] — the physical form, feeling, EFTA01163329 perception, memory and cognition still exist at the level of the Dhamma Body, but they are all purified to the point of perfection. By contrast the aggregates that make up the body at the level of the human, angel, form-brahmA and formless-brahmA are still on the mundane level [lokiya] and lead the owner of those bodies to be reborn further in the cycle of existence. Meditators who attain the Dhamma Body to the EFTA01163330 degree that their mind becomes irreversibly unified with the Dhamma Body, thereby make themselves invulnerable to the action of defilements. The progression through the Dhamma bodies, eradicating the final ten subtle defilements, or fetters [saOyojana] from the mind is shown in Table 33.5. (opposite): C.3 Three Cycles withTwelve Characteristics Seeing the Noble Truths in each one of the inner EFTA01163331 bodies has three stages or `cycles of examination'. As there are four Noble Truths, multiplied together, seeing the Noble Truths the Buddha or the arahants are able to eradicate all the defilements from their minds is achieved by the same sequential method described below. These twelve stages of the Cycle of Examination are the product of multiplying the Four Noble Truths by the Three Cycles of Examination. The cyclical pathway of attainment EFTA01163332 is rather like the way a nut gradually makes progress along the screw-thread of a bolt by rotating (not like an electric fan which rotates without getting anywhere). For progress with enlightenment, progressing in the cycle eradicates the defilements as it rotates. It was because the Buddha and all the arahants had completed all three cycles with their twelve components in their entirety, that they can attain EFTA01163333 full enlightenment — with no further rebirth. Once you have seen the Noble Truths clearly, over and over again, it will gradually reduce the number of defilements in the mind. When the defilements become permanently less, you will be able to attain Buddhist sainthood at the level of stream-entry [sotApana], once-returner [sakidAgAmi], non-returner [anAgAmE] or arahant. In conclusion, you need to practice sequentially EFTA01163334 if you are going to be successful in your practice and the sequence of progress ofthe mind towards `seeing' the Noble Truths. Importantly, it should be noticed that the noble truths can not be seen by those who have not yet attained the DhammakAya. However, those who have attained the DhammakAya from the level of DhammakAya GotrabhE upwards are able to do the final work of eradicating the Ten Fetters from EFTA01163335 the mind by seeing the Noble Truths and can eventually become fully-enlightened. D. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES D.1 Milakkha-Tissa Thera (AA.i.21, SA.ii.199ff) In the time of the Buddha there was a hunter called Milakkha. Every day of his life since his youth, he had been involved with killing animals in one way or another. He had done evil every day of his life until there was virtually nothing EFTA01163336 left in his heart in the way of virtue. One day, the miniscule amount of good deeds he had done in his past caught up with him. He started to think of his state of affairs. He had been setting his traps in the forest and was thirsty. He saw some monks practising meditation in the forest and walked straight into their encampment looking for something to drink. The monks were sitting in meditation or practising walking EFTA01163337 meditation, trying to maintain the quality of their minds. Even though some of the monks were already arahants, he didn't feel anything special when 382 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living he saw them, because his mind was still caught up with the usual concerns of trapping and killing. Thus he ignored the monks and walked straight into one of the monk's kutis looking for something to drink. He opened up the water jar EFTA01163338 in the monk's kuti, but even though the jar was full of water, it looked completely empty to him. As a result of seeing the water jar all dried up with his unquenched thirst, he turned round and insulted the monks saying, "What do you do all day long? Sitting around, walking up and down but leaving your water jars empty when your neighbours are thirsty. You go preaching to everyone else to be generous and hospitable, EFTA01163339 but when it comes to playing the host yourself, you don't show any interest". An arahant nearby knew that the hunter had been blinded by his own bad karma. He said, "Take a rest from your insulting in the shade and I will bring you some water." He brought more and more cups of water until the hunter had quenched his thirst and could start to talk some sense. The hunter started to notice the things around him. He saw how EFTA01163340 radiant the arahant was and what good manners he had. He thought,"Even after being insulted he has shown no anger but has even brought water for me to drink. If it had been me on the receiving end of some insults I would probably have killed the offending person by now. Even though I have still not gone to a new existence, I still cannot see the water that is filling a water jar. Supposing I were to die, I would surely go to hell. Even EFTA01163341 though good things are there before my eyes, I cannot see them. My life is indeed in a sorry state." Therefore the hunter sat and discussed the Dhamma with the arahant. He received abundant food for thought from the arahant. He realized how much evil he had collected for himself. Only then did he realize that his whole life had been concerned with evil. If anyone had told him that killing was bad before he EFTA01163342 would say, "What do you think you're saying? Don't you eat meat then?" Today he listened to the teaching of the arahant, and as the result, for the first time in his life he started to fear evil. Thus he asked to ordain. The arahant looked at the potential of the man and allowed him only to ordain as a novice. He thought that as a monk he would never make it. The arahant taught the new novice meditation, but EFTA01163343 because of all the evil he had done in his past, his meditation was always disturbed and haunted by images. Everytime he closed his eyes for meditation he could never imagine the object of meditation. He always felt as if all the animals he had killed had come back to haunt him, twitching as if in their death throes on his lap. He couldn't close his eyes without being disturbed. In the end he went to the arahant and asked to disrobe EFTA01163344 because he felt his original inspiration for practice had burned out. He asked permission to revert to his old livelihood of hunting. He thought to himself that if he was going to be born in hell anyway that there was not much harm in falling into hell a little bit deeper than before . . . The arahant didn't try to persuade the novice otherwise, but he asked the novice to do one final chore before disrobing — to bring some EFTA01163345 green wood to make a fire.The novice did as the arahant said, but as hard as he tried, he could not manage to light the fire. Once the novice had tired himself out, the arahant asked the novice to stand to one side and said that he would light it for him. The arahant meditated and split the earth deep down until both of them could see the deepest level of hell [aveci]. The arahant took an piece of embers from Aveci hell, the EFTA01163346 size of a firefly and lit the green wood. It burned to a cinder in a fraction of a second as if it were nothing more than tissue paper. The novice was frightened. Before he hadn't realized how hot the fires of hell were. His teacher said, this is how hot a cinder from hell is. Supposing the whole of you has to fall into hell, can you imagine how hot that will be? Milakkha no longer dared to disrobe — no matter how badly he was EFTA01163347 haunted when he meditated, he was not discouraged. He kept up his practice for several years with an earnest. The hauntings became less frequent and eventually disappeared altogether. His mind became more peaceful and radiance arose from within. The arahant allowed him to take full ordination as amonk. Milakkha practiced with earnest. Eventually he came to the day when he managed to maintain the EFTA01163348 Blessing Thirty-Three: Seeing the Four Noble Truths 383 positivity of mind to the full. His old merits together with the new merits of his continuous practice came to fruition. His teacher saw his progress and saw that he was ready to hear his teaching. He said: "Honour will accrue to all who are earnest, who have mindfulness, right livelihood and acting only as the result of consideration in advance. When self-controlled and abiding EFTA01163349 in the Dhamma without recklessness." Milakkha examined himself: seeing that he had earnest (ever since seeing the fires of hell), mindfulness (no longer was he disturbed by haunting images), right livelihood (as a monk his maintenence of the monastic discipline was unblemished), thinking before speaking or acting and certainly not reckless. Milakkha saw that he had accomplished all that his teacher EFTA01163350 had set for him. He felt content and refreshed by his own conduct. The satisfaction of keeping the Precepts properly is considerably more powerful than any worldly achievement. For Milakkha, the contentment allowed his mind to become unified and stop. He attained DhammakAya, and used the DhammakAya to consider the Four Noble Truths until he became enlightened at the level of the non-returner EFTA01163351 [anAgAmE]. He couldn't attain arahatship because he had not trained himself sufficiently in previous lifetimes. When he passed away, he could not yet enter upon Nirvana but was born in the BrahmA world called the Pure Abodes [SuddhAvAsa]. There he continued to purify his mind until he could enter upon Nirvana. D.2 Ex. KisAgotamE TherE (DhA.ii.270ff) KisA GotamE lived in SAvatthE. She was known as EFTA01163352 KisA GotamE because of her slim body. She married a rich young man and a son was born to them. The son died when he was just a toddler and KisA GotamE was stricken with grief Carrying her dead son, she went everywhere asking for medicine that would restore her son to life. People thought she had gone mad. But a wise man seeing her pathetic condition, decided to send her to the Buddha. He advised her, `Sister, the Buddha is EFTA01163353 the person you should approach. He has the medicine you want. Go to him.' Thus she went to the Buddha and asked him to give her the medicine that would restore her dead son to life. The Buddha knowing her distracted mental condition told her to go looking for some mustard seeds from a home where there had been no death. Overjoyed at the prospect of having her son restored to life, KisA GotamE ran from house EFTA01163354 to house, begging for some mustard seeds. Everyone was willing to help her but she could not find a single home where no death had ever occurred. The people were only too willing to part with their mustard seeds, but no-one could claim never to have lost a loved one in death. As the day dragged on, she realised that hers was not the only family that had faced death and that there were more people dead than EFTA01163355 living. As soon as she realised this, her attitude towards her dead son changed; she was no longer attached to the dead body of her son and she realised how simply the Buddha had taught her a most important lesson: that everything that is born must eventually die. She did a funeral for her dead son and told the Buddha that she could find no family where death had not occurred. Then the Buddha said,"GotamE, EFTA01163356 you should not think that you are the only one who has lost a son. As you have now realised, death comes to all beings. Before their desires are satiated death takes them away." Perceiving the fleeting nature and impermanency of life, KisA GotamE decided to renounce the worldly life. She then requested the Enlightened One to admit her to the Order of Nuns. Accordingly, the Buddha sent her to the community of nuns EFTA01163357 and directed that she be admitted. She was a very hardworking nun and was always mindful and conscientious of her religious duties, and strove diligently for her spiritual development to purify her mind of all mental defilements. One night, she lit some oil lamps. Having lit them, she went and sat down a short distance away. As she observed the flames, her mind focussed and she noticed that while some flared up EFTA01163358 some others flickered out. With her mind concentrating on the flames as the object of meditation, she meditated as follows, `Even as it is with these flames, so also is it 384 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living with living beings in this world: Some flare up, while others flicker out; only those who have attained Nirvana are no more seen.' Through his supernormal power, the Buddha saw that KisA GotamE was ripe for EFTA01163359 enlightenment. He sent forth his radiance and exhorted her to continue meditating on the impermanent nature of all conditioned things. The Buddha also commented, "Though one should live a hundred years without perceiving the Deathless State (Nirvana), yet better indeed, is a single day's life of one who perceives the Deathless State.' At the conclusion of the discourse, KisA GotamE attained Arahanthood. EFTA01163360 Blessing Thirty-Four: The Attainment of Nirvana 385 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 Place of Blessing Thirty-four in the order of things Nirvana is the ultimate state of existence and the highest state of mind a person can attain. It is something which makes Buddhism unique amongst the world religions. Not only to attain Nirvana, but even to understand the concept of Nirvana is a challenge because it requires a steadfast EFTA01163361 understanding of almost all of the preceding Blessings studied in groupings Eight and Nine: • Blessing Twenty-nine: The Sight of a true monk: Those with a mundane level of knowledge tend to form an understanding about the new things they encounter, in terms of the experiences they already have. If a new thing has an added dimension, it is hard for them to understand it in terms of their previous experience. EFTA01163362 It is like trying to describe the colours of a garden to someone who has been blind since birth. This is why in Blessing Twenty-Nine we had to see a true monk to alert us to the existence of the transcendental — as with the tale of the turtle and the fish! (B1.29 §D.8) Understanding the qualitative differences between teachings for practice and higher philosophy learned in Blessing Twentynine EFTA01163363 is particularly important when studying Nirvana. • Blessing Thirty: Regular Discussion of the Dhamma: Since the thirtieth blessing it has become harder and harder to explain the virtues under examination in material terms. Especially when enumerating guidelines for the discussion of Dhamma we discovered that we should not immediately reject items of Dhamma we don't EFTA01163364 immediately understand (see Bl. Thirty §C.1). The right attitude is to use the principle of `live and let live' when confronted by differences in Buddhist doctrine. Being `democratic' in Buddhism is to support any skilful means [kusala upAya] that encourages people to do wholesome deeds that conform to those propounded by Buddhism — whether it be practising the Noble Eightfold Path, the Three Trainings, the Six EFTA01163365 Directions, the Three Modes of Merit-Making or avoiding the roads to ruin [apAyamukha]. We should give support and encouragement to anyone who is inspired to practise these skilful means rather than creating conflicts over points of philosophy which might serve only to dissuade them from continuing with their practice. Even though different schools might differ in opinion concerning EFTA01163366 the higher philosophy by referring to different parts of the scriptures, or have differences of interpretation, surely we would be better to `agree to disagree' on these subjects rather than to let these differences divide us? All spiritual cultivators are rather like long-distance travellers in the cycle of rebirth [vallasaOsAra]. Even though we might differ as to the expectations of what we expect our destination to EFTA01163367 be like, we can still share the same path of progress together Blessing Thirty-Four: The Attainment of Nirvana 386 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living and help each other along the way! As long as we stay with the Middle Way of practice, we can continue to make progress, and one day when we reach our destination, we will EFTA01163368 each be able to see the nature of our destination for ourselves without any need to differ in our opinions any more. If on the contrary we fight amongst ourselves over differences of opinion on the way, or we walk the way separately, it does nothing but waste valuable journey time. Moreover, if we refuse to walk the path at all, or backslide on the path by refusing to keep the Precepts or meditate, EFTA01163369 spending all our time arguing about the characteristics of higher teachings, for sure, we will never arrive at our destination! • Blessing Thirty-two: Practising the Brahma-faring: The equivalence of states of mind [bhEmi] and realms of existence [bhava] discovered in Blessing Thirty-two holds true also in the present blessing. We will find in the present blessing that just as angelic states of mind have their equivalent EFTA01163370 realm of existence liberated states of mind represented by the Arahant body of enlightenment [dhammakAya] have their own equivalent state of being which is called Nirvana. • Blessing Thirty-three: Seeing the Four Noble Truths: the Noble Truths have to be seen with the eye of the DhammakAya because they cannot be seen with the human eye. If the Noble Truths could be seen with the naked eye, surely EFTA01163371 undertakers would come to and end of defilements before anyone else — because they see dead people every day! On the contrary, we are surrounded by birth, old age, sickness and death every day of our lives, but we fail to see the Noble Truths! Indeed, not even the angels, Brahmas or formless-Brahmas can see the Noble Truths, unless they practice meditation to the degree they can attain the DhammakAya. EFTA01163372 The reason why DhammakAya can see the Noble Truths while the mundane inner bodies can't, is because the DhammakAya no longer has any admixture of defilements in the mind — this is why its aggregates are called Dhamma-aggregates [dhamma-khandha]. Only with such a pure body can one clearly see the Four Noble Truths. The previous blessing was not the last, however, because simply to see the Four EFTA01163373 Noble Truths is not enough. You have to remove the defilements from all the bodies that are still defiled so that they are as pure as the DhammakAya — something which is not easily realized. To attain the DhammakAya is only like someone who has succeeded in their education up to the level of passing their entrance examinations to get into university. Managing to pass your entrance exam doesn't mean that you will EFTA01163374 go on to get your university degree. There are plenty of people who drop out at in their first year, their second year or even in their third year. It is the same for your practice of meditation. If you are able to attain the DhammakAya but don't continue to pursue your practice, you will slip back into your old ignorant ways. You have to practice further, until you cannot only see the Four Noble Truths, but become unified with them. This is why we EFTA01163375 must practise further until Nirvana can be attained. A.2 Two levels of Buddhist teachings Before embarking on academic study of things like `Nirvana', a few words of caution are necessary concerning the best approach to the studies of higher teachings. Buddhist teachings can be categorized into two levels: 1. Teachings for practice: such as the Noble Eightfold Path [ariyamagga], the Threefold EFTA01163376 Trainings [sikkhA], the Four Bases of Sympathy [salgahavatthu], the Six Directions [disa], the Three Modes of Merit-making [pufillakiriyAvatthu], the Four Foundations of Success [iddhipAda]; 2. Teachings on Metaphysics [abhiprajfiA]: transcendental phenomena which are above the direct experience of mundane states of mind, such as heaven and hell, the law of Karma, Nirvana, cosmology or the supernatural. EFTA01163377 No special caution is required when discussing the `teachings for practice' (apart from applying the right practice to overcome the right problem). However, when treating subjects of higher philosophy (the so-called `unfathomable' [acinteyya] A.ii.80) (such as whether there will be an end of the world or not; or whether the TathAgatha still exists or Blessing Thirty-Four: The Attainment of Nirvana 387 not after death) often the Buddha EFTA01163378 would intentionally avoid giving a direct or comprehensive answer — not because he didn't know the answer but because he knew if the enquirer had not practised to a sufficiently high level, they would misunderstand or fail to believe his answer — thus in balance, a comprehensive answer might do more damage than good. As students of Buddhism, it is therefore necessary for us to accept that the Buddha never gave EFTA01163379 detailed descriptions of subjects of metaphysics. He would simply leave us with implications. It is our duty to fill in the details through the results of our own practice. The lack of detail is a double-edged sword because although it ensures a lack of dogmatism amongst those who have not yet reached direct experience of metaphysics in their own practice — it also leaves room for interpretation. Even though we try to avoid EFTA01163380 being dogmatic it is also a mistake to give no guidelines. In the majority of the Buddhist textbooks, the higher stages of practice are generally not very clearly described, because all of these things are taken to be merely `the results' of meditation. It is all very well leaving the student to discover things by themselves — but for some people doubts might lead to discouragement. They might worry, "Does Nirvana really exist or not?" or "Is Nirvana EFTA01163381 just a fairy story?" For such practitioners, some guidelines are useful, if only to inspire them with the confidence to practice until they can know Nirvana for themselves. Giving too many guidelines may be counterproductive for those who tend to think, "Now I know Nirvana is a reality, there is no point trying to prove it for myself any more — I'll go back to bed instead of meditating." When studying Nirvana, it is thus necessary to EFTA01163382 take as some form of guidance the little scriptural evidence the Buddha did give us. When speaking of Nirvana,the Buddha did assert that Nirvana exists, but his description of the characteristics of Nirvana consists of a series of negations (not confirmations) for the reasons already mentioned. As a result of this lack of detail we can make no firm conclusion about certain characteristics of Nirvana from the scriptures (see also §B.3 EFTA01163383 below). However, what we can say about Nirvana for sure is that it does exist. Thus whatever we believe about the detail of Nirvana, as Buddhists, should take confidence in, is that the Buddha asserted that Nirvana does exist and it is the end of all suffering. As such, it is the ultimate goal in the pursuit of goodness of all Buddhists. B. NIRVANA B.1 Definition The word `Nirvana' (in the Pali EFTA01163384 language `nibbAna') has a variety of meanings. Nirvana can be translated as `extinguishing' or it can mean `escape'. Where Nirvana means `extinguishing' it means the extinguishing of defilements or of suffering. Where Nirvana means `escape' it means to escape from the three prisons of the Triple World. Looking at the translation of the word `Nirvana', it can have two shades of meaning • Nirvana as a state of mind of a EFTA01163385 person with no further defilements or; • Nirvana as a place where those who have freed their mind of all defilements can go to partake of eternal bliss. B.2 Terminologies concerning Nirvana Given that the word `Nirvana' leaves room for interpretation, usually in the study of Buddhism we make what we are talking about clearer through the addition of pre-fixes. Thus, at this point it is EFTA01163386 worth pausing in order to clarify their definitions: I. Nirvana as a state of mind [sa-upAdisesanibbAna]: Sa-upAdisesa Nirvana is our experience of Nirvana as a mental state that is our living experience of Nirvana — that is, we don't have to die first and be reborn to attain it. We touch upon Nirvana in our experience when we have purified our mind from all defilements but our five aggregates [khandha] have EFTA01163387 not yet broken up. DhammakAya will be manifest inside ourselves imparting the same happiness to us as if we were really inside Nirvana as a realm of existence — but we are still `alive' in our human body. 2. Nirvana as a realm of `existence' [anupAdisesanibbAna]: AnupAdisesa Nirvana is the Nirvana 388 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living EFTA01163388 that exists as a realm outside our body and mind. Sometimes it is called `posthumous' Nirvana because you can only go there after the breaking up of your five aggregates for the last time (you will not be reborn again). The DhammakAya which one has attained by becoming unified with Sa-upAdisesa Nirvana will be drawn through the centre of the body and enter upon AnupAdisesa Nirvana — the quest of all Noble EFTA01163389 Ones. Nirvana is an empty area outside the Triple World which is beyond the reach of suffering. This place is the abode of all the bodies of enlightenment of all the fully-enlightened Buddhas, paccekabuddhas and arahants who have attained enlightenment in the past. Nirvana is full of all of these `DhammalcAyas'. In that place there is only happiness, because no suffering can reach there. EFTA01163390 There is no rebirth, aging, sickness or death, because everything is made up of Dhamma-aggregates. This place cannot support people or angels or Brahmas because these things are not made up of Dhamma-aggregates. Only DhammakAyas can enter thereon. This is the type of Nirvana that you can only attain when you are an arahant, paccekabuddha or fully-enlightened Buddha who passes away from this EFTA01163391 world for the last time. When the five aggregates of his physical body break up at death, his DhammakAya will be attracted directly into Nirvana. 3. Nirvana as the location of Nirvana [AyatananibbAna]: /yatana Nirvana is the location of Nirvana. /yatana Nirvana actually exists but it is not made up of normal elements like earth, water, wind and fire in the same way as things we can see with the naked eye. It is EFTA01163392 neither in this world or another world. It is not the sun, the moon or the stars because all of those things are still within the Three Spheres [bhava] and are hence mundane [lokiya]. Nirvana is outside the Three Spheres and is trancendental [lokuttara]. In Nirvana there is no movement, no coming or going. Those who have attained Ayatana Nirvana are able to see past Buddhas EFTA01163393 sitting deep in meditation [nirodha samApati] there, more numerous than all the grains of sand in the four (cosmic) oceans. All that remains of them are their Dhamma Bodies — but Dhamma Bodies more exquisite than any Dhamma Body you can perceive within yourself — Dhamma Bodies that are self-sufficient with boundless happiness independent of any outside influence — because the mind of those EFTA01163394 Buddhas has transcended all suffering entirely, having attained the true fulfilment of life. In this respect, the scriptures explain (Pathama NibbAna Sutta [Ud.80]: O! Monks! There is the existence a sphere in which earth, water, fire, air, sphere of infinity of space, sphere of infinity of consciousness, sphere of nothingness, sphere of neither perception nor non-perception, this EFTA01163395 world, the next world, the moon, the sun have no part. 0! Monks! I do not say that that sphere has coming, going, existence, arising, falling away, in a place that has no abode, without feeling . . . this, is the end of suffering. 4. Nirvana as the final destination [parinibbAna]: A last term which it is necessary to know to make sense of Buddhist texts is the word `parinibbAna' EFTA01163396 — which is usually used as a verb to indicate the action of entry into AnupAdisesa Nirvana for the final time by an arahant or by the Buddha. Sometimes it is used as a noun to indicate the occasion of the final entry of an arahant of Buddha into AnupAdisesa Nirvana at death. Although in the scriptures, a clear distinction is made between the terms `Sa-upAdisesa Nirvana' and `AnupAdisesa Nirvana' EFTA01163397 (It.38), most of our knowledge of the difference between these terms comes to only courtesy of the commentary by the Great Abbot of Wat Paknam Bhasicharoen (Phramonkolthepmuni). Without understanding this distinction, the more you read about Nirvana in the textbooks, the more confused you will become. The reason is that most of the textbooks have been based on interpretation of older texts rather EFTA01163398 than being based on experience. Some texts even go so far as to say that Nirvana doesn't exist. They Blessing Thirty-Four: The Attainment of Nirvana 389 say that it is just a metaphor for having come to an end of defilements. Some even say that animals can go to Nirvana. This is no surprise because even heaven and hell, let alone something as lofty as Nirvana, have become subject to interpretation. Some believe that the two realms EFTA01163399 are nothing more than states of mind — they say that when you do good deeds, you feel relieved and fulfilled just as if you were in heaven; when you do bad deeds you feel guilty and anxious just as if you were in hell; and they would have us believe that there is nothing more to heaven and hell than states of mind that the corresponding realms do not exist. At the same time there are others who believe that heaven EFTA01163400 really exists as a realm with its angels and heavenly mansions and that hell exists as a realm with its fire and cauldrons of molten metal to incinerate its denizens. It is therefore our good fortune to have clear guidance on Nirvana still available to us within living memory, so that our inspiration to cultivate ourselves until being able to attain Nirvana for ourselves is not misplaced. B.3 The Characteristics of Nirvana EFTA01163401 From the passage quoted from the PaEhama NibbAna Sutta above, we can see that there are three major characteristics of Nirvana in contrast to the characteristics of matter still within the grasp of the three Universal Characteristics [sAmafifia-lakkhaAa]: Nirvana is asserted to be outside the influence of the Three Characteristics [ti-lakkhaAa]1 — specifically it is permanent rather than impermanent: asaOhEraO asaIkuppaO EFTA01163402 ... it cannot be taken away or changed Nd2.56 . . . and the Buddha taught that anything that is permanent is no longer subject to suffering or `notself YadaniccaO taO dukkhaO yaO dukkhaO tadanattA whatever thing is (of the nature of) impermanence is also (of the nature of) suffering; whatever thing is (of the nature of) suffering is also (of the nature of) no/not-self. EFTA01163403 S.iii.22 Furthermore, the Buddha specifically said that Nirvana is of the nature of happiness [sukhaO] NibbAnaO paramaO sukhaO Nirvana is the highest happiness. Dh.57 Thus Nirvana is specifically said to be of the nature of happiness and permanence. However, it is only by implication that Nirvana is said to be of the nature of `self' or not of the nature of `not-self . The major EFTA01163404 debate concerning the characteristics of Nirvana concerns whether it is of the nature of `self' [atta] or `non-self [anattA] is an issue which they have been unable to agree upon since ancient times shortly after the time of the Lord Buddha's parinibbAna. This issue has been with us throughout the history of the development of Buddhism. Even in the present day, there are EFTA01163405 academic scholars of the West and the East who are still debating this issue. In fact, there are several separate issues concerning this issue which they are debating: 1. The existence of the teaching of the existence of true self [atta] in Buddhist teachings: There are those who believe that there exists such a thing as `true self' and those who believe that a `true self' doesn't exist. Proponents EFTA01163406 of `true self' in Buddhism appear to be greater in numbers than opponents. Amongst their numbers are established western scholars such as Mrs. Rhys Davidsi, Conditioned Dhammas such as the Five Aggregates (with Three Characteristics) impermanent suffering not/no-self Nirvana as a non-conditioned phenomenon (without Three Characteristics) EFTA01163407 permanent happy self..? 1. The three Universal Characteristics [sAmariria-lakkhaAa] are the same as the Three Characteristics [ti-lakkhaAa] TABLE 34.1: Scriptural evidence for the Universal Characteristics in Conditioned and Unconditioned Phenomena 390 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living and Miss I.B. Horner2. Both of these were scholars of incomparable dedication and EFTA01163408 expertise in the study of Buddhist scriptures. Both had an important role to play in the compilation of the Pali Text Society (PTS) edition of the Pali TipiEaka, which is recorded in Romanized script — the edition of the Pali TipiEaka accepted by scholars throughout the world as the most authoritative. Among other scholars subscribing to the same view are Christmas Humphreys3 and EFTA01163409 Edward Conze4. Such scholars agree upon two major arguments: 1. That the Buddha never clearly denied that the true self [atta] doesn't exist or that true self doesn't exist in any level of the truth. 2. That the original teachings of the Buddha implies that the true self exists in a state that is higher than the level of the Five Aggregates [khandha] or conditioned phenomena. EFTA01163410 They say that the Buddha never referred directly to the existence of a true self is because those who have not attempted to practice meditation for themselves might misunderstand that the `true self in Buddhism was the same as the one in Hinduism. References for these arguments are found in texts as diverse as the Pali TipiEaka, the Sanskrit texts, the Chinese TipiEaka, the Tibetan TipiEaka and texts in other EFTA01163411 languages. Even so there are still scholars who assert that there is no such thing as `true self' in the teaching of the Buddha and equally they have their own scriptural sources and arguments. 2. The real meaning of the words `atta' and `anattA': A lot of confusion arises in academic circles as the result of scholars who encounter technical terms in the scriptures and assume that EFTA01163412 one word has the same meaning in every place it appears in the scriptures. Each time the Buddha preached he adapted his teaching to the character and needs of the listener. Thus the use of words in the scriptures, even the same ones, may have hundreds of different implications. In the case of the words `atta' and `anattA' are no exception. Some say that the word ' atta' means `self' in the same way that `atman' EFTA01163413 means `self in Hindu teachings. Hindus teach that there is a `self' inside every one of us, which will ultimately be re-united with the Great Being [paramAtman]. They are afraid that if Buddhists accept `self then they will be giving in to Brahminism. In fact, these fears are ill-founded because the word `atta' has many possible meanings. It can mean `imagined self(`me', `my') or the higher concept of `me' and EFTA01163414 `my' for an angel or a god, which must be qualitatively very different. The word `atta' can also mean `true self' in an ultimate sense, of the sort that the Buddha advocated us to adopt as our `island' or `refuge'. AttadEpA viharathi, attasaraAA anafiriasaraAA, dhammadEpA dhammasaraAAa, anafffiasarariA May you all take your self as your island. May you take yourself as a refuge. Take no other thing as your refuge. May EFTA01163415 Dhamma be your island. May Dhamma be your refuge. Take no other thing as your refuge. MahAparinibbAna Sutta D.ii.72 In this case `atta' obviously has a different meaning from the word `atta' as used in the case of `imagined self' or the word `atta' as used by the Hindus. Thus in the study of the TipiEaka, it is essential to distinguish the definition of the vocabulary we meet independently for each occurrence. EFTA01163416 For the word `anattA' we need to be no less careful. There are those who believe that the word `anattA' means `no-self (i.e. self-lessness) and others who believe that it means `not-self (i.e. that which is not a self). It is the same as looking at the word `manusso' which means `person'. The word `amanusso' also exists. Should it mean `no-person' (i.e. person-lessness) or `not-person' (i.e that which is EFTA01163417 not a person)? This gives a different angle when we look at the usage of the word `self' - for example, when 1. late president of the Pali Text Society (1922-42) in Steven Collins (1997) Selfless Person: Imagery and thought in TheravAda Buddhism, Cambridge: Cambridge University Press, p.7 2. late president of the Pali Text Society (1959-81) in Peter Harvey (1995) The Selfless Mind, Curzon Press, p.17 3. Buddhism (1959) Penguin Books, p.88 EFTA01163418 4. Buddhist Thought in India, (1962) George, Allen and Unwin, p.39 Blessing Thirty-Four: The Attainment of Nirvana 391 the Buddha taught that the Five Aggregates [khandha] are not the `self, the implication is that the real `self' is elsewhere, outside of the Five Aggregates. Thus the Buddha taught us that real `self' is our refuge, and that you can attain true `self by the practice of the Four Foundations of Mindfulness [satipat thAna]: EFTA01163419 seeing the body in the body, feeling in the feeling, mind in the mind and dhamma in the dhamma. This issue attracts a great deal of controversy. 