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To: From: Jeffrey Epstein Sent Thur 10/29/2009 12:04:05 PM Subject: sounds too familiar, this really upset me Women are led to have a sense of entitlement because they falsely believe they are owed something based on the social roles that they have taken for themselves. Because someone has accepted the role of being someone's girlfriend or wife, they feel entitled to dictate behavior , get things from the other person or, if not, sulk. Because someone has accepted the role of being a consumer, they feel entitled to be treated as they desire, though only usually performing any asked task at the level of bare minimum. ie. the passing grade. In short, they want to play the game without having to " earn " what they want, so they will make your life difficult if you don't give in their selfish beliefs. Learning to say" no", is the first step, not "maybe" , this will be taken as an eventual "yes". The sense of entitlement is accompanied by the confirmation of no consequences to selfish, self centered behavior, not sharing, withdrawing affection, complaining are the signs of non- acceptance of necessary required achievements. The feeling of entitlement is predicated on the acceptance of social roles. of "false selves." Two people arc needed for the whining to be successful however, the one who who gives in , bears responsibility. Why does he give in? He gives in because the" girlfriend " strikes in him a "sensitive chord." We can say that she makes a chord vibrate which he do not wish to feel vibrating. So he does what he needs to do in order to cease the vibration. This sensitive chord is generally an unpleasant emotion, or an unwanted consequence. He gives in to prevent from living through something that he judges worse than the complaining itself. Examples: * It's easier for me to give in to my girlfriends nagging than bear through her tantrum, so I give her what she wants. * It's less intolerable for me to claim that I didn't really believe what I said (even if I'm lying in saying that) than to bear through her sulking. * It hurts me to see her so unhappy and I know she'll never do anything to improve her situation. I take it upon myself to solve her problem even if I very well know that she only doesn't do it herself because she's just lazy. Giving in is pointless, because the only consequence will be that the "giving in" will become a reflex, then an automatism (in the same way that obedience does, as I discussed in my entry on EFTA_R1_00192957 EFTA01820113 the obedience circuit). It is an unwinnable situation. Breaking out of her game is not by being a better manipulator (with all the corruption that this entails), but rather by exposing it and dashing it as violently as one can. Only then can one be set free from it. *********** ** ******** ************************************** The information contained in this communication is confidential, may be attorney-client privileged, may constitute inside information, and is intended only for the use of the addressee. It is the property of Jeffrey Epstein Unauthorized use, disclosure or copying of this communication or any part thereof is strictly prohibited and may be unlawful. If you have received this communication in error, please notify us immediately by return e-mail or by e-mail to jecvacation@gmail.com and destroy this communication and all copies thereof, including all attachments. EFTA_R1_00192958 EFTA01820114