3. In the words, `sabbe dhammA anattA' (all phenomena are `anattA'), what is the scope of the word dhamma' (phenomena)? Some commentaries include Nirvana amongst the `phenomena' (Nd2A.8,219 [Mahachula Royal Institute edition]), others not (ibid. part 7, p.62). In EFTA01163420 the latter the scope of `phenomena' extends to nothing more than the Five Aggregates but does not include Nirvana. For each of the arguments put forward, there are many supporting references from primary sources in various languages. There is analysis of each in comparison with the principle teachings of Buddhism. There are conclusions of possible implications and conclusions from each side of EFTA01163421 the argument — for example, if there happened to be no `self' how can we explain the operation of the laws of karma between one lifetime and the next? There is no concensus of opinion to the contrary, but does nothing to quench the ferocity of the debate. C. THE PRACTICALITY OF ATTAINING NIRVANA C.1 Sequential practicefor the attainment of Nirvana For sure, if you are to attain any of these forms EFTA01163422 of Nirvana, you have to practice the Noble Eightfold Path perfectly. You need possess all eight components at the same time: Right View, Right Intention, Right Speech, Right Action, Right Livelihood, Right Effort, Right Mindfulness, Right Concentration. Put another way, you need to practice the Precepts (Right Speech, Right Action, Right Livelihood), Meditation (Right Effort, Right Mindfulness, Right EFTA01163423 Concentration) and wisdom (Right View, Right Intention) perfectly. It is like when you are cooking, you need to add all the ingredients to get the end product you require. TABLE 34.2: Threefold training at Different levels of attainment level of practice Precepts Meditation Wisdom Dhammakaya GotrabhE perfect reasonable reasonable Seeing the Four Noble Truths perfect perfect reasonable EFTA01163424 Arahantship perfect perfect perfect In order to attain the DhammakAya at the initial level [dhammakAya-gotrabhE], you need to practice the Precepts perfectly, even if your meditation and your wisdom are not so well developed (see Table 34.2 above). If you develop your meditation further you will soon be able to see the Noble Truths (Precepts perfect, meditation perfect, wisdom reasonable) and if all EFTA01163425 Precepts, meditation and wisdomare perfect then you have the chance to attain Nirvana. As your wisdom improves you will be able to attain the DhammakAya of an arahat.When an arahant passes away, his physical body will be buried or cremated. His DhammakAya will enter upon AnupAdisesa Nirvana. There will be no further rebirth for them. In conclusion, if you want to attain Nirvana, you have to EFTA01163426 attain Nirvana that is inside yourself Only those who have practised the whole of The Manual of Peace from the first blessing onwards (emphasizing strict practice of the Noble Eightfold Path), have a chance of attaining). C.2 Nirvana: Accessible to all Buddhism is not an exclusive religion. Anyone who has cultivated as many good deeds as the Buddha or the arahants can, like them, enter upon EFTA01163427 Nirvana. Anyone who practises the Noble Eightfold Path properly will eventually attain it for themselves. Thus, once we know Nirvana exists, and know the method, we should make the requisite effort to attain it — in accordance with the guidelines laid out in this blessing — by practising good deeds incorporating the Noble Eightfold Path, keeping of the Precepts, practising meditation and accruing wisdom. EFTA01163428 392 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living D. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES D.1 Ex. VaIgisa Thera Vatthu (DhA.iv.226ff) Once in RAjagaha there was a brahmin by the name of VaIgisa who could tell the afterlife destination of a corpse simply by tapping its skull. The brahmins were very proud of VaIgisa and took him to many villages where people flocked to him and paid handsomely to EFTA01163429 find out from him where their various dead relatives had been reborn. On one occasion, VaIgisa and his party came to a place not far from the Jetavana monastery. Seeing many people who were going to the Buddha, the brahmins invited them to come to VaIgisa who could tell where their relatives had been reborn. But the people said to them, "What does VaIgisa know! Our Teacher is one without a rival, EFTA01163430 he alone is the Enlightened One." As a result there was a heated argument between the people and the brahmins. Finally one person said, "Come now! let us go and find out which of the two knows more, VaIgisa or the Buddha." So they all went to the Jetavana Monastery. The Buddha, knowing their intention, instructed a monk to gather together five skulls, one of a person reborn in hell, one of a person reborn in the EFTA01163431 animal world, one of a person reborn in the human world, one of a person reborn inthe devaworld and one of an arahant. Having found the five skulls the monk placed them in a row. When Valgisa was shown the skulls, he could tell where the owners of the first four skulls had been reborn; but when he came to the skull of the arahant, he was at a loss. The Buddha asked, "VaIgisa don't you know? I know where the EFTA01163432 owner of that skull is." VaIgisa then urged the Buddha to teach him the skill by which he would have the ability to tell where that particular person was reborn. The Buddha told him that the condition of learning such and ability was to enter the Holy Order. VaIgisa reluctantly agreed to join the monastic order. He told his brahmin friends to come back for him later when he had learned the skill. As a EFTA01163433 monk, he was instructed by the Buddha to contemplate the thirty-two parts of the body. He diligently practised meditation as instructed and within a short time attained Arahanthood. Later, when the other brahmins came back, one asked him whether he had acquired the skill. VaIgisa said, "You all had better go now. There is no need for me to learn the skill any more. I will no longer be going along with EFTA01163434 you." On overhearing this, the other monks asked the Buddha, "Venerable Sir! Valgisa claims to have attained Arahanthood. Is it true?" The Buddha replied, "Monks! He really knows the death and rebirth of beings. He is an arahant." Thus, as a result of this tale, we learn that Nirvana is not just a higher level of heaven — it is outside the Triple World system completely if it were just another level of heaven EFTA01163435 VaIgisa would have been able to find the afterlife destination of the arahant. D.2 Ex. KuEumbiyaputta-Tissa Thera (MA.i.188ff) A young man called Tissa heired from a wealthy KuEumbiya family of SAvatthE. He renounced a legacy of forty crores and became a monk dwelling in the forest. His younger brother's wife who had inherited the wealth in his place was afraid that he might give up his vocation EFTA01163436 as a monk and come home asking for his fortune back. She could not sleep in peace and therefore decided to send five hundred ruffians to kill him.The ruffians went to where Tissa was meditating in the forest and surrounded him. Tissa asked them why they had come. The ruffians replied that they had come to kill him. He didn't resist, but begged them to spare his life for one further night (to give him enough EFTA01163437 time to strive for enlightenment). The ruffians asked who would guarantee that he would not run away in the night. Because there was no-one else who could be his witness, he picked up a stone and used it to break both his own thigh-bones as a token that he would not attempt to escape — asking them whether that would be sufficient guarantee. The ruffians, however, were not entirely satisfied and built a fire nearby on EFTA01163438 the place where the monk normally did his walking meditation and slept there. During the night he overcame his pain and, reflecting on the purity of his own selfdiscipline, meditated for the whole of the night to became an arahant at dawn. Blessing One: Not Associating with Fools 393 The Tenth Group of Blessings "The Fruits of Having EFTA01163439 Practised until reaching an end of defilements" Having rid ourselves even of the subtlest defilements as a result of our practice in in Group IX culminating in the Attainment of Nirvana (Blessing Thirty-Five) the only remaining work on the Buddhist path of progress, is to receive the fruits of our labours. Group X is entitled `the fruits of having practised until reaching EFTA01163440 an end of defilements'. In fact, there is no practice left to do in this grouping, and the remaining blessings are more a description of the fruits of one's practice. It is like having washed oneself thoroughly, all there is left is the feeling of cleanliness and refreshedness. This grouping contains four blessings: • Blessing Thirty-Five: A Mind EFTA01163441 Invulnerable to Worldly vicissitudes • Blessing Thirty-Six: The Sorrowless Mind • Blessing Thirty-Seven: Freedom from Subtle Defilements • Blessing Thirty-Eight: The Blissful Mind The Group describes the qualities of a mind freed from the influence of defilements. The first of these we are to examine in this chapter is the state of EFTA01163442 EFTA01163443 9ji sdu ot.uosq8noq1p 伥‘旦翻 ./J1o可一曲饪244I 勘？ssalgUtqJ!M 1T19P ua9q 舶ae1 人pe9JIe siq 鱼IIIq1u9u'nAuTJ0U011eATIIfl3 睛碑移户JdJ0 2 竿碑ad?J一47z?zlJ 》碑ssa1g户?3fl/cf 2111 I.V NOII〕〕qO粗lNI'V c6EsdflUS'锣3纫 呻p/.io oi 2/qVd2恤JM UJ pU!J4T V.M？厚一磁1q18U!SS2iEf .'U!417paU211声？7uf sp.iv4t叨 sda1Sgs :a?md 扣/VflUVJ/1/VP6E 'SapmTSSToTA JcIPTJ0M 0证1T'Tq1J0u'nAuT given here for how to minimize your vulnerability to worldly vicissitudes for those whose mind is not yet at the transcendental level. Having practised all the forgoing blessings, you will have attained a body of enlightenment within yourself which has an appearance like a living Buddha of crystal at the centre of one's body. Your doubts about reality and world will be almost completely EFTA01163444 overcome, having used the DhammakAya to examine the nature of the world, especially the Four Noble Truths. You will be able to understand for yourself the answers to so many of those questions that are useless to have explained to you by anyone else. If you can attain the ability to see the Four Noble Truths, and see Nirvana for yourself, the next outcome of your practice is that your mind starts to EFTA01163445 become invulnerable to the temptations of the world. If you are an arahant, you will be completely invulnerable to the temptations of the world however, if you have attained the DhammakAya at any other level, although you will still be vulnerable to the temptations of the world, you will only be partially vulnerable. A.2 The point of studying vulnerability for those who have not yet attained The subject matter of this blessing concerns invulnerability EFTA01163446 to the temptations of the world. Some might ask whether there is any point in studying this blessing for people who have not yet become arahants but in fact, by studying the invulnerability to the temptations of the world as one of the possible results of persevering with meditation practice, it is hoped to be inspiration to readers to practice further until they can attain such invulnerability for themselves. The objective is not to EFTA01163447 'be invulnerable' without having attained DhammakAya, the Four Noble Truths and Nirvana, because without these things, your invulnerability is not yet watertight. A.3 Definitions The title of this blessing in Pali `phuEEassalokadhammehi cittaO yassa na kampati' is `Invulnerability (lit. untouched) to the vicissitudes of the world'. To define each of the constituent terms in turn: EFTA01163448 • The Mind: When talking about the invulnerability of the mind, by `mind' we mean our good quality of mind; • Invulnerable: Invulnerable means not being dulled by aversive consequences such as loss of fame, loss of possessions or loss of loved ones. It also means not being elated by desirable consequences. If your mind is affected in either of the two ways mentioned, then it is still vulnerable. EFTA01163449 Blessing Thirty-Five: A Mind Invulnerable to Worldly Vicissitudes 396 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living • vicissitudes of the World [lokadhamma]: These are features of life in the world which are fraught with uncertainty and which no-one can avoid for as long as they live in the world. The varieties of the EFTA01163450 vicissitudes are examined in more detail below. It is just like it is the nature of the ocean to have waves on it. If anyone goes to sea then they must meet with waves. If you go into the forest, then you cannot avoid trees because it is the nature of the forest to have trees. The nature of the world is to have vicissitudes which are always fluctuating for the better or the EFTA01163451 worse. If we allow these fluctuations to dictate our mood, our quality of mind will be like a roller-coaster! In fact, there is only one type of person who is not affected by the vicissitudes of the world and those are the arahants. Their mind has sufficient self-confidence and steadfastness to be equanimous or indifferent in the face of worldly vicissitudes. Even though they too are subject to worldly vicissitudes, their mind is EFTA01163452 not upset by unpleasant vicissitudes and it is not elated by desirable vicissitudes. The mind of such a person sees all vicissitudes as things that will not last forever, and lends them no more importance than they deserve. A.4 Why make our minds invulnerable to worldly vicissitudes? The Buddha warned of the dangers of acquiring the desirable vicissitudes when one doesn't EFTA01163453 know how to prevent oneself from becoming attached to them. He compared acquired wealth in such a case as being like fish bait (BaOisa Sutta S.ii.226), a hunter's dart (Kumma Sutta S.ii.226), a thornbush entrapping long-haired sheep (DEghalomi Sutta S.ii.228) and turns those previously of good conscience into those who would rather tell a lie than lose what they have acquired (MAtarE etc. Suttas S.ii.242ff.),It is for EFTA01163454 this reason that if we are not yet invulnerable to such vicissitudes, we have to train ourselves in contentment (as explained in Blessing Twenty-Four, §E.3). B. WORLDLY VICISSITUDES B.1 Varieties of Worldly Vicissitudes There are a total of eight types of vicissitudes in the world (A.iv.157). These eight are divided into two groups — the first group of desirable [iEEhAramaAa] vicissitudes which can make the EFTA01163455 mind elated: I. Wealth [lAbha]: this is anything which we gain or which comes to us as profit, such as possessions, a spouse, land, houses or jewelry; 2. Honour [yasa]: This is receiving promotion to a better position or status or being accorded more powers; 3. Praise [pasaOsA]: This is receiving compliments or flattery or a tribute; 4. Happiness [sukha]: This is receiving comfort EFTA01163456 or convenience of body or mind. The second group of vicissitudes is the opposite to all of the above because they are all undesirable [anitthAramaAa]: I. Loss of Wealth [alAbha]: You lose what you used to own — whether it is your wealth, your house, your land, your spouse, your children or your jewelry; 2. Loss of Honour [ayasa]: This means demotion or being fired or having your powers EFTA01163457 withdrawn; 3. Malicious Gossip [nindA]: This means being criticized for your faults, or someone talking about your faults to your face or behind your back; 4. Suffering [dukkha]: This is hurt or torture of the body or mind. For all of these desirable things, before we have them, we spend years worrying about how to gain them. Once we have got them,we are possessive EFTA01163458 and scared that we will lose them. If we lose them, we spend years lamenting their loss. When ordinary people encounter the vicissitudes of the world, they cannot but help be elated or disappointed. For the enlightened ones however, encountering the same vicissitudes, they cause no disturbance to the mind. When the arahants are praised or insulted, their the suffering is different to that of a mundane person because the suffering of EFTA01163459 illness affects only their body. They have their 'bunker' inside the Blessing Thirty-Five: A Mind Invulnerable to Worldly Vicissitudes 397 depths of mind which they can use to shelter from suffering the whole of the time. The happiness of the world is no temptation to the arahant who already knows the superior happiness of Nirvana. It is like a millionaire with assets of $100 million is offered a `free gift' of $5. He EFTA01163460 will feel indifferent. It is like the ocean full of water feels indifferent if two or three drops more of rain should fall. An arahant is like a millionaire of happiness. If you offer him a little more insignificant piece of happiness, it is unlikely to interest him. If he hears the praise or condemnation of others he will feel indifferent because he knows what the truth is — there is no need for him to listen to the opinions of others EFTA01163461 about what the truth might be like. Praise and gossip is no more than the sound of a crow or a dog barking to someone who would prefer to discuss the Dhamma. If he were to obtain a new robe or some nice food or a new kuti to live in — all of these things are functional but the happiness they give is insignificant compared to the happiness of reaching an end of defilements.They are nothing compared to the requisites available in the EFTA01163462 heavenly world which they have already seen and had the chance to compare the things of the world with. B.2 The Three Universal Characteristics Everything in the world has its own characteristics. Some characteristics are unique — some are shared with others. Gold, for example, has the characteristic that when it is pure, it will have a yellow colour and will sparkle. It is hard to alloy it with EFTA01163463 other elements. Iron has the characteristic that it is a hard metal but it rusts easily. Mercury is a fluid metal that is heavy. These are the specific qualities of certain materials. People have their own characteristics too. They are able to speak and move about and can be knowledgeable about things. However, for all their differences, there are three characteristics that are shared by all things in the world. It was these that the Lord Buddha called EFTA01163464 the Three Universal Characteristics [sAmafinalakkhaAa] (S.iv.1, Dh.277-29): I. Impermanence [aniccatA]: The first Universal Characteristic is impermanence. Sometimes we think that material things are unchanging, but in fact this is not the case. If you don't believe it, try taking photos of yourself as a demonstration — you are born as a baby (take a first picture), take another picture after a month, EFTA01163465 after a year, at teenage, in middle-age, in old age. If on the last day of your life you were to compare all the pictures that have been taken throughout your life you will find that there are no two pictures alike. This is true, not just for people, but for all things in the world is this characteristic applicable. Everything is in flux. There is degradation and deterioration built into everything around EFTA01163466 us. Metal rusts. Paint blisters. Cloth frays. This is true, not only for material objects, but even abstract phenomenon in the world. Last year they said they loved you, but this year, that seems to have changed. Last year, they looked beautiful in your eyes, but this year, that seems to have changed. Even if you try weighing the most precious of materials like your gold ring, you will find that year by year, the weight EFTA01163467 will systematically decrease. The price of the gold sometimes goes up and sometimes goes down. Even if you were to sell the ring back to the shop tomorrow, there is nothing to guarantee the price that you will recover the amount of money for which you bought the ring. Even the state of our mind is impermanent. When you pass your entrance exams to go to university you make up your EFTA01163468 mind to work so hard for your degree that you will get a `first-class honours'. However after seven-days of diligence, you change your mind in favour of the night life. At the end of the year you get thrown out of university...! So much for steadfastness of mind! 2. Suffering [dukkhatA]: The second Universal Characteristic is suffering. Normally we understand suffering as pain, but the word `duldchatA' EFTA01163469 in the Pali has the wider meaning that it is the quality of things that they `have decay as their nature' with all the shades of meaning (already discussed in Blessing Thirty-Three, §B.1). 3. Being without self [anattatA]: The third Universal Characteristic is `not-self. Nothing in the world has implicit identity. You look at a meditation mat and ask what about the meditation 398 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps EFTA01163470 towards Enlightened Living mat makes it a mat. If you were to take it apart into all its components, you will just be left with a pile of components — there is no particular part which makes it a `mat'. If you look at it with a microscope all you can see is a collection of cells. You cannot even see the components any more. In the same way people look at their own bodies and they say "This is me", "This is what makes EFTA01163471 me who I am". However, if they were to look closely at their body and see that it is just a collection of organs, bones, tissues and nerves, it will make them wonder what about their body makes them who they really are. The word `anattatA' has a second important meaning and that is the quality of something that is `outside your control'. From the point of view of practice this is a very important definition. EFTA01163472 You might notice when you sit for meditation that you cannot stop yourself from feeling aches and pains. You cannot even keep your mind on the thing you want to concentrate on for your meditation. Even if you don't want to look old, you cannot stop the signs of aging from appearing on your body. Your hair turns grey without you being able to stop it. All you can do to stop it from EFTA01163473 changing colour is to dye it. Your hair falls out without you being able to stop it. All you can do to save yourself from baldness is to buy a wig. Whether the Buddha arises in the world or not, these Three Characteristics are the nature of things in the world. However, if it wasn't for the teaching of the Buddha, we might never realize. Don't take the teachings that way however — some people hear the teachings EFTA01163474 that everything in the world is impermanent and they think to themselves, "Why bother to invest one's time and effort in doing any good deeds?" If you don't understand this point correctly you will be like many Buddhists who use this teaching as an excuse for doing whatever they like — killing, stealing, corruption and lying — why? — because they believe that there is no lasting effect from any of their actions. They forget EFTA01163475 that the Buddha taught that if you do good you will receive good fruits from your actions. If you do evil deeds, you will receive evil results from your action and that DhammakAya and Nirvana are the ultimate result attainable through good deeds. The reason why such people are confused is that they don't realize that certain things exist that are not subject to the Three Characteristics — that are permanent, happy and true self - EFTA01163476 the characteristics of Nirvana (described in Blessing Thirty-Four, §B.3) C. BECOMING LESS VULNERABLE TO VICISSITUDES C.1 Some principles In general, the more uncontrollably people laugh when they are elated, the louder they will cry when they are disappointed. If people only smile slightly when they are pleased about something, when they are disappointed the trauma will be EFTA01163477 only minor. We must continually remind ourselves not to allow ourselves to be too elated or disappointed when we encounter the vicissitudes of the world, and before long, the resulting stability of mind will soon lead us to attain the DhammakAya for ourselves, attain the Four Noble Truths and attain Nirvana. C.2 Some things to remind yourself Even the best of people, the Buddha himself, still EFTA01163478 EFTA01163479 aqaati Ao'ivy UV3 ppoen spp tq ssainpva •uunp 锣ai? aSOld 3111‘Sia盘 Jaivi •aq gnu' Jam aw sia.8 damp au . :1e18uilo9U9Act 盘oiq alp ua jos moils noic `ppom aq1jo sapn ISSI0IA a p Aq ainssaJd .1apun 1nd aJe noic p)m1 9oinpI IB.191,1aB 0M aAI 2 pIojo aicload 9 •puriu inoX O1 op 人9q198 Iep 9tp lsnf soptuissioIA Lions Jalunopuo 1 no/c ji 1asdn 1 aq 1 u ' op Ⅰ’ sapn1ISSI0IA -1311111O0U3 1 TT hours at the most. In the thirteenth hour it must reach the dawn. Even if you are at breaking point as the result of the pressure you have been put under, know that before much longer you will be close to an end of suffering. The word for `hindrances' or `obstacles' in the Pali, `upasakka' actually means `close to heaven'. Even the unpleasant things of the world are subject to the Universal Characteristics EFTA01163480 - just as they have come into being, before long they must decay; • the good things coming to you are notforever: Instead of becoming elated one should reflect that when the vicissitudes have worked in our favour, such good fortune cannot last for ever. Blessing Thirty-Five: A Mind Invulnerable to Worldly Vicissitudes 399 Even wealth, honour, praise and worldly happiness has suffering and change as its EFTA01163481 nature. Because of the lack of such elation and disappointment, they manage to escape the clutches of birth, old age, death, pain, feeling slighted and despair. • everything that evolves must also decay: When the Three Universal Characteristics are the reality of the world, Buddhists have long had the tradition to remind themselves that it is the nature of everything in the world to evolve, to sustain EFTA01163482 and then to decay. No-one can stand in the way of this process. It is no use trying to create eternity in this world. Not even Buddhist teachings with all their powers can last forever. Even after 2,500 years there are already those who have their doubts about whether Buddhism is genuine because peoples' memories are subject to the Three Universal Characteristics. • don't take the vicissitudes personally: The eight EFTA01163483 vicissitudes will happen to people no matter whether they attain the stages of Buddhist sainthood or not. Don't think that just because someone is a Buddhist saint, nothing unpleasant will happen to you. For all of us who have not yet attained DhammakAya, the Noble Truths and Nirvana, of course our mind is still not completely invulnerable to the vicissitudes of the world — but if we know that we EFTA01163484 are not alone in being victim to such vicissitudes, and that even those who are more fortunate than us still suffer from them, somehow it will make us feel better about them. D. ILLUSTRATIVE TALES D.1 Ex. Visayha JAtaka (J.340) When the Buddha was still pursuing perfections as the bodhisattva, he was born in the family of bankers and had the name 'Visayha'. He was extremely wealthy but was of the habit EFTA01163485 always to give alms. He gave alms daily to 600,000 persons in six parts of the city. He would not only give alms in large amounts, but he would give only refined things and delicacies of the same quality that he used himself. He would give away vast quantities of alms each day and was thus a refuge to paupers and those in suffering alike. He was like the moon shining forth its light for the benefit of the manyfolk. EFTA01163486 Sakka, the king of heaven, felt a warming of his throne as the result of Visayha's generosity and thought Visayha's generosity was surely intended to outshine his own goodness. He feared to lose his own position — so Sakka decided to use his powers to reduce Visayha to poverty overnight — so that he would no longer be able to give gifts to others. Sakka saw to it that all of Visayha's wealth disappeared leaving nothing to give away. EFTA01163487 Waking up to find all his wealth gone, Visayha reflected to his wife, "If our life is without giving, it is an empty life indeed. We cannot quit from our giving."He told his wife to go and search the entire house for anything that could possibly be used as a gift. The wife scoured the house and found only a scythe, a yoke-bar and a rope forgotten by a servant by the gate. These she brought to her husband. Visayha said,"Never in my life EFTA01163488 have I been reduced to cutting grass — but today I'm going to have to learn to become a grass-cutter in order to have fodder to sell, so that we can have something to give." Having spent the day cutting grass he amassed enough fodder to sell and made the promise to himself that he would keep half the earnings acquired to support himself and his wife, while giving away the other half. That day, however, there was a particularly EFTA01163489 large number of paupers who came begging — so by force of habit he gave away everything he had — that day he and his wife going without any food themselves. The same thing happened for six consecutive days. On the seventh day, Visayha was carrying a sheaf of grass in the fierce heat of the midday sun when his fatigue and hunger got the better of him and he fell to the ground in exhaustion. EFTA01163490 Sakka had been following the banker around unseen and at this point made himself visible to Visayha, floating in the air before him and calculated to give Visayha's generosity its final blow with the taunt, "Before you were wealthy — but you have squandered your wealth on the poor — and now look at you! If only you are to cling on to your wealth, before long you can return to your usual wealth! Promise me that from now EFTA01163491 on you will put an end to this foolish generosity!" 400 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Hearing the voice, Visayha recovered consciousness and challenged Sakka, saying,"Who do you think you are?" "I am Sakka — king of heaven" "Normally Sakka is one for practising generosity, observing the precepts and the quarter moon days and practising the seven virtues that make one the king of heaven [vattapada] EFTA01163492 (namely: 1. cherishing one's parents; 2. respect for elders in one's family; 3. speaking politely; 4. speaking to engender harmony; 5. being generous to banish stinginess; 6. speaking the truth, and; 7. banishing anger) but Your Majesty is telling me to stop my generosity — which contradicts everythingthat brought your own greatness — if you are truly Sakka, Your Majesty is acting out of keeping with your own nature! May EFTA01163493 no wealth ever accrue to me which makes me possessive of it! Whatever practice is virtuous or supreme which I have done in the past, may I always continue — may I never stop. Even though I have to cut grass for a living, I will continue with my generosity until my dying day!" Sakka could not succeed in dissuading Visayha from his generosity — so he asked instead, the reason for Visayha's determination to cultivate giving. EFTA01163494 Visayha said that his generosity was in no way aimed to attaining the position of the king of heaven — but in order to accrue perfections with the view to attain enlightenment as Buddha — to lead all beings out of suffering. Hearing Visayha's answer, Sakka could not help but be happy — and he patted Visayha's back, so replenishing Visayha with superhuman power. Sakka restored all Visayha's wealth and more, so EFTA01163495 that there was always wealth in Visayha's house for endless giving to his dying day. D.2 Ex. Buddha left hungry by Brahmin Verafija Having discussed the Dhamma witha certain Brahmin called Verarija (as related in Blessing Thirty §E.4) the brahmin was so impressed that he invited the Buddha and the whole monastic community to stay in his province for the duration of the Rainy Season. The Buddha accepted the EFTA01163496 invitation but a short time later in that province, the harvest failed and there was a famine in the area. There was hardly enough food to go round. Veranj a, as one of the administrators of the province, was so busy solving the problems of the starving people in the province that he completely forgot to look after the Buddha and the community of five-hundred monks who had accompanied him. The Ven. MoggallAna offered EFTA01163497 his services to the Buddha saying, "The Brahmin is too busy to be able to look after us. May I fly away to another continent (world) to look for alms there, to bring such alms back and feed our hungry community?" The Buddha said, "There is no need to go to so much trouble". "Then shall I penetrate down deep into the earth to find the `ambrosia' that is buried there and bring it back to feed our community?" EFTA01163498 The Buddha said, "No, don't do that. Show a little patience." "Why do we need to be patient?" The Buddha replied, "Even, if you were to access the ambrosia from under the ground and the word spread around, before long people would stop offering almsfood to the monks in order to see which monk is an arahant able to access such ambrosia. It would be a disaster for the monks who are not yet arahants. Be patient just for three EFTA01163499 months so that the monks to come in the future will not suffer as the result." Eventually the monks survived to the end of the rainy season on the `red rice' usually used for feeding horses. The happiness for the Buddha didn't come from the food he ate but from the purity of the mind arising from enlightenment. D.3 Ex. LakuAIaka Bhaddhiya Thera (DhA.ii.148f1) EFTA01163500 Bhaddiya was one of the bhikkhus staying at the Jetavana monastery. Because of his short and childlike stature he was known as LakuAIaka (the dwarf). LakuAIaka Bhaddiya was very good natured — even young bhikkhus would often tease him by pulling his nose or his ears or by patting him on the head. Very often they would jokingly say, `Uncle, how are you? Are you happy, or are you bored with your life here as a bhikkhu?' EFTA01163501 Bhaddiya never retaliated in anger, or abused them. In fact he was alBlessing Thirty-Five: A Mind Invulnerable to Worldly Vicissitudes 401 ways serene and pleasing to the eye. When told about the patience of Bhaddiya, the Buddha said, `An arahant never loses his temper, he has no desire to speak harshly or to think ill of others. He is like a mountain of solid rock. As a solid rock is not shakeable by wind so also, an arahant is EFTA01163502 unperturbed by scorn or by praise.' Only then did the other monks come to know that Bhaddiya had long before attained arahantship and was invulnerable to worldly vicissitudes. 402 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living Blessing Thirty-Six: Sorrowlessness 403 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 True love and possessive love Second only to wisdom, compassion [karuAA] — or true love — is considered one of EFTA01163503 Buddhism's key virtues. The further we can extend our mind, the more broadly and impartially we will be able to spread our love. Compassion is not a virtue to make you a narrower or more egoistical person. On the contrary, it will lead to a breaking down of the barriers between yourself and the rest of the world. For arahants such love comes naturally. However, for those who are still unenlightened, EFTA01163504 the love we experience, although called by the same name, is possessive in its nature. Possessive love is subject to the three Universal Characteristics and cannot last forever. It also re-inforces our egoism unlike its enlightened equivalent, `compassion'. However, worst of all, possessive love has a painful withdrawal symptom called `sorrow' — the nature of which we will discover later in this blessing. EFTA01163505 Because an arahant has no further possessive love he is thus free of sorrow. Thus sorrowlessness is another of the four characteristics of an arahant described in Group X. In fact `sorrowlessness' is closely concerned with virtues discussed in the immediately preceding Blessings. In Blessing Thirty-three we talked about two types of suffering — the inevitable and the miscellaneous (largely avoidable). In Blessing EFTA01163506 Thirty- Five we have already been introduced to the vicissitudes of the world: which are all features of life in the world which are unavoidable — but to which you can make your mind invulnerable by attaining arahantship — allowing one to see the desirable and undesirable things of the world as subject to the Three Universal Characteristics. This blessing deals with making oneself invulnerable EFTA01163507 to the second category of suffering which is avoidable — those that resemble sorrow. As we shall see, sorrowlessness is a fruit of attaining arahantship — but even though we may not have reached arahantship ourselves, it doesn't stop us from drawing some conclusions (see §C. below) for how to reduce potential sorrow in our life — even if we cannot completely eradicate it. A.2 Definitions: Sorrow & EFTA01163508 Sorrowlessness The word `sorrow' or soka' has already been introduced since the Four Noble Truths of Blessing Thirty-three. It is a term which refers to the suffering state of a mind that is torn by dryness. A mind of sorrow is a mind that feels dry and cracked like the earth in a land suffering from drought. It is like a leaf that has become so dry that it has lost its life and freshness. Sorrow arises EFTA01163509 when someone encounters an undesirable situation which makes us feel burned out and helpless. The antonym for sorrow, the word `sorrowless' (or in the Pali ' asoka') refers to the mind that is not vulnerable to sorrow — and is the title for this blessing. Blessing Thirty-Six: Sorrowlessness 404 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living B. NATURE OF SORROW B.1 Cause of Sorrow EFTA01163510 The problem of the untrained mind is that it tends to pick up indiscriminately on all the negative emotions of perceptions coming to us through the senses. The mind will not stay still but will constantly try to find some new perceptual food to feed the senses. However whatever sort of thing it senses, it will not stay with that thing for long, but will soon be on the move searching for something new. If you listen to some pleasant music, after only a few EFTA01163511 minutes you will become bored and start looking for something tasty to eat instead. Before you have eaten much, you think to yourself that you would rather lie down and take a sleep. Before you have been asleep for very long, you would rather go outside and take a walk. There is never any satisfaction with any particular sensation. There is only one sort of sensation with which the mind never gets bored — and that is when one falls EFTA01163512 in love with someone or something. Such possessive love causes the mind to be fixated firmly with no more wandering. Once the mind has attached itself to possessive love it can no longer get itself free. In such a state of mind, any day you don't get a glimpse of your lover, you feel that you have no appetite. Even to hear their voice on the telephone, to see a glimpse of their face, or to catch sight of their house can help to satisfy you. If they love you in return, the EFTA01163513 suffering remains within the limits of toleration but what if they don't love you in return? Or what if they start out by loving you and later change their mind — or love someone else — or die? It is at this point that the mind will become so dry that it will feel like it will tear in two. Now if you hear a love song, you would rather cry. Now if someone invites you to go and see a romantic movie, you would rather stay at home. From a mind EFTA01163514 that used to be interested in absorbing many different stimuli, now it has had such an overload from the stimulus of falling in love that it no longer wants to absorb any stimuli at all. Thus, sorrow is like a withdrawal symptom from possessive love — in the words of the Buddha: Piyate jhayate soko Sorrow is caused by things that are dear to us J.iii.162, DhA.iii.277 Thus if anyone wants to live sorrowlessly in the EFTA01163515 world, they should avoid absent-mindedly falling in love and life will be that much easier. Possessive love doesn't just refer to people, but loving anything to the point you become attached — whether it be your house or your car. Anything that has anything to do with love is like a thorn that one day will produce sorrow. In spite of our common sense, and in full awareness of the perils of falling in love however, circumstances EFTA01163516 sometimes get in the way of our better judgement. Many women decide they could better use their time devoting their time to their work or to their spiritual development, but they cannot stand be labeled an `old maid' by their relatives so half-heartedly go looking for love. Some parents want to put an end to their responsibility for looking after their children so they rush them to get married. EFTA01163517 EFTA01163518 0t,9nuq IiIm noic ot 9noi noX ji !8MI lips jo sainse9tu 0g an1 1 'pm noic og 9noi noic ji !2uu lj ns jo s0Jnsi atu 09 9A1q[um noic 09 9noi noX ji !8MI Isuns jo sainsi 9u OL a Ae1 'pm noic oz, 9noi noicjl !2uu lj ns jo s9nsi atu 08 9ne1 Illrn noic 08 9noi noX ji !8MI Isuns jo sainsi 9tu 06 9AeI HIM ttO1c 06 9noi noX ji !2uu tuns jo s9nisi atu p9Jpunq 'I 9AI q Him noX (um pp) paipunq u anoi noX ji„ 4q2nI i. I qppng `3AOT aAISSaSSOd 01 1109eIal LI1IM '140.1.108JO a刀?aj au z'I EFTA01163519 )notwA曳 aq Illm uosJ3d E q Dns '8umi.人tie ) oqe 8tatojjns 0A℃q 1ou HI/ i noic uoqrn D11O-O11 pur 8unpou DnoT no C ji '8uliosuns jo (s)oJnst out 1 一乙一￡ 一＇0M q -rum no/C 'magi.Jo T 一乙一￡一t onoT noX J1 !8uuojjns Jo somsvotu g 0M q 'pm 人g 0noT noA J1 !8uuojjns Jo somsvout 01 DAeq Illm noA 0I onoT noX J1 !8uuojjns Jo samst Oz 0A q ttO人 0z 0noT noX J1 !8uuojjns Jo somsvout OE 9m q IBM no( O￡ 0noT noX J1 !8ulnjjns Jo samst suffering and without regrets as to their life. In fact the existence of suffering, despair and sorrow in the world is only brought about because of the love we have for physical things. When there is no further physical thing that we love (be it our body, people, animals or possessions) there will be no further suffering, despair and sorrow. Whosoever can put aside their love Blessing Thirty-Six: EFTA01163520 Sorrowlessness 405 for such physical things will attain happiness in this world. Those who wish to evade sorrow in this world would be better to avoid falling in love with the physical things of the world." Ud.(verse 176) If you want to conclude in more colloquial language: The more your possessive love, the more the sorrow. The less your possessive love, the less the sorrow. If you have no EFTA01163521 possessive love, there will be no sorrow. The more your possessive love, the more the tears. The end of possessive love is the end of tears. C. PRACTICES FOR MINIMIZING SORROW The minds of those who have already attained Nirvana (i.e. those who have already attained the DhammakAya Arahant) will be insulated from sorrow. For those who have attained the DhammakAya GotrabhE, for as long as they can EFTA01163522 maintain their mindfulness, they will not experience sorrow. However, even with such a high attainment, such people cannot keep their mind in Nirvana twenty-four hours-a-day. There will be times when their mindfulness is disturbed and they will be left vulnerable to sorrow. It is only the arahant who is sheltered from sorrow for the whole of the time. For the anAgAmE, sakidAgAmE and sotApana, the protection EFTA01163523 is not continuous. Sorrowlessness lasts for only as long as they can maintain full mindfulness. Strictly speaking, on the subject of `sorrowlessness' in this Blessing, there is not much left to say. It is a result that arises as the result of coming to an end of defilements. However, for those who are not yet arahants, there is still much to be learned from sorrowlessness because if we know enough we can reduce our vulnerability to EFTA01163524 sorrow for the things we already love and we can avoid exposing ourselves to sorrow for the things we do not yet love thereby . . . If you don't yet have transcendental attainment at your disposal — not to fear — there are still behavioural and attitudinal changes you which you can use to reduce your liability to sorrow. As mentioned in the introduction, we cannot escape the eight vicissitudes of the world — but sorrow EFTA01163525 is something we can choose to avoid. In fact we could choose to walk away at any time but, most people fail to make that choice. The thought to cultivate oneself towards enlightenment has not even occurred to most people. Some are even afraid to practice meditation in case their defilements run out. They are afraid they will have no love left for anyone in the world any more — which is rather a misunderstanding of the true EFTA01163526 meaning of love. They pin all their hopes on the happiness of marriage, only later to be disappointed. Thus, if you want to take the choice to reduce your sorrow, if you still love things, you should try to reduce such attachments before you experience the resulting sorrow. What can you do though, if your mind still feels the need to love things? There are several ways: I. Distinguish between possessive love and true EFTA01163527 love: you should cultivate true love while avoiding possessive love as much as possible. It is not that Buddhists cannot express appreciation for things or people they like — but you should not allow your attraction for things to err into the possessive form of love. The surest way to know that love has started to become possessive is that it will tend to disembody your mind (especially by causing your mind to be drawn EFTA01163528 further and further away from the centre of your body); 2. Love yourself truly: This is not an invitation to egoism — but instead of loving other people, why don't you try loving yourself instead? If you love yourself a lot, then you have to express your love for yourself. The best way to express love for yourself is to put effort into doing the maximum of wholesome deeds for yourself by: EFTA01163529 Avoid the evil things you have not yet done; Give up evil things you have already done; Start doing the good things you have not yet done, and; continue doing the good things you have already started to do; 3. Meditate regularly: You should also meditate a lot and in that way you will be less likely to be caught in the sticky glue of passion; 4. Cultivate self-discipline: By keeping the Five EFTA01163530 EFTA01163531 叛OIJOS pioxe O1 litem noX Tipp no人ji snqI u Jo an 0m SMOPOS qons U1O.1J UOT1001aid JO POS ,IS0CI 'S,OOi I SI,1 龚 MOT 3AISS0SSOd JO ssouppps am ,I noX puiq 隼qI, sop 3 琅爵O MaiII1 Iclooom Oi. p p1S i. ame aq IT TAN no/c s, ,q8II I 3琅 C133111'80 noK 'J0/1O3.1OW ’3AO1 onissossod inoiC wog &limo smoinuipq temospue 8 u？ paual U旦sp.mmai 8d9J8RE 'advacifo PinuvIl V 9017 luau mosinoX ,I00,I , o i oq OI no/C s,Iclooaid you should be quick to ordain! 5. Recollect death and cultivate mindfulness of body: By recollecting death and cultivating mindfulness of the deterioration of the body, it will gradually reduce the tendency of the mind to thirst for sensual stimulation. If you practice the recollection of death habitually it will help you in your practice of meditation because it will stop your mind becoming distant EFTA01163532 from your body. It will allow you to escape from the trap of the senses. If you are in love, then your mind is fixated on something external to the body for long periods of time. However, if you recollect death habitually, it will release your mind from the attachment to love and because you consider the state of yourself, it will teach your mind to stay habitually within your body, instead of continually EFTA01163533 being hungry for new sorts of sensual stimuli. Thus if you ask the real reason for organizing funerals, in fact it is not the occasion for people to get together to cry tears of sorrow — but as the occasion for everyone to recollect on the implications of death for themselves. Instead of being sorry for the deceased, in future we can train ourselves to be sony for ourselves instead. EFTA01163534 With the help of these practices, even though you are not yet an arahant, your mind will be better centred within the body and less easily enamoured by attraction for things that must eventually lead to sorrow. D. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES D.1 Metaphor: Monkey-trap In the olden days hunters had an ingenious way to catch monkeys. They would leave a piece of wood covered in glue lying next to a fruit EFTA01163535 tree. Monkeys eating the fruit would accidentally touch the sticky wood and its hand would get stuck firmly to the wood. Next it would try to pull the wood off using its other hand — but the other hand would get stuck to the wood as well. Accordingly, it would try to kick its hands free with one foot but its foot would get stuck to the wood. Of course, it would try to kick its hands free with the other foot — but EFTA01163536 its other foot would get stuck to the wood as well. There was only one more thing it could do — to try to bite itself free. It would try to bite the wood, but its mouth would get stuck to the wood. Finally, it would roll around in a ball on the ground and wait for the hunter to come and collect it. When talking of falling in love, people are no more sensible than birds or monkeys. The expression on the face of the trapped monkey and the expression EFTA01163537 on the face of a jilted lover are exactly the same . D.2 Ex. Mallika Sutta (S.i. 75) Queen Mallika was the favourite queen of King Pasenadi of Kosala — and a woman renowned for her wisdom. One day the king asked his queen, "Who do you love the most in the world?" In his mind he wanted the queen to answer, "You of course!" The queen answered after a great deal of deliberation, "I have been thinking EFTA01163538 about your question and I observe that all the animals in the world love themselves above all others — and I think that I am just the same!" D.3 Ex. Death of VisAkhA'S grandchild (DhA.iii.278f1) VisAkhA had been a stream-enterer [sotApana] since the age of seven. As a stream-enterer she had attained the DhammakAya and had seen the Four Noble Truths in the physical body, but not yet in EFTA01163539 the angelic body or any of the higher ones. Her attainment, as with all stream-enterers was to be able to uproot three of the ten fetters [saOyojana] in her mind, namely: I. False view of self-view [sakkayadiEEhi] 2. Doubt [vicikicchA]: meaning specifically doubt concerning the action of the karma. 3. Belief in Superstition [sElabbata-paramAsa]: belief in ritual and superstition. The other seven forms of fetters EFTA01163540 including sensual desire [kAmarAga] in her mind had still not been Blessing Thirty-Six: Sorrowlessness 407 destroyed or uprooted. When VisAkhA was a young woman, she married. She had ten sons and ten daughters — a total of twenty children in all. Because she had so many children, before long she had a lot of grandchildren. One day, her favourite granddaughter DattA died. Even as a stream-enterer, EFTA01163541 she forgot herself and went crying to the Buddha. The Buddha asked, "VisAkhA, you once wished your children and grandchildren to fill the whole of SAvatthE, didn't you?" "That is correct," said VisAkhA. "Do you know how many people day each die in the town of SAvatthE?" "Some days ten people, some days nine, some days eight, some days seven, some days six, some days five, some days four, some days three, some EFTA01163542 days two, some days one — at least one person dies, each day in SAvatthE," said VisAkhA who had a good general knowledge of her town. "When there is a death every day in SAvatthE, it is better that you save your tears because otherwise you will have someone to cry for every day." With the help of the Buddha's reminder, VisAkhA realized that the more love you have for all your children, the more tears you will have to EFTA01163543 shed when they die. D.4 Ex. UrAga JAtaka (J.354) When the Buddha was still pursuing Perfections as the Bodhisattva, he was born as a Brahmin farmer. At that time he enjoyed a harmonious family life. He had a young son and a young daughter. Later, his household expanded with the addition of a son-in-law and a servant. One day he was ploughing in a field some distance from his home together with his EFTA01163544 son, who was weeding and burning the weeds. The bonfire made a lot of smoke — some of which went into the burrow of a snake. The snake could not breath so it came out of its burrow and bit the son. By the time the father realized, his son was already dead from the poison. Normally a father would cry at the death of his son, but for the Bodhisattva, he saw that there was nothing more he could help with, EFTA01163545 so he continued to plough the field. A neighbour passed the Bodhisattva on the way to the homestead and the Bodhisattva told him to give the message to his wife that she should only send one portion of food for the packed lunch that day instead of two. When those at home received the message, they guessed what had happened. All of them came rushing to the field and saw the son lying dead. However, like EFTA01163546 the Bodhisattva, the mother, sister, wife and servant did not cry, but helped to cremate the son. As they were cremating the corpse, an old Brahmin with a radiant complexion appeared from nowhere and asked, "Whose body is this you are cremating?" "My son's," replied the Bodhisattva. "Normally a father must cry at the death of his son — or at least his mother or sister or wife or servant must cry." EFTA01163547 "We have our reasons for not crying," explained the Bodhisattva and he continued," because when the life of someone's body is expended it is like a snake which must slough off an old skin. I see my son as no more than a snake shedding its skin. Therefore I have no sorrow. My son will have another life ahead of him - if he has been good he will have a good birth. If he has done evil he will have an unfortunate birth. Even if I EFTA01163548 were to cry, it would make no difference to my son's afterlife destination." The father was not crying because he didn't love his son, but because he could love him but also let go. The mother did not cry either. She said, "When my son was born, no-one invited him to come. When he left us, he didn't say farewell. He has gone in the same manner that he came. When this is the reality, what is the point of crying EFTA01163549 over spilt milk. Even if I were to cry, my son would have no way of knowing — because he has already gone elsewhere." The little sister didn't cry. She said, "If I were to cry it would just spoil my looks. It would just make me ill so they would have to waste time looking for a doctor. It would just make me emaciated for no good reason. It would just increase the worries of the rest of the family — so why cry? No-one is going EFTA01163550 to be any happier as the result of my crying." 408 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living The wife said, "There is no more use crying than there is use in a child crying for the moon that has set on the horizon. Even though we have come together for this cremation, it doesn't make any difference to the feelings of the deceased because he has already gone wherever he must go." The servant said, "You cannot pick EFTA01163551 up the pieces of a broken pot and make it what it used to be. In the same way, it is no more use crying over a dead body — do we think it would bring them back to life again? He has already gone wherever he must go." Even the servant had a metaphor and an explanation for her lack of sorrow so how could they train themselves to think like this? It turned out that wherever the brahmin farmer went, EFTA01163552 he would teach his wife and children and even his servant, "You should make the recollection of death habitual. You have to think of death habitually because death is for sure. Life is not certain. Our aggregates are not permanent and they are of a nature to decay. Therefore you should never be reckless towards the accumulation of merit both by day and night. Make recollection of death EFTA01163553 your habit." It turned out that on that occasion, the old man who had come to ask them the questions was Sakka, the king of heaven in disguise. In the case of the Brahmin farmer, the whole of the family looked upon death without any sorrow because they recollected death habitually. The recollection of death will have the effect of minimizing the number of things in life that will cause us sorrow. If you do your morning EFTA01163554 and evening chanting on a daily basis you will remember the words at the end of the evening chanting: `We are of a nature to age, we have not gone beyond aging; we are of a nature to sicken, we have not gone beyond sickening; we are of a nature of a nature to die, we have not gone beyond dying;' If you do your chanting with true recollection every day and sit for meditation too, you will soon find EFTA01163555 that you start noticing the changing state of your own body in the direction of deterioration. When you are a child and you get a cold, just by taking a nap you can soon recover. However, by the age of twenty it might take you all night before you are able to get over your cold. By the age of thirty, it takes two or three days to get over your cold. By the age of forty, it takes four or five days to recover. By the age of fifty, to get EFTA01163556 over a cold might take a week or even two weeks for some people. By the age of sixty, it might take a month to get over a cold. By the age of seventy, you feel as if you have had a cold continuously. By the age of eighty, if you get a cold, you feel as if you are going to die! If you remind yourself of death often, if you fall in love it won't be for long and it won't be with too much attachment because you will always have the EFTA01163557 feeling that the `Grim Reaper' is stalking you wherever you are going and that will help to put your life in perspective. However, it is noticeable from this particular tale that the Bodhisattva, even though he had trained himself in the recollection of death to this degree, still was attracted to have a family of his own and not to remain single. However, if his wife were to die, he wouldn't waste any time grieving. Thus if EFTA01163558 you practice the recollection of death, if you are still not in love, you will not be drawn into the potential sorrow of such a relationship. If you are already in love then at least you will be able to maintain your own `personal space'. D.5 Ex. PaEAcArA TherE (DhA.11.260ff) PaEAcArA was the daughter of a rich man from SAvatthE. She was very beautiful and was closely guarded from suitors by her parents. One day, however, EFTA01163559 she fell in love with a man-servant and eloped with him to a village far away from SAvatthE. In due course she became pregnant. As the time for giving birth drew near, on several occasions she asked permission from her husband to return to her parents in SAvatthE for the birth (in accordance with the tradition of the time). Her husband, however, fearing that he would be beaten up by her parents, discouraged her from going. One EFTA01163560 day, however, while her husband was away, she set out alone for the home of her parents. Her husband managed to catch up with her on the way and pleaded with her Blessing Thirty-Six: Sorrowlessness 409 to return home, but she refused. Unfortunately she went into labour there and then, she gave birth to a son in the forest. After the birth of her son, she returned home with her husband. Not long afterwards, she became EFTA01163561 pregnant again and she made the same request to her husband as before but again was turned down. As the time forgiving birth to her second child drew near again she set out for the home of her parents in SAvatthE, taking her son with her. Her husband followed her and caught up with her on the way; but as it started to rain heavily, she went into labour again.The husband went to look for a suitable place to give birth EFTA01163562 but while he was clearing a little patch of land, he was bitten by a poisonous snake, and died on the spot. Meanwhile, while PaEAcArA waiting for his return, gave birth to her second son. In the morning, she searched for her husband, but found only his corpse. Full of grief, and blaming herself for the death of her husband, she continued on her way to her parents. Because it had rained incessantly the whole night, EFTA01163563 the river was so swollen it was not possible for her to cross the river carrying both sons at once. Thus, she left the elder boy on the near bank of the river, while crossing the river with her baby, leaving him on the far bank. She then went back for the elder boy. While she was midstream, a hawk hovered over the baby thinking it was a piece of meat. She shouted to frighten away the hawk, but all was in vain; the hawk carried the baby EFTA01163564 away. Meanwhile, the elder boy heard his mother shouting from the middle of the river and thought she was calling for him. He attempted to cross the river himself but was carried away by the strong current. Thus, PaEAcArA lost both her sons as well as her husband. She wept and lamented loudly, `A son is carried away by a hawk, another son is carried away by the current, my husband is also dead, bitten by a EFTA01163565 poisonous snake!' Later, she met a man from SAvatthE and fearfully asked after her parents. The man replied that due to a violent storm in SAvatthE the previous night, the house of her parents had fallen down and that both her parents, together with her only brother had died, and had been cremated. On hearing this tragic news, PaEAcArA went completely mad. She did not even notice that her clothes had fallen from her and that she EFTA01163566 was half-naked. She went about the streets, shouting out, `Woe is me!' At this time the Buddha was preaching at the Jetavana monastery, and he saw PaEAcArA at a distance; so he willed that she should come to the congregation. The crowd seeing her coming tried to stop her saying, `Don't let the mad woman come in.' However, the Buddha told them to make way for her. When PaEAcArA was EFTA01163567 close enough to hear him, he told her to control her mind and to keep calm. As she became aware of herself, she realised that she did not have her skirt on and quietly crouched down. Someone gave her a piece of cloth to cover herself. She then told the Buddha how she had lost her sons, her husband, her parents, and her only brother. The Buddha consoled her, TaEAcArA, have no fear; you have now come to one EFTA01163568 who can protect you and can really guide you. Throughout this round of existences, the amount of tears you have shed on account of the death of sons, husbands, parents and brothers is voluminous.' Then, the Buddha expounded to her the Anamatagga Sutta (S.ii.178ff.),which dealt with countless existences, and she felt relieved and calmed. The Buddha added that one should not worry too much about EFTA01163569 those who were gone, but that one should purify oneself and strive to realise NibbAna. On hearing this discourse PaEAcArA realised the uncertainty and futility of existence and attained stream-entry. PaEAcArA became a bhikkhuAi. One day, she was cleaning her feet with water from a water-pot. As she poured the water for the first time, it flowed only a short distance and disappeared; then she poured for the second time and the EFTA01163570 water went a little farther, but the water she poured for the third time went the farthest. As she looked at the flow and the disappearance of water poured out successively for three times, she pondered, "even so do mortals die, either in childhood, in middle age or in old age". The Buddha, seeing her through his supernormal powers from the Jetavana monastery sent forth his radiance and exhorted her, TatAcArA, EFTA01163571 you are now on the right path, and you now have 410 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living the true perception of the aggregates [khandha] of life. One who does not perceive the impermanence, unsatisfactoriness and insubstantiality of the component things is useless even if he were to live for a hundred years.' Soon after, PaEAcArA attained Arahanthood and was later to be praised by the Buddha as the foremost EFTA01163572 amongst the nuns for knowing the Vinaya. D.6 Ex. Tigers in the Town (traditional) Once upon a time, there was an old Chinese monk who built a temple deep in the forest at the top of the mountains. The monk had stayed inside the temple he had built without going anywhere else for almost the whole of his life. One day the monk found an orphaned boy in the forest. The monk brought up the child until he EFTA01163573 was a teenager. Like the monk, the boy had spent nearly the whole of their life in the temple. The only contact they had with the outside world was when they had monks come to visit them from other temples. All his life, the boy could not remember having met anyone else but monks. One day the monk needed to go on some errands in the nearby town and he needed to take the boy along too, to help carry EFTA01163574 things. Thus on the day before they had to make the journey, the monk gave the boy a warning. He warned, "There is a type of animal that lives in the town that is very frightening. The animal looks just like you, but it has long hair, red cheeks and red lips. Such animals have strange effeminate habits. Whatever you do, don't get close to any of these animals. They are worse than tigers! If you don't follow EFTA01163575 my advice, you will never get back to our temple alive. Keep your distance." The two of them went into town and the town was full of the sort of tigers that the monk had warned him of. The boy looked at the `tigers' but he didn't find them at all frightening. To him they looked quite attractive. Whenever the monk was not watching him, he would stare at every `tiger' that passed. On the way back to the temple, the EFTA01163576 boy was not his usual cheerful self, but hung his head, dragged his feet and would hardly speak at all. The monk asked him, "Is anything wrong?". The boy replied, "I am thinking about tigers". The monk thought to himself, "Here we go again — after bringing up a boy the whole of his life in seclusion, he is still making the same mistake as the rest of them!" The boy's mind was so dry, that EFTA01163577 he could hardly enjoy his life any more. This is the dryness of mind that we mean by `sorrow'. Blessing Thirty-Seven: Freedom from Subtle Defilements 411 A. INTRODUCTION A.1 Place of Blessing Thirty-Seven in the order of things The subject matter of this blessing is in fact a result of practising all the previous blessings from not associating with fools up until the practise of the Brahmafaring. As a result of EFTA01163578 training, the mind becomes progressively more refined until one can see the Four Noble Truths — in the same way that the Buddha did. Ultimately we must work on ourselves until there are no remaining defilements in the mind. Even for the Buddha, it was not possible to achieve such attainments instantly. Even in his final lifetime it took six full years. Having become enlightened, as a result of his teaching, others too EFTA01163579 were able to come to an end of defilements. Defilements, like litter, have gross and subtle forms. Gross litter can be picked up and put in a trash can — fine litter is more difficult to detect. In the same way, the defilements of the mind have subtle forms which can be compared to fine dust so small that that it cannot even be seen with normal eyesight. Such defilements are equivalent to the dust that clings to a mirror, making EFTA01163580 it dull — you only notice such dust when you can clean away such dust so that you can see clearly in the mirror again. It is the absence of these subtle defilements which is the subject matter of this blessing. Of course, such a state is the result of the practice of those who have already come to an end of defilements — but for the benefit of the general reader, we take the opportunity in this Blessing to examine the EFTA01163581 nature of the subtle defilements and give some possible advice for uprooting them. A.2 Definitions Defilements are like pollutants or impurities found in the mind which stop the mind from working in its normal efficient way. They are equivalent to bacteria or viruses in the body — external carriers of disease which cause the body the suffer from various illnesses. The Pali word used to refer to this EFTA01163582 blessing is `virajab' which literally means `stainless', `faultless' or `freedom from defilements and passion'. In the commentaries it is used specifically to mean freedom from the subtlest of defilements. Attaining freedom even from such subtle defilements is beneficial because for as long as such subtle defilements are still present, the mind will lose its lustre — the subtle defilements will penetrate, encapsulate and infiltrate the mind EFTA01163583 making the mind lose its radiance. The mind which is free of subtle defilements is indeed free of all defilements, whether they be gross, medium or subtle. All have been completely uprooted and no longer hold sway over the functioning of the mind. So definitively have the defilements been eradicated from the mind that they can never grow back. Thus the mind is pure and chaste and radiant as is the case for the EFTA01163584 mind of an arahant. Blessing Thirty-Seven: Freedom from Subtle Defilements 412 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living B. DEFILEMENTS B.1 Comparison of Different Groups In all there are three types of defilements greed, hatred and delusion each of which has its identifying characteristics: EFTA01163585 putes by forgiveness even if the disputes are with those who should really be asking your forgiveness. • Ignorance has the character of being very damaging and also it takes a long time to remedy its action. The most frightening thing about ignorance is that we don't know that we don't know. It is like a blind man who has lost his way. The worldly and spiritual retributions for ignorance are both serious. If one does EFTA01163586 something without understanding, one will keep on making the same mistakes without end. Ignorance is also the root of desire and hatred. It is very hard even to know where to start dealing with ignorance if one has not yet attained the DhammakAya. Even when you have attained the DhammakAya, to eradicate ignorance still takes a lot of effort. Some stream-enterers [sotApana] need to practice further EFTA01163587 for up to seven lifetimes before they can get completely free of their ignorance. B.2 Classification of Defilements For each of the three families of defilements — greed, hatred and delusion there are gross, medium and subtle levels of the defilements (as illustrated in the table on the right): This blessing primarily concerns the subtle defilements, however, by way of comparison, we will start by describing the grosser defilements — moving EFTA01163588 through each family of defilements in decreasing order of seriousness. B.2.1 Greed Group [rAga]: The group of defilements of greed and desire includes all defilements which have positive attachments generating love, passion or desire. In approximate order of decreasing seriousness, greed and desire come in the following varieties: I. Desiring things in a Dishonest Way [lobha]: This is the desire which if given the EFTA01163589 opportunity, would cause one to use dishonest means to get the object of the desire. It is when one lets one's greed get out of hand to the point it starts to erode one's better judgement to the point one would steal or use aggression to get someone else's possessions. Suppose you want to obtain something that belongs to someone else — by Defilement Family Seriousness of Duration of EFTA01163590 EFTA01163591 SI M 11 SE Dq o1 8u!tpkiono Apotuoi om oiojoq oum 8ITOI p aq iIA簋1 `ausop Buipit 8 MI E opuu 0AI 14 OM 0011O 'SP0IT0 0A9E8011 ST! alalj JOA000J 0 1 18 E 8uumboi 1 8tu8ptap 8luoci1ou Jo 0I)sIJa)0℃Jpq0 0141. SI 14 al/Sdar• :pi)op WOW ℃ 8uoi OA1.1D uo!sniocpouviou81 pang-pails 0AEJD JO8w/poJ)pH pomi-8ucri Tr48!Is amsacypooiD a扣uIU a 'wpmajoa a8RUIT a FIJI'aj0j before. As a clear example, think how long it takes to recover from a broken heart — or the sorrow described in Blessing Thirty-six. The effects of desire (in the absence of aggression) are not particularly damaging either in spiritual or in worldly ways — with incest and theft being about the most extreme consequences. • Hatred and anger are very damaging but it doesn't take long to recover from EFTA01163592 them. However, under the sway of hatred, there is no end to the violence and cruelty one can do. One can even go as far as to kill one's own teacher and parents. The worldly retribution for violence is severe — you can be put in prison all your life or executed. Spiritual retribution is also severe — especially for the serious actions such as killing an arahant, or one's parents. The grasp of hatred EFTA01163593 and anger are usually short-lived, however. If one is angry, often all that is needed is for someone to say sorry, and the tension is gone. Sometimes anger disappears as quickly as it comes — and one cannot even remember what one was supposed to be angry about. Sometimes one cannot imagine in retrospect how one could have done something one did whilst one was angry. Thus if you have collected up spite EFTA01163594 from conflicts in your past, be quick to settle those dis- TABLE 37.1: Damage Characteristics of Different Defilement Groups Blessing Thirty-Seven: Freedom from Subtle Defilements 413 Desiring things in a Dishonest Way [lobha] Open Covetousness [abhijjhAvisamalobha] Discrete Covetousness [abhijjhA] Wanting to obtain things by unscrupulous earnings [pApicchA] EFTA01163595 Wanting in excess of your fair share [mahicchA] Lust [kAmarAga] Deviousness [mAyA] Grasping for the Sensual Realms [kAmarAga] Grasping for the Form Realms [rEparAga] Grasping for the Formless Realms [arEparAga] Vengefulness [byApAda] EFTA01163596 Directed Anger [dosa] Undirected Anger [kodha] Irritability [pAEigha] Dislike [arati] Wrong View [micchA diEEhi] Delusion [moha] False View of Individuality [sakkayaditthi] Doubt [vicikicchA] Adherance to Superstitions [sElabbatapArAmasa] EFTA01163597 Conceit [mAna] Absent-Mindedness [uddhacca] Ignorance [avijjA] Heavy Medium Subtle Greed Hatred Delusion TABLE 37.2 Heavy, Medium & Subtle Defilements in the Three Defilement Groups 414 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living honest means you could save up to EFTA01163598 buy it (such a feeling is not desiring for things in a dishonest way) — however, even if you have a big salary, but you think to cheat someone else in order to get the thing you want, instead of paying for it — such a feeling is desiring things in a dishonest way; 2. Open Covetousness [abhijjhAvisamalobha]: This is the desire for something so strong that you can no longer keep the desire EFTA01163599 to yourself. You cannot stop yourself from showing an interest, from staring at the thing you want or even using unscrupulous means to get what you want; 3. Discrete Covetousness [abhijjhA]: This is the desire for something which is strong, but not so strong that you cannot conceal your interest; 4. Wanting to obtain things by unscrupulous earnings [pApicchA] this sort of greed EFTA01163600 doesn't go as far as stealing things, but means when people use money of uncertain origin to pay for what they desire. They pay using earnings accrued in an unscrupulous way. It is like someone who wants to get rich and he will do any sort of work to achieve his end — even if it means selling drugs or stolen goods or gambling or going into prostitution to earn their living. Besides indirectly EFTA01163601 bringing harm to society, of course such desire will detract from one's credability; 5. Wanting in excess ofyour fair share [mahicchA]: This is when one's greed gets out of hand to the point one loses one's consideration for others. It is like someone who takes more than their fair share of food on the table — or a member of a group who shares a taxi with them but who refuses to contribute his EFTA01163602 fair share of the taxi fare at the end of the journey. It is also illustrated by the sort of person who goes into a business partnership, but who is reluctant to pay for anything extra if he knows that the returns will be shared. However, his reluctance soon disappears if the profit ever comes to him personally! It is not stealing, or income from unscrupulous livelihood, but it is still taking advantage EFTA01163603 of others; 6. Lust [IcArnarAga]: This is being attracted obsessively to someone or something — like someone who is attracted to someone of the opposite sex (even if he never mentioned his love to anyone). Some people might ask whether such love is wrong, because it doesn't take advantage of anyone else — in fact it may not be harmful to anyone, but it is a defilement, a subtle EFTA01163604 one. It is of no harm if the object of your love is not already married — but as we have learned in Blessing Thirty-Six, wherever there is love, tears must follow. Even if you have only ever loved your lawful wedded spouse and have never taken an interest in anyone else, it is still unwise to harbour this defilement of sensual pleasure in your mind, because it may cause you problems some time in the EFTA01163605 future; 7. Deviousness [mAyA]: This is when you would like to get something but you are too embarrassed to ask for it directly — therefore you find an indirect way of obtaining what you want — like saying, "I guess you don't use this any more? If you leave it lying around it will probably go rusty!" in order that someone gives you something they own but which you want. You EFTA01163606 wouldn't have the courage to ask for such a thing directly. It also includes all the daft things young people do in front of a mirror before they go courting a boy-/girlfriend; 8. Graspingfor the Sensual Realms [kAmarAga]: This is when you still have an attraction for sensual pleasure which will cause you to be reborn in the sensual sphere; 9. Graspingfor the Form Realms [rEparAga]: This is when you still have some EFTA01163607 attraction for the pleasures of the form absorptions. When one meditates to the degree one attains the first absorption or higher, one attains happiness that money cannot buy. Of course, the happiness of complete liberation from defilements is superior to this — but some people who attain such meditation think that it is the ultimate, because some people who attain this level can even perform EFTA01163608 miracles. Therefore they don't try to make Blessing Thirty-Seven: Freedom from Subtle Defilements 415 any further progress. Their spiritual progress gets stuck at this point and they lose sight of their long-term goal. However, to have attained form absorptions to become deluded by is still far superior to attaining nothing at all!; 10. Graspingfor the Formless Realms [arEparAga] : If you attain the formless EFTA01163609 absorptions but you become elated by your attainment instead of training yourself further then you will be subject to this subtle defilement and be unable to make any further progress; B.2.2 Hatred Group [dosa]: Hatred includes all the defilements which react with aversion to unpleasant stimuli. It can mean the thoughts or expressions of aggression towards others, their possessions or their reputation — and includes EFTA01163610 anger and illwill. In approximate order of decreasing seriousness, hatred comes in the following varieties: I. Vengefulness [byApAda]: This is anger, grudges, spite or the wish to destroy others that is so strong that if you don't succeed in destroying someone today, you will make sure you succeed on a future occasion. It is like water boiling so violently that it will spit out of the container and EFTA01163611 scald the people nearby; 2. Directed Anger [dosa]: This is anger itself with the thought to kill the object of your anger or burn down their house or kick them or insult them or discredit them. This is like water at a rolling boil, where you can hear the sound of the bubbles breaking; 3. Undirected Anger [kodha]: This again is anger, but not yet with the accompanying thought of how to express the anger. It is the EFTA01163612 sort of anger that comes from biting your tongue when you are eating or inadvertantly stubbing your toe. You have not yet put the blame on anyone — it is just a feeling. This is like the fizz of water that is starting to simmer; 4. Irritability [paEigha]: This is not so serious as anger, but it is the feeling of friction in one's mind when there is aversion present. When a mother wants to sit for meditation and her EFTA01163613 daughter has the radio turned up loud, she will say, "Can't you turn down the volume, I would like to meditate now?" When her daughter says, "Why do you have to meditate now?" although the mother is not angry, she will be irritated by her daughter's lack of co-operation. Although irritability per se is of negligable harm, you have to overcome it because it has the potential to developing EFTA01163614 into fully-fledged anger; 5. Dislike [arati]: This is the sort of feeling of awkwardness when you have a slight difference in taste from another person but you have to share in their activities or share the same workplace. Thus you would prefer not to share in the same activities as this person. If you still have such a feeling, your mind is still under the sway of the subtle defilements of the mind. B.2.3 Ignorance Group [moha]: EFTA01163615 Delusion is ignorance or drunkenness especially that which causes us not to know the difference between what is good or bad for our quality of mind. It is not an ignorance of arithmetic or computers. It is an ignorance of the spiritual values in life which are essential for everyone to know — and which include the knowledge of right and wrong, appropriate and inappropriate behaviours. It is a sort of blindness of the mind. It EFTA01163616 doesn't depend on your level of education or even if you can read and write — but it depends on your attitude to the world. Someone who is well educated might even be more subject to delusion than his uneducated counterpart because they think their graduation certificate is a substitute for wisdom. In approximate order of decreasing seriousness, delusion comes in the following varieties: I. Wrong View [micchA ditthi]: EFTA01163617 This is the most coarse form of delusion. It includes the belief that good is evil or that evil is good or that heaven and hell don't exist or that we have no debt of gratitude to our parents. We have already covered the importance of discretion since the first blessing — and as we have seen it is the sort of delusion that opposes any sort of self-development in the cycle of existence. Even the serious EFTA01163618 misdeeds [anantariyakamma] such as killing our own parents, or arahants are not so serious 416 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living as wrong view because some day you can escape the effects of the karma. However, there is no light at the end of the tunnel for those with wrong view; 2. Delusion [moha]: This is delusion which obstructs our understanding of the difference between EFTA01163619 right and wrong. 3. False View of Individuality [sakkayadiEEhi]: This is the view that you are superior to others. In fact our individuality is on many different levels and for as long as our view of ourselves extends no further than the physical body, we will be caught up in false view of individuality; 4. Doubt [vicikicchA]: This is doubt as to whether the law of karma really works or not. It is doubt EFTA01163620 as to whether it is really possible to make progress in meditation or whether it is really possible to become enlightened; 5. Adherence to superstitions [sElabbataparAmAsa]: This means being caught up in superstitious rites and rituals (ones without reasons). Some people believe that eating certain foods will allow them to gain salvation — for others ritual bathing in some sacred river, fortune tellers, spirit EFTA01163621 worship or other forms of superstition are seen as a refuge from suffering. The only way to come to a real end of such beliefs is to attain the DhammakAya. Until you manage to attain the DhammakAya, you will find that you will always be believing the last thing you heard. 6. Conceit [mAna]: There are three ways in which people may be conceited about themselves: 1. Assuming themselves to be of EFTA01163622 EFTA01163623 Wm II・Jogpnj S0AT0S.111O D AO.IdUII o1 kuunpoddo mo jjo 2n° am 'mag2 o1 JouocIns am am moin gag JO 30U9UDdxa JO sllnis .1 O JO am.un Xg. pue `siog1o o) JOHodns aq o1 saniosino atunssi DMR 'B11O.1M 3I0 oo.up.ll℃ '1oujIII (xaiduioo A)uouodns) sn1e1s Jag8u4 jo og ol sonIastuagl 8UIUITISSV ’￡ (xoidwoo A)uouojui) sty 1s Jo/\oI jo aq o1 soniostualp8tuTunssy ’乙 &law SE sn1els atm s o琅 make us reckless. If we assume ourselves to be superior but in fact we are just the same as them, then it is a form of bullying. If we think we are superior even though we are inferior, then our mistake of attitude will be even worse. Instead of comparing ourselves with others, we should compare ourselves today with how we were yesterday or last week and look for any improvements. EFTA01163624 7. Absent-mindedness [uddhacca]: This is restlessness of mind of the sort you experience when you try to keep your mind on the object of meditation, but your mind wanders onto every other subject under the sun. 8. Ignorance [avijjA]: This is lack of true knowledge or possession of the wrong sort of knowledge in a person. This is the lack of knowledge about the important matters of `where we have come EFTA01163625 from', `why we are here', `when we will die' and `where we will go when we die'. For such knowledge, you need to attain the DhammakAya to get any real answers — not just the initial DhammakAya, but the DhammakAyas of the higher Buddhist saints. B.3 Conclusion as Fetters The subtle defilements can also be concluded in the form of the Ten Fetters [saOyojana] which are sequentially uprooted by each of EFTA01163626 the stages of Buddhist sainthood as already discussed in Blessing Thirty-three (see §C.1, Table 4). B.4 Why we can't afford to tolerate the subtle defilements Although the subtle defilements on the face of it seem harmless, we cannot afford to tolerate their presence of mind. It is just like a spark which can cause the whole of a city to bum down. The Buddha thus taught us to see danger even in the smallest EFTA01163627 things [aAumattesu vajjesu bhaya-dassavE]. Even though all these mental taints might be considered minor — no more than `rust' in the mind, we have to try to get rid of them because otherwise they will be damaging to us in the future. For most people, the mental taints are so subtle that they feel that it doesn't really matter whether they are there or not. They are like tiny bacteria which can cause much more serious diseases. Often EFTA01163628 if we are still living the household life with a husband or wife and children, it is difficult to appreciate the danBlessing Thirty-Seven: Freedom from Subtle Defilements 417 gers of these taints. However, when we leave the household life and dedicate ourselves to mental training, we see that these taints cannot be ignored. Thus you have to be careful of defilements of all levels. You cannot afford to overlook even the smallest. EFTA01163629 The best security is to uproot all until no further remain. B.5 Overcoming the Subtle defilements Most of the ways of overcoming the subtle defilements have been dealt with in detail in the preceding Blessings: • Greed can be overcome by practising contentment (see Blessing Twenty-Four) and by getting life properly in perspective through meditation; • Stinginess can be overcome by EFTA01163630 practising generosity (see Blessing Fifteen): • Sensuality needs to be transcended by: contentment with one's own spouse, giving up frivolous behaviour, using funerals to your benefit, associating with good friends (see Blessing Two), loving yourself unselfishly (see Blessing Thirty- Six), spreading loving kindness limitlessly, staying single, keeping the Eight Precepts and staying celibate (see Blessing Thirty-Two) EFTA01163631 and persistence (see Blessing Twenty-Seven). • Anger has different ways of overcoming it depending on which situation you meet it in: if you are so angry that you have lost control of your temper, it is better to withdraw amicably and come back later, while recomposing your mindfulness - if you are still in control of your temper, you should say or do nothing harmful while thinking clearly through the EFTA01163632 full range of options and outcomes available to you for overcoming the problem causing your anger — in the meantime, if you are of a personality liable to anger, you should try to cultivate loving kindness, train yourself in patience (see Blessing Twenty-Seven) and try to avoid associating with angry people (see Blessing One); • False View needs to be overcome by cultivating wisdom, meditating more, EFTA01163633 overcoming doubts while giving Buddhist teachings the benefit of the doubt. • Conceit needs to be overcome by being humble (see Blessing Twenty-Three), being wary of comparing yourself with others, checking yourself for false views, associating with good friends (see Blessing Two) and avoiding flatterers (see Blessing One), being thorough in all that you do, not finding fault with others, EFTA01163634 cultivating respect (see Blessing Twenty-two)and training yourself in gratitude (see Blessing Twenty-Five) since childhood. C. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES C.1 Metaphor: Droplet of water on a lily pad Just as a droplet of water skates around on a lily pad without sticking — for those who have attained Nirvana, even the subtlest of defilements can no longer attach to the mind. C.2 Ex. Monks overestimate their EFTA01163635 attainment (DhA.iii.111ff) In the time of the Buddha there was a group of monks who had been practising in isolation in the forest, keeping their Precepts strictly and practising hard. They had been practising for so long that they became convinced that they had already overcome all the defilements in the mind. They thought they had no remaining greed, hatred or delusion. All the monks felt EFTA01163636 fulfilled and left their practice in the forest to return to the temple. They planned to visit the Buddha. The Buddha knew through his meditation that this group of monks had overestimated their attainment and in fact had still not reached an end of defilements! The Buddha toldfnanda to wait for the monks at the gate of the temple and tell them to go to stay in the cemetery instead of coming to see the EFTA01163637 Buddha immediately. In the cemetery there was the corpse of a beautiful woman who had just recently died. When the monks saw the corpse of the woman they would be attracted by her (former) beauty. The monks would then know that there were still subtle defilements remaining in their minds and they would know that they needed to practice further. In this case, without the right circumstances to magnify EFTA01163638 the subtle defilements into a recognizable emotion, the small defilements in the minds of these monks had remained hidden without them realizing it. 418 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living C.3 Ex. The Revenge of the KAOE Ogress (DhA.i.37ff.) Once there was a householder whose wife was barren. Being unable to bear a child and afraid that she would be mistreated by her EFTA01163639 husband or her mother-in-law, with the best of intentions she arranged for her husband to marry a second woman. In spite of her original goodwill, on two occasions, as soon as she knew the second wife was pregnant, the barren wife gave the other food mixed with miscarriage-inducing drugs. When it came to the woman's third attempt, she wife kept the pregnancy secret. However, when the barren wife came to EFTA01163640 know about it, again she caused an abortion. Eventually the second wife died in childbirth. Before her death, the unfortunate woman was filled with hatred and vowed vengeance on the barren wife and her future offspring. Thus the feud started. Next lifetime, the second wife was born as a villager near SAvatthE. She kept a hen (the barren wife of the previous existence) and every time it laid an egg, the woman would destroy it. EFTA01163641 The hen became very angry and as a result, it was reborn as a cat and the woman was reborn as a hen in the same house. The cat ate up the eggs of the hen. In their next existence, the hen became a leopard and the cat became a deer. The leopard ate up the deer as well as its offspring. Thus their feud continued for several existences. When it came to the time of the Buddha, one of them was born as a woman and the EFTA01163642 other as an ogress [yakkhiAE]. On one occasion, the woman was returning from the house of her parents to her own house near SAvatthE accompanied by her husband and young son. While they were resting by a roadside pond, her husband left her to bathe himself. During his absence, the woman was approached by the ogress in human guise. Despite, the ogress's transmutation, the woman still recognised her — EFTA01163643 and fled with her child straight to the monastery where the Buddha was expounding the Dhamma. She put her child at the Buddha's feet. The ogress, in hot pursuit of the woman, was unable to enter the monastery. Nonetheless, the Buddha summoned the ogress to his presence. He admonished both of them for their long and bitter feud, `If you two had not come to me today, your enmity would have continued endlessly. Enmity EFTA01163644 cannot be appeased by enmity; it can only be appeased futher by loving-kindness.' Reflecting on the admonition, both realised the futility of their hatred, admitted their mistakes and resolved to help each other mutually from that day on instead of continuing with their senseless feud. C.4 Ex. KAma JAtaka(J.467) There was once a king who had two sons. When the king passed away, the older prince did not want EFTA01163645 to take the throne. He renounced the throne to his younger brother and went to live as a regular citizen in the border country. The action of the older prince looked like renunciation, but in fact, the prince had not yet overcome his desires. A local millionaire knew that the ex-prince would not be very gifted at earning a living, so he helped by supporting him in every way. The millionnaire had his conditions. He told the ex-prince to EFTA01163646 tell his little brother not to collect taxes in their area, so that the millionnaire could use these funds to support the ex-prince instead. The ex-prince did as he was advised and the king exempted them from taxation. Everyone was happy, but the defilements in the mind of the prince gradually became more powerful. The neighbouring provinces got jealous and asked to be exempted from paying taxes in the same EFTA01163647 way. As the special incomes of the ex-prince increased, his greed became insatiable. He wanted to go back to being the king again. His younger brother would not agree at first, but later allowed him to return as king. The king had done many good deeds in the past and Indra the king of the gods wanted to teach him a lesson, to put him back on the correct path of life. Indra appeared to the king in human guise and told the king, "There are EFTA01163648 another three domains greater than the ones you have which you have not conquered."Before the king could ask, Indra disappeared. The king became dissatisfied with what he had. He wanted to invade border territories and conquered three neighbouring provinces. The king was so impassioned to acquire the three domains he had never seen that he became ill just thinking about them day and night. No doctor EFTA01163649 Blessing Thirty-Seven: Freedom from Subtle Defilements 419 could cure the king of his illness. At that time, the Bodhisattva had just finished his studies and volunteered to cure the king. He found out what the cause of the illness was and healed the king without medicine, but by using questions to make the king regain his mindfulness. The Bodhisattva knew the king had one kingdom but wanted govern another three — a total of four. He EFTA01163650 asked, "When your majesty sleeps does your majesty sleep in four beds?" "No, only one!" replied the king. "When your majesty eats does your majesty fill your stomach four times?" "No, to be full just one meal at atime is enough!" "Then why does your majesty want to rule four kingdoms when you already have a kingdom of your own?" The king was miraculously cured of his illness. 420 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps EFTA01163651 towards Enlightened Living Blessing Thirty-Eight: The Blissful Mind 421 A. THE DIFFICULTY OFFINDING BLISS IN LIFE A.1 The Darkness of Unknowing Besides being the last blessing of the series, the subject matter of this Blessing is the summum bonum of the whole of The Manual of Peace — like the sense of relief of a traveller who has reached his destination safely or like a mariner who has reached the EFTA01163652 far shore. It is a relief because all along our journey, we have been amidst dangers which have constantly threatened the chances of reaching our destination. Especially, for as long as the night is dark, in the absence of light, we have no idea how many dangers surround us. Because we don't know, we fear. Even a familiar place like our own bedroom can become a frightening place as soon as the lights go out. However, if we have a little EFTA01163653 light to throw on the situation — whether it be literal light like that of a torch or a spotlight, or more profoundly the inner brightness that arises as the result of meditation — the darkness of unknowing will be chased away. The dangers that lurk in the darkness will be vanquished at the same time. In a word, wherever there is darkness, there is also danger — wherever there is illumination there is safety. Our mind also has a darkness EFTA01163654 inside. It is darkness that has been with us for innumerable lifetimes — it is a darkness that blocks our ability to answer the eternal questions, such as: "Why were we were born", "where have we come from?" or "What is the meaning of life?" or "When we die where do we go?" Because we have no solutions to the fundemental questions that give meaning to life, the assumptions on which we base our life are no EFTA01163655 more than guesswork. Sometimes we guess correctly, sometimes not. Tragically, the errors we make only serve to worsen the darkness — and we continue to be haunted by the dangers that lurk there. It makes no difference how influentual you are in worldly ways. Even if you are the most powerful king, emperor or millionaire in the world, it doesn't help you to escape from the inner ignorance of the eternal questions of life, and EFTA01163656 so you cannot evade the fears that lurk in the darkness of life. A.2 Dangers lurking inthe darkness We can divide all the sorts of dangers we encounter in life into two main categories (note the similarity here with the categories of suffering mentioned in Blessing Thirty-three VB.1]): I. Built-in Dangers: Everyone without exception co-exists with dangers since the day they are born — dangers which no-one can EFTA01163657 avoid sooner or later meeting and even the fear of meeting them can cripple our efforts to cultivate good deeds in our lives these dangers corresponding to: • the danger of birth [jAti-bhaya]; • the danger of old-age [jarA-bhaya] • the danger of illness [byAdhi-bhaya]; • the danger of death [maraAa-bhaya]. Blessing Thirty-Eight: EFTA01163658 The Blissful Mind 422 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living 2. External Dangers: Apart from the built in dangers, we still have to endure the dangers around us in the world that we confront in our everyday lives. The dangers might come from: • people: e.g. fools, false friends, malevolent husbands, exploitative wives or bad neighbours; • natural disasters e.g. flooding, EFTA01163659 earthquakes, volcanos or forest fire; • evil retribution i.e. when the retribution of evil deeds we have done in our past eventually catches up with us. A.3 The Four Shackles The reason why we find ourselves surrounded on every side by suffering and why we cannot break free of these, being born only to die, life after life, is because we are shackled by bonds or shackles [yoga] (D.iii.230, A.ii.10) which imprison EFTA01163660 us in the three realms of existence. These bonds are not physical but act by limiting the access to the wisdom in our minds. These bonds are four in number: I. the shackle of sensual-indulgence [kAmayoga]: For as long as we are still partial to hearing beautiful music, tasting delicious food, wearing wellcut clothes, seeing beautiful images, touching soft things, having an attractive spouse or filling our EFTA01163661 house with possessions, this shackle will tightly bind us, ensuring that we never stray from the sensual sphere (check) in our future lives; 2. the shackle of attachment to the absorptions [bhavayoga]: This shackle may occur when we become attached to our mental attainments at the level of the form- and formless-absorptions. As soon as a person breaks free of the shackle of sensual indulgence, they will usually be EFTA01163662 ensnared by this one instead. If one dies while still caught in this shackle, instead of being able to go to Nirvana at death, one will be reborn in the Brahmaworld; 3. the shackle of views [diEEhiyoga]: This is being entrenched in one's own erroneous views - such as believing that one has no debt of gratitude to one's parents, believing in the non-reality of this world and the next or believing one can escape EFTA01163663 suffering by doing rites and rituals — such views only add to the darkness in the mind, obscuring reality — which is why we refer to them as the third shackle . . .; 4. the shackle of ignorance [avijjAyoga]: This is the imprisonment in one's own delusion — delusion that prevents one from realizing the Sadhamma (truth necessary for attaining enlightenment). One's ignorance is the result of a deficit on internal EFTA01163664 illumination not being able to see the path to self-liberation. Thus ignorance is counted as the fourth of the shackles. B. BLISS 'Bliss', the subject of this final blessing is the sense of relief and liberation in the mind which arises when one has, through the acquisition of wisdom (internal light) surrounded the influence of all dangers and fetters previously mentioned. B.1 Definitions The quality of mind described by EFTA01163665 the Pali word `khemaO' from which this Blessing takes its name, is translated as `blissful'. The meaning of this word goes deeper than simply happiness, however— with two characteristics which explain the arising of such bliss: 1. invulnerability to danger: for those who have attained complete enlightenment, all four forms of shackles mentioned above have been cracked open. The mind is thus free EFTA01163666 with no further limitation, encroachment or awkwardness. No further danger can interfere with the mind — through the virtue of having one's mind permanently immersed in the eternal bliss of Nirvana; 2. endowment with knowledge: a second way of understanding the bliss of the mind found in this blessing is that the mind has gained knowledge so far-reaching that no further form of delusion EFTA01163667 can obscure one's wisdom. This special wisdom coming to one as a result of enlightenment can be summarized in several different ways. B.2 Knowledge accessible to the blissful mind B.2.1 The Threefold Supraknowledge ItevijjA] (D.iii.220, A.v.211) The Threefold Supraknowledge is insightful wisdom acquired during the final stages of enlightenment and includes the following three sorts of knowledge: EFTA01163668 Blessing Thirty-Eight: The Blissful Mind 423 1. the ability to recollect one's own previous existences [pubbenivasanussatiriAAa]; 2. the ability to recollect the previous existences of others [cutEpapAtanAAa]; 3. the knowledge of an utter end to all defilements [AsavakkhayafiAAa] B.2.2 The Sixfold Mental Powers [abhiririA] (D.iii.281, A.iii.280) The sixfold mental powers are another way of describing EFTA01163669 the by-products of the wisdom of the enlightened: I. magical powers [iddhividhA]: the ability to perform certain miracles to do with changing the nature of objects such as floating in the air, transmuting the body, enlarging or shrinking oneself or making oneself invisible; 2. supranormal audition [dibbasota]: being able to hear sounds not audible to others EFTA01163670 3. reading the minds of others [cetopariyafiAAa]: knowing what others are thinking; 4. the ability to recollect one's own previous existences [pubbenivasanussatifiAAa]; 5. the ability to recollect the previous existences of others [cutEpapAtanAAa]; 6. the knowledge of an utter end to all defilements [AsavakkhayanAAa] For the sixfold mental powers, the first five are worldly [lokiya] accomplishments, the sixth alone EFTA01163671 being transcendental [lokuttara] this last being something that can only be achieved by one's own efforts and which is impossible to replicate or know from listening to others' experiences. Reaching this level in one's practice, one will know for oneself. B.2.3 The Fourfold Analytical Insights [paEisambhidA] (A.11.160) These are mental abilities concerned with the teaching of Dhamma to others. They are attained by those EFTA01163672 who have reached an end of defilements: I. analytic insight into consequences [atthapaEisambhidA]: the masterful wisdom allowing one to enlarge upon any subject of the Dhamma; 2. analytic insight into causes [dhammapaEisambhidA]: the masterful wisdom allowing one to summarize any subject of the Dhamma without losing the core meaning; 3. analytic insight into language [niruttipaEisambhidA]: EFTA01163673 masterful insight into language allowing one to know the meaning of all forms of human and animal communication; 4. analytic insight into wit [patibhAAapatisambhidA]: the gift of quick-wittedness in expounding the Dhamma allowing one to `think on one's feet' and answer questions `on the spot'; C. BORN TO PURSUE PERFECTION All these sets of supranormal knowledge are fruits which may accrue to a greater or EFTA01163674 lesser extent to those earnest in their Dhamma practice. It is for this reason that all of us should try to put all thirtyeight blessings into practice — if we practise truly, before long we will avail ourselves of true knowledge of the core of Buddhism and have a knowledge of the supranormal in the footsteps of the Buddha and all the arahants. If we practice more and more, we will start to understand for ourselves the EFTA01163675 answers to the eternal questions of life. We will begin to know for ourself our purpose in life and as we see how the Buddha practised virtues (which are none other than those outlined in this series of thirty-eight blessings) we will realize too that to practice in his footsteps is our real task in life. As humans we were not born to indulge in materialism, or even to find a place for ourselves in heaven. Like the EFTA01163676 Buddha, our aim in life should stop nowhere short of Nirvana. Our true aim in life is encapsulated in the eternal words of the Great Abbot of Wat Paknam: Born in search of the Triple Gem — but when you find them disperse them! Craving cheats us, falsity deludes us and ensnares our roiling, tortured mind — put an end to craving, escape falsity, remove yourself from sensuality, EFTA01163677 follow the threefold aggregates without let, complete the sixteen tasks: until invulnerable to hardship — you can call it Nirvana if you like . . ." 424 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living D. ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES D.1 Metaphor: Released prisoner Whenever a prisoner is released from confinement and can escape the reach of instruments of torture, the freedom he feels will bring him EFTA01163678 happiness that fills both his body and mind. In the same way, those who attain Nirvana who have escaped the touch of all defilements and fetters, will also have a mind suffused with bliss. D.2 Ex. MahA-Kappina Thera (J.iv.180, A.i.25, SN.A.11.440, Vsm.393) Once, during the time of the Buddha, a king called MahA-Kappina with his queen AnojA reigned in the frontier kingdom of KukkhuEavatE. Every morning, EFTA01163679 MahA-Kappina would send out messengers from the four gates of the city to seek news from passing traders as to the arising of an Enlightened One in the world. One day, after the Buddha had arisen in the world, a group of traders from SAvatthE were visiting KukkhuEavatE. They told King MahA-Kappina of the arising of the Buddha. Just hearing the word `Buddha' King MahA-Kappina swooned from rapture. The traders mentioned the word `Buddha' a EFTA01163680 total of three times — the king swooning each time he heard the word — and the same happened when the traders mentioned the arising of the Dhamma and the Salgha — he swooned a total of nine times. Without further ado, the king renounced the throne and after rewarding the the merchants handsomely, left the palace in search of the Buddha, accompanied by all his ministers. The group set off in the direction of SAvatthE, but in their way were EFTA01163681 three rivers which they must cross on horseback: the AravacchA, the NElavAhana and the CandabhAgA. Each time they reached the bank of one of the rivers, MahA-Kappina would make an act of truth saying "if the teacher for whom we are seeking is truly a fully-enlightened Buddha, let not even the hooves of our horses be wetted when crossing the river". Miraculously, the river became temporarily solid like land, allowing MahA- EFTA01163682 Kappina and his ministers to cross to the other side. In this manner they crossed the three rivers. In his meditation, the Buddha perceived MahA- Kappina's approach and travelled through the air to the banks of the CandabhAgA where he seated himself under a Banyan tree facing them and sent forth radiance as a signal to MahA-Kappina. When MahA- Kappina and retinue met up with the Buddha and had paid respect, the Buddha taught EFTA01163683 them the Dhamma and they eventually became arahants, joining the order of monks. AnojA and her courtiers renounced the world in a similar way and crossed he three rivers as their husbands had done to meet the Buddha. The Buddha made the womens' husbands invisible to them so that they would be no distraction as he preached the Dhamma — and the women too could become stream-enterers, entering the order under EFTA01163684 UppalavaAAa BhikkhuAE. MahA-Kappina Thera spent his days in the extasy of deep meditation and was so full of happiness that he constantly repeated the words `Oh! The Happiness. Oh! The Happiness' [aho sukhaO aho sukhaO] which made the other monks suspect that he was longing for the pleasures of kingship he had left behind, until the Buddha dispelled their doubts. C.3 Ex. SakamAna Sutta (S.i. 7) Once during the midday rest period, there was a large EFTA01163685 gathering of forest animals and the sound of all their cries was a fearful racket. One angel took a dislike to the horrendous sound finding it got on their nerves. However, hearing the same sound, the response of the Buddha was completely different. He declared, "Even when all the forest animals gather together at lunchtime and make such a noise, I am still happy because after my almsround and having eaten, it is my time of meditation." Understanding that EFTA01163686 which constitutes true happiness, even perceiving the same things as another person, one's better understanding of reality will always allow one to respond in the most positive manner appropriate. Blessing Thirty-Eight: The Blissful Mind 425 A Aadiya Sutta 192 abandon in hard times, friend who doesn't 43 ability, doing to fullest 115; myth of latent 177; vs. knowledge 113 abortion, prohibited by Buddhism EFTA01163687 166 absent-mindedness 229, 380, 413, 416 absolving sins 198 absorptions attainment, for monks 324; shackle of 422 abstain from evil, non-recklessness reminds us to 246 abstaining from unwholesomeness 225- 32, 228-30 abstinence, indispensable for Buddhists 234; Christian history of 233 abstract spiritual concepts, hard to learn 331 EFTA01163688 abused children 147-8 academic knowledge, doesn't keep one out of prison 37 accepting what you are 271 access, amenable location 72 accidental killing 123 accommodation, overcoming attachment to luxury 350-1 accomplishments, the four 85-6 accumulatable, character of merit 78 achievement in life 27 acknowledgment, rules entailing 127 acquired wealth, progress by 21 acquisition, of discretion 28; EFTA01163689 diligent 40; scrupulous 276; without discontent 276 acting profession, pitfalls 253 action, humility of 264; right 245; purified 247 active learning 254 acts, treating monks with kindly 191 addictive drugs, as intoxicant 235 adherence to superstitions 416, 413 admitting failings, helps learning 254 adoption, usually reluctant 144 adultery 106; absolutely not committing 200; as defilement of action 199; as gross unwholesomeness 228; committing EFTA01163690 128; not committing 121,122, 123-4 advice, following encourages others to give it 313; formative influence on discretion 333; patience is not ignoring 304 affairs, taking responsibility for 42 after giving, intention 190 afterlife destination, dictated by habitual state of mind 359; evidence for 359 afterlife realms, proof for existence of 359 age, recollecting to develop conscience 230 EFTA01163691 aggregates, conventional versus aggregates 381; dhamma- 386 aggression caused, mark of externalbased happiness 274; provoking 114; unwholesomeness at social level 228; vengeful 167 aggressive, thinking 114 aging, suffering of 373 agreeing to disagree, attitude in buddhist debate 385 aim in life 92; lack of clear 92; loss 103; prerequisites for highest 96; three levels 93; universal 92 aim in spiritual development 92 EFTA01163692 alcohol, as origin of disease 74; as unsuitable gift 188-9; benefits of not drinking 236; damage arising next lifetime from drinking 235, 236; dealing in 216; distraction to work 179; drinking 94, 107; found in roads to ruin 199; knowingly drinking 125; medical use permissible 235; not drinking 122, 124; not knowingly drinking 121; omitted from defilements of action 199; restraint from drinking 233-242; social damage from 233 alms, giving daily 87 EFTA01163693 almsgiving every morning 308 almsround, correct monastic income 128; monks pass on 66; sole monastic livelihood 191 alone, contented to be 271 altruism, rare 281; required for progress in society 142 amenable dhamma teachings 66-67; definitions 70-1; household level 71; local level 71; national level 71; neighbourhood level 71 amenable food 66, 67; household level 68-9; in the household 173; local level EFTA01163694 68; national level 68; neighbourhood level 68 amenable location 65, 66, 67, 96; components 68-72; creating 74; INDEXES I - GENERAL 426 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living household level 68; inner & outer 73- 4; living in 67-76; local level 68; national level 68; neighbourhood level 68; relative importance of factors 73 amenable neighbours 66, 67; EFTA01163695 definitions 69; household level 70; local level 69; national level 69; neighbourhood level 69-70 amenable resting place 173 amenable sleeping place 173 analysis, retrospective 180 analytical insights [pa.tisambhidaa], fourfold 423 anarchists, absence of 66, 69 angelic body 356, 378, 379 angels, respect towards 173 anger, accumulation of 167; banishing 400; gravely damaging but shortlived 412; not expressing in a dhamma discussion 335; EFTA01163696 overcoming 229, 417; patience in the face of 305 angered, by decent conversation 30; not easily 42-3 animal kingdom, suffering of birth in 373 animals, gift to 190; gratitude to 285 announcing parent's goodness, by our example 147 annoyance 380; defilement of the formless-brahma body 356 annoying one's aging parents, avoiding EFTA01163697 146 answering back 311; not 312, 313 answering questions, four ways 334 anxieties, reduced 83; unwholesomeness at personality level 228 any-bed users' practice 351 apologizing quickly 264 appearance worsened, unwholesomeness at personality level 228 appearance, improved personal 83 appearances, obsession with 106 appetite, overcoming slavery to one's 350 application, artfulness 113-8 EFTA01163698 application, initial 180 application, sustained 180 appreciating debt of gratitude, practical ways 145 appreciation of others' virtues, bowing helps 53 appreciation, of debt of gratitude 141 apprentice, rapport with trainer 253 apprenticeship 116 approach to work, appropriate 179 appropriate spending 41 appropriate, contentment with what is 272-3 EFTA01163699 EFTA01163700 0IO.1 A1plOM f 9 1 ∼ssautuocpzims J。 00.111OS !c9z 8UI111O0.10A0 :I7-E9乙JO 姹9乙 38_HI 隼X1013OS O1 3 8'ELM p 飞9乙jps O1 3 8℃11113p ！∼9乙 S.13琅O O1 3 8e p ! 8 p1OAU ! 乙301.1t 8178 mouue 0AT133Iawl sr Iow `mouur 9EE Jo ITe1 1.1104 11.111 .11S0.1 ' S0IL11.11 9E1 8 uistu 3 's1Uown .11 61z oaricbpom'uoI靶 gg paclsoi jo A.uom !161 O1 1JI8 !08: 1olutioN8'pa jo Apoci !18 7 '9g£ 1 8L Aplin Lusoop 1 ' /width model protects from 52 artful application, six components of 114; three categories 114 artful speech 131-8; basis of spiritual dialogue 331; defined 133; qualities of 134; those who don't appreciate 135 artfulness in application 113-8; cultivating 114-6; definition 113-4; instilling 115-6 artfulness in knowledge 102-11; definition 104 artfulness in usage 119-29; definition EFTA01163701 120-1; objectives of study 119-20 artificial morality 226 asking questions, helps learning 254 assassination 217 assistance, not giving those who lack gratitude 284 associating with good friends 40; to overcome sensuality 417 association 44-7; with fools, worthy role model reduces possibilities of 52; with the wise, cultivating 48 association, definition 31; principles of 45-6 assuming one is right 265 EFTA01163702 astrology, causing prevarication 179 attachment 404; to rites and rituals 380; in development of greed 275; letting go by centring 189; neither in whole nor in part 352-3 attainer made noble, the noble truths 372 attainment obstructed, unwholesomeness at lifestyle level 228 attainment, deterioration of previous 133; falling away from 133; merit leading to 84 attention, capturing listener's 136 attentive learning 107, 108 attitude; of respect 59; to EFTA01163703 possessions 276 attitudes, changing one's 374 attracting favourable circumstances 78 attraction, in development of greed 275 attractive gift 189 attractiveness, irrelevant to successful marriage 171 audience size, should not be motive for giving sermons 294 audience, not compromising by one's sermon 294 EFTA01163704 aunts as extended family 206 austerities, categories of 349; monk must practise 323; the practice of 347-56 austerity 349-352; self-mortification 349; blessings one to thirty as groundwork to 347; defined 349; ten virtues of a ruler 201; necessary virtues for practising 351-2; thirteen forms of intense 349-51; to remove defilements 347 author, physical skilfulness 114 average person, between extremes of good & evil 39 avoidance, defined 228 EFTA01163705 avoidance, levels of 128; planned 229; situational 228-9; transcendental 229 avoiding evil, the patience to 305 awareness 120; of responsibilities 248 awkwardness, unwholesomeness at personality level 228 Aztec civilization, cause of fall 254 B babble, purposeless 129 backslider's, outlook on the world 346, 354 backsliding, alien to buddhism 271; overcome by patience 303; EFTA01163706 overcoming excuses 354 bad company, associating with 107 bad deeds; in the guise of good 95; dilution of 228; not evened out by good deeds 228 bad friends, distraction to work 179 Blessing Thirty-Eight: The Blissful Mind 427 bad habits, defilements as residue of 348; dhamma talks remind us of our 331 bail, helping extended family who need 208 bank account, emotional 171 barbaric society 70 basic needs, four 207 EFTA01163707 battered children 147-8 battle, restraint from talk of 336 beasts of burden, letting retire instead of slaughtering 285; not working in midday sun 285 beauty, measure of a person's worth 261; misuse of 287 bedclothes, as a token of respect 58; as suitable gift 188 beds, as suitable gift 188; restraint from talk of 336 before giving, intention 190 beggars, always having something to EFTA01163708 give 208 behaving habitually in a good way 40 behaviour, habits dictate future 348; improved 83; wise one defined in terms of 39-40 being a refuge to a friend 45 being influenced by a fool 32 being open, helps learning 254 being without self, as universal characteristic 397-8 believing in what you do 114 belongs to doer, character of merit 78 benchmarks for personal potential 270 benefactors, available 66, 69; EFTA01163709 needed to establish new town 69 benefit of the doubt, giving dhamma teachings 335 benefit, brought by parents 148; for present lifetime 71; latent 283 recognizing in others 283 benefiting from things, requires knowing their usage 254 benefits, allocating 218; inability to recognize 284, in the present lifetime 40 betrays homeland, because of lack of wise ones 47 better quality, gift of 188 EFTA01163710 beyond control, as universal characteristic 398 bias, avoiding 202; endangers gratitude 287; lack of 200-201; refraining from 200 biased personality 167 birth, danger of 421; suffering of 373; suffering of being cleaned up after 373 birthday, abstaining from sex on 366 biting the hand that feeds 284 black arts, unsuitable for monks 325 blaming others 104 EFTA01163711 blessing eighteen, in the sequence of the blessings 213 blessing nine, relation to previous blessings 119 blessing seventeen, place in the sequence 205 blessing six in order of thinks 91, objectives 91 blessing, importance of first 27 blessings of life, as an ethical system 22; definition 21; extracurricular recompense 19; historical origins of 20; popular in Thailand 19 blessings, definition 21, sixth group of EFTA01163712 223 bliss, defined 422; difficulty in finding 421-2; summum bonum of all blessings 421 blissful mind 421-424 blocking monks' way 257; others' way 259 boastfulness, avoiding 115 boasting 129; of dhamma knowledge in front of a teacher 257; alien to dhamma discussion 335; not suitable for monk 323, 325; source of stubbornness 316 EFTA01163713 bodies of knowledge, die without respect 254 bodies, inner 378, 379 bodily organs, sacrificing 192 body & mind, constitutes human being 37 body of enlightenment 380; characteristics 378-81 body, independent of mind 247; sound 136 bonds 422 bonuses, paying 218 boredom; of marriage 174; of one's marriage partner 174 born, empty-handed 70; those EFTA01163714 competing to be 286; those invited to be 286 borrowing from others 91 boss, giving as a 188; spouse like a 169 bottom pinched 367 bowing 259, 264; connects us with others' virtues 53; effectiveness 53- 4; helps us appreciate others' virtues 53; parents worthy of 148; to a monk 257, 326; bowl-eater's practice 350 brahmacariya, brahma-faring 125; defined 357; EFTA01163715 discontentment with 133; in everyday life 363-6; practising 365- 6; practising the 357-70 breadth, knowledge in 108 breaking precepts, because of lack of wise ones 46; effort invested in 124; ingratitude of 124 bribery 217 bright side, looking on the 306-7 brightness; in mind 105; self-discipline leads to 120 broken families 168 brothels, frequenting 94; running 216 brothers, object of respect 258 EFTA01163716 brushing-off of discretion 28 brush-off, giving others is the source of stubbornness 315 Buddha images, anointing as sign of respect 256-7; respecting 256 Buddha, as object of respect 256-7; encountered vicissitudes 398; faith in existence of 93; gift to 191; inspires practitioners not to backslide 283; recollection of when bowing 54; three worthy qualities of 55; worthy of respect 54-5; more numerous than grains of sand in the ocean 388 Buddhism; founded on correct EFTA01163717 speech 131; heart of 246; perpetuated by discipline of monks 127 Buddhist duty to support religion 191- 2 budget, family 192 burned out, feeling 403 burning money, at chinese funerals 174 business, reinvesting in 192 businessman's view of profit in life 27 businessmen, amenable location for 67 butchery 216 C EFTA01163718 cabaret 114; eight precepts prohibits watching 126 calibrating discretion 27 callous answering, source of stubbornness 315-6 candles, as a token of respect 58; as 428 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living suitable gift 188 cane sugar, consumption allowed after midday 125 capital punishment, humanest 125 capital, working 192 career setback, because of family problems 139 careful, non-recklessness more than EFTA01163719 246 carefulness 247 casinos 217 caste system 263 catalyst, mindfulness as 248 catalysts, the four 85-6 catastrophe in student-teacher relationship 107 Catholic way of purification 197 causes, analytic insight into 423 caution when associating with fools 32 celebrities, as role models 51 celibacy 357, 367; idealized in Buddhism 165; practising 367; preferable to remarriage for widow 367; vs. marriage 165-6; EFTA01163720 centre of body 229, 230 centring mind, to let go of attachments 189 cessation of suffering, the noble truth of 376 chambers of a millionaire's heart, four 40 champions, restraint from talk of 336 changing continuously, nature of mind 234 chanting 81; beneficial even if meaning EFTA01163721 not known 297; books 57; daily 308, 323; every evening 87; persuading spouse to practice 173-4; together in family 73 character deterioration 228; developing 83; strengthening one's 197; weaknesses of 197 charisma, character of true monk 323 charnel-ground dweller's practice 351 chastity 357 chatted up, being 367 chatter; idle 129, 132, 200; not succumbing because non-drinker EFTA01163722 236; near pagoda 257 cherishing one's spouse, damage of not 167-8 cherishing; one's parents 141-51, 400; rationale 141 child and parent, reciprocal relationship between 147-8 child, development of respect in 255; parental duty to instil with virtue 73 child's debt of gratitude to parents 143- 5 childbirth, suffering of undergoing 373; EFTA01163723 unnatural 373 childhood, loss of self-sufficiency 207 childishness, avoiding 106 children sensitive to parental example 33; abused 147-8; care for parents with filial piety 142; have parents as role model 51; should listen to parents in dhamma conversation 338; violence in front of one's 167 China, vengeance across generations 264 choicest rice, given to monks on alms 188 EFTA01163724 chores, helping parents with daily chores 146 Christian charity vs. buddhist generosity 186 Christianity, rebirth in early 362 chronic false view, because of lack of wise ones 46 church, financed by state 191 circumstances, catalytic 86, 96 cities, restraint from talk of 336 civilization, depends on unifying vision 254 claims to spiritual attainments, punishable by disrobing 127 clarifying congregation's EFTA01163725 understanding, duty of monks 55 clean gift 189 clean slate at birth 77 cleansing the mind, function of merit 82 climate, not extreme 66, 68 close family 206 cloth, as suitable gift 188; result of giving 193; as a token of respect 58 clothes, overcoming choosiness about 349-50; restraint from talk of 336 clothing, as suitable gift 188; honouring parents with gift of 146; result of EFTA01163726 giving 193 clouded mind, unwholesomeness at mind level 227 clumsiness, unwholesomeness at personality level 228 Cobain, unworthy role model 51 collective merit 85 colonization, vulnerability to 263 combat, suffering of wounds in 373 comfort zone, dhamma doesn't allow us to protect 331 common sense about the world 27; giving way to emotions 348 communal, gift 186 companions, associating with evil 94 EFTA01163727 comparison of different groups 412 compassion 120, 148, 199; as true love 403; basis of wholesome speech 134; dhamma taught on the basis of 333; recollecting the Buddha's when bowing 54; teaching out of 294; worthy quality of the Buddha 55 compassionate intention, giving out of 193 compatibility, virtues of 170 competing to be born 286 competition, avoiding 274; reduced by contentment 270 EFTA01163728 complacency 263, 265 complaints, tolerating parent's 146 complete in themselves, everyone 165 complexion, radiant 84; result from giving 193 compliments, thanking others for 265 compromising yourself, when giving a sermon 294 conceit 416, 413; overcome by associating with good friends 417; overcome by avoiding flatterers 417; overcome by checking oneself for false views 417; overcome by EFTA01163729 humility 417; overcome by not comparing oneself to others 417 concentration, right 245; talk about 135; worthy subject of dhamma debate 336 concern for the object of respect 59 condemnation, unwholesomeness at lifestyle level 228 conditional: help for extended family 206; love, repaying debt of 286 conditioned versus non-conditioned phenomena 389 confession: as a way of purification 197; role in Buddhism 198; rules entailing EFTA01163730 127 confidence 41, 71, 92 confiding friend 43 conflict: giving without 193; in proportion to community size 305; patience in the face of 303 congratulation, leading to influence 85 conscience: awareness of builds patience 306; inaccuracy 37; protects Blessing Thirty-Eight: The Blissful Mind 429 human dignity 199 conscientiousness in responsibilities 172 consequences, analytic insight into EFTA01163731 423 consideration: loss of in development of greed 275; wise 247 consistency 45: of a relationship 171; to duty 209 constant friend 43 Constantine the great 362 contact with someone knowledgeable 107 contagious misapprehension, fools as bearers of 29 contagiousness of habits 28 contentment 269-80: to be alone EFTA01163732 271; to do nothing 271; with one's spouse 166, 199, 366, 417; with what you get 272; cultivating 276-7; defined 271; for monks 324; misunderstood 271; monks displaying lack of 325; talk about 135; types 271-3; with what is appropriate 272-3; with what you already have 271-2; worthy subject of dhamma debate 336 continued application of mind 356 contraception, not prohibited by buddhism 166 control, of distance in relationships 178; EFTA01163733 resentment of 177-8 conventional aggregates 381 conversing on the Dhamma 326; on worldly subjects, monks 325 Conze, Edward 390 cooling, self-discipline leads to 121 cooperation, maximized by contentment 270 core virtues 92 corruption 128, 197, 201, 217: at high level, because of lack of wise ones 47; because of lack of wise ones 46; in the name of gratitude 287 cosmetics, eight precepts prohibits EFTA01163734 wearing 126 cosmology, as Buddhist metaphysical teaching 386 cottage garden, available 66, 69 counsellor, character of good friend 336 courteousness, makes a family worthy of help 210 courting, distraction to work 179 cousins as extended family 206 covetousness 129: defilement of physical body 356 craftsmanship, artful use 119 craving 375 crawling animal, next-lifetime EFTA01163735 consequence of alcohol 236 creative thinking 114 creator god, redundant 359 criminals: absence of 66, 68; view of profit in life 27; criticism, accepting even rude 313; always a risk to give 312; fool reappearing because of inability to take 301; hearing out 313; inviting 313, 317; openness to 311-19; recollecting to develop conscience 230; seeing as revealing hidden treasure 316; special considerations when giving 134-5; unreliable measure of values 214-5 crossroads, human realm as 95 EFTA01163736 crudeness, unwholesomeness at personality level 228 cruelty 106: as mind malfunction 227; avoiding 303; origin of ill-health 84; preoccupation with 293; to animals 128; cultivation 114 cultured, character of good friend 336 custom: compliance with 120; indicator of ethical work 215; just 66, 71; refusal to comply with local 30 D daily reflections, to cultivate EFTA01163737 contentment 276 dancing, eight precepts prohibits 126 dangers: lurking in the darkness 421- 2; built-in 421; external 422; protection from potential 248 daughters as close family 206 Dawkins 142 dawn, Buddhist definition 125 daydreaming, next-lifetime consequence of alcohol 236 dead, attempting to kill something already 123 deaf ear, not turning 312 dealing in the roads to ruin, because of EFTA01163738 lack of wise ones 47 death: daily recollection of 265, 406, 408; danger of 421; imminence of 291; suffering of 373 debate, agreeing to disagree in Buddhist 385; live & let live attitude in buddhist 385 debt of gratitude: in unwholesome speech 132; repaying 286-7; should be repaid to the death 286; underestimating 143 debt problems, incurred by working stress 220 debts, paying off parents' 146; EFTA01163739 prevarication about paying 95 deceit 128 decency, favouring 42 decent talk, those angered by 30 decision making: affected by defilements 348; affected by unwholesomeness 227; improved 83 dedicating merit to deceased 145, 146, 147 dedication, in learning 109 deep thought obstructed, unwholesomeness at mind level 227 defeat, rules entailing 127 defecating out of sight of Buddha EFTA01163740 256 deference, lowering one's head in 264 defilement groups, different characteristics of 412 defilements 347-8: allowing to precipitate reveals hidden realms 359; classification of 412; conflict with profound truth 301; definitions 411; difficulty in removing 348-9; freedom from subtle 411; fruits of having reached an end of 393; gradual removal of 349; hard to see 348; heavy, medium and subtle 413; intense removal of 349; practice for eradication of 345; removing 348; removing by austerity 347; residue EFTA01163741 of bad habits 348; restrained by discipline 126; subtle 381; taken for granted 348-9; transcending 105; versus defilements of action 347; way to remove is elusive 349; why we can't afford to tolerate the subtle 416-7 defilements of action 106, 119, 128, 201: avoiding 199; compromised by working stress 219; expression 103; v.s defilements 347 degradation, as universal characteristic 397 delegating appropriate work 218 EFTA01163742 delinquent, persuading others to be 104 delusion 416, 413: defilement of angelic body 356; defilement of the formbrahma body 356; gravely damaging and long-lived 412 demonstrating, not suitable for monks 322 430 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living den of thieves, amenable location 72 denial, patience in the face of 305 dens of vice, absent 66 EFTA01163743 departed, budget for dedication to 192 dependency 91 depletable, character of merit 78 depression 135 depth, knowledge in 108 desecration of religious property 60 design, physical skilfulness 114 desire: bias because of 200; in learning 106; slightly damaging but long-lived 412 desiring things in a dishonest way 412, 413 despair, suffering of 374 EFTA01163744 destiny, four pathways of 95 destructive thinking 114 deterioration, as universal characteristic 397 detriment to society, bringing no 119 developing conscience 230 deviousness 414, 413: difficult to uproot 53; not succumbing because nondrinker 236; unsuitable for monks 325 devotion, of parents in raising children 144 Dhamma books: reading 81; EFTA01163745 treating carefully 257 Dhamma debate 334: governing principles 336-7; participants 336; self-preparation for 334-6; subject 336; timing 336 Dhamma discussion: aim to bring forth wisdom 335; family 337-8; in everyday life 337-8; in the time of the Buddha 337; in traditional buddhist society 337; practicalities of organizing 334-7; should limit scope 337; to be conducted in just way 337 EFTA01163746 Dhamma lectures: listening attentively 257; never missing 257 Dhamma listeners, marks of a good 294-5 Dhamma practice 197-203: in everyday life 201-2; in the sequence of the blessings 198; overcoming obstacles 202 Dhamma sermons, giving 81; listening to 81; not wriggling during 332; purpose 291 Dhamma talk: giving a 333-4; reminds EFTA01163747 us of our bad habits 331 Dhamma teachers, marks of a good 293-4 Dhamma teachings: amenable 66, 67, 70-1; giving the benefit of the doubt 335; listening regularly to 291-9; mocking 57; most important of amenable factors 73; overview 245; undervaluing 60; worthy of respect 57 Dhamma: appropriate occasions to listen to 292-3; as abstract concept 331; as object of respect 257; defined 333; hard to open up mind to 331; lifespan curtailed by inappropriate EFTA01163748 discussion 332; must be discussed beneficially 332; not detracting from value of 332; outcomes of listening to the 296-7; practising rather than talking 338; progressively deeper 205; regular discussion of the 331-43; six characteristics of 333; to be discussed for the dhamma 337 Dhammakaaya: must be attained to be invulnerable 395; allows one to understand the reality of life and the world 345; eye of 378; not maintaining causes backsliding 386 EFTA01163749 Dialogue: defined 333; spiritual 331-43 die in one's place, friend who would 43 different, self-discipline leads to something 120 diligent acquisition 40 dilution: of bad deeds 228; of bad karma 197 direct answer 334 directed anger 415, 413 disability at birth 64 disappointment: proportional to elation 398; suffering of 374; unwholesomeness at lifestyle level EFTA01163750 228 disasters: absence of 66, 68; helping extended family who suffer natural 208 discipline 119: for discipline's sake 127t; householders' 121-2; monastic 122; variety 121; vs. self-discipline 121 discontentment: danger of 275 -; objects of 275; patience in the face of 305; social consequences of 274-6; with brahmafaring 133 discouragement, in students 103 discovered by a noble, the noble truths EFTA01163751 372 discrete covetousness 414, 413 discretion: catalytic 86; comes from transactions with real people 27; concerning life path 27; dictates as person's future 51; differentiates people 51; doesn't come unpackaged 27; effect of a `hero' on 51-2; formation 27-8; formative influences on 27, 333; importance 27; importance of properly calibrating 27; inaccuracy 37; process of acquiring 28; the brushing off of 28; wise one defined in terms of 39 EFTA01163752 discussing dhamma 331-43: beneficially 332; so as not to detract from value of 332; making ourselves worthy of 321 disease: absence of infectious 66, 68; invulnerable to 84 disgust, not allowing to perturb mind 307 disharmony, from arrogance 263; unwholesomeness at social level 228 dislike 415, 413 disloyalty to homeland, because of lack EFTA01163753 of wise ones 46 disposition, built up across lifetimes 291 disrobing: because of insulting 133; of monks 127; distance, psychological 31 distant past 79 distilled in mind, character of merit 78 distortion of teachings, unsuitable for monks 325 distraction, because of insulting 133 districts, restraint from talk of 336 distrust, enemy of marriage 171 divided answer 334 EFTA01163754 divine abidings 148 divisive speech 129; avoiding 40 divorce 167: becoming more common 174; stone-walling predicts 170 doctors, accessible 66, 69 doing few good deeds but expecting miraculous outcomes 244 doing good deeds: the patience to 305; you never did before 353-4 doing no evil you never did before 353 doing nothing but expecting results 244 domestic violence 167 donations, embezzlement of EFTA01163755 religious donations 60; should not be motive for giving sermons 294 doubt 229, 230, 380, 406, 416, 413: Buddhist metaphysics only designed Blessing Thirty-Eight: The Blissful Mind 431 to alleviate 387; eradicated by faith 291; hearing sermons when succumbing to 292 downpayment, generosity as 186 drawing the line 248 dressing, appropriately 114, 265; provocatively 278 drink, restraint from talk of 336 drinking: companion 31; defined EFTA01163756 235; quitting 236-7 drinks, as suitable gift 188 drug: abuse 104; addiction 103; as unsuitable gift 189; smuggling, spoils reputation of all Thais 207; taking 94; drunkenness: acceptable to judeochristians 233; even without alcohol 235 during giving, intention 190 Dutiya Jana sutta 194 duty, consistency to 209 dying, empty-handed 70 E EFTA01163757 ear, speech pleasant to 136 earnest in practising dhamma teachings, lacking 57 earning a living, easy 66, 68 eating: after midday, not 122; distraction to work 179; to excess, not suitable for monk 323 economic: by-products, negligible 213; equation, Buddhist 213; equivalence 213; fairness 104, 107; hardship, for family 168; non-events 213; outlook, western 213 economics: Buddhist 213-4; fair 119 EFTA01163758 education: as object of respect 257; giving 41; sex 168; system 66, 68; worldly insufficient 19 educational objects, worthy of respect 57 effort: four types of 353-4; in unwholesome speech 132; invested in breaking a precept 124; not being earnest 179; required, mark of external-based happiness 274; right 245; willingness to expend 271 egotism, versus loving oneself truly 405 Egyptian civilization, cause of fall 254 EFTA01163759 EFTA01163760 1oodsoJ !gg乙1 odsoJjo 1 'slow 86￡ iuoi-rnuioddi sip o1 p uowodaid fLOE pupil qmpad 18iumoo 1 :uoimp 9ZI 1dooaid q1Via LS乙 jo 乳uiJ puodun 1 ow um笄ppo f99£ 8 :1 6E 'LL￡ tilvd PI蚀VI8!q 90-17 0AOI 3AISS0SSOd s1ooKin !6t 7 AptiosuuoJd 3111O0.13AO O1!Lz mamma111O0 3筚Amno o: ！乙zj aulldiosip-jps igeqqt g 'SA fgzI si.dooo.id anij 'SA fgzI s1uotioditioo C-17z 'zzI sldaoaid 1 pio for 400 electioneering, unsuitable for monks 325 electricity supply 66, 68 embezzlement of religious donations 60 emergency, budget for funds in case of 192 emotional bank account 171, 206, 216: for extended family 208-9 emotional trauma, risk of sexual relations 166 emotions: dictating actions instead of EFTA01163761 common sense 348; not allowing to monopolize mind 247; picking up on negative 404 employees: duties 218-9; avoiding those without gratitude 284; tend not to share knowledge 253 employer, duties 218; worthy of respect 56 empty promises 31 emulable, character of good friend 336 encouragement: shortage of 207; to husband & in-laws 173; encroaching on monks 257; on EFTA01163762 others 259 end of the world, unfathomable by thought 386 endangering others, not suitable for monk 323 endearing speech 171 endearing things, eventually cause sorrow 404 endearingness 40: character of good friend 336; of parents 148; ends, knowledge applied for unwholesome 29 enemies minimized, benefit of not drinking 236 enemy, spouse like a 168 enlightenment, body of 378, 379 EFTA01163763 enmity, not appeased by further enmity 418 enterprises: wrong livelihood 215; wrong livelihood in private 215-7 entertainment: as unsuitable gift 189; distraction to work 179; not indulging in 122, 126 enthusiasm, in learning 109 environment: affects peoples' virtue 65; influences ethical learning 22 environmental: considerations in metaphysics 65; exploitation 104 equanimity 148: moderates gratitude EFTA01163764 287 erotic pictures, as unsuitable gift 189 establishing congregation in wholesomeness, duty of monks 55 eternal questions 423; blocked by ignorance 421 ethical learning, principles of 21 ethics: disregarded 274-5; working 214- 5 every man to themselves, in society 142 evil behaviour, prohibiting yourself from every sort of 32 evil intention, source of stubbornness EFTA01163765 315 evil: avoiding 94, 245; making a clean break from past 32; mindfulness of abstaining from 258; protecting oneself from past 198; relapse into 225 evolving things, must some day decay 399 exaggerating 128 example: of our nearest & dearest, influences discretion 28; parents being an 145 exclusivity: of gift 186; spiritual 20, 24 excuses 31: being full of is source EFTA01163766 of stubbornness 315 exemplifying virtue, duty of good teacher 255 exhaustive, quality of blessings of life system 20, 23 expecting: fortunate outcomes but behaving wickedly 244; miraculous outcomes, but doing few good deeds 244; results without the work 244 expenditure, skilful 276 experience: mark of personal potential 270; measure of a person's worth 262; EFTA01163767 speaking from 294 explanation, duty of good teacher 255 exposure to hateful things, suffering of 374 expressing respect: defined 52-3; purpose 52-4; to those worthy of respect 51-64; v.s respect 255; with body, speech and mind 58 432 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living extended family: appropriate times to help 208; budget for generosity to 192; helping is major investment 205; EFTA01163768 helping may err on favouritism 205; helping may err on nepotism 205; helping not so urgent 205; how to find 206; importance of helping 206-8; looking after 205-11; practicality of looking after 208-10; regarding everyone as one's 207 external appearances: don't betray a fool 30; recognizing fools by 30 external-based happiness 273-4 eye of the DhammakAya 378 eye, speech pleasant to 136 eyes closed, preaching with 295 eyesight, result from giving 193 F facilitating further teaching 312 EFTA01163769 failure in life 77-8 failure, unwholesomeness at lifestyle level 228 fair economics, in buddhist economics 214 faith 41, 71, 92: as virtue of compatibility 170; Dhamma sermons arouse 291; eradicates doubt 291; giving out of 193; in speaker, lack of 135; instilled by discipline of monks 127; in Triple Gem, encouraging parents towards 147; ordained in EFTA01163770 spite of lacking 325; turtle-head 41 false friend: fools as 31; in positions of influence 47 false view 129, 296: defilement of physical body 356; early signs of 103; entrenched 59; humility ensures freedom from 264; overcome by wisdom 417; source of stubbornness 316; worsened in workplace 219 false view of individuality 416, 413 false witness 201 familiarity, endangers gratitude 287 families: broken 168; internal politics 205; single parent 174; worthy of EFTA01163771 help 210 family: budget 192; catalytic 96; centres around television 337; Dhamma discussion 337-8; economic hardship 168; even bodhisattva succumbed to 408; hardship, unwholesomeness at social level 228; harmony in 139; looking after one's extended 205-11; measure of a person's worth 261; problems 167; recollecting to develop conscience 230; tradition, giving out EFTA01163772 of 187 famous families' children, hard to get independent reputation 261 fantasies, sexual 168 farming, physical skilfulness 114 fashionable values 19 father, defined 144 fault finding 254: abstaining from 312 fault, finding 48, 104, 116, 253 faults: more easily detected by outsiders 311; not letting obscure favours received from others 286 faulty analysis of situations, unwholesomeness at mind level 227 favour, never reclaiming one owed EFTA01163773 EFTA01163774 q靶Op8U!WO0 JO fL-9018UIU.U0T ' U!!L8IJO1flO8U!AT8 I6乙取I粤 cq p91p0IppJ9 !oo乙jo osnooq s1iq :Jt饵 ￡8乙8uI人edDJ'TSZIU！靶I1IuI ！￡8 乙 e ouop S11J OqM 0UO JO ssoupoo8 8UUflOU01I!L8I 貔dat o18UJA18 !L8I atm粤arnooJd O18UTAT8 !,8z:sio琅O 8u职a8J饵 ！￡8z8uj1℃iooJddi :sjnoA粤 coz WSJ1JJflOA粤 o￡ JodoJdrni 0琅 !z:17 馀1souoq 0琅！￡17 SS0U!JJ0pJO 笤oUqdioSip-Jps :8uunoAlJ L8z 373; of the consequences of doing evil 199, 230 feeling a liking for fools 32 feeling slighted, suffering of 374 feet: pointing one's 58; thinking on one's 334 fellow congregation members as extended family 206 female animal to male animal, unsuitable gift 189 female prisoners, prohibited to men 123 feng shui 65 fetters 229-30, 356, 381, 406: EFTA01163775 defilements concluded as 416 field of merit, parents as a child's first 148 fifth group of blessings 183 fifth precept 124 fighting: not suitable for monk 322; when insulted, not 307 filial piety 141: but doesn't listen to parents' advice 284; children take care of parents with 142; fundamental of virtues 142; helps meditation progress 142 financial: independence 104; support withheld 60 finding fault, avoiding 48 EFTA01163776 fire, should never underestimate a small 295 first absorption, prince Siddhartha's attainment of 358 first blessing, importance of 27 first precept 123 fishermen, amenable location for 67 fishing 128 five precepts 120, 121-2, 245: components 122-4; protects from the unfortunate realms 360; reduces antisocial behaviours 405; vs. eight precepts 125 five virtues [paticadhamma] 120: cultivating 199-200; indicator of ethical work 215 EFTA01163777 flattery 31: avoiding 265 flesh, dealing in 216 flexibility of mind, function of merit to bring 82 flowers: as a token of respect 58; as suitable gift 188; restraint from talk of 336 fluctuations of mind, daily 38-9 followers, measure of a person's worth 262 food supply, good all year round 66, 68 food: amenable 66, 67, 68-9; as suitable gift 188; for the body 178; for the EFTA01163778 mind 178; greed for 275; restraint from talk of 336; result of giving 193; self-sufficient 66, 69 fools 29: avoiding the influence of 31-2; bearers of contagious misapprehension 29; behaviour towards others 31; caution when associating with 32; deeper meaning of not associating with 295; feebleness of 29; identified by words & actions 30; in the outside world 33; inside 33; knowing your potential when associating with 32; EFTA01163779 knowledge dangerous to 105-6; misunderstand profit in life 42; not associating with 27-35; not worthy of respect 57; protecting ourselves from 29; putting in quarantine 31; reappearing because of lack of patience 301; recognizing 29-31; unrecognizable by external appearances 30; varieties of 33; vs. wise man 37-9; worthy role model distances one from 52 forest-dweller's practice 350-1 Blessing Thirty-Eight: The Blissful Mind 433 forfeiture & confession, rules EFTA01163780 entailing 127 forgery 217 forgetting favours received 284 forgetting good deeds, respect as way to avoid 53 forgiveness 41-2, 80, 186: result of 193 form realms, attachment to the 380 form sphere 356, 360: happiness of 363 form-absorption 356 formation of discretion 27-8 form-brahma body 356, 378, 379 formless realms, attachment to the 380 EFTA01163781 formless sphere 356, 360: happiness of 363 formless-brahma body 356, 378, 379 formless-plane of mind 358: Prince Siddhartha's attainment of 358 formless-pleasure, craving for 375-6 form-plane of mind 358: Prince Siddhartha's attainment of 358 form-pleasure, craving for 375 fortune-tellers, cause prevarication 179 fortune-telling: pseudo-science of statistics 128; unsuitable for monks 128, 323, 325 four bases of sympathy, as Buddhist EFTA01163782 teaching for practice 386 four chambers of a millionaire's heart 40 four foundations of success 180: as buddhist teaching for practice 386 four virtues of the householder 192 fourth group of blessings 139 fourth precept 124 fraud 197 free, mark of inner-based happiness 274 frequenting games & shows 31 frequently meeting up with a wise one 44 friend: being someone others feel EFTA01163783 privileged to call a 197; constant 43; giving as a 188; helpful 43; of wise counsel 43; protective 43; spouse like a 169; sympathetic 43; who gives more than is asked 43; who is a refuge 43 friends as extended family 206; budget for generosity to 192; formative influence on discretion 333; measure of a person's worth 262 friendship, destruction by alcohol 235; result of encouraging others to make EFTA01163784 merit 84; wise one's 43-4 fruits of having practised until reaching an end of defilements 393 fuel, as suitable gift 188 fulfilment, result from giving 193; mark of inner-based happiness 274 fun of the Dhamma, not making 257 function in society, knowing one's 270 funds, shortage of 207 funeral, helping extended family who have a 208; real purpose 406 future, brightness depends on discretion 51 EFTA01163785 G gains, not teaching out of motivation for 294 gambling 31, 94, 107: distraction to work 179; monks encouraging 325 games: frequenting 31; unsuitable for monks 325 Ganges, sacrificial bathing in 198 gang-fighting 103, 265 garden, cottage 66, 69 gardening, physical skilfulness 114 garlands, restraint from talk of 336 gene, selfish 142 generosity 40, 41, 45, 79, 80,185-196, EFTA01163786 199, 365: abstract 186; basic virtue 185-6; benefit of not drinking 236; categories 186; concrete 186; cultivating 187-90; defined 186; degree of 192; encouraging parents towards 147; in ten virtues of a ruler 201; leading to wealth 85; mark of personal potential 270; on a daily basis 248; overcomes greed 349; perfection of 190; persuading spouse to practice 173; reasons for 186-7; respect for 186; to cultivate contentment 276-7; vs. christian charity 186 genetically identical twins 77 gentle: speech 265; teaching 333 EFTA01163787 gentleness, in ten virtues of a ruler 201 gesture of respect 58 gestures, exaggerated 257 getting around to doing work 179 getting closer to fools 31 ghost-stories, restraint from talk of 336 gift of wellbeing, catalytic 86 gift: appropriate 188; benefit to recipient 80; communal 186; dedication of merit from 189; exclusivity of 186; nature of 188-9; personal 186; pure 190; quality of 186; quality of 188; to a saint 190 gifts: homage through 54; wives should EFTA01163788 be given 172 ginger, consumption allowed after midday 125 giver, pure 190 giving: a discourse on the dhamma 81; for giving's sake 187; more than is asked, friend that 43; resources 171, 208, things to fools 33; to those who give to us 173; appropriate amount 191; importance of 185-6; nothing to those who give us nothing 173; results of 192; giving up frivolous behaviour, to overcome sensuality 417 globalization, blessings of life cope EFTA01163789 with 20 Gnostics 362 GNP, misleading as economic indicator 276 god, blaming 375 gold & silver, not handling 122 good & evil: ability to discriminate 25; average person between the extremes of 39 good actions, non-recklessness reminds us to do 246 good conduct, makes a family worthy EFTA01163790 of help 210 good deeds: assisting others to 80; continuing even when insulted 307; having done in one's past 77-89; mindfulness of doing 258; performing continuously 32 good fortune, congratulating others on their 44 good friends: associating with 40; characteristics of 336 good health, from not torturing animals 84 good qualities, identifying in others 254 EFTA01163791 good, self-discipline leads to 120 goodness: comes as part of the exemplifier 25; doesn't come unpackaged 25 goodwill of critics, appreciating 313 goody-goody, reluctance to be 177 go-slows 219 gossip: as worldly vicissitude 396; avoiding 200; behind back 31; malicious 129; not succumbing because non-drinker 236; not suitable for monk 323; restraint from 434 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living talk of 336 Gottman, John 170 EFTA01163792 government, just 66, 69 grace: character of true monk 323; physical 83 gradual removal of defilements 349 graduates, uselessness of fresh 113 grandparents as extended family 206 grasping: defilement of the formbrahma body 356; for existence 230; for the form realms 414, 413; for the formless realms 414, 413; for the sensual realms 414, 413 gratitude 40, 281-9: abused as corruption 287; appreciating our debt EFTA01163793 of 142; benchmark for judging strangers 142; benefit of not drinking 236; bolsters respect 282-3; debt of 141; debt of in unwholesome speech 132; defined 283; degrees of 283-4; developing in everyday life 286-7; development in children 286-7; expressing facilitates receiving criticism 313; for favours received 281; important factor in cherishing parents 141; in the cultivation of virtue 282-3; instilling from early age 284, 286-7; makes family worthy of help 210; necessity of 142; not EFTA01163794 employing those who lack 284; not helping those who lack 284; objects of 284-6; pitfalls 287; setting example to one's children 142; vs. respect 284- 5 Great abbot of Wat Paknam 388, 423 Great Seth 362 greed: defilement of angelic body 356; defilements of 412; overcome by being generous 349; overcome by contentment 417; overcoming 229; removing from the mind 80; slightly damaging but long-lived 412; EFTA01163795 symptomology of 275 grim-reaper 408 gross unwholesomeness 228-9 group eight, introduction to 301 group of blessings, first 25 groupings of blessings, relationship 22 grudge, bearing a 374 guarding required, mark of externalbased happiness 274 guiding a friend in the direction of heaven 44 gullibility 92: makes it too easy to accept criticism 314; next-lifetime consequence of alcohol 236 gun-running 217 EFTA01163796 H habits: contagious 28, 38; dictate future behaviour 348; prevarication about improving bad 95 habitual evil-doers, identifying 25 habitual state of mind, may dictate afterlife destination 359 habituation to unwholesomeness, nature of mind 234 hair-dye, eight precepts prohibits wearing 126 hallucinations, next-lifetime consequence of alcohol 236 handicapped child, risk of sexual relations 166 hands, holding in a gesture of EFTA01163797 respect 259 handsomeness, misuse of 287 hands-on knowledge 105 handwriting, messy 115 hanging out on the street 103 hankering after impossibilities, avoiding 270 happiness 356: as worldly vicissitude 396; benefit of not drinking 236; brought to monastic community by discipline 126; dependent on external factors 273-4; expressing facilitates receiving criticism 313; function of merit to bring 82; inner 274; of EFTA01163798 monk, spiritually derived 323; result from giving 193; self-sufficiency in 274; transcendental versus spiritual 371; two types 273-4; vs. poverty 273-4 happy monk, exemplifies virtue 301 happy society, result of merit 85 harbouring bias, because of lack of wise ones 46 hard times: friend who doesn't abandon one in 43; helping extended family who are in 208; not abandoning a friend in 45 hard to pacify, nature of mind 234 hardship: patience in the face of EFTA01163799 305; unwholesomeness at social level 228 harmonious society, result of merit 85 harmony: in family life 139; lacking in earning livelihood 168; speaking to engender 400 harsh speech 129: avoiding 40 hatred: bias because of 200; defilement of angelic body 356; defilement of the form-brahma body 356; defilements of 415; gravely damaging but shortlived EFTA01163800 412; in learning 106 having done good deeds in one's past 77-89, 96 having heard much, basis of spiritual dialogue 331 health: destruction by alcohol 235; drunkenness concerning good 235; of body & mind 73; result from giving 193; safeguarding 114; too precious for recklessness 244; undermined, risk of sexual relations 166; ungrateful to body to destroy 285-6 hearing teachings 108 heart of Buddhism 246 EFTA01163801 heaven: as afterlife destination, helping parents towards 146-7; as buddhist metaphysical teaching 386; attained by receiving monk at home 326; generosity first step to 185; giving to reborn in 187; guiding a friend in the direction of 43; misunderstood in modern literature 389; seven virtues of the king of 400 heavenly birth, not true aim in life 423 hell: as Buddhist metaphysical teaching 386; falling into because of insulting 133; mindfulness of EFTA01163802 suffering in 258; misunderstood in modern literature 389; nonrecklessness reminds us about 246; recollecting to develop conscience 230; suffering of birth in 373; themselves, those who can't be bothered 38 help: accepting only when really necessary 286; conditional for extended family 206; one-off 206; spiritual 209-10; unconditional for close family 206 helpful friend 43 helpfulness 171: dhamma taught on the basis of 333 EFTA01163803 helping & acting for their welfare 45 helping hand, lending a 209 helping: ourselves before helping others 205; society as a monk 368; wise ones in times of need 44 helplessness 403 Hemingway, unworthy role model 51 Hendrix, unworthy role model 51 hereafter, profit in life for 41 hereditary sin 142 hero, effect on one's discretion 51-2 Blessing Thirty-Eight: The Blissful Mind 435 EFTA01163804 hesitation before giving 194 hiding faults, source of stubbornness 316 hindrances 229, 398: freedom from, for monks 324; overcome by meditation 229 Hindu: conduct 120, 121; purification 198; reincarnation 362; concept of self 390 holistic, quality of blessings of life system 20, 23 Holy Sites of buddhism, respecting 256 EFTA01163805 holy-life 357 homage: risking one's life to pay 61; through gifts 54; through practice 54 home location: choosing 72-3; improving amenability 73 home visit, by a monk 326 homosexuality, no genetic explanation 142 honesty: of population 66, 69; favouring 42 honour: as worldly vicissitude 396; attained by receiving monk at home 326; destruction by alcohol 235; EFTA01163806 merit doesn't imply 78 honouring parents, while alive 146 Horner, I.B. 390 hospitality: as filling in gaps 258; as object of respect 258; budget for 192; material 258; spiritual 258; to monks 257; training one's subordinates in 258 house interior, well planned 66, 68 household leader, responsible 66, 70 household: proper care of 172; violence 167; wife given responsibility for 172 EFTA01163807 householder, four virtues of 192 house-to-house seeker's practice 350 housing, honouring parents with gift of 146 how alcohol affects the mind 234-5 human being, constitutes body and mind 37; made of two parts 347 human body 378, 379 human dignity: in Buddhist economics 214; responsibility for 103-4 human environment, influence ethical learning 22 human life, preciousness of 95 EFTA01163808 human realm, as crossroads 95 human relations, objective of expressing respect to train oneself in 255 human rights, difficulties of 37 human status, recollecting to develop conscience 230 human strengths, the four 29 humane culture, objective of expressing respect to perpetuate 255 humble person, characteristics 264-5 humility 80, 186, 261-8, 264-5: humility, allows to accept criticism EFTA01163809 312- 3; basis of spiritual dialogue 331; characteristics 264; defined 264; leading to high social standing 85; makes family worthy of help 210; vs. respect 262-3 Humphreys, Christmas 390 hunger: of spirit 93; of the mind 19 hungry-ghosts, suffering of birth in 373 hurt, of love 404 husband: as close family 206; cherishing one's 165-176; contentment with 271; duties to wife 171-2 EFTA01163810 hypocrisy, lying as mental 124 Hyppolitus 362 I ideals, underestimated 104 idle chatter 40, 129 ignorance 230, 380, 413, 416: bias because of 200; darkness of 421; dealing with stubbornness from 317; defilements of 415; gravely damaging and long-lived 412; in learning 106; shackle of 422; source of stubbornness 314; unwholesomeness at personality level 228; uprooting 81 EFTA01163811 ignoring: another's respect 256; good advice, not patience 304 ill, helping extended family who are 208 ill-chosen words, inappropriate from an old person 209 illegality, indicator of non-ethical work 215 illness: danger of 421; grave because of insulting 133; loss of self-sufficiency 207; recovered from slower with age EFTA01163812 408; self-induced 119 ill-temper, not succumbing because non-drinker 236 ill-will 229: provoking 114 immaterial problems, material solutions to 348 immodesty, not indulging in 122, 126 impatience, unwholesomeness at personality level 228 impermanence 397 impoliteness when making an offering 64 importance of discretion 27 improper, favouring the 30 improvement 116 EFTA01163813 impurity, as mind malfunction 227 inanimate, objects gratitude to 285 incense: as suitable gift 188; lighting 244 incest 123, 124: gravest consequence of desire 412 incompatible working hours, distraction to work 179 inconsiderate, disadvantages of being 253 independence: of body and mind 247; lost at certain times of life 206-7 India's colonization by Britain 263 EFTA01163814 indolent sleeping habits, avoiding 126 Indonesian constitution 122 inefficient study 103 inferiority complex 416 inflexibility of mind, unwholesomeness at mind level 227 influence of fools: avoiding 31-2; worthy role model protects from 52 influence: attained by receiving monk at home 326; on formation of discretion 27 ingratitude: blindness to virtue 141; degrees of 284; expressed by EFTA01163815 breaking a precept 124 initial application of mind 356 initial body of enlightenment 356 injustice: patience in the face of 307-8; unwholesomeness at social level 228 in-laws, proper care of 172, 173 inner bodies 378, 379 inner bodies of experience 358 inner environment, amenable 73 inner experience versus sphere of mental experience 356 insecticide, selling 216 insight 378, 379 inspiration: to perform virtue, running EFTA01163816 out of 167; mark of personal potential 270 inspiring pictures 114 instability of mind, unwholesomeness at mind level 227 instilled behaviour, from a fool 32 instilling oneself with basic virtues 251 instruction, thorough 107 insult: less difficult to tolerate than 436 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living praise 306; not succumbing because non-drinker 236; to face vs. behind back 132 EFTA01163817 insulting: speech 129; those of virtue, retribution of 133 integrity, in ten virtues of a ruler 201 intellectual resources, artful use 119 intelligence: destruction by alcohol 235; no gene for 77; result from giving 193 intensive removal of defilements 349 intention: strength, in breaking precept 124-5; to give 187-8; behind words 133-4; important starting point for abstention 228; pure 190; right 245; EFTA01163818 strength of, in unwholesome speech 132 interaction without transaction 33 interest, lacking genuine 253 interfering in others' affairs 30 internal: environment, protecting 74; support, for dying parents 146 interpersonal level, purification at a 197 intoxicants 235: not consuming 122; not knowingly consuming 121; restraint from drinking 233-242 invited to be born 286 invulnerability: to worldly vicissitudes EFTA01163819 395-401; requires attainment of dhammakaaya 395; requires attainment of four noble truths 395; requires attainment of nirvana 395; useful to study even before enlightenment 395; to danger, quality of bliss 422 IQ, stunted progress in spite of high 67 Irenaeus 362 irritability 230, 413, 415: controlling 303 Islamic law 120, 121 J JAtaka stories, told to children by oldfolks EFTA01163820 337 jaundice, damage from alcohol 233 jealousy, reducing 85, 271; source of stubbornness 316 jewellery: eight precepts prohibits wearing 126; wearing expensive 278 job satisfaction 276: in Buddhist economics 214 joining in: with fools 32, 33; with wise ones 44 Jones, unworthy role model 51 Joplin, unworthy role model 51 joy 356: maintaining the mind full of EFTA01163821 304 just society, result of merit 85 justice 66, 69 K Kamanita 322 karma, dilution of bad 197; faith in law of 93; not superficially evident 77; transfer between lives 391; retribution, defunct 197 keenness in work 177, 179-80 keeping eight precepts 366: to overcome sensuality 417 keeping five precepts 41, 79, 81, 365 Ki.mdada sutta 193 EFTA01163822 Kierkegaard 121 killing 106, 128: people 128; punishable by disrobing 127; absolutely not 200; as defilement of action 199; as gross unwholesomeness 228; avoiding brings long life 84; not 121, 122, 123 kind words 45 kings: object of respect 258; should never underestimate a young 295; restraint from talk of 336 knowing: how to say something 114; what to say 114; where you stand 270-1 EFTA01163823 knowledge: accessible to the blissful mind 422-3; accurate 22; applied for own and others' benefit 116; applied for unwholesome ends 29; artfulness in 102-11; body of 253; dangerous to fool 105-6; definition of artfulness in 104; different aspects 108; function of merit to bring 83; gift of 186; inaccurate 22; instilling in the mind 103; management 253; measure of a person's worth 262; memorizing EFTA01163824 109; nature of 104-6; of an end to all defilements 423; of past and future, benefit of not drinking 236; quality of bliss 422; recollecting to develop conscience 230; result of giving 193; sharing between employees 253; spiritual vs. worldly; strength of 29; supra-normal eightfold 324; three levels 104; training, too precious for recklessness 244; transforming into skills 114-5; vs. ability 113; vs. wisdom 37; Kohlberg, Lawrence 281 KumArakassapa Thera's mother 175 EFTA01163825 L laity, reciprocal relation with monks 191 lamentation, suffering of 374 land-measuring, corrupt 217 language, analytic insight into 423 last word, wanting is source of stubbornness 315 latent benefit 283 late-serving refuser's practice 350 law and order, breakdown of 263 law of karma, as buddhist metaphysical teaching 386 law: compliance with 119; just 66, 71 laxity, concerning monastic conduct EFTA01163826 325 lay-jobs, monks volunteering for 325 laypeople, way to overcome stubbornness 316-7 laziness 92, 94, 107, 271: as ingratitude 177; avoiding 115; distraction to work 179; not tolerated by buddhism 177; overcoming 351 leading to roads of ruin 31 leaning on others 91 learn Dhamma, lack of interest to 60 learned: becoming 108-9; vs. wise 105- EFTA01163827 6 learnedness104: 93, 102-11 learning: atmosphere of 66, 71; attentively 107; enthusiasm 103; material & spiritual complementary 109; never tiring of 103; process 107- 9; respectfully 107 leave for employees 218 legacy, being worthy of 145, 146 lethargy, cured by sport 180 letting go, of a gift 189 levels of mind versus realms of existence 357-362 liberation: principles of 362-3; requires sense-restraint 353; talk about 135; EFTA01163828 worthy subject of dhamma debate 336 lies: avoiding 40; not telling 45, 121, 122; not succumbing because nondrinker 236; telling 132 life: adjusting to cheerfully 272; aims and priorities 92; curtailed 373; experience 77; extension, result of giving 193; laying down one's 192; making a mess of one's 27; setting oneself up properly in 91-8 lifespan, drunkenness concerning long 235 EFTA01163829 Blessing Thirty-Eight: The Blissful Mind 437 lifestyle: merit function at level of 83- 5; success at the level of 78 light, result of giving 193 limitation, principle of 121 limits of knowledge, admitting one's 335 line, knowing where to draw 120 liquor, unsuitable gift 54 listeners, marks of a good dhamma 294- 5 listening attentively 108, 313; patiently, character of good friend 336; to dhamma sermons 81; to EFTA01163830 inappropriate things 307; to spiritual teachings, encouraging parents towards 147; to the dhamma, appropriate occasions 292; to the dhamma, basis of spiritual dialogue 331; to the dhamma, objectives 291; to the dhamma, outcomes 296-7; to others opinions 136 listening regularly to dhamma teachings 291-9; defined 292 litter, helping pick up 365-6 live & let live, attitude in buddhist debate 385 livelihood: almsround as sole monastic 191; avoiding wrong 215-8; lack of harmony in earning 168; pure for a EFTA01163831 monk 324; purity of 127-8; right 245; selecting 201; unwholesome 104 liver disease, damage from alcohol 233 livestock, rearing for slaughter 216 living: in an amenable location 67-76; in someone else's house 91; together vs. marriage 166 local law, compliance with 120 location: accessible from other countries 66, 68; amenable 66, 67, 68; catalytic 96; Dhamma amenability 67; EFTA01163832 factors for amenable 67; general amenability 67; making it amenable 74 long term plan, resolution as 189 longevity 84 long-life:from avoiding killing 84; result from giving 193; too precious for recklessness 244 long-sighted knowledge 108 looking after one's extended family, defined 206 looking: at inappropriate things 307; down on others 230; down on yourself 295; down on yourself, not 271; EFTA01163833 down, on one's wife 171; down, on sermon content 294-5; for good in people, helps learning 254 losing sleep, avoiding 272 loss of: honour, as worldly vicissitude 396; wealth, as worldly vicissitude 396 lottery 94: form of gambling 128; tickets, wrong for monks to sell 128; tips, not suitable for monk 323; love: hurts 404; possessive 403; possessive vs. true 405; true 403 loved ones, separation from 374 EFTA01163834 loving kindness 40, 148, 365: can appease enmity 418; Dhamma taught on the basis of 333; overcomes sensuality 417; overcomes temper 349; perfection of 190; undermined by selling alcohol 216 loving yourself truly 405 low: mind radiance 227; places 57; potential of mind 227; quality mind 227; -down people 284 loyalty: in repaying debts of gratitude 286; to one's boss 218; towards wise ones 44 lucky charm 20, 21 EFTA01163835 lust 413, 414 luxuries, avoiding fighting over 271 lying, absolutely not 200; to yourself three times, to lie to others once 124 M Ma"ngala sutta 21, 150 madness: because of insulting 133; next-lifetime consequence of alcohol 236 mafia, absence of 66, 68 magical powers 423 maintaining: Dhammakaya, prevents backsliding 386; good habits you already possess 354; state of mind EFTA01163836 247 making way for a monk 326-7 making yourself known to a wise one 44 male animal to female animal, unsuitable gift 189 malfunction, of mind 227 malicious gossip 129: as worldly vicissitude 396 management, knowledge 253 manifesting true respect, objective of expressing respect 255 manners: in meeting with a monk 326; consistency in 264; physical EFTA01163837 skilfulness 114 manpower, shortage of 207 market gardeners' agreement 123 market, proximity 66, 68, 72 marriage 170: boredom with 174; breakdown, analyzing 174; cannot be sustained by physical attraction 364; challenge of 171; happiest day is first 364; legal registration of 170; maintaining relationship 171-4; misunderstood 168; not advocated by buddha 165; not compulsory in western culture 165; of no interest to those at brahma level 358; opting EFTA01163838 for celibacy after children left home 165; partner, boredom with 174; pinning one's hopes on 405; principles of happy 173; requires responsibility 166; tolerated by buddhism 166; vs. celibacy 165-6; vs. living together 166; western attitudes to 165 masquerading as a monk 368 mass media, values portrayed by 166 mastery, function of merit to bring 83 matchmaking services: as unsuitable gift 189; unsuitable for monks 325 EFTA01163839 material: aim in life exclusively 93, 94; motivation to accept criticism 314; needs, supply monastic community with 191; objects, gift of 80, 186; pauper 274; possession, sacrificing 192; profit in life, defined 40-1; prosperity vs. amenable location 67- 8; solutions to immaterial problems 348 material/spiritual aim in life 94 materialism, not true aim in life 423 mattress, laziness induced by soft 126 maturity, spiritual 281 meal, communal within family 73 mealtime, communal 66, 71 EFTA01163840 meaning in life eroded, risk of sexual relations 166 meat-eating, acceptable for beasts who have died of old age 285 mechanics, physical skilfulness 114 media irresponsibility, discourages lay generosity 191 medical: ethics 253; profession, pitfalls 253; professions, wrong livelihood in 217; use of alcohol 235 medicine, honouring parents with gift EFTA01163841 of 146 meditating 245: before dhamma 438 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living discussion 335; every evening 87; regularly to develop patience 307; to facilitate benefit from criticism 317 meditation centre, debt of gratitude to 285 meditation object, mindfulness of 258; non-recklessness reminds us to recollect 246 meditation progress, helped by filial piety 142 EFTA01163842 meditation retreat, sometimes requires solitude 250 meditation 79, 81, 93, 199, 377: antidote to wandering mind 229; as object of respect 257-8; cultivating in earnest 257-8; daily 92, 277; encouraging parents towards 147; every evening 308; fear of 405; foundation of patience 307; helped by reflection on death 406; important for monks 368; maintaining one's mind in 295; most important link of eightfold path EFTA01163843 257; necessary for enlightenment 257; necessary for relinquishing senseattachment 363; necessary to practising austerity 351; on a daily basis 248; overcomes defilements 303; overcomes hindrances 229; overcoming defilements 105; progress by disinterest in results 269; regular 116, 202, 405; risking one's life for 250; striving in 353; upgrades mind quality 38 medium unwholesome 229 meeting of the order, rules entailing EFTA01163844 an initial & subsequent 127 meeting up with fools 31 memorizing knowledge 108 mental: deficiency from alcohol 233, 236: powers, sixfold 423; suffering, patience in the face of 305; work in Buddhism 214; skilfulness 114 mercenary 31 merit 78-9: accruing 79-82; caution in studying 86-7; characteristics 78-9; collective 85; confusion about english term 78; dedicating merit to deceased EFTA01163845 145, 146, 147; deserves gratitude 285; effects publicly visible 78; functions 82-5; gratitude to 285; implies being deserved 78; knowing how to accrue 87; knowing the importance of 87; motivation to accrue 87; mundane vs. transcendental 79; outcomes of 84- 5; overcoming shyness to accrue 87- 8; persuading others to share 84; prevarication 91; quality of 79; rejoicing in 81, 186; speed of taking effect 85-6; ten major ways to accrue 80-2 ; three major ways to accrue 79; EFTA01163846 transfer of 80-1, 186; visible to advanced meditators 78 mess, making one's life a 27 metaphysical: answers, only implied by Buddha 387; teachings, Buddhist 386 metaphysics of buddhism, designed only to alleviate doubts 387 midday sun, not letting beasts of burden work under 285 Middle Way 376 military, wrong livelihood in 217 millionaires in Buddhist times 195 millionaire's heart, four chambers of 40, 94 EFTA01163847 mind: blissful 421-424; cleansing 82; day-to-day fluctuations 38-9; differences from one person to the next 38; effect of quality differences 38; effect of quality on wisdom 38; food for 178; giving to improve quality of 187; habitually pure, wise one 42; hard to open to the dhamma 331; humility of 265; hunger of 19; independent of body 247; instilling knowledge in 103; levels of 357-8; maintaining state of 247; malfunction 227; merit function at level of 82-3; nature of 347; not allowing to succumb to emotions 247; EFTA01163848 not allowing to wander 247; purified by generosity 185-6; qualities of mind without defilements 393; quality improved, character of merit 78; quality of 38; quality, upgraded by meditation 38; raising quality 82; sound 136; speech pleasant to 136; success at the level of 77; unwholesomeness at 227; wandering, as medium unwholesomeness 229 mindfulness 199, 247-8: as nonrecklessness 258; benefit of not drinking 236; benefits 247; EFTA01163849 cultivating 406; for monks 324; functions 247-8; metaphors for 248; properties 247; right 245; worthy role model facilitates 52 minding your own business 304 ministering to congregation in kindness, duty of monks 55 ministers, restraint from talk of 336 minor faults, blinding one as to virtues 48 mirror, inner, for personal potential 270 miscarriage, risk of sexual relations 166 misconduct, sexual 172 EFTA01163850 misery, reducing one's 374 misfortunes: not laughing at others' 44; unwholesomeness at lifestyle level 228 mistaken killing 123 mistreating: children 147-8; friends, because of lack of wise ones 46 mistresses 278 misunderstanding of marriage 168 misuse of rank or position, because of lack of wise ones 46 mockery: doesn't dissuade to do good deeds 304; of Dhamma teachings 57 moderation: contentment as EFTA01163851 knowing 274; helping only those who know 279; in eating, to cultivate contentment 276; not in all things 376 modest dress, necessary for Dhamma discussion 335 monarch, object of respect 258 monarchs, righteous 66, 70: worthy of respect 56 monastic code of conduct: following 324; restraint according to 127 monastic community: discipline brings EFTA01163852 peace 126; offering a meal to 88, 191; supplying with material needs 191; worthy of respect 55-6 monastic discipline 367-8f: components 127-8f; objectives 126-7 monastic life: protects from sorrow 406; training in contentment 277 money: as a token of respect 58; worshipping 104, 107, 276 monks: budget for support to 192; giving out of sympathy for 187; happiness, spiritually derived 323; needs, attending 257; not worthy of respect, characteristics 325; pass on EFTA01163853 almsround 66; receiving at one's home 326; receiving full benefit from 325; recognizing teaching 321-2; reciprocal relation with laity 191; should meditate 368; should never underestimate a young 295; striving for nirvana, worthy of respect 55; treating badly 326; treating with respect at one's home 326; way to Blessing Thirty-Eight: The Blissful Mind 439 overcome stubbornness 316 monkeys, three 304 Monroe, unworthy role model 51 moodiness, leading to bad complexion EFTA01163854 84-5 moon, unworthy role model 51 moral: approaches to unwholesomeness 226-7; support for fools 32 morale, obstacle to Dhamma practice 202 morality: artificial 226; deterioration 60; natural 226; possessions appropriate to one's level of 273; theistic 226 Morrison, unworthy role model 51 mortal blunders, because of insulting 133 EFTA01163855 mother, spouse like a 169 mothers, working 172 motivation, initial 180 mouth, one is ample 131 mudslinging 129: reducing 271; source of stubbornness 316 mugging 128 multi-factorial, quality of blessings of life system 20, 23-4 multi-level, quality of blessings of life system 20, 23 mundane merit 79 murder, with no witnesses 120 music, eight precepts prohibits EFTA01163856 playing 126 mutual danger, only helping in the case of 31 myrobalan, consumption allowed after midday 125 N naked eye, can see only two realms of existence 358 namedropping 265 national wellbeing, undermined by wrong livelihood 215 nationality, contentment with 271 natural: disasters, danger of 422; EFTA01163857 morality 226 nature vs. nurture dichotomy 65, 77 near death experience 359 need vs. want, discerning 128, 192 needs, budget for immediate 192; giving away things surplus to 192; the four basic 207 neighbours, amenable 66, 67, 69-70 nepotism 197, 201, 205 new town, establishing requires benefactor 69 next life, profit for 71-2 nightlife 94 Nirvana, accessible to all 391; as a realm of existence 387-8; as a state of mind 387; as final destruction EFTA01163858 388; characteristics 389-91; defined 387; generosity as path to 185; location of 388; misunderstood in modern literature 389; modern understanding pioneered by Phramonkolthepmuni 388; must be attained to be invulnerable 395; practicality of attaining 391; terminologies concerning 387-9; the attainment of 385-392 no remaining refuge for congregation 60 noble eightfold path 245 noble in themselves, the noble EFTA01163859 truths 372 noble silence 334 noble thought obstructed, unwholesomeness at mind level 227 noble truths: becoming unified with 386; defined 371-2; invisible to those who have not attained dhammakaaya 381; method of seeing 378; must be attained to be invulnerable 395; overlooked for aeons 372; seeing the four 371-84 noise, lack of disturbing 66, 68 non-anger, in ten virtues of a ruler 201 EFTA01163860 non-association, practising in everyday life 32-3 non-discriminatory, quality of blessings of life system 20, 23 non-gratitude to parents, theories 142- 3 non-greed 40 non-hatred 40 non-recklessness 245-7: as object of respect 258; benefit of not drinking 236; defined 245; importance of in dhamma overview 245-6; more than being careful 246 non-recklessness in the dhamma EFTA01163861 243- 250: components 246-7; cultivating 248; defined 246 non-returner 356, 381: body of enlightenment of 380; worthy of respect 55 non-violence, in ten virtues of a ruler 201 norm, self-discipline as 121 normal state, patience as maintaining 303 normal, role models dictate what we consider 51 no-self 390 not associating with fools 27-35 EFTA01163862 not-self 390 nuns, ordaining as 367; prohibited to men 123 nursing, physical skilfulness 114 nurture influences of environment 65 nutgall, consumption allowed after midday 125 0 obedience, to teacher 107 objects of respect: secular 258-9; spiritual 256-8 objects, not worthy of respect 57-8 objects, worthy of respect 56 obsequiousness, bowing out of 53 observation, fosters skilfulness 115 EFTA01163863 obsession with appearances 106 obstacles 398: overcoming 92 obstinacy, reflecting on the harm of 316 occasion, chosen to mention something 134 occupational training, too precious for recklessness 244 offering to a monk 326 off-limits, monks going to places that are 325 old age, spirituality in 94 old folks, tell children jaataka stories EFTA01163864 337 old maid, no dishonour 367 old man, with young wife 170 old people, tend to talk a lot 146 old-age: danger of 421; looking after parents in 146; loss of self-sufficiency 207 older generation, role in dhamma discussion 337 once-returner 356, 380, 381: worthy of respect 55 one-meal eater's practice 350 one-off help 206 one-pointedness 229, 356 EFTA01163865 one-upmanship, alien to dhamma discussion 335 open covetousness 413, 414 open house to monks, keeping 191 open-air dweller's practice 351 openness to criticism, as interactive 440 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living virtue 301; basis of spiritual dialogue 332; characteristics 312-4; fifth stage of patience 311; ulterior motives for 314; defined 312 opposites highlighted, quality of blessings of life system 20, 24 ordain, persuading a person to 209 EFTA01163866 ordained, despite lack of faith 325 ordaining: for one's parents 147; with an aim in mind 324 orderliness, favouring 43 ordinand, low-quality 59 ordination: benefits of temporary 277; helping extended family who have an 208; taking 367 origin of suffering, the noble truth of 375-6 origin of unwholesomeness 227 orphans, helping extended family who EFTA01163867 are 208 outcomes of generosity, speed of 192-3 outlaws, absence of 66, 68 outsiders, help us recognize our faults 311 OvAdapAEimokkha 245 overcoming previous evil habits 353 overestimating oneself 263: source of stubbornness 315 overlength dhamma discussion to be avoided 336 P Paccekabuddha: gift to 191; gives latent EFTA01163868 benefit 283 pagoda: building a 62; honouring with flowers 62; respecting 256; worthy of respect 56-7 pain, suffering of 374 painting, physical skilfulness 114 panic, restraint from talk of 336 paranoia, next-lifetime consequence of alcohol 236 parent and child, reciprocal relationship between 147-8 parental: advice 284; responsibility to be an example 33; time, worth more EFTA01163869 to children than money 73 parental role 103 parents 143: announcing goodness of 141, 147; as close family 206; beating children out of anger 51; cherishing 141-51, 400; contentment with 271; expectations of 145-6; helping irresponsible 148; how to treat aging 146; -in-law as close family 206; inspire schoolchildren to study 283; most accessible example of virtue 141; object of respect 258; rationale for cherishing 141; repaying deceased 147; role model for young EFTA01163870 children 51; should dominate dhamma conversation 338; telling lies 51; theories of non-gratitude to 142-3; to the whole world 147; with filial piety, cared for by children 142; worthy of respect 56 partial perception, non attachment to 352 partiality, because of lack of wise ones 47 passive learning 254 past 79: good deeds, recollecting to develop conscience 230; having done EFTA01163871 good deeds in one's 77-89; recent vs. distant 79 path to the cessation of suffering, the noble truth of 376-8 patience 303-10: as interactive virtue 301; at the fifth level, openness to criticism as 311; basis of spiritual dialogue 332; bolstered by respect 282; characteristics 303-4; fool reappearing because of lack of 301; foundation of wisdom 303; founded on meditation 307; in ten virtues of a ruler 201; in the face of hardship 305; in the face of mental suffering EFTA01163872 305; in the face of physical suffering 305; in the face of temptation 306; levels of 305-6; training oneself in 306-7; misunderstandings 304-5; necessary to practising austerity 351; strengthened 83 patricide cults 143 patron, needed to establish new town 69 patronizing: another's respect 256; being 138; speech 265 patrons, available 66, 69 paupers, two types 274 paying respect to EFTA01163873 paying respect, method 58-60; to those worthy of respect, consequences of not 59-60 peace: brought to monastic community by discipline 126; envoy, characteristics of a 135-6 peaceful: action 322; society 85; speech 323 peacefulness mark of inner-based happiness 274 peer-pressure 51, 53 people: danger of 422; rare sorts of 281; varieties of 39 EFTA01163874 peoples' worth measure of 261-2 perfection, pursuing 423 perfectionism, causing procrastination 177 perfume: eight precepts prohibits wearing 126; restraint from talk of 336 permanent property, result of giving 193 persistence 366 person keeping: the precepts, gift to 190; no precepts, gift to 190 personal: gift 186; purification at a 197; potential 270; service, to teacher 107 EFTA01163875 personality: biased 167; developing 83; merit function at level of 83; success at the level of 78; unwholesomeness of 228 persons worthy of respect 54-6 persuading others: to do evil 30; to share merit 84 pessimistic world view 167 photographs of respected people 57 photography, physical skilfulness 114 Phramonkolthepmuni, greatest modern understanding of Nirvana 388 physical attraction 364; care 144; EFTA01163876 disappointment 374; health of population 213-4; strength 29; suffering, patience in the face of 305; work in Buddhism 214; skilfulness 114 physical body 356: deserves gratitude 285-6 pick-pocketing 215 picture of yourself, as unsuitable gift 189 piety, filial 141 pillar of society 183 pitfalls, in a body of knowledge 253 place in society, knowing one's 270 EFTA01163877 planes of mind 358: subdivisions within 358; vs. spheres of existence 359-60 planned avoidance 229 plumbing, physical skilfulness 114 poisons: as unsuitable gift 189; dealing in 216 polite manners, suitable for monk 323 polite speech 400: necessary for dhamma discussion 335 Blessing Thirty-Eight: The Blissful Mind 441 politesse: basis of wholesome speech 134; facilitates receiving criticism EFTA01163878 313 politics: internal of problem families 205; not suitable for monk to speak of 323 poor taste, unwholesomeness at personality level 228 population, honest 66, 69 position, measure of a person's worth 262 positive: aspects, looking for 52; development, sign of 21; light, seeing the world in 80 possessions: administering 276; appropriating your 31; greed for EFTA01163879 275 possessive love, sorrow as withdrawal of 403 posthumous nirvana 388 post-prandial sleaze 92 potency, possessions appropriate to one's 273 potential of mind, function of merit to increase 82-3 potential, knowing your own when associating with fools 32 poverty: absence of as economic indicator 276; spiritual 68; two types 274; vs. happiness 273-4 EFTA01163880 power: four storehouses of 29; greed for 275 practical: knowledge about ordination 367-8; quality of blessings of life system 20, 24 practice for purity 198-200: vs. pure practice 201 practice, getting down to 44-5; homage through 54 practising Dhamma 198 praise: as worldly vicissitude 396; attracting 84; before criticism 134-5; for one's wife 171; for students 107; EFTA01163881 merit doesn't imply 78; more difficult to tolerate than insult 306; unreliable measure of values 214-5; to face 31; preacher's ability, looking down on 295 preaching 81: with eyes closed 295 preceptor, object of respect 258 precepts 71, 93, 121-2, 245: avoidance having requested the 128; breaking 167; compromised by working stress 219; equivalent to defilements of action 199; indicator of ethical work 215; jeopardized by drinking EFTA01163882 alcohol 234; keeping 41, 79, 81, 87, 114, 122- 6, 308, 335, 351; make the mind cheerful 321; most practical method of avoiding evil 229; must be properly kept to attain dhammakaya 391; persuading spouse to keep 173; pure, benefit of not drinking 236; seriousness of breaking 124-5; underpinning virtue for a human 199 preciousness of life, ignored by butchers 216 EFTA01163883 pregnancy: care during 143-4; loss of self-sufficiency 207; risk of sexual relations 166 premarital sex 128 present life, benefit in 40, 71, 94 Presley, unworthy role model 51 pretentiousness 262: avoiding 270, 274 prevarication 115, 179: about improving bad habits 95; about setting oneself up in life 95; strategies for non- 179-80; warning about 94 pride: cultivating 271; humility ensures freedom from 264 EFTA01163884 printing, physical skilfulness 114 priorities: in repaying debts of gratitude 286; lack of clear 92; setting 92 priority families to help 210 prison, not exempted from the learned 37 problems, bringing into the family of external 173 process of acquiring discretion 28 procrastination 177-81 profession, choice of 113 professionals, increasingly opt for celibacy 165 EFTA01163885 profit for next life 41, 71-2 profit in life 27: material 40-1; misunderstood by fools 42; spiritual 41-2; wise one defined in terms of 40- 2 profit, degree of anticipated 187 profound matters, good friend able to treat 336 progress in life 21: hankering after 271; obstructed by unwholesomeness at social level 228 progressive society, result of merit 85 progressive, quality of blessings of EFTA01163886 life system 20, 22-3 Prohibition, The American 233 promiscuity 275: avoiding 166; encouraged by mass media 166; overcome by keeping eight precepts 349; prohibited by buddhism 166 promises: to make a gift, breaking 187; empty 31 promotion, hankering after 271 proper care of household 172 proportional to: effort, character of merit 78; intention strength, character of merit 78 prostitutes 217: because of lack of wise EFTA01163887 ones 47; immoral sexual partner 124; protecting: a friend 45; parents, while alive 146 protection: from fools 29; from potential 248; from past evil 198; parental 148 protective friend 43 protest, when learning discipline 121 provisions to take with one, generosity as 185 provocation: alien to dhamma discussion 335; turning a blind eye EFTA01163888 to 307 provocative dressing 278 provoking others, not suitable for monks 322 pseudo-openness to criticism 314 pseudo-patience 304 psychological distance 31 public sector, wrong livelihood in 217 public speaking, buddhist principles of 136 publicizing one's own goodness, objective of expressing respect 255 pundit 37 pure practice 200-201: vs. practice for EFTA01163889 purity 201 pure: mark of inner-based happiness 274; monks duty to be 191; wise one's mind habitually 42 purification: Buddhist 197; Catholic 197; Hindu 198; of actions 247; of non-Buddhist religions 197-8; of the mind by generosity 185-6; on a interpersonal level 197; on a personal level 197; on a social level 197 purify the mind, the patience to 305 purifying: oneself 189, 228 purity 40 purity: behaving in accordance with 200; of livelihood 127-8; EFTA01163890 recollecting the Buddha's when bowing 54; worthy quality of the Buddha 55 purpose: creating in everyday life 92; in life 65 putting others down 264 442 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living putting up with things 303-4 Q qualities of people, opens our eyes to 254-5 quality of mind 38: effect on wisdom 38; inefficiencies 39; wise one defined EFTA01163891 in terms of 42 quality of work, in Buddhist economics 214 quality, of gift 186 quarantine for fools 28, 31 quarter moon-days, time to hear sermons 292 questions: five reasons for 334; five sorts of 334; returning 334 quickness in work 179-80 quick-wittedness: mark of personal potential 270; result from giving 193 R radiance of mind: function of merit EFTA01163892 to bring 82; patience as maintaining 305 radiant, mark of inner-based happiness 274 rag-robe wearer's practice 349-50 raising children, devotion of parents in 144 raising quality of mind, function of merit 82 rank, measure of a person's worth 262 rape 128 rapport, between apprentice and trainer 253 EFTA01163893 raving 129 readiness to give 193 reading: Dhamma books 81; the minds of others 423 realms of existence 360: vs. levels of mind 357-362 reasons: having the patience to give 208-9; must be given for dhamma taught 293-4 reawakening to value of Dhamma, easier for Dhamma listeners 296-7 rebirth 362: escaped through generosity 185; in early Christianity 362; misinformation about 362; vs. EFTA01163894 reincarnation 362 receiving things from fools 33 recent past 79 recipient: for gifts 190-1; pure 190 reciprocal relationship, between husband & wife 172-3 recklessness 243-4 recognition of Dhamma message, more quickly attained by Dhamma listeners 296 recollecting: death, to overcome sensuality 417; one's previous lives 423; others' previous lives 423; meditation object 246; teachings 58; refined: gifts 189; work 114; working EFTA01163895 116 reflecting: on knowledge memorized 108; on the Dhamma 44; on the requisites 128 reflection, wise 295 refreshment, offering to a monk 326 refuge: to oneself, benefit of not drinking 236; friend who is a 43; helping extended family who lack 208 refusal: gentle 209; to comply with regulations 30 regret: later, recollecting to develop conscience 230; not harbouring 189; risk of sexual relations 166 regulations refusal to comply with EFTA01163896 30 reincarnation vs. rebirth 362 reinforcing others' goodness, objective of expressing respect 255 reinventing the wheel 253 reinvestment in business 192 rejoicing in merit 81, 186 relapse into evil 225 relationships: control of distance in 178; in the workplace 218-20; rushing into 404 relatives, restraint from talk of 336 relinquishing, as a relay 363 reluctance: preaching to rid the EFTA01163897 mind of 81; sign of disrespect 312; to be disciplined 121 remarriage, inadvisable for widow 367 remembering: duty of a student 107; what one has to say 136 reminder, mindfulness as timely 248 removing shoes 256, 257 renunciation, not for everyone 165 repaying debt of gratitude: to others 281, 286; to our parents 145-7 repaying parents, spiritually 146-7 repayment, of debt of gratitude 141 reputation: damage, risk of sexual relations 166; defending one's EFTA01163898 boss's 218; famous families' children hard pushed to get independent 261; giving to improve one's 187 requisites, offering to a monk 326; reflection on 128 resentment: by employees 219; of control 177-8 resolution: example of 189; making a 189 resource management for generosity 192 resourcefulness, from limitation 121 resources, giving 171 respect 52, 253-60: basis of spiritual dialogue 331; bolstered by gratitude EFTA01163899 282-3; bolsters patience 282; commanded by parents 148; cultivating to facilitate benefit from criticism 316-7; developing in a child 255; expressing 52-3, 58,114; for elders 400; for generosity 186; giving out of 193; looking at a monk in 326, 327; mental 58; method of paying 58- 60; no expectation of material return 52; no ulterior motive 52; not irrelevant to present day 51; objectives of expressing 255-6; EFTA01163900 EFTA01163901 LOI 8URUI 0III1J133dsw 981 8UIAI8 .1OJ ）3odS0.1 111O.1.1 蹺乙Togoop uo-pon.n.sap ! puauj po8 JO Ja131.1 go !9芘 EupfuI jou jo pjauaq：A1 1oodsai 姹-乙9z 人1IIIumq *SA !g-i78z apnp轉.12 ．SA !gcz )3odsaj aussaidxo .SA 牛cz 01 Tun Inds O1 1御JA !8g I cpon !' 9- r g )0odsaJ Jo Ati4.1。 0SO取O1 !'g Jo spuni oA\1 ttgz 08paTmoul jo samoq spoddns !9gz ssaidxa O1 MITA padopAap J。 u8 !'g jo sadki jo ooui Joduu 0AI靶 ！t-zg asochnd f 8g 1i;oI&Mid !9-tg jo 人q1.1OM suosJad !6-9S乙 Jo spa 园。 respecting fools 32 responsibilities: awareness of 248; conscientiousness in 172 responsibility for human dignity 103- 4; from filial piety 145, 146; required in marriage 166 restraining congregation from evil, duty of monks 55 restraint: according to monastic code 127; from drinking intoxicants 233- 242; of the senses 127, 352-3 retiring old beasts of burden, not slaughtering 285 retribution: evil 422; recollecting to EFTA01163902 develop conscience 230 Blessing Thirty-Eight: The Blissful Mind 443 retrospective analysis 180 revelation, self-discipline leads to 120 reverence, leading to high social standing 85 revision of Dhamma, by preaching 81 Rhys-Davids, Mrs. 390 rice, monks on alms given choicest 188 richness: of heart, from filial piety 142; spiritual 68 right action 245, 377 EFTA01163903 right concentration 245, 377 right effort 245, 377 right intention 245, 377 right livelihood 120, 213, 245, 377 right mindfulness 245, 377 right speech 245, 377 right view 22, 40, 245, 377: absolute possession of 200; from filial piety 145; neighbours of 72; worthy role model facilitates 52 righteousness, in ten virtues of a ruler 201 rights, others' 201 rigid speech 265 rising to receive teacher 107 EFTA01163904 rituals, come from religious misunderstanding of defilements 348 roads of ruin: addiction to 104; avoiding the six 200; being led to 31; extricating oneself from 145, 146; four 94; prohibiting yourself from every sort of 32; recourse to 168; refuge to those with working stress 219-20; six 94; total infatuation with 60 roads, good 66, 68 roaming the streets at night 31, 107 robber: protecting house where he has EFTA01163905 received a favour 284; spouse like a 168-9 robbers, restraint from talk of 336 robing both shoulders 256, 257 roman civilization, cause of fall 254 romance, distraction to work 179 room for improvement, recognizing one's 292 rubbing cream, as suitable gift 188 ruler, ten virtues of 201 rules: entailing acknowledgment 127; entailing an initial & subsequent meeting of the order 127; entailing confession 127; entailing defeat 127; entailing forfeiture & confession EFTA01163906 127; refusal to comply with 30 running away, when insulted, not 307 running water, amenable location 72 S Saamaliklaphala Sutta 323,324,325 Sabbath 292: self-discipline, necessary to practising austerity 351 sacrificing little to get more 31 Sadhamma: clouded by insulting 133; deluded into false attainment 133 safety, student's 107 saingaarava brahmin 348 EFTA01163907 saingha, as object of respect 257 saint, gift to a 190 saluting a monk 326 same quality, gift of 188 Sappurisadaana Sutta 193 savages, those without precepts 199 saving up: new things to tell a friend 43; to buy something, not greed 414 saying: nothing 133; too much 133 scholarships, helping extended family who need 208 schoolchildren, study for teacher's sake 283 schools, proximity of 73 EFTA01163908 Schumacher, E.F. 213 scope: of dhamma discussion 337; of what to talk about 136 Scott Fitzgerald, unworthy role model 51 scripture study, suitable for monk 323 scruples, loss of in development of greed 275 sculpting buddha images 114 sculpture, physical skilfulness 114 seat, preparing for a monk 326 seclusion 271; talk about 135; worthy EFTA01163909 subject of dhamma debate 336 second precept 123 secrets, friend who doesn't spread one's 43 secrets: recollecting the lack of, to develop conscience 230; spreading family 173 security: of population 213-4; of property 193; shortage of 207; student's 107 seeing & knowing of: liberation 336; wisdom 135 seeing: a monk by eye 323-4; a monk, method 325-7; a true monk 321-30; EFTA01163910 a true monk, objectives 321-2; through meditation 324-5; with the mind 324 seeking audience with the Buddha, way of paying respect 256 selective absorption of others' habits 28 selectiveness, topic of speech 136 self control, lack of is source of stubbornness 315 self view 380 self: Buddha never denied true- 390; Buddha never referred directly to 390; denied by some Buddhist scholars 390; Hindu concept of 390; EFTA01163911 original teachings show existence of true- 390 self-awareness 247: for monks 324 self-catalysing, quality of blessings of life system 20, 23 self-centredness: reduces with age 281; worthy role model protects from 52 self-confidence: lacking, next-lifetime consequence of alcohol 236; lying causes loss of 124 self-development, worthy role model facilitates 52 self-discipline 41, 71, 119-29, 377, EFTA01163912 405- 6; as virtue of compatibility 170; attaining 128-9; breakdown of 59; encouraging parents towards 147; favouring 43; for monks 324; in ten virtues of a ruler 201; mark of personal potential 270; must practice to benefit 120; objectives of study 119-20; a daily basis 248; talk about 135; vs. discipline 121; worthy subject of dhamma debate 336 self-importance 265: humility ensures freedom from 264 selfish gene 142 selfish views, objective of EFTA01163913 expressing respect to reduce 255 selfishness, nature of young children 281 self-mortification versus austerity 349 self-possession 247 self-purifying 40 self-sacrifice 192 self-sacrifice 71-2, 93: as virtue of compatibility 170; in ten virtues of a ruler 201 self-serving friendship 31 self-sufficiency 91, 206-7 self-view 406 sense attachment, relinquishing EFTA01163914 requires meditation 363 sense desire 229 sense-doors 352 444 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living sense-pleasure: craving for 375; preoccupation with 293; ten ways of consuming 188 sense-restraint 127, 352-3: as austerity 347; for monks 324; necessary to practising austerity 351 senses, thirst of 404 sense-stimuli, reducing attachment to 125 sensual grasping 230, 380 EFTA01163915 sensual indulgence, shackle of 422 sensual indulgence, unsuitable for monks 325 sensual obsession, promoting 114 sensual plane of mind 358 sensual sphere 356: happiness of 362 sensuality, attitude to 363-5; overcoming 417 sensuous sphere 360 sentimentality in learning 106 separation from loved ones & treasured things 374 sequential: practice for the attainment of nirvana 391; quality of blessings EFTA01163916 of life system 20, 22-3 sequentially, Dhamma must be expounded 293 sermon: as a mirror to look at one's virtues 292; content, looking down on 294-5; never letting one pass by 293; purpose of Dhamma 291; persuading spouse to listen to 173 service 80, 365 serving: one's parents 146; one's teacher 107 setting oneself up properly in life 91-8: helping extended family who are EFTA01163917 208; prevarication about 95; seven-days apart, why Sabbaths are 292 seventh precept 126 sex education 168 sexiness, irrelevant to successful marriage 171 sexual: attraction, harm of 167; discrimination in Buddhism 166-7; fantasies 168; intercourse 127; misconduct 172; relations 166, 366; restraint 120 sexually transmitted disease, risk of sexual relations 166 shackles, four 422 shady trees, not damaging or EFTA01163918 abusing 285 shame of doing evil 199, 230 shamelessness, not succumbing because non-drinker 236 shelter: as suitable gift 188; result of giving 193 shepherding others to lead life properly 42 shoddiness 115; not succumbing to 201- 2 shoddy workmanship, intentional 219 shoes: as suitable gift 188; removing EFTA01163919 256, 257 shop-lifting 128, 215 shopping, husband should take wife 172 shops, proximity 72 shoulder, chip on one's 374 show off, not discussing dhamma to 333 showing congregation the way to heaven, duty of monks 55 showing due respect to a friend's family members 45 shows: as unsuitable gift 189; frequenting 31, 94, 107 shrine, respecting a temple's main 257 EFTA01163920 shunning, cure for stubbornness 317 shyness, to accrue merit 87-8 Si"ngalovaada sutta 45, 107, 145, 146, 147, 150, 171, 191 sick care for employees 218 sick, looking after parents when 146 sight of a true monk 321-30 silent, keeping 334 silver spoon, being born with 261 sin: hereditary 142; transmissible 226 sincerity towards a wise one 44 singing: profession, pitfalls 253; eight precepts prohibits 126 single-parent families 174 EFTA01163921 sins, absolving 198 sister, spouse like a little 169; object of respect 258 sitter's practice 351 sitting with composure 257 situational avoidance 228-9 situations, insightful analysis 83 six directions: as Buddhist teaching for practice 386; fulfilling one's duties in the 200; sixth group of blessings 223 sixth precept 125-6 skilful: means 385; thinking 114; resolutions should be 189 EFTA01163922 skilfulness 113-8: cultivation 114-6; instilling 115-6; six components 114; three categories 114 skills, developed from knowledge 114- 5; pro's & con's 114 slaughter of old beasts of burden, ungrateful 285 slaves: giving as a 188; spouse like 169; dealing in 216 sleep, barely necessary those attaining formless-absorptions 358 sleepiness, eight precepts reduces 126 EFTA01163923 sleeping apart, husband & wife 125 sleeping: indulgent habits 122; to excess, not suitable for monk 323; distraction to work 179 sloth 229 slum, amenable location 72 smiling, before criticizing 135 smoking, prohibited by fifth precept 124 snake, should never underestimate a small venomous 295 social: consequences of discontent 274- 6; contract, reinforces virtue 281, 282; degeneration, because of lack of wise ones 47; equality, difficulties EFTA01163924 of 37; hardship, unwholesomeness at social level 228; social harmony 85, 119; infrastructure 66, 68; instability 263; level, purification at a 197; potential 270-1; progress, depends on altruism 142; standing, result of respect 85 society, barbaric 70; crying out for wise ones 46; every man to themselves attitude 142; merit function at level of 85; pillar of 183; success at the level of 78; throwaway 174 soft drug industry 217 EFTA01163925 EFTA01163926 Sz乙 Iona' p 3OS 篳 SS0U0LUOS0IOqMUtt ttL∼Jo 8upojjns !9-c0' 8UIZILLT UT111 Joj soo!1o℃Jcl !S-17017.10 amP u f9017 O1.1 S13D1OKI 3JI1 3uSI UOLU tg-totlo S33.18op !'otlo osn o !got popione oq ue3 ！∼0帥AOI omssossod J。 moiduas rtmi !pm ：∼o17 mauos 90Z Xpui1j °solo ℃ suos 氈I )nogg 3p1! ogz walla' UM篳lipatu uo sompomos ssooou `opnmos Liz 1uau anuooTioo s,Xput j s1sooq :69 '99 IC-1IJPITOs L9 .1OJ UM笄3O1 31quuoun !LIZ uogetulsop annul :sJoipTos sorrowlessness 403-10 soul, lies to the 22 spacious building, amenable location 72 speaking: from experience 294; Blessing Thirty-Eight: The Blissful Mind 445 habitually in a good way 40; harshly, absolutely not 200; out against others who malign a friend 44 speech: artful 131-8; Buddhism founded on correct 131; components of 133-4; debt of gratitude in unwholesome EFTA01163927 132; divisive 132; endearing 171, 208- 9; harsh 132; ill-considered 228; impediments 236; polite 400; right 245; skilful 83; sound 136; strength of intention in unwholesome 132; unwholesome 131-2; wrong 127 spending, appropriate 41 sphere of mental experience vs. inner experience 356 spheres of existence 360-1; subdivisions within 361; vs. planes of mind 359- 60 spirits, blaming intervention by 375 spiritual: aim in life, exclusively 93, EFTA01163928 95; care, received from parents 144-5; development, aim in 92; dialogue 331-43; disappointment 374; entropy, backsliding 37; furtherment 119, 244; gift-horse, not overlooking 243; happiness 371; health, in Buddhist economics 214; help for extended family 209-10; knowledge 19, 80, 103, 186; learning 254; maturity 28; motivation to accept criticism 314; pauper 274; poverty 68; practice, sharing 173-4; profit 41-2; richness, environment of 68; teachers as EFTA01163929 extended family 206; teachings, giving 42 spiritual/material aim in life 93 spirituality in old age 94 sport, good for the lethargic 180 spouse: as close family 206; categories of 168-70; cherishing one's 165-176; contentment with 199, 271, 366 spreading secrets, friend who doesn't 43 spur of the moment, avoidance on the 128 stability of mind 398: function of EFTA01163930 merit to bring 82 standing on one's own two feet 91, 94 standing respectfully before a monk 326-7 standing up for those who speak well of a friend 44 started, never getting 179 state of mind: maintaining 247; selfdiscipline as 121 state of well-being, catalytic 96 state, finances church 191 status, possessions appropriate to one's EFTA01163931 273 staying celibate, to overcome sensuality 417 stealing 106, 128; absolutely not 200; as defilement of action 199; as gross unwholesomeness 228; in development of greed 275; not 121, 122, 123, 124; office supplies 218; punishable by disrobing 127 step-parents 144 stepping over respected objects 57 stern teaching 333 stewardship 40 still mind, can overcome craving 376 EFTA01163932 stinginess: overcome by generosity 417; speaking to banish 400 stone-walling, predictor of divorce 170 storehouses of human power 29 strategies for abstinence 228-30 stream-enterer 356, 381: body of enlightenment 380 streets: restraint from talk of 336; roaming the 107 strength: of knowledge 29; of thought 29; of virtue 29; physical 29; result from giving 193 strengths, the four human 29 strict daily routine, suitable for EFTA01163933 monk 323 strikes 219 strip-tease 114 striver's, outlook on the world 346, 354 striving: in meditation 347, 353; necessary to practising austerity 351; talk about 135; worthy subject of Dhamma debate 336 strong people, no need to show off 264 stubbornness 314-6, 380: categories of 314-5; dealing with 317; degrees of 313; humility ensures freedom from EFTA01163934 264; not patience 304; overcoming for laypeople 316-7; overcoming for monks 316; punishment for 317; reasons for 315-6; restrained by discipline 126 students: disillusioned 103; ideal 103; nature of 106-7; praising 107; problems and risks 103-4; training properly 107; student-teacher relationship: lubricant in 254; undermined 107 study, inefficient 103 subdivision of rooms, amenable location EFTA01163935 72 subject, learning appropriate 108-9 subordinates, accepting criticism from 312 subtle defilements: equivalent to dust on a mirror 411; overcoming the 417 subtle desire, defilement of the formless-brahma body 356 subtle ignorance, defilement of the formless-brahma body 356 subtle unwholesome 229-30 success: attracting 84; at work 179-80; explaining the different peoples' 77; EFTA01163936 four foundations of 180; influences on 37; in life 27, 77-8; of marriage 171 suffering 373: as universal characteristic 397; as worldly vicissitude 396; inevitable 373-4; miscellaneous 374-5; of birth, old age, sickness & death 246, 258; patience in the face of physical 305; revelling in 272; the noble truth of 373-5 sugar, consumption allowed after midday 125 suicidal celebrities, unworthy role models 51 suicide: emotional blackmail 52; EFTA01163937 way to fame 52 Sukarno 122 superiority complex 135, 416 supernatural, as buddhist metaphysical teaching 386 superstition, belief in 406; superstitious objects, not worthy of respect 58 support: for parents 145, 146; religion, buddhist duty to 191-2; lack of financial 60 supra-knowledge [tevijjaa], threefold 422 supramundane plane of mind 358 EFTA01163938 supranormal powers 423 surroundings: amenable 73; obstacle to dhamma practice 202 surveying, corrupt 217 survival of the fittest 65 suspicion: due 248; enemy of marriage 171; of critic, source of stubbornness 316 swearing, avoiding 40 sympathetic: friend 43; joy 148 sympathy: for monks, giving out of 187; four bases of 208-10 446 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps EFTA01163939 towards Enlightened Living T taking: advantage of others 119; responsibility for own affairs 42 talk: praiseworthy 135; unconducive 336 talking: about one dhamma mastered in practice 338; a lot, nature of old people 146; tamarind, consumption allowed after midday 125 tastes, function of merit to upgrade 83 Tathaagatha's existence, EFTA01163940 unfathomable by thought 386-7 teach, monks duty to 191 teacher to oneself, being a 28, 121, 333 teacher, ceremony of paying respect to 265-6; inspires schoolchildren to study 283; obedience to 107; object of respect 258; rising to receive 107; serving 107 teachers: depreciation of profession 103; duties 255; inner & outer 47-8; marks of a good dhamma 293-4; recollecting to develop conscience 230; worthy of respect 56 EFTA01163941 teaching: ability, more quickly attained by dhamma listeners 296; gently or sternly 333; parental 148; respect for 312; the congregation, duty of monks 55 teachings: following all available 366; for practice, Buddhist 386; putting into practice 257; recollection of 58; study necessary to practising austerity 351; two levels of Buddhist 386-7 teamworking 265: discord, affected EFTA01163942 by defilements 348 tearing out pages, from Dhamma books 57 teasing 265 technique, wrong for work 179 teenagers, peers as role models 51 telephone line, amenable location 72 television: eight precepts requires selection when watching 126; modern family life centres around 337 telling lies 106, 128: as defilement of action 199; as gross EFTA01163943 unwholesomeness 228; avoiding 40 temper: controlling 83, 303: overcome by loving-kindness 349; unwholesomeness at personality level 228; source of stubbornness 315 temperance, Christian history of 233 temple: attending from youth 95; construction, doesn't make a true monk 323; debt of gratitude to 285; giving someone a life to the 209; proximity of 73 temporary ordination, benefits of 277 temptation: by wealth, not suitable EFTA01163944 for monk 323; conflict in the face of 303; less easily succumbing to 282; patience in the face of 306 ten commandments 120, 121 ten precepts 122, 245 ten ways of consuming sense-pleasure 188 Tenfold Path of Unwholesomeness 227 Tenfold Path of Wholesomeness 201, 202: fulfilling 200 territory, not rugged 66, 68 terrorists, absence of 66, 69 EFTA01163945 theft, gravest consequence of desire 412 theistic morality 226 theoretical knowledge 104-5 thieving 128 thinking: aggressive 114; creative 114; destructive 114; habitually in a good way 40; not comprehensive, unwholesomeness at mind level 227; not thorough, unwholesomeness at mind level 227; skilful 114; to steal, absolutely not 200 third group of blessings 101 third precept 123-4 EFTA01163946 Thomas, unworthy role model 51 thorough, knowledge 108 thoroughness, engendering 248 thought: comprehensive 83; deep 83; elaborating without end 247; issues unfathomable by 386; meditation antidote to negative 229; noble 83; not letting get out of hand 247; strength of 29; thorough 83; treating monks with kindly 191 threats 265 three characteristics 389: misunderstood 398 three cycles with twelve components 379, 381 EFTA01163947 three modes of merit-making, as Buddhist teaching for practice 386 threefold training 377, 378: as Buddhist teaching for practice 386; intensity at different levels of attainment 391 throwaway society 174 throwing respected objects 57 Tibetan debate 338 time, too precious for recklessness 244 time-limited gift, result of giving 193 timing, appropriate, basis of wholesome speech 134; catalytic 86, 96; doing work with right 179; giving with EFTA01163948 correct 193; wrong for work 178-9 tiring one's aging parents, avoiding 146 title, referring to others by appropriate 265 toadying to your behaviour 31 tobacco as intoxicant 235 token of respect 58 tolerance, blessings of life foster 20 tolerating parent's complaints 146 topic, evading can be source of stubbornness 316; not letting Dhamma discussion drift off 335-6 torpor 229 torturing: animals, leading to ill-health EFTA01163949 84; before death 125; townships, restraint from talk of 336 trademarks, as fashionable values 20 trade-secrets, leaking of 219 traditions, honouring family 145, 146 traffic jams, absence of 66, 68 trainer, rapport with apprentice 253 training: post-ordination, more important than ordination itself 367; the student properly 107; giving up because of insulting 133; parental 148 transaction, interaction without 33 transcendental: aggregates 381; attainment, inaccessible 59; EFTA01163950 avoidance 128, 229; happiness 363, 371; merit 79 transcending: defilements 105; values, quality of blessings of life system 20, 24 transfer of merit 80-1, 186: misunderstanding by chinese 174 transgressions: committing monastic 133; minor 127 transmission of sin 226 transport: helping extended family who lack 208; result of giving 193 trauma, risk of sexual relations 166 EFTA01163951 travel fare, as suitable gift 188 treacherers 284 treasured things, separation from 374 treating profound matters, character of good friend 336 tree-root dweller's practice 351 Blessing Thirty-Eight: The Blissful Mind 447 trees: for shade 66, 68; not cutting down shady 285; not making a mess under shady 285 tricksters, wrong livelihood 217-8 Triple World 371: as a prison 362 triple-robe wearer's practice 350 EFTA01163952 truancy 104 true love and possessive love 403 true monk 322: identifying 323 trusting a person, not their defilements 288 truth 120, 199, 400: basis of wholesome speech 134; conflicts with defilements 301; twisting 201 turning towards wholesomeness 65 turtle-head faith 41 twin pulpits 338 two feet, standing on one's own 71 two-hundred and twenty-seven precepts 122 U EFTA01163953 umbrella, taking down 256, 257 unchastity 125 uncles as extended family 206 unconditional: help for close family 206; love, repaying debt of 286 understand, ability to make others 136 understanding: student 107; what one has to say 136 undertakers, see death daily but don't realize suffering 386 undirected anger 415, 413 unease, unwholesomeness at mind level 227 EFTA01163954 unfaithfulness 128, 167: in marriage 171-2 unfathomable by thought, issues 386 unifying vision, supports civilization 254 unity, boosts family's collective merit 207 universal characteristics, three 389, 397-8 universal values 19: debate over 20 unknowing, the darkness of 421 unreasonable speaking, not in character of good friend 336 unskilful states, hearing sermons EFTA01163955 when succumbing to 292 untimely eating, refraining from 125-6 unwholesome behaviour, friend who warns one against 43 unwholesomeness 227-8: abstaining from 225-32; at mind level 227; at personality level 228; characteristics of 227-8; defined 227; easier to do than wholesomeness 225; more than just breaking the precepts 230; refraining from tenfold path of 128- 9; Tenfold Path of 128-9, 227; turning EFTA01163956 one's back on 25 uprooting, bad karma directly 197 upsetting others, avoiding 304 urinating out of sight of buddha 256 usage: artfulness in 119-29; needs to be known, before benefit can be taken from something 254 usefulness, basis of wholesome speech 134 V VaAijja sutta 187 value, adding to materials 114 values: decayed, unwholesomeness at personality level 228; fashionable EFTA01163957 19; function of merit to upgrade 83; universal 19 Van Gogh, unworthy role model 51 vanity, overcome by keeping eight precepts 349 vehicles: as suitable gift 188; restraint from talk of 336 vengeance: absolutely not being 200; across generations in china 264; caused, mark of external-based happiness 274; thought 129 vengefulness 415, 413: accumulation of 167; defilement of physical body EFTA01163958 356; preoccupation with 293; provoking 114; source of stubbornness 315 ventilation: adequate 66, 68 verbal: abuse of monks 59; karma, easier to produce than physical karma 131; work in buddhism 214; skilfulness 114 vice, absence of dens of 66 vicissitudes, a mind invulnerable to worldly 395-401; encountered by buddha 398; reducing vulnerability to 398-9; should not be taken personally 399; the supramundane are invulnerable to 358; worldly 396 view: catalytic 96, right 245 EFTA01163959 views: dealing with stubbornness from 317; shackle of 422; source of stubbornness 314-5; straightening one's 81; subject to 265 villages, restraint from talk of 336 violence: household 167; in front of one's children 167; preoccupation with 293 virtue virtue: breaking even in 183; doesn't exist unpackaged 261; hand-in-hand with knowledge 120; most easily seen from parents 141; progress by 21; seen exemplified, to be understood EFTA01163960 301; speaks for itself 264; strength of 29; understanding by seeing example 321; worthy role model facilitates spread of 52 virtue-less celebrities, not worthy of respect 58 virtues: bowing connects us with others' 53; bowing helps us appreciate 53; looking at people for their virtues 353; sermon as a mirror to examine one's 292; wise one defined in terms of 40 virtuous: speech and action 94; retribution of insulting the 133 voice inside, the little 33, 48 EFTA01163961 W wages, paying 218 waking listener to the reality of life, dhamma sermons 291 walking in a higher place 256 wandering mind 234, 247 wanting: in excess of your fair share 414, 413; little, talk about 135, 336; something in return, giving while 186-7; to obtain things by unscrupulous earnings 414, 413 wasting, damage from alcohol 233 water supply 66, 68, 72 ways of seeing a true monk 323-5 weaknesses, expressing respect to overcome our 53 wealth: as worldly vicissitude 396; EFTA01163962 attained by receiving monk at home 326; benefit of not drinking 236; care of shared 172; destruction by alcohol 235; generosity as origin of 185; measure of a person's worth 261; result of generosity 85 weapons: as unsuitable gift 189; dealing in 216; manufacture 114; not suitable for monk 322 wedding ritual, Buddhist 170 weights and measures, fixing 216 western values concerning alcohol 233- EFTA01163963 448 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living 4 wheel, reinventing the 253 whims, forgoing 265 whole perception, non-attachment to 352 wholesome behaviour, friend who encourages one to have 43 wholesomeness: fulfilling the tenfold path of 200; turning towards 65 wicked: behaviour but expecting fortunate outcomes 244; people 284 widow, celibacy rather than remarriage EFTA01163964 367 wife: as close family 206; cherishing one's 165-176; contentment with 271; duties to husband 172; praising one's 171 wild fruit, picking 123 willingness 180 wine, part of Christian mass 233 wisdom 42, 72, 245, 377: affected by quality of mind 38; as virtue of compatibility 170; attained by receiving monk at home 326; beyond EFTA01163965 price 332; bowing in search of 53; considering things with 247; cultivating 115; Dhamma discussion aim at 335; function of merit to bring 83; mark of a wise one 37; mark of personal potential 270; more quickly attained by Dhamma listeners 296; progress by 21; recollecting the buddha's when bowing 54; result from giving 193; supported by patience 303; talk about 135; vs. knowledge 37; vs. learning 37; worthy quality of the buddha 55; worthy role model facilitates 52; EFTA01163966 worthy subject of dhamma debate 336 wise counsel, friend of 43 wise ones 39-42: associating with 44-5, 265; available 66, 69; friendship, qualities 43-4; recognizing 42-44; social consequences of lack of 46-7; society is crying out for 46; tell-tale behaviours 42-3; varieties of 47-8; vs. fool 37-9 wishes, fulfilment of 84 wit, analytic insight into 423 witch doctery, not suitable for monk 323 wits, sharpening through dhamma EFTA01163967 discussion 333 womb: internment in 373; physical shocks to 373 women, restraint from talk of 336 words: chosen, to say things 134; humility of 264-5; treating monks with kindly 191 work: appropriate approach to 179; backlog of 178; blameless 213-21; equipment, helping extended family who need 208; ethic, in buddhism 177-8; ethical value 214-5; expanding to fill available time 177; fmishing work after one's employer 218; getting around to doing 179; helping EFTA01163968 parents with 145, 146; improving on one's skills 218; loving one's 179; not leaving undone 177-81; not looking down on 307; pride in one's 271; satisfaction 179; shirking 271; slipshod 177; starting before one's employer 218; three types of Buddhist 214; unfinished 178-9 workable mind, humility ensures 264 workers, three types of 214 working: capital 192; mothers 172 workplace: arbitration 219; problems 219-20; relationships in the 218-20 EFTA01163969 world peace, from helping extended family 207-8 world view, pessimistic 167 world: being a parent to the whole 147; relies on generosity 186 worldly: concerns, buddhist independence from 191; education, insufficient 19; worldly knowledge 103: gift of 80, 186 worldly vicissitudes, defined 396 worse quality, gift of 188 wounds in combat 373 wriggling, during dhamma sermons 332 wrong livelihood, avoiding 215-8 EFTA01163970 wrong view 230, 413, 415: not succumbing because non-drinker 236 Y yourself: gratitude to 285-6; never looking down on 295; not compromising by one's sermon 294 youth: attending temple from 95; drunkenness concerning 235 youthfulness, too precious for recklessness 244 Blessing Thirty-Eight: The Blissful Mind 449 II - PALI INDEX thapantyapaiiha 334 (see also keeping one's silence) EFTA01163971 aAumattesu vajjesu bhaya-dassavE 416 (see also seeing danger in the smallest things) atifiadatthuhara 31 (see also mercenary) AbhasarA 361 Agati 287 (see also bias) AjEvaparisuddhi 127, 324 (see also purity of livelihood) Ajjava 201 (see also integrity) AkAsAnancAyatana 361 (see also realm of infinite space) Akificafirikatana-jhAna 341 (see also sphere of nothingness) Amisa-paEisanthAra 258 (see also material. hospitality) AmisapEjA 54 (see also homage EFTA01163972 through gifts) Arafinikalga 350 (see also forestdweller's practice) ArakkhasampadA 40 (see also stewardship) Asajja dAnaO deti 186 Asana 326 (see also a place to sit) AsavakkhayafiAAa 324, 339, 423 (see also knowledge of an end of defilements) Ayatana 297, 298 (see also sensedoors) Ayatana nibbAna 388 (see also Nirvana as the location of Nirvana) Ayu 190 (see also long-life) abbhokAsikaIga 351 (see also EFTA01163973 openair dweller's practice) abhAyadAna 42, 80, 186 (see also forgiveness) abhifiriA 423 (see also Sixfold Mental Powers) abhidhamma 75, 245, 297 abhijAtaputta 146 abhijjA 356, 413, 414 (see also covetousness) abhijjhAvisamalobha 413, 414 (see also open covetousness) abhiprajila 386 (see also metaphysics) acinteyya 386 (see also unfathomable) EFTA01163974 adAsi me ti dAnaO deti 187 adinnAdAna 199, 275 (see also stealing) agAriyavinaya 122 (see also discipline for householders) agocara 325 (see also out-of-bounds areas) ahaO pacAmi, ime na pacanti,Ana arahAmi pacanto apacantAnaO adAtunaO ti dAnaO deti 187 aho sukhaO 424 akAliko 333 (see also timeless) akaniEEhA 361 akificarifiAyatana 361 akkodha 201 (see also non-anger) akusaladhammapatha 128, 131, 227 (see also Tenfold Path of EFTA01163975 Unwholesomeness) alaO vakkali kiO to iminA pEtikAyena diEEhena etc. 327 alAbha 374, 396 (see also loss of wealth) amanusso 390 (see also non-human) amisadAna 186 (see also concrete generosity) amisa-pEjA 284 (see also material homage) anAgAmi 55, 190, 342, 356, 369, 370, 383, 405 (see also nonretumer) anagAriyavinaya 122 (see also discipline for the monastic) anantariyakamma 415 (see also serious misdeeds) anattA 389, 390, 391 (see also EFTA01163976 notself) anattatA 397, 398 (see also not-self) aniEEhAramaAa 396 (see also undesirable) aniccatA 397 (see also impermanence) antaravasakaO 350 (see also waistcloth) anubyafijana 352 (see also partial perception) anujAtaputta 146 anukampaka 43 (see also sympathetic friend) anupAdisesa-nibbAna 387 (see also Nirvana as a realm of existence) anuppiyabhAAE 31 (see also EFTA01163977 flatterer) anurakkhApadhAna 354 (see also maintaining good habits you already possess) anusaya 229 (see also subtle defilements) apAya 94, 361 (see also ruin) apAyamukha 94, 385 (see also roads to ruin) apAyasahAya 31 (see also one who leads you down the roads to ruin) 450 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living apacAyana 80, 186 (see also humility) apamafula 365 (see also EFTA01163978 lovingkindness) aparAparacetanA 190 (see also intention after giving) apiyehi sampayoga 374 (see also exposure to hateful things) appamAAasubhA 361 appamAdo amataO padaO 249 appamanabha 361 appiccha 135, 336 (see also wanting little) arahant 191, 356, 391, 400, 401, 405, 406 arati 228, 413, 415 (see also giving up, distaste) ariyamagga 366, 386 (see also Noble Eightfold Path) EFTA01163979 ariyasaIgha 55 (see also enlightened SaIgha) ariyasacca 378 (see also Noble Truths) arEpabhava 361, 376 (see also formless sphere) arEpa-jhAna 358, 376 (see also formless absorption) arEparAga 380, 413, 415 (see also craving for the formless realms) arEpavacarabhEmi 358, 360, 376 (see also formless sphere) asaOhEraO asaIkuppaO 389 asaOsagga 135, 336 (see also solitude) asafiliEsaftA 361 asoka 403 (see also sorrowlessness) EFTA01163980 assutaO suAAti 296 asubhasafulA 355 (see also loathesomeness) asEra 62 (see also monsters) asErakAya 361 (see also Titans) atappA 361 atman 390 (see also self, Hinduism) atta 389, 390 (see also self) attadEpA viharathi, attasaraAA etc. 390 attakilamathAnuyoga 376 (see also self-mortification) attasuddhi 40 (see also selfpurification) atthacariya 171, 209 (see also helpfulness) atthakkhayi 43 (see also friend of EFTA01163981 wise counsel) atthapaEisambhidA 423 (see also analytic insight into consequences) attukaO sako hoti paravambhi 315 avajAtaputta 146 avecE 382 (see also hell realms) avihA 361 avihiOsa 201 (see also non-violence) avijjA 230, 339, 380, 413, 416 (see also ignorance) avijjA Anusaya 356 (see also subtle defilement of ignorance) avijjAyoga 422 (see also shackle of ignorance) avirodhana 201 (see also righteousness) EFTA01163982 ayasa 396 (see also loss of honour) ayyA samAbhariyA 169 (see also wife like a boss) bahEsEta 93, 104, 270 (see also having heard much, artfulness in knowledge) bala 190 (see also strength) bhAvanAmaya 81 (see also meditation) bhAvanAmayapaililA 105 (see also meditational knowledge) bhAvanApadhAna 353-4 (see also doing good deeds you never did before) bhAvanEyo 336 (see also cultured and emulable) bhAvarAga 230 (see also grasping EFTA01163983 for existence) bhaginE samAbhariyA 169 (see also spouse like a little sister) bhava 360, 386, 388 (see also sphere of existence) bhavataAhA 375 (see also craving for the form realms) bhavayoga 422 (see also shackle of attachment to the absorptions) bhayA dAnaO deti 187 bhayAgati 106 (see also bias because of fear) bhikkhu 322, 400 (see also monk) bhikkhuAi 279, 368, 409 (see also EFTA01163984 nun) bhEmi 358, 360, 386 (see also planes of mind) bojjhaIga 297 (see also factors of enlightenment) brahma 148 (see also gods) brahmacariya 125, 357 (see also brahmafaring, celibacy) brahmadaAIa 316 (see also shunning) brahmapArisajjA 361 brahmapurohitA 361 brahmavihAra 148, 356, 360 (see also divine abidings) buddha-cakkhu 379 (see also Buddha eye) EFTA01163985 byAdhi-bhaya 421 (see also the danger of illness) byApAda 229, 356, 413, 415 (see also illwill) byApAda-vitakka 214, 293 (see also vengefulness) cAga 41-2, 71-2, 93, 192, 270 (see also self-sacrifice) cAtummahArAjika 361 cariya 198 (see also practice) cetiya 62, 63 (see also pagoda) cetopariyariAAa 324, 423 (see also knowing the minds of others) chanda 180, 271 (see also initial motivation) EFTA01163986 chandAgati 106 (see also bias because of desire) cEvara-paEisaOyutta 349 cintamayapafifiA 105 (see also hands-on knowledge) citta 180 (see also sustained application) cittamassa pasEdati 296 cittame 194 corE samAbhariyA 168 (see also spouse like a robber) cudito codakena afifien' afiiia0 etc 316 cudito codakena apadAne na sampAyati 316 cudito codakena codakaO apasAdeti EFTA01163987 315 cudito codakena codakaO paEippharati 315 cudito codakena codakassa paccAropeti 315-6 cuttpapAtaiiAAa 324, 339, 423 (see also seeing the arising and passing away of other beings according to their karma) dAna 171, 186, 192, 201, 208, 365 (see also generosity) dAnadAsa 186, 188 dAnamaya 80 (see also generosity) dAnasAmt 186, 188, 196 EFTA01163988 dAnasahAya 186, 188 Blessing Thirty-Eight: The Blissful Mind 451 dAsati me ti dAnaO deti 187 dAsE samAbhariyA 169 (see also a spouse like a slave) dhamma 391 (see also phenomena) dhamma cetiya 57 (see also pagoda) dhammAnupassanAsatipaEEhAna 378 (see also PaEhama Magga Sphere) dhamma-cakkhu 378 (see also eye of the DhammakAya) dhammacariya 198 (see also Dhamma Practice) dhammadAna 42, 80, 186 (see also abstract generosity, gift of the EFTA01163989 Dhamma) dhammadesanAmaya 81 (see also giving a Dhamma discourse) dhammakAya 225, 285, 297, 325, 378, 386 (see also body of enlightenment) dhammakAya anAgAmE 380, 381 dhammakAya arahant 380, 381 dhammakAya gotrabhE 356, 380, 381, 391, 405 dhammakAya sakidAgAmi 380, 381 dhammakAya sotApana 380, 381 dhammakhanda 381, 386 (see also transcendental aggregates) dhammapaEisambhidA 423 (see also analytical insight into causes) EFTA01163990 dhamma-paEisanthAra 258 (see also spiritual hospitality) dhammappamAAikA 327 (see also inspiring through teachings) dhammassavanamaya 81 (see also listening to Dhamma sermons) dhuravA 179 dhutalga 323, 349, 350, 351, 369 (see also austerity) diEEhadhammikattha-payojana 40, 94 (see also benefit in the present lifetime) ditEhi 230 (see also view, wrong view, stubbornness) ditthi6 ujuO karoti 296 (see also straightening one's views) EFTA01163991 ditthisamapati 96 (see also catalytic view) diEEhiyoga 422 (see also shackle of views) diEEhujukammamaya 81 (see also straightening one's views) dibbacakkhu 324, 379 (see also seeing the arising and passing away of beings according according to their karma, angelic eye) dibbasota 324, 423 (see also angelic ear) dinnapubbaO katapubbaO pitu, pitAmahehi na arahAmi porAAaO kulavaOsaO hApetu ti dAnaO EFTA01163992 deti 187 disa 386 (see also six directions) domanassa 374 (see also feeling slighted) dosa 356, 413, 415 (see also anger) dosAgati 106 (see also bias because of anger) dubbhAsita 127 (see also wrong speech) ducarita 244 (see also wrongful action) dukkaEa 127 (see also minor transgressions) dukkha 374, 379, 396 (see also suffering) dukkha-ariyasacca 372 (see also suffering) EFTA01163993 dukkhanirodha gAminE paEipadA 373, 376 (see also Eightfold Path) dukkhatA 397 (see also suffering) dullabha-puggala 281 (see also rare people) ehipassiko 333 ekaOsabyAkaraAa 334 ekAsanikaIga 350 ekaggatA 356 (see also onepointedness) gArava 282 (see also respect) gambhirafica kathaO kattA 336 garu 336 garukAra 59 (see also concern for the object of respect) gatisamapati 86, 96 (see also EFTA01163994 catalytic circumstances) gharavAsadhamma 192 (see also Four Virtues of a Householder) ghosappamAAikA 327 (see also inspiring voice) guAa 283 (see also virtue) hiri 230, 282, 306, 353 (see also shame of doing evil) hiri-ottappa 229, 353, 354 (see also conscience) iEEhAramaAa 396 (see also desirable things) icchA 275 (see also attachment) idaO nAtinaO hotu sukhitA hontu fiAtayo 189 iddhi 355 (see also mental powers) EFTA01163995 iddhipada 180, 386 (see also Four Foundations of Success) iddhividdhi 324, 423 (see also magical powers) imaO me dAnaO datato kalyAAo kittisaddo abbhunggacchatE ti dAnaO deti 187 imAhaO dAnaO datvA kAyassa bhedA parammaraAa sugatiO saggaO lokaO upapajjissAmE ti dAnaO deti 187 indriya saOvara 127, 324, 352, 353 (see also restraint of the senses) issukE hoti maccharE 316 (see also mudslinging) jAta 373 (see also birth) jAti-bhaya 421 (see also the danger EFTA01163996 of birth) JAyamaIgalagAthA 298 jarA 373 (see also aging) jarA-bhaya 421 (see also the danger of aging) jhAna 324, 341, 354, 375 (see also absorptions) jhAna samApatti 48 (see also deep meditation) kaIkhaO vihanati 296 (see also dispelling doubts) kAlasamapati 86, 96 (see also catalytic timing) kAmabhava 360, 361, 375 (see also sensuous sphere) kAmabhogE 188 (see also Ten Ways EFTA01163997 of Consuming Sense-Pleasure) lcArnachanda 229 (see also sensedesire) kAmakilesa 199 (see also defilements of action) lcArnarAga 230, 380, 406, 413, 414 (see also sensual grasping) lcAmarAga Anusaya 356 (see also subtle desire) lcAmasugati 361 (see also Fortunate Realms) lcAmasukallikAnuyoga 376 (see also sensual indulgence) kAmataAhA 375 (see also craving for EFTA01163998 sense-pleasure) 452 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living kAmavacarabhEmi 358, 360, 376 (see also sensual sphere) kAma-vitakka 214, 293 (see also preoccupation with sense pleasures) kArnayoga 422 (see also shackle of sensual indulgence) kalyAAamitta 45, 333, 336 (see also good friend) kalyAAamittatA 40 (see also associating with good friends) kamesu micchAchAra 125, 199 (see also sexual misconduct) EFTA01163999 kammakilesa 119, 121, 128, 171, 172, 347 (see also defilements of action) kappa 62 (see also aeon) karuAA 40, 148, 403 (see also compassion) kataiiiiE 40, 141, 282, 283 (see also gratitude) kataiiiiE-katavedt 281, 283 (see also gratitude, repaying debt of gratitude) kata-fiAAa 379 katavedE 141 (see also repaying debt of gratitude) katthavatthu 336 (see also subjects EFTA01164000 constructive for a Dhamma discussion) khalupacchAbhattikalga 350 khandha 381, 387, 390, 391, 409 (see also aggregates) khanti 201, 282, 303 (see also patience) khemaO 422 (see also bliss) kicca-fiAAa 379 kilesa 347 (see also defilement) kinnara 278 kodha 413, 415 (see also anger) kodhano hoti abhisalgE 315 kodhano hoti kodhAbhibhEto 315 kodhano hoti kodhAhetu upanAhi 315 kodhano hoti kodhasAmantaO EFTA01164001 vAcaO nicchAretA 315 kosajja 271 (see also laziness) kulasamapati 96 (see also catalytic family) kusala upAya 385 (see also skilful means) kusaladhammapatha 129, 200 (see also Tenfold Path of Wholesomeness) kusita 244 lAbha 396 (see also wealth, gains) lobha 275, 356, 412, 413 (see also greed, desire) lokadhamma 396 (see also worldly vicissitudes) lokiya 213, 356, 377, 379, 381, 388, 423 (see also mundane, worldly) EFTA01164002 lokiya-bhEmi 356 (see also mundane plane of mind) lokiyapurifiA 79 (see also mundane merit) lokuttara 356, 371, 373, 377, 379, 381, 388, 423 (see also transcendental) lokuttara-bhEmi 358, 376 (see also transcendental plane of mind) lokuttara-magga 376 (see also transcendental path) lokuttarapulifiA 79 (see also transcendental merit) lEkhappamAAikA 327 (see also inspiringly humble clothing) maIgala 21 (see also blessings) EFTA01164003 maOsa-caldchu 379 (see also physical eye) maOsa-vaAijjA 216 (see also dealing in flesh) mAna 230, 380, 413, 416 (see also looking down on others) mAnanA 59 (see also attitude of respect) mAra 225 (see also demons) mAtA samAbhariyA 169 (see also a spouse like a mother) mAyA 413, 414 (see also deviousness) maddava 201 (see also gentleness) magga 376 (see also path) magga-ariyasacca 373 (see also the EFTA01164004 Noble Truth of the Path to the Cessation of Suffering) maggasamaIgE 378 (see also Eightfold Path) mahAbrahma 361 mahicchA 275, 413, 414 (see also losing consideration for others) majja-vaAijjA 216 (see also dealing in alcohol) majjhimA paEipadA 376 (see also Middle Way) makkhE hoti paOAsE 316 manasA-nupekkhitA 108 (see also reflecting on knowledge memorized) manomayiddhi 297, 324 (see also mental powers) EFTA01164005 manusso 361, 390 (see also humans) manusso tiracchAno 199 (see also savage) maraAa 373 (see also death) maraAa-bhaya 421 (see also the danger of death) methunavirati 366 (see also abstention from sexual relations) mettA 40, 148 (see also lovingkindness) micchA ditthi 296, 356, 413, 415 (see also False View) mittapaEirEpaka 31 (see also false friends) moha 356, 413, 415 (see also EFTA01164006 ignorance, delusion) mohAgati 106 (see also bias because of ignorance) mulicanacetanA 190 muditA 85, 148 (see also sympathetic- joy) mukha 94 munE 341 (see also sage) musAvAdA 199 (see also telling lies, lying) nAma 347 nAma-rEpa 340, 341 nesajjikaIga 351 nevasafifiAnAsalifiAyatana 361 EFTA01164007 nibbAna 387 (see also Nirvana) nibbAna paccayo hotu 189, nibbAnaO paramaO sukhaO 389 nibbitA 353 (see also dispassion) nidhEnaO' va pavattAraO etc. 317 nimitta 352 nimmAnaratE 361 nindA 396 (see also malicious gossip) nirAmisa sukha 274 (see also inner happiness) niraya 361 nirodha 376 (see also extinction, cessation) nirodha ariyasacca 373, 379 (see also the Noble Truth of Cessation) nirodha samApati 388 (see also EFTA01164008 deep meditation) nirodhagaminE ariyasacca paEipadA ariyasacca (see also the Eightfold Path) niruttipaEisambhidA 423 (see also analytic insight into language) nissaggiya-pAcittiya 127 (see also Blessing Thirty-Eight: The Blissful Mind 453 rules entailing acknowledgement) nivAta,264 (see also humility) nivaraAa 229, 324 (see also hindrances) no caEEhAne niyojaye 336 opanayiko 333 EFTA01164009 ottappa 230, 282, 306, 353 (see also fear of the consequences of unwholesomeness) ovAdapAEimokkha 245 paOsukElikaIga 349 paEhama magga 356, 378 paEibhAAa 190, 270, 333 (see also quick-wittedness) paEibhAAapaEisambhidA 423 (see also analytic insight into wit) paEigha 230 (see also irritability) paEipati 324 (see also practice) paEipatipEjA 54, 284 (see also homage through practice) paEipucchabyAkaraAa 334 paEipuggalikadAna 190, 196 (see EFTA01164010 also gift to an individual) paEiripakArE 179 paEisambhidA 423 (see also analytic insight) pafifiA 42, 43, 72, 119, 135, 258, 270, 336, 378 (see also wisdom) pafitiA naranaO rattanaO 332 pafifiA-calckhu 379 (see also eye of wisdom) paficadhamma 120, 199, 215 (see also five virtues) pafica-sEla 121, 122 (see also five precepts) pAAAtipAta 199 (see also killing, murder) EFTA01164011 pAEidesaniya 127 (see also minor transgressions) pAEigha 380, 413, 415 (see also annoyance) pAEighA Anusaya 356 (see also annoyance) pAEimokkha 97, 324, 351 (see also monastic code of conduct) pAEimokkhasaOvara 127, 324 (see also restraint according to the monastic code of conduct) pAcittiya 127 (see also rules entailing confession) pApa 39, 227 (see also demerit) pApicchA 275, 413, 414 (see also losing our scruples) EFTA01164012 pApiccho hoti pApikAnaO icchAnaO 315 pArAjika 127 (see also rules entailing defeat) pabbajita 322 (see also ordinand) paccataO veditabbo vifiriEhi 333 paccaya-pacchavekkhaAa 128 paccekabuddha 56, 75, 191, 388 padesasamapati 96 (see also catalytic location) pahAnapadhAna 353 (see also overcoming evil habits you already possess) pakiAakkadukkha 374 (see also miscellaneous suffering) EFTA01164013 pamAdo maccuno padaO 249 paramAtman 390 (see also Great Being) paramatta-dAna-paramitA 192 paranimmitavasavattE 361 paribhoga cetiya 56 pariccAga 201 (see also self-sacrifice) parideva 374 (see also lamentation) parinibbAna 63, 256, 319, 370, 388 parisuddhi 40 (see also purity) parittAbhA 361 parittasubhA 361 pariyatti 324 (see also theoretical Dhamma) pasaOsA 396 patipuggalikadAna 186 (see also EFTA01164014 personal gift) pattAnumodAna 81, 186 (see also rejoicing in the merit of others) pattapiAIikaIga 350 pattidAna 80, 186, 189 (see also transfer of merit) pavaraAa 316 (see also invitation to criticism) paviveka 135, 336 (see also seclusion) pavivitta 271 (see also seclusion) payogasampatti 86 phuEEassa lokadhammehi cittaO yassa na kampati 395 piAIapAEikaIga 350 piAIapAtapaEisaOyutta 350 piti 356 (see also joy) EFTA01164015 pittivisaya 361 (see also hungry ghosts) piyate jhayate soko 404 piyavAcA 171, 208-9 (see also endearing speech) piyehi vipayoga 374 (see also separation from loved ones and treasured things) piyo 336 (see also endearing) puriiiA 39, 78 (see also merit) pufifiAkiriyavafthu 79, 94, 386 (see also modes of merit-making) pubbakArE 281 (see also those who initiate favours) pubbecetanA 190 pubbenivAsAnussatiriAAa 324, 339, EFTA01164016 423 (see also recollection of previous lives) purisalakkhaAa 327 (see also thirtytwo signs of a great man) pEjA 283 (see also honour, homage, respect) rAga 356, 365, 412 (see also grasping, lust, desire) rAjadhamma 201 (see also Ten Virtues of a Ruler) rajoharaAaO 297 rati 275 (see also attraction) rukkhamElikalga 351 rEpa 347 (see also concrete phenomena) rEpAvacarabhEmi 358, 360, 376 EFTA01164017 (see also form sphere) rEpa-bhava 360, 361, 375 (see also form sphere) rEpa-brahma 360 (see also formbrahma) rEpa-jhAna 358 (see also formabsorption) rEpappamAAikA 327 (see also inspiring appearance) rEparAga 380, 413, 414-5 (see also attachment to the form-realms) saIgAdisesa 127 (see also rules entailing an initial and subsequent meeting of the order) saIgaha 40 (see also endearing) saIgahavatthu 171, 206, 208-9, 216, 386 (see also emotional bank EFTA01164018 account, four bases of sympathy) saIgha 55, 291 (see also community of monks) saIghadAna 88, 186, 191, 196 (see also gift to the monastic community) saOsAra 282, 297 (see also cycle of 454 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living existence) saOvarapadhAna 353 (see also not doing evils which you never did before) saOvega 291 (see also urgency) saOvejanEyaEEhAna 256 (see also Four Holy Sites of Buddhism) saOyojana 356, 380, 381, 406, 416 EFTA01164019 (see also fetters) saEho hoti mAyAvE 316 saIghatiO 350 sAdhu 313 sAhu dAnaO ti dAnaO 187 sAmaAera 322 (see also novice) sAmaritia-lalckhaAa 389, 397 (see also universal characteristics, three characteristics) sAmisa sukha 273 (see also happiness dependent on external stimuli) sAradhamma 92 (see also core virtues) sAsanadhamma 366 sabbadAnaO dhammadAnaO jinAti 332 EFTA01164020 sabbe dhammA anattA 391 sacca-fiAAa 379 sadarasantusa 366 (see also contentment with one's own spouse) saddha 41, 71, 92, 114, 270 (see also faith) sadiEEhiparAmAsE hoti AdhAnagAhEduppaEinissaggE 316 sahAya samAbhariyA 169 (see also a spouse life a friend) sakadagAmE 55, 190, 356, 405 (see also once-returner) sakena santosa 271 (see also contentment with what you EFTA01164021 already have) sakkAra 58 (see also physical token of respect) sakkayadiEEhi 380, 406, 413, 416 (see also self-view, false view of individuality) salAbhaO nAtimafifieyya 271 sallekha 349, 351 (see also gradual removal of defilements) samAdAnavirati 229 (see also planned avoidance of unwholesomeness) samAdhi 43, 93, 119, 135, 258, 336, 378 (see also concentration, meditation) samAnatatta 171 (see also consistency) EFTA01164022 sama-cAga 170 (see also selfsacrifice, compatability) samadAnavirati 128 (see also avoidance having requested the Precepts) samajEvidhamma 170 (see also virtues of compatability) samajEvittA 41 (see also appropriate spending) samana 322 (see also true monk) samanasukhadukkha 43 (see also constant friend) samanatthattha 209 (see also consistency) samanta-cakkhu 379 (see also EFTA01164023 allseeing eye) sama-parifiA 170 (see also consistency of wisdom) samapatti 85 (see also catalyst) sama-saddha 170 (see also consistency of faith) sama-sEla 170 (see also consistency of self-discipline) samena santosa 272 (see also contentment with what is appropriate) sammA AjEva 40, 245, 377 (see also Right Livelihood) sammA arahaO 229, 318 sammA diEEhi 22, 45, 245, 296, EFTA01164024 377 (see also Right View) sammA kammanta 245, 377 (see also Right Action) sammA salkappa 245, 377 (see also Right Intention) sammA samAdhi 245, 353, 377 (see also Right Concentration) sammA sati 245, 377 (see also Right Mindfulness) sammA vAcA 245, 377 (see also Right Speech) sammA vAyAmo 245, 377 (see also Right Effort) sampAyikatthapayojana 41-2, 71-2 EFTA01164025 (see also profit for the next life) sampajaiifia 324 (see also selfawareness) sampattavirati 128, 228 (see also avoidance on the spur of the moment) sampayikattha-payojana 94 (see also benefit for future lives) samucchedavirati 128, 229 (see also avoidance through transcending) samudaya 372, 375, 376, 379 (see also origin of suffering) samuftisaIgha 55 (see also unenlightened community of monks) sandiEEhiko 333 santena santosa 272 (see also EFTA01164026 contentment with what you get) santosa 271 (see also contentment) santutthi 135, 271, 324, 336 (see also contentment) santuEEhE paramaO dhanaO 274 sapadAnacArikaIga 350 sati 324 (see also mindfulness) satipaEEhAna 391 (see also foundations of mindfulness) sattavaAijjA 216 (see also dealing in slaves) satthavaAijjA 216 (see also dealing in weapons) sa-upAdisesa-nibbAna 387 senAsana-pAEisaOyutta 350 stla 41, 43, 71, 81, 93, 119, 121, EFTA01164027 135, 201, 258, 270, 324, 336, 353, 378 (see also precepts, self-discipline) sElabbataparamAsa 380, 406, 413, 416 (see also superstition, rites & rituals) sEveyyaka 318 sikkhA 378, 386 (see also training) sippaO 113 (see also artistry) sithila 244 soka 374, 403 (see also sorrow) sosAnikaIga 351 sotApana 55, 74, 190, 225, 287, 356, 405, 406, 412 (see also streamenterer) sotApattiphala 74 (see also fruit of EFTA01164028 stream-entry) sovacassata 312 (see also openness to criticism) subhakiAhA 361 sudassaO vajjam aririesaO etc. 311 sudassA 361 sudassE 361 suddhAvAsa 383 (see also Pure Abodes) sudinnaO vata me dAnaO AsavakkhayAvahaO hotu 189 sukha 190, 356, 396 (see also happiness) sukhaO 389 (see also happiness) Blessing Thirty-Eight: The Blissful Mind 455 surAmeraya-majjapamAdatthAnA EFTA01164029 veramaAE 199 (see also abstention from drinking alcohol) sutaO pariyodapeti 296 sutamayapafniA 104 (see also theoretical knowledge) suttanta 245 svAkkAto bhagavatA dhamma 333 svabhAvadukkha 373 (see also inevitable suffering) taAhA 375 (see also craving) TAvatiOsa 361 tapa 201, 349 (see also austerity) tecEvarikaIga 350 tevijjA 422 (see also threefold knowledge) thaddho hoti atimAnE 316 (see also arrogance, boasting) EFTA01164030 thEnamiddha 229 (see also sleepiness) ti-bhEmi 371 (see also Triple World) ti-lakkhaAa 389 (see also three characteristics, universal characteristics) tipiEaka 292 (see also Buddhist scripture) tiracchAnayoni 361 (see also animal kingdom) ti-sikkhA 258 (see also threefold training) tuEEhE sukhA yA itarEtarena 274 TusitA 361 uEEAnasampadA 40 (see also diligent EFTA01164031 acquisition) uEEAtA 180 (see also enthusiasm, liveliness, activeness) uddesika cetiya 57 (see also pagoda) uddhacca 380, 413, 416 (see also absent-mindedness) uddhacca-kukkucca 229 (see also absent-mindedness) upAyAssa 374 (see also despair) upa-dAna-paramitA 192 upadhi 340 (see also cause) upadhisamapati 86, 96 (see also catalytic well-being) upakaraka 43 (see also helpful friend) upanissaya 291 (see also EFTA01164032 EFTA01164033 (8ITIZIJOUT0UI OW a0S) 801i ℃poiJ珍d-VS10pA (JouolsIT osre oos) 9￡￡ owq 涠1U0tA (uoixDidmoo ostu oDs) 06I ℃yVIA (001101SIX0 J。。I3人。OSIE D9s) g8￡ awsot s III A 05￡ O p1ITusl J 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(suquoi ssalutioj ato..1Oj 8THAI J0 ()Sig oos) gL￡ ytw 转Al INIA. ＇￡￡eⅤ匐℃Nigricq℃fluticuA EFTA01164036 (SUOSTOd UI 8uII℃op OSIU 33S) 91z y 山yum STA 倆IJ !T!m毛j OSte D9s) L8Z esystA 1c∼ ℃篡nAo℃si p d-vAuTA (D0ueJDA9sJ9d °SP 3as) 99T '乙S∼ '9 氈‘081 `gEi VALITA (11041101scre oste 9Ds) gz乙 '8乙1 iv JIA (polisituoppn oso oas) ii o efeJIA (uoisstdsip oste o9s) ∼s∼ i 8 (o8paIA鱉。U乳-1q8ISu! OSIV 00S)'z鏟WyUyUl SS℃dIA (1IPISUI OW 33S) 8L∼ yut ss℃ (oullclIostp 'otmcliosip jo apoo osp 33s) Lsz ‘gtZ 'IZI '0乙1 '611 e ℃uIA (uom Jocin jo 8utAkomi pup81.noos oste oas) ES∼ '9EE 'SET ℃Ussep1VyUJUflTLUA vitakka 356 (see also initial application of mind) yaO laddhaO tena tuEEhabbaO 272 YAmA 361 yadaniccaO taO dukkhaO etc. 389 yasa 396 (see also honour) yathA bala 273 yathA lAbha 273 yathA sarupa 273 yathAbhttafiAAadassana 353 (see also seeing things as they really are) yathAsantatikaIga 351 yoga 422 (see also shackles) yonisomanasikAra 28, 282, 295, 333 (see also being a teacher to yourself) EFTA01164037 456 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living III - SIMILES air-raid bunker 396 (mind of a meditator) arahants 148 (parents) athlete's foot which we love to scratch 348 (defilements in the mind) aubergine flower 266 (humility) bacteria causing illnesses 416 (defilements in the mind) bamboo, blind like 307 (not looking at inappropriate things) banister to a stairway 364 (selfdiscipline) EFTA01164038 bee & dungfly from same bottle 359 (afterlife destinations and force of habit) bird free to fly in the open sky 367 (celibacy) blind man who has lost his way 412 (delusion — not knowing you don't know) boat rudder 96, 243 (aim in life, systematic thinking) boiling water 415 (anger) bonsai Bodhi tree 74 (living in an unamenable location) bottle, half-empty 266 (boastfulness) buffalo, playing a flute for 317 (advice to a stubborn person) EFTA01164039 burning: house 194 (possessions burned if we cannot be generous with them before death); hovel next to a palace 34 (associating with a fool) caged bird never staying still 352 (the sense of smell) child crying for the moon 408 (mourning the dead) city with six gates 352 (body with six senses) clay earth vs. sandy earth 266 (humble vs. arrogant people) climbing a tree 225 (spiritual progress) coarse grass 266 (patience) coastline becomes progressively EFTA01164040 deeper 205 (sequential Dhamma teachings) computer, worth depends on software 21 (bodily behaviour depends on mind) conferences for academics 338 (discussion of the Dhamma) constitution, laws and by-laws 372 (Buddha's first and subsequent teachings) cow & pig's generosity 194 (generosity before and after death) crocodile loving cool water 352 (sense of hearing) darkness even in a familiar place 421 (unknowing) EFTA01164041 deadwood vs. greenwood 266 (humble vs. arrogant people) describing garden colours to a blind man 385 (not explaining virtue based on a person's previous experience) diluting salt in a water tank 197 (doing good deeds to outweigh evil in one's past) dog, pouring water on a 317 (criticising a stubborn person) doorkeeper 248 (mindfulness) doormat 307 (humility) dreaming 364 (sensuality) drinking glass, worth depends on contents 21 (bodily behaviour depends on mind) EFTA01164042 drop can fill a glass but a river cannot fill the sea . . . 277 (contentment) droplet of water on a lily pad 417 (subtle defilements cannot find foothold in the mind of enlightened one) dung on a pig's tail 180 (work left undone) earth, steadfast as the 307 (patience) eater is the one who gets full 227 (karma accrues to doer) electricity 78 (merit) elephant's trunk 237 (not drinking alcohol) extracting pure metal from ore 349 (removing defilements from EFTA01164043 mind) fertilizing roots but fruits at the top of a tree 269 (meritorious actions and deeds) fish: & shrimps in a pond 104-5 Blessing Thirty-Eight: The Blissful Mind 457 (mundane knowledge & insight); bait 396 (worldly vicissitudes); lives and dies because of its mouth 136-7 (artful speech); out of water 349 (mind deprived of defilements); unaware of water 311 (failure to recognize one's faults) food for the mind 88 (merit) football, tennis ball & ping-pong EFTA01164044 ball 361 (Triple World) fox which loves warmth and comfort 352 (sense of touch) freshening ourselves up . . . 230 (ridding ourselves of unwholesomness) frog at the bottom of a well 318 (not being open to criticism) fruit tree in forest 364 (lover never exclusive to us) frying pans, deaf as 307 (not listening to inappropriate things) gods 148 (parents) gold plate vs. solid gold 148 (cherishing one's parents) grass, trampled 180, 308 (patience) EFTA01164045 gross & fine litter 347 (gross & subtle defilements) guardian angels 148 (parents) hidden treasure 317-8 (criticism) house burned by fire in neighbouring shack 263 (resentment by subordinates treated arrogantly) hungry dog chewing a dry bone 363 (sensuality) hunter's dart 396 (worldly vicissitudes) illness and pathogens 347, 373 (defilements in mind, suffering & craving) jewellery, borrowed 364 (sensuality) EFTA01164046 lamp lighting the path for a long journey ahead 109 (artfulness in knowledge) last minute revision for examination 360 (getting spiritual when close to death) leaves wrapping a stinking fish 34 (associating with fools) left hand and right hand rubbing together 307 (patience & meditation) lemon must be eaten without peel 202 (taxes must be gathered without violence) lone pine cannot survive in strong wind 207, 210 (not helping extended family) EFTA01164047 long distance travellers should not argue about destination 385 (not arguing about transcendental issues) mad dog foaming at the mouth 352 (tongue) mariner who reaches the shore 421 (attaining Nirvana) match can burn an entire town 237 (alcohol) matches & a striker 291 (coexisting with truths of life but never noticing them) meat faught over by vultures 363 (sensuality) medicine categorized for ease of treatment 228 (unwholesomeness EFTA01164048 needs uprooting by appropriate means) microscope used to identify infection 348, 353 (mind used to identify defilements) monkey: jumping from branch to branch 352 (mind); -trap 406 (attachment to sensuality) mudpies, playing with 362 (sensual happiness) not just knowing the right thing to say 137 (silence) ocean, low-lying 266 (humble person) one-eyed sea turtle 96 (rarity of human birth) pagoda with a narrow base 263 EFTA01164049 (arrogance undermines teamwork) paralysis 318 (stubbornness) passing examinations doesn't ensure getting degree 386 (attaining DhammakAya GotrabhE) peak of a roof supporting all rafters 202 (righteous king earns support of his subjects) pedigree 88 (merit from our past) pool of burning fuel 364 (sensuality) popped rice 266 (self-discipline) pot, pieces of a broken 408 (mourning for those already dead) powerful car needs good brakes 275 (contentment) EFTA01164050 released prisoner 424 (the enlightened) replanting immediately after weeding 357 (higher Dhamma practice must follow austerities) rudder of a ship 248 (mindfulness) satisfaction: of doing one's job well 363 (happiness of the form sphere); of having seen one's children grow up 363 (happiness of the formless sphere) saving for future 96 (new merit) scabbard to a sword 129 (selfdiscipline to knowledge) sea, helped out of a shark-infested 282 (spiritual salvation) EFTA01164051 shadow boxing 338 (Dhamma debate) shoes two sizes too small 226 (natural morality) shouldering our parents for 100 years 148 (debt of gratitude to parents) skyful of parental praise 149 (debt of gratitude to parents) skyscraper no stronger than its raw materials 207 (social harmony no better than virtue of members) small sapling with supporting stake 61 (respect as guide for those starting on spiritual path) snake: head 364 (sensuality); looking at secret things 352 (our EFTA01164052 eyes); shedding its skin 407 (spirit departing corpse) spark burning a city down 416 (danger in small things) spear 364 (sensuality) steak hammer 364 (sensuality) sunlight is lost on a blind man 287 (compassion wasted on the ungrateful) 458 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living supporting pillar 248 (mindfulness) teacher, first 148 (parents) tennis player, concentrates on hitting the ball properly 269 (respect in the cultivation of virtue) EFTA01164053 thornbush entrapping a longhaired sheep 396 (worldly vicissitudes) tiny bacteria causing serious diseases 348 (defilements in the mind) tongue & teeth 174 (marital disharmony) torch carried into the wind 363-4 (sensuality) traveller: reaching their destination 421 (attaining Nirvana); taking a dangerous road 215 (wrong livelihood) treasurer 248 (mindfulness) tree: rotten from the heartwood 353 (shamelessness); -stump, watering EFTA01164054 a 317 (criticism to a stubborn person) turtle and the fish 329, 385 (not explaining virtue based on a person's previous experience) unseen fire that reduces a forest to cinders 373 (aging) value of clay is in the value of the mould 129 (self-discipline gives a person their value) Blessing Thirty-Eight: The Blissful Mind 459 IV - ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES AIgulimAla Thera 327-8 abandoned brahmin 150 EFTA01164055 Akkosaka BhAradvAja Vatthu 97- 8 angel and the worm 33 Aputtaka millionaire 195 Ariya the fisherman 74-5 Asajji Thera 328 AsitAbhu JAtaka 278 BAhiya DArucEriya 369-70 BAvarE and his disciples 339-42 begging bowl 149 BhagraghaEa JAtaka 237-8 Bhattabhatika the woodcutter 196 boa constrictor 297-8 boy who had to find his extended family 206 BrahmadaAIa punishment of Channa 319 EFTA01164056 Buddha: cherished his parents 150; left hungry by Brahmin Verafija 400; tends to a sick monk himself 211; vow under the Bodhi Tree 356 Cakkana and the rabbit 230-1 CakkupAla Thera 249-50 cavemen frozen for their ignorance 259 choice of which precept to break 241 Cifica MAAavika 309-10 condemned man who said too much 137 CuOaseEEhE JAtaka 180-1 Culapanthaka 297 Cullapaduma JAtaka 288 EFTA01164057 CEOasAtaka Brahmin 194 Daddalla VimAnavatthu 195-6 death of VisAkhA's grandchild 406- 7 EkuddAna Thera 338-9 establishing Saketu 74 father, the son and the donkey 220 Ghosaka's lifetime as a dog 75 Godha JAtaka 329 GuAa JAtaka 287-8 happy beggar & discontent businessman 277-8 how hot is chili? 329 how not to conduct a Dhamma discussion 342-3 JavasakuAa JAtaka 289 EFTA01164058 JEvaka heals King Candappajjota 318 JEjaka Brahmin & his wife AmittatApanA 196 KAOE KuraraghalikA 299 KAma JAtaka 418-9 KaccAni JAtaka 149 Kamanita not recognizing Buddha 322 Kapila Bhikkhu 96 KhantivAdE JAtaka 308 Khumbhabhedaka JAtaka 237-8 King Rama V. abolishes slavery 268 KisAgotamE TherE 383-4 KosAtakE pays homage at pagoda 63-4 EFTA01164059 KuEumbEyaputta-Tissa Thera 392 Kukku JAtaka 202 KukkuEamitta the hunter 231-2 Kukkura JAtaka 211 Kumbha JAtaka 241-2 Kumbhaghosaka 278 LakuAIaka Bhaddhiya Thera 400- 1 Loma-kassapa JAtaka 354-5 love beyond the grave 174-5 MaOsa JAtaka 137-8 MaEEhakuAIalE 328 MAgandiyA 310 MAtika MAta 369 MahAdhammapAla JAtaka 202-3 MahAdhana: millionnaire reduced to rags 239-40 EFTA01164060 MahA-Kappina Thera 424 MahAkassapa 368-9: kuti burned down by foolish student 34 MahAnAga Thera 328-9 MakhAdeva JAtaka 249 Mallika Sutta 406 man & the python 231 married spite beyond the grave 175-6 Milakkha-Tissa Thera 381-3 monk: and the five-hundred bats 75-6; overestimates attainment 417; who gave his parents first choice of almsfood 149; MudulakkhaAa JAtaka 355-6 460 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living EFTA01164061 Nakkhatta JAtaka 181 NandivisAla JAtaka 137 one ladleful of rice 287 orphan with a debt to pay 151 PaEAcArA TherE 408-10 PaficapApA pays homage with resentment 64 Paficuposatha JAtaka 279 Pilinavajja says `rascal' 259-60 PuAAovAda Sutta 308-9 putting your land in a whisky bottle 238-9 RAdha 318-9 RAjovAda JAtaka 203 red-beard executioner saved by associating with a wise one 48-9 reluctant marriage: MahAkassapa EFTA01164062 175; the nun 175 revenge of the KAOE Ogress 418 SAlittaka JAtaka 117-8 SAriputta: criticized for a squint under-robe 319; humility 267; jumps canals 259 Saccaka Nigantha 298-9 SakamAna Sutta 424 SerivA JAtaka 221-2 SEha JAtaka 287-8 SElavanAga JAtaka 288 Sid JAtaka 89-90 stray dog got fat 279-80 Subhadda Thera 250 SudhApiAIaya helps build pagoda 62-3 Sumana the garland-maker 61-2 EFTA01164063 Sumedha hermit 194-5 S£ci JÅtaka 221 SuvaÅÅahaösa JÅtaka 279 swimology 116-7 Temiya the mute 202, 309 tigers in the town 410 Tittira JÅtaka 259 turtle and fish 329-30 UrÅga JÅtaka 407-8 Vattaka JÅtaka 210 Vakkali Thera 327 Vangisa Thera Vatthu 392 Verarija Sutta 339 Vidhudabba & MahÅnÅma 267-8 Visayha JÅtaka 399-400 war in KaliIga 210-1 Preface 461 EFTA01164064 Meditation is a state of ease, inner peace and happiness that we can bring into being, ourselves. It is a practice recommended by Buddhism for happiness, non-recklessness, mindfulness and wisdom in everyday life. It is no mystery, but something which can be easily practised by all following the technique taught by Phramonkolthepmuni (Sodh Candasaro), Luang Phaw Wat Paknam as follows: Step-by-Step Instructions for the EFTA01164065 Meditation Technique (1) Paying respect to the Triple Gem: To start one should soften one's mind by paying respect to the Triple Gem, before taking Five or Eight Precepts to consolidate one's virtue; (2) Recollect your goodness: Kneel or sit with your feet to one side and think of all the good deeds you have done throughout the day, from your past, and all the good deeds you intend to do in the future. Recollect such good deeds in such a way, EFTA01164066 until you feel as if your whole body seems to be filled with tiny particles of goodness; (3) Sitfor meditation, relaxing body and mind: Sit in the half-lotus position, upright with your back and spine straight — cross-legged with your right leg over the left one. Your hands should rest palms-up on your lap, and the tip of your right index finger should touch your left thumb. Try to find a position of poise for yourself. Don't take up a position EFTA01164067 where you have to force or stress yourself unnaturally — but at the same time, don't slouch! Softly close your eyes as if you were falling asleep. Don't squeeze your eyes shut and make sure you have no tension across your eyebrows. Relax every part of your body, beginning with the muscles of your face, then relax your face, neck shoulders, arms, chest, trunk and legs. Make sure there are no signs of tension on your forehead or across your shoulders. EFTA01164068 Focus on the task in hand, creating a feeling of ease in your mind. Feel that the you are entering upon a supreme state of calm and ease with both body and mind. (4) Imagine a crystal ball as the object ofyour meditation: Imagine a clear, bright, flawless crystal ball as if it is floating at the centre of your body (see seventh base of the mind in the illustration). The crystal ball should be pure and soothing, like twinkling starlight to the EFTA01164069 eye. At the same time, softly repeat the sound of the mantra ' SammA-ArahaO' to yourself as `recollection of the Buddha' over and over again. Alternatively you can start by imagining the crystal ball at the first base of the mind, and gradually move it down to the seventh base via the other six bases (see diagram) while repeating the mantra to yourself. Once the crystal ball becomes visible at the centre of the body, continue to maintain a feeling of ease, as if the EFTA01164070 mental object seen is part of that feeling. If the crystal ball should disappear, don't feel disappointed — just keep the same feeling of ease in your mind as before, and imagine a new crystal ball in place of the old. If the mental object should appear anywhere else other than the centre of the body, gradually lead the object to the How to Meditate 462 A Manual of Peace: 38 Steps towards Enlightened Living centre of the body, without using EFTA01164071 even the slightest of force. When the mental object has come to a standstill at the centre of the body, place the attention at the centre of that object, by imagining that there is an additional tiny star visible there. Focus your mind continuously on the tiny star at the centre of the object of meditation. The mind will adjust itself until it comes to a perfect standstill. At that point, the mind will fall through the centre and there will be a new brighter EFTA01164072 sphere which arises in place of the original one. This new sphere is known as the PaEhama-magga sphere' or `sphere of Dhamma'. This sphere is the gateway or trailhead to the pathway to Nirvana. Imagining the object of meditation is something you can do the whole of the time, wherever you may be, whether sitting, standing, walking, lying-down or performing other activities. It is advised to imagine in such a way continuously at EFTA01164073 every moment of the day but imagining without force. No matter how well you manage, you should be contented with your level of progress, in order to prevent excessive craving for immediate results becoming a hindrance to your progress. If you meditate until having attained a steadfast, diamond-bright `sphere of Dhamma' at the centre of your body, you should try to maintain it by recollecting it as continuously as you can. In such a way, the benefits of your EFTA01164074 meditation will not only keep your life on the pathway of happiness, success and non-recklessness, but also ensure your continuing progress in meditation. ADDITIONAL ADVICE 1. Avoidforce: Never force anything in your meditation. Don't squeeze your eyes closed thinking you will see the object of meditation more quickly. Don't tense your arms, your abdomen or your body — because any form of tension will only cause the mind EFTA01164075 to be displaced from the centre of the body to the place you are tensing. 2. Don't crave after seeing something: You should always maintain complete neutrality of mind. Don't let your mind be distracted from the object of meditation and the mantra. Don't worry yourself about when the object of meditation will appear. The image will appear itself when it comes to the right time, just as the sun rises and sets in its own time. EFTA01164076 3. Don't worry about your breath: Meditating in this technique starts with the visualization of a bright object [Aloka kasiAa]. Once having meditated until attaining the sphere of Dhamma, one continues with meditation by passing through the refined human body (astral body), the angelic body, the form-BrahmA body and the formless-BrahmA body until attaining the Dhamma body (or DhammakAya). Only then is one equipped to turn one's EFTA01164077 meditation towards insight [vipassanA]. Thus there is no need to practise mindfulness of the breath at any stage. 4. Maintain your mind at the centre of the body all the time: Even after having finished your formal sitting, maintain your mind at the centre of the body the whole of the time. No matter whether you are standing, walking, sitting or lying-down, don't allow your mind to slip away from the centre of the body. EFTA01164078 Continue repeating the mantra `SammA-ArahaO' to yourself while visualizing the crystal ball at the centre of the body. 5. Bring all objects arising in the mind to the centre of the body: No matter what appears in the mind, bring THE SEVEN BASES OF THE MIND two finger breadths above the navel Preface 463 it (gently) to the centre of the EFTA01164079 body. If the object disappears, there is no need to chase around looking for it. Just continue to rest your attention at the centre of the body while repeating the mantra to yourself. Eventually, when the mind becomes yet more peaceful, a new object of meditation will appear. The basic meditation described here will lead to a deepening of happiness in life. If one doesn't abandon the practice but cultivates meditation regularly, to the EFTA01164080 point that the sphere of Dhamma is attained, one should try to maintain that sphere at the centre of one's body for the remainder of one's life, while leading one's life in a scrupulous way. It will offer one a refuge in life and will bring happiness both in this lifetime and the hereafter. SUMMARY OF THE BENEFITS OF MEDITATION 1. Personal Benefits for the meditator • The Mind: the mind will feel at ease — calm and peaceful. Memory will also EFTA01164081 improve; • Personality: self-confidence will be improved. The true nature of calm will become apparent. Anger will diminish, leaving only the feeling of kindness towards others; • Daily life: will be increased in quality in the newfound absence of stress. The results of work or study will be much more successful. The meditator can enjoy health of both body and mind; • Ethics and decision-making: a EFTA01164082 right understanding of that which is good and that which is bad, will be clearly seen for any given situation. Important decisions will cause less worry because the meditator understands the outcome of his actions. The meditator can refrain from harmful actions and decisions, instead being content and confident about choices made. 2. Benefits for the Meditator's Family • Peace and success: family life EFTA01164083 will be more harmonious, through the increased mutual respect and consideration between family members. Parents will be better able to lead the family successfully; • Cooperation: Family members will be more enthusiastic to honour their duties and co-operate towards solving shared problems. 3. National Benefits • Peaceful Society: most grave social problems originate from unwholesomeness of mind. If everybody EFTA01164084 learns to meditate and live peacefully, `endemic' problems like crime and drug abuse will be diminished; • Respect: Respect for others will be improved simply through keeping to a routine of meditation and following moral precepts. Honesty will diminish suspicion in the community; • A caring society: as a result of meditation, the peacefulness of life can be more widely enjoyed and there will be a more EFTA01164085 widespread willingness to participate in social work 4. Spiritual Benefits • Understanding eternity: all people, with or without their own faith can deepen the understanding of their own spirituality through meditation. 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The publisher thus wishes to take this opportunity to rejoice in the merit of all the contributors listed below, with the wish that the merit accruing when this publication is read, might lead all who have had some part EFTA01164098 in the production of this book swiftly towards the attainment of Nirvana: Honourary Contributors Phra Palad Sudham Sudhammo & DISA Phrakhrusamu Suwit Suwitchapho Phra Narong Dantacitto & DIMC of Hongkong Phra Nicholas Thanissaro & Jurg Bachofen Puang-Renu Chokeanantrakul Sureenart Chuaratanaphong Somkuan Wanishsumphunt Autoflight Accounting Software Baan Ruenkaew Meditation House Sanit Swekashane Crystalsoft Public Company & Khwanruedee Unnuoywaroj EFTA01164099 Nangnoi Visitsatthawongse Madam CHEW, Ng Giao and Family-(Susan)YEE,Wee Har Phra Sarttra Thirapanyo Phra Marut Thanasundaro Phra Suchin Suchino Phra Hanno Khantiko Phra Jiang Dehe Paphgaro Kittichai Chuaratanaphong Teeraya Chuaratanaphong Teerapatr Chuaratanaphong Jirapatr Chuaratanaphong Anan Meepu Margitta Dietermann & Family Charlie Gallagher Thaveewat-Apiraporn Vasavakul Saowanee Piyawannarat & Kamolkarn U-viengchai Naulchan Raktaprachit Sujaree Raktaprachit Nopporn Wongcharit Veeravat Soisuvarn Kamchat-Wilasinee Soisuvarn EFTA01164100 Thawatchat-Vatcharee Lortrakul Pacharanont-Saengduen Chanthakoon Elsbeth - Joy Maurer & Family Saowanee Anunchotikul Urai Thirapaophong & friends Wises - Supisara Wongsing Kijjanee Tangsatjanuruk Family Ukranun Anchuli Montira Sawinee Saardratana Suanawan Siriprasert Tia Sakprasert Tia Sakchai & Wanida Peechapat & Friends Kuntima Promtengtong J.D Pharmacy South Pattaya Boonthanaporn Restaurant Smile World Adisorn-Jiranant-Morakot-Sannachai Pollukeinn Cameo House Staff Jittra Kanjanawit Those wishing to contribute towards EFTA01164101 the publication of forthcoming Dhamma titles in this series or the reprinting of those out of print should contact: Ms. Puengpit Poopornanake International Organization Relations Division Dhammakaya Foundation 23/2 Mu 7., Khlong Sam, Khlong Luang Patumthani 12120 Thailand Tel. +66-2-8312531 Fax +66-2-8312504, 8312512 email: ior@dhammakaya.or.th Supporting Contributors Sponsoring Contributors Chatchai Sribundit M.D. EFTA01164102